asanonsb Archive

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0	From the sidebar: Even the near future belongs to those who show up "Whatever your solution toward bearing children is, the only way to pass along meaningful changes to your sons and daughters is to be involved in their lives and teach them all you have learned from unplugging, and to actually model the behaviors. Being married and living with your children gives an advantage toward the creation of a stable family that you can lead and influence however you like. If you are able to create a stable environment that allows you to interact and be involved with your…	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/15 11:10 PM
1	Soon to be brother in law - Should I tell him, or let him eventually figure it out post-wedding. The lack of sex may be one of the reasons she's not feeling it for this guy, especially if she's fucked other guys before him, but considering what he sounds like, he'll probably be the eternal love-maker type and not really cause the tingles and squirting that make up love.	/r/MarriedRedPill	19/02/15 08:59 PM
1	Soon to be brother in law - Should I tell him, or let him eventually figure it out post-wedding. I cringe every time I hear about a guy getting roped into paying for his woman's debt... my wife still has debt to pay off from school and I support her in this goal by providing a place to live, paying many of the bills, etc., but from the very beginning of the relationship her goal was to pay off her student debt using her own wages and she has done excellently so far. I couldn't imagine being attracted to a woman who openly admits to using you to pay off her debt she's not even planning on us…	/r/MarriedRedPill	19/02/15 08:54 PM
3	I am an Aplha married to a strong feminist My wife also says she's a "feminist", but around me she's actually made fun of women who falsify rape claims, shown open disdain for women who divorce rape for cash and prizes (we're both products of failed marriages and have no delusions here), commented on how stupid "affirmative action" quotas and resulting separate standards for men and women are, and is proud of actively living up to her traditional gender role responsibilities in our marriage. Methinks she's a bit more redpill than she kno…	/r/MarriedRedPill	19/02/15 08:31 PM
1	White Fever > Yellow Fever You really SHOULD only love a woman whose inner values match yours, but women nowadays simply don't understand that romantic love doesn't exist for men without the requisite physical attraction. Of course we lust after hot pieces of ass, but we all know that developing oneitis for a cunt with nice tits leads to terrible things.	/r/TheRedPill	17/02/15 07:18 PM
3	What has your wife done for you today for Valentine's day? I guess it would be a covert contract had I not actually said "I set the bar high this year for valentine's day, you have a lot to live up to next month for steak and bj day". She'll be in for some spankings if she doesn't put in much effort but she's usually better at this stuff than I am and expectations have been set.	/r/MarriedRedPill	16/02/15 11:58 PM
11	About maintaining frame when you live with someone Don't live with someone if they're shitty.	/r/TheRedPill	15/02/15 09:55 AM
2	What has your wife done for you today for Valentine's day? V-day is for her, March 14th is for me (steak and blowjob day). Based on the awesome day I planned and executed today, she better be on top of her shit come next month, and I'll be telling her just that.	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/02/15 09:25 AM
1	Wife doesn't know how to flirt or build sexual tension Again, fantastic advice to make sure I'm doing it for my own enjoyment and having the attitude of always being the instigator. I have been using time spent after losing sexual interest to do as you say and work out/read instead of spend time with her, but the reminder is always appreciated.	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/02/15 08:21 PM
2	Wife doesn't know how to flirt or build sexual tension Thanks for this advice, based on my success last night with flirting this makes a lot of sense, I have to do it for my own enjoyment.	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/02/15 08:18 PM
1	Wife doesn't know how to flirt or build sexual tension This is fantastic advice and is greatly appreciated. I will save this comment to reference in the future.	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/02/15 08:15 PM
1	Wife doesn't know how to flirt or build sexual tension I've accepted that as the dominant I need to initiate 95%+, that's not the problem. The issue is that stoking the responsive desire through flirting and drive-bys doesn't work and leaves me less attracted to her and sexually uninterested for days at a time.	/r/MarriedRedPill	12/02/15 11:02 PM
