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I mean sure, I agree. But 'concern' doesn't really translate to 'take responsibility and emotionally invest'. Many men are unhappy essentially because they are disadvantaged socially and legally. Successful men shouldn't turn around and say "fuck you, I got mine" (as they do currently). That's the horrible mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 04:23 PM
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Men's happiness shouldnt be a concern of yours either. Horrible mentality tbh. Men should have empathy for their fellow man, it's the single biggest thing holding them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 04:08 PM
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They are now expected to do what a 50's housewife did, while still being half the earner. Men still work more even when household work is taken into account.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 04:02 PM
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He means that the only reason you like these dates is because someone else invited you, planned it, paid for it and entertained you during. If you had to do all that stuff they'd quickly lose their charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 07:59 AM
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You have a strange definition of virtue
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 07:13 AM
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Yes. Come on, even if you don't agree, that's a pretty common sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/19 01:00 AM
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I'd consider her more virtuous for dating an ugly man, not stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 10:14 PM
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Yup. I'd be having fun too on a shitty date if I had my meal paid for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 08:39 PM
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I don't think short men are gross nor have I ever had lots of options so idk what to tell you, I can't relate. If all her ex is an ugly man then she probably values me a lot more and who wouldn't want to be in that position?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 08:28 PM
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I'd prefer the ugly ex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 07:50 PM
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Nope. I can only see my girlfriend on the weekends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 07:35 PM
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I'm 26. I'd date anyone between 18 and 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 06:06 AM
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Wanting sex once a day is hardly a high sex drive. That's like normal as fuck. Unless you're like 50 or something, idk how old people live. And if you aren't willing to have casual sex, you most definitely don't have a sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 02:58 AM
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How is this unfair. Everyone gets to be 20 years old at some point in their lives (literally), it's the most fair thing in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 11:22 PM
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Men work more even when childcare and housework is factored into it, so this idea that working moms are at an even bigger disadvantage is a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 05:28 PM
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Well I'm gonna assume you agree with me if you can't offer more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 03:49 AM
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You realize the fact that women get lesser charges speaks to how men view women as a class, right? It doesn't have anything to do specifically with the type of women who have criminal charges. But here's another example for you: The Moral Machine Experiment. Researchers asked participants who the AI of a self-driving car should prioritize in the event of an unavoidable car crash. Children vs. the elderly, pedestrians vs. passengers, and so on.... (including gender ofc). I'll leave you to guess w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 02:58 AM
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Judges don't want to fuck their defendants. Men are kinder and more empathetic to women than other men, this isn't a controversial fact. It's why #metoo got so much attention from men as well, when it's pretty trivial compared to the male issues of homelessness, suicide and violence victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 02:02 AM
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If you date 2 tall men who hit you would you suddenly stop dating tall men after assuming they're all abusive? No woman would think like this, because it's absurd. 2 short men with inferiority complex is enough for most to make a conclusion It really isn't, and you're presupposing that the woman isn't falsely assigning those men an inferiority complex in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 08:08 PM
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Women's preference for height appears to be pegged to "their own height +3-4 inches" Women's ideal preferences are men who are 8 inches taller than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 08:03 PM
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That's all post-hoc rationalization. A woman not attracted to a shorter man will blame every instance of his negative mood as stemming from his height. She will also extend that man to be representative of short men everywhere. All to convince herself that she isn't shallow. None of this is done for taller men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 07:49 PM
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Studies have consistently shown that taller height is much less of a dealbreaker for men than a shorter height is for women. And that men prefer women shorter by a couple inches than them, whereas women prefer men about 8 inches taller than them. For example: https://research.similarminds.com/romantic-height-preferences-in-men-and-women/227 You're wrong about this, completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 07:41 PM
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Your husband is already well above average, in the top 87%. Your exes are well in the 99th percentile. Either you're misjudging all these sizes or you're in for some disappointment trying to find men bigger than your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 07:32 PM
