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ashyboye/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 12:48 AM
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Based and redpilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/19 06:24 PM
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*Boomers have entered the chat.*
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 02:26 AM
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>Life Isn't Fair Mindblowing.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 06:25 PM
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Based potato.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 07:31 PM
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Not a bad sign about the woman per se. I understand that more often than not it's not the woman's fault (unless she was just sleeping around and not using protection). What I mean is, it's not a good sign for me. I don't want to raise someone else's kid. The primary reason I would get married would be to have my own kids. The woman is secondary.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 02:15 PM
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Yeah, but it's not exactly a good sign either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/19 01:58 PM
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Are you in a liberal arts college?
/r/MGTOW228/04/19 04:25 AM
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>36 billion dollars
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/19 01:48 PM
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I have a love-hate relationship with Amazon, but I kinda feel bad for Jeff Bezos. (Still kinda hate him, but he got shafted.)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/04/19 01:29 PM
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>Men complaining about the draft. You know, I think it should be self evident that either gender would complain if they were put in a life-endangering situation against their will. The fact that it was their own gender doesn't matter, and it's a simple matter of who was in power at the time. It happened to be a man, but a woman LBJ would have done the same. Your argument boils down to roughly-strung together examples of things women could just as easily have equivalents of. ​ However, let's be c…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/19 03:53 AM
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I never said that. I disputed the point where they said that a child starving to death doesn't make conservatives as sad. I made the point that conservatives aren't heartless, and backed it up with their charitable giving. Nowhere did I say that charitable giving can replace or is better than government programs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 04:59 AM
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kek
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 04:33 AM
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Ah yes, the classic "I don't have any statistics to back up my claim so I'm going to just bring up some proposals that a couple Republicans politicians have wanted" shtick. Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 03:39 AM
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Likewise. > I suspect that church tithes skew the record keeping and I don’t think those tithes are “charity.” Yeah, that's most likely the case. I still stand by my original points, but I understand and will concede that you're right in this regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 01:59 AM
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>Don’t try to tell me that’s the same thing as evangelicals tithing and putting a $20 in the collection plate to pay for the altar flowers and the coffee service. ​ Well don't try to tell me that conservatives are heartless. I've worked at food banks, volunteered at charity events, and many of my friends have done the same. My church regularly helps single mothers and other non-profit work for the community. ​ Not only do you fail to respond to the bulk of my point, you assume that putting 20 bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 01:43 AM
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> A child starving to death doesn't make them as sad Got any statistics/reports to back that up? ​ If I use empirical data, every one of the people I've met who are pro-life would never hesitate to give to, look out for, and worry over a starving child. The very people you criticize as heartless are the ones who, through objective statistics, are the more generous. Go back to making outlandish claims without any facts to back you up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 01:27 AM
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That's such a weak argument. ​ Your right to not be killed by me doesn't transition into you having a right to be provided for by me. ​ Same applies to children. ​ That said, if I did encounter a child struggling in a bad environment, I'd do what I could to help him/her. Also, statistically, conservatives are more generous than liberals. ​ Nice leftist rhetoric ya got there, keep making claims without any facts behind them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 01:22 AM
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+1
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/19 01:22 AM
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Yes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/19 04:30 PM
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Even if she plays hard to get, there's other women who won't. Even I, with a high school level of market economics, can see that this never will work. ​ As long as there's someone else less "hard to get" her master plan will fall apart instantly.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/19 03:26 PM
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Check out r/MGTOW2. ​ Actual mgtows right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 11:28 PM
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Hear, hear!
/r/MGTOW210/02/19 06:35 PM
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A beta who can only attract women with his wallet.
/r/MGTOW210/02/19 06:35 PM
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Intellectual
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/19 05:39 PM
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According to a recent Alexander Grace video, there was a study done that showed that men's happiness is almost directly correlated with their fulfillment in work. Having children also helps, but if my memory serves me, marriage wasn't that high up there. ​ Not really surprised tbh.
