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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	If being poor/low income is what makes a man a loser in women's eyes, is there a singular (near) universal thing that makes women a loser and undatable in men's eye's? Exactly. Female hoes just had opportunities for sex presented and said why not whereas male hoes were so desperate to be part of the cock carousel that they actively worked for it. It’s obvious who wants to be a degenerate more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/21 09:32 AM
2	men/women who won't date a promiscuous person why? it would be dumb not to, past behavior shows a lot about a person	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/04/21 12:30 PM
10	To address the Gender Inequality on this Subreddit, all Misogyny is now Banned no misogyny = no ppd	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/21 04:46 PM
4	If you hold that women are hypergamous, can you explain in detail what do you mean by that? What exact traits women as a group are seeking to what degree in men that makes them hypergamous? How is what men do is different than that? it’s arguably worse since all it takes for his “loyalty” to the honda to vanish is just a better paint job	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/21 12:34 PM
1	Do men want woman to just do what they say and be okay with whatever they want? and even if other men didn’t exist they still wouldn’t be able to have sex with every woman they’re attracted to	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/21 08:32 PM
1	Flip side of the women are wonder effect, the women are terrible effect pederasty for the win	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/21 02:20 PM
0	how much/little men care about appealing to women personality-wise lmao good luck trying to get men to sympathize with internalized misogyny when at worst it doesn’t affect them and at best they benefit from it	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/21 02:11 PM
2	How do I get out of the toxic mind space that all men are horrible? I genuinely want help to be free from this toxic mindset. that would only reaffirm her beliefs about men though...	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/21 03:05 AM
1	If most men would rather be fuckboys than have LTR, does that mean most men in LTRs are "settling", are not genuinely attracted to their partner, and would leave her instantly if he got ample casual sex opportunities? Imma have to press X on this one	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/21 02:38 AM
2	If most men would rather be fuckboys than have LTR, does that mean most men in LTRs are "settling", are not genuinely attracted to their partner, and would leave her instantly if he got ample casual sex opportunities? because they have no choice but to use parental investment as a tool to acquire sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/21 02:04 AM
2	If most men would rather be fuckboys than have LTR, does that mean most men in LTRs are "settling", are not genuinely attracted to their partner, and would leave her instantly if he got ample casual sex opportunities? oof	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/21 01:59 AM
3	There is no separate casual sex and relationship market. “I am wealthy and 100% nix any girl who opens leg quickly... of course after plowing the holes and doing my business.” He had us in the first half not gonna lie.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/21 06:53 PM
7	What is a common opinion you hear from your own gender in PPD that you vehemently disagree with? On top of that it seems that women have a hard time finding good casual sex partners who manage to please them, so the rewards aren’t even certain. Granted, there are definitely women who enjoy casual sex (and good for them, I support their decision too) but if you’re not getting any pleasure out of it and you also face all these risks then there really is no reason to have casual sex, it’s just a bad deal plain and simple.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 07:26 PM
3	Bisexuals of PPD: Which gender do you find more attractive? That’s really interesting, different strokes for different folks I guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 12:58 PM
3	Bisexuals of PPD: Which gender do you find more attractive? Agreed. The most attractive women are also way more attractive than the most attractive men in my eyes too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/21 11:57 AM
3	Opt-in vs Opt-out Subscription == Dating vs Marriage it 100% is fucked up, but that has never stopped shitty people from being shitty so growing a spine is a must	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/21 06:24 PM
5	Men are less monogamous, so claiming “Men communicate love through sex and don't separate the two” is a lie. “You didn’t allow me to express my love to you through sex so let me do that with a woman I couldn’t care less about” makes sense 😂 low key starting to think that what men call love is just more lust for that specific woman than others, which would also align well with the fact that men have higher physical standards for relationships than for casual sex	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/21 04:55 PM
2	Men are less monogamous, so claiming “Men communicate love through sex and don't separate the two” is a lie. But how does maintenance sex provide validation? A woman who’s sleeping with you because she has to doesn’t actually want to sleep with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/21 02:27 AM
1	Men are less monogamous, so claiming “Men communicate love through sex and don't separate the two” is a lie. But a woman who’s fucking you casually is doing that and she doesn’t love you. Sex doesn’t always equal love so how come it’s the way that love is expressed?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/21 02:23 AM
