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I always try on my part to overcome LMR. I've been in countless situations in the past where I got so far with a girl and I didn't seal the deal and I figured I could always do it the next time I see her since it's obvious she's into me (I mean, she gave me a blowjob right?)... and some of these girls I'd never hear back from. I suspect a lot of the time they still want you to show persistence (without neediness), it's attractive.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 06:45 AM
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I’m agreeing with this. OP made a lot of mistakes as the others pointed out but if your gut is telling you somethings wrong, then it’s likely that something is.
/r/askTRP08/10/17 12:05 PM
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He got fired by the CEO for violating the code of conduct at Google. What irks me the most is no one tried to make valid counter-arguments, but just dismiss it as sexism. There is no open conversation, if you don't believe in their cult mentality, you're fired.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 04:51 AM
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Software Engineer. Haven't met a single good female software engineer yet. They usually leech of the work of men and can't come to logical solutions as efficiently as the men in that domain. I was pretty much agreement with most of the Google employee's article. It's too bad he got fired... but you could see that coming from a mile away. Boo hoo, you hurt the feelings of these libcucks. Logical deduction is a man's game, not a woman's. No amount of your diversity efforts will solve the underlyin…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 04:39 AM
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I think you have your answer from most of the other responses. But just an FYI and fair warning to you, I hope you're not taking the girl you're dating seriously after this. Birds of a feather...
/r/askTRP07/08/17 08:40 PM
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Mixed signals is a pretty clear signal
/r/askTRP06/07/17 06:40 PM
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Sounds like something a woman would do.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 08:08 PM
1

I used to do high intensity sprints, and I remember I used to feel like a god and even super social after my runs. I find the actually process of cardio extremely boring though and can't stick with it long term. Lifting has a good overall effect on my mood as well but definitely not as much as running. But I enjoy it and can stick with it. I'd like to eventually try an alternate form of cardio, maybe a martial arts or something.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 05:46 PM
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Quite the businessman, aren't ya' buddy.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 03:39 PM
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Don't have to drink if you don't like it. It's usually for the effect but you have to acquire the taste... most people hate alcochol for a bit before they get used to it. As for dancing, if you like dancing, learn how to dance without alcohol if you don't want to drink. Learn how to be uncomfortable and it'll serve you much better in life. First couple of times it'll be awkward and you'll hate it, this is normal, keep going and it'll be easier.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 03:11 PM
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I have to disagree here, respectfully though because i see your point. Being able to drink socially, and make drinks even, is a very necessary social skill imo. Otherwise youre "THAT guy" that doesnt drink/cant handle drinking. Which females hamster into either you may have had a previous problem or are a pussy. Just my opinion though. What is this nonsense. This only applies if your life revolves around bars, clubs, and sluts.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 03:05 PM
1

How old are you? Have you seen Rollo's SMV chart?
/r/askTRP06/06/17 02:39 PM
3

The problem here is that you've given your word as a man for exclusivity and by not respecting it, you're essentially being a woman. If you don't want to be exclusive, then don't.
/r/askTRP06/06/17 02:37 PM
1

I tried headspace, it's good but definitely not worth any subscription fee. The guided meditation audio is literally the same shit with different wording every day. You can probably find torrents of the audio. Besides, basic meditation isn't rocket science.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 03:18 PM
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This is literally the first thing that popped into my mind while reading the post. OP, you're probably aware, but your girl is just as much a slut as her friends. Birds of a feather is extremely accurate.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 03:29 AM
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She's the kind of girl you'd never expect to do that shit. The line that every other sucker has said. If you're ok with behaviour like that, carry on. If not, go find another hole to put your pencil in. Because I can assure you, it's not the last time she posts there.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 02:35 AM
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What is this hamstering? Go fuck her. You're not a perfectionist, you're just a faggot who doesn't have the balls to fail.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 03:52 AM
6

If the girl you're marrying has a stripper bachelorette party in the first place, it usually means you dun' goofed way before the party takes place. Pretty sure like the other user mentioned, I've heard countless stories from dudes that strip saying that a lot of those parties end up with at least a blowjob.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 03:47 AM
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As in, a girl's vagina.
/r/askTRP21/05/17 03:34 AM
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That is one athletic hamster
/r/askTRP11/05/17 07:48 PM
2

You're not a boyfriend, you're a plate. I assume you know what needs to be done?
/r/askTRP11/05/17 07:35 PM
2

What's funny is lifting is probably the easiest method of setting yourself apart from the crowd and being above average. It's one of the few things where you're literally guaranteed results if you put in the work. Same can't be said about starting a business for example.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 04:07 PM
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Found the cuckold
/r/askTRP09/05/17 01:46 PM
2

You likely don't man. Spin plates, enjoy the single life until shit like this no longer a concern for you.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 06:46 PM
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I'm Canadian-Indian... and I can't take Indian girls seriously because of the accent. It's unfortunate, but I think Indians have the worst accents around. There might be some generation 1 Indian girls who were born in Canada/States that have no accent and traditional values, which would be a good balance but I haven't seen one yet and I've hung around religious temples a bit when I was younger.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 06:40 PM
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She can be loud because there will be a horde of white knights that will come to her rescue if shit goes down and so shit is less likely to go down. No one will come to your rescue unless you have a group of m8s around. Frankly, it's likely you have bad body language when you're minding your own business. Make sure you have a confident posture/stance and people won't pick on you. People like that pick on the weak and you must have somehow came across as weak.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 05:55 PM
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I probably wouldn't have lost my virginity if I told the girl I lost my virginity to that I was a virgin. I just kept those conversations vague, and played it off cool. She was pretty hot and was super into me and my friend pushed me quite a bit to go for it so it worked in my favor because I was pretty much going to bitch out if it were up to me especially cuz she might find out I was a virgin because I wouldn't know wtf I was doing. (I was also a kissless virgin at that point) Can go into deta…
/r/askTRP08/05/17 01:50 PM
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There was a Conor Murphy video where they did the dad bod vs fit bod experiment. (pretty recent, can find it on his YT channel probably... at work so can't browse through and look for it) A lot of girls got asked who would you rather date, and most picked the dad bod guy. They asked the exact same girls after who would you rather have a ONS with and they ALL picked Conor, no hesitation. The first thing that rang in my head was literally Alpha Fux, Beta Bux after watching that vid. Had a good gym…
/r/askTRP08/05/17 01:40 PM
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Break down every single one of your issues and start working on them one by one. Poor: Find a job or find a way to make money. Not good looking: Lift weights. Learn some style/fashion. Plenty of resources online. Get a better haircut that suits your face, get some nicely fitted clothes. Not witty: Take improv, public speaking, watch guys you think are witty or whatever and start improving it. Speech impediment: Not sure about this, but I bet there's ways to improve it if not completely eradicate…
/r/askTRP02/05/17 08:28 PM
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There hasn't been a single time in my experience where this has not been true. It's also France, the country of love aka getting plowed by Chad. What girl doesn't want to get banged in front of the Eiffel tower?
/r/askTRP02/05/17 08:07 PM
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Redpill truth that Life sucks, work sucks, there is no such thing as follow your passion, if you put time, it will give result. Huh? Life is beautiful, work is awesome, and you should absolutely follow your mission. Not sure what TRP you've been reading. To answer your question, if you want to work a corporate job, work one, if you want to start a business start one. Do what YOU want to do and will be happy doing, not what someone else wants you to do. And relax a bit, you're 20. You'll figure i…
/r/askTRP01/05/17 11:35 AM
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Don't LTR girls that get drunk.
/r/askTRP24/04/17 11:45 AM
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Not even black, but this is fucking stupid.
/r/askTRP16/04/17 06:08 AM
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Break it off. I had similar issues, the only solution I found was to not get into LTRs and enjoy spinning plates until you get to the point where it doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 04:48 AM
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She was a bit on the needier side so this wasn't anything out of the ordinary, maybe a little amplified due to the travel. My gut didn't really say anything was wrong, but obviously no way of knowing for sure. At the end of the day, sloots gonna' sloot.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 06:32 PM
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You haven't spun plates, who you lyin' to?
/r/askTRP13/04/17 06:29 PM
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Strong username copying skills
/r/askTRP13/04/17 06:27 PM
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Even if they get married, doesn't necessarily mean they suddenly disappear from your life. I'm sure they'll be spending less time but if you have enough friends, keep them on rotation. I'm 26 and I also tend to get along with younger dudes at the gym pretty well (18-23) but I'm sure as I get older it'll start to get a little weird if I'm hanging around younger dudes as a 30 year old. I don't really care about the age gap, more that it'll be harder for younger dudes to relate to you I guess. For …
/r/askTRP13/04/17 02:34 AM
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Don't forget, the more alpha personnels that take a bite out of your burger, the more expensive the plate is going to be. So much alpha DNA on your sandwich you should be grateful to have.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 10:06 PM
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First of all, if you're not cool with this type of thing, don't control, just next her. I tend not to want club/party girls who shake their ass like sluts as girls around my arm nowadays (I don't mind parties if they're special occasions but I know better than to LTR up a girl who shakes her ass at a club now). I dated a club slut previously when I was BP and was cool with the girls night out thing, my ex went to Vegas for a birthday party and I think played it pretty well on my part. I literall…
/r/askTRP12/04/17 07:08 PM
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Try buying her flowers or an expensive gift like a diamond ring. It'll show her how much you care and how much of a great catch you are. Willing to bend over, take one in the ass and give your freedom to a girl who you've chilled with twice and haven't stuck your weewee in. If only more guys were man enough to do the same, the world would be a much better place.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 03:02 PM
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You chilled at her place twice but didn't fuck her? You're just a tampon. Fuck her the next time or cut your losses and move on, you're headed down an ugly path.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 02:15 PM
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Is it legal to fuck a 17 y/o where you live? I'd be more worried about that than anything. The slut can turn on you any moment and put you in jail if not legal. Edit: Nvm, seems like it's 16. Carry on broski. Plate her if you want, don't catch feels.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 06:50 PM
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The day you think you can't live without her is the day you need to cut her loose to prove to yourself you can.
/r/askTRP11/04/17 06:47 PM
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As Tupac once said, "You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, or even months over-analyzing a situation; trying to put the pieces together, justifying what could've, would've happened... or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move the fuck on."
/r/askTRP11/04/17 06:39 PM
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Non sexual way ofcourse! Sure, buddy. Who you lyin' to? ;)
/r/askTRP11/04/17 06:24 PM
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like I said, the usual rules don't apply because I've been her only lover so far. Aww, aren't you a special little snowflake?
/r/askTRP11/04/17 01:30 PM
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Don't forget, many guys get triggered and create threads like this which gives them free advertising (saw this on the BB forums too). Kudos to them if they did this all knowing it intentionally, it's an excellent marketing plan. As they say, any publicity is good publicity.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 06:22 PM
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I think the problem is you care too much about how you fit into her frame, instead of how she fits into yours.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 06:07 PM
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She's a plate and she has lost her right to be promoted. Keep her around until she breaks and keep your feelz in check.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 04:26 PM
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A lot dudes on TRP like to hamster drugs for some reason.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 03:56 PM
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It's like when you cut off the societal expectations of marriage/kids, you literally realize there's so many years of freedom and doing whatever the hell you want ahead of you.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 03:46 PM
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I'm actually checking out from the working world this summer to backpack for a year. Don't think I'll be working much while I travel, but I may start to pick up some freelance work near end of my trip.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 03:39 PM
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I can't speak for all dev, but for web, the big shots right now are Ruby on Rails, React/Redux, Angular, and Node.js. If you want to just build websites for shitty small time businesses, Wordpress.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 03:20 PM
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It's the opposite for me. I made good strength gains on full body 3x a week but I make much better hypertrophy gains on PPL (but I go like 6x week)
/r/askTRP10/04/17 03:17 PM
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Your mistake was not leaving when you had to wait more than 15 minutes for her after the agreed upon time. And 15 is being generous.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 02:50 PM
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I didn't really read your post, but based of the title and daddy issues along with beating/insulting: Run.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 02:43 PM
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She told to come fast cause ten minutes left. Lmao that's such shitty service.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 02:33 PM
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Why do all those? You can have all of them. I'm just gonna masturbate, eat alone, play games and live on welfare or maybe sell some stuff. I'll just get a 9 to 5, a fat GF, a few loser friends, video games, doritos and internet. (example) There's nothing wrong with this per se, but this kind of lifestyle doesn't really give you any fulfillment. I honestly think, as a man, a lot of happiness/being content is derived from pursuing a goal or goals. It's no wonder many men are depressed; because the…
/r/askTRP10/04/17 02:30 PM
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Hey look, it's that time again
/r/askTRP07/04/17 03:49 AM
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One year is too long for a plate Not necessarily. If you're spinning her well and there's no trouble, then why not keep spinning her? But yes, in OPs case, it's likely starting to crack.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 03:44 AM
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20 guys a week? Wtf? That's worse than a prostitute. Just get a decent escort, it's much safer than this STD ridden whore you're about to get aids from.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 03:40 AM
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There's a reason those chilled gyms are rare. They can work in the sense that you might be able to sustain it but it won't make any real money from what I can tell. Maybe you can sponsor bodybuilders for competitions or host powerlifting competitions at your gym or something but yeah, overall it's not as simple as just opening your gym and watching people flow in. There's a LOT of proactive work required to sustain a gym like that... it's probably much easier to offer pizza every Friday and get …
/r/askTRP07/04/17 03:30 AM
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Projection at it's finest. Just like the cheating slut is always the one most worried about getting cheated on.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 07:31 PM
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I am looking for at least one validation that I am good enough. You are good enough. Did that change anything? The only validation you need is your own. Read 'Gorilla Mindset'... One of the most valuable advice I learned from that book was the power of positive self talk. A lot more to be learnt there for you I think, read it. Case studies of people who made it out of being an AFC into their first relationships Me. Was a kissless virgin till 25. 26 now, been with 3 girls and had my first relatio…
/r/askTRP06/04/17 07:22 PM
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If you have a chilled environment, it means you have less customers. It's a noble venture, but ultimately a poor business for actually making money. Take those cheap gyms that offer free pizza for example. It's cheap so the average Joe takes the bait because free pizza, pays the membership fee for the year, falls off the boat after a month, and the gym has essentially charged him a year while giving him a month. The reason these gyms are packed is because there's new people signing up all the ti…
/r/askTRP06/04/17 07:07 PM
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No wonder he needs major brain surgery.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 04:54 PM
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Why can't he give the half-siblings the other half?
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 04:54 PM
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There is no hope. For our generation, probably not. Hopefully the future generations, something will happen to shift the balance back in right direction.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 04:26 PM
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"Enjoy the decline" works for us as individuals but there's a bigger problem. If "redpill" dudes don't have kids, the cucks will, and the next generation of kids will contain even more cucks, and so on. Eventually, who knows, maybe the feminine imperative will stop men from voting and God knows what. On the bright side, we'll be dead by then and we don't have to deal with that shit, but society will generally be fucked.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 04:24 PM
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Alimony I really wonder who invented that shit and in who's head alimony actually makes sense in. Would love to hear their arguments that support it.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 04:18 PM
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Pretty much. The party/hookup culture paired up with social media and feminism has desecrated any hope for most stable long-term relationships/marriages.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 04:08 PM
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Sucks, but that might be the best logical course of action to minimize damage depending on logistics. The girl is probably damaged after that and that relationship will fail because the man failed to be her protector. If you lift and ideally practice some form of fighting, you could potentially fight him off or overpower him if it's a knife. With a gun, you wouldn't have much of a choice. Maybe follow and look for an opening to strike when his guard is down would be the best option. It's really …
/r/askTRP06/04/17 03:58 PM
1

