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What do you mean by that? Like really defined cheekbones? I don’t find those attractive
/r/MensRights08/04/24 06:24 PM
1

What positions?
/r/MensRights08/04/24 06:23 PM
1

Because it is subjective, I’ve found men attractive that my friends don’t find attractive and vice versa
/r/MensRights07/04/24 04:11 PM
1

The whole jawline thing is mostly a meme. And I hardly see anyone with high cheekbones really. You mean like Cher right?
/r/MensRights07/04/24 04:10 PM
1

Yeah but doesn’t mean everyone finds the same people attractive, that’s common sense
/r/MensRights07/04/24 04:09 PM
1

Probably so
/r/MensRights15/03/24 03:36 PM
1

You can’t just say it’s objective, that’s very closed minded of you. And women have different types so no it’s not objective. Just yesterday I saw a TikTok with the caption “when you and your bestie have totally different types”
/r/MensRights15/03/24 03:36 PM
2

Because a guy with a partner has someone to be violent to
/r/MensRights15/03/24 03:33 PM
0

Thank you, that’s what I’ve been trying to tell people
/r/MensRights15/03/24 03:33 PM
0

And to me it still does, it’s a subculture, being a virgin doesn’t make you an incel
/r/MensRights15/03/24 03:32 PM
1

Get real, most of his girls are probably escorts
/r/MensRights15/03/24 03:31 PM
1

Thank you, incel is a subculture
/r/MensRights15/03/24 03:31 PM
1

Incel is a subculture
/r/MensRights14/03/24 07:49 PM
1

Apex men is subjective
/r/MensRights14/03/24 07:48 PM
6

Some people think incels are just ugly men but there are a lot of men who are incels and aren’t ugly. Two infamous incels, Elliot Rodger and Malik Sanchez, were fairly attractive. A lot of times they’re autistic or have other mental illnesses or they’re afraid to approach women because of rejection and bullying in the past.
/r/MensRights14/03/24 07:47 PM
0

Incel is a subculture
/r/MensRights14/03/24 07:45 PM
-6

Who hurt you?
/r/MensRights14/03/24 07:44 PM
-1

Thank you, maybe they’re incels who want to include more people in their subculture
/r/MensRights14/03/24 07:43 PM
2

Most men who are virgins past the age of 20 write their reason as they haven’t found the right woman yet, would you consider that involuntary?
/r/MensRights14/03/24 03:57 PM
0

A lot of incels have high standards though. And Elliot fits the incel narrative pretty well. A lot of incels don’t approach women whether it be because of social anxiety or because they’re afraid to due to bullying and rejection in the past.
/r/MensRights14/03/24 03:55 PM
-4

But incels aren’t just ugly men, sure there’s some that are ugly but two infamous incels, Elliot Rodger and Malik Sanchez, were arguably good looking or at least not ugly.
/r/MensRights14/03/24 01:10 PM
-7

Exactly, being a virgin isn’t the same as being an incel. Incel is a subculture.
/r/MensRights14/03/24 01:09 PM
3

r/ihavesex
/r/MensRights14/03/24 01:08 PM
7

Being a virgin isn’t the same as being an incel. Incel is a subculture.
/r/MensRights14/03/24 01:08 PM
6

How many posts do you actually see like that? Sounds like a strawman argument
/r/MensRights12/03/24 02:26 PM
2

I hope you mean ex wife
/r/MensRights12/03/24 02:25 PM
1

You’re right
/r/MensRights12/03/24 02:22 AM
1

What do you mean by a caveat
/r/MensRights02/03/24 05:00 AM
9

Imagine if MRAs walked the outside the way feminists do for slut walks They’d be put on the registry
/r/MensRights07/02/24 10:58 PM
34

It’s the feminist version of the Illuminati
/r/MensRights07/02/24 10:57 PM
1

A housewife can be traditional. Traditional ≠ tradwife. Tradwives think that all women have to be stay at home moms. Tradwives are also basically white supremacists.
/r/MensRights28/01/24 04:45 AM
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How do I sound like Elliot Rodger or mad that I don’t have certain features? Is your arm sore from that reach? I’m not even an Asian man, I’m a white woman. When did I say white people aren’t allowed to exist or you wanting kids is white supremacy? You’re yet to answer that question.
/r/MensRights27/01/24 06:28 PM
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No answer? Well I guess that shows either you realized I was right or your racist ass was rightfully reported.
/r/MensRights27/01/24 04:18 PM
0

Who’s not leaving white people alone? You unironically think I said white people aren’t allowed to exist? I didn’t, that’s a strawman
/r/MensRights27/01/24 04:14 PM
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Yes it is, it’s a white supremacist dogwhistle to refer to white supremacist housewives. It’s not the same as a normal housewife. I’ve never seen anyone who unironically says he wants a tradwife who isn’t obsessed with white birthrates, dogs white women who date black men, or thinks Jews run the world.
/r/MensRights27/01/24 04:12 PM
-1

Some women want to work, some women want to be housewives. But most women work so if anything you should say the opposite. But it’s not the same because you can only have one president, women can choose their own lifestyle.
/r/MensRights27/01/24 04:10 PM
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What makes you think I’m a feminist? I’m literally a member of this sub
/r/MensRights27/01/24 04:07 PM
1

What is a claptrap?
/r/MensRights27/01/24 04:03 PM
1

What makes you think that it’s the same men specifically? And I said later marriage, not fewer marriages
/r/MensRights27/01/24 04:02 PM
0

You can still exist with other races in the same proxy, no one said you’re not allowed to exist
/r/MensRights26/01/24 10:36 PM
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Traditional lifestyle ≠ tradwife
/r/MensRights26/01/24 10:09 PM
-1

Used by white supremacists
/r/MensRights26/01/24 10:09 PM
-8

A housewife / SAHM is just a wife who doesn’t work and does housework instead. Tradwife is a term that came from white supremacists that refers to women who see it as white womens duty to be with white men and serve them.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 10:01 PM
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Tall for a man is PROPORTIONATE to how tall the women in his country are on average. That study sounds anecdotal and subjective. And average height in the USA is 5’10” so 5’11” would be tall too. Why do you assume they’re lying? Like I said, your personal preference is not universal. And yes I know that preferring large breasts isn’t mutually exclusive to liking small breasts too, but I’m trying to tell you that a lot of men also prefer small breasts. I never said most, I there’s plenty do. Plen…
/r/MensRights26/01/24 09:58 PM
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Because a housewife / SAHM is not the same as a tradwife. Tradwife is a term that came from white supremacists.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 09:53 PM
-4

Because tradwife is a term that came from white supremacists. Tradwives believe it is white women’s duty to marry a white man, have more than two children with him, and stay at home with the kids. That is not the same as a normal housewife / SAHM.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 09:52 PM
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Desirable is subjective. And that study measured the amount of men who have had sex in the past year. Obviously a married man would’ve been more likely to. If a man isn’t a virgin but last had sex two years ago, he wouldn’t count.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 09:50 PM
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When did I say you wanting kids is white supremacy? Don’t make strawman arguments. Also like I said, housewife and tradwife are two different things. A housewife is just a wife who doesn’t work and stays home and does stuff like cleaning and cooking instead, tradwives are white supremacist women who believe it’s a white woman’s duty to serve white men. In what world is diversity mutually exclusive to whites existing? Isn’t the point of diversity that everyone is allowed to exist? No one said whi…
/r/MensRights26/01/24 09:48 PM
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Being a housewife / SAHM is NOT the same as being a tradwife as tradwife is a white supremacist term
/r/MensRights26/01/24 07:29 PM
1

The average couple in America has an age gap of 2-3 years, which might not sound like a lot but when you see the ranges of age gaps it would make more sense. And that study you’re referencing asked men if they’ve had sex in the past year. So a man who had sex last two years ago wouldn’t count. Not to mention similar studies have shown that the most promiscuous men are far more likely to have either paid sex workers or been a sex worker themselves, so the narrative of a minority of super attracti…
/r/MensRights26/01/24 07:25 PM
1

I meant taller than average. 5’8” is still taller than 5’7”. What do you mean by women prefer taller men? Taller than who or what? Taller than them? Well even short men are still usually taller than me since I’m short so therefore there’s not many men shorter than me. Yes plenty of men prefer small breasts, just because you don’t doesn’t mean there aren’t guys who do. I’ve met guys who do. And no preferring large breasts isn’t universal, there have been cultures and time periods where small brea…
/r/MensRights26/01/24 07:21 PM
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No one’s demonizing you for being in a country with yourselves, that’s a strawman argument, they’re demonizing you if you want a white ethnostate. And when Americans say minorities, they’re referring to minorities in America since white people are the majority. But by your logic of using the whole world, black people are still minorities because then the majority would be Asians.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 07:18 PM
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Then she’s not a tradwife, like I said, housewife and tradwife are two different things
/r/MensRights26/01/24 07:15 PM
-9

So is that a yes? You like white supremacist women?
/r/MensRights26/01/24 07:15 PM
0

Jawline is mostly an incel meme. I don’t prefer tall men. What do you mean larger breasts? Larger than what? And there’s plenty of men who prefer small breasts or don’t care about breast size. All of those things can change with culture. Like in West Africa they usually prefer women who are a little on the plus size, while in Asia they usually prefer short petite women, including small breasts. Tall is also proportionate to women, like obviously a 5’8” guy would be short in America but he’d be t…
/r/MensRights26/01/24 05:48 PM
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Tradwives are white supremacists, is that really what you’d prefer?
/r/MensRights26/01/24 05:45 PM
-7

Fair enough
/r/MensRights26/01/24 05:45 PM
-9

House wife isn’t the same as tradwife, tradwives are white supremacist women who believe it’s white womens duty to serve white men
/r/MensRights26/01/24 05:25 PM
-8

Most housewives aren’t tradwives, any housewife with self respect would never call herself a tradwife
/r/MensRights26/01/24 05:25 PM
-10

Most women aren’t on either end of the extremes. Also most housewives aren’t tradwives because they’re not the same. Tradwives are white supremacist housewives who believe it’s white women’s duty to serve white men.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 05:24 PM
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Being a housewife is okay, being a tradwife is not. Any housewife with self respect would NEVER call themselves a tradwife.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 05:22 PM
-10

It depends on the individual woman, to say you know what every woman wants is infantilizing
/r/MensRights26/01/24 05:21 PM
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Being a house wife is okay, being a tradwife is not. Any housewife with self respect would NEVER call herself a tradwife. “Wage slave” is a really degrading thing to call a working woman, would you call a working man that?
/r/MensRights26/01/24 05:20 PM
0

Looks are subjective, not completely but two women can have two very different types
/r/MensRights26/01/24 05:15 PM
2

It has to do with less early marriages
/r/MensRights26/01/24 05:14 PM
6

They use the exact same logic as the people who bring up black on black crime are
/r/MensRights26/01/24 04:21 PM
10