1	Wife doesn't know how to flirt or build sexual tension I think your #2 is right on the money and this is part of the problem, how would you suggest I go about telling her this? In order for #1 to work, she needs to start showing affection and flirting on her own, or start responding to it in any way, followed by positive reinforcement (screaming orgasms) in order for it to work, but I'm not sure how to get the ball rolling without making her feel self-conscious or obligated.	/r/MarriedRedPill	12/02/15 10:59 PM
1	Wife doesn't know how to flirt or build sexual tension Her reactions to dread game have been all lack of comfort response rather than attraction, she feels betrayed more than anything and this makes dread game feel like it's backfiring. I'd love to be able to tell her that her actions make me less attracted, but this will only put pressure on her and make her more self-conscious, which would backfire.,	/r/MarriedRedPill	12/02/15 10:54 PM
1	Wife doesn't know how to flirt or build sexual tension See, my problem isn't the lack of fun during sex, we regularly do dirty talking, different positions, her yelling my name and "dear god cum inside me", and have done anal and bondage play many times now. The problem is the lead-up before she gets into the sexually-charged state. She doesn't give me the naughty smile when I smack her ass, doesn't respond to flirty texts, and gets insulted during teasing rather than playing along.	/r/MarriedRedPill	12/02/15 10:51 PM
5	Wife doesn't know how to flirt or build sexual tension I would love to help her feel more attractive and comfortable enjoying the flirtation process, but as we know talking about it with her will go in the opposite direction; pointing out her shortcomings will just make her more self-conscious. Especially recently I make a point of complementing her attractiveness when she gets dressed up, has makeup on, I notice the details of her look and comment on them, but still get nothing in return. She knows she's good in bed as I tell her exactly what to do…	/r/MarriedRedPill	12/02/15 08:57 PM
4	Don't forget to have fun Agreed that the proper games in moderation can be quite enjoyable and help me kill it in the rest of my life as well. My games of choice are Dark Souls/DS2, as it teaches a certain mental fortitude required to fail endlessly and not get discouraged. I've been given rough, risky, and time-consuming assignments at work and literally thought "well, it's not as hard as insert boss here". Also, instant AMOG status and respect among people of my age when you beat that particular game series, added to …	/r/TheRedPill	05/02/15 07:56 PM
3	Preparing for, "I miss the old you" I wrote up my own personal experience with such an issue I had with my wife, it was posted on TRP here: http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2ro1xf/ltr_turnaround_fr_the_turning_point_confrontation/ Just remember that it is BOTH a shit test and a loyalty test, and that if she feels that she's being marginalized you're on the right track to a benevolent dictatorship.	/r/MarriedRedPill	01/02/15 12:54 AM
1	Wife doesn't know how to flirt We both were church camp kids but have been very secular for the better part of our lives. As I said before, she only acts flirty and openly sexual if she wants the D. We were very closely matched in SMV back when I was beta, but now there's a definite mismatch of me being higher SMV since discovering TRP, working on frame and muscle growth. My career has always been good. She is short, cute, and chubby (my exact type as I've always had a fetish for BJs from cute faces and asses that jiggle a bi…	/r/askTRP	30/01/15 08:23 PM
1	Wife doesn't know how to flirt I've been going radio silent as soon as she shuts down text flirting and not initiating romantic contact on days she is feeling particularly asexual (Essentially coming home, working out by myself and reading alone until bedtime). On days we have sex, I spend the rest of the night showing affection and spending quality time with her. I've been doing this consistently for a few months now with no changes to her behavior. Another issue may be that she is so used to me being the sexual aggressor, t…	/r/askTRP	30/01/15 08:15 PM
10	To fall in love with anyone, do this To be fair, it does theoretically get easier to maintain an increased SMV as you get older together, since much of her SMV comes from looks which fade in time, where your SMV just keeps growing as you gain more resources, experience, and keep your muscular frame through it all. She'll have to start compensating for the difference more and more by increasing her around-the-house and cooking skills, being even more open and willing in bed, being a good mother, etc. all good things for you in the e…	/r/TheRedPill	13/01/15 08:43 PM
