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I'm 29, I go to clubs all the time and I still get uncomfortable around cool/sexy people. Knowing that it happens, and that it will continue to happen will help ease the anxiety that comes with cold approaching in a high value venue. A more practical thing you can do is to talk to a lot of people (guys and gals.) On your way to the club talk to the taxi driver, or stop at a gas station and talk to the attendant. Give a homeless guy some change and strike a quick conversation with him. Ask random…
/r/seduction25/11/13 07:00 AM
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To add to this, If you're going to incorporate celebrities into the conversation (or associate her look with that of a celebrity,) I would make sure to choose a classy sexy celebrity that you think she'd appreciate. Do some research on hair styles, the goal is to touch, but also to convey that you know women, and that you appreciate her style decisions.
/r/seduction25/11/13 06:52 AM
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I personally find a reason to talk about her hair and then I touch it. Like if her hair reminds me of how Camren Diaz's hair looked in Vanilla Sky, I'll tell her that, and touch it and say " but it needs more volume here." You can also say things about her freckles, facial gestures, eye brows, earrings, make up, scarf, ... whatever... find a good reason to touch her, and smile at her like you want to pin her against the wall. she'll feel it, and your conversation will inevitably be sexual
/r/seduction25/11/13 06:47 AM
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building rapport. Make an assumed statement about her like " You look Jewish, your name is Laura Goldman, isn't it?" It lets her know you're interested in her and her life, and you want to learn more about her. Maybe she reminds you of someone who looks like her. Get herto talk. The more she expressed about herself, the more she will trust you. Then be super enthusiastic about whatevr she says... for example, if she likes film, you can say something like "O WOW, I always wanted to be a film crit…
/r/seduction25/11/13 05:01 AM
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I don't always go indirect, but if I do I'll quickly transition by making a statement. I'll show intent by putting a smile on my face. Most of the time I'll make a comment about something she's wearing, or if she looks lost and needs help finding directions. I will ask where the apple store is or where the starbucks is with a serious face.. I'll say "Didn't mean to startle you, let me start over, my name is Arxch126, what is yours?" and then its on. That's as far as I'll go with indirect openers…
/r/seduction25/11/13 04:53 AM
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Hi Richard, Congruence is still a big deal to me, especially if I'm high energy one day, and low energy on another day. Can't help but feel like a fake around people who have witnessed the shift.. What can you say about that in general? What can someone like me do to be more comfortable with this shift? Assuming that it's normal and that it's going to continue to happen for the rest of my life
/r/seduction19/11/13 08:11 PM
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Glad you liked the message, and I hope it helps. This turned out to be a lot longer than I planned for, and it may not be totally relevant to your question, but take what you want from it.... It seems you’re heading in a good direction; you at least have a basic understanding of the fundamentals of creating attraction and that’s great! I'm personally trying to figure it all out myself, so take my advice with a grain of salt. Read whatever you can on the internet; however I’d encourage you to get…
/r/seduction18/11/13 06:58 PM
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Ditch the snarky attitute, dude. Trust me, it'll do wonders for your sex/social life. Its completely unnecessary. Your arguments don't make sense.. You're not fooling anyone with your wanna-sound-like a jackass smart man. Think pretty hard about this comment, I'm 29 years old, probably at least 10 years older than you with solid life experiences. get out there and get some practice, you'll feel sooo much better about yourself that you wont need to come back to reddit pick on people for no reason…
/r/seduction18/11/13 01:50 AM
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superficial? I don't think I'm that. I do, however believe that I'm a man who loves to be around women and who recently recognized that a lot of women like to be around him. Not sure I follow the rest of your argument, but I think you made a good effort! I'll read your comment again in a few hours. Hopefully something pops up and changes the way I live my life :)
/r/seduction18/11/13 12:58 AM
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Good argument skills on passing shit test not reacting_ Deffending but not Be in control of your adjectives. I suffer from being an asshole sometimes too, but I'm trying to combat it. the short answer is, you have to be in control of your frame. You can do that by listing the adjectives you want to describe you and acting on them. Watch videos of late night hosts interviewing Stars like ryan gosling and johnny depp. Pay attention to how to respond to questions and how they sometimes turn the que…
/r/seduction17/11/13 08:03 PM
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Very sound advice. The other day I approached a girl who seemed happy, but later on I found out she had been crying. I think I asked for her number too soon (didn't build the building blocks required etc) but when she told me she was sad, she also mentioned how much better she's feeling as a result being approached. I made her feel like she's worth being talked to. It makes me happy to know that approach can profoundly impact the mood of the person you're interacting with. Reminds me that we're …
/r/seduction17/11/13 07:48 PM
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I know. Isn't it amazing how that works. I remember feeling like I cracked the secret to life when I first found that out.
/r/seduction17/11/13 06:03 PM
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That's pretty ballsy, I like it! I'm low energy about 90% of the time, so getting to that point would require a lot of practice.
