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27

sounds like 99% of boomers of any gender
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 05:38 PM
2

so consensual reproduction is just sadism? ie i suffered so now you must suffer, we all must suffer?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 02:40 PM
3

Working at Starbucks was a huge wake up call to me. I still prefer espresso shots to black coffee. An almond milk latte without flavoring is like 30-60 calories. Normal latte with flavors is like 300-600 it's so gross and sugary
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/02/21 01:14 AM
1

lol and she's gonna try to have a baby in her 40s extremely mentally ill
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 07:00 AM
3

I mean if you don't want kids don't date a woman with kids. I know people who pretend they're childfree when they have step kids. Like they're literally not into kids, spend their whole lives careful about not having any and being responsible, just to care for someone else's child.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 06:59 AM
3

Idk a lot of middle class women who grew up in the suburbs are becoming single moms now too. I'm sure they'd write a better profile, but not by much
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 06:34 AM
3

These are the type of people who reproduce the most and our society uses welfare to incentivize it. Idiocracy was a documentary
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 06:29 AM
9

Ugh I always get this impression too! And in some cases the mom low key knows the dude is a groomer and still accepts his advances or uses the kid as bait, it sickens me so much. Poor kid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 06:21 AM
1

This lady is just trying way too hard to seem edgy when she's basically the definition of liberal NPC. At least she has some hobbies and isn't toooo demanding and doesn't have another mans kid (yet). Standards low around here
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 06:17 AM
11

It floors me that the amount of single moms is steadily rising,..like I get why it happened back in the day - people were ignorant about sex and condoms/ birth control / abortion not readily available. But why has it gone up? Isn't the point of contraceptive access to prevent this kinda thing
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 06:14 AM
13

The average dress size is like a 14 now or something ridiculous like that. Why can't Americans stop stuffing their faces? It's not that hard I don't get it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 06:11 AM
7

I'd have more respect for them if they just straight up said "beta buxx needed!"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/02/21 06:03 AM
1

Idk I feel like a lot of richer dudes are smarter about impregnating women they aren't married to
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 11:57 PM
1

Yup and everyone measures intellect differently. Many on this sub apparently think it's just spitting some numbers out, whereas I would value writing skills. Others would value drive and emotional intelligence; it's just so subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 06:59 PM
1

Just eat at a deficit and try to walk or do some sit ups or something, it's enough, don't worry
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 06:57 PM
0

I agree school and program make a huge difference, but you should specify that, as someone can have an "MBA" from some online school that is hardly accredited
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 08:08 AM
2

To me it seems like the point is that it's pretend. Humans can't fly but it would be fun to pretend it as kids. I didn't pretend it because I thought some humans can actually fly though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 05:35 AM
2

In my experience they just pretend to work me and put on woe is me airs in an attempt to evoke pity for the busy married man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 05:08 AM
1

Exactly! They're not going to say no to mr boss man
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 05:06 AM
6

Same with the gender wage gap imo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 05:06 AM
8

I find writing ability to be a better measure of intelligence than any STEM degree or career path.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 05:03 AM
3

MBA courses are easy as hell though lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 05:01 AM
4

I swear my male tech coworkers purposely date stupid women because they're insecure and need to feel smart /superior all the time. It's gross and I agree with you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 05:00 AM
5

Those are all my coworkers, I'm in tech
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 04:58 AM
1

Definitely! Men and women both need to realize they can't have it all. Those "rare" ones likely prioritized SMV and fitness/ looks or whatever or just extremely good genes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 04:52 AM
1

Ha keep em coming
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 04:50 AM
1

Even with the male sex drive wouldn't it be easier or more satisfying to focus on financial accumulation and independence and then just pay for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 04:36 AM
1

Get rich, or die trying. Work on your health, fitness, education, goals and finances. Then figure out a way to get the sex you crave while not handing over everything you've worked for. That is simple. Do not marry, do not cohabit, and if you don't want kids, get a vasectomy TOMORROW." This is sound advice to most people on earth, period. Regardless of gender
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 04:13 AM
1

Yeah but poor, stupid or religious people statistically have the most children in this day and age...how are those "Chad" genes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 04:11 AM
2

Idk on a purely physical level I think casual sex is more satisfying and my husband feels the other way. Of course I'm not going to cheat and am happy in my relationship still, just if I had to be honest about it, I get more out of the novelty.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 04:09 AM
2