Yes, there's an LTR checklist/unicorn post in the Primer.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 03:44 PM
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So yeah, hide your shit well, don't get married and have kids with some chick who doesn't speak English and learn to like whatever kind of food they have wherever she's from. It's no wonder so many men go to find wives in asia or something lol.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 03:32 PM
1

Rock climbing looks like a ton of fun. But if anything it looks like it'd build strength or endurance, not bodybuilding. And from what I read, you have to keep yourself light to make climbing easier/optimal.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 02:58 PM
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If you do yoga at home, join a yoga class instead. If you strictly want to meet women, join a class like dancing where the women to men ratio is higher but it has to be something you actually can see yourself enjoying. I also recommend men take public speaking classes or improv or something. Your ability to speak in a large group of people will get much better. I've never tried these though, but improv seems like a very, very useful skill to have.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 02:53 PM
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Learn how to "just start"... Tell yourself to just start because that's literally the hardest part. Once you start doing something for like 5 mins and focus on it, you get in the zone and it's easy mode from there. And put away the distractions, cell phone, internet if you don't need it, etc. Allocate work-time and break time and alternate. 20 mins focused work, 5 mins break or something like that. You'll find yourself going for more than 20 though when you're in the zone.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 02:50 PM
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She'll fuck you again if you want regardless of whether you say "k" or not. Just ignore it, watch her text you again within a couple of days. Obviously, don't LTR her though. Edit: I also think she's trying to gauge what you want. Don't let her unravel that mystery.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 02:42 PM
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Not sure why you got downvoted, part of being a man is owning your shit. All this hamstering to keep her is what women do.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 02:39 PM
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Probably this. If he had to cheat on her, the relationship probably isn't good as he thinks, and he's in some sort of sunk cost fallacy. Likely should just drop her, but pretty sure the Machiavellian tactic would work especially if she's into him.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 02:37 PM
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This comes to mind.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 02:33 PM
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I don't club so never done clubbing solo, but I've traveled solo and I talk to people wayyy more solo, almost because you have no little comfortable net of people to fall back on. You basically have to force yourself to be social. I'd assume it's the same with clubbing. If you go social, you have to force yourself to find people to be social with, otherwise you'll end up feeling like an awkward dude. You can't just fall back on your friends.
/r/askTRP06/04/17 02:29 PM
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"B-b-b-but she's different... my situation is different. I know it's different because..."
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 06:26 PM
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After reading and seeing so many situations like this, it almost becomes comical. I almost think I can read people's relationships nowadays better than they themselves can.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 03:34 PM
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If only you knew the things that happens at those strip bachelorette parties.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 03:16 PM
2

Read Sex God method
/r/askTRP04/04/17 03:13 PM
1

This. Finance professions, from the limited knowledge I have, are pain in the ass professions. Especially those dudes putting in 80+ hours on wall street. Sure, they pay you tons of cash, but you're their little pawn making them 10x the cash they're paying you and if you fuck up, you're out. And you squander your youth working for someone else. I'm all about working hard but it better damn well be for me.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 03:12 PM
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I'm talking to their girlfriends or girls they make terrorist jokes and call me offensive racial slurs "towel head, camel jockey". Where do you guys whom this happens to live? I've literally never had shit like this happen to me. I am 6'3, 160 pounds. Lift and get to 200 lbs and we'll see if anyone still make those remarks.
/r/askTRP03/04/17 01:41 AM
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It's probably confusing for her at this point. She might already think of you as a friend, in which case there's not much hope. If she's attracted to you, you need to escalate asap and make it clear it's a date and not a friendly meeting.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 07:35 PM
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I haven't read much about it but I don't totally hate the concept of MGTOW. They, like TRP know society is rigged against men so they don't feel like dealing with the crap and go do their own thing. The problem is most those dudes are just guys who couldn't get laid so they use MGTOW as a buffer to not improve their game/social skills. MGTOW should only come from a result from being in a place of abundance, not scarcity, which is more often the case.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 07:30 PM
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Like I said, you either are cool with it or not. If you're not, cut her loose. You can tell her not to go but it'll come off as mate guarding/low SMV. Some guys can afford to take a little hit here and there to their frame, but too many low SMV behaviors will eventually drive her away. And likely, you won't be able to control her anyway. Maybe temporarily, but likely not permanently.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 07:23 PM
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If you don't like it, cut her loose. Good quality girls know better and you wouldn't have to try and change her behavior. These things should have been looked at before you got into an LTR. Your vetting process was crappy. How long were you dating before getting into the LTR?
/r/askTRP30/03/17 06:13 PM
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3 months is not enough. Spin for at LEAST a year before upgrading. Just push it off and tell her to ask you in a couple of months. Would you loan 10k to a friend you knew for 3 months?
/r/askTRP30/03/17 06:02 PM
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You don't. You abandon the notion of LTR/marriage. Especially until shit like this is no longer a concern for you.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 05:53 PM
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Why not have both?
/r/askTRP30/03/17 05:45 PM
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You're supposed to receive dowry, not give it. You can probably get 2 camels with a wife.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 05:42 PM
1