Thank you
/r/MensRights26/01/24 04:20 PM
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Yeah, the OP is almost talking like an incel. A lot of lonely men have had sex before. If feeling lonely was all about getting sex to them, they’d go get a prostitute or find some desperate girl on a dating app or from a bar.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 03:32 PM
1

What’s it about specifically?
/r/MensRights26/01/24 03:30 PM
-1

Top 20% is subjective. And you must not get out much because women are more likely to date someone perceived as less attractive than them, it’s been psychologically proven.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 03:29 PM
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Top 20% is subjective. Also women are more likely to date someone perceived as less attractive than them than men are.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 03:28 PM
0

When you average out men and women’s numbers of partners, it would be equal unless you did something wrong, that should be common sense Men are more likely to be virgins in their 20s because in the average couple, the man is older than the woman. Like say a 22 year old man and an 18 year old woman lost their virginity together, they’re different ages but they now have the same number of sex partners.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 03:25 PM
3

I have a perfect example. When feminist say “when women talk about equality they talk about opportunity, when men talk about equality they talk about being allowed to hit women” When men say “equal rights equal fights”, they obviously mean self defense. They don’t mean they want to hit women, they mean they might have to. And usually when feminist talk about opportunity they mean this college program should accept them or this job should hire them, just because they’re a woman.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 03:23 PM
5

Most of the time violent crime isn’t by a stranger, it’s by someone you know, so this is disingenuous. Do you have a source to prove women are attacked randomly more?
/r/MensRights26/01/24 03:05 PM
14

I might take you seriously if feminists didn’t use misleading statistics themselves. Like saying 90% of rapists are men, when female rapists rarely get convicted of rape and most of the time police only count forced penetration as rape, which would obviously exclude women.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 03:03 PM
1

Any size boob can feed a baby, big or small. You don’t need to have a lot of cleavage to feed a baby.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 03:19 AM
1

Do you mean parties and not parts?
/r/MensRights26/01/24 03:18 AM
1

Why wouldn’t an uncircumcised man need lotion? I thought it was to make it smoother. Of course it’s not okay to mutilate boys genitals.
/r/MensRights26/01/24 03:17 AM
11

When feminist say “men don’t show emotions because of the patriarchy” they’re gaslighting. They complain about doing unpaid emotional labor, which is what they call listening to another person’s feelings. Wouldn’t by that same logic, the imbalance of emotional labor in relationships actually be from men doing more instead of women doing more? Since women express emotions more boyfriends and husbands do more emotional labor, no? Well not according to feminists.
/r/MensRights25/01/24 04:34 PM
-2

While it is true that in the Middle Ages, women's opportunities and education were limited, it’s not true today
/r/MensRights25/01/24 04:01 PM
12

Some women wonder why they can’t keep a man for long when they’re basically like this “I won’t date a short guy or a broke guy” “I won’t clean, cook, or make sandwiches for you” “I don’t want kids, only pets” “I expect you to spoil me and pay for everything”
/r/MensRights25/01/24 03:59 PM
1

I consider myself a Christian but I’m not like those crazy religious fundamentalists you’re referring to. I support same sex marriage, birth control, and abortion. I don’t have a problem with people who practice another religion or no religion at all.
/r/MensRights25/01/24 03:54 PM
9

Do most men even use sex toys to masturbate? Other than some tissues with lotion or lube? Personally I’ve known more women who admit to having sex toys than men, although men might be more embarrassed of admitting it.
/r/MensRights25/01/24 03:52 PM
3

Feminist always resort to ad hominem fallacies when they come across anti feminists, ex: “incel”, “misogynist”, “small dick”, “sexist pig”, “pick me girl”, “internalized misogyny”, “tradcon” I usually try to be as polite as possible until they insult me, then they’ve shown me they have no interest in a respectful and civil debate
/r/MensRights25/01/24 03:45 PM
2

Who are they?
/r/MensRights25/01/24 01:21 AM
13

To mess with feminists, we should start saying internalized misandry and toxic femininity
/r/MensRights25/01/24 01:20 AM
1

Wouldn’t a sociopath not care if you died from cancer? That doesn’t make much sense
/r/MensRights25/01/24 01:17 AM
1

I know not all feminists think that, but it’s a common thing feminists talk about, they call it femicide
/r/MensRights24/01/24 10:11 PM
1

Wouldn’t you want a doctor that cares about you? That doesn’t make much sense
/r/MensRights24/01/24 10:11 PM
3

Why do you want a sociopath lawyer or oncologist?
/r/MensRights24/01/24 08:22 PM
3

I think if she’s an unmarried women it can be her choice alone But if she’s married, her husband should definitely be allowed to veto her decision to have an abortion. Wives who have an abortion behind their husbands backs are selfish. I often hear feminists say “trust women to make the best decision for their families” (and assuming they mean family in the normal definition and not the modern definition where a childless married couple or a single woman and her cat would be included) but I beg …
/r/MensRights24/01/24 08:21 PM
3

Even if women do supposedly experience it more than men, it would still be a stretch to say that makes it a gendered issue. Gendered issues have to do with things that are rooted in gender, not something that coincidentally happens more to one gender than the other. They must not know much about psychology if they assume that men who abuse their female partners do it because they’re misogynists. It’s not, it’s because they’re abusive and their female partners are who they have access too. A good…
/r/MensRights24/01/24 08:15 PM
3

Feminists who’s say “men don’t show their emotions more because of toxic masculinity” are usually hypocrites because when a man does share his emotions with his girlfriend or wife, they talk about women doing unpaid emotional labor. Funny you never hear them talk about men doing unpaid emotional labor even though by the definition, men would actually do more of it in relationships because women express emotions more than men. When confronted with this, feminists usually move the goalpost and bas…
/r/MensRights23/01/24 06:33 PM
9

I’ve been on the other side of the equation, as ashamed as I feel. When I was in middle school there was this boy I was infatuated and obsessed with but didn’t like me back. I got mad and yelled at him because he said he didn’t like me back.
/r/MensRights23/01/24 06:29 PM
2

Depends on the individual man and woman
/r/MensRights23/01/24 06:28 PM
5

Because they feel like they’ve locked their spouse down and now don’t have to be nice all the time
/r/MensRights23/01/24 06:27 PM
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I disagree with this. It’s not the male version of abortion or adoption. With abortion, she decides she either doesn’t want to be pregnant or want a kid so she doesn’t bring a child into the world. With adoption, she decides she doesn’t want a kid so she gives it to a couple (sometimes a single person) who wants a kid and is usually more fit to raise it than her. With paper abortion, the father would be making the mother raise the child on her own, whether or not she could afford that financiall…
/r/MensRights23/01/24 02:15 AM
2

Some people on this thread ≠ most people
/r/MensRights22/01/24 08:05 PM
19

Of course it is, anyone who says misandry is not real is gaslighting
/r/MensRights22/01/24 03:47 PM
1

But most people want kids so why would he get a vasectomy
/r/MensRights22/01/24 03:47 PM
2

Yeah you’re right, most people want kids and most people want to be married or at least in a long term relationship before they have them
/r/MensRights22/01/24 03:46 PM
9

Don’t jump into marriage so soon, date her at MINIMUM 3 or 4 years before getting married. And when it comes to after you’re married, unless you and her are both over 30, don’t have kids right away.
/r/MensRights22/01/24 03:45 PM
1

I can think of a few reasons why this is, getting the house in a divorce, widows
/r/MensRights22/01/24 03:42 PM
3

I don’t see how that relates. Why would those things be a hoax?
/r/MensRights20/01/24 12:38 PM
-8

I think that the most responsible thing if she keeps the child is for him to raise it with her, either by staying with her or coparenting as single people with her. If he decides not to raise it, making him at least support it financially is just. Paper abortions are not the male equivalent of abortion and adoption. Not only is neither abortion or adoption making someone raise the child and provide for the child on their own but instead either not bringing a child into the world or giving the cu…
/r/MensRights19/01/24 07:05 PM
-2

By they I meant the men who want financial abortions, duh
/r/MensRights19/01/24 05:31 PM
0

So a single man can demand a woman have an abortion with a child that may or may not be his?
/r/MensRights19/01/24 05:31 PM
-13

If they decide they don’t want to raise the child, why shouldn’t the be sending money to the mother?
/r/MensRights19/01/24 04:49 PM
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I don’t understand paper abortion supporters. How old is the cutoff for the age you can no longer have a paper abortion? And I know some argue that if women can have an abortion or put their baby up for adoption men should be allowed to have a paper abortion but I don’t think that’s the same thing. With abortion, it means you don’t want to be pregnant or don’t want a kid so therefore you don’t bring a kid into the world. With adoption, it means you give the kid to someone else who’s most likely …
/r/MensRights19/01/24 01:58 PM
1

What does emotional terrorist mean?
/r/MensRights19/01/24 01:53 PM
1

Sounds like that misandrist in Duluth model Funny how misandrist lesbians repeat the idea of the Duluth model time after time to prove men are violent misogynists yet don’t acknowledge they’re more likely to be abused in a relationship than straight women
/r/MensRights18/01/24 05:30 PM
-2

I wonder if it’s ableism because most of those men are on the spectrum or at least have some other mental illnesses
/r/MensRights18/01/24 02:20 PM
3

What about that?
/r/MensRights18/01/24 01:29 PM
3

Thank you, I’m going to ask that theoretical to the next feminist who makes domestic abuse / domestic murder into a gendered issue. “Since you think he abused / murdered her because of misogyny, do you think that if he was gay or bisexual and in a relationship with a man he would be a loving kind boyfriend?”
/r/MensRights18/01/24 02:57 AM
3

They make the same argument with domestic abuse when they claim it’s rooted in misogyny “men are abusing women and not men”, yeah that’s how domestic abuse works, abusing your partner, not random people and obviously if he’s a straight man obviously his partner would be a woman. They must not know much about psychology if they think that way.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 08:57 PM
1

Alpha and beta didn’t even originally refer to attractive vs unattractive, it meant leader vs follower. And desirable is subjective because different people desire different traits in a mate, that’s common sense.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 03:33 PM
2

Desirable is subjective
/r/MensRights17/01/24 02:03 PM
1

Some say misandry doesn’t exist at all. Yet they’ll say internalized misogyny does. The mental gymnastics it must take for them to say women can’t be sexist against men but we can be sexist against other women and ourselves. Whenever they call me a “pick me”, I usually assume it’s projection. No women are calling other women “pick mes” except for lonely women, butt ugly women, and women with the most atrocious personalities.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 12:46 PM
3

Their argument for the existence of the patriarchy becomes a circular argument “it happens because of the patriarchy, it’s proof of the patriarchy”
/r/MensRights17/01/24 11:08 AM
3

What do you mean by alphas and betas? That’s a made up concept
/r/MensRights17/01/24 11:07 AM
1