I mean there is the rare super hot 50 year old man that doesn't need to be rich, I know a couple and they do well for themselves. They spend a lot of time in the gym and care a lot about fitness
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 04:03 AM
1

Yeah I'm more athletic now in my 30s and weight less than I did in high school, all that nonsense about getting fatter with age is nonsense...sure if you're like 80 or something, but if you can still walk decently that's really all it takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 04:01 AM
1

Good! Too many simps just creates toxic environments imo (see: Twitter banning everyone)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 03:59 AM
1

I work in software development, if that helps explain it at all. I think its weird and desperate and they should have higher standards, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 10:40 PM
2

A lot of men want to get married and don't want to have kids in my experience. Would age still matter to them in this case? Maybe just from a looks perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 07:55 PM
1

Idk I personally know 50 year old single moms that are still somehow getting men 35-55 to simp for them - funding their kids college and buying them new homes and stuff. They can do them, I just think it's wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 07:51 PM
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there are elegant older women. some women complain that "women aren't allowed to age" because no one finds them attractive after a certain age - I think women can age gracefully, most just choose lives where they won't be able to. women in the west age the worst and have the worst lifestyle habits.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/01/21 08:51 PM
2

Really? That's the look these days? Good to know I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 04:42 PM
1

Same this is why I'm against breeding though. Like here's your life of suffering before you die, enjoy! It makes me resent those who thought it was a good idea to make more people
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 01:56 PM
1

Those tiktok boys look ridiculous sometimes tho haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 01:50 PM
5

Agreed, I mean like my guy friends are wife-Ing these ladies up and sacrificing their retirement acts for them, despite my advice lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 07:41 PM
3

Exactly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 06:33 PM
3

Of course, it's just a hypothetical. People can do what they want, I just like to analyze the motivations behind it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 03:51 PM
4

Is it true though? I find gen z and some millennial/ even gen x men not that interested in sex. They'd rather engage in hobbies than chase females.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 03:50 PM
6

Dual income No Kids= dink I think this is the best bet tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 03:50 PM
3

I mean I get giving some stuff up to fuck supermodels. But beyond OPs example, I know plenty of dudes who have a decent life when single, maybe on the verge of early retirement or some other sort of financial freedom, and give it all up to support some average to below average lady who often comes with baggage (kids, debt, family issues idk). To me the latter isn't worth it but it is common.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 03:48 PM
8

Really? Even if the sex us with a less than desirable woman with tons of baggage?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 03:46 PM
1

True and "ugly hot" is definitely a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 10:38 PM
2

Just marry an 80 year old and have him write you in his will. It's plan D for these ladies
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/20 03:54 AM
3

Simps almost seem like they are into it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/20 03:46 AM
2

What about the single mothers though? Don't they have to mature to raise their kids correctly? Many seem super immature and I worry how it's effecting the newer generations
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/20 03:45 AM
1

I liked the movie for the historical drama aspect but even I thought it was weird that she was thinking about that when she supposedly dies? Does she die though? Ending was a bit tacky to some of us. Her telling the story wasn't weird to me, as she was being asked to tell it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:51 AM
5

True but I rate it as a hobby above taking selfies/ scrolling through social media all day. I guess I equate reading a ton of books to playing a ton of video games. Neither are really bad unless it's all you do, and they're decent and interesting hobbies but common and easily accessible, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 01:30 PM
3

It's because a white knight or simp will rescue her. He might not be Chad but she will settle (lol he's actually the one "settling") and he can feel complete in fulfilling his life meaning of being a slave to a woman and some other mans kids. My issue is why do either of these people think this way? It isn't right or normal and the ones hurt the most are the children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 01:14 PM
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I mean most hobbies are fairly useless; the point is to learn new things and enjoy yourself through them. At least it's hobby, some people don't have any.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 01:02 PM
1

Amen. Working out is the best antidepressant for me too (I realize it doesn't work for everyone but for me it works better than meds)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 03:39 PM
2

I go to the gym because endorphins make me feel good physically and mentally. It has nothing to do with wanting sex. And pushing my body to the limit helps me feel in control of my life and is goal orienting behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 03:38 PM
4

at least she's tall and skinny. It's all she brings to the relationship...oh wait! There's also another mans almost teenaged child! You can help her pay for tuition in 7 years while the child resents you. Sadly, I can see many men signing up for this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/09/20 02:27 PM
1

you should stay alive just to observe and make dark jokes about it. its what I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 04:35 PM
1

