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askmeanything2/r/askMRP25/05/18 03:14 PM
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askmeanything2/r/askMRP29/09/20 07:31 PM
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This is a good helpful comment
/r/askMRP03/10/20 10:57 PM
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These were all quotes from different women, so who is “you”? Btw many women there are aware of rp thinking, more than some men who show up here.
/r/askMRP03/10/20 01:37 AM
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That’s an interesting take. On FDS a recent long hen discussion identified these problems among others: Chris Rock deserves his share of blame for coining the term and concept "the friendzone" in 1996 that stupid frigging book "The Game" and the "Pick Up Artist" culture dating in your 30s vs. dating in your 20s. All of the self awareness is simply too much for both genders. Women actually self reflect and learn from their mistakes when they go into new relationships. Men would rather date a youn…
/r/askMRP03/10/20 01:07 AM
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I do care about my adult children and other younger relatives having successful relationships, though I do understand those who do not want to give a fuck and only worry about themselves. Better Bachelor gains 1000s of subscribers per day, and he is only worrying about himself, having given up on relationships. Maybe worry is the wrong term, as he seems happier than those who are simps who got married. If women now pump up their SMV (WAP etc.) while at the same time reducing their RMV, can marri…
/r/askMRP30/09/20 05:20 PM
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Thanks for this reply (and also the one from selectairline) The reason I asked this here, is it is not so much her SMV as her Relationship Market Value. That is not whether you would pump and dump, but have a relationship. There is the question of having kids at 40+ too. When Rodgers makes his statement his SMV and RMV both increase. When Patrick makes her statement, now only a simp would attempt anything long term, that is her public statement is reducing her RMV, like gaining 40lbs would reduc…
/r/askMRP30/09/20 04:44 PM
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fuck off
/r/askMRP18/01/20 10:57 PM
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lesbian drama
/r/askMRP10/11/19 01:18 PM
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I think read is working
/r/askMRP09/11/19 09:33 PM
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You are driving this. Get out of the backseat and use the steering wheel.
/r/askMRP04/11/19 02:42 AM
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Yes she has more leverage, that is a given. You need to provide more details about when you can’t STFU and then lose frame. What are the arguments that “have gone pretty far. Divorce was thrown around a few times“?
/r/askMRP04/11/19 02:14 AM
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get down on your knees and hug him, and say “please don’t cheat”
/r/askMRP03/11/19 03:37 PM
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I was upset reading this. So upset I had to go on a two hour drive. I put my phone on airplane mode to avoid reading it again. I drove by 34 donut shops (I counted) but didn’t have a donut. I am now ready to reply, then I have a two hour drive back home. Your GF is bored. She is so bored she is manufacturing drama. 2 hour drive, boring (ask me how I know, also we have a job opening for a driver to take buses to depots). Soup, boring. Hinting at sex, boring. Becoming a boring rock and oak will no…
/r/askMRP03/11/19 08:02 AM
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Somehow she found the manual and is using dread on you
/r/askMRP21/10/19 04:33 PM
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6 years into a dead bedroom but now something is going on with me
/r/askMRP18/10/19 02:23 PM
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Emotional, clingy, post wall, and needs to branch swing. See recent CPC celebrations for how to spot red flags.
/r/askMRP09/10/19 02:14 PM
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pegging videos
/r/askMRP03/10/19 04:34 PM
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Great comments as usual. As an exercise consider afterwards how you might have responded with A&A that was funny, yet not bitter or butthurt. This will help you get ready to use A&A immediately. If you feel anger or annoyed don’t use A&A at the time, but if you feel horny then A&A is part of gaming your wife.
/r/askMRP21/09/19 04:24 PM
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You need to play it cool. Don’t lead, don’t say no. We (mff) ended up watching hard core porn for a bit, but nothing happened, it was all good afterwards.
/r/askMRP13/09/19 09:29 PM
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start with CUNT
/r/askMRP08/09/19 03:35 PM
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quit trying to turn a whore into a housewife have fun, do the threesomes, don’t mate guard a whore, give no fucks about the “relationship”
/r/askMRP01/09/19 01:03 PM
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Can you demote a husband to cuck status?
/r/askMRP18/08/19 04:41 PM
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NEXT Note: I just read the title
/r/askMRP02/07/19 12:19 PM
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Alimony may not later be adjusted according to my income if I move after the divorce. Did you ask your lawyer about moving before the divorce? See, for example: https://www.einhornharris.com/blog/family-law/youre-earning-how-much-income-imputation-in-divorce-cases/ while someone may not actually be earning a certain amount, it makes sense to attribute a certain level of income to them because they may have earned that much in the past or may have the demonstrated ability to earn that amount.
/r/askMRP17/06/19 11:19 PM
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I will sit down with her and clearly lay out my vision for how the family needs to function after this latest violation of trust, including the financial boundaries and budget (as though we live in the city already), as well as living under the same roof. Along with a 1 year plan to move to the city blah blah blah Fail. Look at it from her point of view. I don't think she wants a divorce. She wants her lifestyle including her horse. If “marriage” doesn’t get it, divorce will. She is being coache…
/r/askMRP17/06/19 09:12 PM
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You are planning on using logic and reasoning with your wife. From the STFU section for newbies: Newsflash: women’s hamsters eat logic and shit more hamsters. You need to STFU unless you want to deal with a shitton of hamsters.
/r/askMRP16/06/19 02:46 AM
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I’ll answer your questions while leaving it to the others to flame you. 1)Where am I being dense and where am I going to get blind sided? You think you are in control. Just like you got blind sided by her credit card you will get blind sided again. You are considering options without understanding the ramifications. For example walking away from the new home could see you sued for more than the deposit. 2) Where can I be more effective? Quit trying to do financial rambo. Retain a top divorce law…
/r/askMRP16/06/19 01:28 AM
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If he really did dread level 8, and she could care less, it is 3, she is getting dick and/or pussy somewhere else There is a theory that if you are with a woman for over seven years, and she has never had kids, her biology considers you defective and she is attracted to others, even though it was birth control
/r/askMRP11/03/19 02:05 AM
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You will be her main income source
/r/askMRP08/03/19 05:49 PM
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The person not to be trusted is the person who wrote a confidential email to one person, or the person who showed the confidential email to EVERYONE? Btw, if I was EVERYONE I would be pissed off being dragged into this shitshow by this bully. Does EVERYONE enjoy being interviewed by a lawyer doing a workplace investigation?
/r/askMRP05/03/19 09:06 PM
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I’m going to provide a contrarian suggestion so feel free to downvote Send an email to the co-worker (only), marked confidential, stating: Yesterday you sent the following message: “message word for word” Please do not use swear words in professional communications in our workplace / end Notice you only address the language and not the content of his message. You do not confront him, just document. If he wants to talk or apologize, just tell him it’s no problem. Now if he has any brains he will …
