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| 5 | The Hierarchy of LoveVery true. Which is why its best to do two things 1) keep spending on women down. I don't care if this means the relationship ends quickly, I'm not buying her gifts or paying when we go out to dinner. 2) don't view relationships as long term. If you think you're spending for future rewards you're going to have a bad time. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/15 12:22 PM |
| 3 | Would society be improved if women were attracted to betas?to small and submissive/insecure guys? Is that what beta means? I know plenty of betas who aren't small or necessarily insecure/submissive. Its more a behavioral pattern than a physical trait. Beta can best be described as a guy who gives more than he takes. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/15 09:50 AM |
| 6 | The Hierarchy of LoveReminds me of the Ben Franklin quote about getting people to do things for you. This indirectly implies that being beta to your woman is a vicious cycle that compounds how much more beta you become. I'm inclined to agree I've found most guys aren't that afraid of losing women, they're more afraid of wasting their time with them. They don't want to spend endless cash on someone only for them to leave in a year, so yeah I do think return on investment is a good way to phrase it. Because abundance … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/06/15 08:25 AM |
| 3 | Anyone see the "Hot Girls Wanted" Netflix porn documentary.The guy pimping these girls was a piece of trash. Not for what he was doing, but simply that is what he is. Did you notice his tone change drastically after the main girl left. He could barely even be bothered speaking to her. He wasn't encouraging them to get out, he made a cut for them staying there. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/15 05:36 AM |
| 9 | Anyone see the "Hot Girls Wanted" Netflix porn documentary.So they complain about making money by doing the one thing most people enjoy doing for free? I loved how she was complaining that she was given $25,000 in the space of a few months yet had nothing to show for it because of "Cloths, haircuts and makeup". Yeah right. She had nothing to show for it because she no doubt wasted her money. That is still a fairly huge sum of cash. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/15 05:33 AM |
| 11 | Anyone see the "Hot Girls Wanted" Netflix porn documentary.Man he looked like he was going to just break down. I got the impression he was increasingly torn internally. He didn't look like he was sad, he more struck me as a guy completely divided in his thought. He was the most interesting character study in the whole film to me. The porn actresses were more or less what I though, decently attractive women who thought their life would be fun and parties if they got involved in porn but found the reality isn't at all glamorous. The guy seemed to be decen… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/15 05:31 AM |
| 8 | Anyone see the "Hot Girls Wanted" Netflix porn documentary.Throughout the whole video I got the increasing impression she was trying to imply the whole situation was outside of her control, like external factors encouraged her to get into it, external factors meant she had to do it. She the entire time was acting like "this isn't me" despite willfully making the decision to be involved in those activities. One thing about her personality I found particularly strange was that when her boyfriend said things like that she's basically a hooker, she didn't g… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/15 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Anyone see the "Hot Girls Wanted" Netflix porn documentary.The girl does seem pretty 'cool' about it all I must admit, he basically insults her to her face and she holds frame and doesn't given an inch. Just agrees with him. I'm not sure if thats because she sees him as below her or not. I could kind of understand him dating her casually if he's having a good time, but living with her? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/15 02:01 AM |
| 21 | Anyone see the "Hot Girls Wanted" Netflix porn documentary.The benefit/cost certainly doesn't seem in its favor. Very few make it and they make minimal money long term. The evidence of their lifestyle is out there forever too, so it would be near impossible to sweep it under a rug. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/15 04:16 PM |
| 11 | Working on curing my oneitis"The boyfriend was really jealous" is a common byline. Some men are needlessly jealous, but a lot of the time they have a valid reason. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/15 02:08 PM |
| 3 | Working on curing my oneitisWhen you've had a few relationships and internalized TRP teachings its easy to move past pre-relationship oneitis. I still think of all the things TRP teaches avoiding onetis is the most useful for most people. It can be absolutely crippling for a guy and really make you do some very embarrassing things. Most of the stuff your parents and the media tell you basically encourage onetis so its basically the normal operating procedure for guys under 25. Oneitis is still a bit harder to avoid when yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/15 01:47 PM |
| 15 | Women will mold around your attitude towards them so you never know the opposite if YOU are not the opposite. They really are, as is said here, malleable.Think about that for a second, women wrote the Don Draper character. I have heard that before but temporarily forgot until you reminded me, thats not at all surprising. Because Don Draper is probably the biggest tv alpha male, yet he has his 'sensitive' side and a lot of internal demons. Thats how women love to write that sort of character. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/15 01:30 AM |
| 1 | TRP subreddit now considered a hate site by SymantecFeminism is only about all genders when it comes to participation, in terms of content its 99% about women (and that 1% about men to the extent it benefits women). | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/15 10:41 AM |
| 3 | Marriage is nothing but a fail-safe for a woman and provides no benefit for the manNo fault is pretty common. I'm not sure I really disagree with it anyway as the system would gravitate to the woman being in the right in most situations anyway, as they do on most issues. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/15 07:14 AM |
| 49 | Marriage is nothing but a fail-safe for a woman and provides no benefit for the manThe fact that in the US there is spousal maintenance is the biggest turnoff for marriage. I can't imagine that the state can force you to pay a lifetime wage to a 'wife' that cheats on you. Yet, thats the state of our society. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/15 06:25 AM |
| 30 | Marriage is nothing but a fail-safe for a woman and provides no benefit for the manMarriage once upon a time had benefit for men. Women were typically shamed by society into being virgins prior to marriage, when you got married it opened the doors to living together/having sex and by doing so locked the man into a long term financial commitment to his spouse. But no such social expectation exist on women today and yet men still get the financial burden thrust upon them. I'm convinced most women are so obsessed about marriage because they want to believe that guys are still buy… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/15 06:23 AM |
| 23 | Women really ARE children.and show their son's how to be a man I would argue modern parents don't really do this either. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/15 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Karen Straughan (Girlwriteswhat) succinctly discusses that men don't hate women, and defends TRP. Good read!We hate the enablers. I don't hate women for taking advantage of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/15 03:57 PM |
| 4 | Guy's girlfriend pushes him to open up the relationship. Guy decides he deserves better and dumps her. Girlfriend subsequently has a mental breakdown.Willing to bet that she was already fucking the other dude. Yep. That was the biggest example of trickle truth. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/15 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Face it, If you were a woman you'd take advantage of men.This is also a thing. Women don't sit around studying this stuff because they have it on a plate for them their whole lives. They get everything given for them. The caged bird doesn't need to learn how to hunt. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/15 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Face it, If you were a woman you'd take advantage of men.The main problem men struggle with is that most of their life they've assumed that women act this way out of a kind of naiveness. Its not that they're trying to 'use' men but thats how women structure their lives and it sometimes comes across that way when they 'chase happyness'. Yet most people on TRP are aware that the women actively know what they're doing and are literally trying to sort the men in their lives into several categories to maximize their utility of them. Once you're aware of th… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/15 05:02 AM |
| 4 | Men make me sadI don't think the men you mention have any real expectations of these women getting with them. They just get a temporary high from doing nice things for women so they keep doing it. The thrill of women even acknowledging them for some men is such an unusual thrill. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 11:35 AM |
| 8 | Post-wall, ugly female professor's bitter rant about her colleagues hitting up 20 year old coeds instead of her.Women have an inbuilt ego that no man can match. You ask most men why women don't want them and they very well know, they're not in any denial about the fact. But women for some reason think they have some sort of given right for men to love them to the point they shame men who could dare find someone else more attractive. I see this viewpoint penetrate through all of female culture, like they're shocked that someone else could possibly be interested in someone else. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 11:32 AM |
| 33 | Post-wall, ugly female professor's bitter rant about her colleagues hitting up 20 year old coeds instead of her.The projection is so hard it hurts. She's talking about their lack of maturity, their lack of romance, their lack of power. None of which are things men care about about at all. She's trying to picture what a women would be interested in. Since when have men been embarrassed at dating a 20 year old? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/15 11:27 AM |
| 2 | For the Girl Writes What fan boys, Karen Straughan lays down her opinion of TRPI'm still not sure I agree their power is that absolute over men. I completely see through the hot girl mirage now I'm older. When I was younger, yes, you would get caught up in onetis and dreams about your life together, but when you've been there and done that you realize most women really are train wreck potential. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/15 11:03 AM |
| 4 | For the Girl Writes What fan boys, Karen Straughan lays down her opinion of TRPWhat you see as hate is fear and frustration. Fear of what you have the power to do to any given man on any given day, just by virtue of being female. Its a powerful quote, and applicable to some men, but not all. But I don't fear women at all now I'm educated in avoiding situations like that. If I'm not married, dating or having sex with a woman they have no power or control over me. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/15 02:15 AM |
| 0 | Observations of living in Japan for 10 yearsJapan is a very expensive society and the living standard difference between the have and the have not is one of the most obvious of all on earth. Everything is super expensive over there, I'm not surprised at all women flock to betas. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/15 12:36 PM |
| 1 | The "Smart Guy" syndromeIntelligence on its own isn't worth much. Talent, charisma, mental stability and willpower will get you a lot farther. My cousin was intelligent but he still ate himself into an early grave. Intelligence is worth its promise. People will to some extent flock to the smart as long as they have potential to turn it into something valuable to them (basically, money.) but intelligence in of itself is practically worthless unless you can funnel it into something of value. No one cares about a smart, p… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/15 08:25 AM |
| 4 | The Evolution of Bitchiness - "Women engage in indirect aggression and slut-shaming, even in clinical research studies. Why?"Women are horrid to each other if they don't like one another. Grown mature adults suddenly start acting like children calling eachother names. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/05/15 06:59 AM |
| 51 | Male ambition is the independent driver of human progress; female ambition has always been dependent on male ambitionWomen have always sought experience, not outcome. They will regularly work towards "experiencing" things but rarely to building or discovering things. Women never gather together to create interest groups for obscure things with no future risks. You would never see a women's group for working on technology. Never. Women have never needed to do these things. They just wait until they're successful and beg for inclusion. I've actually found they don't seem to get enjoyment from that sort of thing,… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/15 02:37 PM |
| 12 | Male ambition is the independent driver of human progress; female ambition has always been dependent on male ambitionWomen don't take risks, unless they see something as a certain or near certain outcome they don't do it. They approach most aspects of life like this, careers, business etc. they will always prioritize stability over possibility. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/15 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Is the characterisation of men as sex obsessed in this circle the right idea?It's like saying hey it's ok I starve - my life doesn't revolve around food Great point. I think that might be it at the core. People worship sex because they've barely had it. When you've had a steady supply for a long time it starts to grow more insignificant. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/15 03:07 AM |
| 3 | Is the characterisation of men as sex obsessed in this circle the right idea?You completely miss the point. The point is men should stop making out as if other men's lives revolve completely around sex unless they want it to. This is about male empowerment, not 'men getting sex'. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/15 10:58 AM |
| 1 | High value men in their 40s often bounce back after marriage.I'm not really sure of their financial situation. Both moved in with their new partners while their ex kept the houses as far as I know. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/05/15 02:58 PM |
| 14 | High value men in their 40s often bounce back after marriage.when a highly contagious rash of divorce began among my ex-wife's friends. funny how you say its contagious, this situation was like that too. I think 3 of them got divorced within a year. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/15 03:15 PM |
| 1 | High value men in their 40s often bounce back after marriage.It really helps. In my teens I used to train with friends and it really did bring out that competitive nature. Sadly as you get older it's harder to find. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/15 11:57 AM |
| 8 | High value men in their 40s often bounce back after marriage.I've never really gotten the obsession with super hot women. I've had one girlfriend I would consider very hot, a 9. It was good for bragging rights but the sex was no more enjoyable than the 6.5-7 type girls. Maybe even slightly less so. When guys talk about attractive women all they really want is slim with a decent looking face. Sadly even that is rare these days. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/15 11:54 AM |
| 11 | High value men in their 40s often bounce back after marriage.I actually think he did win. His ex was very hot for her age yes, but she was controlling, manipulative and a bitch. His new partner is still good looking but she seems like a genuinely nice person and seems to support him rather than just herself. Personally I think he won. When you're going on 50 you can't chase 20 year olds forever. I always found his ex selfish. The thing that shocked me most was how quickly both of them found new girlfriends, but also that both of their new partners worked … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/15 11:52 AM |
| 5 | "The Dad Bod" - Don't you fucking dare buy into itThats just the typical women progression: 'Casual hookup' with no chance of relationship --- > High value partner ----> Low value partner. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/15 09:19 AM |
| 11 | Today’s middle-aged men inhabit a Neutered UselessnessHello dummy - Your family? Bro, it's not your family - this is HER family. Yep. I guarantee if they ever split, thats the last he'll hear from the daughter. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/15 09:00 AM |