7	LTR turn-around FR: The turning point confrontation I discovered MMSL about a year ago I think? I quickly sucked up all the info I could from Athol's blog posts, book, and forums (lots of useless shit on the forums but there's gems there if you look). It provided some instant improvements when I started to apply his methods but I got bored, went looking for more info, found r/theredpill, and never went back. The discussions on self-improvement and frame control were what I needed most, the MMSL lens just allowed me to take TRP and apply it to mar…	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/15 06:45 AM
16	LTR turn-around FR: The turning point confrontation I was wondering if anybody was going to put up a "do you even lift bro" kind of comment; I'm rather flattered that it was from such a notable poster as yourself. Shrug, I started my fitness journey years ago (long before discovering TRP, accidentally alpha ftw) doing the P90X program because it's convenient and was easy to keep up with as there's no traveling to the gym involved, which would have killed it for me early on. I dropped like 50 lbs. and built a good foundation of muscle with the pro…	/r/TheRedPill	08/01/15 06:08 AM
3	LTR turn-around FR: The turning point confrontation Letting her know that you don't need her validation or attention for your personal happiness and fulfillment is much better than simply saying "I don't need you anymore" as that may cause a critical moment of neglect and end up doing a lot of damage, especially when she’s emotional. As far as communication goes, lots of cool calm eye contact will show her that you can remain strong when facing her emotions. If you sense her disengaging from the conversation you're probably saying too much. Keep …	/r/TheRedPill	07/01/15 11:20 PM
1	The Rational Male – Mutiny Marriage is a massive comfort provider, one of the two fundamental ingredients in LTRs, as you're literally putting your money where your mouth is. If she gets too comfortable and there's no attraction that shit will die (hence why attraction is so important), but without any comfort or emotional attachment from you it will die just the same. Besides, what the fuck is the point of having kids if you don't get to live with them and guide their growth? What good will they do your legacy if they ca…	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/14 12:37 AM
-2	The Rational Male – Mutiny LTRs work because of two things: attraction and comfort. Any long-term relationship or marriage which ends is due to a failure to create attraction or provide comfort. Your plan is spot-on for creating an attractive man, you are distant and need to be pursued constantly or you are gone, you hold all of the power. Unfortunately, it creates very little comfort. Not being around on a daily basis and living apart from your family creates an unstable situation where your family really has no idea if …	/r/TheRedPill	30/12/14 11:58 PM
-6	The Rational Male – Mutiny Except for the fact that the foundation of your "ideal" family is actually split in half instead of a solid piece. Even marriage 2.0 provides more stability than fathering bastard children with a legally unattached woman. If you have RP tools in your belt to keep your wife attracted to you and loyal to your family, you have no need to worry about her leaving, and it's a moot point.	/r/TheRedPill	30/12/14 08:43 PM
2	The Rational Male – Mutiny I'm trying to say that my wife actually believes on the surface that we are equals, she doesn't think of herself as an FO, she thinks of herself as a co-captain, which I encourage her to think. In action, however, I know exactly who has power in the decision-making process, as I will do whatever I decide is best. Including her in the process makes her think she is in such a "modern and equal" relationship while the actual dynamic is much different. Don't talk about it, don't overtly tell her whe…	/r/TheRedPill	30/12/14 08:14 PM
5	The Rational Male – Mutiny I honestly don't know why anybody would have a frank discussion about power dynamics in your relationship with your woman, especially in today's political climate, it sounds like good fuel for her hamster to dream up emotional abuse claims and such. Ask her opinions when you're making a big decision, let her feel like an equal for a moment, and then calmly state what your decision is, what YOU ARE GOING TO DO, and take the power without even stating that you're taking it, assume it's yours. If s…	/r/TheRedPill	30/12/14 07:49 PM
-6	The Rational Male – Mutiny How dumb and shrewd is your wife that you can't even consider asking her opinion on something due to both a perceived complete lack of value of her opinions and her losing respect for you that easily? Not taking other people's opinions into consideration isn't "masculine strength", it's childish and petty. A real leader asks for the opinions of all of his advisors before making crucial decisions, he doesn't plug his ears and go LALALALALALA IM NOT LISTENING for fear of being emasculated by someo…	/r/TheRedPill	30/12/14 07:16 PM