/r/askMRP05/03/19 01:00 AM
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Dread levels don’t work like that. Each dread level requires you put in the work, and takes at least a month. Since your wife needed to tell you to stop DEERing and you are still “working on it”, your dread level remains as it was. I suggest you STFU, instead of having these talks. Lift. Read the sidebar.
/r/askMRP02/03/19 03:01 PM
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wtf is “upped the dread level“?
/r/askMRP02/03/19 01:40 PM
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We both very much wanted a family and marriage in the future The program is 8+ years in duration. Likely to be followed with further moves for residency and fellowship. A family is how far in the future? How much of her time will she allocate to being a mother? Don’t get married unless planning children in the immediate future. Marriage does not lock down a woman and going 10+ years without children will have her biology blaming you for her barrenness even though its the birth control. If we sta…
/r/askMRP06/02/19 03:51 PM
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She now recently opened up a lot and told me about all her girl crushes she had over the years, but never acted upon it. This is not a new refreshing honesty to increase emotional intimacy in your relationship. Instead she is setting the table. There are three takeaways from when a friend of mine went through this shitstorm: She will do what she wants regardless of your boundaries Remaining angry about it results in a messy divorce, delays moving on, and has a physical cost The relationship with…
/r/askMRP04/02/19 01:04 AM
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You are only at DL3 (from OWS a day ago), and are attempting at this early stage to measure success by your wife reactions. Continue putting in the work and report back when you are at DL9 next fall. Many of the problems on askmrp reflect on the poster not putting real effort into DL5 through 9.
/r/askMRP30/01/19 05:31 PM
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You are a pussy and get grossed out too easily about things
/r/askMRP15/01/19 12:24 AM
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Your (female) attorney has cleverly got your fiance to reveal her true colors, by asking for something like 0.5% of her net wealth if there is a split. Women know women.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/18 01:54 AM
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So this is denial: Sex is not the issue either This is rubbish: Dread is not the issue, she knows I have options You have beta options, be a good income earner for another woman. Do you have fuck options? Find out.
/r/askMRP10/10/18 07:40 PM
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We fuck like 1x a week Like one times a week? You initiate zero or one times a week?
/r/askMRP10/10/18 07:12 PM
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The only reason to marry is to have kids. If you are not having kids anytime soon, putting a ring on it reduces your value to her, counter-productive. Having kids is a 20+ year venture, and you need to vet your partner. Determine how she will be as the mother of your children. Kind? Drinker? Teach? Party? Energetic? Careless? Patient? Lazy? Determine how she will be in your venture partnership? Common values? Opinionated? Trustworthy? Bails? Giver? Taker? Determine how she will be 20+ years of a…
/r/askMRP02/10/18 08:06 PM
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the only reason you haven't had sex in 4 years is you
/r/askMRP06/09/18 11:35 AM
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sure, why not use the troll to get others to read Rollo
/r/askMRP03/09/18 06:27 PM
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saved her best OP, this a reference to one of Rollo's all time best essays: https://therationalmale.com/2013/12/03/saving-the-best/
/r/askMRP03/09/18 06:16 PM
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Just going to discuss narrative When people hear that you are divorcing your pregnant wife, and you have 3 year daughter they will get judgmental without knowing the facts. Much of what is said will be behind your back. People will include your relatives, her relatives, your friends, her friends, co-workers, boss, clients, neighbors. Social media will make this worse. You need to decide on a narrative, practice it, and then use it before your wife's narrative is firmly in place. Your wife's narr…
/r/askMRP02/09/18 02:00 PM
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Bob's wife wants to fuck you Not sure why you skipped over that
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 09:46 PM
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There's you. There's her. There's children that's it. As soon as I bring "society" or "other people" or "the children" as a judge over how I should behave, it's no longer "my family" anyway. If "the family" doesn't exist and is really a colloquial short hand for "in a committed relationship with legal enforcement," then things should change about how you perceive your obligations in the family. WISNIFG's Bill of Rights No. 4c says, "You have the right to change your mind about raising children."…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/18 02:07 AM
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put the same effort you made to write this post into buying a gift
/r/askMRP10/08/18 05:56 PM
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This is a great warning: if you date/plate 28+ singles, they sometimes decide it's baby time and they take whatever steps necessary. As to people like the sister and mom, greatly reduce the time you allocate to toxic relatives, you'll enjoy life a lot more. Source: my mom has BPD
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 11:13 AM
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Setting "hard boundaries" is pointless if you have not already implemented consequences for what she has already done
/r/askMRP20/07/18 02:44 PM
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When at the beginning of our relationship did I pressure you into anything? I drank you didnt, I didnt pressure you into going to clubs/parties with me if you didnt want to. The sacrifices she made for you. She drank without you (of course stopping drinking would be too much). She went to clubs and parties without you (of course staying with you instead would be too much). This woman clearly does not add much value to your life. As well she doesn't seem she would a great mom if you had kids. So …
/r/askMRP15/07/18 05:55 PM
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I will soon be served with divorce papers
/r/askMRP14/07/18 07:38 PM
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Want a boatload of extra time? Never answer or ponder hypothetical questions. Life will give you all the real shit you need to answer to. To your mom: "That's a tough question, I gotta give that some thought, anyway off to the gym"
/r/askMRP13/07/18 12:44 AM
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STFU, lift, read "I'm going to sell the house" No, STFU "I'm going to turn the internet off" No, STFU "I'm going to cancel childcare" No, STFU "I'm going to leave you" No, STFU Next go see a divorce lawyer. The stay plan is the same as the go plan. In this case you need to first develop a go plan. Only when you have a go plan can you determine the tactics. Imagine you hated your business partner's guts, and he hated you. How is your business going to do?
/r/askMRP02/07/18 01:00 PM
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If you use draconian measures your wife will claim DV and emotional abuse, and have you removed from what will be her house. Your marriage is based on a rotten foundation and will collapse.
/r/askMRP02/07/18 12:26 PM
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Let's make sure we have this correct: your wife snoops on your phone she find some links and sends them to her family and your sister Is that accurate? You put up with this?
/r/askMRP30/06/18 02:15 AM
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I should clarify Certainly present a narrative but not the evil lesbian cheating whore one. If a kid asks are you seeing someone else, did you cheat on mom, etc. reply no, never. If a kid asks if mom is seeing someone else, did she cheat on you, did she leave you for someone else etc., reply "that is a question your mom is better able to answer"
/r/askMRP28/06/18 07:45 PM
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OP is going to use "tell the truth" to weaponize the kids. There is a fourth option, which is to say "that is a question your mom is better able to answer.", which is also the truth. I was friends with some teenage boys whose mom left their dad for a woman. You have to be very careful not to fuck the kids up.