| 18 | Today’s middle-aged men inhabit a Neutered UselessnessThe divorced ones were all miserable, most of them lamenting the terrible downturn their lives had taken – no house (gone to the ex), no kids (gone to the ex), no future (what’s the point?). As I have no intention of ever getting married I can't imagine what this must feel like. I'm actually not surprised that a lot of them contemplate suicide. Men in their mid 40s have no real value without assets and their chances of working back to it are very unlikely, particularly in low end work. The thing… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/15 08:57 AM |
| 1 | What happened to women? What is causing (or caused) the downfall of respectful and classy ladies? What will happen in the future?As a species that's been around for 2-6 millions years on this planet This flat out isn't true. Even fairly aggressive estimates place our species at 1 million years old, most far far less than that. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/15 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Are most of us just overweight men in their 30s-40s with no luck in women?Probably a troll post but I do find a lot of the posts here way over the top and far fetched. For every guy that seems to understand it and offer reasonable advice there are 5 "I spin 5 plates and blah blah" guys. Thats perfectly fine, I do think the general message is still making it past all that bullshit. The men who have had success with women in my view atleast tend to have a bit more jaded tone to how they post, they don't put the PUA garbage on a pedestal and realize getting women isn't r… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/15 02:02 AM |
| 8 | What happened to women? What is causing (or caused) the downfall of respectful and classy ladies? What will happen in the future?Nature hasn't changed, nurture has changed. Go back 100 years and a women sleeping around before marriage would have been shamed hard, not by just potential mates but her family, her friends and probably the guy she was sleeping with. There were huge amounts of social influence that encouraged both women and men to play the 'family' role, lets not forget post WW1 and WW2 propaganda about the family lifestyle and its superiority to the bachelor lifestyle. Religion was also rampant which had fairl… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/05/15 01:54 AM |
| 3 | "My mother told me"I think its how you do it. For instance "Awesome, thanks for letting me know I was sooo worried" is beta as fuck. Saying to someone "Let me know when you get home alright" as you send her on her way is not beta at all. It comes across as being in command. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/15 04:43 PM |
| 1 | "My mother told me"Mothers are guilty as hell for spreading 'the right woman' myth. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/15 04:41 PM |
| 3 | I just went out with a woman "my age", and you should too... but not for the reason you might think.Demure is a great description of them. Its very true, they really do to seem innocent and kind. Wait until they dont get what they want.. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/15 11:01 AM |
| 13 | My experiment dating a fat girlI tried dating a very slightly chubby friend once. The relationship side was great, it was easy, no drama, she was nice to me, sex wasn't a problem. But like a drama seeking girl I somehow found myself completely and utterly bored. It was really eye opening how we pick on women for doing 'illogcal' things but when the situations are reversed we do more or less the same thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/15 11:55 AM |
| 1 | The TRP Field Toolkit - Part 3: Shit tests and Comfort testsThe best response is something that elevates you whilst reassuring her. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/15 11:43 AM |
| 2 | The TRP Field Toolkit - Part 3: Shit tests and Comfort testsThe one thing I hate about the changing subject or witty retorts to otherwise bitchy shittests is that by continuing to be friendly and interested in her when she's blatantly insulting you makes you look low value like you tolerate their rudeness. The silence one is usually the best bet in this situation, but ultimately its why 'dinner dates' and that kind of thing are very hard to pull off while looking strong, because in that situation its just really hard to avoid them when you're forced to s… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/15 11:42 AM |
| 7 | I just went out with a woman "my age", and you should too... but not for the reason you might think.Your experience is the opposite of mine with women of that age. I find them to be blatant suck ups until you get to know them a bit better then it basically goes how you say it is. The funny double standard is if men behaved this way they'd label them as having mental illness or being an absolute asshole, but its normal behavior for women. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/15 11:36 AM |
| 1 | "Men who were cheated on but didn't end the relationship, how are you doing?" Welcome to the weekly beta-fest at r/askmenThe problem is if you don't get out you're stuck with the situation and every single day you are just becoming more and more the pathetic guy who won't leave. After years of being together these men think that this is just how life works. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/15 10:59 AM |
| 1 | "Men who were cheated on but didn't end the relationship, how are you doing?" Welcome to the weekly beta-fest at r/askmenThe biggest thing for me in my life is the loyalty one has for another. If a girl can't respect you enough to be loyal and truthful then she is no fucking good. One injustice is all that is needed. Fuck Whenever they do it, they do it again. I've had plenty of friends go through this situation and get back together, yet it always happens again. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/15 10:58 AM |
| 2 | "Men who were cheated on but didn't end the relationship, how are you doing?" Welcome to the weekly beta-fest at r/askmenThe saddest thing is that they don't even acknowledge the act, but are so caught up in their misplaced feelings, there are so many posts in that thread about how 'they love her'. So because they have those 'feelings' they're going to be a sucker. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/15 10:43 AM |
| 3 | "Men who were cheated on but didn't end the relationship, how are you doing?" Welcome to the weekly beta-fest at r/askmenWomen have somehow established a social structure in which finding out your partner is lying (which is usually a few very easy taps on a phone) is now more frowned upon than cheating itself. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/15 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Ask Women sub discusses "Have you ever dated a red pill man"exactly. Its a mindset of not caring what people think and acting accordingly. Its not a particular type of person. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/15 03:02 PM |
| 10 | Ask Women sub discusses "Have you ever dated a red pill man""TRP" isn't a type of guy anyway. This sub is mostly about discussion and learning how the world works. There are plenty of betas here, plenty of alpha fucks and everything inbetween. There is no set 'type of male' and even if you internalized everything the sub taught it wouldn't create a specific type of person, just a person that looks out for themselves and sees the world with eyes wide open. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/15 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Past is the past, well... is it?Its sad, but thats a conservative number these days. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/15 04:18 AM |
| 5 | Past is the past, well... is it?I know it's possible, but it's not common. It's very uncommon, most women particularly in their early 20s have ONS to get over breakups. These days if you're 23 I would say 10 partners is very conservative and probably within the boundaries of normal. Of course, a lot of women know that so they tell their boyfriends around 10 even if the number is much higher. It must be hard to pick a "lie number" because it has to be high enough to be believable but low enough to not offend. Surely the women t… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/15 04:22 PM |
| 1 | TRP and the "Be Yourself" advice: A RP perspective on the traditional female advice.Women say that because they're not giving you advice on how to be a better version of yourself, they're giving you advice on how to be transparent so they can decide for themselves if they want to date you. Its bad for women to teach you how to pretend to be more confident. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/15 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Past is the past, well... is it?What does /r/theredpill think the magic number is that women will tell you that allows their hamster to think she's telling enough? For instance, if they've had 50 partners, will they say 15? Surely most think guys won't believe say 5. Because what you said is completely correct, there comes a point that guys basically just don't care although 30 sounds like someone who sleeps around and 250 is some kind of mental disorder. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/15 03:42 PM |
| 1 | This is how I internalized TRPI agree that orbiting looks like hard work. These guys keep up the attention for years, sometimes decades with no obvious progress. Even in my beta days I never did it because I was lazy. It does "pay off" for some of them. But Jesus they are committed. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/15 04:07 PM |
| 25 | Sometimes, when people get upset at you, it means you're on the right trackWomen all say this shit. But if you actually ask them what they mean by muscular most are talking bodybuilder/power lifter type 'muscular'. What most guys associate as fit and ripped women don't even describe as muscular. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/15 03:13 PM |
| 5 | Sometimes, when people get upset at you, it means you're on the right trackAdd to the post Bitterness from women you're not interested in. When you substantially increase your SMV there will always be women who saw you on or below their level before, but now you see them below your level. They will nearly always hit on you when this happens (as they see you as attainable) but you're no longer interested. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/15 03:12 PM |
| 8 | Text Game: Be the Man Who Doesn't ReplyDon't care. I reply when I want not when they want me to. I don't need to hide | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/15 02:18 PM |
| -2 | Text Game: Be the Man Who Doesn't Replyand I notice the smarter ones catch on (as you intimate here). I They know you're not replying. They read the little 'read' messages. They will often comment that you read the texts at 6am but don't reply till 6pm. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/15 11:53 AM |
| 5 | Text Game: Be the Man Who Doesn't ReplyI mix it up to give myself more authenticity. You cant always be late replying texts. She'll notice, adjust her own texts accordingly and then the conversation wont have an ebb and flow to it.. Its fine to reply to texts quickly if they're in a time you should be free. Say from 8pm on a weeknight or something. But sitting there all day texting her back and forward is just a huge waste of your own time and really does show you have nothing better to do. Also, girls love to fish for info.The same … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/15 11:50 AM |
| 26 | Text Game: Be the Man Who Doesn't ReplyYep. Its amazing how much difference actually working fulltime and going to the gym after work improved my text game. I don't reply all day because I don't have time to reply. Its also good to get in the habit of flat out ignoring women seeking validation. Have a boyfriend or not a reasonable prospect? No reply. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/15 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Withdrawing emotional validation earns you more respect.Very true. Not thread worthy | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/15 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Women and 'friendships'.Its quite common actually that if you deny their friendship attempts they will come back and start pushing for more. Women hate rejection, they are not used to being dumped. 80% of the dumping I would say is done by women, its just the way it works, they find someone to branch swing and dump their unexpecting boyfriend. But like you said, most guys will continue to try and hang around her. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/15 02:34 AM |
| 3 | Male Strippers Giving Insight Into Their ExperiencesAlso part of not cheating is not putting yourself in situations where it becomes more likely you'll cheat. Alcohol+a sexually fuelled atmosphere is a bad recipe for a potential disaster. Probably the least understood truth of relationships. Women always put the trust card when you have comment on them putting themselves in potential compromised situations. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/15 01:10 AM |
| 3 | Women and 'friendships'.Not that the other responses are incorrect, in most situations they are, but I get the feeling this is more bridging the actual truth in my specific circumstances. Its like they see 'well we're still friends' as a 'happy' ending or a 'successful' breakup. Not keeping in touch by contrast is some sort of 'negative' ending and implies bitterness and failure. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/15 06:11 AM |
| 12 | Sex is not that goodTo have really great mind blowing sex you have to have an emotional connection. If you're out there being a player having ONSs you're not going to experience this. It also dulls with the more people you experience it with. I remember when I got into my first proper LTR in my early 20s the sex was significantly better. But for every successive relationship that thrill reduces, to the point that its just 'eh' now. Sometimes it comes across as more of a chore. I don't think it helps that society po… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 04:49 AM |
| 1 | "The Friendzone is an Insult"; an alternative viewBoth sentiments are true. You should make yourself a man that doesn't get friendzoned, but should you get friendzoned regardless you should take it as an attack on character and not something to take sitting down. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 02:06 AM |
| 8 | Your Blue Pill Friends Will Turn On YouIts very true. I've had friends outright stab me in the back trying to get with women I've dated. Its pathetic. Any guy who idiolizes 'true love' or any of that nonsense is not friend material. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/15 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Men Just Don't Trust Women -- And It's A Huge Problem [HuffPo male hamster comes close to RP truth]The overreaction is possibly contributed to by the fact they really CAN'T handle the situation - even a trivial one - and this is how anybody will "help" them. Men jump to their assistance all their life. I know women with low SMV who are very self sufficient. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/15 12:23 AM |
| 8 | Men Just Don't Trust Women -- And It's A Huge Problem [HuffPo male hamster comes close to RP truth]Yep. Spot on. Notice how basically every woman has a sob story when you first meet? Of course, later down the track you learn its usually of her own causing. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/15 12:23 AM |
| 6 | Men Just Don't Trust Women -- And It's A Huge Problem [HuffPo male hamster comes close to RP truth]They overreact to meaningless shit but underreact to important things. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/15 12:21 AM |
| 6 | Do women have worse reasoning skills than men?I know some very intelligent women. The thing with women is they don't tend to develop accurate reasoning because they don't have to. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/15 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Successful man got cheated on, he stood up for himself.I especially love that he kept calm and calmly drove her to the airport instead of screaming "I hate you!" like a baby and kicking her to the curb. Sometimes a small amount of effort saves you a lot of hassle in the long run. I'll never understand why guys are insistent on causing drama in these situations. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/15 03:45 PM |
| 5 | How do you deal with the shit test of being 'controlling'.I agree completely. I'm not actually talking about a current woman I'm dating, rather just a general experience having had plenty of girlfriends in past. What you said is absolutely on point and its true if you want a relationship to succeed you need that detached 'next' mentality. But the problem is, and I'm not exaggerating, every woman I've dated and every woman any of my friends have dated has had this kind of mentality. I don't think its a matter of simply 'choosing' someone not like this, … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/15 06:22 AM |
| 4 | How do you deal with the shit test of being 'controlling'.Yep. I agree with everything you say, and I know its the truth and how to enact it, but relationships tend to go like slippery slopes with that kind of thing. Boundaries that she won't push initially, after 6 months will get pushed. Women when they start relationships basically turn into house creatures, they don't want to leave, but that only lasts so long, no matter how desirable you are. The problem is, in my view setting 'boundaries' seems beta. If you say to her "you shouldn't be hanging ou… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/15 05:25 AM |