I agree
/r/MensRights17/01/24 11:06 AM
2

It’s considered unattractive and immature if you’re over 25 and still blame all your problems on your parents, even though they’re literally the people who raised you But yet full grown feminists can blame all men, even men they don’t even know
/r/MensRights17/01/24 11:06 AM
2

There is no patriarchy
/r/MensRights17/01/24 11:04 AM
2

Their reasoning for the patriarchy existing becomes a circular argument
/r/MensRights17/01/24 11:04 AM
2

And the thing is the stuff feminists say society / the patriarchy expects and they’re against is literally is the popular opinion. It’s like they don’t get out much and live in their own echo chamber. “The patriarchy expects women to wait until marriage for sex but doesn’t care if men do” Most people have sex before marriage, even a lot of religious people. And even if someone technically “waited until marriage” they probably at least tried oral before marriage. And anyone who’d strongly believe…
/r/MensRights17/01/24 11:03 AM
3

It’s the feminist version of the Illuminati. And I’ve noticed the parallels between feminists and neo nazis. Like when they complain that the rich are disproportionately men, it reminds me of when white Christian Americans complain that the rich in America are disproportionately Jewish and Asian, as if they’re mad at Jewish and Asian people for having the success they think they’re entitled to.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 10:56 AM
3

There is no patriarchy, it’s a feminist conspiracy theory. The way feminists talk about the patriarchy reminds me of how conspiracy theorists talk about the Illuminati
/r/MensRights17/01/24 10:53 AM
1

They’ll claim moms are expected to stay at home when in reality most moms work and finding a daycare or a babysitter is only a click away. Besides, even if it was true, expected ≠ forced so they don’t have to.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 10:52 AM
1

That’s a a good point. Billionaires who aren’t married are not very common when you think about it. Not to mention a lot of them also have daughters so therefore by the principal of generational wealth, they’d be rich too.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 10:50 AM
1

What do you mean?
/r/MensRights17/01/24 10:48 AM
1

It’s considered immature and unattractive if you’re over 25 and still blame all your problems on your parents, even though they’re literally the people who raised you Yet we let full grown feminists blame all their problems on men, even men they don’t even know
/r/MensRights17/01/24 10:47 AM
1

What do you mean?
/r/MensRights17/01/24 10:45 AM
4

I always tell them that it would be stupid to assume they were murdered for being women when there could be a number of motives and actual murders motivated by sexism are few and far in between of murder cases. But they don’t care about the motive, they care about making it fit their narrative.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 10:42 AM
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I see, that’s my point too. They label every case of it femicide when in reality there could be a number of motives and it probably wasn’t misogyny.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 03:41 AM
-9

Do you think it’s because of misandry though? You can’t assume it’s automatically because of misandry without knowing the motive, just like how you can’t assume a woman murdered by a man is because of misogyny
/r/MensRights17/01/24 12:58 AM
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Feminists assume that by default, all female murder victims murdered by men were murdered because of misogyny when in reality there could be a number of motives, misogyny doesn’t even make the top 5. I was told I was being hateful and spreading misinformation because I told a feminist that, right before she blocked me.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 12:57 AM
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Under 6’ isn’t necessarily short. And I said most of those women, not all.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 12:12 AM
3

I’ve even seen some mtfs who are man hating feminists. It doesn’t make much sense as they were once men themselves. It makes me wonder if they got bullied by feminists so much they switched sides?
/r/MensRights16/01/24 11:10 PM
1

What do you mean by treat chauvinists and misogynists as chauvinists and misogynists?
/r/MensRights16/01/24 11:08 PM
1

The mental gymnastics it must take for them to say women can’t be sexist against men but they can be sexist against other women and themselves
/r/MensRights16/01/24 11:07 PM
1

But I said he wasn’t ugly, I didn’t say anything about his height or race so it’s irrelevant and a non sequitur to bring that up. And if you’re not a woman or gay, does your opinion on a man’s appearance matter? I’m a woman and I think he was attractive. 5’9” is still significantly taller than most women. Since socal has a large Asian and Latino population, I don’t believe you that they’re taller than average. And what did you mean by a boys body? It makes no sense to say that as he was an adult…
/r/MensRights16/01/24 11:04 PM
6

Im a woman and i post to this sub. I wonder what they’d say to that.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 05:03 PM
6

It’s not like men are already disproportionately likely to be homeless /s Wouldn’t feminists want that anyway? So the homeless women don’t feel unsafe?
/r/MensRights16/01/24 05:02 PM
1

Not to mention, femicide is rare (not counting infanticide in countries like India and China). Feminists assume that every woman murdered by a man was murdered for being a woman when in reality there could’ve been a number of motives and misogyny isn’t even on the top 5 motives for murder.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 05:00 PM
4

I’ve wondered if the reason why there are more men who identify as non binary or trans women is because third wave feminists are making it more socially acceptable to be non binary or transgender than to be a cis straight man. They constantly say cis straight men are inherently violent, hate women, see women as sex objects, and have the tendencies of a rapist. It used to be mostly just effeminate gay men who transitioned but now there’s been an increase of trans mtfs who look and act very mascul…
/r/MensRights16/01/24 04:58 PM
1

The worst thing I’ve heard is that if straight men who want kids would date an infertile woman but not a trans woman they’re hypocrites Not at all. A. Everyone’s entitled to like what they like. B. Infertile women getting pregnant, even naturally, is not unheard of. But there’s never been a trans woman who’s gotten pregnant.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 04:55 PM
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Hate is a strong word, I wouldn’t say most of those women “hate” short men
/r/MensRights16/01/24 04:51 PM
0

Reminds me of how feminists claim it’s the patriarchy shaming men for showing their emotions but then say women are expected to do men’s “emotional labor”. Since women express emotions more than men, it would make more sense to say that men do more emotional labor, right? Well not according to feminists. They can either argue men don’t express emotions because of toxic masculinity or that men express so much emotion that women feel burdened by it, but not both.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 04:50 PM
2

It’s the same as one of the guys I’ve talked to as well.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 03:45 PM
2

Btw I looked up his height, he’s 5’9”, that’s not short that’s average
/r/MensRights16/01/24 03:15 PM
1

And yet they say women who don’t support feminism are pick mes. Yet there are men who say if women are afraid of them just for being a man, they have a good reason to be.
/r/MensRights16/01/24 02:59 PM
1

Thats a non sequitur, short and Asian aren’t synonyms for ugly. Honestly your comment is racist as it implies Asian people are ugly. And what do you mean a boys body? He was an adult not a child
/r/MensRights16/01/24 02:58 PM
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Because being a virgin doesn’t automatically make you an incel, it’s the mindset, incels are a subculture
/r/MensRights16/01/24 01:39 AM
-2

What about the change of atmosphere? And there’s plenty of guys who aren’t ugly but identify as incels
/r/MensRights16/01/24 12:43 AM
2

I wonder if it has anything to do with how in most couples, the man is older than the woman. In America at least the husband is on average 2-3 years older than the wife, so a husband and a wife might want to retire at the same time.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 11:44 PM
-2

The stereotype of an incel is an ugly, either fat or nothing but skin and bones, guy who can’t get a girl because of how he looks when in reality incels aren’t just ugly men. Two infamous incels, Elliot Rodger and Malik Sanchez, were arguably handsome or at least not ugly. Most incels are either on the spectrum, have other mental illnesses, or are too afraid to approach women because of rejection and bullying in the past.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 11:42 PM
2

Feminists talk about men the way neo nazis talk about black people and Jews.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 11:39 PM
1

He identifies as a libertarian. He supports gay rights, trans rights, abortion rights, free healthcare, and free college so even if he was a republican he’d be called a RINO by most republicans.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 10:29 PM
1

You see it from the other side of the political spectrum as well, neo nazis will label every case of a white person murdered by a black person as “white genocide” or “anti white hate crimes”
/r/MensRights15/01/24 09:19 PM
1

Yes but not as many as California
/r/MensRights15/01/24 09:16 PM
0

Joe Rohan isn’t even a conservative
/r/MensRights15/01/24 09:15 PM
2

That’s what I’ve noticed too, I’ve noticed the opposite is true about what OP said. Most American conservatives defend infant circumcision and most intactivists tend to lean left rather than right.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 03:32 PM
2

Also, most American conservatives will defend infant circumcision from my experience
/r/MensRights15/01/24 03:31 PM
2

Statistics. And those states I listed don’t have as high of an immigrant population as California.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 03:30 PM
1

Are you sure?
/r/MensRights15/01/24 04:31 AM
2

Maybe California but Nevada, Oregon, and Washington also have low circumcision rates. And it’s even low among native born white people there.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 02:41 AM
2

Makes sense, I don’t know what else my question would’ve been
/r/MensRights15/01/24 02:39 AM
1

Average height for women is 5’4”, do you think a woman that tall can tell the difference between 5’11” and 6’? It’s arbitrary. And yeah some girls have standards like that but not most girls. Attractive isn’t about height, you can be attractive regardless of height.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 06:55 PM
2

In the top 15% of height. What would that be, 6’2”? Most women don’t have ridiculous standards like that. Sure some do but not most.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 06:34 PM
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Yeah I’ve noticed that too that fat people complain about beauty standards more than ugly people. Most ugly people accept they won’t be most people’s cup of tea and hope they can find someone who either doesn’t care much about looks or can look past their flaws and find beauty in them anyway. Fat people talk about “fatphobia” and “diet culture” to explain why most people don’t wanna date fat people.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 06:23 PM
4

Since you just said taller I’m wondering taller than who or what
/r/MensRights14/01/24 04:44 PM
6

Men who were abused by women are usually ignored by the police. Lesbians have the highest rate of domestic abuse so that last part begs the question of if it was accurately reported, would lesbians have even higher domestic abuse rates?
/r/MensRights14/01/24 04:44 PM
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I disagree, I think it’s things that happen to men in their life to make them aggressive. Also since men are stronger than women it means they have the potential to commit a violent crime easier.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 04:42 PM
6