You'll eventually become god if you keep at it.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 06:53 PM
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The vulnerability must come from a place of strength. You don't go to your child and tell him "I'm scared, help me please".... you tell him, "Daddy is scared too. But we're going to find a way out of this together." or whatever. If you're talking about vulnerability in the sense that you want your woman to emotionally support you, forget about it. There are sacrifices you have to make to display a lot of vulnerability. Good sex will be the first to go when she realizes you're a weak leader.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 06:46 PM
1

Had a job offer with decent money from Amazon a year or so ago. Declined it for this reason. They said I had to be on call and could be called in at any time. Ain't nobody got time to ruin precious sleep to make money for someone else. Work 40 hours now, I clock out within 15 mins the same time and go work on my own project after work.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 06:07 PM
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Why does it matter as long as he's getting some? I doubt he's planning to bring them back.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 03:54 PM
2

How do you prevent them from searching you? And aren't you worried about STDs with these Thai girls? It's already a crapshoot and I can only think it's worse in 3rd world countries where they probably have shittier contraceptives.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 03:45 PM
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Plan to spend a few months in Thailand starting around October. Mainly worried about trannies. Thailand looks like a beautiful place to travel though.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 03:42 PM
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Idk if that comes from a place of butthurt, but it seems it does. Either way, she's not interested. She might be when you're 30, but as beta bux, which is not good for you at all. Lose no more time on her.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 02:34 PM
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Never, ever LTR a woman who drinks socially. I will circle jerk this to death
/r/askTRP28/03/17 02:30 PM
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You're 19, don't consider LTRs until you're 30. Spin plates, forks, spoons, and the dishwasher.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 02:29 PM
1

Idk where I read this but it's often easier to start with higher "rank" in a new social circle than it is to move up in "rank" in your current social circle. I think the same applies for jobs. It'd be best if you could find a new job and establish yourself as a leader from the beginning there. If not, you can likely move up but slower. Your co-workers and boss will often be working against you if you try to take on leadership when you were initially a follower.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 02:23 PM
5

Oneitis. And you feel that way because your gut is telling you you're being a little bitch. Your focus shifted from you to her and you need to get the focus back on you and your frame will line up again. Is the relationship salvageable? Idk, depends how much of a bitch you've become in her eyes. Either way, what needs to be done is the same. Focus on you, go lift which you've likely been slacking on, go focus on your goals, take up a new hobby and work on it. She'll likely act up on your attenti…
/r/askTRP28/03/17 02:13 PM
2

I've read girls saying they hate when guys hit on them in the gym Unless you're 200lbs 8% bodyfat Chad-look alike mofo.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 02:02 PM
5

I think we might have a chance, but when we're in our 30's This line must fucking sting the ego. When you see it, you can't unsee it.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 01:57 PM
2

she's 35 years old and she's more immature than any of the other women I'm seeing (23 & 25). Why do I get the feeling this is more often the case than not
/r/askTRP28/03/17 01:54 PM
1

Stop wasting your time on drugs and go lift weights, go out and practice socializing, and meditate to improve focus. Why are you dudes always looking for a quick solution?
/r/askTRP28/03/17 01:47 PM
1

Seems like it's barely over a regular work week...
/r/askTRP28/03/17 01:35 PM
2

I certainly never saved them Sure ya' didn't bud ;)
/r/askTRP28/03/17 01:28 PM
9

I like the guy in general though. He's admit in his vlogs he lacks confidence and is pretty awkward and is using the videos as a way to improve his social skills confidence. He's getting off his ass and doing shit about it. And I'm jelly of his physique.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 01:26 PM
4

The girl at 7:39 lol... sheesh. If that's not motivation to lift, Idk what is.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 01:25 PM
1

I was never really into the whole drinking/party scene but if someone does, more power to them, doesn't really change how I look at them. I expect those people to be more social in general though, and won't take a party/ex-party chick seriously. I'm trying to put myself in those situations more nowadays though to improve my game/social skills.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 01:23 PM
1

Congrats... I remember my first time I had no clue what I was doing, I actually told the girl I wasn't a virgin, felt so awkward during the process, I'm sure she realized, but when I walked out of that bitch's place, I had the biggest grin on my face. Never heard from her again though.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 01:10 PM
3

How much do you squat and deadlift?
/r/askTRP28/03/17 01:07 PM
27

Who cares as long as you don't get married? Enjoy your turn.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 11:17 AM
4

My ex used to hang out with her first ex. I know there was nothing going on but I'm not interested in the man who's cock she had down her throat at some point to still be in the picture. You can call me insecure, but I'd never get into an LTR with a girl who still keeps regular contact with her ex. Fuck that noise. It's disrespectful to your relationship.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 07:36 PM
7

She's being a manipulative bitch and has no respect for you whatsoever. Block her number, block her facebook, and make sure she never re-appears in your life. Go lift, go get a hobby, and make some more paper. And when your brain has recovered from this mess, go game other sluts.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 02:00 PM
13

So never?
/r/askTRP22/03/17 12:58 PM
3

If anyone pays 20k for a ring, they deserve what's coming to them.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 07:59 PM
1

Doesn't seem like a very good friend of yours if you're willing to stab him in the back for a piece of ass.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 07:54 PM
2

Being strongly traditional is not a philosophy though. I know many strongly traditional families that let greed consume them and are never really content or satisfied.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 06:56 PM
1

Just based off of what I've read, although I'm not sure if it'd be for me in it's entirety I think there's a lot of value to be had from their philosophies, and I think they live much more content lives than the western counterparts who are stuck in this chaos of more, more, more. I'm a big advocate of being present/meditation and it can get your mental state in to a tremendous place of calm collected strength if you practice long enough (just like working out your body). And not to go hippy on …
/r/askTRP21/03/17 06:31 PM
3

If more men would select for good behavior over just trying to get their dick wet, women would be forced to clean up their act. Of course, no man alone is going to do that because it wouldn't change anything and we can't collectively just stay away from pussy.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 06:11 PM
1

Ah, I don't know much about Buddhism, was trying to poke fun. From what I read they have some good ideologies and there is stuff to be learnt there.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 06:04 PM
2

Many women add drama to your life and sometimes life is simpler riding solo for a while. I remember my ex always had to make a fuss about something at her work or one of her friends or just make a big deal of something even though in my head it was like "huh? why you stressin' over this?" My bud and I would make a joke that every Monday would be drama day from her and it usually was lol. Haven't been anywhere near another LTR or even a solid plate since then and I feel free, my lifts went up, an…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 04:15 PM
2

Clearly Buddha couldn't relinquish his desire for food.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 03:38 PM
5

He begged her to reconsider. And the next day he acts like that? The butthurt would be oozing out of him beyond measure.
/r/askTRP21/03/17 03:36 PM
2

How are you going to build abundance with a girl you have oneitis for? Seems like a way to build scarcity to me...
/r/askTRP21/03/17 03:26 PM
1

The biggest Red Pill truth for me is I am the chooser...I decide...That's a lot of responsibility because it means you have to lead in any male/female interaction. I remember I used to be passive in regards to leading and would just try to go with the flow. Even in a group of friends, no one would really take the lead and make a decision. "Where do you want to eat? You guys wanna go here? No? Ok well how about..? and it'd drag on." I've started to be a lot more active in making the decisions and…
/r/askTRP21/03/17 01:32 PM
20

80$ on a first date? The hell? I wouldn't spend more than 5-10$ on a coffee and snack.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 08:16 PM
3

I can see why you don't get laid.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 06:56 PM
1

Someone's gotta give the whales a home.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 06:48 PM
2

Don't expect coming to Montreal some magic pill to slay white women. If you can't slay 'em where you are, you'll probably have similar luck here.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 06:46 PM
2

Where? I'm in Montreal. I've seen some confident motherfuckers slay girls from all origins. I'm Indian, and the only girls I've slain have been white. Especially French chicks, they seem to think of you as exotic.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 06:37 PM
1

Never let it happen. Even when someone dies, this is the best test of your frame and strength. If you need to cry, get away for some alone time and do it on your own. If you have a very good male best friend (and I mean he's like your bromance), do it in front of him... It's unfortunate most men don't have this luxury. I have my best friend who knows all my insecurities, shit, and I've cried in front of him, and it was a good way to vent so other people only see strength in me. Your best bro won…
/r/askTRP20/03/17 06:31 PM
1

Been wanting to attend one of those classes. But I think what I really want to do is join an improv class. I don't have much use for giving speeches. Improv on the other hand, might be very useful to get better at (even in the context of giving speeches). NB. I haven't attended any of these kind of classes so take it with a grain of salt.
/r/askTRP20/03/17 06:24 PM
2

I'm a software engineer who has done really well in career. And yes, it will set you back in terms of women, not the worst thing but it's definitely not a plus, I see where you come from. Can look at some of my previous posts, I hint at this. I'm going to use software engineering to my advantage now though. I plan to become location independent this year and travel, which would be my ideal situation (and I'm close). And if I can't, I'll take a year off to do so. Being a GOOD engineer will net yo…
/r/askTRP20/03/17 02:17 PM
2

If you'll be hanging out that long, it'll probably naturally escalate anyway but just escalate as you would any other girl. If it goes south, enjoy the trip alone, big deal, you'll never see her again anyway.
/r/askTRP16/03/17 04:13 PM
1

Get a pupper
/r/askTRP16/03/17 03:51 PM
1

"He sucks better dick than you I bet ;)"
/r/askTRP16/03/17 03:44 PM
1

Man, it sounds like you already made up your mind. My belief nowadays is if you even contemplate not being in the LTR for whatever reason, then you shouldn't be in it.
/r/askTRP16/03/17 01:55 PM
1

Just tell her that you want to go and fuck other women and she is free to stay or leave. Actually mean it. If you aren t able to do an 180 and just walk away from her if she doesn't want to stay than don't even bother. Tell her if she stays, she will never know about them, they will never be from your circles, there will never be feelings involved (it will always be sex solely) and she will never have to justify staying with you to one her friends or her family. Did exactly this with my ex, but …
/r/askTRP16/03/17 01:54 PM
5