/r/askMRP28/06/18 02:36 PM
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Act without talking Don't say stupid shit like "I don't want a peck on the cheek" or "good girl". Instead indicate it by your actions.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 10:11 PM
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She doesn't respect you which will be fatal to your marriage. As others have said we need a lot more details, especially about you, like wtf is your mission.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 11:47 AM
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A considerable number of women admit to having a Plan B. Source: https://therationalmale.com/2016/03/14/plan-b/ The rest pretend not to have a Plan B, as they have a range of plans. If you tell him that it is unacceptable that Plan A knows about Plan B, he is going to try to deal with it in beta way: talk to her, issue ultimatum, draw boundary in the sand, cry, whine, and talk some more. If you tell him it is acceptable he will act like a sad puppy around her.
/r/askMRP26/06/18 12:17 PM
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Excellent thread and comments, thanks everyone, three additional things Communication is mostly not about the words, and at work careful with the words, so: "Are you looking at my butt?" "No, I would never, ever, ever, do that" (said in a playful, fun tone, making an eye contact if possible, to indicate you are lying through your teeth) Validation seeking: use pressure flips "Wanna see Star Wars?" "You can only go if you pass my Stars Wars trivial test, and, just warning you, the last three fail…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 07:02 PM
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For your situation probably best to edit in an update to your post or a new post marked update. I made this post asking a question as you got some terrible advice in your posting, from those who have adopted the express your feelings and establish boundaries of the fem-centric (to see this google establish relationship boundaries). Most people understand what is unacceptable behavior and in questionable cases they ask, not assume. If you polled a thousand people if it was okay to put down your s…
/r/askMRP26/05/18 08:11 PM
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you witness bad behavior you establish a boundary and defend it and the behavior improves or you leave When you witness bad behavior you don't establish a boundary, you enforce consequence for the bad behavior. "Hey look at me, knock that the fuck off right now" There is an "or else" implicit in this. Instead of saying this, you should STFU and do the "or else" action.
/r/askMRP26/05/18 01:59 PM
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I suspect most instinctively understand that these training wheels are not a good approach. As Rollo states these overt statements just show how powerless you are. Thus I would recommend STFU instead of drawing lines in the sand. Explaining boundaries to her is not a solution. You have boundaries and you enforce them with the range of controls you have. For example a boundary might be your relationship will not be a dead bedroom (sex less than 10 times a year). You could draw a line in the sand,…
/r/askMRP26/05/18 01:19 PM
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this is the correct answer (assuming "too busy") stfu and do wife being disrespectful? consequence: high value man busy with other women dread LTR goes on date event vacation? consequence: plated, and other plates
/r/askMRP25/05/18 10:26 PM
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Rollo, without edit: it’s impossible not to come to a conclusion that implied, demonstrated boundaries – ones that have actionable consequences of intimate and invested loss (i.e. Dread) – are preferable to explicated, but ultimately appealed-reason declarations of boundaries that are negotiated insurance policies to limit her Hypergamy. While I do believe boundaries are a necessary part of a relationship, it’s far better for women to discover them for what they are, and the consequences of them…
/r/askMRP25/05/18 09:35 PM
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I have to give this straw man effort some credit, using "covertly arguing" to produce a zombie straw man you then make dance
/r/askMRP25/05/18 08:05 PM
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using boundaries in any form and in all scenarios, boundaries should be avoided This is a nice straw man you created and promptly defeated
/r/askMRP25/05/18 07:52 PM
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agreed
/r/askMRP25/05/18 06:07 PM
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I will use Rollo here replacing 1 word It’s important that you understand what a boundary implies. Whenever a person delivers a boundary always understand that this is a declaration of powerlessness. In other words, “I am so out of control in this circumstance you must do this or I will remove either myself or you from the circumstance.” ... Boundaries are declarations of powerlessness because you are resorting to a direct threat to get someone to do what you want them to, and in doing so you OV…
/r/askMRP25/05/18 05:32 PM
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exactly, there is no boundary that solves disrespect be a man (frame, mission, lift, stfu, do), now that solves disrespect any other root boundaries you think solve disrespect?
/r/askMRP25/05/18 04:20 PM
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that might solve the way she talks to you, but she still disrespects you for example your root boundary didn't cover poisoning your cereal
/r/askMRP25/05/18 04:12 PM
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agreed
/r/askMRP25/05/18 03:59 PM
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If your wife disrespects you, give me an example of a root boundary that solves the disrespect
/r/askMRP25/05/18 03:57 PM
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"without saying a word" Law 9 understands
/r/askMRP25/05/18 03:48 PM
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Example of all men are trash: A French police officer who offered himself up in a hostage swap Friday after an armed man reportedly yelling “Allahu Akbar” went on a rampage in southern France, has died, a report said early Saturday. The officer had offered himself up unarmed to the 25-year-old attacker in exchange for a female hostage. He managed to surreptitiously leave his cellphone on so that police outside could hear what was going on inside the supermarket.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 01:05 PM
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even if you get a vasectomy, wives get pregnant I don't know how they do it
/r/askMRP26/02/18 11:58 PM
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Sorry I should be clear: this is when the wife's regular income is UMC, as in OP's case Most stats don't separate class/relative income, and if your household struggles financially and the husband is at fault, then divorce is an issue
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/17 04:26 PM
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Marriages where the wife earns a lot more have relatively low divorce rates work on being eye candy: lift, stfu
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/17 03:24 PM
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I agree. Understand that college girls don't want pregnancy since the party stops and shit gets real, so they don't mind Plan B, and they are often on the pill or depo
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 07:01 PM
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Her: I do all the grocery shopping. Me: and you do great at it! Comfort test, about her not you, show appreciation This is also important at work, give lots of positive feedback
/r/askMRP19/11/17 06:55 PM
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if you are married to your project, excellent if you wish to remain married to your wife, and that may not be best for you, you need to prioritize your wife a little more when at home, since you are away lots At the end of the October, I’m busy getting ready for a month long project out of state. Wife invites me to her work’s Halloween party but I’m too busy getting the project on wheels You are going to be away for weeks again but can't afford a few hours at a social event?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/17 04:06 PM
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typical MGTOW scare tactic: having sex can result in pregnancy this is a sexual strategy forum, take how to be a better beta somewhere else
/r/TheRedPill19/11/17 03:58 PM
