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The fact that you are 27 matters. I stated that around 28 or 29 things came around for me. My Gamer friends had girlfriends and wives. However, they did not hit up the bars and clubs as often as I did. Listen you are doing great at work and paid off all your debts. That means you are a serious focused individual. You can solve this sex situation with girls. Now if your friends are picking up girls in the club you should ask them for help. However no one is really invested in you getting better m…
/r/seduction10/01/17 04:40 PM
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Thanks for sharing your situation, Its interesting how the more real you get the more people can relate. My father passed away when I was 14. I am now 31 and I feel like I am still recovering. My life is fantastic and I am healthy, happy and successful. His passing still affects me though. Please go easy on yourself! Don't put too many expectations on yourself at this time. Alot of people can get lost in drugs, alcohol or extremely unhealthy relationships when dealing with a situation such as yo…
/r/seduction10/01/17 04:13 PM
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Wow man, I totally remember being in this position. It is so painful! But the problem is you are subjecting yourself to this sad movie! Are there other girls in the group that you are attracted to that you could go for? Are you guys partying in the city or bars? Like do you drink at someones house and then go out? If you do then you should probably go and talk to girls around your group. For example there was a girl that I was crazy about in my social circle. She was beautiful and cool but she n…
/r/seduction10/01/17 02:47 PM
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Yeah you can text everyday for sure! Try to send her funny memes. As an example you can download PhotoWonder App. It allows you to make collages. Get a picture of yourself and then get four pictures of puppies. Collage them all together and then ask her who she thinks are the cutest. Do you know what I mean? PhotoWonder is a free App and I dont work for them lol. But what I worry about for you is that you are putting way too much importance on this girl. If she is long distance then you should m…
/r/seduction10/01/17 02:35 PM
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Almost as a rule I never go for girls when they are working. If they are a waitress, trainer, bartender or even a girl working at 7/11. The point is they are busy working and probably being nice because they are in the service industry. However, I will be super nice to them! I will ask them how there day is going and maybe even make them laugh! Chances are I will see them out one day and that's when I will ask them what they are up to or if they want to grab coffee! There are millions of girls o…
/r/seduction10/01/17 01:57 PM
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Kamerad-dziga that is a great question! Anyone that is seriously into pick up knows that it is no one thing. If all pick up is,, is just taking shots all day, as in opening up heaps of girl until you find one that sleeps with you... then it isn't much of a skill. If you can learn pick up in a classroom over a semester. Study in a book and pass the test and then go and get any girl you want,, then numbers don't matter at all. But as seasoned dudes know.. it is a combination of both. Read, listen,…
/r/seduction10/01/17 01:50 PM
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Dude, That plane landing is the coolest thing I have ever seen. Like it just made my day man for sure! I think you are a super cool dude. But here is the problem.... I have sex alot with different girls. So to me a text like that is super funny. If I sent that to a girl she would probably laugh! I wonder if the girl even was turned off by it. I could be wrong and I don't want to stop you from expressing yourself. So totally keep doing your thing. But maybe you could try "Hey, we should chill som…
/r/seduction10/01/17 07:58 AM
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Man, I grew up super Christian and I didnt have a girlfriend from 14 to 21. But In University I decided that I was going to start going for girls. I started with this hot girl in my class. She sat beside me as well./ So we started talking and I eventually got her number. I messaged her a bunch and asked her on a date. She never replied. Later on I saw her in class but I never looked at her. I was so upset. Like I was so sensitive and hurt lol. Later I saw her in the mall and tried to avoid her. …
/r/seduction10/01/17 07:44 AM
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Hey, It really matters how old you are. I am curious because during my entire twenties I tried everything and continually failed. It was an extremely frustrating decade. Girls often would treat me like shit. I tried to do business and failed at everything. I moved constantly to different cities and could never seem to get ahead. But all of a sudden maybe when I was 28, 29 or 30 it started to shift. All of the things I tried started to provide me with experience. Suddenly I was ahead of all my fr…
/r/seduction10/01/17 07:30 AM
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You'll be surprised how little thinking you actually need to do! The truth is you already know what to do. Just Do It (Nike Swoosh) But for real. Watch the video on Youtube about Micheal Jordan on failure. Just talk to her and if you lose her then you lose her! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=45mMioJ5szc Watch this vid dude and go win at game and life!