What nobody tells single men about marriage is that you'll still be emotionally alone This is a very good point. I'm just guessing but I think a lot of men get into marriage so they can have that emotional bond like they had with their mothers. The reality is the alpha is always emotionally alone. And if you don't want to be emotionally alone, you give up the respect and attraction that your woman has for you. My dad isn't one of the brightest dudes on the block but I have a lot of respect for h…
/r/askTRP16/03/17 01:45 PM
2

Opposite for me. Always hate sleeping with someone else in my bed. Could just be that you get drained from sex.
/r/askTRP16/03/17 01:32 PM
8

Busy men don't have time to apologize. Oneitis, she'll come back on her own, if she doesn't, next.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 08:06 PM
2

I'm working to become location independent and this is where I'd work regularly. Staying at home would probably be too unproductive anyway and being a coffee shop allows you to practice your sober game and you'll likely meet higher quality women there.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 07:58 PM
7

You said you want to experience that lifestyle. Can't experience in a LTR... besides, you've broken up 7+ times... If you have to break up more than once for any reason, the relationship is not as good as you probably think. And on top of that, you can't really judge whether the relationship is any good because you have no relative experience to compare it to.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 06:31 PM
7

Sounds like you already made up your mind.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 06:23 PM
1

Purple pill is something in between, there's no laid out foundation for purple pill. It's just people who fail to swallow the red pill completely or pick and choose parts they like.
/r/askTRP14/03/17 04:09 PM
1

It's a bit of dilemma as I mentioned in my other post. Optimal male strategy is sex before commitment. Optimal female strategy is commitment before sex. One strategy will compromise. We're men on this sub, we're optimizing our strategy so by default our answers will come from this perspective and we enforce our imperative here. This is also theory. In the real world there are plenty of high value men that are purple pill where your strategy can come to fruition. Optimize your RMV. (see RPW sub)
/r/askTRP14/03/17 02:56 PM
2

Good on you for having a noble notion such as saving your virginity for one man. Truth is though, if you're attractive, most men won't believe you and with the societal circumstances we live in, you can't blame them. This is a bit of a dilemma because optimal red pill male strategy says that if she's not fucking you asap, you're not alpha fucks in her eyes aka no commitment without amazing sex. Optimal red pill female strategy says no sex without commitment. One strategy will have to compromise.…
/r/askTRP14/03/17 02:55 PM
1

Isn't your reddit account already anonymous? I'm curious why you need to link us outside lol
/r/askTRP12/03/17 05:37 AM
1

Fascinates me how all the substance users come out of the wood-works all triggered.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 09:17 PM
1

No experience with ED but I always assumed there was an underlying issue when it comes to ED. Don't think that's true for PE though which seems to be OPs case, hence my recommendation. Having PE probably means you can afford to bust a second nut quickly... but I'm just assuming a lot here.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 08:22 PM
1

I agree it does but if it's either being a little less aggressive or busting a nut in 3 pumps... then it might be a good way for him to last longer. Some people can bust a lot of times and keep their "killer instinct"... but totally agree in the times I've done it, I didn't care for sex much after and it was less fun.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 08:16 PM
4

Could have phrased that better I guess. Substances never have and never will solve any underlying problems. That better?
/r/askTRP09/03/17 08:11 PM
2

You're comparing hard narcotics like shrooms, acid, and DMT to caffeine?
/r/askTRP09/03/17 08:06 PM
2

I was pointing out you can't brush of the fact there are scientifically proven benefits in certain circumstances. And what about the scientifically prove side effects? Case in point - take the stick out of your ass and hit the joint, the antiinflammatory properties of some natural CBD will ease the pain. No need to get all butt hurt because some stranger doesn't agree with you. You're free to have your opinion and live your life as you want. Enjoy your joint, bro.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 08:05 PM
5

Go travel or read a book if you want to expand your world view.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 07:22 PM
1

I wouldn't recommend this just because he's 17 and he may need a good reference for the next job. No use in burning the bridge, just give 'em 2 weeks.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 05:48 PM
1

Don't save her, she don't wanna' be saved.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 05:40 PM
0

Rub one out like an hour before you go out or to see them.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 05:38 PM
2

Get a long-term hobby that involves some sort of social interaction (martial arts, group classes, whatever). A lot of my good male friendships somehow originated at this small gym I used to train at almost no women went there and everyone knew each other. We'd even get friendly with the newbies that joined even if they didn't stay long, and even the guys that worked there. When I started, I knew no one there, was just doing my own this. Got a spot here and there from a stranger, see them at the …
/r/askTRP09/03/17 05:21 PM
-4

Substances never have and never will solve any problems. And this making life easier mentality is exactly why the fatty takes the weight loss pills. Boo hoo, instead of cultivating a stronger mindset and building habits to make your life better, you take the temporary fix that gets you no where just so you can feel good for a short amount of time.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 05:04 PM
2

Ah.. wait until you get into a heated argument and she's drunk and had no one else to go to.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 03:59 PM
1

It's also worth mentioning that she said she prefers to talk over Snapchat rather than just texting. Don't care about what she prefers, care about what you prefer. Don't need to chat much over text, just setup a date sooner rather than later and no need to text in between. You're a busy man with a busy life.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 03:49 PM
-8

This. It's no wonder most people don't get anywhere in life. Always looking for that pill that'll make everything better. Just like the fatties always raging about the new weight loss pill.
/r/askTRP09/03/17 03:41 PM
1

Some six months ago I broke up, got more abundance than ever, and again I don't give a shit about the past. I used to have insomnia, now I sleep like a fat spayed cat. This time I decided I won't go back to a LTR under any circumstances before I finish a bucket list A lot like what I went through. I don't even have abundance with women, and when I broke up, all the n-count issues, disappeared... For me, if anything this has to do with the fact that I don't plan to get into an LTR so easily again…
/r/askTRP08/03/17 07:17 PM
1

Sounds kinda like me except I'm still not laying on the regular. Didn't lose mine till 25 and successful in other areas of my life. The past year I've laid 3 women. Not alot but more than I ever did. Like most dudes in this situation, I had issues with my first ex's n-count and the party/fun she'd had while I was working to become successful. It ate me inside, but all those issues seemed to disappear when we broke up. I'm not really bitter about it as I have no dog in that fight anymore but I de…
/r/askTRP08/03/17 07:11 PM
2

But this guy sounds really desperate to get married and the fact that he is asking this question lead me to believe that this is the type of chick that would split after she found out her potential husband sleeps around alot. Me personally I would tell the truth because I could careless if the girl leaves or stays. This is it. There's no use in lying about it. Your past is part of you so own up to it. It's better to find the deal-breakers early on rather than waste her time and his. I really dis…
/r/askTRP07/03/17 07:51 PM
1

In my opinion, I would tell her what she wants to hear. If you think she's the type of girl that be ok with you sleeping with 10, then tell her ten. If you think he be ok with you sleeping with 30, then tell her 30. Disagree. Own up to your shit or keep the agree/amplify. Lying about it is what women do. Besides, the truth'll come out, always does. She'll tire herself out eventually if keeps the AA up. It's easy dread for him. He can provide more comfort on other things and she'll hamster the dr…
/r/askTRP07/03/17 07:40 PM
1

Yeezy's are pretty nice but no where near worth the asking price. Vans are the bomb though. It's too bad they break pretty fast. I have some plain black laceless vans because they're so convenient to put on and look pretty good with some joggers and a plan t-shirt. (I even wear them with chinos and a shirt sometimes, I'm sure people won't agree, but I like it)
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 07:26 PM
3

Just looked over your workouts. No chest exercises? I'd add push ups at least to the upper workout.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 07:19 PM
3

Saw the OP... was like OP was alpha today. Saw the comments, was like, "nevermind."
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 04:55 PM
1

Cool experiment to do, but like the others mentioned, you'll fuck up your hormones doing stuff like this. What I find interesting though is, when you're hungry, you seem to have more energy like you mentioned, I've noticed similar things in intermittent fasting. I'm usually more aware and alert during my fasting hours and even stronger. Mental masturbation but it could be due to the fact that if you were getting more and more hungry when we were hunters and gatherers, your body gives out more en…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 04:45 PM
6

Can always rely on TRP to provide me a daily dose of comedic short stories.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 04:39 PM
2

Was thinking of this exact analogy today. Funny how I ended up reading it in a post the same day.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 04:36 PM
4

When you first see the hint of a six pack in the mirror, that diet is so much easier to stick to. This is so fucking true. As I got out of shape, I kind of lost the motivation and drive I once had for lifting... I forced myself and as I'm getting back in shape (seeing my shoulder separations, veins on my forearms, etc.), I just want nothing more than to hit the gym again... this shit spirals somehow.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 03:23 PM
3

Just to add some anecdote: I used to use MyFitnessPal to track my meals every single day and a few years ago I went from a 200lb fatty to around 150lbs. Over time I became complacent in tracking and started eyeballing meals. Worked pretty well but when I injured myself and stopped hitting the gym, I fell out of the dieting habit and slowly made my way back to 185. And in the past 3 months I've been trying to cut back to hit 160ish again, and I didn't lose a single pound trying to re-eyeball my f…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 03:19 PM
7

You will need to show provider qualities but most guys around here will most likely show a little too much by default without realizing it so when in doubt, just show alpha.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 05:37 AM
1

Swiped left... not interested in the drama.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 05:34 AM
2

Try dread, otherwise start afresh
/r/askTRP06/03/17 08:19 PM
8

Saw my ex who cried the whole day when we broke up on Tinder a week later... then again, I was on Tinder too.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 08:03 PM
3

never blows me lol...
/r/askTRP06/03/17 07:52 PM
15

It's important to be present and focused when reading and trying to absorb the information. It's kind of like the gym, I used to hit the gym and go through the motions as fast as possible to finish my set or to finish my workout. Despite not realizing it, I honestly think my gains suffered. I now try to workout while being "present". I focus on each rep and feel the mind muscle connection, each set, etc. I've been making better gains this way, and it has helped my mindset too. I'm trying to appl…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 07:40 PM
2