32	Jk Rowling is mad that her female readers are tingly for Draco Malfoy. I find the best red pill example inside the Harry Potter storyline to be Lily's choice of James over Snape. James is an outright douche to Snape and Lily completely overlooks it, James being an attractive, high-status, bold/courageous Gryffindor, pure-blooded wizard and renowned athlete to boot. Snape sacrifices everything for Lily even after she dies, even going so far as to watch over the child she had with the man he absolutely hated... omega status to the max. My wife obsesses over the "Alwa…	/r/TheRedPill	24/12/14 07:52 AM
4	Successful Men in LTRs: how did you meet your SO and keep her loyal? My wife and I have been together 6 years and have been married for 2 months now. TRP helped me solidify her attraction to me and, most importantly, has given me the tools to keep her attracted and "loyal" for the rest of our lives. She was cute and chubby with a low N-count (I have a thing for cute faces and full asses), with a fairly-alpha father who showed her the importance of independence and seeing through bullshit. She was teased a lot during middle school and puberty and never developed t…	/r/TheRedPill	05/12/14 09:04 PM
3	AWALT: Conversation with sweet elderly granny type gets real depressing, real quick Why COMMIT to another person and add an independent variable to the mix? Even in the best case scenario, I'm not sure it's worth the effort or risk. Because you want to continue your genetic lineage and build a family legacy you can be proud of. In 50 years, surrounded by kids, their spouses, and grandkids, your old, wise, badass self will be thanking yourself now for destroying your delusions about what your marriage was "supposed to be" and approaching your legacy-building from an enlightened …	/r/TheRedPill	20/11/14 08:16 PM
4	"Gyms should get rid of mirrors and ban Lycra to encourage more fat people to lose weight, the Public Health Minister has said." The court jester was the only one who was allowed to make fun of the king. Comedians have had an important role of telling the truth for centuries now, disguised as entertainment of course.	/r/TheRedPill	20/11/14 07:53 PM
2	3 Reasons Why You Will Never Make Gains I never see any love for home workout programs on TRP, even though I've had lots of success upping my muscle mass and dropping to my ideal weight with the various P90X programs. Upper body is mostly bodyweight training with dumbbells for individual muscle groups, lower body has some dumbbell training, but most of lower body training revolves around plyo and similar power and athleticism builders rather than just lifting heavy... this approach seems more useful to me personally as it can apply to…	/r/TheRedPill	19/11/14 09:28 PM
1	Coping with Meaningnessless I also struggled with finding meaning in anything I was doing in life after discovering the depths of RP theory, until I started analyzing everything from the perspective of biological and cultural imperatives. I have now devoted my life toward continuing my genetic lineage and building a family legacy (married a good woman who has many great mother qualities and plan on having kids in the next few years) and focusing my professional efforts toward the improvement of our society (I make medical …	/r/TheRedPill	17/11/14 09:17 PM
1	Pornography Isn't The Problem - It's a Symptom. Porn is both a problem and a symptom, watching it for the dopamine fix can be used to escape life issues like other addictions, but it can create some pretty nasty problems by altering what your brain associates with and expects from sex. Any processes involving massive dopamine releases can etch themselves deep into your subconscious and make your hamster work against you, causing addiction, irrational behavior, and in this case, sexual problems.	/r/TheRedPill	16/11/14 12:20 PM
1	Pornography Isn't The Problem - It's a Symptom. Sure, except I was completely unable to MO without porn or fantasizing about porn, no morning wood for years. Few months off porn and I reguarly have morning wood, can fap without porn again and last longer with the wife, just get past the first few bad flatlines and it comes back, it feels like restarting a neurological engine. It also greatly depends on how deep you get and how early you started, I'd say 90%+ of my sexual experiences before age 20 were in front of a computer screen, and consid…	/r/TheRedPill	16/11/14 12:08 PM
1	[MRP Theory] The Main Event I think it may be significantly more difficult to us married guys still in our 20s to openly declare our desire for a captian/fo model due to pervasive social conditioning in our generation of women. I am fit, career-driven, intelligent, my wife responds very enthusiastically toward my sexual advances, doesn't shit test hardly ever, and is generally very pleasant to be around, but I've been working on frame and self-improvement for almost a year now to get to this point. Still, however, she'll e…	/r/MarriedRedPill	14/11/14 07:21 PM