| 5 | Never spend more on something than other people have in the past.Unfortunately women tend to expect you to spend more than their past partners. I'm not saying you should, but women see their value going up with their options, not down. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/15 02:29 PM |
| 4 | Girl on AskMen admits that women lie about their partner count.They lie about everything because so many dipshit betas believe anything they spiel Its true. Women are notoriously poor liars because most men will just believe anything they say and if it doesn't make sense just do their best to ignore the lie to be 'trusting'. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/15 10:19 AM |
| 12 | Girl on AskMen admits that women lie about their partner count.Its usually fairly obvious by their personalities and lifestyles. There is no real way to know, but a girl who lives in the club in her mid 20s has had 30+ sexual partners easily. Someone who loves to read and libraries, has lived at her parents her whole life? Probably a lot less than that. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/15 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Girl on AskMen admits that women lie about their partner count.This right here is the only real way you can get a vague guesstimate. Most women will talk about guys from their past fairly regularly, no idea why for something that 'doesn't matter' but they don't tend to keep it to themselves. You can usually have a pretty good idea by working out what stories are about different men. Of course its not always completely obvious, but you get the idea. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/15 10:17 AM |
| 2 | Girl on AskMen admits that women lie about their partner count.This right here is the only real way you can get a vague guesstimate. Most women will talk about guys from their past fairly regularly, no idea why for something that 'doesn't matter' but they don't tend to keep it to themselves. You can usually have a pretty good idea by working out what stories are about different men. Of course its not always completely obvious, but you get the idea. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/15 10:17 AM |
| 7 | Girl on AskMen admits that women lie about their partner count.Betas only have 1 count per relationship. They don't screw around. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/15 10:12 AM |
| 2 | The harrowing tale of the beta about to marry my plateThey don't realize that they were probably decent dudes the whole time who just had shitty self-awareness, so they couldn't play into those strengths which they never knew they had. The guy in this story sounds like he has a lot of strengths, and he uses them to bench a rusty 25 lb bar using bad form. I find most guys are occasionally incidentally RP. But often by accident, they 'don't care' about a woman because they are talking to multiple people at once, they make a harsh joke that is very of… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/15 07:47 AM |
| 2 | Maybe there was a blatant double standard, maybe it was because it was her friend. I'll report, you decide.Women are constantly hypocritical with what counts for physical attractiveness. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 11:27 PM |
| 1 | You are the buyer.Yep. Just as an exotic care salesman wouldn't bother talking too someone who shops at Target the same goes of Women. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 12:57 AM |
| -1 | Stop idolizing your family, they're regular people too, and they're probably not good models for RP behaviorMost families are like the worst example of RP behavior you can find. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/15 12:54 AM |
| 6 | "Marry Him": A book overflowing with RedPill Truths...and it's authored by a womanPeople on here say '30th birthday' a lot. But by 30 most women have morphed into complete shopping mall mums. Most women are on the way down after 24. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/15 06:18 AM |
| 6 | "Marry Him": A book overflowing with RedPill Truths...and it's authored by a womanMen sit here laughing "Ha ha silly women how can they not realize" but it would be the same for us if the tables were turned. I often find myself looking back at 19 year old me and thinking why I didn't just hit on women, be non caring and next them if they weren't interested. You have a habit of seeing your own value as the now, not some other time. Women don't know better because they've never experienced anything else. Ask any guy who has lost his job (its happened to me before) and he'll tel… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/15 12:15 AM |
| 1 | How does TRP see more 'traditional' relationships that fit neither AF or BB?Yep it's true. But my point is more these guys provide fucks and bucks | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/15 01:03 PM |
| 1 | How does TRP see more 'traditional' relationships that fit neither AF or BB?Want a relationship like OP described? Start at AF, spin plates, and LTR up the best plate. I don't really want it at all, I don't find the relationship arrangement enjoyable. I just found that a lot of guys I went to college with dated the high level girls and they stayed with them. These guys aren't beta bucks, but they are rich and attractive. In fact most guys from wealthy families I know have spent most of their time locked down in LTRs. These guys aren't beta at all, most of them do whatev… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/15 08:37 AM |
| 2 | How does TRP see more 'traditional' relationships that fit neither AF or BB?The problem I've always had with these girls is that they seem to be looking for just any man instead of a good one. These girls have serious trouble being on their own and that alone is a big red flag. Very very true. They are just trying to get a man locked down. They typically have the 'through college' LTR and then the 'post college' LTR when they actually get a job and see themselves as more sophisticated hence deserving better. Its funny, for all the trading up TRP talks about a lot of wom… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/15 08:35 AM |
| 6 | Womens need for biological children/selfishness/expiration datesrelationships are a far better deal for women than they are for men, that's why they're so obsessed with them. They use us for our strength, they lean on us, they take our resources - and if they deplete us to a point of weakness: they discard us. You're no longer "man enough." Women are the biggest shit test nature ever threw at man, most men would find it easier to get to the moon than properly understand and manage a woman. Thank goodness for the collective brain power of men everywhere and w… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/15 06:02 AM |
| 3 | Hypergamy, pain, and jealousy made me the great man I am today.Its a pretty good fire test really for how they're doing. I'm not sure how far you can take it because most women aren't petty enough to actually write to you with this kind of stuff. You can usually tell to a certain extent based on future interactions with them, if they're warm and accommodating to you they probably still respect you. If they're cold and uninterested they have traded up and want nothing to do with you. Women who have gotten a better deal typically aren't interested in knowing … | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/15 01:34 AM |
| 4 | The red pill context-> red pill awareness in blue pill context: "I'm going to use my new RP knowledge to find the one". Doesn't work. Spot on, on the 'unconditional love' part. I do think that if you want someone to date long term after internalizing all of this you can use RP knowledge to find a suitable woman. She'd probably be less 'hot' and more 'cute', not have been to college and gone through the sorority stage, had either a long term relationship or very little experience, has a down to earth family with a s… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/15 03:12 PM |
| 1 | The red pill contextThe point is you shouldn't 'hate' a slut you should use it to decide her appropriateness for a relationship. Just like a bank will look at your past credit history your history sticks like glue. I see a lot of people really confused about why they shouldn't like women who sleep around, there is nothing necessarily against them as people (although, I do find a common stereotype they do exhibit low value traits in most areas of lives. These women often can't lock a guy down for a reason) but merel… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/15 03:09 PM |
| 3 | Why I no longer read TRP.I think a lot of young men idolize women, thinking they'll fix their problems. But when you get there and actually get a girlfriend it feels like a trap, you try and keep her happy but the goalposts shift constantly. (Yes, this is BP speaking, I'm not talking about a plate i'm talking about a 'we're a couple!' type relationships). I lost a lot of the interest in women when I kind of learnt that they don't live up to my expectations. I spent a lot of my early 20s hunting for a woman who met what … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Why I no longer read TRP.I've always thought that the idea of chasing women as a form of lifestyle is as bad as the sluts people mock. Dependent on external validation. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 01:29 PM |
| 4 | Being possessive over women is your own worst enemyYep. There is nothing in "sure, go hang out one on one with the guy friend". That shit is getting you no were. But you need to be confident when you tell them no, that confidence makes or breaks the situation. You need to let them know its not a discussion and you're not negotiating, they can take it or leave it. Of course you have to peg your own reasonability level, too harsh and you appear insecure, too weak and you just look like a pushover. Women will test these boundaries all the time, whe… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 07:29 AM |
| 5 | Being possessive over women is your own worst enemyThere is no point being possessive with women, they resent you for it. its pretty simply, if they are good towards you you keep them, if not you dump them. Nothing in between, you can't 'logic' them into behaving better. The problem is women have a habit of pushing boundaries just to the point you'll tolerate it. Its like you have a line of what constitutes behaviour you don't tolerate and they dance as close to that line as they can. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/03/15 07:27 AM |
| 1 | [FR]: You only exist to women if they want something from youThats very true. I just didn't want it to come across as a subtle brag. I've known this woman well for atleast 5 years, we grew up in the same town and she married an at the time 'alpha' jock husband. She's in her late 20s but during school she was one of the 'hot' popular women so I was a bit taken a back when out of the blue she asked me out for drinks. So again, I wasn't really sure her intention. Her husband is attractive and has a job. It just seemed really odd and it was totally out of the… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/15 03:24 AM |
| 3 | [FR]: You only exist to women if they want something from youIts rarely that simple with women. She has a good husband, she likely just wants validation. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 06:32 AM |
| 9 | [FR]: You only exist to women if they want something from youPerhaps the women who were married and just had kids respectfully declined because their going out with another man is unsavory Exactly. I'd never ask a married woman to hang out. Although I have often worried what it means when that type of woman wants to hang out. Last week I had a married woman at work ask to go out and get drinks after work, I was taken aback. I still don't really know what she wanted. I declined. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 02:19 AM |
| 6 | [FR]: You only exist to women if they want something from youMen appreciate good advice and friendship, its a hard thing to find in the world. Either women aren't a good judge of these thing, or they simply don't value it at all. They want more. Friendship to them has very very low value. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 02:17 AM |
| 2 | The Red Pill On InsecuritiesEveryone has insecurities, sure. But the thing you need to learn is protect, don't project those insecurities. Keep them internal to you, don't talk about them or look for others to make them go away. It will just make them far worse. They're only a weakness if you show them. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Growing up Beta: Dealing with Disrespect from High School FriendsThe problem with high school friends is they will nearly always view you as they viewed you in high school. People don't tend to update their views on others that easily, first impressions count. So if you've undergone great personal change since that point chances are your 'friends' will still view themselves as 'superior' to you. Nearly exclusively the best thing to do with highschool friends is just to not see them and not associate with them, the person you are in your mid 20s is so differen… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 02:10 AM |
| 11 | She doesn't want your help. Stop offering.Women need chaos and vent about it. Even if she asks for help, it's likely she just wants you to do everything, not explain it to her. You're supposed to be a rock that she can hold onto in her stormy seas of emotion. If you do it, she will be thankful even though she may not say it. Yeah exactly. They don't want you to explain it to them, they want you to make the bad feelings go away. Often "It'll be ok" is usually the best tool. But even then, you're falling into the trap of giving women what… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 02:06 AM |
| 8 | She doesn't want your help. Stop offering.Very good post. Even ignoring the 'she just wants attention, not your help' stuff, which mostly is true, consider the complete opposite point of view to what she wants; what you want. The problem with helping people like this is that you make it your problem. Now the problem itself may be something thats relatively simple to solve. But you've now established yourself as the 'master of solving that area of issues'. For instance, if you help her move once, you'll probably be asked to help her move… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 02:04 AM |
| 1 | A Cause For Concern - 27 personality traits to avoid in women.Lets be fair, any girl that goes to clubs on a regular basis is going to cheat or do something that she wouldn't do with you there. While I agree, that 'controlling her' is going to make the problem arise much sooner, the problem is still there. Sometimes its just best to crash and burn with that type of thing. Whats the difference between it ending in a week or a month really. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 03:16 PM |
| -2 | A Cause For Concern - 27 personality traits to avoid in women.Na, not at all. I've seen perfectly good parents pump out entitled brat children. Sure the parents aren't perfect, but they're decent people and no doubt tried to raise a decent kid. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 03:12 PM |
| 1 | A Cause For Concern - 27 personality traits to avoid in women.It has more to say about modern women than anything else. You should recognize these traits and you should associate them with women who you have dated and it 'hasn't worked out with'. When you really internalize these things you can actually predict how a relationships will go. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 03:10 PM |
| 1 | A Cause For Concern - 27 personality traits to avoid in women.Its unreasonable these days to expect every woman's parents to still be together, but parental relationships unless the parents are toxic is usually very important. The more vague and difficult to explain the reason they don't get along, the more likely there are severe personality issues. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 03:09 PM |
| 3 | A Cause For Concern - 27 personality traits to avoid in women.The problem is, women often hold this view but don't live their lifestyle in a way befitting of 'true love' or 'the one'. So they have ridiculous expectations... of you. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/15 03:06 PM |
| 4 | I'm so proud of the reddit-whiteknights turning on Feminism.I literally just mashed the keyboard. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 06:56 AM |
| -1 | I'm so proud of the reddit-whiteknights turning on Feminism.I'm sure some of them do want equality as a whole. But they're just not aware of the advantages they already have. You speak to women about these things and they look at you like you're mad. Even non feminists, they just don't see that males don't have the world exactly like they do. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 06:55 AM |
| 19 | I'm so proud of the reddit-whiteknights turning on Feminism.Feminism isnt about equality, its about creating as much benefit for women as possible. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 04:39 AM |
| 3 | Thought I Found A Unicorn & Starting Showing My Feelings - Got BurnedNearly every man thinks they've found a unicorn every time they get into a relationship. Its more they're just not looking closely. Nothing in your post really says much about her as a woman, rather just she lost attraction over time. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/15 03:24 AM |
