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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	hooking up with a secondary target		asdf6547	/r/seduction	12/02/12 09:06 PM

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7	A reminder to never switch yourself off Pro tip: if a girl tells you that she has a history of asshole boyfriends, she didn't get that way by accident - that's probably what she's into. Regardless of what she says, or even believes, she wants being a nice guy to a girl that is into assholes is a sure way to make her lady boner wilt. Yes you should be yourself, but also be aware of clues that tell you what a girl is really into. Don't buy the "I want a nice guy" crap that every girl will tell you.	/r/seduction	02/06/12 06:15 AM
1	hooking up with a secondary target Yeah, I think I need to straight up bring up my interests with A. As for B, I think I will just see how tonight turns out. If I do get with B it will be because I want to show her a good time - she's a nice enough girl. I am somewhat ticked off at myself for oneitising A so much. It's frustrating for sure.	/r/seduction	13/02/12 11:24 PM
1	hooking up with a secondary target Shit. You are right and that sucks. I keep thinking of ways why it might not be as bad as you make it sound here but yeah... shit sucks. Thank you for the straight talk.	/r/seduction	13/02/12 11:20 PM
1	hooking up with a secondary target Well, I care. Like I say, I could take or leave B, but A is the one that I am ultimately interested in. As I said in a reply to TpaKid's post, I have thought about sleeping with one of A's friends as a tactic to get to her but it seems like a very high risk gamble. Has it been proven to be effective among nerdier folk (i.e. not club goers)? Also, if it had been anyone else I would have had no qualms about escalating and having sex then and there, but for some reason I just didn't get the right v…	/r/seduction	13/02/12 12:28 AM
1	hooking up with a secondary target That wasn't a dig at nerds, our entire group is nerds - including me. It's just that some of us are more attractive, socially astute, and "successful at life" then others. I am probably most interested in A out of anyone I know, and I am trying not to let it develop into oneitis (which is why I came here for an outside perspective). There is a part of me that was/is thinking that sleeping with one of A's friends and being fucking amazing might be a strategy to get her curiosity up, but it seems …	/r/seduction	13/02/12 12:18 AM
1	hooking up with a secondary target hmm, that's a hard pill to swallow but I suppose that it might be true. The reason that I didn't want to try anything at that point was that A had turned me down previously about 6 months ago when she had a boyfriend and that led to some discomfort between us for a while. I'm trying not to be the guy that tries to get in her pants whenever we see each other, though I don't know if maybe I should be? As far as turning down B, that doesn't bother me too much since I have another girl that I have a…	/r/seduction	13/02/12 12:10 AM
2	hooking up with a secondary target fixed, thanks, didn't realize that as an issue. I've got myself set up as a rather high value individual in our group, and I'm worried that hooking up with a lower status friend will lower my perceived value to A	/r/seduction	12/02/12 10:00 PM