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You are completely outcome dependent
/r/askMRP27/10/17 04:25 PM
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we work for the same company and I didn't want to be accused of anything so I'd back off. She spends the night So you could be accused of something, just it wouldn't be true or you could be blackmailed
/r/askMRP20/09/17 01:51 AM
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women are fairly adaptable (biological survival) the bad news is if you are floundering, she is too follow mrp, giving 2 months for dread 2, 2 more months for dread 3, then one month per dread level up to 9 drop couples therapy at this time, it is the reverse of STFU continue individual therapy if it works for you, but STFU about it the wife. for dread 2, reconnect or start new hobbies and friendships lift, read, STFU, have fun
/r/askMRP11/09/17 07:35 PM
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Surprise her by becoming a registered massage therapist
/r/askMRP11/09/17 07:02 PM
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I've given up hobbies and any friends which means you are nowhere close to dread 3
/r/askMRP11/09/17 06:51 PM
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4 days ago you were told: 60 days in, there are only 3 things you should be doing: Reading Lifting STFUing
/r/askMRP10/09/17 10:12 AM
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11 days ago you asked "wtf is DEERing? and yeah...i checked the acronyms in the side bar for it." now check STFU
/r/askMRP08/09/17 11:58 PM
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since she has a lust for men, become one
/r/askMRP08/09/17 07:10 PM
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Once I realized what was up, I pulled some AM ... This was not a shit test, it was mate guarding, so AM is rubbing her nose into it. Don't reward the mate guarding as it is unattractive, such as giving her comfort, but instead ignore it. Later after great sex, then give her comfort.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/17 02:17 AM
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Cheap sex? I'm spending a fortune on Skittles
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 06:27 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7xohWvO9i4c
/r/askMRP01/09/17 02:21 AM
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no, you are selling the kenny red pill, which is based on the limited experience of a 23 yr old lazy unemployed nobody that lives with his parents
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 01:03 AM
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Ask yourself this question: why aren't 100% of single women aged 18-30 not banging almost every night? Since with tinder, clubs etc. they could. Yet millenial sex rates are down. Well who is the #1 expert on the red pill? What might he think? https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/04/women-sex/ A healthy male produces between 12 to 17 times the amount of testosterone a woman does. It is a biological impossibility for a woman to want sex as much as, or as often as men. Trust me, when a woman says, “…
/r/askMRP01/09/17 12:52 AM
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This is anti TRP See the comment where he writes that he slays and Face > everything, and I'm the living proof. I am lazy. I am unemployed. I don't own a car. My game is horrendous. I'm only 5'9" with a narrow frame and I've still had sex with more girls than all of my friends who are both taller and more successful in life. Why? Because I facemog them, simple. Oh, did I forget? I still live at home and I'm 23. Please take your plastic surgery pitch elsewhere
/r/TheRedPill31/08/17 09:30 PM
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This is not dread game. See Sentient's field report posts today on TheRationalMale https://therationalmale.com/field-reports/comment-page-38/#comment-213171 West Indian Archie has a good post up… “I hope you guys are starting to see how game is really just how people interact with each other on a day to day basis – and we’re merely rethinking our daily interactions with our eye on the ball.” and before that Tyler: "these are formulas that are based on regular social interaction, there’s a purpos…
/r/askMRP31/08/17 06:32 PM
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This is stupid Google How to get your coworkers to like you Like right now, google it 0 of 21M results suggest ignoring your coworkers 21M of 21M results suggest talking to them So learn how to talk to them in the way they like Social intelligence and emotional intelligence are part of red pill Google How to get your clients to like you It's all sales
/r/askMRP30/08/17 07:55 PM
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Seven months ago you said: I have a high relative SMV and there are lots of fit, cute, athletic women that are DTF in my social circles and now you have redpill knowledge/experience so I'm sorry your dick will fall off from over use
/r/askMRP30/08/17 05:30 PM
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Some guys are cut out for monotony, sorry, autocorrect, monogamy, and some aren't. Figure out which you are before kids. See blackdragon for thoughts on OLTR.
/r/askMRP29/08/17 11:01 PM
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You will learn how to socially interact with women in a way they like, and you can use these skills on all women, not just women you are sexually interested in
/r/askMRP29/08/17 05:25 PM
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Heads down and DNGAF is leaving the co-worker starved for emotion, so she is manufacturing indignation, and will continue to do so regardless of meetings. Complete Dread 6-8 over the next six months, read Never Split the Difference, and find other resources on active listening. With your new skills in interacting with women engage the co-worker in conversation that she finds emotionally rewarding.
/r/askMRP29/08/17 02:02 PM
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Until it is how you wish it to be, and certainly not one sided, don't proceed. Playing by your wife's rules is not red pill. You need to know what you want, and lead towards it. Strip clubs are not dread, they are reverse dread - my husband has to pay to get female attention. There are signs your wife is going feral. She is dancing on stage at strip clubs. Then there is this: Until one day one asked us for a threesome. It kind of shook us up a bit when we got over the part where we realized this…
/r/askMRP29/08/17 12:07 PM
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she's made it very clear that even in my fantasy it doesn't involve me fucking that other woman To clarify, your wife does not permit you to imagine fucking another woman?
/r/askMRP29/08/17 12:58 AM
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Lots of reading to do, including: https://therationalmale.com/2012/05/07/ultimatum/ As Rollo states: Whenever a person delivers an ultimatum, always understand that this is a declaration of powerlessness. ... Ultimatums are declarations of powerlessness because you are resorting to a direct threat to get someone to do what you want them to, and in doing so you OVERTLY confess your weak position. If you were in a genuine position of control it wouldn’t be necessary to resort to an ultimatum; you’…
/r/askMRP28/08/17 11:55 AM
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At least in the sexual arena she wants you to lead, plan, initiate, tease, kino, playfully aggressive, top, be highly attractive and accept rejections without butthurt. It might help to read the old classic Coming To Power: Writing and Graphics on Lesbian S/M 3rd Edition (written by women for women), and the more recent Come As You Are for responsive desire. The ratio of lesbian bottoms to tops is about 10 to 1, so you will be fully employed if you hit the free market.
/r/askMRP28/08/17 12:27 AM
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First I'm going to quote from your post history of 1-2 months ago: When I met my wife she was bed-ridden. She was on morphine everyday for chronic nerve pain. She weighed under 100 pounds. I held her hair back when she vomited from nausea or detox. I held her hand when she went under the knife several times. I held her while she literally shook and trembled each and every night. She was unemployed and had dropped out of school three times. She's a millionaire's daughter so he just paid for every…
/r/askMRP27/08/17 11:57 PM
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you mean she might be feeling something called dread? where could you read about that? edit: read the extended article in the comments, especially the hamster in the maze: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/374wln/what_we_talk_about_when_we_talk_about_dread_13/
/r/askMRP26/08/17 03:07 PM
1