I sometimes wonder if the increase in men who identify as non binary or trans women is because third wave feminists are making it more socially acceptable to be non binary or transgender than to be a cisgender man It used to be mostly effeminate gay men who transitioned but now we’ve seen an increase in transgenders who look and act very masculine and call themselves transgender lesbians
/r/MensRights14/01/24 04:40 PM
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What do you mean by taller? And something I’ve noticed is we rarely see overweight men used to advertise mens underwear or swimsuits but there’s plenty of female plus sized models
/r/MensRights14/01/24 04:36 PM
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When you bring this up to feminists, however, they usually either call you sexist / homophobic (an ad hominem fallacy) or say “they were abused by men.” If they say the latter, I’m not sure they understand how being a lesbian works. Even if a lesbian dated men before she came out, it still wouldn’t explain why lesbians are victims of domestic abuse more than straight women and not less. The only intellectually honest logical rationale of that is that they’re being abused by other women.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 04:35 PM
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Hate crimes is kind of ridiculous logic. Like how feminists assume every woman murdered by a man is a case of femicide. Yes hate crimes do exist but usually people ignore that there could’ve been a number of motives before jumping to the conclusion it was a hate crime.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 04:34 PM
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Why would they be on their toes around trans people? Why am I being downvoted all I did was ask a question
/r/MensRights14/01/24 04:33 PM
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Yeah they used to not acknowledge women could be abusive. My favorite is when men said “if men and women are equal does that mean we can hit women back” and feminists immediately thought men meant abusing women instead of defending themselves.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 04:32 PM
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Lesbians have the highest rate of domestic abuse. When you bring this up to feminists, however, they usually either call you sexist / homophobic (an ad hominem fallacy) or say “they were abused by men.” If they say the latter, I’m not sure they understand how being a lesbian works. Even if a lesbian dated men before she came out, it still wouldn’t explain why lesbians are victims of domestic abuse more than straight women and not less. The only intellectually honest logical rationale of that is …
/r/MensRights14/01/24 04:28 PM
2

You can’t be anti circumcision without hating on those religions. Like some Jewish parents choose to have an alternative ceremony to a bris that doesn’t involve a circumcision.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 04:22 PM
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I’ve noticed the opposite is true, most intactivist tend to be on the left rather than the right. On the west coast (one of the most liberal areas) infant circumcision rates have dropped dramatically while in the southeast (one of the most conservative areas) infant circumcision rates have stayed high.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 04:20 PM
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Because you said you liked that site without acknowledging that the numbers of male rape victims might be miscounted because female rape victims usually go unpunished
/r/MensRights14/01/24 04:18 PM
1

Feminists have a loose definition of sexual assault. For example, they consider a man taking off the condom without the woman knowing to be sexual assault. It’s a crappy thing to do but it’s a reach to say it’s sexual assault.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 10:41 AM
0

That sounds too high, it should sound fishy to anyone with common sense
/r/MensRights14/01/24 10:40 AM
1

I hate to say it but I sometimes feel like being a rape survivor is trendy among women and some lie for pity or attention or whatever. I remember I saw a girl online who looked to be a teenager say “I’ve been sexually assaulted by men all my life.” Multiple men and her whole life? Unless she was raised in a sex cult, that’s bullshit.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 10:39 AM
2

I hate to say it but I sometimes feel like being a rape survivor is trendy among women and some lie for pity or attention or whatever. I remember I saw a girl online who looked to be a teenager say “I’ve been sexually assaulted by men all my life.” Multiple men and her whole life? Unless she was raised in a sex cult, that’s bullshit.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 10:38 AM
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What about female rapists? They rarely get any punishment or at most get a slap on the wrist
/r/MensRights14/01/24 10:36 AM
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When they say “90% of rapists are male” but don’t protest against female rapists getting off Scott free, it’s a self fulfilling prophecy
/r/MensRights14/01/24 10:35 AM
1

Yeah anyone can twist statistics to fit their narrative
/r/MensRights14/01/24 10:35 AM
2

Because a father has to be outstanding to get primary custody. Usually it’s only if the mom died or left the family he does.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 10:34 AM
1

Of course then there would be less male rape victims when female rapists usually get off Scott free, it’s a self fulfilling prophecy. Also I wonder if we counted female rape victims of female rapists what percentage of female rape victims have been raped by a female.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 10:33 AM
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There’s literally a study they’ll cite to say 98% of women have been raped. But it had a small sample size and it included sexual harassment, not just raped. It should be common sense that a statistic like that if it was about rape is bs.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 10:30 AM
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There was this one study feminists cite to claim that 98% of women have been raped It had a small sample size and it wasn’t just about rape, it included sexual harassment
/r/MensRights14/01/24 10:29 AM
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Yeah some of these guys in this comments section are acting like hardly any women wanna be with men unless they’re 6’2”. If a guy is attractive enough, even if tall guys is her preference, she probably won’t care about height as much.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 10:25 AM
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That’s not what I said either
/r/MensRights14/01/24 10:18 AM
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Cases with female rapists are undercounted since they usually get off Scott free
/r/MensRights14/01/24 02:14 AM
0

And a lot of heightism actually comes from men, whether it’s tall men who put down short men to make themselves feel better or short men projecting their own insecurities
/r/MensRights14/01/24 02:09 AM
1

Most women don’t expect men to be that tall, that’s such an asinine thing to say
/r/MensRights14/01/24 02:07 AM
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Heck, a lot don’t even go on hormones
/r/MensRights12/01/24 09:52 PM
8

They remind me of how neo nazis talk about black people and Jews
/r/MensRights12/01/24 09:45 PM
12

An example of that is emotional labor. Feminists claim there’s a gender imbalance and women do more of it for men but they must have selective vision to not see it’s the other way around more often than not since women express emotions more.
/r/MensRights12/01/24 09:32 PM
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I’d say it’s a feminist conspiracy theory, the same way there are people who blame everything on the Illuminati
/r/MensRights12/01/24 09:30 PM
4

I thought the same, like did I read that right?
/r/MensRights12/01/24 09:29 PM
4

Sometimes I feel like the feminists who complain about the patriarchy and say it expects women to do this or that don’t get out much and are living in their own echo chamber. The stuff they say they disagree with is literally the popular opinion. “The patriarchy expects women to save themselves for marriage but doesn’t care if men do” Most people don’t wait until marriage to have sex, even a lot of religious people don’t, and even if they technically did, they probably at least tried oral before…
/r/MensRights12/01/24 09:28 PM
2

I meant radical feminists as in the ones who don’t support trans, by most definitions the ones who do aren’t radical feminists
/r/MensRights12/01/24 07:50 PM
3

Gotcha
/r/MensRights12/01/24 07:13 PM
4

Autistic people are more likely to be gay or bisexual and less likely to fit masculine norms or feminine norms so that makes sense
/r/MensRights12/01/24 07:13 PM
2

Bob’s your uncle? Is there a typo?
/r/MensRights12/01/24 06:35 PM
8

I wonder if the sudden boom in men who identify as non binary or trans women has anything to do with how third wave feminists are making it more socially acceptable to be a transgendered woman than a cisgendered man It used to be mostly effeminate gay men who transitioned, now there’s been an increase of transgender lesbians who look and act very masculine
/r/MensRights12/01/24 06:26 PM
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It’s funny how inconsistent third wave feminists are. “Kill all men but if a man wears a wig and chops his man parts off, he’s now a woman and oppressed and needs to be protected.” At least radical feminists are consistent with their misandry.
/r/MensRights12/01/24 06:04 PM
3

Solution: just find a girl who likes foreskin or doesn’t care. There’s no reason why you need to get an unnecessary procedure so that women who don’t like uncircumcised men will like you specifically when there are also women who like foreskin or don’t care either way. As a comparison, I’m a woman with small breasts. If a man I was interested in told me he only likes big breasts and expected me to get implants to fit his preference, not only would I not do that but I’d also find someone else bec…
/r/MensRights12/01/24 05:59 PM
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Well if she likes those things, what’s wrong with joining those spaces?
/r/MensRights12/01/24 03:17 PM
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Whenever feminists call a woman a pick me or say she has internalized misogyny because she supports men, it shows their projection. They put down men to support women so they must think she’s putting down women to support men, when in reality that’s a false dichotomy fallacy.
/r/MensRights12/01/24 03:16 PM
1

That’s pretty much what I’d say
/r/MensRights12/01/24 12:09 AM
3

How many men are actually like that?
/r/MensRights12/01/24 12:08 AM
0

But lookswise, you’re not every women’s cup of tea, like there are women who like skinny guys over muscular guys, there are women who like dad bods / are chubby chasers
/r/MensRights11/01/24 03:37 PM
1

I’m not a troll. I’m just curious. Like if it’s something like anal sex, most women aren’t into that. I’d never do that and if a guy asked me for it, I’d question his sexuality.
/r/MensRights11/01/24 03:35 PM
1

Do what? I’m wondering if you mean anything specifically
/r/MensRights11/01/24 11:01 AM
0

High value is subjective
/r/MensRights11/01/24 04:22 AM
1

Top 15% or top 10% would be subjective. What part do women lie about when it comes to sex?
/r/MensRights11/01/24 04:21 AM
1

What were the depraved things. And what were you saying about number 2? There’s a chance she doesn’t want to do it at all
/r/MensRights11/01/24 04:20 AM
-2

Sounds like two different women
/r/MensRights11/01/24 04:18 AM
9

Projection much?
/r/MensRights11/01/24 04:14 AM
1

Mask what? Be more specific
/r/MensRights09/01/24 01:07 AM
1

What would they be then if they’re neurotypical?
/r/MensRights08/01/24 11:50 PM
1

Then they’re not neurotypical
/r/MensRights08/01/24 11:47 PM
-1

Incel is a subculture. Would you call a man who’s waiting until marriage an incel? Or a man who would be open to having sex before marriage but hasn’t met the right women? Those are two examples of men who desire sex.
/r/MensRights08/01/24 07:56 PM
1

What do you mean by autism masking?
/r/MensRights08/01/24 07:54 PM
-1

In my opinion a male virgin isn’t automatically an incel, it’s the attitude that makes him an incel. What’s funny is the incel stereotype is either an obese guy with more than one chin or an underweight guy who lacks a chin but incels aren’t just ugly men. A lot of them are incels because they have autism or other mental illnesses or they’re afraid to approach women because of rejection and bullying in the past. Two infamous incels, Elliot Rodger and Malik Sanchez, were arguably attractive men, …
/r/MensRights08/01/24 04:42 PM
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It’s infantilizing to women, funny when feminists are the real sexists
/r/MensRights08/01/24 04:39 PM
1

Does she mean menopause?
/r/MensRights08/01/24 04:36 PM
1

Criminals would definitely be more likely to pay prostitutes as paying a prostitute is a crime. And how much earlier do they lose their virginity? You didn’t answer that
/r/MensRights07/01/24 06:27 PM
0

Then what makes you think women are more likely to sleep with them?
/r/MensRights07/01/24 06:25 PM
0

Most men who have paid them would even though it doesn’t count as getting someone
/r/MensRights07/01/24 06:24 PM
-1

I don’t believe that a lot of women are willingly having sex with misogynistic men without being paid
/r/MensRights07/01/24 06:08 PM
0

Are you sure about that?
/r/MensRights07/01/24 06:08 PM
1

Exactly the title, feminism doesn’t have a monopoly on equality
/r/MensRights07/01/24 04:03 PM
2

Does having more sex partners count prostitutes? I can imagine a lot of those groups would be more likely to hire prostitutes
/r/MensRights07/01/24 03:43 PM
-1