/r/seduction10/01/17 07:12 AM
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When this first happened to me I was devastated. I didn't want to think people actually would judge me about my upbringing. I couldn't control where I came from and yet the girl decided she didn't want to be with me because of it. It's painful as hell. At the same time I have had beautiful apartments and watched the girls face change when she walked inside. Girls have come closer to me when they saw how much value offered. It goes both ways. From now on, leave the dark parts of life out. You can…
/r/seduction10/01/17 07:06 AM
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Hey, I thought I replied to this but generally you just got to be careful! But alot of guys that gave you advice have been in the game along time. So they know its not just about getting laid. You could chill with this girl and have sex but then there will be lots of problems you have to deal with. Instead of dealing with these problems you could be having sex with other cool girls! You are a mindful dude. You got this. Shawn Cameron www.asiasocialite.com
/r/seduction10/01/17 06:59 AM
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Hey jordan20x1, Its not rocket science! Im not claiming anything spiritual! Just that alot of dudes here go so hard on themselves they destroy their confidence. I think a positive approach and building yourself up will get you to the next level faster. Its just a theory, although it has been trans-formative for me as well!
/r/seduction10/01/17 06:55 AM
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Here is something you are ignoring. All great men and people in general feel inferior at times. They are not great because they always feel confident, they are great because they feel insecure and yet accomplish huge things despite that. Jimmy Fallon of the current Late Night Show admitted that every night, before the curtains open and the show starts he thinks "I can't do this! What am I doing here?" And then he goes out and has a great night. Mike Tyson talks about how he would feel fear and y…
/r/seduction10/01/17 06:44 AM
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Hey man, That's a really tough situation. Especially since you have kept such rigid track of all your swipes and matches. You are also a virgin which can put on an extra pressure to every interaction. This may not seem like great advice but you should just go with the flow. Also don't run out of hope. I actually see lots of signs of hope. These girls went on lots of dates with you. That means there was interest. One reason they didn't want to date is because you didnt make a move sexually! If yo…
/r/seduction10/01/17 06:35 AM
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Hey, Everyone that is good at pick up has been in the situation plenty of times. And the fact is, no matter how good you get at pick up it will keep happening. Its just a part of the pick up lifestyle. Its much like other high level competitive sports. Every UFC fighter says if you haven't lost fights then you haven't been fighting long enough. Everyone loses a fight at some point. And it hurts and they feel let down. But the great champions sit down and watch the fight. They study what they did…
/r/seduction10/01/17 06:19 AM
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Usually these girls that have compulsive personalities are actually quite attractive and captivating. So the question is can you just date them casually? Sounds like you are a balanced and sensitive guy. Therefore you will get pulled into their story and will want to help them! You have to be really careful. And just dating them casually may not be helping them either. Just give them space and see how they react. If they pursue some meetups maybe go for it. But again my advice is still keep focu…
/r/seduction09/01/17 05:05 PM
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Yo, Words have power and your sub conscious is listening to everything that you say. I used to say "Oh man I am such a bitch!" And guess what?!?! Nothing changed! I just told myself that I am weak and I shouldnt expect anything different. However, instead I started saying different things to myself! I will say "Dont worry about it Shawn!" You ll get it next time! Its in your heart you want to reach out. You can do it, You can do it!" This type of speaking to yourself will train your brain in a p…
/r/seduction09/01/17 07:39 AM
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Hey, I really like this post because its so honest! The truth is the world is full of people dealing with different issues. Im not sure if their is a right answer to this but I am going to give you advice based on my experiences. I think you should get out of it while it is still early. You are 27 which means you are still young. Im not sure if you have made it in terms of career and life goals. But at 27 you should still be building your castle. You need to devote so much time to yourself and y…
/r/seduction09/01/17 07:04 AM
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Yoooo , This is a great place to be. Now the important part to realize is that if all you need to do is work part time then you are in heaven. Guys that work full time have a hard time finding the energy and strength to meet tons of girls. You got to be able to save your energy and time for what you want. Therefore it doesnt really matter what you do as long as you use your time when not working doing opens during the day and night. So don't worry about a job where you might be working with hot …
/r/seduction08/01/17 06:02 PM
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Brroooo, I read this post at the perfect time! This is a dream scenario. You are starting at 0 in a new city. You have no friends, no connections and you want to build a amazing social group, connections at bars and clubs and roll with the coolest guys in the city. Wow! Lets do it! I love this post because this was me about a year and a half ago. The plane landed and I immediately went to work. I am going to share with you the top 5 Rules I followed. I now live in the center of the city, have be…
/r/seduction08/01/17 05:47 PM