What happened to the 20 yr old virgin who was blowing you? (see post history)
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/17 06:41 PM
7

does this mean our date is off?
/r/askMRP25/08/17 11:36 AM
19

Telling someone who just build a house in 80 days straight with his son to "lift and lead, bro" is tone deaf
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/17 10:40 AM
0

I am wondering where this is explained in more detail, is it in the female psychology book that's recommended? It's tough unplugging, such as realizing your wife doesn't love you in an idealistic way. Read lots of The Rational Male. For example: Appreciation I think what most men uniquely deceive themselves of is that they will ultimately be appreciated by women for their sacrifices. Learn this now, you wont. You can’t be because women fundamentally lack the ability to fully realize, much less a…
/r/askMRP21/08/17 08:48 AM
1

Taking reading, sometimes it will be just read and sometimes it can be go to the library or bookstore (if open untl 9, if you have a nearby college then their library often open very late) or go to a book reading, or meet up with a friend to discuss what you are reading, or go to the park to mediate on what you are reading etc. Even with reading, it can be active Domesticated, tamed, boring, not active = unattractive Free, untamed, interesting, active = attractive
/r/askMRP21/08/17 07:20 AM
2

Don't frame it as if you leaving because of the no ("well since we are not having sex I'm leaving"). Instead frame it as bored, you need to be active, and matter-of-fact, as if it's nothing. "I'm bored, nothing on TV, so I'm going to the golf range" "I got some energy to burn, I'm going to the pool for a swim" "There's a seminar on art history, I'm checking it out" See no butthurt, just free and active guy
/r/askMRP20/08/17 11:37 PM
2

Consider the "no" as a free pass to use the time (and then some) to do something you want to do, as if you were single and active. Don't make this an escape (stare at TV or computer, porn, weed, heavy drinking). Go do what you want to do as the temporarily "single" and active guy, which sometimes but not always will have you getting out. There is a lot of stuff to do, which include hobbies, art shows, lectures, independent films, gym, shoot hoops, biking, fishing, live music and learn something …
/r/askMRP20/08/17 11:25 PM
1

You got married by your pastor and your wife is a devout Christian Do you think be fruitful and multiply was about strawberries and arithmetic? Let's say you have three kids under 18. Here's your new league: But could I just fuck someone else because she’s being unfaithful, unattractive, lazy, sexually uninterested, or just because I feel like it? No, and she knows it. Could I just walk away whenever I want because she becomes an insufferable nagging cunt who I can’t stand to be around anymore? …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/17 03:51 PM
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I’m not having children Then never get married, neither legally, privately, or common law Most guys here are (or were) married and have children, which is a league you will never be in, so stop trying to tell us how to play in it
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/17 03:31 PM
1

I loved this book Afterwards I first identified my wife's black swans from watching her verbal and non-verbal 15-35-55 (wait, that's 105% but she does talk a lot, 110% effort). Also I researched her phone. I found: She has a Chad named Ryan She has $37,643 in a secret bank account She is researching low dose viral agents Armed with that knowledge I made an opening offer of sex 13 times a month. However it turns out the 65% rule is when you will making higher offers, not when you are going down. …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/17 10:49 PM
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don't credit me, this comes from bpp and the gang, thank bpp by buying and reading his excellent book
/r/askMRP19/08/17 12:23 PM
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Notice you effectively have zero comments in DB. That is because you have been effectively shadow banned, that is nobody is seeing it but it seems to be there. Never use the same ID on a red pill forum and also on not RP forums such as DB On DB avoid discussing anal and boob jobs, as it makes it look written by a teenager Unlike here, increase the victim puke, DB is all about victim puke (spouse won't have sex, we talked, still no sex, more talk, no sex, counselling, no sex, more talk, no sex, p…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/17 11:50 AM
2

I saw her today at the reception In her glass was a bleeding man She was practiced at the art of deception Well I could tell by her blood-stained hands
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/17 10:30 AM
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She also complains that I'm not nice to her. Is this true? Remember ever morning reset the scoreboard and always start nice I can be quite critical its true STFU more Say nice things, stay calm, active listening, care Do what you want When you want to be critical, STFU instead and go do something you want
/r/askMRP19/08/17 10:11 AM
1

here's more on picnics: http://theredpillroom.blogspot.ca/2012/05/alpha-move-midnight-picnic.html?m=1
/r/askMRP19/08/17 12:31 AM
1

is your wife ashe225?
/r/askMRP19/08/17 12:22 AM
1

I know more about this than you do :)
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/17 11:28 PM
3

sometimes creative people create too much, when instead a little can say a lot
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/17 11:22 PM
6

What is the expected return from investing my time in manplan.life. How can I estimate the expected return when I know zero about you. This is like the expected return of a mail order bride, where I know nothing about her. I can invest my time in Rollo's new book, and/or reading Never Split the Difference, or allocate some time to your site. The first is written by the Red Pill Prof, the second by highly trained and experienced negotiator and your site is written by ?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/17 01:41 PM
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The intention is to increase attractiveness and get the tingles going. I've had covert contracts before, but not recently, so I don't see this an issue It is an issue given your intention So when I initiate and get a hard no, I usually go off somewhere else in the house, not butt hurt, and do something. Some of the time, not every time or never, leave the house and do something for yourself. It could be physical activity (such as gym, cycling, shoot hoops), check something out (such as live musi…
/r/askMRP18/08/17 11:19 AM
1

one of these years Rollo you might have to admit that some guys have created proven actionable solutions based on your ideas, such as the main guys here at MRP love your new book
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/17 09:00 PM
1

On a side note it's your job to lead, so in all areas of your life talk direct like a leader and not weak "well, I guess it's time to go to the gym", "I'm going to a bar" or "I totally forgot, we are out of apples, I'm going to head to the store." Weak: Well, I forgot to turn the nuclear reactor off, so I guess that I'll head over there and see if I can possibly turn it off Direct: The nuclear reactor was left on and I'm turning it off right now Try to rephrase these: "I don't think sex is worki…
/r/askMRP17/08/17 01:34 PM
1

Don't make it a lame excuse. Really do something for you. Get used to doing some things just for you. Leave captivity Stop being so domesticated and predictable, it's unattractive
/r/askMRP16/08/17 11:34 PM
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He needs to leave captivity some of the time. Don't be butthurt, just matter of fact. Her: Where are you going this time of night? Bad: Since you won't have sex with me ... Good: I'm off to the gym to lift weights Good: I'm off to sportsbar to watch the game Good: I need to pick up something from the hardware store Good: I'm bored, I'm going for a walk Bad: I'm so fucking frustrated with you Good: I want to check out a band that is playing at xxx
/r/askMRP16/08/17 11:18 PM
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I will normally just go back to watching tv Stop doing this. Instead if the kid is asleep, then leave the house (alone of course, why would you need to take the kid?). It is not sulking, it is because you are bored and why continue be around? Go the gym, lift weights. Go to somewhere social. Run an errand. Anything but stay in the house and watch TV.
/r/askMRP16/08/17 11:03 PM
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First some useful theory from Rollo: https://therationalmale.com/2016/01/25/ovulation-dread At dread level 5 dress better (are you?) and get out of the house more. Do not always stay home. At dread 6 go to places where you practice what you reading (this will be trial and error, it is for everybody, just keep it light, fun, some teasing, lots of eye contact)
/r/askMRP16/08/17 08:27 PM
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what dread level are you at? continue to advance through the dread levels, allowing at least a month for each one when you get a hard no, how often do you leave the house, to go the gym etc?
/r/askMRP16/08/17 07:58 PM
2