I wonder if rapists tending to be more promiscuous has to do with having a lot of casual sex and not being used to being told no. Like say a man takes home a woman from the bar so he thinks it’s a definite yes but all she wants to do is kiss. He begs her for sex and she still says no so he decides to force her anyway.
/r/MensRights07/01/24 03:39 PM
0

How much earlier do criminals lose their virginity? Are you counting male rape victims?
/r/MensRights07/01/24 03:37 PM
2

Is that even true or did they make that up?
/r/MensRights07/01/24 03:35 PM
2

I wonder if they think all men belong to a hive mind
/r/MensRights07/01/24 03:33 PM
2

It’s victim blaming when for example we bring up that most homicide victims are men and they say “they’re killed by men” Do they think men are a hive mind? It seems that way when they say “men cause these problems themselves”
/r/MensRights07/01/24 03:32 PM
1

I can imagine that and how that feminists don’t realize that those are important details. Like if they said they were wearing a shirt that said Hollister when they went to a restaurant with man who date raped them, the police could check the restaurant’s security footage.
/r/MensRights07/01/24 05:55 AM
1

It’s most commonly referred to in the context of listening to someone else’s feelings
/r/MensRights06/01/24 07:59 PM
2

Do you mean shouldn’t go to prison? I think you made a typo When they argue that women get less prison time than men it’s okay, it’s infantilizing to women
/r/MensRights06/01/24 04:14 PM
1

The children should be allowed to transition argument is bizarre to me. If your 15 year old asks for a tattoo and the parents say no, they’d be seen as a reasonable parent, but if they ask to become the opposite gender and the parent says no, all of the sudden the parents are hateful bigots.
/r/MensRights06/01/24 04:13 PM
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I’ve seen them act like that too. Some even say women aren’t done with puberty until they’re 20-21, when in reality the end of puberty for women is in general two years after they’ve had their first period, which means the end of puberty would be 14 or 15 for most girls. They’ll even try to tell you that if a 19 year old woman dates a 27 year old man on her own free will, she must’ve been groomed.
/r/MensRights06/01/24 04:11 PM
1

Apparently it even made some of them infertile or sterile
/r/MensRights06/01/24 03:28 PM
1

What?
/r/MensRights06/01/24 03:26 PM
1

I agree with comparing feminists to white supremacists. Both say if women / white people are afraid of all men / black people, they have a valid reason to be. Both think if a woman / white person is murdered by a man / black person, it’s automatically femicide / white genocide, no matter what the real motive was.
/r/MensRights06/01/24 03:26 PM
1

They’re projecting being overly emotional on men. Also emotional labor didn’t mean what they say it means, it was originally meant to describe the people who’s job requires them to act like they’re happy even if they’re not, but feminists appropriated the phrase.
/r/MensRights06/01/24 03:24 PM
7

They want a man to comfort them emotionally but the moment it becomes a two way street, it’s a problem. Shows how selfish they are.
/r/MensRights06/01/24 03:46 AM
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Feminists can’t have it both ways, they can either argue men don’t show emotions because of toxic masculinity or that men show emotions so much women are burdened by it, but not both
/r/MensRights06/01/24 01:08 AM
7

You still can’t count emotionless chores as “emotional labor”
/r/MensRights05/01/24 11:00 PM
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Soothe their emotional instability Feminist will tell you that in relationships there’s a gender imbalance of “emotional labor” and women do more of it. They’d have to have selective vision to not see that more often than not, since women express emotions more than men, by definition it would be men doing more of it. When confronted with this, feminists usually move the goalpost and say “emotional labor can mean whatever I want it to mean”, even calling cooking and cleaning emotional labor despi…
/r/MensRights05/01/24 10:22 PM
1

Yeah, unless you have literal superpowers, it’s not like you have to pass on your genes
/r/MensRights04/01/24 07:39 PM
2

Care about what? I’m confused, be more specific
/r/MensRights03/01/24 04:16 PM
1

Domestic abuse and rape are not gendered issues. Feminists will sometimes try to tell you they are because women experience them more, but that doesn’t make it automatically a gendered issue by any means. Lesbians actually have the highest rate of domestic abuse. Feminists will sometimes respond to it with “it was from a man.” I’m not sure if they understand what a lesbian is then. Even if a lesbian dated men before she came out, she still probably dated less men than the average straight woman …
/r/MensRights03/01/24 04:14 PM
4

I’m sorry that happened to you. Sucks how women will lie they were raped for attention or pity. I once saw a girl online who looked to be a teenager say “I’ve been sexually assaulted by men all my life.” Multiple men and her whole life? Unless she grew up in a sex cult, that’s bullshit.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 04:12 PM
2

What I think is selfish is when married women have abortions behind their husband’s backs. I hear feminist say “trust women to make the best decisions for their families” about abortion. Assuming they mean family in the sense of parents and their children and not in the way people use it in modern times where they would include a childless married couple or a single woman and her cat, how could it be the best decision for her family if her husband wants a kid or her kid / kids want a new sibling…
/r/MensRights03/01/24 04:02 PM
3

Sounds like she either didn’t want kids at all or she was okay with it but it wasn’t that important to her
/r/MensRights03/01/24 03:56 PM
2

Did you end up having kids or no? Just curious
/r/MensRights03/01/24 03:55 PM
1

I don’t know if it’s black and white that she won’t be the best mother. There’s a lot of people who want kids who shouldn’t have had them.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 03:54 PM
1

I know of women who don’t just not want kids, they hate kids and anyone who has or wants them. Some even think that any woman who has kids will regret them. If they do the last thing, it makes me wonder how many times their own mothers told them they regret having them.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 03:51 PM
3

Whats wrong with adopting instead of having biological children?
/r/MensRights03/01/24 03:47 PM
10

At the same time of men not being taken seriously about it, some women even lie that they were raped (not usually by any one man specifically) for attention or to get pity. I once saw a girl online who looked to be a teenager say “I’ve been sexually assaulted by men all my life.” Multiple men and her whole life? Unless she grew up in a sex cult, that’s bullshit.
/r/MensRights03/01/24 03:44 PM
3

Just because you personally have never heard it doesn’t mean they don’t say it
/r/MensRights03/01/24 03:43 PM
2

Care about what? And I don’t get why you made those assumptions about me
/r/MensRights03/01/24 03:22 PM
-1

Sure some men do that but they’ve always mostly been women
/r/MensRights02/01/24 11:01 PM
3

The sperm doesn’t come out of thin air
/r/MensRights02/01/24 07:36 PM
2

What makes you think I’m fat or smoke?
/r/MensRights02/01/24 07:27 PM
-1

Well there are also jobs we need that men don’t normally do, like nurses
/r/MensRights02/01/24 07:26 PM
-1

If you had a girlfriend why wouldn’t you want to make her cum?
/r/MensRights02/01/24 04:59 PM
1

I guess they’re projecting being over emotional on men then
/r/MensRights02/01/24 06:18 AM
7

Like i said, men are needed to supply sperm
/r/MensRights02/01/24 06:16 AM
2

Why would 90% of the population die?
/r/MensRights02/01/24 02:30 AM
6

1/4?
/r/MensRights02/01/24 02:29 AM
1

But by itself they don’t require emotions
/r/MensRights02/01/24 01:27 AM
8

The vast majority of child predators were raped as a child themselves so that makes sense. Feminists say “90% of rapists are men”, yet when most of the time police only count forced penetration as rape and they don’t acknowledge that or have a problem with that, it’s a self fulfilling prophecy.
/r/MensRights01/01/24 09:37 PM
9

Some women even lie that they were raped (not usually by any one man specifically) for attention or to get pity. I once saw a girl online who looked to be a teenager say “I’ve been sexually assaulted by men all my life.” Multiple men and her whole life? Unless she grew up in a sex cult, that’s bullshit.
/r/MensRights01/01/24 09:34 PM
1

Do police always asks victims what they were wearing or is that something that happens once in a blue moon?
/r/MensRights01/01/24 09:32 PM
4

One of the feminists delusions is about so called emotional labor. They claim that there’s a gender imbalance and women perform more emotional labor in relationships. But you’d have to have selective vision to see that more often than not, it’s the other way around, and by the definition, since women express emotions more, men would do more emotional labor. But that’s besides the point, if you want to be a good partner you’re going to have to listen to your partners feelings, otherwise that make…
/r/MensRights01/01/24 09:30 PM
3

When you overuse a word, it loses its meaning. They think “misogynist” means “anyone who disagrees with my feelings”
/r/MensRights01/01/24 09:27 PM
2

Pretty sure that’s incels
/r/MensRights01/01/24 09:25 PM
21

Even if they dream of having an all female utopia, good luck reproducing And before they say “but bone marrow babies”, those all come out deformed and only live a few minutes. If you want a healthy baby your options are either adopting, getting artificially inseminated, or having sex with a man, none of which could happen without men.
/r/MensRights01/01/24 09:24 PM
0

It’s a myth that they’re entitled to dates? Yeah of course. Being nice is the bare minimum for friendship but not a relationship
/r/MensRights31/12/23 11:09 PM
3

I wonder how the Venn diagram of women who complain about not orgasming and women who lay there like a starfish looks Maybe if you thrusted back or got on top of the rooster and rode it, you’d have better luck
/r/MensRights31/12/23 06:04 PM
2

How was it from the seduction community? As far as I know, chad was an incel term for a guy who’s traditionally attractive and popular and it became a meme.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 03:56 PM
-5

They complain about women who only like them as friends because they’re nice to them. Nice is the bare minimum for being someone’s friend but not relationship wise.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 03:55 PM
0

“Nice guys” are guys who think they’re entitled to sex or dates from a girl because they’re nice to her.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 03:51 PM
2

I’ve always noticed how feminists have a double standard with mens sexuality and womens sexuality. When religious people say “keep your legs closed if you don’t want a baby”, they act as if they’re being slut shamed but they tell men who are having issues with their babymamas “you should’ve kept it in your pants.” Body positivity activists talk about how misogynistic and superficial it is when fit guys won’t date or sleep with fat girls but don’t keep nearly the same energy about fit girls who w…
/r/MensRights31/12/23 03:47 PM
5

Sounds like it was written by a femcel
/r/MensRights31/12/23 03:40 PM
2

It might not be needed to reproduce but you could say a woman chooses a mate based on if he’s good in bed and if she doesn’t want to have sex with him again after one time, that’s less of a chance he’ll get her pregnant
/r/MensRights31/12/23 03:38 PM
2

What does refractory period mean?
/r/MensRights31/12/23 03:36 PM
2

Much sounds like an exaggeration, you mean a little harder
/r/MensRights31/12/23 03:35 PM
-7

Sounds like you meant you don’t care if women orgasm. You must not have a girlfriend.
/r/MensRights31/12/23 02:46 PM
-2

It’s an incel word
/r/MensRights31/12/23 02:45 PM
-2

In what way is orgasming physiology?
/r/MensRights31/12/23 06:01 AM
4

Well if she’s having sex with a man he should try to make her cum but it’s also a two way street
/r/MensRights31/12/23 06:01 AM
2