Don't forget, it's much easier for a girl to bang random guys within the week, whereas for the average guy he'll have to start cultivating options again.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 07:30 PM
0

I was referring more to overall how he's gotten soft. While those things might be admirable qualities (caring for his family, his planet, etc.), it was a bit of a let down that the cold-blooded prince of all saiyans thirsty for nothing but power has now become a family man. I get it why it turned out this way, but it ruins his character in the context of the show. I like Super as a light-hearted show to watch but it definitely holds no candle to Z. They also IMO, ruined a lot of good characters,…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 07:14 PM
1

They really ruined his character in DBS. Betafied the crap out of him too.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 05:16 PM
26

A wild alpha male has appeared.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 05:12 PM
1

I can check out of this shit and get a home made bride who's not a slut You think this way because your parents generation was like that. The girls in India nowadays are just as slooty AND they have much more reasons to hide it so they build the skills to hide it well. Don't play yoself'.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 05:08 PM
5

Why the hell are you looking at her as a potential LTR when you've only been on one date?
/r/askTRP02/03/17 03:02 PM
2

If only The Misc knew you were on reddit. Negged phaggot.
/r/askTRP02/03/17 02:57 PM
3

What to say when you talk to yourself -A great book for understanding self-talk and how it affects your life, aswell as all the shitty "programming" and faulty mental road maps you've been using all your life without realizing it. I read a chapter on positive self-talk in Gorilla Mindset. It's seriously probably the most powerful tools that you can make to improve your mindset. Most people probably talk to themselves like shit. It'll teach you to respect yourself.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 09:13 PM
2

If you don't want that, just tell her to ask you again in a couple of months. And in a couple of months, do it again. Keep dangling the carrot in front of her.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 08:44 PM
0

Wait until you start dating girls who've fucked 20 guys before you and she doesn't remember how many guys she's kissed. You're 19, demote her and spin plates until you're 35, at least 30, and then consider looking for a girlfriend.
/r/askTRP01/03/17 02:28 PM
2

Do you guys actually sit there with a measuring tape (or stick?) and measure your dicks?
/r/askTRP01/03/17 12:48 PM
2

In my case, she was living at home with her parents and she had 3k to show. Not only that, she had plenty of money from mommy and daddy to travel the world (she spent a year in an abroad program when younger, and backpacking Europe for 3 months). Had plans to do it again when she saved up enough. Basically brought her bank account back to zero every time she could for travelling. I plan to travel for near a year this summer, but even after dropping 20k-30k on a year trip, it'll barely put a dent…
/r/askTRP28/02/17 10:58 PM
5

Lmao, never tell anyone about my finances. My parents and my brother know my financial situation but we're an old school family unit type family. I'd give any of them money, no questions asked even if I didn't get it back. I try to remain frugal but my ex-LTR probably knew by the end of the relationship I was loaded. At the beginning she used to brag about how amazing she was with her finances and how she's debt-free and her friends are all in debt. She had like 3k in the bank saved up and I'd l…
/r/askTRP28/02/17 08:44 PM
1

I'm vegetarian, and have been most of my life. I have no concept on the taste of meat anymore so it really doesn't bug me and I never feel I'm missing out. Yeah, it's a pain sometimes because you're always looking for the vegetarian options at restaurants and some restaurants only have a few vegetarian options (and the worst ones are the ones that give you a salad and call it a meal). The worst part is in every new social group you'll be asked questions about it. It gets a bit repetitive and ann…
/r/askTRP28/02/17 02:48 PM
1

What do you think about him?
/r/askTRP27/02/17 08:19 PM
1

If you're Chad, a set of good pics will get you far in terms of getting laid on these pics. Personally, I had good luck on both Tinder and Bumble last year. I wasn't RP at all so I wasn't able to capitalize every opportunity but they were there. This year, I have better pictures and I haven't even got much of a nibble aside from the land whales which I don't care for. Not sure if girls are getting pickier or I need to revamp my pics again.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 08:02 PM
1

Nice work man, looking sick. One concern I have is that you probably aren't hitting your micro-nutrient needs with this diet. The shitty reality is that you need a variety of foods to hit micro-nutrients properly (which is important for mental health as well as other myriad of things). I'd at least take a multi for good measure. Edit: Also curious to know, are fat burners of any use? Never tried them, I heard they're mainly placebo, any more info on that?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 07:36 PM
1

I've learnt to cut my own hair, Skin fade, 2 on top. I need to learn how to do this. I generally look better with shorter hair with a skin fade on the sides because my hair is all wavy/curly. Any recommendations on where I can learn this (especially a good fade)? I think doing it yourself is great but you can never get it perfectly like a barber can just because of the angle of your hands.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 03:57 PM
2

It's too bad you got caught up as the rebound. But this post isn't even a valid question, you know what to do. What sucks is, she's going right back to her ex after you break it off. You got played, son. Cut your losses.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 03:38 PM
1

I have a love/hate relationship with video games. I built my first gaming PC when I was 18, and got into gaming quite heavily after that. I have some amazing times and fond memories of some of the things I did in some MMOs (I lead one of the strongest guilds in one of these MMOs and people still remember my name when I log on once every blue moon. I'll have players I never heard of saying things like "Omg! Are you really ___?! I saw you in that video...etc."). I still have online friends I chat …
/r/askTRP27/02/17 03:24 PM
6

Ignore her past, and stop looking for a relationship at your age. You're young, focus on learning how to plate girls and don't worry about LTRs until you've got two dozen girls under your belt.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 01:46 PM
2

Pretty much this. Can bitch about all you want but it is what it is. Either you can join in on the fun, and forsake the idea of marriage or endeavor in the fruitless pursuit of finding your unicorn.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 08:59 PM
6

Too late for that. Enjoy the decline.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 08:44 PM
15

If there is one thing that gets the red pill angry, it’s minorities chasing white girls. Maybe I haven't been around long enough, but I've literally never seen this around here.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 08:34 PM
0

I'd never LTR a girl who does any type of drugs for recreation. Something about a girl who smokes inverts my dick. Whether or not smoking is a red flag for a LTR, I don't know or care (probably is though). I did a weed spacecake in Amsterdam once to see the fuss about weed and that was the only time I ever did weed (or any drug for that matter). I wouldn't LTR one that has any usage history. I was previously of the mentality that I'm ok with drinking in moderation because it's a social thing to …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 08:09 PM
13

She is too insecure for a FFM and I can understand it, as at the beginning of our relationship, I was the one who was mostly insecure, so I know how it feels.. Sometimes I think I'm perfectly cool being the most insecure guy in the world.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 07:57 PM
10

It's always somehow a valid excuse when things go wrong. "Omg, sorry, I was drunk and it just happened"... it's literally an excuse absolving them of any responsibility and for some reason they think it's valid. Yeah, no thanks. My ex-LTR was a party girl that had a history of drinking every day and I knew it wouldn't work out because I don't drink for this very reason (even though she calmed down to once a month while with me on her own). I just wanted steady pussy at the time not knowing what …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 07:42 PM
2

This is a good point. All I did was work and I achieved a great career as a result, but I never really YOLO'd. I started to give more YOLO advice to folks because I'm probably projecting that it's right in my situation, but you're right in that people should look for a balance.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 07:24 PM
13

You cannot negotiate desire. My post isn't meant to invalidate this statement nor was it really trying to interfere with it. Your services include making her tingle by making sure your services are high in demand. But the price she is willing to pay will increase if she knows your business is a valuable commodity. Even if she is super attracted to you, if you get into the contract pre-maturely, she will do less than if you had negotiated a higher price. For example, if you had been paying for he…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 05:14 PM
2

A little bit of management is ok but if this kind of stuff happens too often, it's not a good LTR in my eyes. I think it's alright if you ghost her for a day but you have to make it seem like it didn't phase your mood. Often it's not worth having an LTR with a girl with male friendships she likes to keep around (especially true if you don't have female friendships). Most women don't even understand why it's a bad thing and explaining it to them isn't worth it. My ex-LTR would be in situations li…
/r/askTRP24/02/17 04:35 PM
1

So how does this relate to 40-something women? First, if, as a woman, you're STILL only interested in the top-20% of men, then those same men now embrace that they can choose among a WIDE range of top-quality women. Not sure how much this claim holds up in reality since I'm still in my 20s, but it's funny how the tables turn if true.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 02:54 PM
3

Yeah, I also think 15-20 minutes of meditation would probably good for mental health.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 12:25 PM
1

5000IU? Isn't that much higher than the FDA recommends as a safe upper limit?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 12:22 PM
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Any girl that claims to have been abused or sexually harassed or anything is literally not worth any of your time. If she's actually been through abuse, it's unfortunate, and my sympathies to her, but she probably has a lot of baggage, and she is not worth investing in further. And if she's lying about being abused, well, you already know why this is a bad idea.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 07:48 PM
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I'm really glad to see a post on this. This is one of my weaknesses that I've been trying to solve for quite some time now. I usually just home tired from work and have to use all my willpower to get my ass to the gym because I'm tired. Tried different vitamins to help me, but nothing has helped much. One thing that did help was getting a proper amount of sleep, and it has to be freakin optimal in my case. Not too little OR too much. I sleep around 8-9 hours. Anything less and I'm sleepy all day…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 07:37 PM
9

Sounds like he already has.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 04:28 PM
5

I can't really make myself see more girls at the same time, when i know she has feelings for me. I should game others though Aww, nice and loyal to the slut, just where she wants you. Sluts are much better at this game than you, don't fall for it. She probably had feels for other guys too, big whoop.
/r/askTRP23/02/17 04:27 PM
2

There's probably some kind of indirect game just from having the ability to create social circles and become "warm". And I don't have much experience in that regard because my guys friends don't have women in their social circle either (figures) but I definitely don't doubt it's much easier that way.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 08:28 PM
2

I agree it's probably worth it just to improve your skills. I however think, most people are probably doing some kind of co-ed hobbies and meeting girls that way, it'd probably result in a higher rate of success.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 06:17 PM
1