Yeah same and I'd probably find fault with it as well. I think I just don't like being human and being human is sort of a raw deal in general. This has led me towards being more misanthropic and antinatalsit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 03:45 PM
1

Yeah I get what you mean, I do think women have it better in first world countries at least, even some second world ones. I just personally don't like being biologically female but I think if I were male I'd hate it to. Really just hate living in this human body is all
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 03:44 PM
1

Yes I want to transition into a man at 40 lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 02:14 PM
5

I'd rather be a man for some reason. But like a Chad one haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 02:14 PM
2

I'm a woman who is mostly straight, a little bi. Even as a kid, I didn't like being around other woman. Daddy's girl, preferred male teachers and friends, hung out with boys in the family growing up. I guess I don't like the majority of cishet women these days. When I actually meet people in person, I like their personalities but just don't approve of their lifestyles or behaviors. Men have consistently treated me better in life whereas the couple female friends I had growing up tried to sabotag…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 02:12 PM
3

It honestly just makes women look bad to have such low expectations for them (by excusing every bad thing women do and assigning no responsibility) I hate it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/20 11:06 PM
4

The one in AZ seemed to have a lot of Hispanic and Asian people in attendance.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/20 05:38 PM
6

This is a huge mess in so many ways, but what is with the "country outdoorsy camping" chicks? they don't look like rugged outdoorsy women. Most have a couple kids with an absent father. So why do they really mean by camping and outdoor activities? What are they signaling by this?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/20 05:32 PM
8

Seriously! I say this all the time and get criticized by feminists and liberals. If you're living in a third world country, I get it, but those in the first world really have no excuses.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/20 05:31 PM
7

You'd have a better time dating the spawn in 18.5 years
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/09/20 05:30 PM
1

Haha same here! I'm not even picky in the looks department, he's just not attractive to me anymore. I'll take an aging tom cruise any day lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 09:40 PM
2

Agreed and I like that last part. Definitely!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 09:40 PM
3

Am I the only woman alive who really doesn't get the hype around Leo's looks? He was hot in Titanic and some other earlier stuff and he's a great actor, but his face is just so wide and his body is flabby. Now brad Pitt has remained completely gorgeous all these years. Just don't get the Leo hype is all. Someone like Jeff Goldblum has arguably gotten hotter with the age.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 08:46 PM
4

So they're in love with their projections? Checks out but kinda depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 08:41 PM
2

agreed on both accounts. Many useless classes in high school, they should teach kids behavioral/ relationship stuff or something idk
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 01:36 PM
2

playing devil's advocate here, I think both sides should take responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 05:12 PM
1

nah just playing devil's advocate a bit. I think the responsibility falls on both sides. I don't do this at all, but I see it happening. my value system will not allow me to take advantage of people, but loads of women around me have no values it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 05:11 PM
1

yeah i agree both sides should mend behaviours
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 05:10 PM
10

I mean I agree with what he's saying and am female, but I will say that simps enable this behaviour. It isn't our fault some men literally worship pussy and will do anything for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 06:01 PM
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I'm female and realize it. Some of my female friends are toxic and I see the behaviours in them and their refusal to take responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 06:00 PM
2

onlyfans UBI but only for chicks lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 10:35 PM
1

So much for women mentoring and supporting other women. Reeks of toxic femininity to me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/09/20 01:23 AM
2

Yup I mean she actually isn't terrible looking compared to some of the others on here. I would feel bad for the sucker but like cmon... I suppose if he has some hero complex to fulfill then it might work out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/09/20 04:31 AM
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ya dude like it just makes other women look bad and its not fair to the dude or the kid. I hate when kids can tell they aren't wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 11:10 PM
1

Yeah I had to tell my mom what a simp is LOL. And I feel you. I guess it's just different these days. I feel wrong posting bikini pics on my IG feed when I'm literally swimming in the pool. My mom looks at my feed and wouldn't approve! And like 14 year olds getting fillers and Botox and stuff - nothing against these procedures but they're meant for middle aged to aging women! Young kids don't need it! A childhood is something you can't get back, let kids be kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 03:56 PM
27

Baby trapping is awful and needs more attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 03:45 PM
13

was it drama city? In my case it was haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 03:45 PM
7