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How are those women down on their luck?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 07:23 PM
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Absolutely wrong. Men are very much empathetic to women and unempathetic to other men. This is why, despite the majority of judges being men, women get lighter sentences for the same crimes. And it's the reason that #metoo got any traction in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/19 04:32 PM
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So you're saying being rejected from a friendship is worse than being rejected from a romantic relationship? I can't understand that perspective but okay. Also why do women assume that just because a male friend makes a move on you, that he doesn't value your friendship? It's the complete opposite. He likes you so much he wants to turn it into something more. "He obviously didn't value the friendship if he stopped being my friend after getting rejected" I mean it's not that simple. Being vulnera…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 07:17 AM
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Why does caring about a woman's looks or n-count preclude you from forming a bond with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 06:51 AM
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Why not just ask him and see what his response is. He might lie but he might give something away by doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 06:59 AM
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You’re missing that she only had sex hoping it would end in him offering commitment. I understand this lol, that's my entire point. It seems like we agree?? The woman is giving sex in hope that she'll get something out of it. A woman who feels used doesn't think sex is enough of a quid pro quo in and of itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 09:28 PM
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SHE WAS REJECTED He doesn't want her as a gf whether they have sex or not. So why does she feel worse in the case that she has sex with him? Why does she feel 'used'?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 06:11 PM
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I don’t view being “friendzoned” by a guy as the worst thing. But guys do. Why do you guys feel so bad about that? You’re still hanging out with her. You’re still enjoying her company. I don’t see the unequal exchange. That's just feeling bad because of rejection. It feels worse for men because all rejection feels worse for men, we don't have the natural abundance mentality that women do. Men and women are different. Yes I'm aware. Men see sex as a mutually enjoyable experience, women do not. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 05:25 PM
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I don't think you understood what I said. Men wouldn't do this, in regards to SEX. We don't view it as an unequal exchange like driving someone to the airport or buying them dinner is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 05:14 PM
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I’ve purposefully avoided sex with men I found insanely sexually attractive A man wouldn't do this. Why do you think that is? Yes of course he paid for them. Hence the comparison. That's my point. He feels used because of the uneven exchange. He wouldn't feel used if they were doing something mutually enjoyable together, like buying their own meals and eating together or having sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 09:34 AM
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Rebel Wilson has a nice enough smile and seems funny. Obviously not who I'd go out with normally but out of those three it's gotta be her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 09:31 AM
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If there is simply SO MANY of them out there, why is the competition for them so fierce? The competition isn't fierce? Women who are 27-34 can still find 'good men' quite easily. They can and they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 09:52 PM
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Beta Bob is only going to feel used if he paid for all those dates. If they were split equally he'd still feel rejected, but that's different from being used. Will Roastie Rachel feel more used if she didn't have sex with the man? Why, if she doesn't consider sex to be an unequal exchange?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 09:49 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 09:40 PM
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Well buying dinner for someone is an inherently unequal exchange. And Steph is fine with it because he values her and knows it's appreciated and reciprocated in other ways. Is this how women think of sex? As a gift they give to men, not something mutually enjoyable?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 06:21 PM
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What does androcentrism have to do with this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 05:52 PM
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Younger men aren't blind to this, they're just confused as to why women get to keep these social advantages in the dating aspect of life whereas men have lost their social advantages in other aspects of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 05:48 PM
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Hard question. I'd like to benefit from all the increased opportunities being a woman grants you, of course. But I'd miss growing up as a boy. Playing soccer and hockey, video games, causing mischief with my friends. I guess I could have done that as a girl but I think I'd just be discouraged by everybody. If I could grow up male, and then have some magical 100% perfect sex change operation now, I might be up for it. Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 06:51 AM
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How do you know you would be an attractive man? There are far fewer of those than attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 06:36 AM
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In what universe is rape worse than murder? For those who are saying that murder is sometimes justifiable (it's not, and self-defence killing isn't murder), in what circumstances is it justifiable to murder someone and it isn't justifiable to rape them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 05:11 AM
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emma watson and it still doesn't make her an 8 The fuck? Who do you think is an 8 then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 07:35 AM
