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ash5991/r/RedPillWomen16/06/22 08:08 PM
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This is exactly what I thought while reading, however, I understand what he meant and agree with him. But 18 year old me probably would not have, granted that was years ago before so much social media. I think young women now, generally understand the basic idea of what those creepy groomer dudes are all about.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/24 02:44 PM
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I agree, op sounds a lot like me and my husband a few years ago. While I want my husband to "lead," life just isn't always like that and if you want to really be partners in life that means accepting each others short comings. Sex gets better when you both feel good enough and safe enough with one another. I was a stay at home mom for a 5 years and that was one of the hardest, most isolated times in my life, but it was for him too. We both we're working a ton, me at home with two kids under 2 an…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/24 08:56 PM
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I feel almost the same way. I definitely do like to cum though lol, my husband is definitely an overachiever when it comes to that. He is the type that goes out his way to make sure I'm 100% satisfied, which is really sweet and sexy. He gets off on making me cum which I like. However, I do agree with what you said, I crave the closeness of penetration. I love the feeling of the rest of the world and life just falling away and for awhile it's just me and him. He feels that way too; we've talked a…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/22 01:41 PM
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This is refreshing to read. It's exactly how I feel too. I was a stay at home mom for about 4-5 years, I felt so guilty. Everyone I talked to would make such snide comments about staying home with my kids. I felt like I was doing something meaningful and still think it was meaningful. My kids are 8 and 9 1/2 and everyone I know that said mean stuff now says my kids are some of the best kids they know. That they are well-manned, smatt, and empathetic. It's slightly infuriating. But otherwise, I'm…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/22 10:33 PM
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Hey there, I'm about the same size as you (though I'm in my 30s) and sometimes losing weight can be tough for me too. Don't be too hard on yourself, first of all. You seem like you are putting a lot of effort into your health and that is definitely good. I would suggest getting a seamstress tape and take your measurements rather than relying on the scale, especially if you're working out. You're likely shifting your weight from fat to muscle. Losing weight is a long journey, I used to be nearly …
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/22 12:50 AM
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I also struggle with these feelings. When I confide in my husband about it be tells me not to worry, he will also be older too and will still be attracted to me. It's a different kind of beauty. Just like when I was pregnant, he was attracted to me in a different way than when I was 19 and now that I'm 31. I think it's important to find a partner that is capable of growing and changing with you. Always take care of yourself, but I'm trying to relearn that aging really isn't so bad, just differen…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/22 11:48 AM
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My husband does stuff sort of like that for me too. For instance, at work (we work together), he knows I have a phobia of tiny metal shavings, so he always cuts or grinds things for me. I can definitely do it myself but I get safety glasses, gloves, a mask, and then freak out for a few hours afterwards if it's on me or in my eye or something lol. Or if a glass cup/plate breaks he always helps me clean it up, because the broken glass scares me.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/22 12:22 AM
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When I was a homemaker I had two little ones, so a lot of my time was dedicated to looking after them and cleaning up the messes they made lol. Anyways, I learned to cook a lot of different foods that me and my husband both liked, as well as learning to cook healthy foods. I would meal prep and make sure he had good lunches and breakfast. I did basic maintenance cleaning all the time, because children lol, but I would go room by room each week and just try to keep out the clutter. We didn't have…
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/22 12:24 PM
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Melts his heart: I pick my husband flowers pretty often. He told me he likes that I see beauty in the world and that I'm always looking for wild flowers when drive or hike. I also make him mini paintings and little doodles, he saves them all. Devotion: I take care of him and support him, listen to him, hold him. I also love to brag about how wonderful he is and lift him up to other people, especially when he is in ear shot. Not kissing ass or anything, but I love telling people when he's really …
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/22 09:45 PM
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I'm married so I'm not looking for someone, but I think that is a "high value" mindset. I really just commented because I wanted to say I'm glad you turned your life around. I think it makes a person more worldly and wise to have been to the bottom and fought their way back up. Good for you, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:09 PM
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Yeah same. I kinda feel like I'm my own mother now. It made me sad and angry first, but now I'm okay with it. I think it's made me a better mom overall as well. That's true, my husband always just says he loves me for me. I just wanna be the best me I can for him and it's hard to not compare myself to others. I think I'm going to try to find more feminine activities, maybe I will feel more aligned in my energies.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/22 05:20 PM
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Yeahhhh I definitely can relate to the amount of work it takes to date a woman. Not that it was all bad, I enjoy women's company. There was just a lot of talking and texting (ironic I guess considering I'm texting massive paragraphs on this thread lol). And then she'd get upset that I can't text back the next minute. I'm working! The job I do is time sensitive, products need a certain amount of time to dry, ect. And I explain that to her and then it's a fight. I feel that. I really have no expla…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:30 PM
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Yeahhhh I definitely can relate to the amount of work it takes to date a woman. Not that it was all bad, I enjoy women's company. There was just a lot of talking and texting (ironic I guess considering I'm texting massive paragraphs on this thread lol). And then she'd get upset that I can't text back the next minute. I'm working! The job I do is time sensitive, products need a certain amount of time to dry, ect. And I explain that to her and then it's a fight. I feel that. I really have no expla…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:29 PM
