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DUMP HIM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:42 AM
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Omg too many to count
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 04:09 AM
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One day you’ll wake up and not even think of him. Hang in there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 07:21 PM
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One thing that keeps me going is remembering how CLOSE I keep getting with each guy I have to say goodbye to. Each one is getting better than the last. I had a boyfriend over the summer I completely fell in love with and he ended things. I thought to myself, “if I liked this guy THAT much and the universe closed the door, I can’t wait to meet who it wants me to stay with. I bet he’ll be even better!” I’m proud of you. What you did wasn’t easy. It’s also helpful to remind ourselves that the brain…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 07:14 PM
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YES YES YES!!!! This is huge! Buy yourself a bottle of champagne and celebrate to this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 01:06 AM
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You guys heard the latest on him right? Acting out rape fantasies with knives, drinking blood, liking cannibalism? I grew up with him and we all knew he was fucking weird. He literally wasn’t even popular in high school. I’m glad the truth is finally coming out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:05 PM
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Now I recognize my worth and if he doesn’t plan a proper date I’m out. I didn’t come to this sub expecting to fall in love with myself or ALL of you wonderful ladies but boy am I glad I’m here. FDS is Bible!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 03:42 AM
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😭🙌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 01:23 AM
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I want thissss! Congrats lovely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:22 PM
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Here’s the full article. Stripper music videos are NOT about women “owning their sexuality”. They are not feminist. Was pleasantly surprised to see this comment from Snoop. What do you guys think?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 08:51 PM
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Invite this woman!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 08:27 PM
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😭😭😭😭 Can I hug you? I do feel like I’m one step closer with each one. Idk you but you’re my sister and I love you. Your support and encouragement means the world ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:39 AM
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Ty babe! The only thing that keeps me going is the belief that it wasn’t meant for me. Not sure if that’s FDS or not, but I prayed a long time ago that God would shut all doors not meant for me. I know FDS wants us to be content whether or not a man comes into play, put I’m believing that even though I thought this guy was my dream man, God has something better in store.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:37 AM
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He said it wasn’t there for him :( I’m trying not to focus on why I wasn’t enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:33 AM
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He said it wasn’t there for him :( I’m trying not to focus on why I wasn’t enough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:33 AM
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Ughhhhh I just had a HVM end things with me so I feel you on the cheering up thing. Wish we could drink wine together rn!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:39 AM
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LOUDER FOR THE BOYS IN THE BACK!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:08 AM
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He’s got some serious issues. I read another thing about him today and he’s legit crazy. She needs a restraining order STAT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:15 AM
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Lmao should we have a picture day and show these fools how beautiful we all are?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 07:20 PM
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Tell us!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:19 PM
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🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:19 PM
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Yes queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 02:50 AM
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I’m a smoke show
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:47 PM
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👏🏼👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 07:15 AM
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Oof, you’re hired as my life coach. For reals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 07:09 AM
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Lol!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:49 PM
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Love you 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:23 PM
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Soooo good!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:21 PM
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Not dumb at all!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:20 PM
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Such good advice. I’m on meds now but it’s almost like I need to up the dose when I like a guy lol. You’re so right about being happy before they came along. It’s that scarcity mindset of “what if I don’t find another guy this great” mixed with self-doubt that I’m not good enough but these are LIES and I know it. It’s hard to find things that bring joy when the anxiety is bad, I’m sure you can relate. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 06:19 PM
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Thank you, love. I wonder sometimes if the anxiety is our bodies KNOWING something is wrong, or if it’s just my fear/past trauma creeping in. It’s happened with every guy I’ve liked eventually though. I’ll definitely try to be upfront and honest next time. I made the mistake of going through my ex’s phone to search for why he was being distant and found nothing and he dumped me for it. If the next guy can’t be patient in this area and validate me maybe he’s not the one for me. I do need therapy …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:58 PM
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I mean, even with therapy and meds, this stuff doesn’t necessarily go away and anxiety can still creep back in. I’m not dating right now. I’m just curious if other women here can relate and how they handle it. Edit: I don’t disagree with you btw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 05:48 PM
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You spelled it right! I was named after her and everyone always spells it with an e instead of an a