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Of all the things to be empathetic about, this is like low on the list Pretty weird to me to have more empathy for some dude's dog dying than this but okay
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 07:24 AM
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Why does your gf even care that some guy no longer wants to be friends with her? Was he a really close friend? Because those kinds of friends are pretty hard to come by and you can't exactly choose them. And if he wasn't close- again, why does she give a shit? I don't understand the dilemma here. She can try to only get close friendships with Chads I guess, but it seems like an annoying restriction on who you can talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 09:06 PM
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Halle Berry used to be a sex symbol well into their 40s That's just one example. She's certainly not going to remain a sex symbol into her 60s like male actors often are either. I think you can find plenty of examples of older women who look good in their middle age- but they're just not representative of all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 06:55 AM
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I think the Wall is somewhat of a male revenge fantasy but you can't deny that aging is worse for women than it is men. We can see this for Hollywood- where both the men and women are exceptionally attractive people. Older men remain sex symbols and go on to have successful careers. Older women get swapped out for younger models, or start playing non-sexy roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 06:02 AM
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https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/I/61Df2P1p5xL._SY450_.jpg https://ctd-thechristianpost.netdna-ssl.com/en/full/61475/the-big-bang-theory-season-11.jpg http://www2.pictures.zimbio.com/mp/hKCYpZEqT90l.jpg I mean look at her, she's ugly. Her body is shaped like a fridge. She's clearly overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 02:03 AM
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But these women that want to insert themselves into your life, text you, have deep talks and hug you after, write really FRIENDLY things all over your social media.... are there any men that have the insight to let them go? Idk exactly what you mean by "really FRIENDLY things" but this all sounds like a normal friendship to me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 10:10 PM
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Oof, I can't say you didn't give me a detailed answer. That's fair enough- but honestly, even with all you've said to me, I still can't see him being as unattractive as someone like Tess Holiday. Like he's still not overweight....Maybe I just don't understand female attraction, dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 09:41 PM
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Most men don't really want to be valued like they'd be valued by some 3rd world woman they don't know and who has a completely different culture than them. Am I supposed to feel good that some poor woman in Nigeria wouldn't mind marrying me so she can live a comfortable life? Come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 09:38 PM
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Well between Candy and Amy, I'd definitely choose Candy. Yes, the former is dumb, but she seems kind and feminine and fun, whereas Amy is a fucking bore. Even if they were the same level of attractiveness, I'd pick Candy. Also Amy is pretty ugly, not "slightly below average". Intelligence only matters to me insofar as intelligent people are easier to talk to and get along with in general. Some woman's neuroscience degree does nothing for me, in and of itself. Most dumb women I've met are pretty …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 09:34 PM
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well, if shes dumb she quite possible isn't aware how attractive she is and will probably appreciate a man who is just not as dumb as her. How is she being taken advantage of in this case?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 09:28 PM
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I just came up with stereotypes to put on the list, just as he came up with stereotypes for his. Sure. But isn't it interesting that the list of stereotypes for men include a bunch of immutable and/or hard to accomplish things whereas the list for women is relatively easy? I could break down for you what I personally find ugly about this man, if you're really that interested. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 11:00 PM
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Being graceful being equivalent to being tall is quite a stretch. Being thin and knowing how to cook are more comparable to being muscular and having money, but obviously the latter is much more difficult. Your list of requirements just further illustrates how much harder it is to be a man in the dating world than a woman, honestly. Even your characterization of the man who wrote the list (Alexander Cortes). I just googled him, and I understand he's not everybody's type, but you really think he'…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 10:47 PM
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6' tall, muscular, big biceps, blonde hair, square jaw, perfect straight white teeth, money, strong" Do you really think that this list of requirements you just posted for men is equivalent to the list posted by OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 07:27 PM
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That's kind of a weird perspective. Maybe in long term relationships but when it's new the man is usually putting in 500x the work the woman is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/19 08:38 PM
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I will define a close friend as someone who you would invite round to your place, and someone you could ask to hang out with at theirs without there being an issue. What's with this strange criteria? I've hosted parties at my place and some of the attendees were people I barely knew, and who I never talked to again. On the other hand, I have a close friend who I haven't seen in person in 3 years. Anyway, using my own idea of what a 'close friend' is, I'll answer your questions. How many close ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 11:11 PM
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I've never heard of anyone getting dumped for petty reasons tbh. Not outside Seinfeld. It's possible your idea of petty might differ from mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 04:59 AM
