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4	I need a pep talk re: post-divorce dating I’m in a similar position—fit, wealthy, attractive, tall, divorced, kids, and back in the dating world. I’ve dated a couple of really attractive, successful women since, so it’s not impossible, but I won’t pretend it’s easy either. Depending on where you live, the pool can feel limited, and the apps don’t always make it better. One thing I’ve noticed is that a lot of profiles start to blend together. There’s a strong emphasis on wanting a man who is confident, driven, emotionally steady, and “le…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/07/26 02:33 AM
1	Men who feel the divorce came out of the blue, what kind of conversation do you wish your wife had with you and how far in advance do you wish she’d had it? I’ll start by saying my experience may not reflect everyone’s, but I’ve spent a lot of time reflecting on what contributed to my own divorce. One of the biggest lessons I learned is how important it is to keep dating each other, even after you’re married. Early on, there’s effort, intention, and excitement—but over time, that often fades into routine and complacency. Reintroducing that sense of intentionality can make a real difference. Planning time together, putting in effort, and showing that…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/07/26 02:03 AM
3	Three years after divorce - alternative point The best thing you can do is to understand you are the prize by adopting a growth mindset, accepting yourself and your value, and focusing on your kids and family if you have them. Women and relationships in general will come to you when you stop putting them on a pedestal and showing the world you’re a confident, secure man. Good energy attracts good energy. Material things don’t mean anything. I had everything I dreamed of with my ex-wife and it didn’t mean a thing. I disagree that people can’…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/07/26 02:18 PM
1	Men’s support groups I am also in. Please DM me	/r/Divorce_Men	27/02/26 12:30 AM

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