| 1 | An interesting case of a famous (super high SMV) woman trying to make me her orbiter, and how I plan to deal with it.If I ever get the inkling a woman I associate with is trying to make me her orbiter I just ignore her for a while. Quite literally just don't speak to her, walk past her. If she engages you speak to her, but put no effort in. Their utter shock is always worth it. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 03:18 PM |
| 1 | [Slight FR] My oh my, women have a skewed perception on "average".Average to women means 'datable'. Your just the normal guy they would date, decent looking, job, desirable etc. Below average to them is practically not datable. They'd rather be single and fuck the occasional 'average' guy by their own standards than date a 'below average' guy. Women aren't dumb, they know that the guys in the 7.5/10 range who are very desirable are still very thirsty and desperate. Most of them have pretty poor social skills and confidence so if the woman pushes the issue they… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/15 05:47 AM |
| 5 | How to change a former oneitis that you orbited into a plate.Its really not that hard, when you improve yourself and withdraw your attention they often come back looking for it. At that point you can escalate or withdraw again. Most women I tried to get with in my beta days showed interest once I got a bit older and drastically changed my lifestyle and attitude. But you really have to not care. Not caring is the key. If you're still interested in them you're way too invested. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/15 02:49 PM |
| -2 | Advice on building your social life and network in your mid 20s and onwards.I would say don't. Focus on your career and when you're successful people will find you. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/15 05:03 AM |
| 4 | The most important lesson I have gained from TRP (thus far): shit testsYoung Adults who have poor relationships with their family often have the whole 'rebellious' thing going on "I'm not doing what you tell me dad!" and they tend to carry it over to all of their social interactions, the thing is that attitude will inevitably transfer over towards you when you disagree on something. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/15 04:50 AM |
| 1 | So my girlfriend dumped me about a week ago.Being insecure about women liking you for money is like being women being insecure about men liking them because they're attractive. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/15 12:07 AM |
| 5 | The most important lesson I have gained from TRP (thus far): shit testsTypically yeah. Women with good relationships with parents are well adjusted generally. But thats not always the case, parents can be religious which doesn't create women you want to date, even if they actually have a good relationship. Some of the girls from screwed up families can be the most 'fun' to date as they generally have a chip on their shoulder and are adventurous. But they're not for relationships. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/15 12:03 AM |
| 3 | As a man you can never 'own' someone else's accomplishments or wealth. Thats what separates the sex's, we only get what we earn.Family wealth (once it has been passed to you) is the rare exception. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/15 11:53 PM |
| 29 | As a man you can never 'own' someone else's accomplishments or wealth. Thats what separates the sex's, we only get what we earn.I've never had issue with helping the weak, the red pill teaches to be strong so you don't need it. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/15 03:09 PM |
| 3 | As a man you can never 'own' someone else's accomplishments or wealth. Thats what separates the sex's, we only get what we earn.I have no issue with equality at all, women should have every right that men have. We don't want to go "back" to the days of old because you can guarantee human nature was no different. It's just important that men understand that with equality of laws and skewed social traditions that they are at a disadvantage. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/15 02:57 PM |
| 36 | As a man you can never 'own' someone else's accomplishments or wealth. Thats what separates the sex's, we only get what we earn.Lets not try and make it about politics. While I do agree that females genuinely prefer the wellfare state (as their life somewhat resembles it) its not as simple as to class the left and right as good and bad like that. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/15 02:46 PM |
| 5 | Staying at home is the hardest job....Its just parroting that women do to make themselves feel important. They love it when you tell them you're impressed with their work ethic. I mean, it takes a real superhuman to drag a crying child around with you while you get coffee with your friends at the mall. Man what a strenuous life. You mean the kid needs changing while you're trying to watch TV and iron at the same home? Jesus how much do people ask of you! The thing I get least with women is they want children. All they talk about is … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/15 02:14 PM |
| 7 | How TRP has changed my relationships with my parentsIts hard to think of a specific test with mothers. But in general women who 'shit test' you will do things to test your frame. Its often qualifiers, like implying you're not very good at something to see how you react, or aiming a small insult in your direction. Women do this in basically every aspect of society in order to establish social hierarchy. If you're super offended and seem bothered by their attacks they know that you're not a strong male. Stuff like "Ok, well I'm not going to talk to… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/15 02:03 PM |
| 3 | How TRP has changed my relationships with my parentsHe's got to do what he's got to do. There is nothing alpha about being homeless. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/15 01:43 PM |
| 8 | How TRP has changed my relationships with my parentsCareful, brother... Don't be the man that fills your fathers role in your mothers life. It's not your job to fill that spot, and it can be unhealthy... I was thinking this. Do not be friends with your mother. Mothers have incredibly bad advice on basically every issue, they are beta to the core, they even have active alpha child defence that anytime you do anything close to improving your SMV they will put up walls to try and stop it. They want good beta boys to raise beta grandkids. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/15 01:42 PM |
| 2 | How TRP has changed my relationships with my parentsThe guys who didn't give into the feminised society likely aren't dads. Or if they are they're not any major factor in their kids lives. No men who see through this want the prison that is marriage. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/15 01:39 PM |
| 7 | How TRP has changed my relationships with my parentsYour mom is the only girl who will always love you While I think this is to some extent true, mothers can be completely obnoxious too, just like any female. They raise you so that you can fulfill their dreams, being something to share in common with their friends, to continue the family legacy. Basically by the time you turn 25 they expect you to reward their effort. Its far from no strings attached. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/15 01:38 PM |
| 4 | How TRP has changed my relationships with my parentsIf its any consolation, I don't think many fathers teach their kids to be men. Most men in modern society seem to live by distractions, completely unfulfilled by their bossy wives that they themselves don't feel like men. I can understand it, that feeling when you accomplish something independently, that freedom of buying a car and just taking it out on the road to your home. Its empowering. That is what most men start out life like, but by the time you've semi grown up that you can use their gu… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/15 01:35 PM |
| 12 | How TRP has changed my relationships with my parentsThere is a pretty common fallacy on here about mothers and their children, that there is unconditional love and all that. Its simply not true, atleast not that I've witnessed. The biggest shit tests I've experienced are from my mother (and grandmother). They will pick you to bits and they want you to stand up to them and show you're above it. The thing is its very difficult while you live at home, only once you support yourself and your parents want your company can you have that kind of respect… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/15 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Reddit and mainstream cuckoldryhe ironic thing about betas pushing slut acceptance is that they don't get to partake in the rewards. Women are actually very blind to the fact that finding sex is harder for men, these guys often associate with women and women from personal experience think that finding sex for men is the same as for women. So if you can't find it easily, you must be a complete loser. Most of them are effectively guilted into that chain of thought from what I've seen. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/15 09:01 AM |
| 3 | Reddit and mainstream cuckoldryTeachers not only spend all day together, but their timetables are fairly flexible. How many teacher information nights do you see with no specific timeline. Plus if they're at work after hours they often have gigantic buildings that are completely deserted. I knew the teachers at my school had several teaching lounges, far more than there are teachers thats for sure. Most of them had affairs with one another. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/15 08:58 AM |
| 1 | Reddit and mainstream cuckoldryI take most of what is said on here as exaggeration. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/15 08:52 AM |
| 3 | Reddit and mainstream cuckoldryThe even remotely attractive women aren't participating in that photo | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/15 08:51 AM |
| 5 | Reddit and mainstream cuckoldryIts a pretty common attitude actually. I remember I used to be told that lie when I was younger, but even before I had the vaguest idea what I was doing I knew it was bullshit. Do guys actually believe that her staying around means they 'win' or is it their own bullshit justification? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/15 08:49 AM |
| 5 | Reddit and mainstream cuckoldryThey still don't really understand whats going on. Its inbred into most men that they should bare most of the costs. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/15 08:46 AM |
| 10 | Violence in lesbian relationships is higher than heterosexual relationships.They don't seem to want to separate. It's like they both enjoy the emotional roller coaster. Women love purposely starting conflict. This doesn't surprise me. I think its one of the main reason men get sick of relationships with them, they're always hunting for fresh drama. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/15 10:56 PM |
| 4 | The growth of /r/TheRedPill from 0 to 100,000 subscribersWhenever you read mention of TRP on other sites it has all of those stereotypes that don't actually live up to reality. "They hate women" "They're all sad assholes". I don't really see any of that, very few things posted here don't pass the common sense test. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/15 12:21 AM |
| 10 | For the newbies: Why women criticize the gaming industry as being sexist yet have no issues with Hip Hop, 50 Shades of Grey, etc.Thats a very good point. Its not just that women don't themselves change their status without sexual desire, but I think a lot of them don't really understand what status means for a woman. They chase male status indicators, wealth, social popularity and control but they don't realize this doesn't actually entice men, sometimes its a turn off. How many women do you hear loudly proclaim how many friends they have? Because for men this is a huge demonstration of social advantage and control, but m… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/15 03:40 AM |
| 5 | For the newbies: Why women criticize the gaming industry as being sexist yet have no issues with Hip Hop, 50 Shades of Grey, etc.There is another element. Women are always strongly against anything that servers mens desire for women but isn't actually women. Its why you will hear them talk out against Porn so abhorrently, women know that if you can get sexual desires filled by a 'virtual woman' it reduces their power and ability to manipulate. There is a huge anti porn movement that it reduces 'motivation' for men, but from what I've seen it more just makes men more content to be single. Women know their main product is s… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/15 03:36 AM |
| 29 | Radio silence is golden.I've found girls will come back, or atleast initiate contact 50% of the time or more if you just ignore them. But it has other benefits, it maintains dignity (not begging for her back) and you may just find you really don't give a fuck after a few weeks anyway. I find there are roughly two time frames women decide to reach out, the initial "i've made a mistake, maybe he has higher value than me" in 3-5 days and the "Ok, grass isn't greener" 3 month point. There are simply no downsides to not con… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/15 04:21 AM |
| 39 | Radio silence is golden.Most guys don't get this. If a girl ever cuts contact and you want her back you cut contact with her. It doesn't work 100% of the time, but assuming she's attracted to you there is a fair chance she'll initiate. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/15 02:08 AM |
| 1 | "Guys never hit on me"Thats exactly right, that is what they do. They try and get a boyfriend on lockdown but keep the string just lose enough so that they are free to do as they please. You will notice they always negotiate internally in the relationship to be free to go out with their single female friends and do as they wish. A lot of them don't work, atleast full time so they have a lot of spare time while their boyfriend provides for them. I don't really see the point in locking down a girlfriend at your age, or… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/15 05:03 AM |
| 0 | Corey Worthington, 16 year old Australian, shows you how to hold frame like a man In the face of aggressive women.The thing is I don't think he's sitting there thinking "I must hold frame". He just doesn't care what she has to say. She has no authority over him. He's most likely getting paid for that interview. She's just turning it into a power struggle so she can bully him around and tell him what to do. Acting like his mother. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/15 01:00 AM |
| 39 | "Guys never hit on me"Always be wary of women who claim they want a quite, settled down kind of life. You can be guaranteed they'll grow tired of it very quick. A lot of men really do just want a 'life partner' that will be there when they get home from work. No woman in their 20s is happy with this lifestyle. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/15 12:57 AM |
| 1 | There's no PC way to phrase this and I feel like this is the only subreddit that will understand this- just tell me how to be a jerk.Agreed. Jerk just means has options at the end of the day. The way that men behave when they have options women label as 'a jerk'. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 03:49 PM |
| 3 | There's no PC way to phrase this and I feel like this is the only subreddit that will understand this- just tell me how to be a jerk.Women don't tend to go 'for jerks' anyway. They go for attractive confident men. Those men could be incredibly nice to everyone and one of the most genuine people you'll meet but they would still be attracted. The reason the stereotype is they go 'for jerks' is that they go for high quality men who have lots of choices. Those men inevitably grow bored of them and go screw some other woman or simply don't give them the attention they think they deserve. Immediately they are labelled a 'jerk' by h… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 03:48 PM |
| 5 | Realistic ExpectationsAmen. That's the thing I don't get at the end of the day past maybe some satisfaction banging a 7 is no different at all to a 9. Guys put in huge efforts of work to gain basically nothing. Its not like an expensive car that's faster, its just the same. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/15 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Empathy is reserved for men already doing well.Everyone is out to get what they want. I'm even of the strong opinion that charity donations are never about helping others, it's all about giving yourself a sense of calmness for doing good. Absolutely in some cases. Why do you think people post they're meagre donations on facebook? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/15 01:08 AM |
| 4 | Empathy is reserved for men already doing well.I already had worked out for years, but you'd be surprised what a different haircut, a different wardrobe and a different frame (centered around self-respect) can do. Now, a few months later with a different group of female friends, girls try and set me up all the time. The more I refuse the more they see me as worthy of the effort. I'd be angry if it didn't make perfect sense. Its important to break out of the original group, because often you change but they stay the same. I made the same mist… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/15 01:05 AM |