1	Men are less monogamous, so claiming “Men communicate love through sex and don't separate the two” is a lie. If men want validation from sex with their partners, how come duty/maintenance sex is a thing? Or prostitution? In both of these cases there isn’t any validation yet men have no issue engaging in them. To me it seems that what men are seeking from sex has more to do physical pleasure than validation. (Of course not all men are like that btw, but a lot seem to be that way.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/21 02:16 AM
2	Men are less monogamous, so claiming “Men communicate love through sex and don't separate the two” is a lie. Why do you think men can only feel loved through sex ? And how does that work with casual sex ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/21 01:50 AM
2	Men are less monogamous, so claiming “Men communicate love through sex and don't separate the two” is a lie. Then how do you feel loved through sex if sex doesn’t necessarily mean love? If sex isn’t what differentiates love from just fucking, how is it the thing that represents love for men in relationships?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/21 01:39 AM
1	Men are less monogamous, so claiming “Men communicate love through sex and don't separate the two” is a lie. Wouldn’t you agree though that a woman having sex with you doesn’t mean that she loves you? Do you feel loved when a woman is casually fucking you and when a woman that you have a relationship with is fucking you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/21 01:20 AM
3	Men are less monogamous, so claiming “Men communicate love through sex and don't separate the two” is a lie. Men want to have sex with people they don’t love. Men’s love is also strictly conditional on sex. More news at 11. This is one of the main reasons I’m not into guys who have had casual sex because to them sex>love (otherwise they would refuse to have sex with people they don’t love).	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/21 01:00 AM
3	Men are less monogamous, so claiming “Men communicate love through sex and don't separate the two” is a lie. This reminds me of a tiktok I saw where a woman said that we have a word for women who marry just for money (gold digger) but we don’t have a word for men who get married just for sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/21 12:47 AM
4	Men are less monogamous, so claiming “Men communicate love through sex and don't separate the two” is a lie. So sex isn’t always an expression of love?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/21 12:35 AM
6	Men are less monogamous, so claiming “Men communicate love through sex and don't separate the two” is a lie. Not only that but he basically told on himself. In the analogy food =sex, low quality food= sex without love and high quality food =sex with love. By comparing sex to food and the desire to have sex with hunger he admits that what he is really looking for above all is sex (any food to satisfy the hunger). Sure he would prefer sex with love, but sex without love will do its job just fine because at the end of the day the first priority is sex, not love just like the first priority in the scenario…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/21 12:21 AM
2	Men are less monogamous, so claiming “Men communicate love through sex and don't separate the two” is a lie. Ikr, he’s basically saying unless love comes with the perk of sex it’s worth nothing, which shows that men in fact don’t value love in and of itself but rather they see it as a means to acquire the bonus of sex. They don’t care about love unless, of course, there is this extra benefit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/21 12:11 AM
6	Men are less monogamous, so claiming “Men communicate love through sex and don't separate the two” is a lie. “They have sex with people they can’t even bear to look at” both literally and metaphorically 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/21 10:52 PM
5	Men are less monogamous, so claiming “Men communicate love through sex and don't separate the two” is a lie. It’s all about finding a man who doesn’t want to cheat because he’s just not that type of person. Because if a man IS that type of person, you’re fucked ( you and the woman he’s about to cheat on you with).	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/21 10:34 PM
2	Men are less monogamous, so claiming “Men communicate love through sex and don't separate the two” is a lie. If men and women had the exact same number opportunities to have sex with different people, who do you think would have a higher n count by the end ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/21 10:29 PM
6	Men are less monogamous, so claiming “Men communicate love through sex and don't separate the two” is a lie. Agreed. Men who want to cheat will cheat just cause, they don’t need any important reason to do so. They are that easy to stray. As a woman there is absolutely nothing you can do to stop a man who wants to cheat from cheating, you could be the perfect partner in his eyes yet he still will want to cheat, it has nothing to do with you. It has to do with the kind of person your partner is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/21 10:23 PM
12	Men are less monogamous, so claiming “Men communicate love through sex and don't separate the two” is a lie. Does it matter if the cheater loves their partner? The most important point is they don’t respect their partner so the relationship shouldn’t continue.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/21 10:12 PM
7	Why are most men never taught how to attract women? you could even argue that there is more reason NOT to teach them than to do so	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/21 06:50 PM
3	Women prefer spending non-sexual time with their partners and men prefer spending non-sexual time with their friends. I mean, if you don’t want to spend non sexual time with your partner then they aren’t your partner, you’re just fuckbuddies.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/21 02:51 PM
2	Do you regret "settling" for a man you never truly loved? I think he meant that the women have had tons of casual sex and their men don’t care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/21 07:30 PM