Let's look at you: "I am still immature in a lot of ways", lives with parents, doesn't make much money, say outlandish things, accepts a relationship that is not good/respectful 20% of the time, etc. I know you intend to fix these things, but you need to do that before you propose
/r/askMRP15/08/17 10:30 AM
1

what is the birth control situation?
/r/askMRP14/08/17 08:41 PM
1

https://illimitablemen.com/2015/12/16/the-awalt-misconception/
/r/askMRP13/08/17 03:23 PM
13

Since all women are the same, you might as well stay with your wife instead of exchanging her for an identical model Of course you might not understand AWALT, that requires reading if you have doubts
/r/askMRP13/08/17 02:51 PM
3

Tell her first she needs wear only hijabs, to shut down guys looking at her
/r/askMRP13/08/17 12:39 PM
1

typical newbie post is all about HER, not about you now lets get to work on changing you
/r/askMRP12/08/17 03:36 PM
3

Meanwhile your love-of-your-life(tm) co-worker, who you have never kissed but have secret lunches (soap opera music) goes: She even said to me: "you talk about your feelings more than most men" It's like the women in your life are trying to tell you something In another thread the number one comment is that you are a "needy retard" It's like men are trying to tell you something
/r/askMRP12/08/17 01:50 PM
3

... giving birth to our 2 kids ... excellent work on burying that detail Ages of everybody in family, your current weight/height, financial/job situation, total years in relationship and years married, previous marriages or kids for either of you, previous problems?
/r/askMRP11/08/17 11:50 AM
3

You: high anger, already blew up at her Her: BPD, might do anything This is too dangerous for both of you, and your kid
/r/askMRP10/08/17 09:43 PM
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mrp is not just gym 2 times a week, and read decrease your watching TV, increase doing Let's look at some things: Dread Level 3: Begin to build a life apart from your wife. Join a club. Take up a cause, discipline, or calling. Get busy. ... Dread Level 4: You don't have time for a sexually disinterested, annoying, or angry wife. Take up another cause if you need to. This is a great time to join a martial arts club. Dread Level 5: Upgrade your clothes and start dressing ‘up’ more of the time. Dre…
/r/askMRP10/08/17 05:19 AM
3

Continue self improvement Retain a divorce lawyer as soon as possible. Careful with all bank accounts and credit cards. You are being played in many ways. For example her GFs witnessed your abusive behavior.
/r/askMRP10/08/17 04:35 AM
2

This: I am afraid of her. Afraid of the yelling, afraid of her judgement, afraid of her demands to explain myself, and afraid of not have sex with her for a week. results in this: harpy, cunty, bitchy, bullshit way she speaks to me
/r/askMRP09/08/17 10:11 PM
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See now you are in my frame, where I have a reality that you might be a pussy Now if we tried that on Rollo, he normally goes STFU/change topic if you tried to break his frame, but if engaged he might: Me: Rollo, you are the biggest pussy! Rollo: I think this is a classic case of projection and now we have a frame battle Once one imposes frame, their reality defines the interaction Current US politics are all about frame battles
/r/askMRP08/08/17 03:18 AM
2

It's not a subconscious framework, in the background, it's there Here's an example, reply to this question: Are you a pussy?
/r/askMRP08/08/17 02:29 AM
5

Have you read this: https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/12/frame/
/r/askMRP08/08/17 02:12 AM
2

Please read this: https://therationalmale.com/2012/04/24/the-pet/ Especially the part titled "Head in the Sand" about feral
/r/askMRP07/08/17 05:18 PM
3

the denial is strong with this one
/r/askMRP07/08/17 04:14 PM
5

You are going to the wrong places on reddit (rpw, askmrp) and the wrong places in real life (right places would be big venues, sex oriented clubs). Now fuck off.
/r/askMRP06/08/17 08:07 PM
1

Men lead
/r/askMRP06/08/17 10:55 AM
2

Actually it is like "high school drama" as his wife is acting like a teenager (see "Women, the most responsible teenager in the house") First, as the teenager suggests "stay clam and don't be emotional". His anger is counter productive and loss of frame. Second look into the link on enforceable boundaries. Now let's try it out with a couple examples. When finding clothes left on the floor, calmly "Please don't leave your clothes on the floor". Try this about five times over at least two weeks, a…
/r/askMRP06/08/17 10:38 AM
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This situation is complicated, in particular you have a four year old son and the other guy's wife just had a miscarriage. I would suggest proceeding carefully, one step at a time. The next step, besides continued monitoring, is when you return home, wait until the kid is asleep, then sit down and have a conversation with her when you can maintain eye contact. Listen not only what she says but what her body language is saying. Try for a conversation where you say little (I know, unacceptable) an…
/r/askMRP05/08/17 03:44 PM
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You are at very high risk of an "accidental" pregnancy. I suggest you go monk mode for six months, then re-evaluate using the knowledge you gained. If you can't do that, believe nothing she says about birth control, always wear a condom fucking a whore, and make sure you are the one who disposes all condoms.
/r/askMRP05/08/17 12:16 PM
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"Next! Next! NEXT!!!" Actually The Red Pill is "Change! Change! CHANGE!!!". Keep doing the same stupid stuff, get the same stupid results. Try being a man for a year. You will find yourself a lot happier, and the females in your life will be a lot happier. Win win.
/r/askMRP04/08/17 10:04 AM
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When one has been a beta for most or all of the time, usually it takes dread 8+. You will find the next six months very interesting. In particular when your wife fully awakes to your changes. When other women are very "interested" in you right in front of your wife, your sex life will be changing.
/r/askMRP04/08/17 09:50 AM
2

Why do you want to go on this trip with her, she will have almost no time for you If your instincts are trying to tell you something, consider what type of underwear she packs for the trip, and if she shaves key parts before going. If necessary you can hire a local PI (local to where she will be) to do casual surveillance.
/r/askMRP03/08/17 08:31 PM
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Always shut it down I tend to use zingers (an amusing remark that has some nasty, such as you hear at a comedy roast) Her: oh, yeah, cheers to whatever it is we're celebrating You: (Laughing) We were celebrating your pregnancy Her: I'm not pregnant! You: Sorry, I was confused by the weight gain Her: I'm not gaining weight! You: Great, let's celebrate you not gaining weight, cheers!
/r/askMRP03/08/17 06:46 PM
2

