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| 48 | Didn’t use protectionWait a few days and go get the rapid antigen test, the NAT, it’s effective at like 10-15 days out. Men having sex with women is still pretty freaking low risk for HIV, I would be much more worried about pregnancy. Getting tested early may make you feel at ease but it’s a false sense of security, you need to wait about 45 days to detect Hep C. So please don’t go banging anyone else without protection in that time either way. | /r/seduction | 16/03/25 11:48 PM |
| 4 | Best way to find horny, hedonistic women?Music festivals. | /r/seduction | 10/03/25 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Low bodycount headacheI got divorced at 44 and spent the following few years doing a lot of fucking around. Several times I hooked up with four women over a single weekend. I currently have two steady girlfriends and I seem to be pretty happy like this. I don’t feel the need to hook up with everyone in sight right now. I suspect I will again sometime. You may end up regretting not having more experience later, but you can amend that later if it becomes more important to you. I’m not of the view that relationships nee… | /r/seduction | 19/02/25 05:53 AM |
| 1 | For guys, why do you want a woman?I generally find women easier to relate to. I’m not really a guy’s guy. So my friend group is mostly women, and my girlfriends are also some of my closest friends. Not interested in monogamy. | /r/seduction | 10/02/25 02:26 PM |
| 6 | He Thought Women Would Always Chase Him... Until This HappenedI just started figuring out what I wanted from my dating life to be at the tender age of 44 after a divorce. I’ve had more fun and better sex than I did in my 20s and 30s, with women spanning ages 26-52. So 45, alone, and trying to figure things out is not a bad place to be honestly. | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 03:23 PM |
| 2 | I feel insecure about not being able to have sex every dayYou said you get hard three times a week, so I assume it’s not like you can never have sex. Performance anxiety ups the odds of losing an erection significantly. I’m saying, control what is in your control. Be present in the moment. You can’t get turned on if you are uncomfortable in a situation and in your head. You are thinking about possible future outcomes instead of going out, meeting women, having fun, and being attuned to your date. | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 10:41 PM |
| 4 | I feel insecure about not being able to have sex every dayNot many women will complain about you going down on them. Plenty you can do without your dick, women are less hung up on PIV than men. Like there’s just all kinds of other stuff you can do that is both sexual and hot af that doesn’t require an erection. You know what’s sexy? Confidence. You know what’s unsexy? Insecurity. From men and from women. Be unapologetically yourself. | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 10:31 PM |
| 5 | Dating apps, what's the point?Yep. I’ve met people online and hooked up the same day or next day. I’ve gotten into relationships from online dating. I prefer irl but the apps are useful. They can be frustrating, and they can be fun. You need to: pay, put up good fresh pics regularly, and create an online persona on the dating apps, just like you would on insta, snap, etc. The apps reward engagement. I don’t want to spend more time online but they are fine for what they are. Also, OP, your experience in LATAM is not what it w… | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 03:13 PM |
| 1 | How do I become someone more memorable to men?Some suggestions from a guy. Wear low cut tops if your breasts are small, or high cropped ones if hour breasts are larger. Create a tantalizing visual experience. Go out without a bra or underwear in a way that accentuates it. This is context dependent, you don’t want to come off as trashy, just a little slutty. Don’t piss other women off with your outfit, or at least not most of them. Now that you’ve captured the visual appeal, flaunt it. Make lingering eye contact and tuen away playfully. Wag … | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 10:49 AM |
| 10 | Tips and tricks to “innocently” seduce a guyI don’t know why you’re being downvoted. Typically, women use indirect lures to get men to make advances. Be coquettish. Tease and flirt. Make sexual suggestions, then withdraw to let him advance. Get into his head as a sexual prospect and object of desire. That’s how women seduce men over whom there is competition, who are outgoing, assertive, and may not otherwise notice you. If you are going after some nerdy guy in your friend group, you’re gonna have to approach him more like a man approachi… | /r/seduction | 16/01/25 03:23 PM |
| 30 | How did #metooo effect your dating life and approach to women?Is anyone here pretending that? Me and a (female) friend were accused of raping a mutual friend of ours after a very eagerly consensual threesome. Go through something like that and your attitude about it changes a lot. Shit, my friend had been raped, and she said going through this accusation was worse than the physical assault she had gone through years prior. I think there are just as many awful women as men out there, and we’re going through an overcorrection because of how poorly society ha… | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 04:34 AM |
| 5 | Is getting girls and dating still fun and exciting as a late bloomer?I’m 48 and still exploring my sexuality and working to understand myself, love, sex, and my place in the world. I still feel very young. You’ve got nothing but the rest of your life ahead of you. And here’s the kicker, you’re the only one who can live it ;) | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 01:16 AM |