| 65 | Empathy is reserved for men already doing well.Empathy at the end of the day is really just 'You're a high quality person overcoming a temporary problem'. Very few have empathy for those who have hit rock bottom, they just become inhuman. Applies to both men and women. People picture in their head a reasonably attractive women overcoming their (often self inflicted) issues, but the female equivalent of no value is the 400lbs woman with no SMV at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/15 12:00 PM |
| 8 | Interesting /relationships post detailing the hamster/how being comfortable is the death of attraction.Women always get very anxious that their social power from their looks is on the downward spiral. Thats why they are always fishing for compliments, so they can tell themselves they still have 'it'. Its why women get utterly offended when you reply something like "I think you're beautiful regardless". She generally isn't concerned what you think, she knows you're attracted to her, she's concerned with her general social power. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/15 02:41 AM |
| 2 | Pro surfer texting your model girlfriend? Better call him out on live TVIt does happen I agree. But the easiest solution is just don't respond to the text messages. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/15 12:18 AM |
| 39 | Pro surfer texting your model girlfriend? Better call him out on live TVAny guy who tells another to 'stay away from his girlfriend' is already in a bad bad situation. He's basically saying he doesn't trust his girlfriend and trying to neutralize the threat, the relationship is already in a poor position and probably about to fail. If he's got her number to text then no doubt she has a fairly solid interest level. I mean the guy is good looking famous and likely rich, I can't imagine why she wouldn't compared to the MTV douche. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/15 03:45 PM |
| 51 | How many of you tried numerous relationships and found they're just not for you?It does seem to be the case. I think prison is a good analogy, because a relationship feels like a trap. Its like you're forever juggling any spare time between getting the very few basic things done and entertaining her. I made the mistake in more recent girlfriends of living with them, thats 100x worse. You never feel comfortable, your home is not your home, its her home and she now has your attention on tap every second of every day. I just do not get what people see in relationships. Most co… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/15 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel women use sexuality to gain an advantage in every aspect of their life?Women will regularly do that. I've seen it happen to me, I've seen it happen to my friends. Obese women somehow have a natural confidence to them, more so than most fairly decent looking guys even. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/15 08:26 AM |
| 4 | Do you feel women use sexuality to gain an advantage in every aspect of their life?I suspect the men answering that quiz have been socially conditioned to answer no. Are they really saying that only 20% of men are aroused by the prospect of fucking a different woman to their gf? I highly doubt that. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/15 03:22 AM |
| 2 | "Why women leave the men they love" by author W. HamsterBoth sexes can rationalize (after all, we aren't logic-bots). Women tend to take it to another level, though. Women are incredible at constructing realities which nothing is their own fault. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/15 01:55 PM |
| 4 | Females loathe men of low value.Society teaches them they want it. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/15 12:58 AM |
| 10 | Females loathe men of low value.In modern society Alpha doesn't necessarily mean better genetic quality. Women still select mostly on the factors that would have been important 20,000 years ago, strength, height, agility, muscle tone, weight etc. Intelligence which is a more important quality in modern society means basically nothing for female selection. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/15 10:37 AM |
| 13 | Females loathe men of low value.We impregnate a low value woman: ok, so what? The kid will have some shitty genes from his mother but we are ok. We just move on to the next woman. I've always seen this as why men are less 'picky'. If you ask most guys, they don't always try and find a 'better woman'. If she's decently good looking thats good enough. There isn't necessarily a benefit from jumping from say a 7 to a 9. Men kind of date with a 'good enough' state of mind. Women are on the other hand always trying to upgrade, more … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/15 03:27 AM |
| 26 | Females loathe men of low value.Yeah can't stand white knights. A lot of beta males are surprisingly bitter at women. They understand the situation, they just have no interest in changing it. I'm not really sure if an 'awaken' beta is really a beta. I have nothing against low value men who understand the game and choose not to play. What I despise is the "Why can't I get a girlfriend, I'm really nice" guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/15 03:24 AM |
| 44 | Females loathe men of low value.because beta males are often really good people. They look out for you, sometimes they're even really fun to hang with (although some can be bland and boring as fuck). As a friend unless you're looking for social proof I try not to discriminate against them. I know people say you should befriend 'high SMV' males to help you, but I've always figured that makes us no better than them... | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/15 01:39 AM |
| 1 | The Toxic Nature of Female Beauty - Become Immuneand every time we gawk or stare or act a fool over her, we're increasing her value. Exactly the view I take. If you act like those other guys you're just adding too it. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/15 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Special SnowflakesI'm not sure if its my experience, but the very hot gym women tend to be very approachable. They are often less stuck up than the 6's you see out in the wild. I don't have a explanation as to why this might be or anything. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/15 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Why women shit test.I wouldn't say that. There is a difference between disagreement and frame testing, being trying to provoke you to see how you stand up. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/15 01:14 AM |
| 8 | Why women shit test.Women don't just do it when you're dating. They do it to all men. I've had women 40 years my senior shit test me. Hell, even family members do. If you associate with women, they will do it. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/15 01:07 PM |
| 5 | Why women shit test.Women know you're doing it. They have a certain "prodding" radar. Ask the same questions a few times from different angles and they'll see what you're trying to do. If you want to do this you have to be sly. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/15 01:06 PM |
| 11 | Doesn't matter if you've provided for her for 30 years, women aren't loyal.Women will always see you as disposable. A friend of mine recently friend zoned himself hardcore with this girl. He done everything he could to be the nice guy, bought her gifts, spent weekends with her. He wasn't getting laid. This went on for a good six months and just when she just packed up and moved six hours away without even telling him. The point? You're just a stepping stone. Unless they're super invested they will just leave when they get a better option. The best thing to do is know i… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 01:38 PM |
| 4 | What are women good for? [Serious]Emotionally and physically bonding with women is wonderful; the endorphin release from said bonds is also part of good mental health. Emotionally bonding is great if it leads to physical intimacy. The problem is many men do this and get friendzoned. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 12:14 AM |
| -1 | What are women good for? [Serious]The women I know generally cook better than men (not that men can't, but at least in my circles, there are more fantastic female cooks). Generally due to men not cooking so they have no experience in it. I've seen women cook, I don't believe that most men who applied a skill couldn't do a better job. Women also generally have no understanding of nutrition and hamster their way through the process. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Women are ChildrenIts useful if you're trying to prove a point to someone else and they just abort the conversation, but god help you if you're trying to prove a point to them. Its one of the very frustrating things about arguing with women, there always has to be time periods inserted. So they'll argue, but then insist on ceasing the argument for hours/days and reengaging it. I assume its a tactic they use that because they know you'll tire of it eventually they try and drag anything out as long as possible. Men… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Women are ChildrenMy understanding of it, not necessarily in a work environment, but just in a general environment is when you're trying to discuss something with them or make a point, but instead of answering you or having a form of debate they just sit there and stare off into space. They don't want to engage with you on an intellectual level. So you're given two options, to continue to try and discuss this with them (which usually makes you look like you're badgering them) or to drop it and leave the issue unr… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Society despises low-value men.Givent this information, I suggest the four categories be modified to: Thats fine. My point was more that there are four general categories that women see, they aren't really picky over a few inches. They instantly assign you to one of those categories and that's all that really matters. Men should aim for 'tall' as freakishly tall can also be a negative. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 06:16 AM |
| 3 | Society despises low-value men.Remember, the average 5'6" woman is looking up at you, even if you are 5'9" or 5'10". Tell her you are 6', she will not question it. People tend to be better at accurately guessing heights only if its similar to them. Just as a guy wouldn't really notice if a woman is 5'6 or 5'3 as they're just 'short' you would see the same thing between guys at 6'1 and 6'4', they're just 'tall'. Women tend to see men in four categories, short (~5'5), average (5'5-5'11), tall (5'11-6'4), freakishly tall (6'4+). | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 04:12 AM |
| 5 | Society despises low-value men.You don't notice the advantage because you live it every day. The reactions and the beneficial behaviour of being tall are just what you see as 'normal'. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 04:07 AM |
| 16 | Society despises low-value men.Its fairly common to hear from women that they have had suicide attempts. I can't accurately put a number on it, but I'd say something like 20% of women will tell you about their attempts at their own life. Women don't fear being seen as weak, if anything they love to tell their stories. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/15 04:04 AM |
| 1 | "Dating Your Intellectual Equal"Its an interesting point that lower intelligence women want you 'as a boyfriend' more intelligent women are more likely to appreciate you. I've probably noticed that too. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/15 07:02 AM |
| 0 | "Dating Your Intellectual Equal"less self-absorbed due to natural curiosity about the world and others Not sure I agree with this entirely. A lot of more intelligent women are very self absorbed. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/15 01:10 AM |
| 5 | "Dating Your Intellectual Equal"It depends what you mean equal. Some women are very smart, but they aren't smart in the same way as men (not saying they're inferior, but its a different kind of intelligence). The smartest women can also be horribly insecure and make poor decisions in life. They also have interests that you don't really want to share (Feminism etc) and you can have just as little in common with them as anyone else. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/15 08:37 AM |
| 2 | Stop revealing unnecessary secrets or 'truths' about yourself to people.People just talk to hear the sound of their own voice, seem interesting and fill the silence with some noise. I can kind of understand it when you date women who you effectively have nothing in common with yet are expected to make 4 hours of conversation with a day. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/15 03:11 AM |
| 14 | Our culture now takes the form of a spectacle - it can be observed, but not truly livedSocializing has moved away from actual enjoyment and has transcended into a form of 'one-upmanship'. Socializing without telling anyone about it or showing how much 'fun' you're having has no value. But since everyone else has also withdrawn we are just humans communicating on the auxiliary. Add into this that friendships, romantic relationships etc have become entirely disposable themselves. When you have a partner you no longer connect with them, you are essentially using each other for mutual… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/01/15 02:58 AM |
| 17 | How to survive working with womenThe better rule would be 'Don't confide in Women'. In any situation. Women will stab you in the back the second you're no longer relevant to their life. They're far more interested in their own reputation, so if it comes down to you against her they will drag your name through the dirt. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/01/15 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Your Girlfriend WILL Cheat On You! Unless... [xpost from MRP]Most women cheat. Its funny how Hollywood nearly always frames men as the ones who cheat, yet out of all my friends its never the men. I would say a vast majority of my male friends have been cheated on. I initially thought we just had bad luck and bad choices, but the more I understand the world I just see this is par for the course. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/15 11:55 PM |
| 5 | Meeting women after you are done with college.Thanks for the post. I find it really sad that guys still think TRP is a pickup forum. This is not a place for thirsty dudes to come and moan | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/15 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Meeting women after you are done with college.The real answer? Stop trying to 'hunt' women. Live your life, do things that interest you and be ok with being single. When you do that they find you. That doesn't mean its an end game "If you don't care for 8 months they will find you". Because you find you just stop caring. Women come and go, I make no effort to go out and 'hunt' women and I end up meeting them one way or another. Sure, you might have the occasional dry spell but I enjoy my time alone. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/15 07:06 AM |
| 7 | Golden Globe Awards Prove Fat Girls RightAppealing to fat women is just a marketing tactic, noting more. They know that 60-70% of their target audience is fat so if they can appeal to them without alienating the rest of their target audience then they are going to be successful. Notice they never say 'fat is better', they try and say 'both are fine'. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/15 04:07 AM |
| 33 | What is an "Alpha Widow," and why does it matter?I find people make two mistakes with the 'mens SMV increases' cliché. Firstly that 'mens SMV always increases' into middle age. Of course wrong, if you're not successful and let yourself go it will decrease from 30-40. But the second one is 'you need to be super successful and super fit for it to increase'. This also isn't true, a man at age 30 as long as he has some experience with women, has a job and doesn't live in his parents basement and has atleast a rented abode will have significant adv… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/15 02:24 AM |
| 1 | What is an "Alpha Widow," and why does it matter?Let's now say she dropped in value to a man: now let's say she's 40th percentile. However, in HER mind, she's increased in value: She now has a master's degree in women's studies and a 32k a year job working in HR and two cats This is the only thing I don't agree with. Its not that women get unimpressive jobs, its that men don't care about jobs that much. You could change that to any 'respectable' degree and a 60k job and men still don't care. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/15 02:19 AM |
| 3 | If you don't know, with absolute certainty, that she is girlfriend/wife material, then she isn'tId run from any woman that says that. Its the calling card of whores. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/15 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Guy's girlfriend won't give him blowjobs, beta transformation in progressI've often wondered why blowjobs are seen as the ultimate 'sexual favor' for men they are attracted too. Women will sleep with you if they're not that into you, but they won't give blowjobs. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/15 02:47 AM |