30s F and yeah it's a deal breaker. I tried with this one dude because he only saw his (teenage) kids twice a month, but baby mama drama reared it's head. I do not want kids of my own and do not want to deal with them in any capacity. I do think as a woman, dating men with kids might be easier than for a man to date women with kids, as the woman usually has full custody. I do not blame childfree people for not wanting to become step parents or even date someone with a kid. I think it's best that…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 03:44 PM
1

Yeah same here. My dad was actually the one who looked down on blue collar workers and men but had since changed his tune after the series of recessions he was put through and after seeing all us college educated kids struggle to find jobs. My mom sometimes makes quippy remarks NOW but didn't in my formative years. Either way, they would literally murder me if I had an only fans or something. I was definitely taught to be modest and humble. I think it's crazy that so many girls' mothers take slu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 01:25 PM
2

I get what you're saying but I honestly don't see half my friend group, male or female, getting married at all. Highly doubt any will have kids either, especially out of wedlock. They're just never into any of that stuff and some are in their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 01:21 PM
2

Robots would be preferable
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:37 AM
1

I think adopting would be a nice option. Helping someone else out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:36 AM
1

Marry and breed so someone will care about you when you're old! That isn't the literal definition of narcissism /s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:34 AM
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Hell yeah, I'm euthanizing myself at 75 or sooner and I'm not bringing anymore souls outta the void so they can suffer and die. They need to legalize euthanasia!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:33 AM
1

It's shitty to be spat out into the void, where you will possibly also get cancer and will definitely die, just because someone is scared of aging. That's incredibly selfish to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:32 AM
2

I'm a bit on the younger side but have female friends with decent jobs constantly going out with dudes who are broke and don't have good jobs. Maybe they're more "Chad" in other ways? My friend group used to be many hippies, so it could just be a different attitude. None of us care about having a certain type of house or neighborhood or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:31 AM
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I think it's a generational thing. I do think men's rights people have many valid points, especially when it comes to how boys are treated and educated, and yeah the courts are messed up, but millennials were mostly taught to search for compatibility. In my town, at least, it's a ton of older Karen personalities trying to scam men. I overhear things at the pool and some men in my family have experienced this (I could tell these women were bad news from a mile away, however) but mostly women I kn…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:28 AM
2

What if the women they're going for is on the objectively unattractive side? Is their dick just optimistic then? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:25 AM
1

I think this is the case with older adults but for younger people, even men are not likely to have much money, so it would likely be an equal income partner or lower. Are these women chasing money? Many will remain childfree as younger generation is less interested in kids and conscientious of climate change. I totally agree that current laws and family courts favor the women. This happened to my uncle and he actually ended up getting custody of the kids, but it was a long fight and his ex was a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:23 AM
1

Too funny, I know too many dudes like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:20 AM
1

For me I don't feel like I settled but I do feel like I need to be alone a lot and want to live a certain lifestyle that is very on the run (airstream digital nomad life) I don't think it's fair to drag someone into this who is looking to settle down or for companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:13 AM
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For me I don't feel like I settled but I do feel like I need to be alone a lot and want to live a certain lifestyle that is very on the run (airstream digital nomad life) I don't think it's fair to drag someone into this who is looking to settle down or for companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:12 AM
1

I agree on the freedom thing completely
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:08 AM
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I'm actually kinda trad in many of my views but I also don't want kids and find relationships suffocating. I met a man who also didn't want kids, nice enough bloke, but it's already a dead bedroom (were only 30s and I've actually gotten better looking in the year we've been wed) and tons of issues. DINK is nice, same exactly job and salaries, and I like building our life together but I do feel completely suffocated. Might just be the dead bedroom thing, but I also was never a relationship person…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:06 AM
1

Eat hot chip and lie? I'm down lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:04 AM
1

What if your husband webs up being the one initiating the whole dead bedroom thing though?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 04:56 AM
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I mean I'm down with throwing humanity away period. I think a lot of people are opting out, but it's mostly men that are forced to opt out, as they don't have simps or only fans to bail them out. I think a lot of what you're saying is true in some contexts. The main issue to me is unchecked capitalism (human centered capitalism would be ok, ubi) and overpopulation. Things will get even worse with increased automation. People won't have jobs and men will be effected the most with no bailout, no r…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 04:45 AM
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Never implied men should shut up and take it, more suggesting they just don't deal with women period. Seems like a lose/lose situation for many.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 04:28 AM
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This is a long response but I actually do agree with a lot of it. My comment was mostly suggesting men just opt out, as it's clear to me that the system is actually biased against them. I find mgtow interesting and was more suggesting mgtow as the only sane existing option for a huge chunk of men. Simping seems like a learned behaviour to me. Perhaps from the single mother pandemic? They likely raise either criminal chads or beta simps. How are men born simps? Just stack cash and pay for escorts…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 04:27 AM
2