29	Do you regret "settling" for a man you never truly loved? a lot of men have joined the chat	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/21 05:31 PM
6	If the problem with no sex (or not enough sex) isn't solely about sex, people need to make that very clear. “Men communicate love and affection through sex, so unlike women we don’t separate the two” So casual sex is something that shouldn’t be appealing to men then right ? If men can’t separate sex from love then they shouldn’t want sex without the presence of love. If there is no love to express then what would be the point of sex, after all. When it comes to casual sex, men are perfectly capable of separating sex from love so they don’t get affected from it, but suddenly when it comes to relationsh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/21 05:48 PM
3	The Deadbedroom subreddit DOES NOT prove that sex is important for relationships. It proves the opposite. I agree, but let’s be real here, a lot of relationships these days are just over glorified fuckbuddies so if you were to make sex not as important there would be nothing holding these relationships together.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/21 04:27 PM
7	Q4W Would you rather LTR a popular fraud or undercover superhero? Agreed. Even if there was a popular superhero vs an undercover one (both are not frauds), I’d still choose the undercover one cause I’m just not into popularity and I value humility a lot. I also wouldn’t want to gain wealth or popularity myself just because I’m with this man, I don’t want to be known as “X’s girlfriend”. So number two for me all the way.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/21 05:14 PM
-2	Why do you think men aren’t listening to or following your dating advice? yeah it has very predatory undertones	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/21 04:19 PM
4	Is men's value at an all time low because of the population of the world? kinda makes me wonder if they were ever really compatible, their interests seem to be conflicting	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/02/21 07:24 PM
1	Women are treated poorly when they are low value and because of hypergamy that doesn’t stop them, dick wet >>>> morality https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/l8yz7f/dark_triad_traits_include_duplicity_and/glfqhnk/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/21 10:39 PM
12	Women are treated poorly when they are low value and because of hypergamy when talking to men in ppd it always comes down to that	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/21 10:23 PM
7	Women are treated poorly when they are low value and because of hypergamy Probably because no one who is high value wants to date them, which would imply that they’re not high value themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/21 10:18 PM
6	Would you consider it one advantage of traditional cultures and younger marriages is that they get married off young before they become too jaded by the opposite sex? “ I want an incentive structure that does not allow me to leave my partner. I don’t like relying on my own morals and sense of duty.” Why? Do you not trust yourself to act the way that you should (hence the username)?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/21 12:13 AM
2	A study showed that unattractive women are more likely to cheat than attractive women Yes this is it. It’s not that high n count women are less likely to cheat than low n count women like the article implies, it’s that high n count men are more likely to cheat than high n count women (since they evaluate attractive alternatives more positively and are slower to disengage attention from attractive alternative whereas for women only the latter applies).	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/21 12:20 AM
9	Women outside of this sphere, discuss "What it is like to "date a Red Pill Man" Let's try it here. This is an underappreciated benefit of liberation. The point is not to get a man who feels forced to date you, the point is to get a man who genuinely wants to date you. So you can present what you want out of a relationship and if a man is not interested you can just move on to the next one. Similarly, men who want casual sex don’t have to force a woman who doesn’t want to have casual sex to have sex with them, they can just find one who wants it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/21 09:25 PM
7	Do you think that cheating is different between the genders? Yep. You can be the perfect wife and a man will still cheat on you just cause. It doesn’t get more insulting than that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/21 06:40 PM
5	Do you think that cheating is different between the genders? Fair enough, leave the relationship the moment you are able to then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/21 06:21 PM
53	Do you think that cheating is different between the genders? Precisely. If a man cheats on you it doesn’t matter if he still “loves” you, the point is he doesn’t respect you and you must exit the relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/21 04:11 PM
20	Do you think that cheating is different between the genders? Right like if “love” didn’t stop you from cheating wtf do I need it for ?!? With partners like these who needs enemies. Next up: I may beat the shit out of you BuT I StiLl lOvE yOu. If you’re not gonna treat those who you “love” well then what is that “love” you’re talking about even worth ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/21 04:04 PM
29	Do you think that cheating is different between the genders? Yeah that “BuT I sTiLl lOvE YoU” excuse is just pathetic. You’re basically saying “I love you... but not enough to not cheat”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/21 03:00 PM
22	Do you think that cheating is different between the genders? Yeah this is it. This goes to show how you can be a man’s ideal wife and have a relationship that makes him genuinely happy and yet he still can cheat on you. The only winning move is not to play.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/21 02:42 PM