2	My aunt told me a story about her 10 year high school anniversary. And then stick it in their ass(es). If I lived near my high school town and wasn't married I would be very tempted to pump and dump my way through the who's who of hot chicks from my class.	/r/TheRedPill	13/11/14 09:28 PM
5	FR: I want a divorce You're a good dad like my dad was when my parents split up. I didn't turn into a supplicating beta fuck until my dad had to move for work and I lived 90% of the time alone with my emotionally overbearing and unstable mom. We here know that shit will ruin the best years of a young man's life.	/r/TheRedPill	13/11/14 09:12 PM
4	FR: I want a divorce I watched my mom scramble for any shred of affection from her relationships after my parents split, and she quickly found out that nobody wanted her. She had multiple relationships with loser guys and eventually hamstered her way into fucking our pastor. She's now a lesbian (lol) who has had multiple unstable relationships with no end in sight. It's surprising how much of a mess selfish women create for themselves when they give up their supportive husbands. My dad was an emotional robot and a b…	/r/TheRedPill	13/11/14 08:58 PM
3	Marriage is not optional in our society for high-powered leadership careers. Marry a good woman with a good prenup. If you don't want to abandon your genetic lineage and give the middle finger to your ancestors and the human species as a whole, you must find a woman to marry and have children with. With the TRP toolkit on your belt, it makes it much easier to deal with marriage and be the family leader. If you don't want kids, don't get married. If you want kids, you NEED to get married and create a stable family for them to not end up fucked in the head.	/r/TheRedPill	11/11/14 08:50 PM
0	If you needed a reminder on marriage What is a unicorn anyway? A woman who is young, pretty, feminine, knows how to cook, has a low partner count and will be loyal forever, but is also pro in the bedroom? Basically just described my wife. We've been together 7 years now and I honestly think she has become "addicted" to my presence, support and validation (and my dick). We started dating and fucking back when I was a fatty (so I know her primary attraction was/is to my intelligence), and since then I've gotten pretty ripped and led …	/r/TheRedPill	11/11/14 08:36 PM
2	Hunting the Unicorn I have been highly introverted for the majority of my life, which blended with my natural beta state to make me very anti-social. Oftentimes, I simply didn't understand social dynamics or the importance of putting on an outgoing and friendly face. I now understand that being a complete loner is a massive DLV and will hurt all aspects of your life. However, I also understand how to control social situations (and women) using my own frame and body language and have no more need to fear interacting…	/r/TheRedPill	11/11/14 08:04 PM
8	One of the best RP Theories "women who are less promiscuous traditionally make better partners" Fuck me TOO true Did this with my now-wife, starting back a long time before we got married. We have to realize that women have been fed the lines of "love your body" as much as betas have been fed the lines of "just be yourself" and many don't realize the health effects of being overweight. Enlighten them, set expectations of them taking care of themselves, and lead them into making it routine. Then you can finally stop fucking those nothing cookie-cutter sluts and work on a woman of quality instead. I also sec…	/r/TheRedPill	21/10/14 08:03 PM
5	"Do wives today expect too much?" Divorce rates are pretty telling, though not an exact metric.	/r/TheRedPill	09/10/14 01:43 AM
8	Women banned from competing for having too much testosterone What if you self-identify as i5?	/r/TheRedPill	09/10/14 01:22 AM
6	My friend dies, and I am in absolute disgust over his girls reaction. Not surprised though. A good hate fuck might calm some of your anger toward her, but you'll be breaking the rule of not sticking your dick in crazy.	/r/TheRedPill	08/10/14 10:24 PM
4	Every time I see a girl now all I can think about is how much dick she's had Show me a dog that's never shit in the living room and I'll show you a woman who's never made a scene or acted out because of feels and reasons.	/r/TheRedPill	08/10/14 09:37 AM
1	Legacy and Reproduction But there is an abdication there. You are quitting the game. The MGTOW crowd says well, the rules are unfair so I choose not to play the game, I can do without pussy. The typical red piller says well, I don't care if the rules are unfair I want pussy so I'm going to do what I need to do. But when it comes to offspring, the typical red piller seems to then adopt the MGTOW stance... divorce rape, alimony, feminist indoctrinated society... I choose not to play, I can do without passing on my genes.…	/r/TheRedPill	08/10/14 09:04 AM