Yeah I guess it feels more intimate? Sounds lonely though idk
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 11:53 PM
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I was being facetious! Sorry if it didn't come off that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 05:10 PM
0

Someone attractive and successful isn't always selfish gtfo lol. A lot of people are just plain lucky or actually work hard to look decent and get ahead in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 01:25 PM
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Exactly! Why do men bitch when they're literally not being forced into it ...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 01:23 PM
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When I was in East Asia this was a thing for old ladies. They were actually cute for older women and looked rich but would be out with really young pretty boys on dates and stuff. They were definitely paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 01:21 PM
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I don't get it, can't they just access millions of porn vids...for free? What's the only fans appeal even??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 01:20 PM
1

Yes! Normalize being alone. Seen too many friends lives ruined by marriage or even unstable partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 04:06 AM
1

What about programmers, engineers, etc (not the bro-grammer type, the true nerds)? So men in professions where they're making decent money but grew up and still are extremely nerdy, sorta "beta". In their jobs they're pretty high value as far as salary and role go, but what about real life? Do they transcend by this alone? I'd argue that they definitely don't in western countries at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 04:00 AM
1

I mean to be American is to be narcissistic in some aspects of the culture. Like it's definitely encouraged amongst men and women imo, good ole "rugged individualism"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 03:57 AM
0

good ole sado masochism at work
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 03:54 AM
1

Do you think narcissism and BPD are made and not inherent disease someone is born with? So like socially created? Or people have biological dispositions to it and the way they are raised/ their experience in society brings it out in them? Interesting to think about. Also, if you realize you're a narcissist, you might not be one. Most narcissists lack this self awareness. Maybe you're just an average dude living in a fucked up time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 03:52 AM
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Yeah man hopefully he simply wised up. What kinda dude is like hell yeah lemme raise and pay for chads kid real quick while I'm at it?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/20 12:55 AM
6

In America it just means "not obese".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/20 12:27 AM
4

She should refer to herself as an older woman. She actually does look decent for that age, better than most of the "20 somethings" (according to their profiles) that we see here. Also who is she chasing after? Just get a hobby and some cats and call it a life. She got divorced at mid life maybe now she should go her own way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/20 12:25 AM
1

True. Don't know why the downvoted. Saying someone looks better than the average broad on here isn't really a compliment...have they seen the other posts? She's not obese, so that already gives her a leg up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/20 05:21 AM
1

She seems 10X better than most profiles we see on here. She isn't that old, is still attractive and no kids. Still, what does she offer? The list of demands thing is getting old and is entitled imo.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/08/20 11:57 PM
2

I thought most profiles were approved? Dating a male teacher seems ok, get that pension and those summers off.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/08/20 12:47 AM
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I agree! I can spot these red flags from a mile away! Why can't most dudes? Especially since she's more attractive than the other post wall single moms here, I'm sure she's got a lot of suckers lining up ready to bail her out! Is it because of the "victim narrative" many women use? social pressure? Genuinely curious.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/20 11:55 PM
1

At least she's tall (6 feet tall?! She could model if so) and skinny. Could have a normal life if she just wasn't a single mom with 2 kids, presumably 2 different dads.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/20 03:51 PM
4

I mean she may have eaten her own offspring, given the photo LOL
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/20 04:07 AM
1

Why do men let women like this do that to them, though? It makes me sad for them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/20 04:07 AM
4

Single is best.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/08/20 01:25 AM
3

Don't men also have pressure to get married by a certain age? Genuinely curious. Marriage pressure seemed to be severe to me in Korea and super non existent in Europe. In USA maybe it's in the middle - higher for women, lower for men? What do you think?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/20 11:39 PM
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Why do dudes do it then? Seems like a lose/lose for the man and they're still going for it. Takes two to tango.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/20 09:56 PM
9

I think a lot of people low key hate naturally pretty women though. I don't mean hot like they try a lot and look sexy, I mean women who are effortlessly kind of pretty and modest get hated on by other, envious women, are seen more as "just their looks" by a lot of people, and men sometimes degrade them more to just their aesthetic value. I also think people resent them because they remind them of the girls that rejected them in high school (even though many adult beauties probably peaked later …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 03:10 PM
4