/r/MGTOW230/01/19 03:16 AM
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5'11" min. 6' 2" ideally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 07:19 PM
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Or just take relationships off of this golden pedestal in your life. That works too. Just lessen the importance of your blue, purple, red, or black pill beliefs and how it plays into how you act. Stop holding relationships at this colossally high level in your life, and do something that you know for a fact will improve your short time on this Earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 05:58 AM
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Yes. I've been sheltered all my life from this, but even I have seen it. I get that a lot of people just don't work out together, but a lot of the time people just think they can do better too. It's gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 03:04 PM
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Tell that to Marcus Aurelius.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 06:21 PM
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Maybe you should have watched the video, perhaps those comments were warranted. That said, I'm not going to tell you to, as I have no desire to watch a 25 minute video on this topic either. I also think you're choosing to look at some more of the vulgar comments, rather than the most liked comments, which mostly state that there are two sides to every story, and that they'd like to hear the husband's version of the situation. This is perfectly reasonable, and I find it interesting that you choos…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 05:28 PM
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So much for female empowerment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 07:32 PM
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Yeah. I've noticed it, but never really paid attention to it. I must have thought it was around 10 percent or so. This is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:59 PM
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I do. I've been consuming mgtow content for 4 or so months now. Just a bit confused on the voting thing. I'm also conflicted on unicorns. Sometimes I'll believe awalt, then something happens that sways to nawalt, then back again. It's hard to come to a definitive conclusion on a topic that's percieved, as you said, "radical." However it really does make sense, even if I'm conflicted that someday I will more likely than not want my own flesh and blood child, even if I don't look forward to the ma…
/r/MGTOW207/12/18 07:18 AM
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Interesting stuff.
/r/MGTOW207/12/18 07:07 AM
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I've heard: "take away their voting rights" from the a couple times. I'm assuming that's primarily because as long as a woman has ability to create change, she'll have society pander to her? But isn't that what most people vote for, man or woman? I get that having women vote would only make it worse, but why is this so prevalent in mgtow debates? Am I missing something?
/r/MGTOW207/12/18 06:59 AM
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Aight, I see your point. I still think that women can mitigate their nature, even if they can't truly eliminate it.
/r/MGTOW207/12/18 06:53 AM
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I think that women, natural selection methods of self preservation aside, are very similar to men. I think that if a man can overcome his natural selection means of self preservation, a woman can as well.
/r/MGTOW207/12/18 06:39 AM
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No, that's because we as humans have personality shifts about every 5 years as we are influenced by the cultural norms and the people we surround ourselves with.
/r/MGTOW207/12/18 06:23 AM
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I think it's when a woman can break out of the cultural expectations and not intrinsically linked with her inner psyche. It comes down to the girl imho. The reason I am currently mgtow is because even though a girl might be a unicorn now, I can't predict if shell stay one forever.
/r/MGTOW207/12/18 06:15 AM
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Yeah, but those are because those statements or words can cause not just emotional harm, but financial harm, unwanted drama, and physical harm as people stampede to get out of the vicinity. Those are basic but nessecary guidelines to provide a framework for open and free discussion to take place. If you start limiting something like this, others are going to follow in your steps, imposing more limitations to what we can say. Again, not condoning or trying to defend catcalling or any kind of verb…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 05:47 AM
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I mean, they have the right to free speech, just as you do. BUT: Do I think it's incredibly rude? Yes. Do I think men who catcall should be looked down upon for that particular practice? To a degree, yes. Do I think it has the potential to be psychologically damaging to the women who have to put up with it? Yup. But do I think that it should be classified as sexual misconduct? No, not really. I think most people view catcalling as just that. Catcalling. It's in the same vein, but not the same as…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 05:36 AM
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Yeah, you're right. It's been a long day, my mind is slowly shutting down. I just wish people wouldn't lump catcalling and groping in an alley in the same boat. Guess I just get a bit pissed when I see people using #metoo when they've just been "catcalled" (and I use that in quotes for a good reason) once, and identify themselves as victims. It's absolutely absurd, but yeah I guess I agree with you. Holy shit I'm tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 05:15 AM
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abolishment of free speech I didn't see that op mentioned people needing to use these names or being punished by law. I just agree that sexual misconduct is far too broad a term.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 05:06 AM
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Wholeheartedly agree. Edit: kinda agree but kinda don't. I'm tired.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 04:55 AM
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I really agree with this. While I personally prefer to be alone, I can see how the option of having a wife and especially a kid would sway me to think differently later. On the topic of emotional luck, I think that's very true as well. People have lots of personality shifts, so getting lucky with that is integral to the stability of the relationship. Thanks for the input! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 03:02 AM
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Do you by any chance have a spare billion lying around? Thanks in advance. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 02:26 AM
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No, I mean that chart may or may not refer to the demographic percentages of people who have been divorced. So, 1% of divorces were Mormon. This would make sense, as Evangelical Christians make up a far bigger percent than Mormons.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:56 AM