| 3 | Is there any proof that vibe is more important than what you say?The way I like to think about this: if you were in another country and didn’t speak the language, 99% of communication is non-verbal - and people can still effectively communicate! This has been the immigrant experience since time immemorial, we’re all so sheltered in our first world isolationism that we lose sight of a lot of human interaction. People go to clubs together and move together and go home together without exchanging words. It’s 100% vibe. | /r/seduction | 12/01/25 09:39 PM |
| 3 | The biggest reason you should quit dating apps is overlooked in todays society.Sometimes I still use dating apps, but I generally spend enough time in front of screens and I don’t want to sink a lot more of my time into online interactions. All the reasons you mentioned, plus this past year their usefulness seems to have really plummeted. | /r/seduction | 25/12/24 09:15 PM |
| 19 | Guys who propose within 3 months of knowing a girlYou don’t really know someone after three months. Just because you want to be married doesn’t mean you should be married to that person! Six months you’ve at least hopefully seen them drop their mask and have an idea who they really are. You could get lucky after three months and be great together. Most people aren’t that lucky, and diving in that quickly is kind of a red flag for both parties. They want a certain type of relationship more than a good partner. | /r/seduction | 24/12/24 08:47 AM |
| 2 | I set up a date with someone 2 hours away, never even been in that area, but I have lead?I’ve done this before. I google the area, find a place that looks reasonable, put it out as a suggestion but ask if she had something else she’d prefer. This puts something out there so she doesn’t have to decide, lets her know the type of venue you want, and gives her the chance to say “no not that place” since she knows the area. Honestly though google maps is pretty good if you go through the ratings and pics you should be able to size up the area pretty quickly. | /r/seduction | 22/12/24 05:15 PM |
| 4 | Can you actually find FWB hookups on reddit?Where else are you going to look? Reddit is a bunch of anonymous accounts. The only ones I see with a substantial bio are the NSFW sort. Those used to be more like fetlife. Now they are as you say, OF and catfishes. Some people are legit on there but finding them and connecting is a real challenge. | /r/seduction | 18/12/24 08:31 PM |
| -1 | Is there a women equivalent to this sub?The women I’ve dated have just as many complaints as men do. Not all the same complaints, but just as many. | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 02:03 PM |
| 5 | How to get a threesomeHow are you meeting people on reddit who aren’t just peddling their onlyfans? I’ve talked to like one real person and it just doesn’t seem worth the effort to weed through the sea of fakes/bots. | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 09:38 PM |
| 26 | how does severely autistic pick up chicks at the clubI’m autistic and definitely weird. Women also seem to like me. I used to repel them with conversation, and over the years my social skills have gradually improved. Don’t lead with your special interests. Lead by flirting/teasing and showing interest in them. It takes the pressure off you to perform. Learn small talk. I know, I hate it too. So you have to learn what makes it fun. Flirting is small talk. You joke around about her, the club, whatever is around you. Keep it light. You can ask a deep… | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 04:37 PM |
| 2 | How keep coming up with conversation topics out of thin air at a barSimple, escalate before 15 minutes goes by and you run out of conversation topics. Move away from the bar to a table. Go to a different place. Make out. Whatever. If you are not enjoying talking to people for the sake of talking, do something else that you want to do instead. Be creative. | /r/seduction | 07/12/24 03:38 AM |
| 3 | looking for a male perspective! :)Depends on what exactly you want to do. You’re on top, you’re taking lead. Variety is good. Nobody wants to just pound away, or be pounded away on, in the same position for extended periods unless you’re building up to an orgasm. It’s okay to be performative. Not so much that it comes off as fake or insincere, but you get a chance to show off when you’re putting on the moves. A woman cumming while riding me is super hot. If you can have an orgasm from rubbing your clit against his pubic bone, do… | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Should Autistic Men Not Even Try?Work on your appearance. That’s easier than almost anything else. Lose some weight, groom yourself, dress well. The world will be a kinder place to you all around, autistic and all. Your attitude around women is going to be harder to change. Just focus on you for now. | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Should Autistic Men Not Even Try?I couldn’t really talk to women in my teens and 20s. I had women literally drag me to bed and I was so anxious I didn’t know how to act. I was a deeply autistic young man who did nonetheless attract women. Apparently I’m good looking. I did not realize any of this till later in life. I’ve learned social skills. I’ve spent time in therapy. I still struggle with some things but I’ve also had some great sex. Honestly my relationships have been less great, I was easily taken advantage of on the one … | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 05:01 AM |