2	Legacy and Reproduction It started as a thought experiment intended on finding general fulfillment, took a turn at the characteristics of life and biological imperatives of our species, and ended up at legacy-building as one of the only constructive things you can do with your life. My middle name is my grandfather's, I'm not religious. A healthy acceptance of your own mortality is required to take on this world view, as it makes reproduction the only way for your genetic lineage to endure. Good questions, though!	/r/TheRedPill	07/10/14 07:16 AM
2	Guide to selecting a good/healthy LTR Another facet which is often overlooked is that a woman's looks are mostly influenced by her weight and time spent in front of the mirror. Weight can be easy enough to change through setting of expectations in an LTR that she needs to take care of her health, and time in front of the mirror can be increased by you increasing how good you look. She will always want to look good enough to be seen with her man. The most important qualities to me are 1. low partner count, and 2. sources of validatio…	/r/TheRedPill	07/10/14 12:06 AM
1	Guide to selecting a good/healthy LTR It sounds to me that you're waiting for a unicorn instead of accepting that bar sluts are dumb and the only way you'll get a good woman today is by building one starting with a good foundation. If you haven't seen the power that pair-bonding has on a low-partner count woman, it's nothing short of a chemical addiction, and people are loyal to their addictions. I have direct experience on the subject at hand from the OP, and my arguments are shot down because a woman who is neurochemically addicte…	/r/TheRedPill	06/10/14 11:44 PM
-3	Guide to selecting a good/healthy LTR Extroverted girls are more fun for YOU, maybe. I can't stand retarded drama queens or bitches. Give me an intelligent, bookish girl with a small circle of close non-slut friends with a low partner count and professional aspirations. These are the kinds of women who contribute when out with friends or coworkers by SAYING THINGS OF WORTH in conversations instead of being a face and tits to ogle at. She raises my value because all the other men's wives (we're in our twenties and my coworkers are mo…	/r/TheRedPill	06/10/14 07:25 PM
1	Awesome Quotes: 20 Things a mother should tell her son. This is what I did with my fiancé, though she was much more pre-disposed toward pussy-pass hatred than most women are. Find cute curvy smart and eager-to-please girls then set expectations of them taking care of their health and lead them to finding their own beauty if they don't have good girl game to start with. Ironically enough, this almost comes full-circle to female fantasies of being noticed by a hot guy for what's on the inside (lol). In today's society you'll NEVER find someone who is c…	/r/TheRedPill	03/10/14 08:45 PM
12	GamerGate success! Intel pulls ads from SJW-influenced website! The more the white knights and pussies keep bitching about sexism online and fail to keep up their in-game skills, the more free kills you'll get as a result. As long as they don't ruin the Civ. series or Dark Souls with all this shit, I'll be fine.	/r/TheRedPill	03/10/14 08:05 PM
2	Meditation and consciousness altering drugs, and implement them into your routine There's quite a bit of MJ hate on here for sure, which is understandable considering the stereotypical stoner. Personally, I use MJ for meditation before bedtime as it allows me to calm my mind and get enough sleep to wake up the next morning and give it my all every day. Especially when vaporized, it's one of the least-harmful substances to use long-term, much more so than alcohol. The typical objection is laziness; as long as you know how to control it and use it for YOU, it can be very mental…	/r/TheRedPill	30/09/14 06:16 PM
2	Dopamine and the Meaning of Life I'm trying to argue that the only strategy that is productive to human survival is LTR with the purpose of reproduction. The men who SHOULD be reproducing are us who are aware of the rules. If we create family legacies we can influence the future with our knowledge, and we can actually lead it in the right direction. The best way to do so is raise the future generations properly. To ignore making children is to ignore a basic biological imperative.	/r/TheRedPill	30/09/14 05:17 AM
4	Dopamine and the Meaning of Life I honestly believe that this sub is the ONLY place for this material, as people here are actively committed to seeing through bullshit and working hard toward an ultimate goal despite its difficulty. I am trying to provide a goal for us to strive for along with a way to start in the right direction.	/r/TheRedPill	30/09/14 12:01 AM
