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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here? Depends on your circle. If it’s some alt artsy group, then no. If it’s moving your way up in corp America. Then yes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/25 03:40 AM
0	Certain parts of female sexuality give men the ick For you maybe sure. Loads of women it’s the core kink.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/25 06:18 AM
2	Certain parts of female sexuality give men the ick I’d honestly say a lot of women have not quite a rape kink, but more a “man who I did want pushed the issue despite my objections and it was really hot”	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/25 04:12 AM
13	Certain parts of female sexuality give men the ick Ohhhhh ok so it’s a small minority of women who are into romance novel porn but all of us fuckwits are into aggressive video porn. K	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/25 05:28 AM
0	Red Pill advice surrounding the Male Loneliness Epidemic is confusing and bad I think the part that you’re not getting is it’s not a feminist conspiracy but a human problem. People are interested in men in so far as they serve a purpose. Including other men. When people harp on feminism it’s usually because they want to pretend this isn’t the case and it’s only great to be a dude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/25 04:30 AM
4	Why do u claim sëx or datìng doesn't matter when u all are themselves not celibatê ? The people who say this have never had to face that so it makes it funny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/25 03:18 AM
1	Do women who participate in hookup culture crave sexual variety as much as men do? Implies that all the too hot and too cold experiences kinda suck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/25 07:55 AM
11	Why is male porn consumption so hated by some women? I might jest with women but if I’m single and getting off on an OF model I’m not sharing that. Lolz	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/25 03:29 AM
-2	What makes a woman want to sleep with a man, regardless of intentions? Being realistic unless he’s a 10 his chances of anything happening became near zero.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/25 04:41 AM
1	Men NEED sex. The use of prostitution should be normalized, legalized, and recommended for struggling men. Sometimes men just want to want and have it work out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 03:50 AM
6	Women punching too high in dating Are you kidding I’ve seen them get some after a “bad breakup”. But yeah generally not as likely to get something out of the deal	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/02/24 02:11 AM
7	It's totally justified for "nice guys" to feel a bit frustrated. Yeah it’s not so much about having or not having sex. It’s about if you could vs you wanted to and clearly could not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 08:53 PM
11	Women punching too high in dating I’d say almost all men and women I’ve met who aren’t at the top have done it once and realized what they were doing and don’t repeat it. They don’t like talking about it or admitting it though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 06:27 PM
33	Women punching too high in dating Yes this seems accurate. Orbiter is the male equivalent of a side chick for a top 15% guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/24 04:23 PM
6	Men are told to "touch grass" and "talk to women" but if they fumble they get to be creep shamed on social media Or could be society is less rigidly segmented into social groups. People are more willing to explore. But honestly I don’t know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/10/23 01:48 PM
2	Why don't we encourage men to stay virginal as much as we encourage women? That’s really the differentiating point. Wants to and can’t is not attractive. It’s most guys that haven’t been laid in the west unfortunately	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/23 06:58 PM
2	Question 4 Women: Has PPD and TRP made you less trustful of men or dislike them? I think there has always been a narrative that if you work hard and are pleasant in this culture you’ll find someone you like that appreciates you. That isn’t true. “Bad parents” often means poor parents. Women tend to overlook looks a bit if the family is “stable” and has money. A lot of the criteria which causes both sexes to “fall” for another person has little to do with personality or work ethic. Those are small puzzle pieces amid many parts. I think a lot of people who are against red pill…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/23 01:22 PM
6	Question 4 Women: Has PPD and TRP made you less trustful of men or dislike them? I think that a lot of people that follow these perspectives have been hurt or humiliated. To be honest to me it doesn’t mean that these perspectives are wrong. They’re not, life can be utter shit when push comes to shove. But you do have to keep trying and finding the good in situations. The most vocal red pillers and talking less about the truth of what’s being said (and often it’s pretty true) and more about how they’ve been hurt, Abandoned, or marginalized.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/23 11:44 PM
1	Do you see men's very low standards for sex as a good or bad thing? Wanting sex it’s not hard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/23 08:44 PM
1	Would you be okay with your partner having a good friend of the opposite sex? Yes there are a lot of men in this sub who are looking for a unicorn. I’ve never been like that. Can see beauty in a lot of people, apart from sex tbh.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 01:18 PM
10	Would you be okay with your partner having a good friend of the opposite sex? There is a difference between being into a woman and what you’re gonna do about it. I’m a living breathing man and I find around 80 percent of the women I meet under 45 attractive. But if I’m friends with one, well it’s the lines you’re willing to cross.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/03/23 01:49 AM
