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1	How to take rejection? If you are getting rejections through cold approach, understand that the rejection often has more to do with your method. Women give a lot more leeway to guys who've been presented to them through social circle than through day-game, which is a much more cut-throat venue since you're coming from a place of having little to no social validation. While I encourage guys to try cold approach if the opportunity presents itself organically, it's also worth appreciating that you are operating from a si…	/r/seduction	04/10/19 06:01 PM
2	Beginning a Rejection Challenge Good thinking. Framing things as a "rejection challenge" as a newbie is good as it takes the pressure off to succeed. Letting go of your pressing need to get laid enables you to relax and be more present in the interaction. While you certainly shouldn't TRY to get rejected, the reality is success is the fruit of rejection, and that the more proactive attitude you have towards rejection, the more likely you are to succeed.	/r/seduction	27/09/19 05:13 PM
1	Like most things Too much is made of technique with cold approach, you can have a car crash of an interaction and still get the result. What cold approach really boils down to is working on your fundamentals, and from there playing the numbers game. If you do it enough, you're going to find yourself in interactions with girls who are interested, which is where success happens.	/r/seduction	26/09/19 06:20 PM
1	To the expert of Day game I would advise against going for a girl with friends or family. Although you see guys doing this in YouTube videos, it's largely a show-off for the camera. Even if you get the result, the girl is going to get social pressure not to follow through almost immediately from the friend/relative they were with.	/r/seduction	26/09/19 05:40 PM
1	Does tinder only benefit big cities? Game in general is better in large cities, seeing as you have a larger mating pool. Tinder isn't great for guys for a lot of reasons. With guys usually being more generalist in their mating preferences than women, even a marginally above-average girl will be flooded with male attention on the app. This leads to girls getting inflated egos, and your message often ending up lost in a sea of similar messages from other guys. Engineering your profile (e.g. signalling with your photos that you're s…	/r/seduction	18/09/19 04:37 PM

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