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My husband and I have fantasized about it but I doubt it will ever go further than that. It would be awesome to have another adult bringing value in with an additional income or homemaking, not to mention exciting in the bedroom. I’m positive it would be challenging in many ways too. I just don’t even want to risk my marriage over trying it. I assume it would be really hard to find someone up to our standards who is even interested in that dynamic.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/26 10:38 PM
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I don’t know that I would necessarily give this advice to someone, but I wasn’t physically attracted to my husband when we were dating. It would especially freak me out whenever I had PMS. I’d think to myself what am I doing? He deserves someone who is completely in to him. 6 years into marriage and he is so freaking hot to me now, I catch myself just staring at him with heart eyes pretty frequently. We both have had insane glow ups. I think it’s the love🥰
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/26 05:01 PM
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Gap
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/26 03:14 PM
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Put these phrases in your back pocket: •”tell me more” •”why is that?” •”what’s that been like for you?” •literally just repeat back to them a part of what they just said.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/26 11:18 PM
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Love this question☺️ Any time I touch myself; drying off from a bath, putting on lotion, scratching and itch, putting on chapstick, etc., I do so delicately. For more examples, I brush/braid my hair slow and gently. I wash my face slowly. I gently remove my jacket rather ripping it off and chucking it aside. I guess slowness and softness are graceful to me😌
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/26 10:54 PM
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I slept with 16 people if I’m even remembering correctly. It was in a relatively short amount of time after a bad breakup when I went a little nuts. And, my husband was also kind of like my dad for the first couple years of our marriage. Sadly. I didn’t really learn how to take care of myself growing up. My parents just did everything for me instead of teaching me how. It’s hard but people like us just need to “reparent” ourselves in a lot of ways.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/26 10:33 PM
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First of all, your definition of “kind of a slut” is very different than mine..😭 For executive function, set timers. Even for 3 minutes just to tidy up. If the task is bigger like dishes or laundry, put an audiobook/podcast/upbeat music on with headphones. Try to look at your space through his eyes. For weight loss AND budget, my advice is to make a meal plan and do your shopping on one day of the week. I like to make the same meal multiple nights to help with the mental load of it all. Get in t…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/26 10:22 PM
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Swing/line dancing
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/26 04:05 PM
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It seems that rpw don’t really get caught up in that sort of thing. The women here tend to be more focused on what is happening in our own homes. 27f, I have heard of fresh&fit but don’t know about the controversy. Andrew Tate and Nick both annoy me so I avoid consuming their content. 🤷‍♀️ sorry
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/26 07:55 AM
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This is hilarious 🤣
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/26 05:27 PM
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I love this. I always do a 5 minute tidy. I understand he needs some time and space to decompress so I’ll greet him but keep myself occupied, usually by cooking dinner, until he’s ready to rejoin.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/26 08:58 PM
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We both work full time, no kids yet. I make 100% of the food, he does 75% of the household chores. It’s something that needs to continually be balanced out imo. If one person has more free time than the other, it’s a sign of an imbalance for us.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/23 03:43 PM
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