I find the best men to be under 6 feet. I myself am 5'10" though and got tall early in life, so I went through a stage where I was the awkward "tall girl", so I just don't judge men on their height. Most of my LTR are with men my height or slightly shorter (one time way shorter, like 5'6"). shorter dudes bring it in the bedroom in my experience. I don't get the tall obsession (unless the woman is super tall, then, OK, but I find tall women to actually be less judgmental with height)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 03:07 PM
1

Put this quote on my grave, it's awesome and true. The best you can do is opt out as much as possible and never perpetuate the cycle (antinatalism)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 06:27 AM
1

Lmao. Borrowed the terms from woke relatives just to make some kinda point..got away from it there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 02:26 PM
1

Yeah I mean I agree and I am a woman. Capitalism could profit off "feminism" in a way that industrialisation could not. It's why all the fake woke marketing tactics of major corporations make me sick. Like yeah you support women and minorities only in the context of them coming to work for you everyday or buy your product. Just like anything else, I'm sure the roots of feminism were well meaning and it did do some good, but others had to glob on and essentially ruin it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 04:37 AM
2

I think it's fine to hire women but to pay them enough so their partners could theoretically stay home. But no, they depressed wages so that this is no longer allowed, and it should be a possibility, regardless of child status or gender
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 10:56 PM
4

but I feel like corporatism took up feminism as a cause in order to push the "they have to" on women, and then to all two parent homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 09:47 PM
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I just hate how "women have the right to work" became "women MUST work to keep the family afloat". Even outside of cishet relationships, even in some kinda throuple, every adult has to work now (unless family is very lucky, becoming rare) just to afford basic shit. That's not what feminism should have evolved into. Also, kids need two parents, idc what their gender is even. Single motherhood is another way feminism failed us collectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 08:13 PM
1

Lol like women aren't violent??? Men have never attacked me viciously like women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 04:16 AM
3

Idk I usually am not friends with guys I wouldn't maybe hook up with. But if we're both in relationships already, it likely won't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 04:14 AM
1

Idk some men prefer "chameleon" types or choose them unwittingly, thinking they actually got shit in common but she's just pretending in order to trap him in these cases.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/20 03:08 PM
22

Chris Rock sketch comes to mind - what you want a cookie?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/20 05:02 AM
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At least she's skinny and childfree. Her profile is way tl;dr, but it's peak WAATGM?! She's so close to getting it by the end of her demand rant. Close...but no cigar.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/20 05:01 AM
1

It's this a new thing? So many single moms I now act hyper masculine and pretend to be into all this nerdy and outdoor stuff. I know them in real life, they mostly just watch tv and get their nails done. The contrast between their proclaimed hobbies and what they really do is shocking. Then my friend started dating her and she's all into camping with him and stuff.. for how long I wonder?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/08/20 01:15 AM
2

also so many baby trap and then cry about it for the rest of their lives, playing victim to attract govt hand outs, family assistance, and lure in simps.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/20 11:58 PM
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Eh I'm a woman and seem to just witness the worst of women in my experiences with them. I also think human rights are important, and I see men and boys being neglected constantly in favor of women, where attention should be paid to making both of their lives better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 04:32 AM
2

She'll do this when she's like 35 and still desperate for a bailout when the wall is approaching.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/08/20 05:18 AM
1

True but why are so many single guys going for this? I'd just opt out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/08/20 05:16 AM
1

Why do so many childless (not divorces or fathers themselves, that could make sense) men go for it these days though? Even marrying them, f funding the kid, etc. wouldn't solitude be preferable? I just do not get it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/08/20 05:13 AM
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I always had my own hobbies and needed my own personal space and seem to choose partners that also need space and time to do their own thing. This is the norm for me, so when I see women (or men- there are plenty these days, believe it or not) like that, or couples that do everything together, it rubs me the wrong way and makes me think about how fucked our society has become. I want a man to be a man and not like a shopping buddy or yoga partner - that's what I have female friends for..and vice…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/20 04:34 AM
2

Bridget Jones is like underweight compared to the average female in America at least.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/20 11:10 PM
4