If you have an attractive wife she will get male attention all the fucking time. She doesn't need to go to Vegas to meet Chad, there is Chad at the grocery store, Chad at work, Chad at the gas station, Chad at the gym, Chad at social events. So you might conclude since Chad is everywhere, and AWALT, your attractive wife WILL cheat. The solution is called dread, "anticipate with great apprehension or fear", for a reason. In MRP we actually have 12 levels of dread, do you know what they are? When …
/r/askMRP02/08/17 11:00 AM
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You know for sure this is semen and not vaginal discharge or yeast infection?
/r/askMRP31/07/17 11:29 PM
1

One thing that was amazing about his post history is all the advice he gave out at Dread 1. Now we have: Tonight was a curl-up, lights-out in bed with not a single word or good night, let alone an affectionate peck let alone anything else. That's happened often, and that's OK, it's just tonight was, yep, my birthday. You can't tell me AWALT on that one. Certainly it is AWALT if one does nothing beforehand, then climbs into bed expecting birthday sex. I was going to write a longer reply but until…
/r/askMRP31/07/17 01:48 PM
2

We have certain standards for trolls, please see the sidebar
/r/askMRP30/07/17 11:20 PM
1

If it is not I'll either be playful, ignore it, or just say no So why in the shower conversation you gave, you didn't do that?
/r/askMRP30/07/17 08:09 PM
1

This, for the win
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/17 11:38 PM
6

returning back to the topic, what are you doing about you?
/r/askMRP28/07/17 10:39 PM
3

Buried in the rumble there is this: I haven't yet fucked any other girl except her and she knows it When is the last time you fucked another girl?
/r/askMRP27/07/17 03:31 PM
3

Please read this: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/577yzl/the_value_of_maintaining_a_positive_frame/
/r/askMRP25/07/17 11:50 AM
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if he gets married the disrespect will end wait, maybe the BJs end well one of them will end
/r/askMRP24/07/17 09:24 PM
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Dear Abby: see a marriage counselor Savage Love: DTMFA (dump ...) Dead Bedrooms: No kids, no problems, exit plan, divorce AskTRP: Next, wtf did you marry? TwoX: you toxic POS TRM: what part of the SMV chart don't you understand? AskMRP: do we need to hold your hand?
/r/askMRP24/07/17 07:24 PM
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Do not do an open marriage unless you are at dread 11 or 12 Don't try the quick fix, there is none
/r/askMRP24/07/17 12:40 PM
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Recently divorced and recently "testing" the dating "waters" Answer this question honestly, how many other women have you fucked in the last six months?
/r/askMRP24/07/17 02:15 AM
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I've been there, and even so it's difficult to give advice The conflict is between I fuck my wife every other day and doing fucking nothing to satisfy me If your wife is draining you every second day she thinks that she is completely satisfying you, while it is not even at a tolerable level for you. I suggest you: 1) In the bedroom direct her to what you need her to do for you. Repeat directions and if you get hard no's end the encounter. 2) In the middle of any encounter if you find it mostly n…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/17 05:16 PM
6

Based on your post history a key to your success will be to STFU At work STFU and get things done Here you are 6 days ago in deadbedrooms: You're like this because your body wants a baby. Get married, have the kids and it will resolve the issue. Your libidos will be closer in balance then STFU
/r/askMRP23/07/17 12:26 PM
1

she was giving me an example of how she is different sexually than her girlfriends Why do you think your SO told you this, like she didn't have to tell you Her: All my girlfriends like having cocks in their pussy, but I don't You: Ok Even more fun, now all her girlfriends know you are getting short changed
/r/askMRP22/07/17 09:27 PM
1

fuck off
/r/askMRP22/07/17 03:06 PM
3

Still have my wife on a pedestal Exactly Reading your post history you are still in your wife's frame (keep working the stages of dread until not). Picture yourself as divorced, what would you be doing, golf, boating, fishing, getting in shape, travel? When you get rejected, consider it a free pass to do something for you. Then instead of being butthurt, you'll go "great, I'm going golfing!"
/r/askMRP22/07/17 03:01 PM
2

Please watch bluepill professor youtube series on shit tests and led zep, especially #4 (not led zep 4, but bluepill prof youtube 4) Her: You're gay You: Yes That is NOT A&A Focus on the amplify and have fun
/r/askMRP22/07/17 12:48 PM
2

Continue to post here and ask vanilla questions At the same time create a new user that has a few different things like: 1) Use paragraphs 2) Seem less wishy washy 3) Claims you have been together for n years when y is correct 4) Says she likes a certain activity when she doesn't 5) Claim you got in a fight returning from a certain movie when you never saw that one 6) Claim you work in a certain industry you don't Just disguise details. Ask the hard questions with the new user, and with the old …
/r/askMRP22/07/17 12:31 AM
1

as above, stop everything (quit digging if stuck in a hole) on a biological note I think women are hard wired to have kids, and when they don't after trying for 2+ years (or worse a child dies) it seems a process takes over where they might do anything
/r/askMRP21/07/17 11:10 PM
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I asked my wife about this, and she said "ask MRP recommends action, not talk, so STFU and get me a beer"
/r/askMRP21/07/17 10:35 PM
2

She is either asexual or lesbian Next
/r/askMRP21/07/17 12:49 AM
2

I've noticed much more women nowadays being obsessed with Beta male figures (Ed Sheeran, Justin Trudeau, Jimmy Fallon, Drake etc.) ... How did the Ed Sheeran relationship with Ellie Goulding unwind? How did Nicole Kidman going after Jimmy Fallon play out? How did the Drake Rihanna relationship go? Is Justin Trudeau allowed to look? Taylor Swift is glorified. How is her dating going? The Red Pill is not about fame, it's about game
/r/TheRedPill20/07/17 10:16 AM
1

Disagree with the don't care folks, and I'm not one for mate guarding. This is the second time in a few weeks where what was supposed to be a girls only event (GNO, girls go to the beach) has actually involved one or more guys, and you know one of the guys makes your wife uncomfortable. Your wife knows this crosses the line. I would approach it like this: why are your girlfriends not independent enough that they need to bring their boyfriends to a girls only event? How do you (your wife) feel ab…
/r/askMRP19/07/17 08:52 PM
2

Excellent work on burying the lead
/r/askMRP19/07/17 03:13 AM
2

stop being a marshmallow https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/17/indignation/ do you tease her, do you neg her, do you engage her, do you game her? love letters, fuck off
/r/askMRP18/07/17 01:56 AM
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You: I want to fix my wife (in this case something about slack) MRP: We fix you, quit slacking and get back to lift, read, OYS, STFU, and have fun
/r/askMRP17/07/17 08:36 PM
2

oatsandfloats is about to find TRM
/r/askMRP17/07/17 03:52 PM
1

Today she had a day off and I told her to come over later on This is where it went off the rails. You did not lead and resolve logistics, instead you left everything vague and unresolved, and then tried to explain and excuse your lack of decision making later. Next time, if she puts up with this, arrange an exact time with at least 3 hours for her, if you want a serious relationship.
/r/askMRP17/07/17 12:52 AM
1