| 3 | How to get a hookup on Tinder?I respect the difficulty you are having, I just mean to say that it is in fact something you can learn. With all these things I think learning by example is easiest. I’ve seen books about texting and some longer form posts in here that give play by plays - no specific recommendations. There are subreddits dedicated to stuff like this and while half the shit on there is either fake or just for the lulz, you can get a sense of different styles and outcomes. As with everything, you need practice. W… | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 03:22 PM |
| 1 | How to get a hookup on Tinder?No. How do you flirt irl? You tease, you make some jokes, you keep it light and easy. Not as easy to do over text because your tone doesn’t convey, there’s no body language, etc. But it’s not rocket science. I’ll chat back and forth for a few messages and if it seems like there’s a vibe I’ll ask her to meet up. It’s really that simple. I won’t invite a rando from online directly to my house for what it’s worth, I’ll meet up at a coffee shop or bar near my house first then move things there if I … | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 03:13 PM |
| 13 | How do I surround myself with beautiful women without falling for the first option?The thing you are encountering is called limerence. Learn to identify it and not follow it to its logical conclusion. I too can fall in love with a woman at first sight, and it’s caused me plenty of problems getting into relationships with women who are not a good fit for anything long term. You avoid this by not being constantly available, and giving things enough time early on to evaluate specific criteria. Is she honest? Is she manipulative? What’s her character like? Look for red flags and g… | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Should I approach women at my gym?Are you talking about a woman at the gym or our president elect? | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Should I approach women at my gym?That’s how I always treated the gym. I don’t really like the environment and don’t want to hang out there any longer than absolutely necessary. But for some people it’s a place to go and a social outlet. | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 04:51 PM |
| 1 | People who get laid,how?Let’s work back from having sex. There was foreplay before that. Clothes came off first. Did they come off at a bar? Not likely. You want back to someone’s place. Someone had to suggest going home. Before that there was mutual sexual interest. This comes from flirting and just generally being open about your sexual interest. You can read a bunch of books about how to build attraction but I think many guys are just afraid to make any sort of move that it’s enough just to do that a few times. Each… | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 04:25 AM |
| 4 | Not attracted to women anymoreThem being open about it with you is not the same as them being open about it with everyone else. Ethical non-monogamy implies the latter: all parties are informed and consent to the arrangement. You were just party to these women cheating, or in other cases, a strictly casual arrangement. Those situations are not likely to lead to meaningful relationships. I’ve been with two women consistently for the last two years, with numerous hookups along the way. These two are committed relationships. No… | /r/seduction | 03/11/24 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Any older guys (35+) look super young for their age?I’m 48, and the youngest guess I’ve gotten recently was 29, from a 27 year old woman. I think she freaked a bit when she realized she had been making out with someone her parents’ age, but I probably act more like a 30 year old and I do look young. My hair has not grayed and I stay hydrated and use sunscreen. Beyond that it’s 90% style, fitness, and grooming. Age is nowhere near as much of a discriminator as it used to be. | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Alpha Male BullshitAlpha is lame. Thank god we now have sigma 💪 | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 01:29 PM |
| 4 | Actual material of “The Game”Strauss wrote a follow up, Rules of the Game. I have not read it, but it is more about actual pickup. Mystery’s book is good. Models is decent. | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Why is it so hard to hook up with single women?This is a great breakdown. | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 01:33 AM |
| 1 | What’s up with dating apps?I feel like this is what it boils down to: a lot of time gaming the apps. I don’t personally enjoy that activity. I meet someone online maybe once a month from spending 15 minutes 2x/wk swiping with a mix of random photos, that’s about all I find them good for. | /r/seduction | 16/10/24 07:56 PM |
| 2 | How do you know that a guy takes you seriously?Ding ding ding | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 11:22 PM |
| 2 | what to do with my feeling that sex contradicts genuine connection?It’s certainly the norm in modern society, for various reasons. I don’t think sex is inherently shameful or was always thought of that way. Read Sex at Dawn for a different perspective. Sex positivity is a thing, if you date in the queer, poly, swinger, or kink scenes you’ll find a lot more people who are just open about what they want in various ways that you may or may not find appealing. | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 09:58 PM |