She didn’t know men can be sexually abused? I hope you meant ex wife
/r/MensRights31/12/23 06:00 AM
2

I wonder how the venn diagram of women who complain about not orgasming and women who lay there like a starfish looks Maybe if you thrusted back or got on top of the rooster and rode it, you’d have better luck
/r/MensRights31/12/23 05:57 AM
1

Is it “much harder” or is that an overstatement?
/r/MensRights31/12/23 05:56 AM
3

There are a lot of women who see having sex with their boyfriend / husband as a chore, feminists even use the phrase “sexual labor”, makes you think said women don’t like sex that much
/r/MensRights31/12/23 05:56 AM
1

I’d like to see the Venn diagram of women who complain about not orgasming and women who lay there like a starfish Maybe if you thrusted back or got on top of the rooster and rode it, you’d have better luck
/r/MensRights31/12/23 05:53 AM
6

I wonder how many of the women complaining are either terrible in bed themselves or don’t know how to communicate what they want and expect the man to instinctually know
/r/MensRights31/12/23 05:52 AM
-9

Chads? Sounds like something an incel would say
/r/MensRights31/12/23 05:50 AM
3

Don’t care about what?
/r/MensRights31/12/23 05:50 AM
2

They’ll say lesbians are more likely to be abused or raped by a man I don’t think they know how being a lesbian works then. Even if a lesbian dated men before she came out of the closet, she still would’ve dated less men than the average straight women so that wouldn’t make sense as to why lesbians experience DV more than straight women and not less.
/r/MensRights29/12/23 04:01 PM
1

Not to mention straight men and straight women experience dv on similar levels
/r/MensRights29/12/23 04:00 PM
2

Some feminists say when told that lesbians are more likely to be victims of domestic abuse than straight women “if it’s from men” I don’t think they know how being a lesbian works then. Even if a lesbian dated men before she came out of the closet, she still would’ve dated less men than the average straight women so that wouldn’t make sense as to why lesbians experience DV more than straight women and not less.
/r/MensRights29/12/23 03:58 PM
2

It’s considered unattractive and immature if you’re over 25 and blame your problems on your parents, even though they’re literally the people who raised you Yet we’re supposed to let fully grown feminists blame all men for their problems, even men they don’t even know
/r/MensRights29/12/23 03:58 PM
1

I wonder if women are more likely to go to rehab
/r/MensRights29/12/23 03:56 PM
2

Yeah a lot of women will have their husband or boyfriend beat someone up for them so you have a point
/r/MensRights29/12/23 03:56 PM
1

What do you mean?
/r/MensRights29/12/23 03:55 PM
7

I was serious. Deedee was a monster.
/r/MensRights29/12/23 06:23 AM
1

Some feminists say when told that lesbians are more likely to be victims of domestic abuse than straight women “if it’s from men” I don’t think they know how being a lesbian works then. Even if a lesbian dated men before she came out of the closet, she still would’ve dated less men than the average straight women so that wouldn’t make sense as to why lesbians experience DV more than straight women and not less. Some feminists deflect from lesbian couples having the highest rate of domestic viole…
/r/MensRights29/12/23 04:53 AM
6

He should be free too, all he did was defend the poor girl
/r/MensRights29/12/23 04:51 AM
-1

A 19 year old is barely an adult compared to a 45 year old
/r/MensRights27/12/23 10:03 PM
0

Well how can you defend someone doing that? I beg that question
/r/MensRights27/12/23 03:51 PM
1

They’ll say men don’t show emotions because of toxic masculinity but also talk about how women do most of the emotional labor in relationships in the same breath They can either argue men don’t show their emotions or they show them so much women are burdened by them, but it can’t be both
/r/MensRights26/12/23 09:43 PM
4

It’s like when feminist accuse those who are anti hookup culture of “slut shaming” and say “women like sex just as much as men” but then talk about women’s “sexual labor”
/r/MensRights26/12/23 04:24 PM
4

That’s inappropriate for an adult to do at an event with minors present. I mean I could see if she was having a party with just her friends and no kids, but we should all agree what she did was inappropriate.
/r/MensRights26/12/23 04:23 PM
2

I have a perfect example of narcissism by feminists The whole thing about women doing men’s “emotional labor” or men using women as therapist. You’d have to have selective vision to nor recognize that more often than not, it’s the other way around, but men don’t complain about it as much. You don’t hear feminists talking about “men’s emotional labor” even though since women express emotions more than men, it’s obvious by the definition, men would do more. And if you want to be a good partner, yo…
/r/MensRights26/12/23 04:19 PM
-7

I think either way it depends on how large the age gap is and also to a point the ages itself. Like if you’re dating someone half your age or less it’s weird, especially when the younger person is under 25. Like why would you date a 19 year old as a 45 year old?
/r/MensRights26/12/23 04:06 PM
1

You said the word ugly in your comment
/r/MensRights23/12/23 06:10 PM
1

Why’d you compare short men to fat women? How are they the same? Wouldn’t fat men be the male version of fat women?
/r/MensRights23/12/23 04:21 PM
1

I was just talking about hypocrisy in the way people treat women who were rejected and women who treat men who were rejected. Unattractive, when it comes to physical features, means the same as ugly.
/r/MensRights23/12/23 04:19 PM
3

How does that make him ugly? Your face is what makes you ugly. Why are you saying you? I’m a woman. Why are you comparing short men to fat women, they’re not the same. Do you think most women want to date fat guys? Being fat affects how your face looks, being short doesn’t. If anything it’s more comparable to being a woman with small breasts.
/r/MensRights23/12/23 03:14 PM
1

I can’t see the video
/r/MensRights23/12/23 06:01 AM
7

One of the way feminists respond to this was “It was probably by a man”, lesbians are LESS likely to have dated men than straight women, even if a lesbian dated men before she came out of the closet, she still would’ve dated less men than the average straight woman, so it doesn’t explain why the numbers are higher for lesbians.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 11:20 PM
9

Usually only forced penetration is counted as rape, which would obviously exclude women. Even if the domestic abuse was mutual, usually only the man gets arrested.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 11:10 PM
20

Feminists use the same logic against men that racist use against black people: Saying they have a right to be afraid of them because they commit the most crime. Saying they can’t know which ones are good and which ones are bad so they try to avoid them all. Just like how feminist label every case of a woman being murdered by a man “femicide”, white supremacists label every case of a white person being murdered by a black person “white gen*cide”
/r/MensRights22/12/23 11:09 PM
12

That wouldn’t surprise me, just like with women who tell their boyfriends and husbands to beat up someone for them
/r/MensRights22/12/23 11:06 PM
2

And men are more likely to have mental illnesses that make them more prone to violence. There’s also some men with XYY chromosomes which makes them more prone to violence.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 11:05 PM
2

A common feminist response to that lesbians are more likely to be victims of domestic abuse than straight women is “but men kill their partners more often” That would be like saying dachshunds are the most aggressive dog breed but pitbulls kill more, obviously the bigger and stronger one has more potential to kill whether intentionally or accidentally
/r/MensRights22/12/23 11:02 PM
3

They remind me of incels when they talk like that
/r/MensRights22/12/23 03:06 PM
1

What?
/r/MensRights22/12/23 03:06 PM
1

Like Casey Anthony?
/r/MensRights22/12/23 03:05 PM
2

And I specified a decent looking short guy, as in not an ugly guy. To say a girl is automatically out of a guy’s league because he’s short is asinine. Using that same logic, she’s out of Zac Efron’s, Lenny Kravitz’s, and Josh Hutcherson’s league.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 03:02 PM
10

Im against them
/r/MensRights22/12/23 02:49 PM
3

Whoever said 40% (assuming that is true) probably also didn’t account for it being skewed by middle age to old women. So assuming you’re in your 20s or 30s, a smaller percentage of women in your age group would be obese.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 06:04 AM
1

That’s not what I said, you misinterpreted what I was saying
/r/MensRights22/12/23 04:25 AM
8

Even if it’s equal blame it’s seen as bad, all the blame has to be on men for some reason
/r/MensRights22/12/23 03:46 AM
5

I agree with that, lonely is an emotion, but a lot of single people do feel lonely and crave companionship so I think that’s what op is referring to
/r/MensRights22/12/23 03:45 AM
0

Isn’t high value subjective? And single as in unmarried or single as in no partner?
/r/MensRights22/12/23 03:44 AM
12

I’ve seen that attitude when feminist say “men cause 100% of abortions” as if the woman isn’t equally responsible for choosing to sleep with him and the abortion being her choice
/r/MensRights22/12/23 03:44 AM
7

I don’t disagree with that, no one’s entitled to any specific person, but how does him being short mean that any girl who rejects him is out of his league? I also specified a decent looking guy, as in nothing special but not unattractive by any means
/r/MensRights22/12/23 03:40 AM
2

Some of the arguments feminists use against men sound like arguments use to discriminate against other groups “Men commit the most crime so I have a reason to be afraid of them” Replace men with black in that sentence and you’ll see the problem “Men are overrepresented in the 1%” So are Jewish Americans and Asian Americans, which some white Christian Americans use as a reason to discriminate against Jews / Asians, seeing them as taking the success that they think they’re entitled to having
/r/MensRights22/12/23 01:16 AM
1

I already say “it’s not most men”
/r/MensRights22/12/23 01:12 AM
1

Who doesn’t?
/r/MensRights22/12/23 01:12 AM
2

I already say “most men aren’t x” to feminists
/r/MensRights22/12/23 01:11 AM
1

What does 1% accountable for 63% of crimes mean?
/r/MensRights22/12/23 01:10 AM
3

I can add more. It could have a failure rate since some women get pregnant while on birth control. Not all babies born out of wedlock were unintentional. There could still be babies for the adoption industry since a baby’s parents could’ve died or they could’ve been taken by cps. There would still be a higher rate of unplanned pregnancy from men of lower socioeconomic status because women of lower socioeconomic status are less likely to be on birth control so presumably it would be the same with…
/r/MensRights22/12/23 01:07 AM
1

no more unwed fathers That assumes all unwed parents didn’t want to have a kid out of wedlock
/r/MensRights22/12/23 01:04 AM
0

I don’t think a virgin is the same thing as an incel because it’s more of the attitude of an incel that makes him an incel. The incel stereotype is either a 300+ pound neckbeard guy or a 120- pound skin and bones guy with a negative chin but incels aren’t just ugly men. A lot of them are autistic, have other mental health issues, or have a fear of approaching women because of bullying and rejection in the past. Two infamous incels, Elliot Rodger and Malik Sanchez, were arguably handsome, or at l…
/r/MensRights22/12/23 01:03 AM
1

Systemic has become a buzzword
/r/MensRights22/12/23 12:58 AM
4

It’s honestly infantilizing to women
/r/MensRights22/12/23 12:57 AM
10

It was probably skewed by early deaths of men by things like war and hunting accidents
/r/MensRights22/12/23 12:50 AM
3