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That would make sense. I think somewhere (sorry I'm so disorganized) that only one in 4 or so marriages lasted to old age (about 70 or so)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:52 AM
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Just saying that this might not account that there are more Evangelical Christians than, say, Hindu people. All these percents add up to 100, which leads me to believe this might be the case. Please correct me if I'm wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:34 AM
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Wait that's just the percentage of that demographic that has been divorced. That doesn't account for the vast discrepancy between the proportions of say, Evangelical Protestant and Hindu believers, does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:26 AM
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ikr. Right here. Not sure if it's by month though, sorry! https://www.nationmaster.com/country-info/stats/People/Divorce-rate
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:22 AM
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Vee true
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:21 AM
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Yeah. I saw a graph a while ago (idk if I still have it saved) where ppl who were virgins/ first marriage and got married had only a 35 or so percent chance of divorce. That number went to about 50 after the first divorce, and then 65, 70, and hovered around 80 afterwards. It's all very interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:20 AM
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Definitely a good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:18 AM
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Interesting... You know, I find that the Muslim community, from what I've observed, has the least divorces. I'm guessing it's related to the shaming of women who are divorced and the tolerance those women are taught to have towards poor behavior from men. It's all very interesting, but yeah, I don't plan on getting married anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:18 AM
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Guess I've been sheltered for most of my life on the topic. Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:16 AM
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I know, and if I ever did get married I wouldn't be putting in the least effort into the relationship possible, being lazy all day on the couch as I yell at her to make me a fifth sandwich. Just saying that the average statistics absolutely insane to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:15 AM
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I personally do believe in unicorns. I think a woman is good or bad depending on their charachter. While I personally am not currently planning to get married, I know for a fact that many guys would love a traditional nuclear family. Don't focus so much on gynocentrism and stuff like that, put your efforts into becoming a better person. That's all the advice i think I'm eligible to give.
/r/MGTOW207/12/18 01:10 AM
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Um. Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:03 AM
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So I hypothetically one day get married, and flip a coin to determine whether we stay together or not? Nice.....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:01 AM
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https://www.nationmaster.com/country-info/stats/People/Divorce-rate Not sure if this is by month, sorry!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 12:57 AM
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Wow. I must live in a great community or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 12:53 AM
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Yup. Not quite an adult yet, but not in the mood for games either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 12:52 AM
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Their bratty friends. Those kind of people who will get up in your face and try to "protect" her from you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 12:51 AM
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Excuse me? Twitch is a male dominated space because it is used primarily for live streaming video games. The majority of people who play video games are male, so it's only natural that this happens. If you look at facebook, twitter, instagram, you'll encounter an environment where men do not make up a overwhelming majority of the users, and you'll see that women are the ones getting a lot of attention from men. ​ Women are the sellers of sex, men are the buyers. It's only natural that when the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 08:08 PM
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It's more dangerous than the average person thinks, but less dangerous than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 02:39 PM
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That's seems kinda specific are you okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 12:19 AM
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I can only speak for myself, but I just like to hear other perspectives. Even if I don't agree with them, it's at the very least better than surrounding myself with people that believe exactly the same thing as me, effectively creating an echo chamber. Maybe I won't change my mind, but it's better to challenge my beliefs than to look to others constantly for affirmation in my mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 05:16 PM
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If I go off of what trp has taught me, no in regular hookups. The top 80% of women will chose the top 20% of men... ON APPEARANCE. The reason I say this is because these figures were calculated from tinder experiments. While these experimented have been repeated time and time again with similar results, tinder is just about looks, not personality, not how successful you are. So in a hedonistic hookup culture of one night stands, you might be out of luck. However, if you get to know the girl, sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 05:43 PM
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No. The sixties were far from perfect, but the divorce rate was half of what it is now, and people weren't as indoctrinated by the notion of "soul mates" and the perfect spouses we see in media today. In the 80s, this became the most prevalent, as the divorce rate spiked at its highest in the United States, due to a hedonistic mindset, set in place by Hollywood. You have to understand, Hollywood had a monopoly on what people watched and recieved as how reality should be. A prince and a princess,…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 05:38 PM
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?
/r/MGTOW206/10/18 05:56 PM
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This is funny and interesting. Thanks op.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 05:00 AM
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This isn't MGTOW, this is just hate...