| 7 | what to do with my feeling that sex contradicts genuine connection?Get over the idea of sex “cheapening” something. Deal with the internalized shame around your own sexuality and stop copping out on expressing that side of yourself. There’s nothing inherently wrong with an intellectual conversation, but I think you are doing yourself a disservice by indulging in this when you have other motives for dating. Also maybe just find some nerdier women. | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 09:35 PM |
| 6 | I Approached Thousands Of Women – 4 Surprising Lessons I Learned In The ProcessSocial anxiety is a bitch, ain’t it? Mine used to be pretty bad. | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 08:26 PM |
| 3 | I Approached Thousands Of Women – 4 Surprising Lessons I Learned In The ProcessI talk to a lot of people regularly, including women - not exclusively for dating, I just like conversation and meeting new people. People like being approached by strangers, in general. How would you feel if someone came up and made you feel included in their little bubble, even if just for a few minutes? If someone took an interest in you at the grocery store, made you laugh, flirted a bit? Men and women are not all that different, our social conditioning and imo to a lesser extent biology set… | /r/seduction | 08/10/24 07:59 PM |
| 19 | Almost exclusively attracted to sporty or athletic women, advice?It’s a social event not a race 🤦♂️ | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 10:54 PM |
| 6 | Can’t do this shit while I’m broke 😭You want a wife. Rich and poor and all that. If she won’t date you poor, is she gonna make a good wife? You’re gonna have to date on your own terms. Just be honest and vulnerable. “Hey I’m in school and broke this week. We can go for a walk in the park and watch the sunset, or you’re getting this round tonight and I’ll hit you back next time.” I’ve dated some women who were dead ass broke and I know plenty of women who’ve dated broke dudes. It’s fun as a guy when you have money to take someone o… | /r/seduction | 05/10/24 04:54 PM |
| 7 | Has learning latin dance forms like Bachata help you get a lay?Indirectly, if you are a man - it can teach you to lead a physical interaction. Directly - it’s definitely a hookup scene in some places. My autistic 20 year old ass didn’t hook up with anyone when I was a halfway decent ballroom dancer. I don’t do partnered dance any more but some adjacent scenes definitely have a lot of people who are open minded about sex. | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 12:05 AM |
| 7 | My gf had a threesome in the past now I want to have one tooNothing wrong with wanting a threesome, but it sounds like you are rushing her into something, which is not likely to lead to a good outcome. Have you talked about what she did and didn’t like about her previous experiences? Do you know what you are open to and what she and your friend are both open to? If you want it to be a good time for everyone, keep your relationship, and possibly do this on a repeated basis, you need more communication around things going in. I had a woman I was dating abs… | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 02:41 AM |
| 7 | I just moved to Seattle here from Vancouver, Canada and am so far disappointed.The Seattle freeze is real. | /r/seduction | 21/09/24 03:12 AM |
| 6 | The two "secret" questions to have a lot of threesomesFirst step is to get everyone in the same place together. That should be obvious. It can require a lot of consistent effort to get two people who may be into that sort of thing together with you in a private space. Once you have that you can set a playful, touchy-feely mood. Sit together on the couch or lie together on the floor, touch legs, tickle, wrestle, massage, etc. You can’t force it to happen, so the more opportunities you create, the more likely everyone will be open to fooling around. … | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 04:33 AM |
| 0 | My therapist says I have to try talking to girlsJust talk to a woman like a normal human being. If you are enjoying her company, draw attention to your body or hers, or hold her hand or push your shoulder up against hers. Don’t try to go from 0 to 60 in five seconds 🤦♂️ | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 03:00 AM |
| 5 | Any tips on how to Become the Confident, Social Guy Everyone Wants to Be Around at School? This can lead to seductionI have learned this to some extent. Just go up and talk to people. If you don’t know what to say, just introduce yourself and ask something casual about the place you are at, or pay the person a compliment. Learn to pace a conversation and disengage when it has run its course. Be assertive and proactive. Be attentive. Ask a couple personal questions and remember them so you can bring them up next time you see the person. Remember names. It’s a super simple formula. I agree it can be exhausting. … | /r/seduction | 31/08/24 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Why do i sometimes get asked if im gay?Don’t make a move you don’t want to make. You did fine. Her friend may be interested in you - at any rate, I would interpret the question as a respectful one, especially since she’s queer. As an often-gay-presenting man, if someone is asking about my sexual orientation it’s usually a sincere opening to get to know me better and quite frequently to determine whether I am a sexual prospect. I have had women ask me directly if I sleep with women, then proceed to do so with me. I am queer, but I usu… | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 07:37 PM |