1	Do people who end a relationship “on good terms” actually stop being attracted to each other or not? I think that it’s a two way street. Would be the first one to agree that men do shitty and inconsiderate things. But everyone has to try to work things out. 4 husbands is a lot. No shade but are you sure your perspective and feelings didn’t just change as you got older? So you notice more of the good and less of the disappointments...?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/23 05:55 PM
1	Do people who end a relationship “on good terms” actually stop being attracted to each other or not? Oh I agree. Not a shit on the womens moment. Just pointing out why it can seem so light switchy like what was commented below. Different survival pressures.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/23 03:45 PM
-1	Do people who end a relationship “on good terms” actually stop being attracted to each other or not? Seems like an evolution thing. Like when warring tribes take over a village they often keep the women after killing the men. Women would have to be able to turn it off their love for a former partner reasonably quickly to survive and thrive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/03/23 03:16 PM
1	Slut shaming is bad, but what's the actual appeal of being a promiscuous woman? My bad. Hard to read tone online.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/23 02:29 PM
2	Slut shaming is bad, but what's the actual appeal of being a promiscuous woman? You seem offended or am I reading that wrong?	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/23 02:10 PM
1	Slut shaming is bad, but what's the actual appeal of being a promiscuous woman? Nope.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/23 01:54 PM
1	Slut shaming is bad, but what's the actual appeal of being a promiscuous woman? I’ve had sex with a fair number of women and a few men in my life. One of the keys to that is that I didn’t discriminate. I like sex so if I liked the person and found them attractive on some levels there was a good chance it was happening in they wanted it to as well. It did help that I was a solid 7 when I was younger as well. Always found that women with more body hair (they may groom to whatever level) were more interested in casual sex. No I’m not implying that they were masculine women, ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/23 01:45 PM
34	Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s? Maturity	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/03/23 01:30 AM
6	Signals it's over Like does anyone ever say that? I think the issue is whenever you try and say “man there are just as many shit women as men” acknowledging that is attacking women in general	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/23 01:13 AM
-1	Are hot women in their 20s actually interested in men in their 30s? Being propositioned doesn’t mean they’ll commit. Like I said, all folks are about as good as their (actual) options.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/23 04:42 AM
-1	Are hot women in their 20s actually interested in men in their 30s? Based on your options.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/23 03:36 AM
1	What's appropriate to vet your partner on? People are like that about height weight and salary as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/23 06:15 PM
1	on a scale from 0-5 How important is your partners education in a relationship? I find that it’s relative. People want at least as good as what they have typically. Either that or it’s made up for by a looks differential.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/23 04:34 AM
4	The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys. Try getting gov money (as feminists do for the bulk of what they use) for any of the issues for men you listed. I’ll wait.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 03:04 PM
1	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since there's nothing left for them It’s not about skills it’s about motivation and preference. I work with brilliant female engineers. You wanna force women to be like men. I’m perfectly ok for the women I work with to engage in the way they want and have the preferences they choose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 05:03 AM
1	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since there's nothing left for them Cool theory brah	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 04:54 AM
1	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since there's nothing left for them Naw dude. Men just invent everything and do all the risky work. Super dumb.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 04:34 AM
1	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since there's nothing left for them Which part is BS. The divorce rates or the women having tinder trains run on them in their twenties? “I’m a biologist” = on Reddit: they let me into a cow herd masters	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 01:10 AM
1	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since there's nothing left for them The issue is - in a lot of more primitive societies we move back towards a tournament model. Few men with most of the women. When you look at dating app stats that’s kinda how it works. My cousin is a very good looking young man and he cleans up on tinder. Good looking and less good looking women. So you reach a point where the ugly engineer making ok money is not going to get a wife. Even women of his looks level can get as much or as little sex as they want from better looking men three tiers …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 11:33 PM
1	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since there's nothing left for them We can argue about how effective capitalism is in promoting happiness in people. For sure, and to be honest I think it’s complicated. But saying that marriage isn’t about promoting social cohesion and guaranteeing paternity for the male and investment in the children for the female is silly. If you’re not Brad Pitt, Elon Musk or Lebron you want to get married so that you can have kids of your own and a respectable life. The family that you endure your shitty job for provides the vast vast vast m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 06:10 PM