Yeah, it’s a two way street, if a woman starfishes but complains about not having an orgasm, it’s probably more her fault than his.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 12:13 AM
2

You think most women would like a 12”? Most women aren’t pornstars
/r/MensRights22/12/23 12:10 AM
2

You’re speaking for yourself
/r/MensRights22/12/23 12:09 AM
4

Do you mean overweight or obese? Unless you’re talking Mississippi or West Virginia, there’s no way 40% of women are obese
/r/MensRights22/12/23 12:09 AM
1

I know you can’t hang out with friends everyday
/r/MensRights22/12/23 12:08 AM
20

If an ugly girl says she was rejected by a guy because of how she looks, people will feel sorry for her and tell her she deserves better than him anyway, if a short guy who’s decent looking says he was rejected by a girl because of his height, people will say stuff like he’s not entitled to her so he shouldn’t be complaining
/r/MensRights22/12/23 12:07 AM
4

Only 40% of men in history ever reproduced? I don’t believe you
/r/MensRights22/12/23 12:05 AM
3

Single as in no partner or single as in unmarried? And in the average couple the man is 2-3 years older than the woman so that probably skews it
/r/MensRights22/12/23 12:04 AM
12

I wonder which gender uses the other gender as therapists more? For some reason I don’t feel like it’s men
/r/MensRights22/12/23 12:02 AM
16

It’s a well known fact that hunter gatherers had male hunters and female gatherers. I’m sure it wasn’t black and white and women sometimes hunted and men sometimes gathered but this is disingenuous.
/r/MensRights20/12/23 09:06 PM
1

Sane normal people don’t refer to that as work, what’s wrong with you?
/r/MensRights20/12/23 09:04 PM
12

There are women who make jokes about “when the 5’8” guy hits on you”, yet if a guy makes fun of a girl for having small boobs or a flat butt “omg women aren’t sex objects”
/r/MensRights20/12/23 03:42 AM
16

I wonder how the Venn diagram of women who complain about not having an orgasm and the women who lay there like a starfish looks. Maybe if you thrusted back or got on top of the rooster and rode it, you’d have better luck having an orgasm.
/r/MensRights19/12/23 07:11 PM
3

Honestly it’s not. Like if a guy doesn’t sleep around a lot is it misogynistic for him to not want to be with a girl who does?
/r/MensRights19/12/23 07:07 PM
3

It wasn’t me. How am I pathetic?
/r/MensRights19/12/23 07:06 PM
1

In what way?
/r/MensRights19/12/23 07:06 PM
3

It’s misogyny to have standards?
/r/MensRights19/12/23 05:55 PM
3

If a girl doesn’t care what a man’s body count is, it’s probably because hers is high
/r/MensRights19/12/23 05:55 PM
1

Depends on the individual man and woman
/r/MensRights19/12/23 05:55 PM
3

And that society is misogynistic and against this and that. It’s funny to see people who share the popular opinions, like thinking sex before marriage is okay, supporting abortion and birth control, thinking women don’t have to be housewives, seeing modesty as optional instead of mandatory, and any other things feminists claim society is against, think they have the unpopular opinion. Why don’t they draw their attention to women in third world countries who don’t have the privileges I just liste…
/r/MensRights19/12/23 05:54 PM
2

How many men actually do?
/r/MensRights19/12/23 05:50 PM
2

They throw them around like a toy at anyone who simply has a different opinion than them
/r/MensRights19/12/23 05:49 PM
-1

Why?
/r/MensRights19/12/23 03:12 PM
0

What mens issues do they talk about?
/r/MensRights19/12/23 02:15 PM
3

Good point
/r/MensRights19/12/23 05:05 AM
2

Even if it does happen to women more, that doesn’t make it a gendered issue by any stretch.
/r/MensRights19/12/23 04:44 AM
6

They think society wants women to stay pure until marriage but doesn’t care if men do. Most people don’t wait until marriage for sex anymore. Even a lot of religious people don’t and a lot of the ones who technically did at least tried oral. And the people who do strongly believe in it believe it’s a moral obligation for both women and men.
/r/MensRights19/12/23 04:43 AM
8

Feminists think a misogynist is anyone who doesn’t agree with them, or even anyone with questions, comments, or concerns about what they believe
/r/MensRights19/12/23 04:40 AM
1

Is it a female only sub?
/r/MensRights19/12/23 04:37 AM
-7

Isn’t menslib on our side? If it’s not why not?
/r/MensRights19/12/23 04:37 AM
3

If you don’t share 100% of their views, they label you a far right fascist. Everything is black and white to them, they see it as them against men and society.
/r/MensRights18/12/23 09:53 PM
2

I don’t see how that’s the same. One would be looked at as a joyous occasion.
/r/MensRights18/12/23 09:51 PM
1

I meant what are called white feminists
/r/MensRights18/12/23 01:54 AM
2

I just mean like the mom could be like “would you like to have a little brother or sister Billy?” If the child is too young to know about abortion
/r/MensRights18/12/23 01:54 AM
4

I’m a woman and I think women who get abortions behind their husbands / childrens backs are selfish
/r/MensRights17/12/23 08:07 PM
6

It’s just like when privileged white feminists suggest bringing birth control and abortion to third world countries with high birth rates to reduce their birth rates. Yes birth control and abortion are important for women to have access to but they shouldn’t be given for the wrong reasons, because that leads to eugenics. They see big families as something only men want, not understanding a lot of women want big families for religious and cultural reasons. They think that women only want 1, 2, or…
/r/MensRights17/12/23 06:21 PM
0

Who the fuck calls that work you weirdo?
/r/MensRights17/12/23 05:23 PM
3

We live in the days where finding a babysitter or a daycare is only a click away. How do you know you wouldn’t like having another child? Two kids? Sounds like the perfect number, not to few and not too many.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 05:22 PM
6

Because the stomach stretches so it’s not burst open
/r/MensRights17/12/23 05:20 PM
2

I am not against abortion but I find some arguments some people use to be infantilizing to women. Like when they say she’s forced to use her body “against her willl”. How is it against her will if she was having sex? She knew that could happen, she’s not a child who didn’t know better.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 02:11 PM
10

Your reply seems insane “my belly would burst and my genitalia would be ripped apart”
/r/MensRights17/12/23 02:04 PM
2

They’re not even open to having a respectful discussion.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 02:02 PM
8

Why would it hurt your quality of life or career? Mothers have careers. Don’t call it “torture”. Yes that sounds selfish to me, it’s two against one.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 02:01 PM
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They directed their anger at pro lifers towards me and called me things like misogynist and forced birther yet I was actually speaking objectively about what other people believe rather than subjectively about my own opinions. Guess they never heard the phrase “don’t shoot the messenger”
/r/MensRights17/12/23 05:35 AM
2

Most pro choices are not man hating feminists but man hating feminists are definitely the loudest in the pro choice movement. That’s the ones who say things like pro lifers want to “strip women’s rights away” or “against abortion? Have a vasectomy” or call pro life women “pick me girls”, because they see abortion as men vs women. Pro life vs pro choice isn’t exactly black and white in this way but it’s definitely closer to conservative vs liberal or religious vs secular than men vs women. And if…
/r/MensRights17/12/23 05:33 AM
3

Im not against abortion but I hate when people encourage and promote abortion, like how they act like abortion is an objectively better choice than parenting or protest against crisis pregnancy centers.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 05:28 AM
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Better than encouraging and promoting abortion, like how some people act like abortion is an objectively better choice than parenting or protest against crisis pregnancy centers. I would say it’s closer to morally neutral than anything else.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 05:27 AM
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I’d say anyone who supports late term abortion is sick in the head. Is a fetus at 8 weeks a baby? Debatable. Is a fetus at 8 months a baby? Objectively yes
/r/MensRights17/12/23 05:26 AM
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Feminist say “trust women to make the best decision for themselves and their families” but how could it be the best decision for her family if her husband wants to keep it or her kid wants a sibling or another sibling? I agree with that if she’s a single childless woman it’s her sole decision but being a couple or a family is about being a team, not about one person making decisions behind the others backs. I think her husband and kids should be allowed to veto her decision to have an abortion.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 05:01 AM
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I posted on r/askfeminists about why they think abortion is a men vs women issue when most American men are pro choice and there’s also pro life women, and why they argue that it’s an issue of womens rights rather than an issue of morality that you either see as morally neutral justified by bodily autonomy or morally wrong and cannot be justified by bodily autonomy. I got downvoted to hell and called a “forced birther” even though I told them many times that I’m not against abortion. When I said…
/r/MensRights17/12/23 04:48 AM
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Yeah feminists love shouting KAM Makes me think they’re all femcels with daddy issues
/r/MensRights17/12/23 04:34 AM
3

It’s like the people who bring up black on black crime to silence people’s concerns about racism. I’d also add men aren’t a hive mind so it’s not like it’s a man who did it to himself. Maybe mention straight men are more likely to be abused in a relationship than gay men and that a lot of female rapists and pedophiles get off Scott free.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 10:33 PM
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I’d add cat ladies (not regular women who have cats, I love cats), are the female version of incels. I’d bet money that an FDS meeting would look similar.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 04:39 PM
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This is embarrassing but some of the men from the incel meeting were kind of cute. The classic incel stereotype is either a 300+ pound neckbeard or a 120- pound bony guy with a negative chin but incels aren’t just ugly men. Two infamous incels, Elliot Rodger and Malik Sanchez, were aguably good looking or at least not ugly. A lot of incels are on the spectrum or have mental health issues or are afraid to approach women because of rejection and bullying in the past.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 04:35 PM
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Especially the amount of things posted out of context, like when people crop something leaving out important parts
/r/MensRights16/12/23 04:30 PM
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Feminists call everyone they dislike an incel or a misogynist, don’t take it personally
/r/MensRights16/12/23 04:29 PM
5

People associate lonely men with incels when that’s not necessarily true. To me I’ll say I think a virgin isn’t the same as an incel, as being an incel is more determined by the attitude, and there are men who feel lonely who have been with a woman sexually and / or been in a relationship with a woman. When a woman says she’s lonely people will in general be empathetic but when a man says he’s lonely, people make fun of him. I guess it kind of goes back to that men are shamed for talking about t…
/r/MensRights16/12/23 04:28 PM
4

Call me crazy but I take catcalling as a compliment, maybe because I was the ugly duckling
/r/MensRights16/12/23 04:25 PM
3

The worst thing I’ve gotten has been a few rape threats and unsolicited dick pics galore from anonymous men online. But I know those are only a fringe group of men and most men aren’t like that.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 04:24 PM
2

They’ll use words like “femicide” to describe every murder of a woman by a man no matter the motive. It’s like how white supremacists post articles of white people killed by black people with the caption “white genocide.” Both of those groups don’t actually care what the motive was and use murders to fit a narrative.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 04:22 PM
1