I would highly recommend reading the book
/r/askMRP16/07/17 12:39 PM
2

A women's way would be to talk about it, perhaps hinting. The man's way is by what you do and don't do.
/r/askMRP16/07/17 11:06 AM
5

If your wife, as the gatekeeper of sex, was discreetly fucking Chad, would you, as gatekeeper of commitment, be "willing to go thru an expensive divorce which may be psychologically harmful to our children"? If not, she instinctively knows this, and can go feral at any time. If she knows you have the balls to do what needs to be done, and you have viable options, she instinctively respects you.
/r/askMRP16/07/17 10:43 AM
1

First take it a day at a time. Each morning wake up and think what am I going to DO today (or plan previous evening). Reduce time being a spectator (such as watching TV) and shift to DOING. Reduce time on introspection, why am I here, and focus on action, I can DO what I want.
/r/askMRP16/07/17 10:28 AM
2

So Chapter 1 of this excellent book is "Stop Hoping for a Completion of Anything in Life", and you now hope to complete the abstract and vague goal of "becoming a man that I myself actually like to be around" if SJF of TRM is hanging around, perhaps he could add something here
/r/askMRP15/07/17 11:31 PM
4

Earlier this week I was telling my wife about a book that found out more searches are done about "why my boyfriend will not have sex with me" than the same question with girlfriend. My wife said that was because women would see what they could do, while men would just replace the girlfriend. In your case, she was so so sad and begged you to stay and gave you a blow job. Oh wait, sorry, she opened her mouth but just to manipulate. And you feel regret. And some butthurt. Next time reframe it as to…
/r/askMRP15/07/17 06:51 PM
5

Are you a man, or in a same sex marriage, or transgendered?
/r/askMRP15/07/17 01:32 PM
1

I'd prefer to control as much of the dissemination of information as possible so that I'm not blindsided by an empty house, frozen accounts and a Dear Cuck letter. This is not a dissemination of information issue, it is a trust issue, you can't trust your wife. Even at this point, after some re-bonding, the two of you are still emotionally unattached and lack a shared connection beyond children. If you were drowning would she throw you a life jacket or collect the life insurance? Without trust t…
/r/askMRP15/07/17 11:53 AM
3

Disrespecting my wife is disrespecting me, so I handle it the same way
/r/askMRP13/07/17 11:11 PM
2

it's not the exact N count that is important, its the minutes of alpha she got while getting the N count https://therationalmale.com/2012/01/04/five-minutes-of-alpha/
/r/askMRP09/07/17 04:07 PM
2

Assuming it is summer where you are at, its time to get the family out to the public beach a bunch of times.
/r/askMRP09/07/17 10:37 AM
1

Given this is the ultimate shit test, in your opinion, your reply should be the ultimate agree & amplify
/r/askMRP09/07/17 01:37 AM
1

I was ready to puke my guts to her earlier No surprise, that's the beta way, add begging, pleading and sobbing as necessary But, she wouldnt let me. She wanted you to be a man. Imagine that, your woman wants you to be a man. Now ask yourself what would a man do in your situation? If you don't know then learn from the sidebar how to be a man. Or be a beta train wreck.
/r/askMRP23/06/17 10:27 AM
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in the process fix our sex life You will, over time, fix your sex life. Your wife may decide to join you, or at her age she might decide to retire from sex.
/r/askMRP23/06/17 09:13 AM
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This is all filled with tell her/told her Let's try without that: Tonight we planned on hanging out. She asked to come over and I said sure. She knows I go to the gym at 9:30. I did some stuff and went to the gym.
/r/askMRP21/06/17 02:16 AM
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I'm sorry but I spent all my money on hookers since your sister won't blow me
/r/askMRP17/06/17 09:10 PM
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I've not tried any active dread ... Why? Did you flirt with pool girl? Do you flirt with any women?
/r/askMRP16/06/17 08:07 PM
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whether this is a troll or not, it's useful to note "I thought you were being emotional," is a beta tell See https://therationalmale.com/2014/11/11/beta-tells/amp/
/r/askMRP28/05/17 05:56 AM
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A prenup signed under duress ("sign this or our wedding is cancelled") is legally worthless, so now you are getting married without a valid prenup. I predict she will finally sign when you threaten calling off the wedding, she will be unable to find a job she wants after the wedding, the sex will dry up, and she will financially rape you five years from now.
/r/askMRP27/05/17 09:09 PM
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What many of done here is married the girl friend, since like there could be nobody better, right? So to get on the same page as mrp, earn the eternal disrespect of your girl friend by getting down on one knee and propose to her. However if you want to not follow the approach taken at some point by most here, and I'm going to be massively downvoted and perhaps banned for saying this, I suggest that you dump her, self improve, and get girl friends (more than one) who both want and need to give yo…
/r/askMRP27/05/17 10:31 AM
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You need to own your shit. So take a dump on the counter and try to piss it off
/r/askMRP26/05/17 01:57 PM
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Actually you did quite well Now she's testing if her control over you is fading Just do stuff, hit the gym, have fun, as if her giving you the cold shoulder is nothing, which it should be
/r/askMRP22/05/17 01:31 PM
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So kid #2 is hungry and you are trying to solve the problem by TALKING when your wife shows up yelling WHY ARE YOU NOT DOING ANYTHING? Now your options are: 1) Stop TALKING to your wife for the weekend 2) TALK to your wife about it 3) Have a family meeting to all TALK about it 4) Try another way of TALKING about it All TALK
/r/askMRP20/05/17 07:47 PM
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"You know what, I'm tired. I'll do these tomorrow." Why did you say this?
/r/askMRP20/01/17 04:45 PM
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why is she not used to carrying the bags, who carried them before?
/r/askMRP18/12/16 11:54 PM
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If you find she starts using the rape to control your sexuality, next her. For example if the quality and quantity of BJs declines or she wants you to be more gentle in bed due to her PTSD from her rape, bail. This will allow her time to get counseling and eventually find someone more compatible.
/r/askMRP11/12/16 03:08 PM
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This Since you can afford it, hire a PI to find out how gone girl she is
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/16 01:33 PM
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Do I need legal advice ASAP? I've read on here that it's not real until I see papers ... Anybody who says wait to see a lawyer is full of shit Are there any reports of a smack on the ass coming up to hurt the guy during a divorce? Anything that leaves a clear visible mark can be used against you. I plan to offer the door and tell her to leave the kids. When she takes both the door and kids, what is your plan?
/r/askMRP20/09/16 11:33 AM
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