0	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since there's nothing left for them 99% of people do x, but 1% do y therefore don’t whine and complain and take your y. Edge cases for all! Dismantle society and live like Newton or a hermit! Makes sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 03:50 PM
2	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since there's nothing left for them This is not how things have ever worked before in all the civilized generations that proceeded you but now, he’s now, it’s all gonna change and the outcome is immaterial.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 02:44 PM
9	New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since there's nothing left for them This is what people in their early twenties think. And then you realize that everyone in their 30s only talk about their spouse and kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 06:48 AM
1	If a woman's sexual past shouldn't be a factor in a relationship, would you, as a woman, consider dating a man who has previously been sexually dominated by 10 men? The women usually have to be a bit masculine themselves (doesn’t mean they are not attractive) for them not to care. But the vast majority of socially typical women are creeped out by it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/23 08:12 PM
4	Open relationships - stats vs. media This is how it works unless you are Brad Pitt. Take notes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/01/23 07:44 PM
2	Female women, have you ever been friendzoned? Sure but it’s the brain’s ability to deflect that which determines happiness. Case in point. It’s often like the bad student who is like “nah dude I didn’t study or go to class anyway”. The more you diminish the rejection or pretend it doesn’t matter… happier you’ll be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/23 04:13 AM
1	Female women, have you ever been friendzoned? That’s a very healthy take. Good for you. All the best.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/23 02:52 AM
0	Female women, have you ever been friendzoned? Oh you’re not lacking in general but you certainly were for him. Glad you have a positive attitude. One skill in life is reframing rejection as less of a rejection. Glad you have that figured.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/23 02:34 AM
-1	Female women, have you ever been friendzoned? He didn’t have sufficient motivation. No shame in getting rejected. He most certainly got what he wanted. But yeah this is what getting shot down or found lacking as a woman looks like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/23 01:06 AM
7	Female women, have you ever been friendzoned? You weren’t good enough for a relationship. Girl’s version of the friendzone right there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/23 12:49 AM
16	Evolution of dating The bf material is the backup. They’re hoping to land the high status guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/23 05:44 AM
3	Why do women do this!?!?!? Click bait mental illness right here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/01/23 03:27 AM
12	Women legit believe that there is no such thing as a below average looking woman Yeah I gotta give you that one. I’ve always felt a certain amount of truth in red pill concepts that are hard for people to swallow. But all of young dudes going “ewwww” ... haha ok sure bud.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 10:52 PM
18	It's insane how the other gender refuses to recognize their privilege. It’s more you don’t want to have to put up with bullshit from someone just as ugly as you are. In the eternal wisdom of the counting crows: We all want something beautiful. We put up with the ugliness of attractive people because they are attractive. No one, even ugly people, want to put up with the ugliness of ugly people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 06:11 PM
1	Do women care about a man’s sexual past? That’s fair and that’s a case I missed. Religious. By the way I’m happy for you both and your stable relationship. Do you think that more men and women could benefit from the community and sense of responsibility that often comes with religion?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 04:53 PM
1	Do women care about a man’s sexual past? So is he a doctor or is he inheriting a business/other family money? Genuinely curious. Most women who are good looking like you’re advertising will go low count on the guy if he’s nerdy but super status potential or family money.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 03:16 PM
1	Why single women are happier compared to single men ?? Therapy either is really shitty or decent. You have to find someone that you click with. Plus you need good insurance to keep going.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/22 08:05 PM
1	The only type of people who care about “body count” are those who never would have the opportunity to raise their own. I'd say it speaks more towards the high body count people who feel insecure about it than it does towards the "haters of a high body count". Out of the ~150 women that I knew personally with a high body count, exactly 2 were well adjusted about it and happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/22 11:05 PM
–	What are the consequences of having a colourful past? Why do you feel bad for their wives? No judgement (got my own past, as do we all) but were you promiscuous and feel bad about it? The "people" vs. "men" slip there is pretty funny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/22 10:41 PM
–	What are the consequences of having a colourful past? Ehhhh... are we talking single or double digits? Talking a experiment per year in college and then 2 boyfriends after and then a husband or we talking the 5 guys a year and is single in their early thirties? Cause I have never, ever met a woman like that who ends up with something stable and monogamous. Sometimes I think that these online discussions are being done by people who don’t know any of the people being discussed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/22 03:10 PM