It could go either way and depends what’s wrong with her mentally
/r/MensRights16/12/23 02:40 PM
1

What do you mean by work? How is that work?
/r/MensRights16/12/23 02:38 PM
3

And how they don’t acknowledge that lesbian couples have higher rates of dv than straight couples, as well as straight men experiencing dv at almost the same rate as straight women.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 01:24 PM
3

But do you think it’s okay? That’s the question
/r/MensRights16/12/23 01:20 PM
3

No one’s stomping their feet. You made a point that you support mutilating babies, glad pretty much everyone else here is smart enough to downvote you to hell.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 12:53 PM
3

How can you have a “preference” of doing things for purely cosmetic reasons to unconsenting children? Your child is not your accessory
/r/MensRights16/12/23 12:52 PM
6

Whats your opinion on piercing babies ears?
/r/MensRights16/12/23 01:52 AM
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Circumcised as adults or babies? Obviously if that’s all he’s ever known that’s a problem right there. Function without it is irrelevant, it’s a perfectly good body part and it doesn’t need to be removed for no good reason.
/r/MensRights16/12/23 01:11 AM
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It’s mutilation irrelevant of the complications
/r/MensRights16/12/23 12:08 AM
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I don’t get how Americans don’t realize how being uncircumcised is the default and normal. They give the most asinine reasons for it. If it’s because his dad is circumcised, that would be just as bad as giving the baby a tattoo to match his dad’s. If it’s because the parents think it “looks better”, that’s a subjective reason and there’s plenty of people who don’t care or prefer uncut. If it’s for religious reasons, well some religions practice fgm but no sane person is trying to use religious f…
/r/MensRights16/12/23 12:07 AM
1

A lot of times it’s mutual but the man gets all the blame
/r/MensRights15/12/23 04:38 PM
1

It’s ridiculous because domestic abuse and rape aren’t gendered issues. Feminists will say they are because they happen to women more often, but that doesn’t make it a gendered issue.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 04:13 PM
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How can they not see that they’re infantilizing women when they do that?
/r/MensRights15/12/23 04:12 PM
1

Like when they say women are expected to be pure and saving themselves for marriage but no one cares if men do. Almost no one waits for marriage anymore, even a lot of religious people don’t, and if they technically did they probably at least tried oral before marriage. And the people who do strongly believe in waiting for marriage believe that both women AND men have a moral obligation to.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 04:08 PM
1

If anything, people are almost EXPECTED to lose their virginity in their teens. If a 20 year old says they’re a virgin people will ask them “why?” As if there even has to be a why and not that they just are.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 04:05 PM
1

Yeah, and they claim if they have kids they’re expected to be a stay at home mom when most moms work and we live in an era where finding a daycare or a babysitter is only a click away. It’s like they don’t get out much and they spend all their time in an echo chamber.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 04:03 PM
1

I didn’t mean plan b by the pill
/r/MensRights15/12/23 03:59 PM
1

They stop ovulation so yes they do
/r/MensRights15/12/23 03:24 PM
1

Really? I was guessing most were pro choice but that seems a little high. Also the UK is one of the few European countries that allows abortion up to 24 weeks.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 03:09 PM
1

What’s that of the UK?
/r/MensRights15/12/23 02:57 PM
1

Not all pro choicers are feminists, but feminists are definitely the loudest and dominate the pro choice movement, especially the man hating feminists which is where you get slogans like “men should not control women’s bodies” or “against abortion? Have a vasectomy”
/r/MensRights15/12/23 02:56 PM
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I’m honestly not against abortion, although I’d never have one myself and I don’t think it should be encouraged, but I disagree with the people who think it should be only the pregnant women’s choice. Like if she’s married, it would be selfish for her to abort behind her husband’s back, same with if she has kids. Her husband and kids should be allowed to veto her decision to have an abortion. The only time it should be her sole decision is if she’s an unmarried woman with no kids.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 02:54 PM
2

I hate when they say “men cause 100% of abortions”, my sister in Christ, you chose to sleep with him, you also chose to have an abortion, time to admit responsibility for your actions
/r/MensRights15/12/23 02:53 PM
1

In general when people say birth control, they mean pregnancy preventing methods like condoms, the pill, IUDS, spermicide, etc
/r/MensRights15/12/23 02:52 PM
1

Birth control is what you call pregnancy preventing methods
/r/MensRights15/12/23 02:51 PM
1

Yet they say “men cause 100% of abortions”, like my sister in Christ, you chose to sleep with him knowing you could get pregnant, you also chose to have an abortion, time to admit responsibility for your actions.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 02:50 PM
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Abortion is a unique right that women have that men don’t have nor have an equivalent to. I’m honestly not against abortion, although I’d never have one myself and I don’t think it should be encouraged, but I disagree with the people who think it should be only the pregnant women’s choice. Like if she’s married, it would be selfish for her to abort behind her husband’s back, same with if she has kids. Her husband and kids should be allowed to veto her decision. The only time it should be her sol…
/r/MensRights15/12/23 02:49 PM
1

That’s selfish if she’s aborting behind her children’s back. I think that if a woman is married and / or has kids, her husband and kids need to have a say. If she’s an unmarried woman with no kids, it’s her sole decision to make because it only affects her. It’s selfish for a married woman to abort without her husband’s knowledge or consent. If she already has a kid and her kid wants a sibling or another sibling, one more shouldn’t hurt.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 02:46 PM
3

Most Americans are pro choice, men and women both, with women being only slightly more likely to be so than men. Feminists are barking up the wrong tree when they label pro lifers as malevolence sexists who want to “strip womens rights away” rather than acknowledging that pro lifers have good intentions and that the abortion debate is about morals and values.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 02:32 PM
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They’re not a big fan of admitting responsibility. They shout “control your sperm”, but like, my sister in Christ, you chose to have sex with him knowing that it could cause pregnancy. When they say “men cause abortions”, they’re avoiding responsibility and that unless the man made them, they chose whether or not to have an abortion.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 02:30 PM
1

The older generations are more likely to be religious and more likely to be conservative and obviously those two things have a strong correlation with being against abortion
/r/MensRights15/12/23 02:23 PM
1

Yeah anyone who supports late term abortions is sick in the head. Is a pregnancy at 8 weeks a baby? Debatable. Is a pregnancy at 8 months a baby? Obviously yes.
/r/MensRights15/12/23 02:21 PM
1

Evangelical is a religion, not a political position
/r/MensRights15/12/23 02:16 PM
1

Oddly specific, most Catholics and Mormons are against abortion, and some non religious conservatives are against it too, seeing it as a morality issue rather than a religious issue
/r/MensRights15/12/23 02:16 PM
3

I guess you’ve never heard a feminist talk about abortion. They refer to abortion restrictions as things like “men controlling womens reproduction”, protest against abortion with signs that say things like “against abortion? Have a vasectomy”, accuse pro lifers of wanting to “strip women’s rights away”, and when they do meet a woman who’s against abortion, they call her a “pick me girl” or say she has “internalized misogyny” as if they think abortion is men vs women and she’s siding against wome…
/r/MensRights15/12/23 02:12 PM
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Men also seem to be more likely to have more moderate opinions on it while women seem to be the ones normally on the extreme ends of the spectrum, either wanting to outlaw all abortions or make abortion legal until birth
/r/MensRights15/12/23 06:05 AM
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That’s not necessarily true, since most women in America start having sex at 15-18, some people assume that a woman who’s still a virgin past that age must either be a religious prude, too ugly to get a man, or has something wrong with her mentally
/r/MensRights15/12/23 01:08 AM
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Not the majority, but yes a large number, and most men are pro choice too, only being slightly less likely to than women
/r/MensRights15/12/23 01:03 AM
0

After one, she should’ve learned her lesson and been more careful.
/r/MensRights14/12/23 10:54 PM
5

They’ll say the “patriarchy” expects them to have kids but then they’ll gladly say women are better parents to support single moms getting full custody
/r/MensRights14/12/23 10:44 PM
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Like they ban men only subreddits but they allow subreddits like fds
/r/MensRights14/12/23 10:43 PM
12

Not only will feminist silence male victims of domestic abuse, they’ll silence lesbian and bisexual women who were abused by their female partner because it doesn’t fit their narrative about domestic abuse being a patriarchal issue perpetrated by men against women
/r/MensRights14/12/23 10:42 PM
2

What does that have to do with abortion?
/r/MensRights14/12/23 10:40 PM
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I don’t know, most pro choicers aren’t man hating feminists, but the man hating feminists are definitely the loudest and dominate the pro choice movement
/r/MensRights14/12/23 10:37 PM
0

What do you mean?
/r/MensRights14/12/23 10:36 PM
3

Or it’s a character who’s the butt of every joke who stays a virgin
/r/MensRights14/12/23 10:35 PM
2

Do you mean men or women? People in America usually start having sex at 15-18 so anything past that, some people raise eyebrows at. Some people assume anyone who’s a virgin past that age is either a religious prude, too ugly to get laid, or has something wrong with them mentally. But those people are honestly just being judgmental.
/r/MensRights14/12/23 10:34 PM
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I think pro lifers and pro choicers should reach a compromise. You can have one abortion but no more. One pregnancy could be an accident, if she’s having multiple “accidental pregnancies”, that’s on her.
/r/MensRights14/12/23 10:31 PM
3

What does that have to do with abortion?
/r/MensRights14/12/23 10:29 PM
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Feminist see it as a black and white men vs women issue about whether or not women should have rights instead of being closer to right vs left or religious vs secular and an issue about whether or not abortion is morally justified.
/r/MensRights14/12/23 10:28 PM
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What I don’t get is how feminists make it seem like a men vs women issue. Most men are pro choice and only slightly less likely to be so than women. If anything it’s more like right vs left or religious vs secular than men vs women. When feminists talk about abortion as a woman’s rights issue and label pro lifers as malevolent sexists who want to “strip women’s rights away” rather than talk about the morality aspect of it and acknowledge that pro lifers see themselves as having good intentions, …
/r/MensRights14/12/23 10:27 PM
6

When feminists say “men commit most sex crimes” but most of the time only forced penetration is counted as rape and they don’t care about that, it’s a self fulfilling prophecy
/r/MensRights14/12/23 03:46 PM
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Sounds like you have equivalent standards, nothing wrong with that. Imagine how mad a female lawyer would probably get if someone told her “you should marry a truck driver”
/r/MensRights14/12/23 03:37 PM
2

I don’t get how Americans don’t get being uncircumcised is the default and normal
/r/MensRights14/12/23 03:34 PM
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I would stop making rape and domestic abuse laws pointlessly gendered so that women don’t get off Scott free as much
/r/MensRights14/12/23 03:33 PM
12

That’s the new rape accusations
/r/MensRights14/12/23 03:33 PM
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