| 0 | Am I too old for this? 47 y/o trying to game girls aged 30-37My two steady girlfriends are 35 and 36. I matched with a 28 year old online the other day and have a date with a 54 year old this weekend. I am definitely on the older side of the social circles I run in and sometimes feel insecure about it, but we all have insecurities, I try not to let them get in the way, just acknowledge they are a thing and strive for authentic connection where it’s available. The dating pool gets much thinner above 45, so just by the numbers 25-35 year olds are the bigges… | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 04:27 PM |
| 5 | Is it possible to let go of oneitis and develop abundance when you're married without cheating?The vows sure mean one thing: you won’t get laid. If a relationship is not working for you, after you have put in sincere effort to improve things, I think it’s crazy to stay. It reflects a dated view of relationship. People decry the spike that divorce rates hit starting in the 80s, but I think it was great. People started leaving unhealthy relationships, instead of staying miserable for decades. That is something to celebrate. Is the end goal to stay in the marriage till one of you dies? No, t… | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 11:02 PM |
| 24 | Any average dudes here managed to score a threesome through straight gaming?Most recently, by dating two women who are into other women. Other times it’s been someone I’m dating and one of our friends - usually mine, I’m kind of an extrovert, at least, just enough to make those kinds of friends. | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 02:36 AM |
| 8 | How many kisses on first date?I just have to say, I enjoy the variety of perspectives in this sub. | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Is seduction cruel?Just be up front about your intentions, and you will be fine. There is nothing inherently wrong with dating multiple people and having sex outside of marriage. Where people get into trouble is when they are dishonest. Love bombing, holding out the offer of a relationship in exchange for sex, etc. Plenty of women are open to casual sex. Plenty are open to just going on a few dates and seeing where things lead. You want to find those people. I’d suggest that with what you’ve related about yourself… | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 10:05 PM |
| 28 | For guys in the early to mid 30's, how has dating changed in the last 10-12 years? Good and badWomen are no longer driven to go out and tie down a man with a paycheck for security and to make babies, which loosely translates to, women just don’t need men as much. You could argue they haven’t for a while, but that was a major social force for most of human history that we are only now a couple generations away from. You can say it’s the patriarchy (true) but it was women who were the primary, active drivers of capital r Relationship under those social constructs, for a variety of reasons. … | /r/seduction | 25/07/24 11:51 PM |
| 0 | As a high body count man, should you accept a high body count woman?Lower your standards. With a little charisma, a basic sense of style, and zero pickiness or scruples, you too could sleep with a new woman every night of the week. Many guys don’t even notice that unattractive women exist let alone are women, and don’t realize that women are basically faced with the same proposition choosing men, albeit with some different variables. | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Learning game as an acoustic manIt’s a take that neurotypical people just don’t get, because they absorbed a lot of the unspoken rules of social interactions by osmosis, and assume you actually know the skills but are just shy. That is true for some people, probably not for you. Read Mystery Method. I’m just assuming that dude is autistic as fuck because he breaks down seducing women in intricate detail, more than I could stomach. Really all the pickup artists online are teaching this stuff, with varying degrees of cringe. I d… | /r/seduction | 18/06/24 02:06 AM |
| 11 | Any late bloomers on here who hit your dating prime in your mid 30s or beyond?I’m 48 and the last few years have honestly been the only in which I’ve dated, so they are definitely my peak. I am autistic and was socially awkward as a young man. I kind of randomly fell in and out of short term relationships then was married for 16 years. Your 40s are great for dating, provided your health is good. You know yourself and other people like you never did before. You can date across a wide age range. You (hopefully) have some disposable income. Men are at their peak attractivene… | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 02:31 AM |
| 3 | I feel so stupidIt’s been a prelude to sex for me more than once. It could just be someone fucking with you, or it could be a respectful and direct question to find out if you sleep with women. I often come off as gay so if we’re talking about my sexual orientation we’re suddenly in very friendly territory. | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Loners: Prioritize making female friends over trying to pull girlsPick better women? I do resonate with everything you say, but I also have girl friends where none of that had happened. I’m friends with their husbands or boyfriends, they give great dating advice from a woman’s perspective, etc. | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 06:19 AM |
| 3 | Do you care if there's an age gap in dating?In the real world few people really care. Online is weird, it’s good to unplug sometimes (or so I tell myself). | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 01:36 AM |