| 5 | Guy's girlfriend won't give him blowjobs, beta transformation in progressWomen enjoy sex with men who give them the tingles. They keep it from men who don't. They love sex with attractive men (which usually means strong, confident etc) because they are a good mate. If she enjoyed sex with sub par men it would lead to children with those men. Not a very good trait to have, particularly if the father can't provide. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/15 02:46 AM |
| 3 | Why men are falling behind...(self esteem culture, easy access to resources and utilities, a abundance of capital). In many ways self esteem culture and technology has made men's position of sexual influence even lower. One of the key traits men have which they trade for female companionship is their attention and validation. Most women don't care that much about sex, its the validation that having the sex creates they want. Now they can get that without leaving the house from their smart phones. So what does that mean? It … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/15 02:41 AM |
| 10 | Sluts & Studs: Why Promiscuity is Acceptable for Men and Not WomenPromiscuity is bad regardless if you ever want an LTR for life See this is one thing people rarely mention. Being a 'slut' is only bad for the women who want a LTR. If they just want to sleep around, power to them, I'm sure the men they sleep with will support their choices. It only goes poorly for them when they think they can just return from the abyss and find a chap to marry them after this. Sadly, even that isn't too difficult for them. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/15 11:56 PM |
| 6 | Yahoo's pseudo news trawl drops a red pill bomb.Women nearly always stop the gym the second they get into a relationship. Its actually quite common to see them attempting to get fit prior to handing a boyfriend. Then... never again. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/15 11:47 PM |
| 74 | Beware the white knight, they will destroy you if you aren't careful.Its unfortunately very true. Nothing is off bounds for them, they have no 'code'. They will go after your ex girlfriend in a heartbeat. I actually think these white knights only want friends to help them get girlfriends. As they disappear the second they land one. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/15 11:40 PM |
| 5 | /r/TheRedPill hits 90K subscribersDON'T expect a sudden adoption of the RP praxeology by the mainstream. DON'T expect people to suddenly start looking at you like you know what you're talking about. DON'T get evangelical about TRP . . . yet. Just keep doing what you're doing and point maybe one or two dudes who you think might be ready for it in this direction. I would still say don't publicly support the "The Red Pill" but rather support its ideals. If you preach the basis of TRP people agree, but if you say "I support the Red … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/15 11:31 PM |
| 5 | NYTimes subtly announces change in support for feminism in 2015I also feel like the tide is slowly turning against feminism in the MSM. Feminists have shot themselves in the foot too many times with their arrogance, first-world problems, and flawed arguments/statistics. I don't even think its really just a 'reddit/internet' thing at this point. I find Feminists mocked in everyday life to the point that they are seen as abnormal for being Feminist. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/15 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Let her be mad at youI'm convinced its difficult if not impossible to practice proper TRP principles in a LTR. They conflict with everything we teach, such as distancing yourself from caring, punishment with withdrawal of attention, a lack of reliance on others and treating yourself as a prize. Relationships confer dependance, almost require emotional discussions and force you to live with someone long enough that even the strongest men will show weakness in response to the almost constant barrage of shit tests. I a… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/14 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Women are Wonderful and Christmas.I can agree with this mostly. I think to a certain extent such a man exists that is in such a top echelon of people that his value is intrinsically higher. For instance women are usually valued on their beauty, so a 10/10 has an incredibly high value. But a billionaire male particularly with looks or stardom would view those 10/10 women as insignificant. So just maybe men do have a higher ceiling. But you're talking about the 0.000000000000000001% of men that reach that level, which is effective… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/14 01:45 AM |
| 28 | PAPER: 'Are Pornography and Marriage Substitutes for Young Men?' In most cases, hell yes!But at no point do they vilify hookup culture, Because hookup culture effectively just benefits women. Very few men take much advantage from it. Most 'women' centric writing actually likes hookup culture as a chance for women to 'assess their options' and 'sexually explore'. Hence men should be 'sex positive' and be ok with their choices. But if men wish to engage in actual sort of sexual pleasure thats not typically connected to the female agenda? We better shame them quick! What they should do… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Is Online Dating Destroy Prospects for Average Guys?This is very true. Men seem to go were they have by far the most competition and then be surprised when they don't get success. Finding women isn't that hard, 1) have friends 2) go places with those friends, 3) be sociable. If you fit those three requirements you will probably find women assuming drunk you can have a basic conversation. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Is Online Dating Destroy Prospects for Average Guys?While some of them are reverse trolls that is just depressing. This is why women act like they do, they just never have to improve because there will always be a line of guys. I've often wondered why some guys date down, but jesus the girls they date are supermodels compared to her. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 12:50 PM |
| 22 | Is Online Dating Destroy Prospects for Average Guys?It also creates the issue that women think they actually have the capacity to get those guys long term because they'll sleep with them in a one night stand and never call them again. These women now think that guy is her 'level' and keep trying to hunt men like him, who will never commit. Modern technology has really worked against men as far as social status/sex life is concerned. Maybe future technologies like VR and male birth control will turn things around a bit though. The main thing that … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Attraction of older women (30-35). Does that mean you fit a provider role?True, thread makes no sense. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 07:12 AM |
| 2 | Attraction of older women (30-35). Does that mean you fit a provider role?Good point. I'll keep that in mind. If I can keep the situation as a causal mutually exclusive thing im up for it. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Attraction of older women (30-35). Does that mean you fit a provider role?Is it you don't like older women or is it that you don't want to date at work? I don't like getting into relationship situations. I'll date casually, but Ive just found once they get that 'relationship' mode on, women turn into nightmares. I was just unsure of if this meant they were trying to 'settle' or they wanted 'condition free sex'. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/14 06:15 AM |
| 5 | What are relationships for fundamentally?Its for the creation of a family unit. You see it in plenty of animal species, the male provides for the female whilst giving birth and provides for the child after birth. They rarely form life long bonds but for that process they form a relationship. Its a similar case in humans. Most young men get into relationships because they're raised by their mothers to think they want them. That they're considered a failure until they get in one, that a 'real man' stays with his woman and only 'jerks' sl… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/14 12:21 AM |
| 13 | The exaggerated character of Alpha and Beta stereotypes on here lead many men to believe they are not the beta.This probably encapsulated what I was trying to say better than what I actually said. I more meant that because we use such a low example for beta, that guys that are better than that, but still overall incredibly passive somehow think they have less to change. The guy who is assertive in his job, but still goes home to his wife who manipulates him thinks "Hey atleast I stand tall and have a firm handshake" because he's better than the beta of the examples who is a short, 120lbs guy who stays wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/14 05:34 AM |
| 10 | Beta lives with college girlfriend, AF ensues with a surprise twistAs a whole society spends most of your life programming you to ignore your instincts. "You're just being untrusting, you should trust her" "thats just irrational, I'm sure there is a logical explanation and you'll laugh about it", but yet, when these suspect things happen it seems there is always fire to the smoke. Most guys have a fairly good understanding of what is real and what is just being unrational, but the world has a habit of telling them that their observations aren't real. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/14 04:32 AM |
| 7 | Never date a feminist.Feminist strongly disrespect men. Never date someone who disrespect you. This sums it up nicely, they strangely really want men, but don't seem to like us very much. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/14 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Snoop dog dishes red-pill advice on Kim KardashianDoes Kanye really need it? Wouldn't he prefer to date a down to earth, 'real' woman than be with this. I think his music pretty much sells itself at this point. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/14 08:23 AM |
| 38 | Snoop dog dishes red-pill advice on Kim KardashianI have never understood why the men line up one after the other to marry her. She's basically a porn star, has dated several high profile men and sells her nudity and sexual image for publicity. What can they possibly get from the marriage that they can't get from any non-famous down to earth woman? When you're a multi millionare superstar you have instant frame with any number of high value women. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/14 05:06 AM |
| 14 | You can never really win in life and love - which is why even guys that are successful with women are depressedMost men try and find women to fulfill their life, that is when they ultimately fail. A fulfilled life finds women, but no woman creates a fulfilled life. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/14 12:58 PM |
| 2 | An brief analysis on why "Crazy is great in bed"I don't think its necessarily even that complicated. The women men label as crazy are often nothing more than insecure. Maybe insecure with assertive personalities who manifest that insecurity in certain ways. Insecure women, particularly insecure loud women are interested in being seen as desirable and 'sexy'. So they give a shit about sex, learn how to do it well and are enthusiastic in their sexual behaviour being seen as positive. Like anything else, they want positive validation for their s… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/14 09:31 AM |
| 1 | The Hotter the Girl, the Weaker the Self Esteem and the Higher the EntitlementThis is a great description and while I disagree it occurs that accurately at the very top end of the spectrum (the 10/10 unicorn) its very common with women slightly below it. Because as like you said, attractive women are taught that they are valuable because men say they are valuable. Unattractive women, kind of like men have to look inwards for their self esteem. Its actually quite a good parallel to guys who have withdrawn from the dating scene, when you are desperately trying to find a gir… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/14 02:35 AM |
| 25 | Red pill truths without red pill lingo. /r/askmen.All that post was is like low level Red Pill without delving too deeply into the truths. Its like people who stick their foot in the water to test the temperature without diving in, it has to be a step by step thing. I'm really glad that men as a whole are starting to acknowledge there is no prize in being the beta supporter role. truthfully I'd prefer the live at home with your cats role to supporting a woman that only 'kind of' respects me because of what I give her. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/14 02:28 AM |
| 4 | Do women ever end a relationship without someone lined up?However she also went 18 months single and not screwing anyone I struggle to believe that. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/14 10:28 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: Women's love is inferior to men's loveA lot of people try and dismiss women's 'love' without understanding context. Most women have nearly infinite options, presenting themselves as available on a daily basis. basically all they need to do is say yes to these options. So losing a boyfriend is of no big deal to them. They can quite easily find another boyfriend, the question is can they find one as high value and if you have demonstrated yourself as low value then that takes that question out of the argument. If anything, I think wom… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/14 12:38 AM |
| 27 | Article: "I have shagged over 100 blokes but I’m not a slut"An average looking woman could literally have sex everyday with a different dude, if she so wished. Go to a bar -> sit there -> dude approaches you -> bang. It's that easy for them, yet some of these clueless idiots still don't see that (obtaining) sex as a woman is not the same as a man. Women don't seem to acknowledge this. I've had this conversation with attractive women before and they don't get it. "But finding a man is hard" "I bet you right now if you went to a bar we could get a guy with… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/14 02:32 PM |
| 8 | Article: "I have shagged over 100 blokes but I’m not a slut"Women know that any number above 2 or 3 gets looked down upon the more it grows. I think in many ways thats why each partner is seen as a negative while men see having plenty of ex's as a positive. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/14 02:31 PM |
| 1 | r/twoxchromosome thread - "I have a fear that my sexual history will come back to haunt me" GENTLE BE WARNEDThe rule of what she says times 3 doesn't even come close to this. I'm sometimes quite a gullible person. But when women openly tell you a number, lets say 12 partners and you can track it back (say 3-4 long term boyfriends, a few short term, few one night stands) does the rule of 3 usually apply? Does that mean you really should be thinking she has 36 partners minimum and has been hiding them? To tell how honest she is being you really have to assess her personality and how likely she is to lie… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/14 09:28 AM |
| 3 | r/twoxchromosome thread - "I have a fear that my sexual history will come back to haunt me" GENTLE BE WARNEDIts hard to pinpoint exactly why these numbers are a turn off to men. In addition to the obvious reasons, its gross, it creates a significantly higher chance of her growing bored, cheating, running off and it making it difficult for her to take the relationship seriously. I think most men are really just turned off the fact it makes you seem insignificant. No one wants to be 1 in 30, as you're just as forgettable as any of the other chaps. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/14 09:22 AM |
| 2 | r/twoxchromosome thread - "I have a fear that my sexual history will come back to haunt me" GENTLE BE WARNED20 isn't really a huge amount for someone in their mid 20s these days. But you can be sure if she says "20-30" what she means is "50" | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/14 09:18 AM |
| 25 | Women do not give a fuck about your "feelings".Also they will try and trick you into expressing emotions constantly, asking you how you feel, expressing your thought process and emotions on a topic. If you fall for this you fail. You have to talk strongly on a particular subject about what the outcome you desire is going to be, not the feelings that got you to that decision. While women will want you to express on some level in extreme situations sadness and empathy (such as when someone has passed away or has gotten injured) in your day to … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 09:10 AM |
| 8 | [48 Days of Power] Day 2 - "Never put too much trust in friends, learn how to use enemies."There is a lot of truth in that people are only really 'enemies' with someone they view as equal or higher power to them. The submissive nice guys have very few enemies. Having said that never participate in the 'mutual enemy'. If they have problem with you just ignore it and dismiss them as insignificant. If you have the high ground and you go playing their game you instantly lower yourself to their level. Most male 'enemies' are formed over one of two things, leadership or women. In both of th… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/14 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Feminists everywhere rejoice as news they ruined Dr Matt Taylor's life comes to light.They sometimes are kind of the most generic sport fans, but sport fans in a way that doesn't really understand sport that well. For instance they'll have a NFL team they follow, but don't get any aspects of the game or how it works. Basically just a cheer squad. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/14 09:06 PM |