/r/seduction17/11/13 05:50 PM
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I think its a cute, and clever way to start an interaction. I should have clarified, I wouldn't just buy a gift card and give it to a girl randomly and leave. I would do this after talking for a bit, and/or if I want to start a conversation. That's my opinion, and I would encourage anyone to try it and see for themselves. It's better than just sitting wondering what she might think and end up not doing anything, which is what your comment suggests!
/r/seduction17/11/13 05:45 PM
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If your goal is to do this and not look stupid, then you have to identify the pros and cons of picking up in a small and quiet type of environment. Coffee shops fall in the same category of places as dessert shops and book stores; they’re cozy and comfortable. The fact that you’re in a small shop means you can’t really approach multiple times. If you get blown off, you’ll probably want to leave as quickly as possible. With all that said, most women will not want to embarrass you in these types o…
/r/seduction17/11/13 05:37 PM
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Gift card is a GREAT idea!
/r/seduction17/11/13 04:20 PM
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I don't think there's anything wrong with giving compliments, even if she did nothing to deserve it. I give compliments all the time, and there's usually a good reason I give them. Like If I'm in set, I'll ask myself why I like her? What is it about this girl that makes me want to continue talking to her, and I'll compliment her on that, for example: I like your accent I like your fashion sense You have a cool name I've always found Finnish women to be incredibly sexy You have an interesting way…
/r/seduction17/11/13 04:14 PM
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two very quick pieces of advice. 1- Warm up. Spend the first hour warming up, talk to an unattractive girl if need be. Nod to things she says and smile while she's talking. don't lead her on. just practice being your best self. do that a few times (even if it takes you 20 approaches. The key is to DO IT! 2- The majority of guys try. Honestly, there are only a handful of naturals out there. The ones that are natural also make an effort, they it's just a lot easier for them to do that. The rest of…
/r/seduction19/10/13 05:20 PM
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You're 100 percent right, I would add that there is a difference between giving value and assuming value. What you're talking about is assuming value; which is the ability to see yourself in such a bright light that it will transfer onto the people around you. Giving Value is being useful to people (for lack of a better phrase). Like my thing is, I bring a lot of girls to the bar or whatever. This gets everyone to want to hang out with me, and as a result, makes the girls see how hard people are…
/r/seduction08/08/13 02:38 AM
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No, or at least I wouldn't. Always ALWAYS remember.... There are millions of beautiful girls out there waiting to have their vagina fisted by you. By pursuing her, you're admitting to yourself that you're coming from a scarcity mindset. She may be cool, no reason to be bitter about her, but it didn't work out.. move on... Stay strong my brother
/r/seduction08/08/13 02:13 AM
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BAFC Below average frustrated chump. Wow!
/r/seduction07/08/13 11:35 PM
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I love game for more reasons than just the pursuit of hot women. Learning game in many ways is the perfect metaphor for learning how to be a successful business man/woman. Thanks for sharing this, and just as a reminder to everyone out there, keep going, keep pushing yourself. Life will always be hard work, nothing is ever peaceful. Always remember, you have a bed, you can go home and sleep so you can get up and do it all over again when you wake up!
/r/seduction07/08/13 09:57 PM
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I thought value giving almost means providing a service that people can use. Like bringing girls to a club, knowing the doorman who will let you skip the line, knowing where the people at the after party, etc. in this case, you're showing that you value her time, its a different concept.
/r/seduction07/08/13 09:40 PM
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As a man who embraces personal development, I can tell you convincing old friends you've changed is tough. Its also tough to break out of an identity they're familiar with. I really don't have the perfect answer for you, but I will say a few things. Making new friends would be my first suggestion, obviously easier said than done though. Richard La Ruina has an amazing video about meeting new people in new cities, which you can apply to your own city if you haven't really taken advantage of that.…
/r/seduction07/08/13 04:05 AM
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How do you get your friends who are not into game to come out. Or better yet, what are some good resources for meeting other gamers in your area?
/r/seduction07/08/13 01:50 AM
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Love these RSD guys, Tyler is like an older brother to me, even though I never met him. I will say though, as a newby, I have a hard time with freedom from outcome. Still worry what people think.
/r/seduction06/08/13 02:44 AM
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Not sure if I have 5 in me, as I'm still trying to cement the core concepts in my own mind, but here goes: The World owes you nothing! fucking girls is like getting money; get out there and work. 5 days a week if you got bills to pay! Be open, not cool. Don't seek validation When you're out, throw logic out the window. last two are more like a story... Last night I went out to a pretty small club, saw two girls sitting at a table. I approached them within 5 seconds, which is good, but I smiled a…
/r/seduction06/08/13 02:42 AM
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Have you done a bootcamp. I'm thinking of doing one in NYC but its pretty expensive, would you say its worth it?
/r/seduction31/07/13 08:14 AM
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