/r/MGTOW208/09/18 03:40 PM
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Why the fuck is this logical, reasonable response getting downvoted.
/r/MGTOW208/09/18 03:32 PM
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Now I'm hungry.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 11:15 PM
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You just need a Gmail account.
/r/MGTOW211/08/18 05:35 PM
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The editing leaves something to be desired though. I'd recommend consuming his content as a podcast.
/r/MGTOW210/08/18 12:19 AM
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I think you should copy someone better than you, but don't let that define you. Become successful by copying success, but keep your identity on the journey.
/r/MGTOW209/08/18 11:21 PM
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Yeah. Also, 12 Rules for Life. It's an easier read, and it's great as well.
/r/MGTOW209/08/18 11:20 PM
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Thanks!
/r/MGTOW230/07/18 11:38 AM
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"Nothing brings a better world into being than the stated truth." -Jordan Peterson. I respect the fact that you speak your mind. I've struggled with telling people what I really think about x y and z, as in the past it was a habit of mine to please everyone through my words and actions. Just wanted to say people don't seem to value truth at the level it should be held at, and I think the fact that you speak the truth, while knowing the ramifications, is great. :)
/r/MGTOW230/07/18 01:13 AM
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Good luck to you too, and thanks for the reply!
/r/MGTOW230/07/18 12:51 AM
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Very helpful, thanks! :)
/r/MGTOW230/07/18 12:48 AM
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haha
/r/MGTOW229/07/18 11:05 PM
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I think you misunderstand me. I dislike feminists as much as the next rational human being. I just think that forums such as the original mgtow are more bitter towards women in questionable ways. I get that if your spouse of 10 years divorced you because of some petty reason, you'd have every right to rant and be angry about it. It's only natural. I just think the original mgtow subreddit is, at this point, just a female hating circlejerk. I don't hate women in the slightest. I see them as peopl…
/r/MGTOW229/07/18 04:24 AM
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jist jist jist jist
/r/MGTOW229/07/18 04:14 AM
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Helpful, thanks!
/r/MGTOW229/07/18 04:11 AM
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Haha I'm on mobile Reddit and even after years on my phone I'm not as precise as I'd like when typing. I corrected my previous comment (again), and am indeed 15, just to clear up any confusion. I've heard of the incidents you mentioned above, and was and am still appalled at these examples. Just because it is possible that women can be victims, men can just as easily become victims in (arguably) an even more brutal manner. However, just as the court shouldn't assume all men are the villans, we s…
/r/MGTOW229/07/18 03:56 AM
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I guess either way you're missing out on something. If you chose MGTOW, you're losing the potential of getting a loving, honest partner. If you don't chose MGTOW, you're missing out on the immense lifestyle, job, and other such opportunities that you can only do without a family or spouse. I guess in the end you just have to pick the poison that's the least harmful to you.
/r/MGTOW229/07/18 03:20 AM
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First off, you have an amazing friend, and I'm glad those words reached you in time. Secondly, thank you so much for taking the time to write all this. It most certainly did help. Third, I'd like to disagree with what you said about negative experiences with women is the singular thing we have in common. I think that is the base layer of Men Going Their Own Way, but the way we as men chose to go without women is that builds the essence of mgtow. If you view mgtow as the rejection of a romantic r…
/r/MGTOW229/07/18 03:17 AM
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Can confirm. My first and only relationship was about a year ago, with an girl who needed the most attention possible. She suffered from depression, was avid about becoming a boy, and whether these things were true or not, it wasn't a good experience for me. Eventually, I couldn't give her enough attention, she tired of me, and I broke things off. I was an idiot and should have kept my guard up. However, I'm not going to throw away a possible future with someone better because of my previous ina…
/r/MGTOW229/07/18 03:07 AM
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I've heard terrible stories from such individuals, but I live in community of healthy marriages and families. It's all I've ever known, so whether I'm a privileged upper middle class child or not, that has been my experience thus far. That's a large reason as to why I'm very hesitant and have been lurking for so long, trying to get a grasp on the ideas and principles of mgtow. I don't want to commit to something when I could have something better.
/r/MGTOW229/07/18 03:03 AM
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I'm not fully decided yet. I love the idea of self improvement and not looking to others for self-conformation. I just don't want to write off the possibility of having an honest relationship later in my life.
/r/MGTOW229/07/18 02:57 AM
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