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men made those rules, not women. That's true. It's no less an injustice though. But honestly yeah, our biggest problem as a class is that we don't have much empathy for our fellow men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 04:56 AM
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Are you over 30 by any chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 01:04 AM
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Man B is making Z more money than man A, and pays a higher amount of taxes because of it. The OP's point is stupid, but you really don't need calculus II to understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 06:31 AM
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Do you consider the men you meet in day-to-day life more attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 06:27 AM
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Idk if you guys are all just too old to understand social media culture but a 'heart' is much more innocuous than it sounds. It's a completely platonic way of expressing strong support for someone's post. Then again, he's old too, so maybe he doesn't understand either. Even the girl is a bit old...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 04:34 AM
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lol no there aren't. The only people who think they're beautiful are other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/19 12:27 AM
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What have you seen to this nature on male dating profiles? Genuinely curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/19 11:57 PM
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Models won't get into fwb situations unless they want to. They can get commitment very easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 12:49 AM
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all kinds of women I've known for my entire life all, universally, suffer the consequences and reap the benefits of their choices. Everyone suffers the consequence of their actions. To what extent does feminism try to mitigate those consequences, for women? Let's go through them. Overeat and you get fat. Well you can't avoid getting fat, but you can get government paid surgery to lose the weight. Oh and people shouldn't allowed to judge you for being fat either. Devote time to the gym you get fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 12:48 AM
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I can't keep away this idea that i need to be perfect,while women can get away with being normal. And i'm sure i am not the only one You don't need to be 'perfect', but yes, the game is stacked against you. An average woman will have a much higher SMV than an average man. Unless that man is gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 10:03 PM
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Men shouldn't be chivalrous to anyone, and that includes the women in their life. Chivalry implies an uneven exchange between a man and a woman, why the fuck should a man partake in such a relationship unless it was his daughter? should a son not be praised for doing things for his OWN mother? Yes, he should.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 07:52 AM
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Looks for sure. Not only do people put a higher premium on looks but they also aren't in my control, whereas I can change my personality to some extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 08:21 AM
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Not really though. Testing for that kind of stuff is just impractical if it's not a major, well-funded competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 07:16 AM
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you have to give them a tender loving, be seen with them out in public, meals together, long walks on the beach and long french kissing sessions before you make love to these beasts on a bed of roses lol at all these preconditions you have to make because you know all the men would say yes absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/19 01:04 AM
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who are no doubt the geniuses of our time thanks i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:48 AM
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Virtuous is literally a synonym of moral. You make some good points, but you're very clearly using the wrong word.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:43 AM
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Incels usually have plenty of female friends
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 04:18 AM
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The applicant pool included everyone in the program. They weren't shitty programmers, they were average, but an average male programmer wouldn't have gotten the same job. I don't know about their hiring decision processes. I can only assume about that based on the quality of the people they hired.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 01:45 AM
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a) Watching the few female students in my program getting the most desirable internships, despite not being at the top of the class or having any other exceptional CS skills b) Experience in the workplace with female colleagues vs. male ones. It's no surprise that a place like google is getting sued for this nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 08:56 PM
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what if you weren't, though? Sucks for her, I guess. But she can also leverage her vagina to get a better job in an instant, so I don't have too much sympathy. do you seriously think most women programmers were hired just because vagina? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 08:28 PM
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Sure but the advantage of getting hired because of your genitals far outweighs that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 08:12 PM
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The handful of women who work in these environments are at a disadvantage WTF? They are women working in programming, FFS. They have a massive advantage because they have what everyone doesn't, a vagina. Companies will hire and promote you literally just because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 06:30 PM
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Were they really settling if they didn't care about how accomplished their wives were?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 02:20 AM
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