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 12:40 AM
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Woooowwwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 08:10 PM
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Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 09:14 AM
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Don’t have sex unless your heart feels safe boo. I’ve waited until then and I’ve STILL been ghosted after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 11:16 PM
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No drama 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:55 PM
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👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:32 AM
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I love you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 12:35 AM
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That’s a nice thought but it’s really starting to feel like me. I just got dumped by my boyfriend who was never as into it as I was, and he was looking for a wife. I also just got ghosted after what I thought was a nice date a few weeks ago :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 10:33 PM
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Ughhh it hurts though. How do I get over the feeling of WHY NOT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 08:13 PM
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That ANY mental illness (adhd, depression, anxiety, etc) equals weakness and is “natural selection doing its job”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 10:24 PM
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YES QUEEN!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 11:13 PM
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👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 06:49 AM
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People in open relationships maybe? Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 06:58 PM
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Yes where are they located???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 01:41 AM
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Bravo, Victor, and please teach the others!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 08:11 PM
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Hugs! I just got dumped and am dealing with major rejection issues
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:38 PM
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Aka you weren’t his first choice then or now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 11:54 PM
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Same!!!! This is devastating news to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 08:21 AM
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Why was this downvoted? If it’s someplace I’m familiar with, i might be able to give better feedback on where to meet hvw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 06:32 PM
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Where do you live?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:08 PM
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He couldn’t be more wrong!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 05:00 PM
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Muah!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 02:12 AM
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This is real. I almost didn’t go after my boss who sexually harassed me out of fear of ruining his life...his wife leaving him, his job at stake, etc....but fuck that!!! Most wives already know or deserve to know. I wasn’t the first girl and I wasn’t going to be the last. Be nice for what?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 07:52 PM
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Sure, Jan
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:51 PM
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Yesss queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 10:23 PM
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Did we date the same guy?! Mine would DM them and tell them how beautiful they were. I was like...why are you with me if you clearly aren’t all about me? I waited until he went to work one day and packed my shit, blocked him and left without a peep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 03:16 PM
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Omg they are only 4 years apart!!! Lmao!!! My boyfriend is 11 years older than me but treats me as his equal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 07:59 PM
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Yes!!! On the bright side, at least the owner didn’t see the point in keeping it ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 12:22 AM
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Ha! I like it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 12:21 AM
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He is out there girl!!!! You don’t need to settle, just be patient. God can exceed your wildest expectations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 03:06 AM
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Bestiessss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 06:48 PM
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slow clap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 08:42 AM
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You let them do the talking and listen carefully. Anything you say can and will be used against you at this stage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 09:35 AM
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It’s been 5 months and I still throw up/wake up with anxiety when I think about the two of them together. You know, the one he gaslighted me about over and over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 05:44 PM
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NOT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 05:52 PM
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Thank you!!!! It was with a woman half her age in her own house too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 06:01 PM
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I was on r/bravorealhousewives and everyone was saying how one housewife should get back with her ex husband who cheated on her. I thought I was taking crazy pills when I said every woman deserves better and got downvoted to hell. All these women saying “people make mistakes” “they’re soulmates”. Like how about we stop making excuses/justifying what’s WRONG with mens behavior and settling for this crap?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 05:53 PM
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I think he meant mentally ill when he said severely damaged. And to men, any emotion=crazy/unwell/mentally ill....aka OVERREACTING. Fuck that guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 03:23 AM
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How come you’re on this sub out of curiosity?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 07:54 AM
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Omggg I’ve got one of those right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 07:54 AM
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PREACH SISTER!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 02:42 AM