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Dude, Sounds like you have the opposite of a problem. Sounds like you have an opportunity!! Most friends I have are complaining constantly that they get girls online but can never happen in real life. There is nothing awesome about Tinder or Dating Sites. The masses are doing it. That means its mainstream and attracts quite average people. If you are actually doing great at Game and getting pulls when you are not working.. try pouring your personality into online conversation. Tell them how much…
/r/seduction08/01/17 05:22 PM
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Dude, Sounds like you have the opposite of a problem. Sounds like you have an opportunity!! Most friends I have are complaining constantly that they get girls online but can never happen in real life. There is nothing awesome about Tinder or Dating Sites. The masses are doing it. That means its mainstream and attracts quite average people. If you are actually doing great at Game and getting pulls when you are not working.. try pouring your personality into online conversation. Tell them how much…
/r/seduction08/01/17 05:17 PM
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Dude, Sounds like you have the opposite of a problem. Sounds like you have an opportunity!! Most friends I have are complaining constantly that they get girls online but can never happen in real life. There is nothing awesome about Tinder or Dating Sites. The masses are doing it. That means its mainstream and attracts quite average people. If you are actually doing great at Game and getting pulls when you are not working.. try pouring your personality into online conversation. Tell them how much…
/r/seduction08/01/17 05:17 PM
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Yo dudegrt, This is actually a great questions because it is a thin line between both. I have told girls a little bit about my background and lower class upbringing and I notice they lose attraction. It is so upsetting because they were sharing their problems a minute before. This can be extremely painful and upsetting for the kind of guy that is naturally more emotional. So I have a new rule. I only share with girls my emotions that are positive. Let me give you an example so you don't think I …
/r/seduction08/01/17 05:04 PM
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Benji, I used to be so scared of opening. I took a bootcamp and actually quit after the first day. I was so nervous! I didnt know what to do. I hated approaching girls. I was scared they would hate me or I would upset them. However there are a couple of mindsets I have taken in and they have made a world of difference for me. 1) Girls are bored. Most people in this world are bored out of their fuckn minds. They have no idea what they want and they have no idea where they are going. Most of all t…
/r/seduction08/01/17 04:43 PM
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I love this question and it truly isn't asked enough in the pick up community. I have gamed with dudes that come from lower class background backgrounds, middle class and upper class. The truth is the guys that do the absolute best usually come from one of the extremes. So the dudes that are lower class find a way to get a couple of nice pieces of clothing and then develop this millionaire playboy type of personality. They grew up with so little, if they wanted to get to the top, they knew they …
/r/seduction08/01/17 04:29 PM
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Hey man, Ive read all the comments below and I think you are ignoring the truth. I have lots of buddies that will game until the day they die. They will never get into a monogamous relationship. I used to think these were bad guys but I realized later that they were actually really sincere. The truth is they knew who they were and what they wanted. They weren't lying to themselves. I have other buddies that just got tons of girls. But eventually met an amazing girl and then just stopped their ol…
/r/seduction08/01/17 04:09 PM
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Yeah, Again I have buddies that love Tinder! And they do quite well. But they never meet a girl they get super excited about!
/r/seduction08/01/17 03:14 PM
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Thanks man! I appreciate that!
/r/seduction08/01/17 03:13 PM
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Hey man, I am so glad to hear that! It comes with time my man. Go easy on yourself for real. www.asiasocialite.com
/r/seduction08/01/17 03:13 PM
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Wow man, I feel your pain I really do! This was something that I dreaded when I was your age. I literally spent hours in the bathroom just looking in the mirror at my hair. Lol It was the worst feeling. I even looked in the mirror at girls places. Like after I slept with them I would stress about my hair and look for encouragement from them. What a bad mindset I had! But you know what? I realized it didn't matter. Three Reasons Why. 1) I am 31 now. The girls I date are way more beautiful, cool, …
/r/seduction08/01/17 03:09 PM
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This stuff definitely has power and I think the reason pick-up has become so powerful is because it taps into Universal Laws. I always believed I was worthy of an amazing girl but yet I always dated girls that I couldn't connect with. I was never truly satisfied with any of my past relationships. The reason is deep down I knew that I wasn't being myself. I wasn't reaching the life goals I knew I was capable of. When I discovered pick-up I realized I was worthy of amazing girls but I needed to pu…
/r/seduction29/12/16 03:17 PM
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Hey, I think this is a great question. It was something I asked myself a couple years ago before I took a pick up course. Of course you want to be careful because you dont want to waste your money or time. 1)Skype Consultation The majority of PUA's offer a free skype consultation. They want to talk with you and figure out what you are looking to achieve. Are you looking for a girlfriend or to just get lots of girls. They can take the time to get to know you and explain what their course offers. …
/r/seduction29/12/16 08:12 AM