Similar to MattyAnon, I don't know about others but I'll give my response. I think I'm still a bit of a keyboard red piller, but I'm actively working on improving. Physique/Fitness: I've been lifting on and off for 7-8 years. Often life gets in the way, and I stop for months on time and lose a lot of progress. I fluctuate between an average physique to fit. I've been getting towards being very fit again Finance: I'm easily top 5% in terms of money in my city for my age. Could use my spare time t…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 06:13 PM
1

I strongly suggest you to start with "The Game" by Neil Strauss. I realize this is kind of the holy grail that started it all, and while it was an interesting book to read, there are much better books to learn fundamentals. I actually think "The Game" has a load of crap that make people starting out more socially awkward than anything. I recommend "Models" by Mark Manson nowadays. Pretty much gives you a step by step guide to lay a solid foundation to make yourself a more attractive individual.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 02:32 AM
15

It's from sosuave. Search 'Secret Society Sosuave' on google and you should find it. Tyler Durden said it.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 02:19 AM
2

Shes been planning this trip forever and has always wanted to travel to this place (her heritage and fluency in their language, etc.), so she is using our school's excellent study abroad program in order to do so. So she really isn't traveling for the classic fuck-and-suck experience. Does this change the situation at all? Maybe, maybe not. The fact that you're already wondering what she'll be doing there is bad. What are you going to do when she's out with her friends late at night partying and…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 02:04 AM
1

2) If a girl is not being interesting, leave her and go talk to someone who is. 80% of girls aren't worth being around. Why are you spending time with these shitlords? This point is underlooked so much. You should really only care about entertaining yourself. I guarantee you come off as more interesting when you're trying to see if the other person is interesting enough to talk to and there's something interesting about them. If not, you're an alpha who would rather spend his time meeting someon…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 01:45 AM
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Doesn't matter at this point. Your best bet is a firm decision that you're breaking up and not an ultimatum like that. (You can wait until end of the semester if you want to enjoy her a little longer, your choice but you're wasting your own time) "I'm breaking up with you, Felicia. It was a great relationship, I hope you enjoy your time abroad, and best of luck to you." Go no contact and start gaming other chicks after that.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 01:43 AM
3

Here's the problem, though: she wants to spend the 2017-2018 Fall semester studying abroad in Europe. I've heard all the stories of girls studying abroad and basically hooking up with a new guy every week, which is my biggest fear with this trip. She is most certainly not a hook-up kind of girl, but everything changes once a girl is thrown in a totally different place with no responsibilities. This is true. And your girl is a hook-up kind of girl in the right environment. AWALT. Sorry bro, when …
/r/askTRP22/02/17 01:39 AM
2

See this for mine.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 07:20 PM
1

I remember a job posting where they said so proudly they hire an equal number of males as females for a tech company. Idiots don't even have the smarts to realize it should be about equal OPPORTUNITY not keeping the number of males the same as the number of females. And frankly women just suck at tech (software) jobs. Logical reasoning and deduction is a man's forte, not a woman's. Have never met a woman good at programming. They all leech on to a guy and get help from him (saw this at school, a…
/r/askTRP21/02/17 02:05 PM
1

She has a small dog. This is the biggest red flag here.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 01:56 PM
6

There's a difference between funny and being a clown. If you self-deprecate to seek validation then you are demonstrating low value and people won't respect you.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 01:53 PM
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Honestly, if girls can't come to this conclusion of their on volition, you might as well tell her to kick rocks. Start hanging out with other girls and see how fast the hamster spins the other direction.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 01:49 PM
2

I know I've thrown away decent LTRs (as plates) because I got too focused on them and lost my way with myself. If by lost your way you mean you erred too much on the side of beta thus giving into her frame too much (which results in a shittier LTR for you), I think many can relate. Sometimes I think it's unfortunate how this mechanism works, really. You'd think investing into the other person would make them like you more (or invest, whatever). But it does the complete opposite. In a way I've fo…
/r/askTRP21/02/17 01:24 AM
2

Right. I assume even if you can get a similar quantity over quality abundance, maybe an LTR could work from that, but if you really want a good LTR, you probably need to come from quality abundance.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 01:10 AM
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You should never form an LTR before you learn abundance. This needs to be stickied or something. There are so many reasons for a man to get into an LTR from abundance vs from scarcity. I'm a LTR kind of a guy and I'd love to be in a good LTR over chasing poon all the time but I've learned that until I cultivate abundance for myself, I'm in no position to be in a relationship. We have to understand that women default to abundance (because men are constantly approaching them, giving them validatio…
/r/askTRP21/02/17 12:56 AM
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So you decided to erase 4 paragraphs, and write 3 more? Just kidding. Glad you're enjoying your new found TRP powers.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 12:20 AM
1

Was hoping to make a similar thread but you beat me to it. Not looking for a movie but a documentary or series to watch where there is something interesting to learn, RP-related or not.
/r/askTRP21/02/17 12:03 AM
2

Men are wired to be polygamous, women are programmed for hypergamy. From an evolutionary standpoint, men have no way to know it's their child that a woman bears so he has motivation to spread his seed to as many women as possible to make sure his bloodline lives on. Women have no innate reason to be polygamous because they know the child that is inside them is theirs, so they'd rather fuck the best available mate who can take care of her and her child and make sure that her bloodline lives on th…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 08:39 PM
1

Clearly, I am not emotionally wired for casual flings and hookups, but I would like to change that. I like how she knows she's not "wired" for being a slut but wants to change that.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 08:31 PM
1

Should be noted this is also how you get alpha widows.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 08:24 PM
0

(besides sex, there are only two genders) Even gender is a spectrum nowadays.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 08:22 PM
1

I'm leaning towards hopping on the BP side of things for your point 1. I have done nothing but work hard my whole life (albeit it was something I enjoyed), and have a great job and a good sum of cash to show for it, but as I get older, I realize I have no life experience. And I don't care about having a fancy house, fancy car, all that consumerist crap. I'd rather be the man that has done cool shit in his life, has interesting stories to tell, and wisdom to spread. I have recently been toying wi…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 07:28 PM
1

The more repressed they are when younger, the harder they'll ride when they get a bit of their freedom. Seen it happen many times.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 07:42 PM
1

Considering you just got out of a relationship (I'm assuming your first)... you're kind of in a weird emotional state right now and you're not thinking clearly. Take a few months (minimum 3) to work on yourself, get some interesting feminine hobbies and then you can re-calibrate. It's very common for girls to get out of their first relationship and start slutting around until they realize it's meaningless and then realize now they've reduced their RMV. You're free to do what you want, but know y…
/r/askTRP17/02/17 05:35 AM
3

No, you're doing it right. Keep doing what you're doing.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 05:18 AM
1

If this is true about the men to women ratios, we men should be should be glad. There will be more women to bang and choose from.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 09:11 PM
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Fuck, even with barely a triple digit lay count I'm only as experienced as a moderately pretty girl was when she was 21 in college. You had me until here... you've had over 100 girls and you're still mad? Leave some for us bros who haven't even hit double digits yet...
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 08:58 PM
1

I don't drink. I usually say let's get coffee instead, no questions have ever been asked. Eventually they find out I don't drink.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 09:07 PM
2

You can enjoy American hedonism for as long as you want, knowing all the while that your endgame is guaranteed by a culture and community that will deliver you a virtuous virginal wife when you are ready, even if from overseas. I'm Indian-Canadian so I don't know for sure but this is a delusional fantasy. I visited India to meet my parent's family and I remember my cousin (who was born/raised in India) mentioned the CC riding that goes on behind the scenes there too. He said, "you aren't going t…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 07:56 PM
3

Don't men do this too? Sleep around and then expect to find a virgin?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 07:42 PM
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Funny man, I was BP 24 y/o virgin, and as soon as I got out of college and got a really well paying job as an engineer, parents were like find yourself a bride or let us find you one. Almost contemplated it because I was a virgin and the girl my parents would find would be a virgin and that I could live a similar traditional family unit Indian lifestyle like my parents. Ended up telling them I'm not interested in marriage and parents have backed off for now (but they're unaware of what goes on s…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 03:14 PM
2

My red flag list has been helpful for decades. Had to add the no dogs flag to my yellow flag list thanks to you man... why you trying to make it harder for me?
/r/askTRP14/02/17 03:10 PM
2

I would never ask a woman what her n-count is because what's the point? But I can vet her as a femininity provider through many other methods. In fact, I'd argue a low n-count is just a byproduct of her value as a femininity provider.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 02:46 PM
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My personal standard for LTRs if I were to get in one (not necessarily representative of TRP): Low n-count (hard to find an honest answer so I don't bother asking but there are signs that tell) Good family relationships (Parents must not be a divorced. Family unit mentality. Also good relationship with father.) No drugs, very little to no alcohol. Absolutely no getting wasted, ever, including her past aka not interested in a reformed slut. Didn't live some party lifestyle. (I don't party at club…
/r/askTRP14/02/17 02:31 PM
5

but I guess I came in right time to stop her starting cock carousel Haha, we got a super hero over here.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 02:13 PM
5

I agree with OneRedYear, they aren't trying to get commitment from these dudes in the first place (usually) so they aren't getting something past their gate in the first place. The problem arises when they start putting up the gate when they are getting post wall and when they start wanting commitment. Now that you're a depreciating asset, you have a gate all of a sudden?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 12:14 PM
4

Well, that works great for me, because now I can plate them without having to find answers to prolong "the talk".
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 04:31 AM
1

Stop hamstering man. Stop caring what I am and start caring about what you are. Stop making excuses about why it's easy for me and why it's hard for you. I was ugly as fuck growing up, and didn't lose my virginity until very late because I didn't do anything to change my shitty situation. I didn't come on these shitty forums to complain like a little bitch though. I was fat so I lost weight. I was unattractive so I found a barber who showed me how I could optimize my hair and beard to make me lo…
/r/askTRP14/02/17 04:29 AM
1

Listen to that man. You're in a much better position to find a quality man not having ridden the CC. If you're traditional, even better.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 04:22 AM
1

I'm 26, I don't know. I know there's plenty of older guys around here that spin much younger. Think there's a guy named VaizeySomething that is approaching 50 dating girls in their 20s. Could try and hunt him down for advice. Think he also posted a post on the main TheRedPill sub today regarding this.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 04:15 AM
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Agree with you on the fact that's it's not unreasonable to expect a girl to sleep with a handful of dudes, except 10-20 is not a reasonable amount in my personal standard; you're free to set your own of course. You're saying she slept with 20 dudes and she wasn't able to get commitment from any one of them? Or are you saying she wasn't smart enough to not open her legs for men who wouldn't give her commitment and she got played by all of them? I fail to see how either way makes it better. Girls …
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 04:12 AM
1