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No fuck that, they’ll ask you to be their gf, get the blowjob then bounce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 01:04 AM
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It’s the kick to the ego and wanting to prove to yourself you can “win”. I’m guilty of this shit and I know it’s because of rejection issues that I need therapy for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 09:40 PM
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Ok that’s it, I’m done with men. I’m starting a women’s only FDS compound where I will live happily ever after from this point on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 09:32 PM
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You’re amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 04:58 AM
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PS- you’re not planning on living there until the lease is up are you? 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 03:22 AM
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Girl I’m dealing with the EXACT same thing and have never wanted to hug someone and buy them a cocktail more in my life!!!! Get in here!!! 🤗 I made the tragic mistake of staying longer than you did and things got so much worse. The anxiety, pain, anger, etc will lessen ever so slowly over time until the day he doesn’t even pop in to your head. As much as I know this to be true, I’m literally crying as I write this because I’m having a rough anxiety day. Too much time alone in my head replaying e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 10:33 PM
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Love bombing and taking away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:14 PM
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My heart is broken
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 07:18 AM
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Is he being ironic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 07:04 AM
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Yeah I got similar responses here and didn’t know what to say. People saying we’re toxic, smh...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:40 AM
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Love you guys! You’ve changed my life and are my REAL friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 05:20 PM
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OH HELL NAH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 07:00 AM
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Men do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 07:59 PM
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CLOWN WORLD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 07:59 PM
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Tell me what you learn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 05:47 AM
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I know women that prefer it 🤷🏻‍♀️ one of them is a hvw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 12:19 AM
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Oh noooo. What kind of industry?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 02:30 AM
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Very well said. I regret my comment. We should all strive for better than these sites. Taking money from a man is not being a powerful feminist, as much as people like Lala from Vanderpump Rules would like to believe. It’s taking the easy way out and that comes with a price, unfortunately. Thank you for sharing you story. I’m truly sorry for what happened to you and hope you’ve found healing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 08:51 PM
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Chances I can get money without having to do anything though? Asking for a friend...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 12:21 PM
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I told my ex if he cheated on me I’d ruin his life. I promptly got him kicked out of his house, fired from his job, got his car towed AND got him arrested. I warrrrnnneddd youuuuu! It didn’t feel like enough at the time. You want to tell me I’m crazy for thinking you’re cheating? I’ll show you what real crazy is when I prove it’s true. Don’t worry, I don’t have any reason to feel or act like that anymore....I no longer ignore red flags thanks to you guys 😘😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 09:39 PM
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Very true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 07:22 AM
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He donated his sperm to shut her up and was probably praying the procedure wouldn’t take.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 04:00 AM
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Preach honay!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 03:57 AM
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She’s free though now! Hallelujah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 08:27 AM
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Meghan King Edmonds Questions Her Role in Jim's Cheating ”Right when [Jim] and I got married. I knew that [Jim] had this bad boy kind of past and we were newlyweds and trying to have fun and he wanted to have a threesome," she claimed. "I thought about it, yeah, okay maybe, sure. We decided to have a threesome, a consensual adult decision with a friend of mine. I felt very comfortable with her, it just felt like okay, if I'm gonna do this, this can be with who and I'm comfortable with that.” ”Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 08:13 AM
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If there’s no response they don’t get it or they’ll keep trying thinking we didn’t see their message though??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 01:10 AM
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What the actual fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 01:09 AM
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I HAVE A DREAM that one day all women will rise up, live out the true meaning of the FDS creed: We hold this truth to be self-evident—that no man is created equal to us! 👸🏻👸🏾👸🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 01:07 AM
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PREACH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 03:21 PM
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Share some!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 09:44 AM
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My money decides to leave me all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 11:12 AM
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Don’t go back!!!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 08:47 PM
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Fuuuuuckkkkk. THIS is what I needed. You’re hired as my life coach, yo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 08:25 AM
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I have nothing to add just wanted to let you know I’m going through the exact same thing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 09:09 PM
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You’re a good friend 👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 09:13 AM
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