Yes I know so many women who do this. They then take up all the males hobbies (except, of course, gaming and anything else indoors and "nerdy") while dating - like ohhh I'm so geeky I love comic con (drinks the whole time) and trekking (is 50lbs overweight just walks around), etc, just to drop the hobbies once they marry or she finds someone else. Develop real hobbies and personalities, people, cmon. It's ok to be different from your partner.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/20 10:04 PM
1

Maybe white parents haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 03:47 PM
1

I get what you're saying but some people don't intrinsically understand these things. I had to learn them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 03:36 PM
6

I feel like tons of women are like this too. Like if I told my female friend to stop speaking a certain way at work to be taken more seriously, or to lose some weight/ dress more professional, they'd also go on some "mansplaining/ women hater!" Rampage. I just think the amount of people who can handle direct criticism and advice is dwindling lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 05:11 AM
3

I think it sucks to assume women should automatically be able to tell the difference between harsh and gentle ways to give advice and that men are supposed to read between these lines. I'd rather everyone just keep it real all of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 05:06 AM
4

Everything isn't as "gendered" as PPD wants us to believe. I have always given honest advice rooted in logic. I keep it real all of the time and men and women have consistently misunderstood me and gotten upset to the point where I don't really bother and became a loner. Like don't ask if you don't wanna hear it, ya know? I feel like large swaths of people are living in a mental fantasy land and can't handle the truth, regardless of gender. Clown world for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 05:02 AM
2

Edit - I thought you said she was looking for a husband to act as a stay at home dad for the kid which is what I think is going on. I mean if she were literally to pay for everything it might not be a terrible deal. I'd respect some dude that went for that more than I respect dudes that wife up single mothers and pay for everything so that the mother can do more staying at home. At least this one might fund dude for once
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/20 03:57 AM
1

this sounds exactly like my friend, omg. He literally bought them a new house and is sending the daughter to college. And she plans to go to medical school omg lol. To be fair, the woman is like 40 and he's 35, so at least she isn't that old but like at 35 doing all this? It would almost be more normal if he just dated one of the daughters sorority sisters....like I just don't get it. The woman is fat and he's gotten fat ever since the marriage.he was ready to retire out to the countryside but j…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/20 03:55 AM
3

Dude I know so many guys who do exactly this and treat these washed up women like queens and spoil chads kids...like why? One that I know doesn't even like kids but was so willing to fund chads? With that kinda money you can at least find a younger women without kids to be childfree with (this was his original objective). The other wanted kids himself but the divorcee he married was way too old for this so, once again, this man finds chads kids educations only to have them literally despise him …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/08/20 03:49 AM
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Well I've lived a bunch of places and do find the south is more concerned with looks overall than the Midwest. I find midwesterns more likely to choose partners based on shared interests, be monogamous, get married and stay married. Moving to south and then the southwest, I noticed people place more stock in looks overall. Southwest especially seems to have a ton of divorcees and people who ate on their third marriage. I have made many older single female acquaintances out here who have kind of …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 05:53 PM
3

I'm female hahaha. Idk I think it could be region. In Chicago it's definitely a thing. Like the fat goofy dude with skinny hot wife trope and then there's the semi handsome nice guy who marries his down to earth, plain Jane gal pal. I'm sure it's a different story for people who grew up on online dating though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 05:32 PM
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agree but she still looks better than some of the 20 something on here which is scary.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/08/20 05:17 AM
1

Attractive women seem more likely to date down than average/ ugly women. Maybe bc they don't need the validation or care.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 04:41 AM
1

Fuck/ baby trap haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 04:40 AM
9

Why do I see so many ugly fat women with decent looking dudes then? Who like have decent jobs and buy them houses and shit? Most of the good looking women I know are single and have careers and advanced degrees and are able to pay for shit on their own, whereas the uglier ones completely depend on their SOs who act subservient and are better looking than the women most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 04:35 AM
1

I'd still want some beta orbiters who were down for foreplay and oral only lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 05:43 AM
2

I've read some accounts of polygamous men going insane keeping up with all the demands...like careful what you wish for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:31 AM
2

Yeah this is my ideal situation haha. But the men also leave me alone like 75% of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:26 AM
2

I'm down for a harem myself. Just a lotta role play and kinky stuff, nothing boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:24 AM
0

Yeah but if you didn't need the resources, like in the OP fantasy situation, then what? Harem it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 04:23 AM
1