Grow a nice beard, learn to dress better, workout and get ripped, get speech therapy and improve your accent, do some public speaking or improv to improve your social skills. When you do all of these and excel at all of these, and you're not getting pussy, come back and talk to me.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 03:59 AM
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Yes, people like to fuck, and whores are fun but the OP is talking about guys that will end up marrying them and he's warning you not to be that guy. If we are to bang these whores and encourage this behaviour, we then also need to get rid of the notion of monogamy and marriage because frankly the idea of being able sleep with every Chad around the block when you're young and then suddenly settle down with one guy for the rest of her life is ridiculous and retarded (to a certain extent, I think …
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 03:49 AM
2

Same boat, I've never heard a girl guess me being Indian. Even when they find out, some of them end up having some exotic fetish around it. I'm no expert but I think the book "Models" by Mark Manson summed it up pretty well. If you're Indian, you'll be slightly polarizing. There will be girls that either find you even more attractive for it or take off points for it (where as being white is neutral, everyone likes it).
/r/askTRP14/02/17 03:26 AM
1

The official TRP general consensus is that you don't get married. You spin plates and maybe get into an LTR. But yes, you can date until you're older and date a younger girl when you're older. The common issue I read about is that the younger girls are usually too immature to be around for long periods of time by older guys who have been around and they're less tolerant. Whether you're up for that or not is up to you.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 03:23 AM
4

And the fact that they have to mention their Indian insecurity every chance they get.
/r/askTRP14/02/17 03:19 AM
2

One guy said, "she's had the rest, now she has the best!" I tried to frame it this way in my own head, worked short-term but it always came back. But yes, I agree, I think those guys have this frame of mind somehow. They even marry these girls in certain instances so I think these guys are either not wired this way or have a different mindset of some sort. My observation is the guys that are cool with it are in the extremes. Either they're in extreme abundance where they just don't place much va…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 11:18 PM
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What went wrong is you made a slut from Tinder your gf. Cut your losses and move on man. If you don't like the advice and prefer more feel good advice, go post on /r/relationships.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 03:59 PM
23

Stop hamstering her shitty behavior you dumb fuck.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 03:02 PM
2

AWALT, but the promiscuous ones make less good wives. Frankly, I don't even care as much whether a woman makes a good wife. If I was interested in getting married, I'd be more concerned whether she is a good mother and a good example for my kids. Sorry, but no way is a promiscuous woman going to be a good example for my kids and no way my kids are going to learn that their mom was a dick bike for half the town and I'm their beta cuck father who married her.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 12:58 AM
5

She was genuinely confused when I told her that she should never tell her husband that because it's super insulting. Guarantee her husband would just appreciate she has "matured"
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 12:51 AM
6

Your introductory tale is not far from the truth. My grandma & grandpa, uncle (and his wife), and a couple other family members all mated for life. They were each other's firsts, lasts, and only's. While life wasn't always puppy dogs and roses, they stayed with each other through thick and thin, active members of the community, large family gatherings, and their loss sent ripples through the family tree. These have been the patriarchs and matriarchs of the family and their loss is still felt. It…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 01:14 AM
3

There's plenty of failure points where you can fail. It can be when you start losing frame. It can be when you start failing shit tests. It can be when Chad who has stronger frame and game than you comes into the picture. You're 20, you just got your first kiss. In an ideal world, you would listen to this advice, spin plates (while improving your SMV by lifting, learning new skills, working on your career) and forget an LTR for a few years until you have a solid unshakeable frame of abundance an…
/r/askTRP11/02/17 03:55 AM
2

The honest truth is that you shouldn't be looking to LTR right now because you're inexperienced and there's a good chance you'll fail anyway (whether it be sooner or later). This is also most likely a oneitis as the other comment mentioned. But you won't listen just like every other guy that finds the first girl that shows him interest (who has a lot in common and is cool/interesting). You'll get heartbroken, then you'll be back here asking for advice again. We'll be waiting. Enjoy it for what i…
/r/askTRP11/02/17 02:41 AM
1

No, companies don't take back their offer unless they're absolute trash. The typical worst case is the boss will tell him "I can't do any better, take it or leave it." Best case, he negotiated an even better offer. If he tells him to take the job, he can just go take it, win-win situation.
/r/askTRP11/02/17 02:36 AM
-1

Any job that hires after the first interview is a red flag. The same exact thing popped into my head when I read that. I'd be cautious too. OP: I'd counter your current boss's counter offer with slightly higher since you're coming from a position of abundance now. "If you could bump it up to xxx$ and also give me an extra week of vacation, I'll accept your offer"...
/r/askTRP11/02/17 12:15 AM
3

When dad only worries about debt and making money, dad isn't around to actually be there to cheer his son on at a ball game or help introduce him to talking to women in public or challenge him to get his ass off the video game and go and do something. An interesting observation I've made is usually the most unfit people to raise kids are the ones having kids (see fat whales on welfare, deadbeat fathers, etc.) and the men with the capability to raise fantastic children due to their vast array of …
/r/askTRP10/02/17 06:07 PM
1

You can probably make your LTR better by using a bit of dread since there is no indication that it's terrible and you say she's a great mother. You can also break up with her if you wish to do so and want to bang a bunch of chicks. It sucks for the kid, but he will adapt. Ultimately, the choice is yours. So I now feel that I could’ve done better – and that I haven’t experienced enough, because I never had the opportunity to bang a f*ckload of hot chicks. You are wired to want to bang tons of chi…
/r/askTRP10/02/17 05:57 PM
1

I bet there's a good market for stronger chewing gum for jawline improvements.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 02:03 PM
0

Sad but true, although when they get past 60, everything changes. This is when the cats come in to play. Before 60 I think your summary is correct, they have little trouble finding a man and a decent percentage of them hold onto that man. There are just so many beta men out there it is ridiculous. I do not think they are fulfilled though. Somewhat agree. By that age, I'm sure they've got some sort of beta locked down and by that age it's no longer about alpha fux for them so they can possibly be…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 11:05 PM
4

Women reach 30 and their lives become miserable because women do very badly when alone. Their mental patterns sort of create a self destructive spiral and you end up with Blue Haired tattooed freaks who had ridden the Cock Carousel™ too long. Man, I have trouble believing this to be true. It just sounds like a revenge fantasy. While I'm sure there's plenty of outliers (especially those that stay on the Carousel too long), most women probably do just fine enacting their strategy (alpha fux pre-wa…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 09:04 PM
1

Girls into politics in general turn me off. Had a date with a girl who was trying to become a politician. Had a lot of interesting things to say, but I can tell you, my dick inverted when it came to wanting to have sex with her. But then again, I'm Canadian, the hell do I know about politics.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 08:48 PM
6

Maybe it'll be the kick he needs to foster some.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 04:08 PM
1

The best way to go into an interview is just like a date. With abundance. If they don't like you, they can fuck off and you'll have many other opportunities. Edit: This doesn't mean act like an idiot, but don't supplicate. Be confident in your abilities, etc.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 04:03 PM
8

I'm sure Muslim beta men think they'll get their family to find a virgin bride for them, and that's probably what he thought he was signing up for, but when he learned the truth, he's decided to drop her. It's unfortunate, these girls believe "the past is the past" b.s. when it comes to riding the CC, and many don't realize a lot of men don't like it. This woman believed the myth (as a Muslim who wants to get married, frankly, she should have known better), and now she's paying a dear price for …
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 03:26 PM
1

It seems to become more prevalent the more it is practiced. Thus, women who have had more partners will be considerably more likely to seek another partner while in a relationship. This. This is probably somehow intertwined with why a lot of men tend to prefer women with lower partner counts for LTRs. Those women who have high counts are used to acting on the hypergamy. Lower count women have it too, but you're playing with better odds that they won't act on the hypergamy.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 02:51 PM
45

My stomach turns just reading it. This man's masculinity was fucked in the ass in every single way imagine-able. He's been force-fed the red pill, and probably only has one place to go from here. Up.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 02:16 PM
13

I swear to god it was like gods personal dick had entered me, almost right away I made the loudest moaning sound. It was enormous, I knew it would feel GOOD but I didn't know it would feel THAT GOOD when inside. In that drunken moment, I literally could not control myself when he put it in and started going at it, the whole ordeal took maybe 70-80 seconds before my legs were literally shaking and vibrating and I was shouting and my whole body felt like it was convulsing in pleasure. He then pull…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 02:13 PM
3

The slut mode should be on before you've gotten into the LTR.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 12:25 PM
1

I'd assume if you lived a RP life, you'd have mastered amused mastery and could probably get into an LTR and have kids if that's what you want. Frankly, I'd personally just focus on teaching lessons to the younger generations until my time comes.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 12:21 PM
1

What would you consider end game if it weren't for the red pill?
/r/askTRP09/02/17 03:15 AM
5

I genuinely want to see him succeed because he's such an old friend. But yeah, if he and I met now without having any previous bond, I probably wouldn't even talk to him. My tone with him has changed a lot too over the years. I notice myself having a condescending tone towards him nowadays. I try to actively work on avoiding that but I just can't seem to respect a guy who can't respect himself.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 02:29 AM
25

I was adding to the joke but I guess it didn't work out too well.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 02:25 AM
9

Man, I have a soft spot for fatties, I really do. I have a friend who I've known all my life (literally, since the day I was born, family friends). Grew up together, same schools, same high schools, same college. This guy was given literally the same exact opportunities as me, yet we've ended up so completely different now. I followed what I wanted to do (computer science) and he followed me into it not knowing what he wanted. I busted my ass learning stuff, studying for exams while he'd be tryi…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 02:20 AM
8

I see someone is still plugged in. Would never buy my girl more than 10k worth of jewelry and you're talking about grovelling at her feet? You have a lot of side bar material to read my friend.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 01:46 AM
3

If I control my rhythm, I can pretty much last forever. But I noticed the girl screams much harder/louder when I'm fucking her hard and fast but I cum super fast doing that. Haven't found a solution yet.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 11:26 PM
1