| -1 | Feminists everywhere rejoice as news they ruined Dr Matt Taylor's life comes to light.While I agree 100% with your post, that the rise of the nerds is more to do with the rise of the voice of the nerds than anything else (because now the most vocal are the ones that control the internet, not the ones who control the local social events) I don't think you can necessarily say women look down upon nerds. Women will appreciate anyone who is independent and sure if yourself, if your idea of that is sitting at home playing World of Warcraft in your spare time but you own it than you wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/14 06:22 AM |
| 2 | Updated /relationships thread - Wife close friends with "Fit Guy" confirmed to be cheating. My take away from this is if your LTR/wife is constantly hanging out with another guy and texting him you should be suspicious, and it's not "controlling" if you decide not to put up with it.withdraw your attention as punishment if she is talking to/hanging out with orbiters Depending on how you hold frame going about it. If you act jealous you can never win, she will just find more to test you. If you do it in a 'fuck this shit I'm too good for this' way they will often drop them instantly. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/14 09:00 AM |
| 2 | Updated /relationships thread - Wife close friends with "Fit Guy" confirmed to be cheating. My take away from this is if your LTR/wife is constantly hanging out with another guy and texting him you should be suspicious, and it's not "controlling" if you decide not to put up with it.While I'm sure there is the very rare example of male/female friendship, women will hampster their way hardcore into spreading nonsense about the guy that is always conveniently 'just friends'. The harder they try and scream it from the rooftops the less likely it becomes. Most men should learn this trick by age 20, if you're grown and still putting up with these 'guy friends' orbiting then you have no self respect. The difficulty is working out how to draw the line. When does it overstep the ba… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/14 08:57 AM |
| 3 | A beta with a girlfriend is just an easily expendable provider who is given no respectIts not that girls want rich guys that amazes me. Its incredible how MUCH their tone changes. Its like a flick of a switch. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/14 08:37 AM |
| 2 | The fastest way to become more Alpha is to talk to everyoneI've also noted when you don't have a smile on your face all the time and are not chatting to everyone at every opportunity, when you do actually open your mouth, people take it a lot more seriously because they know you have some important shit to say. Also when you make conversation for the sake of conversation it tends to lead to saying ridiculous things which make you look stupid and 'less alpha' if such a thing exists. People overly reliant on being liked by others tend to be the least powe… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/14 01:18 AM |
| 3 | "Can I kiss you? How about here? You ok with this?" When reality feels like satire.Is it just me, or is she the one with all the control in this situation? Why isn't she asking his permission? All the burden seems to be on the male who has been emasculated into a grovelling sex bot. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/14 12:30 AM |
| 16 | Are women aware that our attention and validation is one of our primary assets?Absolutely true. It also depends on the nature of the post. For instance if she posts "I had a bad day :(" and gets 100 likes and 20 comments, she is likely to seek attention in the most annoying ways possible Most chicks will get more attention for posting attention seeking nude images, which amazes me, what pathetic kind of guys like that shit? I remember when Facebook caught on and I think women have gotten far more narcissistic because of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/14 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Are women aware that our attention and validation is one of our primary assets?Its more an opportunity cost as it is a cost. Because you're right, being nice and super nice to everyone is free, but it costs you in terms of reputation. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/14 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Guy's gf used to have 3 hour sex marathons with "dbag" ex-bf. She now gives her current bf only 15 min of boring sex. Commenters tell him he needs "counseling", "should be honest" and communicate, and "we all do things when we were younger".I've never known an ex of a girl I dated ever. But now I why current boyfriends of women I have dated act weird as fuck around you. I never even considered the fact they have mental images of you two fucking. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/14 09:47 AM |
| 26 | Are women aware that our attention and validation is one of our primary assets?Women never respect these men either. We've all seen them and cringe. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/14 03:49 AM |
| 16 | TwoXhamster discusses TRP, conspicuously absent from the discussion?Even the most ardent here will admit that some posts on this sub are over the top and unnecessarily hateful. But if you have any sort of filter you can look past it and find that 80% of the content here is just good advice on how to live a productive life and have a good attitude. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/14 01:43 AM |
| 1 | In the West, even extremely low SMV women can find a boyfriend with zero effortWomen at all ages seem to care more about what others think of their life rather than actually how good their life is. How many times do you see miserable women posting "How great is my boyfriend" on Facebook? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/14 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Hamster Laments The Loss of Her Orbiter That Leaves After He Realizes He's Been Friend ZonedIt works best when you orbit, learn better, go improve yourself and then demonstrate you no longer have the need or desire to orbit. That 'stepping stone' outside of that approach makes them want you. Its kind of like rejection of them without actually having to reject them. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/14 12:01 PM |
| 11 | Hamster Laments The Loss of Her Orbiter That Leaves After He Realizes He's Been Friend ZonedWomen hate it when they lose male resources because they don't want to sleep with them. Male friends, particularly beta orbiters provide them with so many positives that I'm sure they do genuinely love their companionship. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/14 05:02 AM |
| 3 | Director of viral 'walking in New York' catcalling video admits edited out white men from itBut then we'd see that for every comment she got, she passed 10000 or 10,000 guys without incident. Exactly, the percentages sound bogus. He said himself 1% of guys comment? But 1% would be one comment every 30 seconds (or less) of walking. What sounds more likely is if they're lucky they get 1 comment an hour. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/14 12:37 PM |
| 1 | /r/TheRedPill hits 80K subscribersPeople think '80k isn't that many people, thats a tiny segment of the population' but ideas spread. While some of the stuff on here may just be thrown in the hateful or bullshit basket, the high quality ideas will spread. People will repeat them to their friends who see them as just 'wisdom' not 'trp' who will happily repeat it again as the ideas have now essentially been washed of any negative stigma and survive on their own and the chain continues. I know a lot of men who I have heard lately m… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/14 02:42 AM |
| 21 | I still feel beta...All a lot of the members here will take from this sub is maybe a 25% attitude change. Maybe they won't give her free attention, maybe they'll stick up for themselves more, maybe they won't try and nice guy their way into a relationship, maybe they'll put themselves first in situations they otherwise wouldn't. I will probably get attacked for it, but reading what a lot of the guys on here write you can tell they're not being completely honest about their circumstance of spinning 5 plates and bang… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/14 08:12 AM |
| -2 | Girl uses BetaBus, guy that calls her out is the assholeI'm not convinced guys do it with the expectation of sex. They know 100% that they're not going to hook up with her, I just think its bred into men to help women, even if they get nothing in return. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/14 09:29 AM |
| 2 | Girl uses BetaBus, guy that calls her out is the assholeThis is why women will never learn or never get taught a lesson. Men are too willing to help. Men will almost always jump to order to give them attention or what else they need. You have to give up thinking really early that if you withdraw she will 'learn'. Unfortunately there will always be 20 other guys to take your place. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/14 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Big Data shows that women DO have an expiration date: 29The problem isn't necessarily the age, its that women don't look after themselves past that age. A 33 year old woman who has let herself get fat and sits at home crying that no one likes her because of her age is a prime example. Had she stayed somewhat fit and slim she may have male interest. The majority of women let themselves go after 20 and by 25 they really stop caring. Its little wonder men aren't interested. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/14 07:39 AM |
| 8 | How society rewards beta body language. Fix a lifetime of smiling and talking too muchFake smiles makes you beta. That constant smile on your face to give out a 'friendly personality'. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/14 04:57 AM |
| 1 | How society rewards beta body language. Fix a lifetime of smiling and talking too muchPeople tend to react negative to no positive emotions (smiling, interest in communication) but they also react negatively to trying too hard (that fake pinned smile on your face and fake laughing). The best thing you can do is show genuine emotion. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/14 04:57 AM |
| 3 | Woman drops boyfriend because he lives frugally. Later finds out that he's a heir to a fortune based on oil.I think I confused the '5, 6" figures stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/14 03:56 AM |
| 51 | Woman drops boyfriend because he lives frugally. Later finds out that he's a heir to a fortune based on oil.All of the "I want motivated men" talk is basically just hamster for "I want someone who can earn money for me". Women will sometimes settle short term on someone who isn't currently wealthy as long as they have prospect of becoming wealthy long term. Even if he is currently a bum you can bet if they knew he'd be in a 5 figure job in 5 years time women would be lining up. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/14 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Why do women become so intolerable around wedding time?It still takes a while to be completely ok with not being the 'nice guy'. I'm not sure I'm completely there yet. I still like to be seen in a positive light, even if that positive light isn't always positive. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/14 01:54 AM |
| 5 | My father's advice since I was 9: "When you are good, you get."I was never homeless, I had a decent amount of savings and they lasted me through. I had to sell my newish car but that was about it. Thankfully I never got a super expensive apartment. Its not that people 'abandon' you or are super rude, they just don't care. And they look at you like you're some kind of diseased animal. Like "eww, what a weirdo". Yeah... I lost my job, I'm not a drug addict living on the street. The strangest part of it is actually going places during the day, you have all thi… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/14 09:11 AM |
| 12 | My father's advice since I was 9: "When you are good, you get."It gave my attitude a very important rethink. Prior to being unemployed I was rather arrogant, I went well in college, got an excellent job straight away and was used to being 'high power'. Unfortunately when you've never had tough times it makes you look down at those less fortunate, the people who struggle or don't have a top level education. For a while it felt like I was going to spend years without work and I now know how they feel and it makes me really empathetic of them rather than criti… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/14 04:04 AM |
| 33 | My father's advice since I was 9: "When you are good, you get."Another thing is you don't know how easy you have it until you hit the bottom. About a couple of years back I spent 11 months unemployed after losing a good job I got out of college. Its incredible the rise and the fall. I was making good money and everyone wanted everything to do with me, those 11 months of unemployment the way people treated me was the biggest contrast I've ever had. They look at you like you're worthless. Your 'friendships' with people, even people you buy nothing for change.… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/14 01:44 AM |
| 7 | So many women are just searching for a man to plug into their equation for lifeFor many women, a man is just an accessory to match her shoes and purse, and that's why it is so important for a man to be socially proofed so that she'll look good going out with him. Yep, its why as men we are just replaced with 'another man' with seemingly no remorse. I've given up on women falling for you as a person, you're just the male accessory with the best traits she can get. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/14 02:33 PM |
| 3 | Ugly girl laments miserable time out at club. Hamsters console her; "Men have it much easier"I don't think they're necessarily trying to 'hold them back' rather they're chasing the good feelings of being nice without actually positively contributing at all. As we all know, the truth hurts. No one wants to actually risk that and risk social isolation or being perceived as a bitch. So they go the safe route which reflects well on them. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/14 12:10 AM |
| 9 | Ugly girl laments miserable time out at club. Hamsters console her; "Men have it much easier"And yes, being unattractive does rob you of your gender identity, this is how life works and it applies equally to men and women. Women just can't handle and accept it as well as men. For men its not as obvious that they have lost their desirability. For instance if you see an average looking guy, dressed averagely on an average day, how can you tell what he does when he's not at work? Or when he's out with his friends how can you tell his personality, or status, or potential? Its hard. Some ver… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/14 12:08 AM |
| 4 | If you can control your need for sex, you win.I don't enjoy simply to further womens narcissism by giving them attention they don´t deserve Pretty much this. They wonder why they don't meet high quality men out there and its simply because high quality men don't go there. When you're at a club you have no game. I know the guys think "I have game" but you can see them coming a mile away, hanging in their group of dudes, planning their opening line, staring at the women they're going to approach. Most guys learn at a fairly young age that the… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 10:54 AM |
| 6 | If you can control your need for sex, you win.The point of those clubs is basically trying to get laid. I agree that while in day to day life when you're actually trying to do other things that ignoring them works quite well, when you're in an environment of men who are basically out trying to find sex it is far less effective. If you ignore them there are 20 other guys who will give them the attention they crave. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Why women won't admit they like muscle?I think when most women say it they mean your typically giagantic body builder type. Women absolutely find lean and muscular attractive. I find a funny parallel the height issue, most women don't like short guys and will admit it without worries. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/14 11:49 PM |
| 4 | 5 Red Pill Truths From My GFWomen will nag men to change endlessly, but they don't really want that change. They want you to stand strong. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/14 11:37 PM |
| 8 | Slut shaming BY WOMEN makes sense. Here's why.Its a few things Women want to be seen as 'superior' to other people. They run their whole lives trying to achieve this, better houses, better children, richer husbands, it goes on. So if they see the other women as a lower standard they will jump on it. Women rarely feel empathy for other people unless those people are 'like them'. Stop trying to reduce the value of sex. If men can get it anywhere they will have no reason to commit. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/14 11:35 PM |