I don't know. I know it's not purple pill debate but maybe our views of high value women are different. You're right when it comes good looking women who just want to marry rich chads and have his kids, social climbers, e thots. I think there are women who are attractive and ambitious in other ways, like career, changing the world for the better, who don't spend all their energy seeking chads validation because they just don't have to. It doesn't serve their needs (they already have good jobs an…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/20 03:49 AM
2

They don't even deserve beta bob. Beta bob should think higher of himself. Why slave away for women like this? Save your money bob, and retire early to Thai beaches or something.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/20 03:30 AM
12

Low value women seem to expect the most...is this a valid observation?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/20 12:11 AM
3

I find that boring, plain to kinda ugly looking women are more focused on looks themselves. Maybe they need the validation more?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/20 12:08 AM
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True, a lot of the more attractive women I know are actually married to just average dudes. Most of them lost interest in chad chasing long before their lesser counterparts, or were just more motivated to work on themselves rather than chase Chad in the first place? Not "sticking up" for anyone but wondering why this phenomena exists? Why are the 4/10 always life long chad chasers or alpha widowed single mothers?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/20 12:07 AM
16

Look at my big tits I'm so thicccc (is really just obese)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/07/20 01:16 PM
1

So B is beta buxx then?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 02:20 PM
0

What about beta buxx? Do men that women beta buxx have to be a certain level of attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 02:18 PM
6

I like the Filipino ones, friendly people
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/07/20 09:26 PM
1

Yeah but this is becoming increasing rare with how much child rearing costs and how taxing it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 03:13 PM
2

Idk a lot of couples in my age group- 30s - marry and raise a dog together. It's still pretty satisfying but no childbirth, college tuition, can still travel, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 03:10 PM
1

If a man in his mid 30s chooses a single mom (daughter, off to university soonish in this case) in her early 40s, is it truly just lack of options? I see this type of age gap more frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:39 PM
2

I settled down, I just don't want kids. Neither does my husband. We like quiet, traveling and money. I also think it sucks to be born just to die. You can "settle down" without popping out babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:38 PM
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Also, overpopulation, earth is dying, jobs being wiped away by automation...sorry I don't want my kids to die in the water wars of 2050 or whatever. I would adopt if I was like celebrity level rich though. Earth doesn't need anymore bodies to suffer and die dude. You can still be fairly trad without kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:34 PM
2

What about married childless couples? (Childfree by choice, travel together, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:33 PM
1

Isn't that the point of mgtow? Accept it and move on, go your own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:32 PM
20

Hate to say it, but male nurses in my experience have been the most understanding, informed, and efficient. Thanks for what you do and sorry for the coworkers you have to deal with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/20 02:51 PM
23

I know so many women like this!!! 35 with a 15 year old form chad and suddenly into all these "nerdy" hobbies like board games, gaming, lord of the rings (lol). She probably bullied any dude with these hobbies in high school. Feel bad for the "nerd" she catches.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/20 12:02 AM
3

she would want to speak to your manager.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/20 08:48 PM
6

pretty hot, fit and not a single mother but got that Karen attitude guessing she's got some kinda tramp stamp as well sadly, she's still better at 43 than a majority of 20 something females out there..
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/07/20 08:45 PM
6

They should teach this in schools. We learned nothing about interest rates and the like in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:54 AM
3

I loved quarantining just to get away from this shit tbh. I get what you're saying, but the real issue is globalism and automation potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:48 AM
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and those jobs are about to be automated away. they are testing self driving cars where I live right now. It's a huge issue and only Yang really talked about it. Keeps me up at night anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:45 AM
10

they can also outsource and/or automate just about anything now. Jobs themselves hardly exist anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:42 AM
4

Working what jobs though? I want to live in a more rural area but have been living in large cities due to locations of jobs in my field. I'm hoping covid will allow for more remote work. Then we will see more people move out into rural areas. But, due to how corrupted capitalism has become in the USA, those areas will then become unaffordable shortly after. I'm not even anti capitalism I just think it's gone too far here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 03:41 AM
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Yup. And that type of rhetoric implies "all women are victims" - isn't that sexist?!!! Guess we've come full circle here in clown world.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/07/20 03:46 AM
5

The one on the right sadly looks better than most 25 year olds these days
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/06/20 10:36 PM
6

Idk she looks better than the 22 year old single mothers on here. And she clearly doesn't need a bailout. She's legit better than like 95% of women on dating apps in America.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/20 10:20 PM
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