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Yeahhhh I definitely can relate to the amount of work it takes to date a woman. Not that it was all bad, I enjoy women's company. There was just a lot of talking and texting (ironic I guess considering I'm texting massive paragraphs on this thread lol). And then she'd get upset that I can't text back the next minute. I'm working! The job I do is time sensitive, products need a certain amount of time to dry, ect. And I explain that to her and then it's a fight. I feel that. I really have no expla…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 03:29 PM
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Thank you so much for your response. I will have to check it out. :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/22 02:47 PM
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That sucks, dude. I truly wish you the best. Perhaps I'm a bit different, I don't wanna be like "i'M nOt LiKe OtHeR gIrLs ". I literally just posted yesterday on redpillwomen about having trouble being friends with other women and stuff....but yeah. I just wish everyone would get along lol. I feel like we have so much more to offer each other rather than being divided. I work in a bodyshop with nothing but men all day. I get along with them well, they are great friends. Not in a beta orbiter sor…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:36 PM
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The same can be said from a woman's perspective. A good majority of men share similar problems. I'm bisexual and have been with plenty of both of the sexes. I find that men and women are much more similar than they realize. It really just comes down to treating each other with mutual respect and having the ability to look at yourself and make improvements. We can all stand to grow, always. If you keep blaming other people for your problems, you will continue to have problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:10 PM
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That's a bummer, dude. There are plenty of other women who will value you though. Don't let one bitch make you bitter. I was in a relationship with a super controlling asshole and it took awhile to not feel that way, like all men will treat me that way. I'm really glad I grew out of that because my husband is wonderful. Best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:03 PM
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🤷🏼‍♀️ maybe she sucked as a person, maybe you do? The only way to be happy is through self improvement and finding people who value you. Know your worth, your true worth. Many people on this thread seem to think sex is a transaction rather than an expression of love. It comes off very entitled. Just because someone is in a relationship with you doesn't mean they owe you anything. My husband doesn't owe me money or anything like that because I chose to be his wife. People are flawed, all of them,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:53 PM
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Do you have a hard time reading?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:37 PM
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I think it just means you will be seen as an equal rather than another person that needs shit from you, but hey what do I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:34 PM
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How is that weaponized??? That's so bizarre. My husband actually wasn't able to do a lot for awhile because he got hurt at work and needed back surgery. I actually did 100% for many months, maybe a year. It didn't change our dynamic. He wasn't able to have sex for awhile, didn't stop me from wanting him. It's his whole demeanor of being a real person who cares for me. After I had our children I had many health problems and he took care of me. That's what you do when you love someone. Sex is not …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:23 PM
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Exactly. My husband and I are very 50/50 in everything. We have two kids, a business, and he is helpful at home as well as being an amazing, supportive person. He is the definition of a real man. He gets laid often 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:14 PM
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🙄 it's funny when women tell EXACTLY what they want and then yall think it's some sort of coded message. Like, just do the dishes and don't act like a huge man child. See how far that gets you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 01:11 PM
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Seems to be a tough concept for "you gentlemen" to grasp that our needs also include pulling your weight like an adult. It's a committed relationship, and we have needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:40 PM
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Thank you for your response! I definitely relate! I have a female best friend from high school and she puts a lot of effort into keeping contact which I really appreciate. Sadly, she lives really far away now and we only see each other a few times a year. I had more girl friends in school, I guess because I was around them more. Most of the women I interact with now are all family and my husband's family. We just don't click though. I definitely wanna try to find a way to make more real friends …
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/22 12:09 PM
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You just said you were convinced, I just wanted to offer a counter point in a hopeful way. Best of luck, internet person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:20 AM
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True. I am fairly introverted, I think I'm probably somewhere in the middle. But yeah, idk, just gets a little lonely sometimes.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/22 02:18 AM
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I'm a woman and strongly disagree. I'd rather teach a guy to take care of my sexual needs than him just assume he's awesome because he's slept with a lot of people. I'd be worried about STDs and not measuring up to his passed experiences. I find it more exciting to be with someone who wants to please me. Experience is not a requirement, enthusiasm is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 10:44 PM
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Possibly you misunderstood my post, I have no problem at work. Men are very kind to me and treat me like a lady. I personally like being treated like a little sister in a way, it's more friendly in my eyes. I understand men do like me and find me attractive, I get somewhat annoyed by it at times, but I'm not a bitch or anything about it. I just feel, we're at work and my husband is literally right there, so cool it. Very unprofessional. Anyways, I would like to actually feel like a lady when men…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/22 09:36 PM
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Lol I love when people ask me why I'm "all dressed up". I just say I didn't feel like wearing pants. I used to be a more emotionally unavailable person. I was still processing a lot of childhood trauma in my early 20s. I am 31 and in a much better headspace. I didn't realize how much my husband needed my emotional side. He begged me to just talk to him, it took us months of me being all weird and cagey when he'd want to just talk. God bless him, he is so patient and sweet. I knew I had to work o…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/22 08:25 PM
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