| 9 | Hollywood misconstrues Women as the ones most hurt by breakups.she'll likely still go on forever about her ex, which is something guys seldom do. This is seemingly very true. I've never quite understood it, even when they dump the guy they still talk about him for long long periods of time to basically everyone. Is it like trying to win the battle of public opinion? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/14 02:38 PM |
| 6 | Hollywood misconstrues Women as the ones most hurt by breakups.I respectfully disagree. The partner who didn't want the relationship to end will be the one more hurt, irrespective of gender, because the other one has already emotionally distanced themself. I guess its not fair to say who is 'more hurt' or 'less hurt'. Maybe the better term will be women will look to replace you almost instantly. I guess half of it is just covering their pain if they are dumped, but they still do it. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/14 02:05 PM |
| 10 | Are feminists just angry because they hate themselves?Unattractive women pretty much go through life like men. No one very interested in their welfare. The key difference is women aren't really 'rated' by their achievements, they're attractiveness stems from their looks. So their is no real way they can work their way out of that situation. An ugly guy can actually be quite successful in life and love. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/14 06:01 AM |
| 11 | Are feminists just angry because they hate themselves?This is true of younger women but becomes less true of older women. Younger women aren't really angry when they say these things for reasons like you said ,the more fuss they make the more people come running to rescue them. But older women are angry. They amount of guys interested in 'saving them' drops off year by year, they no longer hold unlimited political power in their social groups to manipulate, when they're unhappy no one cares. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/14 02:56 AM |
| 3 | Avoid women who drink and do drugs regularlyHumans love to maintain the illusion of self-control but are always proven weak once thrust before the Gods of biomechanics. Tbh, guys in serious LTRs shouldn't be drinking either, and if by some miracle I were to ever get married I'd make her agree (in writing) to never drink alcohol unless it's with me, if she can't handle it then sorry, hasta la vista ~ If you put yourself in their shoes it makes sense and we'd probably do the same thing. Imagine every week while intoxicated having tens of di… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Avoid women who drink and do drugs regularlyThese women will push boundaries and will cheat or do something that would make you dump them eventually. Even if they have the best intentions in the world when they're out constantly intoxicated with men people make bad decisions. Even if you're a very desirable catch there is no way you will be better than every single one of guys they get offered long term. Its just not worth it. I do genuinely believe if woman want to cheat they will cheat regardless, but there are still warning signs that … | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 10:29 AM |
| 7 | Marriage Rates Hit All-Time LowThere is no benefit for marriage as a man. I'm sure back in the days it was originally practiced it was a method for in many ways making couples work together. Divorce wasn't allowed so it encouraged protection of the family unit by a mutual bond. this protected children, protected fathers and protected mothers. But now it provides no protection at all for men, its basically just an agreement that allows your wife to leave with half your stuff. I think seen in a modern context its almost embarra… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 03:58 AM |
| 3 | Remember, women test frame in all social situations, it is not exclusive to dating.Having female friends most of the time feels like dating without the sex. There is always expectations and nothing is ever just relaxed. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Remember, women test frame in all social situations, it is not exclusive to dating.They mostly care about you acting insecure. If you are happy and confident to act that way then I've never found they particularly care. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Sexually frustrated guy tears into his female friends for not fucking him. (x-post from /r/cringepics)There is nothing to be proud about here. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/14 10:13 AM |
| 27 | Remember, women test frame in all social situations, it is not exclusive to dating.You may hate me for saying this, but you need to check yourself on this statement. The goal is to raise SMV. If you have low SMV friends, they will drag you down. If not for just the sheer magnetism of the negative status, than you will have to contend with their envy. The goal is to do what you enjoy. The "Raise your SMV" stuff is about allowing you to live an enjoyable life. If you have great friends who are low value but they make positive contributions to your life than keep them as your fri… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/14 06:05 AM |
| 4 | Let's Talk About Being 30+The kicker is that once you graduate and leave that microcosm of the real world, you can't keep that social value. So my 20s after college was pretty dismal with a boring average office job in the suburbs. Involuntary celibacy and porn addiction, then a 4 year LTR with a career-focused woman. I had bad nutrition, got chubby, developed poor posture, left my job, moved back in with my parents. I might've tried to get married if my value wasnt so low my gf moved away and dumped me (in that order). … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/14 04:06 AM |
| 3 | Remember, women test frame in all social situations, it is not exclusive to dating.Its fun though, seeing yourself change and naturally dismiss more and more as time goes on. I think once you understand it you can react better. If you have no idea whats going on you think you can fix the situation by apologising to 'make it better' because as men we hate drama. I think the best way to a certain extent is to just ignore it and laugh on through it when it comes to family and friends. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/14 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Why It’s So Important To Ignore Her After A Breakup | BlackDragonBlogI don't think you get what alpha means. Its about self respect, Id rather find another woman or be single than put up with someone who left me. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/14 02:16 PM |
| 3 | Why It’s So Important To Ignore Her After A Breakup | BlackDragonBlogNothing alpha about taking back a woman who left you to screw some other guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/14 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Why It’s So Important To Ignore Her After A Breakup | BlackDragonBlogIts very true. But the thing is women rarely 'come back' unless something happens to force it, be that you running into her or ending up at the same party or something. After a year or two they don't just decide to call out of the blue. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/14 07:17 AM |
| 8 | Why It’s So Important To Ignore Her After A Breakup | BlackDragonBlogSorry but I don't agree with any of this. The idea of trying to 'win back' a girlfriend who dumped you is the ultimate form of oneitis. There is no winning back someone who has disrespected you and left you, often to be with someone else. It doesn't matter if they've gone to the most AVC they can find because they want ultimate commitment or if they've dumped you for an alpha, the concept of winning her back pushes her away so its a catch 22. If someone dumps you you find someone new. You be cou… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/14 07:15 AM |
| 6 | Missing out on sex and love during your adolescent and college years messes you up for life it seems.I can still empathize with girls in the sense that I understand their feelings, but I just don't care if they're upset, depressed, etc. Why? Because every time I cared I got fucked over. The reason for me that I struggle to care is because I know there are plenty of other men who do care. When you're talking about attractive women with 'problems' you can be sure they've repeated the same story several times over and milked it for all the sympathy. A lot of the time the issue comes down to poor d… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/14 05:01 AM |
| 5 | Missing out on sex and love during your adolescent and college years messes you up for life it seems.High school me quite literally had an almost terminal case of oneitis. I think in your late teens idolisation of women is normal. I was lucky in that I didn't really care about women until I was 18 so i never made all the huge fuck ups but from ages 18-20 I had strong oneitis for basically every woman I had a 'crush' on. The problem for men is we're expected to act in a way that is not how we feel to get results. Women if they're interested in men just do act super interested in them and it gets… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/14 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Missing out on sex and love during your adolescent and college years messes you up for life it seems.I was lucky in that I somehow fluked into sex and 'love' during college despite having not the faintest clue what I was doing and making every poor move in the rulebook. I learnt quite early that its not all out and you spend as much time in those relationships miserable as you do happy. Its like a huge roller coaster of ups and downs that screws with the the rest of your life. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/14 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Can someone have such low SMV that it can never be significantly increased?Every person will have different peaks in desirability, that is normal. But everyone can do something about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/14 02:54 AM |
| 0 | Marriage: risky for men, ZERO risk for womenMarriage is the ultimate shit test "bet half your assets that I'm not going to leave you". | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/14 02:50 AM |
| -1 | $5,000.00 a night prostitute writes about how she is at the top of her game. Has a RP mindset for business, gets paid and pampered to ride the carousel.You can, but they don't always. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/14 06:54 AM |
| 8 | $5,000.00 a night prostitute writes about how she is at the top of her game. Has a RP mindset for business, gets paid and pampered to ride the carousel.no one that's worth fucking is going to pay them for it I wouldn't say thats necessarily true. The drunk guys they take home from bars are not necessarily better. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/14 01:37 AM |
| 0 | Unsurprisingly, even celebs can be betas.He ran a skit on this from memory, I remember seeing a video on it. I do feel a bit sorry for him. But it was no ones fault but his own, at least he carries it well rather then moping. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/14 12:32 AM |
| 6 | A Red Pill take on "Why is men feeling entitled to sex is being discussed while women feeling entitled to friendship is not?"Its often staggering how much shit women will talk behind each others backs given half the chance. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/14 11:57 PM |
| 2 | The number of partners before she's no longer considered LTR material.I've often thought this with women who work the typical 'serving' jobs even in restaurants and places like coffee shops. Sure they're not typical bar settings with drunk men everywhere, but if you spend 9 hours a day out in public interacting with people surely you will get hit on constantly. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/14 11:33 PM |
| 1 | The number of partners before she's no longer considered LTR material.I will never believe what a girl says but there are other ways to tell You can tell when someone is inexperienced. I've had girls tell me 3 and actually believe them. On the contrary I've had women tell me 7 and didn't believe an ounce of their crap. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/14 11:23 PM |
| 17 | "Do wives today expect too much?"I'd be curious to know what it is actually feels like for a woman to want babies, as a male I just don't get it. Kids are one of the most expensive things you can buy in the world, their running costs are probably going to end up more than a garage full of exotic cars but women act like they are compulsory, not some form of luxury, something they have to have. Then they moan when their husbands spend $1000 on a computer for wasting money. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/14 10:47 PM |
| 3 | There is a "new masculinity" wherein women & betas re-label traditional markers of male success as "sexist" or "divisive". It's a comforting mechanism by which losers will try to redefine failure as success and success as wrong.Thanyou! I thought I was the only one who read the "PUA"s spending their time, effort, money studying getting women and getting laid and thinking "Are they happy?" because isn't that what people want at the end of the day? To enjoy their life? I sure as fuck don't enjoy it out at bars hitting on women. That whole lifestyle just gives the power back to women as the gatekeepers and forces men to go places they don't want to go and do things they don't want to do to get sex. I've never had a strong… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/14 09:54 AM |
| 0 | Jennifer Lawrence Calls Photo Hacking a “Sex Crime”Im not saying I'm outraged, I don't really care it didn't happen to me, but you know what modern women are like with everything being a gigantic deal, yet none of them really feel any sympathy for her, most actually blame her for what happened. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/14 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Jennifer Lawrence Calls Photo Hacking a “Sex Crime”She's a good looking woman, lets not ditch reality here. In most normal situation she'd be seen in real life as great looking, but she's not up there with the 'perfect supermodels' of hollywood. I think thats her appeal, she almost looks like the type of woman you would date. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/14 12:00 AM |
| 5 | Jennifer Lawrence Calls Photo Hacking a “Sex Crime”She comes across as fairly insecure, its strange she typically plays highly powerful women in her roles. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/14 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Jennifer Lawrence Calls Photo Hacking a “Sex Crime”The thing is with most people the image might get 100 views and be quickly forgotten, its only celebrities who's entire life is based on popularity that it becomes a world wide phenomenon Fame like that is a double edged sword, sure you make a lot of money, but you sell your freedom and privacy for it. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/14 11:56 PM |
| -3 | Jennifer Lawrence Calls Photo Hacking a “Sex Crime”Jennifer Lawrence was the victim of a horrific crime, so horrific that no other opinion on the matter is acceptable. In many ways she was. I don't really care about her fame or the fact she should have been more careful, what happened to her sucks, it sucks badly and no one should have to go through it. The strange thing is the general opinion I've noticed on the street (as in real people in real life) isn't that sympathetic towards the crime and this includes women. Most women who I thought wou… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/14 11:52 PM |
| 28 | Jennifer Lawrence Calls Photo Hacking a “Sex Crime”The quote that bothers me is she stands on her high horse calling the leaker 'hollow inside'. Make no mistake, they're pretty awful for what they did, but she sells her entire image around sex appeal and people wanting to see her naked. Thats basically her image. Look at shots like this thats basically just teasing nudity. I find it highly ironic to then attack the people who basically bought what she was selling, its just hypocritical. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/14 10:38 PM |
| 5 | Jennifer Lawrence Calls Photo Hacking a “Sex Crime”Shes got to play that side of the story. These leaks probably kick started most of these celeb's career. In the interview she heavily implies she'd give back all her money for these leaks to go away, for some reason I highly doubt that. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/14 10:34 PM |
| 9 | Jennifer Lawrence Calls Photo Hacking a “Sex Crime”In her slight defence she may not have been aware what she was with the cloud uploading. She might not even get the concept of a cloud or know she was doing it. A lot of phones ask you to enable cloud and most people just tick yes having no understanding. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/14 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Front Page gilded post on /r/funny asks: Why are men who try to engage or ally with (aka supplicate) feminists treated with disdain?Thats remarkably accurate. I think in the beginning there genuinely was some truth in them wanting equal rights, but now they're basically just pushing society and seeing how far they can get with it. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/10/14 07:36 AM |
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