1	Do you feel that being sexually successful with women will make you happy? You’re not dealing with the trauma and the baggage	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 02:05 AM
1	Is it a deal breaker if she does not want to ever try anal? It is a bit, and I enjoy it. I think the attraction (for both the giver and the receiver) is the domination aspect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/22 04:47 PM
1	How common is this? "I have an amazing career, make almost 6 figures, have lots of friends and family, fit and physically active, many hobbies and talented, but I can't get a single date" yeah but guys can compensate by having the right attitude, which raises them by even a couple of levels. An ugly guy can become average looking by being fun. Then if we has everything else going that's at least another level boost in how much people will consider hanging out with him and getting naked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/22 08:03 PM
1	"Men aren't entitled to getting laid!" is a lazy, intellectually dishonest red herring intended to derail discussion. The root of the difficulties young men face in dating is finding fulfilling romantic companionship, not getting laid. ehhhh I think there is some truth to this. I had a number of affairs with married women when I was younger and their sexuality would "turn on" because they found me attractive. Anyways, not proud of that phase of my life. But I think for a majority of women it's a thing. If she was attracted to you she'd be into it at least once a week. The funny thing is they're all surprised when it happens. "Oh my, I just thought I wasn't into sex but here we are". Like 2 of them had been seeing a doctor thin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/22 03:09 PM
1	Bluepillers, you have a friend, he is 21, and he wants to get laid. He wants to have lots of sex with different and hot women. What advice do you give him? ehhhh it depends on where people start from. Everyone is different. And if your profile picture is you... well you may be misattributing your incorporating patrice o'neal insights on social game for your success. I'm a big nerd and slightly overweight now that I'm older. But I'm still conventionally good looking. Still a solid 7. That goes a long, long way. For both women and men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/09/22 05:47 PM
1	Men should give up on western women and go overseas The issue is a lot of western women are gunning for the same top 10% of guys. In other countries women are a little more down to earth. As other have commented they have their own games too, that's true.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 02:08 AM
1	Q4W: Unmarried women, why do you think the men you want aren't asking to marry you? so ride the carousel for a bit. When I'm being fully honest looking back and the women I was involved with in my twenties - most (including the ones that yup just had a huge libido) were in a weird relationship with that process. They wanted a man out of their league (not saying men don't do this too in their way) to just learn that they were the most specialist unique woman out there and love them for who they really were. When it came down to it the whole thing was holding out for better offer…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/22 03:08 AM
1	Q4W: Unmarried women, why do you think the men you want aren't asking to marry you? ehhhh not really. People usually back rationalize people not wanting them. "I was never really trying" is the excuse of both men and women that I've met. Everyone wants to be around other people. Partners or otherwise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/08/22 03:34 AM
1	[Q4W] Would you say most or all men can be great lovers? So intensity in some sense. Without being off the rails.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/22 02:39 PM
1	Women hate the manosphere because it's the only thing actually helping men Eh you could say that about basically anyone offering advice. It’s all based on common sense. Most jobs are their own little racket too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/08/22 06:15 PM
1	Women who have careers and RP mindset Well. I think that those people that do that would be very unhealthy. Not defending the behavior at all just saying it's pretty explicable in terms of the numbers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/22 12:23 AM
1	Women who have careers and RP mindset I don’t think it’s just sex. For me at least (and for a lot of men I’ve met) sex intimacy and social acceptance are kinda tied together. I don’t disagree with your proposed solution for an individual getting rejected. I’m just also saying that nothing but rejection for a while could also lead to a lot of bad mental health outcomes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 06:30 PM
7	Women who have careers and RP mindset It’s not but think of it practically. If every time you approached someone you get shut down. It’s not going somewhere good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 02:17 PM
7	Women who have careers and RP mindset I often think that if I wanted things from women and couldn’t get anything at all the likelihood of bitterness would have been high.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/22 02:06 PM
1	You Can't Claim Alpha Fux Beta Bux Isn't Real And At The Same Time Say You Had Sex With A Guy You Didn't Want A Relationship With Confidence usually comes from having money or a hot chicks knowledge that you have been with other hot chicks she knows. That vetting is usually cat nip. Source ugly guy with a similar story.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/22 01:42 PM
10	CMV: Men that are tender and loving in the bedroom instead of rough and dominant are doomed to be mediocre, forgettable lovers It’s not that “you need to learn both” it’s that you need to match whatever the threshold of the woman you’re with is. Some like more dominant some like slightly less.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/06/22 02:03 AM