2	Dopamine and the Meaning of Life I was led to my conclusions through extensive studying of red pill theories, especially looking past rationalizations to see the truth, down to a simple biological level. The post includes a criticism of the current red pill community as organized dopamine-seekers. Many experienced red pill members reach a point where they get so much ass they don't know what to do with it or where to go, and end up being MGTOW, which is counter-productive to the survival of our species. The ideas here give a si…	/r/TheRedPill	29/09/14 11:57 PM
2	2.5 years with my gf. Tired of being beta. Help me turn the tables Over on MMSL, where they deal with people who have been married for 20+ years in similar situations to your own, they give the typical time-scale of 1 month per year of being together to truly make a difference. It takes that long for her to re-adjust and fully shit test and subconsciously feel out your new personal frame before blindly accepting it. Once she finally accepts it, she will automatically become more loving, caring, and happier as she doesn't need to wear the pants anymore and is fr…	/r/TheRedPill	27/09/14 07:01 PM
1	The Appeal of the Red Pill I came here looking for ways to be sexually attractive. In my adventures, I have eventually been led to the conclusion that the only way to fix any of this shit is for top men (who can now see the truth for what it is) to use our knowledge and attraction magic to find the best mates possible, reproduce, and teach our future generations about living in reality. If enough of us create quality influential family legacies our species might be saved from our own slow destruction. Those in power will …	/r/TheRedPill	27/09/14 06:29 PM
3	Shit test: wife fills the cupboards with crap food I had a very similar situation with my fiancé when I started doing P90X hardcore to change my lifestyle and drop the extra 50 lbs I was carrying around. It's nothing more than a shit test to see if your new changes are serious or not. You passed, and may need to pass it again once or twice to get it through her head. If you later also set the expectation that she takes care of her health to set a good example for the kids, and educate her as to macro-nutrient composition and calorie totals (myfi…	/r/TheRedPill	26/09/14 08:45 PM
3	I Need Feminism Because... AWALT certainly applies to many many female qualities, like solipsism, shit testing, their internal hamster rationalizing their reality to suit their emotional state, their need for external validation from those they look up to, being attracted to men who stand up to them, etc. It however does not apply to personal morals and opinions, ability to accept truth when pointed out to them, or objective intelligence and professional competence. Real women of value are out there, and they're all deepl…	/r/TheRedPill	26/09/14 02:20 AM
13	Beta is angry at "player" best friend for "stealing" his potential perfect girl, doesn't understand why she'd fall for a guy like that. It sounds from the story that the friend at least waited a while before making his move, he probably figured that the OP was either no longer interested or had pussed out as it sounds like he has many times before. OP needs to stand up to his friend first, set shit straight for future interests, then show the same frame to women and not wait a year before trying to make a move. All the comments are hilarious btw, telling him he should just "phase out" his friend instead of dealing with him man-t…	/r/TheRedPill	25/09/14 09:49 PM
9	I Need Feminism Because... Don't know why all the down-votes, though I think many members of TRP are anger-phasing pretty hard and have convinced themselves that healthy relationships no longer exist in our society at all. They do exist, you just have to find a woman that also hates the current state of women. They certainly don't hang out at bars or on Tinder though, so many may be invisible to plate-spinners.	/r/TheRedPill	25/09/14 09:14 PM
14	I Need Feminism Because... Drop the harpoons, I certainly don't want to catch any whales.	/r/TheRedPill	25/09/14 09:03 PM
1	Lots of quotes about women to prevent relapses into beta/oneitis When you find a woman who defies these statements with her actions and proves her consistency and competency despite her feminine nature, have babies with said woman. Don't ask how long it takes to find one.	/r/TheRedPill	25/09/14 02:09 AM
1	Beware the Advice of Old Men Considering the world-shattering changes that would need take place for us to return to an era where masculinity is once again required for basic survival, I am hesitant in hoping for this to occur. I would rather we continue to enjoy the comforts of our era in a society that realizes that traditional gender roles simply work better and should be strived for. Unfortunately, the only society that currently exists this way is inherently religious and I certainly don't want to live in a theocratic …	/r/TheRedPill	24/09/14 09:19 PM