ashieboo10 Archive

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6	Ever see something in the media and think, "I'm glad I discovered RPW before I thought this was a good idea"? Many of those things used to come up in my BP relationships in the past. There was so much insecurity and disrespect flying around that there was barely any time to be happy. It was actually a miserable existence! I'm soo glad I discovered RP. It has prevented so many stupid arguments. I would much rather spend time with my boyfriend laughing and flirting than complaining and arguing. I know my boyfriend finds it as a relief from the behavior he's used to seeing in women. None of those things ar…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/12/17 01:39 PM
2	Tips on how to STFU? When I feel like I want to be particularly verbose during a conflict, I just remind myself, "keep your dignity." I don't want to have an emotional outburst that I will regret later. I don't want to seem unattractive or pushy. Just think about the image you want to project, and think for a very long time before you say something. Also, remember the quote, "Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt." Even if you think you're "right", being right isn't alw…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/11/17 07:25 PM
13	When your SO opens up to you: what do you do? I personally think it is unattractive if a man never, ever opens up. I like to know that he has feelings and that he's comfortable enough to share them with me.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/11/17 06:02 PM
2	Little Things (LTR and Married RPW, Please) Absolutely! I do this too! It really works to relax him after a long day. He doesn't have to worry about talking to me, he can just drift off and maybe even fall asleep.	/r/RedPillWomen	13/11/17 08:08 PM
2	Monthly Goals I want to finally go to the boxing class my BF goes to. He's been telling me he wants me to come with him, but I have avoided it because of shyness. I need to just suck it up and go! There is a local book club I've been thinking about going to, but once again, being shy has prevented me from doing it. I'm going to actually show up this month! I really just want to get more involved in social activities. I live alone and can be quite the hermit. If I go to an activity that is productive in some o…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/11/17 05:11 PM
2	Share ways that you keep things romantic/exciting/loving in your relationship? My boyfriend and I live separately, so a few times I have gotten him a card or written him a letter and mailed it to his house! Sometimes they're goofy, sometimes they're sweet. It's just something to surprise him when he gets his mail and has to open bills and other boring stuff.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/11/17 01:37 PM
2	How do you deal with gossip? I'm in the same situation now with my SO's family, especially his brother. I learned pretty quickly (thankfully through observation and not direct experience) that if you don't want what you say to be repeated, don't tell him! You can't control what they think or say about you, so just try not to give them anything to obsess over. They might find something anyway, but who cares? If people can't find dirt on a person, they'll invent something. Just keep being kind and be careful what you say arou…	/r/RedPillWomen	27/10/17 07:14 PM
3	LOL about the "shocking" difference between RP and BP relationships It's definitely not weird to have a "moment" with your husband when people are around. My boyfriend and I have a group of friends who are funny and interesting, but they are all in BP relationships where the woman seems to wear the pants. That means they constantly have drama and conflict. It annoys them that we don't have conflict, and if we have a cute little moment when we are around everyone and they see it, they get really annoyed and just haaave to say something. There is definitely jealou…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/10/17 12:35 PM
3	will breaking up with him make him respect me more? The cycle most likely will continue. You can't fix or change anyone all on your own. If you're exhausted from the emotional roller coaster, maybe it's time to consider what your life would be like without all of that.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/10/17 01:46 PM
4	What is your RP relationship like? What is it like? It's relaxed and lighthearted. We do a lot of fun things together and we laugh all the time. We don't bicker and nag at each other, so our time is spent enjoying each other's company. How do you feel when you are with your Captain? We met initially when we were in high school, 15 years ago, so being around him makes me feel young again. I also feel protected. He never loses his cool, so I feel like he is in control in all situations. Is it fun? Do you ever get tired or bored aro…	/r/RedPillWomen	06/10/17 01:28 PM
14	"If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best." -Marilyn Monroe I cringe every time I see this quote. I think it is most definitely an excuse for bad behavior. When I see it on Facebook, the person who posted it is always prone to drama, public hissy fits and temper tantrums, and is usually very confrontational. These peoples' "best" is usually just what most would consider to be normal behavior. It's a total cop out that says "I'm out of control most of the time, so deal with it."	/r/RedPillWomen	25/09/17 08:17 PM
3	My husband had me quit my job and hobbies. I would like advice on how to talk to him about it. This really gave me goosebumps because I was in this same exact situation for 10 years. The insecurity, isolation, the drinking...all of it happened to me. I was patient and was always trying to placate him and cooperate, and it never changed anything. Then I tried standing up for myself and doing what I wanted, and it just got worse. I ended it last year because I couldn't stand being so lonely and unhappy. I wish I had some advice to make it better, but I don't. I don't think those behaviors c…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/09/17 12:52 PM
10	What RPW "idea" DON'T you subscribe too? Yes to all three of these points. For me, the RPW ideas that I agree with mostly have to do with how to treat your SO. Don't nag, don't try to control, give him space, trust his judgement, let him decide, let him be a man, etc. In my opinion, rules about age and when to do things don't apply to everybody.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/08/17 05:03 PM
6	"We're equal." It's funny, but my new boyfriend and his friends seem to be under this spell. Thing is, I treat him like he's a man and not a child, and he seems to be taking charge more and more. I slip in observations about how men are generally treated badly by women and society at large. His friends' terrible (but "equal"!) relationships are perfect examples for me to comment on, and he agrees with me. I really think a lot of men are just indoctrinated into the equality thing without thinking about it, and …	/r/RedPillWomen	29/08/17 12:54 PM
5	Him testing me? It seems like you're making it more than it was. He was grouchy for whatever reason (which may have had nothing at all to do with you), and you were asking him about it multiple times and trying to be cute. Bugging him about it is really just another way to try to control or change his behavior. Leave him alone when he's in a crappy mood. He'll come around, and maybe even tell you what was wrong later.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/08/17 06:16 PM