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I have always had a difficult time playing it cool with really hot girls. Or girls that I was really into. But just like you I had really put them up on pedestals. Those girls that I thought I could never talk to have aged and are in their thirties now. I don't know why I made such a big deal about them. In my head though I said this is the perfect women for me. So it seems that you need to find ways to keep yourself calm. Its important to be able to talk freely when you first meet her. You want…
/r/seduction29/12/16 07:56 AM
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Hey man, So I have had this problem as well. I would have to say the main problem is Tinder. You cannot expect to meet people really quick when they only reason you connected i the first place is because of a SWIPE. It will take extra long to make her comfortable through texting. Some guys do get quick meetups but those end up sucking. The sex is always decent and usually the girl is no where near top quality. So the question is why arent you meeting girls in person? Why dont you do Daygame some…
/r/seduction29/12/16 07:36 AM
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Hey man, If you don't want to sound needy just ask in a very assertive way. Or if you want to pay for the dinner tell her you will pay for it but you want her to grab the two of you coffee or beers. "Ill get the meal and you grab us beers" If she says she doesn't have money you can tease her and ask her why she doesn't have money. The most important part is that you realize its needy of her to expect you to pay for everything. You are not needy. You just know that she needs to invest in the time…
/r/seduction29/12/16 06:35 AM
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Hey man, Sounds like you have the opposite of a problem. Sounds like you have an opportunity! Here are a list of things you can say that wont come off as creepy. (1) Whoa you look amazing! (2) Your body is perfect. (3) These videos are amazing! Do not stop sending! (4) Next time lets make a video together! When are you free to chill? Try all of these. You could start with the first and then move through them. Shawn Cameron www.asiasocialite.com
/r/seduction28/12/16 04:40 PM
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Hey dude, I totally feel your pain! I want bald in my mid twenties and it was very difficult for me to accept. I spent hours worrying about my future and if I would ever be able to have the life I wanted if I went bald. However, I found one thing as time went on and I discovered and sucess with dating. I realized that I couldn't rely on my hair. I realized that there is more to life and I need to be an awesome guy despite this shortcoming. I usually just wear a snapback hat or beanie. And I have…
/r/seduction28/12/16 04:31 PM
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Oh man, This is the worst. I have definitely been there before. I have noticed with pick up and dating that everything seems to come in waves. You put in the work and then you experience a wave of success. For example if I am learning guitar or playing a difficult video game I get to the next level by putting in lots of practice. So at first I get the confidence up and I start to talk to girls in clubs. I start to talk to hotter ones after awhile. Then I get numbers and replies but no dates. The…
/r/seduction28/12/16 03:32 PM
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Hey, I love the first date. I am super excited for you. I want to give you one tip that has transformed my dating. In my early twenties and even late twenties I would always pay for girls. I work super hard for my money and I always thought the pay off would be that I could pay for expensive dates. Date after date though I felt like I could never really connect with the girls. I had sex with some of them but the majority just had a couple meals and bounced. I was given advice after getting into …
/r/seduction28/12/16 02:56 PM
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I think most PUA's would agree with everything that is written here. The majority of guys in Pick Up now are more holistic in their approach. PU in general is evolving and becoming more about self development then getting women. However, it is not just a numbers game. There is so much to approaching different girls. Anyone that has been successful in their dating life knows this.
/r/seduction28/12/16 04:41 AM
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This is an extremely honest post and a topic that most people do not acknowledge enough. If you are super horny you are going to be putting out tons ofg sexual energy. Hopefully you are not doing this in a weird way. If you can be confident and direct and positive all at the same time you should notice different reactions from girls. Often when I am opening lots of girls at once I am doing it out of work. I want to keep my numbers up in terms of girls I approach. I usually have a regular that I …
/r/seduction28/12/16 04:28 AM
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This post has so much clarity in it. It also seems that the sooner you have sex with them the better. After sex it kills awkwardness and you will feel even more natural with each other. The great conversations and jokes will get even better. Her brain and yours can be free from asking "when are we going to fuck?". There has got to be a way you can cross paths with this girl again. But this time just go for it. Bang her in the library! Sounds like the two of you connected. Hope this isn't the end…
/r/seduction20/12/16 04:44 PM
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First of all this is a really tough spot to be in. Its easy if a girl says she doesn't like you! You just move on and try to find someone else. If she says she likes you a lot then the ball is in your court. But it gets tough when she gives you some time but doesn't seem really invested. If you like the girl its hard to be logical. Its almost like she is playing with your emotions. A great place to start is to ask yourself why she would be spending anytime with you in the first place. Are you bu…
/r/seduction20/12/16 04:20 PM
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