| 5 | How to deal with shit tests about age differences ?On the flip side, plenty of women dig older guys. Those are about to start standing out much more as you start showing your age. It’s best just to own it. You can keep dating women 20+ years younger than you for the rest of your life if that’s what you want. | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Having my female bestfriend as a wingwomanCounterpoint, one of my best friends has hooked up with other women together with me. But I’ve had all the problems with women friends that you mention here too. | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 10:39 PM |
| 1 | How do I finally drop the soft nice guy personality and become a bad boy?Seriously like 80% of female population too. It’s a huge cultural issue. So many people are phony, “nice”, and will stab you in the back for no reason. | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 07:44 PM |
| 15 | Observation: The women who post relationship goals type of content on their social: are the Most active and practicing hoes.No correlation in my experience. I like sexually liberated women so high body counts are fine, but some of them are fantastic lovers and some are starfish. | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 01:32 PM |
| 1 | How to get her mentally hooked with me ? She talks to another guy more than she talks to me.Start seeing other people and go to her for dating advice. | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 02:19 AM |
| 5 | How to not be a “nice guy” over text (and on dates)? Don’t want to give off that vibe and be closer to a stereotypical red flag guy!Try just not. I get busy with other stuff and may see that someone messaged me but I won’t reply until I have time to sit down and give it proper attention - I reply when I feel like it, not just because someone messaged me. That means sometimes I reply right away, other times it will not be for hours. It’s not about playing games, it’s about doing things on your own terms. Maybe I’m just busy. Maybe I don’t want to have a convo with the person till the next day. Or maybe I want it to be a slow … | /r/seduction | 28/03/24 03:04 AM |
| 3 | Should I not pay for the ubers for a hookup?$500 was Dayton to Cincinnati on a weekday, early evening. A 60 mile drive. I did not take it. I’ve spent $100+ for a taxi ride from Dulles to MoCo. | /r/seduction | 25/03/24 09:25 PM |
| 20 | Should I not pay for the ubers for a hookup?I’ve seen $500 uber fares, $130 was not that crazy for a long cab ride between cities back in the day, I can’t imagine it’s any less now. | /r/seduction | 25/03/24 12:34 AM |
| -1 | Why is it that a girl will desire you more when you’re toxic?I think it’s fine to be less than totally available all the time. It’s okay to have things that are just yours and that you don’t share with other people. You can lead a few different lives and not have them intermix. That’s not toxic, it’s coquettish, and it does drive women (and men) a little crazy for you. | /r/seduction | 13/03/24 04:48 AM |
| 2 | How to friend-zone women you are trying to seduce?I know women who have been in the friend zone. Perfectly attractive ones. It’s more about the attraction imbalance than anything. Women totally chase after and pine after unavailable men. If you are seductive and find someone into you, sure, you can totally keep stringing them along. I don’t understand why people play these games. Waste of everyone’s time IMO. | /r/seduction | 21/02/24 05:59 AM |
| 9 | If I had to brag about one thing, it would be that all my LTR's were some of the best women on this Earth. That's not an accident, this title shows you how not to do it:I disagree. You never even know yourself, how can you know someone else? That’s not what red flags are about. If you are attentive you will see little signs of them cropping up. People showing disrespect, emotional manipulation, pettiness, dishonesty, etc. Nobody is perfect, but some people are kind and honest and generous and it comes through. They can have mental health issues and still exhibit these qualities. They could have had a messed up childhood or been raised in relative peace. Like OP… | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 02:55 PM |
| 82 | This one slutty trick will win your lifeI look at myself on zoom half the day. I pin my own video. Seriously the pandemic has made me so much more confident from this one thing. | /r/seduction | 04/08/23 04:09 AM |
| 8 | I think most of men that can't get women are not masculine enough.I’m pretty effeminate. I get plenty of attention from men and many of the women I’ve slept with have asked if I was gay - but it did not stop them from sleeping with me or having a relationship. I started getting laid way more once I just embraced this part of myself. Positive masculine energy is all about being comfortable with yourself and projecting confidence and has nothing to do with gender or sexual orientation. It’s also about being emotionally grounded and present. It’s not aggressive a… | /r/seduction | 19/05/23 01:54 PM |
| 85 | Most of the female attention you get happens when you are talking to people.Yes! I get approached by women quite a bit and I’ve determined this is a common thread. A couple weeks ago I was dancing at a bar and there was a huge line and I looked confused so some woman at the front started talking to me. Great, it was just friendly banter, but I did skip the line. Out of nowhere this other woman comes up and starts dancing with me, we went home together. In fact the other time like this that comes to mind was at a dance. Go dancing y’all, and talk to people! | /r/seduction | 02/04/23 03:15 PM |
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