I think Models is a great framework for a beginner who wants his foot in the door. I only read bits and pieces of the Book Of Pook but I love his writing style and analogies.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 07:59 PM
18

Basically 20% of guys are fucking 80% of women.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 04:48 PM
2

I've heard that about Tallinn. Will be visiting this year probably. How is the cost of travel there? I've only been to Paris and Amsterdam, and both were expensive cities to be in generally.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 04:46 PM
2

Did you end up banging anyway? Or at least end up getting a free guide instead of a paid one?
/r/askTRP08/02/17 04:32 PM
41

I agree. I'd bet anything that the women from these studies are under-reporting their numbers (even if it was anonymous). The men are probably closer to reality but I'd bet they're over-reporting their numbers.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 04:03 PM
1

What's your question? You know exactly what she is. I wouldn't even plate a 34 year old but I'm 26. Once they go post-wall, they are masters of the game. You will get played and she will "accidentally" get pregnant.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 03:51 PM
3

This is entirely dependent on the company. You're right about the fact that if it's governed by sales people, it's likely they'll overwork you because they don't know how the hell technical estimates work. Developers are usually honest about their estimates too which are always under-estimated. I always over-estimate by estimates by 20% and my manager adds another 20% on top of that and usually we meet the deadlines on time. My manager has a tech background though but I honestly feel under-worke…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 03:43 PM
2

It's normal to struggle for the first few months when you just go the job. It takes a while to get your bearings and learn the architecture of the software you're working on especially if it's a large code base. If you enjoy it, keep doing it and you'll get better.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 03:36 PM
53

https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nsfg/key_statistics/n.htm Notice the percent of guys that have more than 15 in a lifetime. Perfect example of the 80/20 rule.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 02:24 PM
2

Sounds like the 80/20 rule
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 02:23 PM
9

You lost as soon as you mentioned TRP.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 03:59 PM
2

These hoes ain't loyal
/r/askTRP07/02/17 01:23 PM
5

I think a lot of rappers drop a lot of red pill in their songs. The best verse I heard is by 50 cent, TRP in a nut shell: "That bitch there a door knob, nigga, we all get a turn Fuck you catching feelings for? I mean when your ass'll learn? That pussy community, community" The whole song is pretty RP. "Too Rich" by 50 cent.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 01:19 PM
66

I know being a detective is fun but this is way too much effort to be spending on a lying sloot. Should have nexted her after the first or first few lies.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 12:36 PM
1

I don't buy this multiple partners idea. Tell that to the girl who lives the party life in her 20s sucking off every Chad she can and then wants to settle down with guys like you.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 12:26 PM
1

Go to a doctor
/r/askTRP05/02/17 10:24 PM
1

I actually don't have many friendships but the ones I do are quality friends. My best bud I met in school who'd take a bullet for me and I'd do the same for him. Pretty sure tons of people think we're gay. His goals don't mesh with mine but he's the one person I can be weak/insecure around and not be judged negatively. He moved to a different city a few years ago and we still chat via Skype or phone nearly everyday. We watch shows/movies together on Skype sometimes... it sounds gay, but I'm grat…
/r/askTRP02/02/17 06:36 PM
1

Unless she's a very good exception, I'd go as far to say never LTR a girl who has even had an alcoholism phase (I'm biased though because my LTR had a phase before me where she drank every day, wasn't a big fan of her stories).
/r/askTRP02/02/17 06:28 PM
1

I'd say even if you are perceptive enough, it's probably still a better idea to go down the stopping everything path. No reason in risking the rape story over some pussy.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 05:22 PM
5

How do you become a god at sex anyway? A bit on topic but I had a weird experience with my ex relating to this that kind of blew my mind. Disclaimer: She was a CC riding slut, but I had no options so I went with it. I had only been with 2 girls prior both ONS's, so I was still getting my sexual bearings with her. I made her get tested (which takes 2 weeks to get results) in which we'd do foreplay but I wouldn't let her suck my dick or fuck. The day she finally put my dick in her mouth she said "…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 05:00 PM
1

I tend to trim it down to keep it just dark enough to be black (think 8-9mm last time I checked). I've been toying with the idea of growing it longer (and maybe doing a man-bun), but maintaining a clean one when it's longer is complicated. I have trouble doing the lines on my cheeks and am constantly trying to grow back and fix the lines (I tend to push down the cheeklines too much sometimes)... haven't found a solution to that yet.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 03:47 PM
2

Ah you're right, but at least condoms can protect you from that. Whereas herpes, even with condoms is a lottery and you gotta hope you don't get lucky.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 03:43 PM
1

The problem is that most Indian guys are clueless about how much power they can wield in the market. They smell like IT guys, their body language is 100% IT guy, and their entire lives revolve around video games and blonde bimbo porn. Sounds exactly like how I used to be and still have spells of this behavior occasionally. But I agree, if you can escape your behavior and pull off the exotic man thing, you can slay. I'm Indian, and I had trouble with women in general all my life because I was the…
/r/askTRP02/02/17 03:40 PM
1

Herpes is like the most scary STI fear I have (because it's the most likely) and it's probably the most meaningless one.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 03:17 PM
5

It's normal for them to want to be dominated. I wouldn't be surprised if most girls had some sort of rape fantasy too. I think they don't want it to actually happen but it turns them on knowing that a man is having his way with her.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 03:12 PM
2

I thought condoms weren't effective against herpes. And from what I read, a lot of people of have it and the risk is definitely there.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 03:06 PM
2

I wouldn't mind straight up asking but I wouldn't be surprised if a girl just straight up lies to you and says she didn't know she had it later.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 03:04 PM
2

I went to Paris solo a few months ago when I was in an LTR and I met a girl who kept giving me fuck me eyes in the hostel I was at. Turns out she was in the same room as me and I ended up chatting her up and she ended up following me around for 2-3 days because it turned out I looked like her ex. I didn't escalate because I was in an LTR, and I noticed how she started to treat me different over 3 days. Didn't seem to want to follow me as much anymore, not that I cared but at the end of the 3 day…
/r/askTRP02/02/17 02:28 PM
1

Out of curiosity, if you meet some random girl and have a ONS, is it true that if it's not visible, you're generally safe? I'm not even sure what herpes looks like tbh
/r/askTRP02/02/17 02:21 PM
1

I don't have much experience with therapy but I would recommend you read about positive self-talk. I think there was a chapter on it in "Gorilla Mindset" which would be a good book to read to fix up your mindset.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 02:13 PM
2

The first verse of "Too Rich" by 50 cent is red pill as hell. "That bitch there a door knob, nigga, we all get a turn Fuck you catching feelings for? I mean when your ass'll learn? That pussy community"
/r/askTRP02/02/17 01:56 PM
2

That's exactly why I don't have one yet. As much as I would love a dog (having one is really high up on my list), I just don't have time for it nor do I want to restrict my freedom for it yet. I plan to travel a bit while I'm young too so it'd just become a hindrance.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 09:02 PM
3

Thanks. Find the dog one a bit funny since I want a dog myself but I see where it comes from and generally seem to agree with your flags other than that.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 08:55 PM
5

Do you have a list written out? If so, do you mind sharing? Would be curious to see bad qualities to look out for.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 08:34 PM
1

So where does that leave men that are looking for a serious LTR from that perspective?
/r/askTRP01/02/17 08:23 PM
1

Forget the first bit man. That's how you get TWO frustrated folks, and not just one. I tend to disagree. My parents were both virgins before marriage, they've been happily married for >25 years. They have family unit friends that seem to be in similar situations too. You could be right but I've seen a few anecdotal evidences in my experience that say it's possible. But really, it could also be a generational thing.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 04:45 PM
1

This. To add on to this, a man who has scarcity when it comes to sex can't objectively look at the girl for a LTR because he wants sex so he's looking at sex as a big factor of the package. And he then realizes, her sex is not valuable at all because it was given freely in the past. So the man feels like he's overpaying with his commitment. A man with sexual abundance can objectively look at this girl because sex plays very little part in his judgement of getting into the LTR because he's gettin…
/r/askTRP01/02/17 04:19 PM
3

I cringed
/r/askTRP01/02/17 02:20 PM
1

What's the difference between pickup and real life? You do pickup in real life, do you not?
/r/askTRP01/02/17 02:15 PM
1

What do you think about that particular article?
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 01:00 AM
1

It's unfortunate because I think some girls just don't have the tools to know any better and media brainwashes them that their behaviour is normal and they'll be perfectly fine.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 12:47 AM
8

That's ridiculous... I hate that shit like that is associated with TRP.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 09:15 PM
2

I haven't moved out per say because I never had the casual phase because I don't have abundance of women. I am a LTR type of dude because I enjoy the comfort of the same person but I might just be deluding myself because I don't have options (I don't think it's the case and I genuinely believe I'd be happier with a good LTR but I won't be able to say until I've experienced abundance). Finding a suitable LTR is going to be a long battle though it seems and frankly I want to be casual now until I …
/r/askTRP31/01/17 08:55 PM
1

This train of thought has been confusing me a little. I've noticed there are plenty of women that do the whole sex without commitment thing (i.e. fuck buddies, casual ONS's, etc). Why do these women think when it comes time to settle down, they can get commitment from a high value man? They have been giving their value for free, and now they seek commitment from a high value man? It boggles my mind. And they seem to think they're the ones selecting the man. My ex had plenty of casual relationshi…
/r/askTRP31/01/17 08:48 PM
1

Did I hurt your feelings?
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:50 PM
0

Can you really call yourself a man sitting there taking pictures of your wee-wee for a girl?
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:14 PM
1

Once a man get to the point where he "can't lose her" is exactly when he has lost her.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 04:11 PM
1

I've been lifting on an off for 5-6 years now. I never really achieved my physique goals, I injured myself a lot in the past when I used to not warm up before starting which made me stop for a while where I end up back to skinny fat. I tend to fluctuate between skinny fat and somewhat fit. I don't think I made confidence gains or started to ever crave working out either. But being a regular at a gym made me many good friendships so that's a positive outcome at least in my case. To OP: I do think…
/r/askTRP31/01/17 02:43 PM
1

I swear, some men take pleasure in being cucks... I don't get it.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 03:27 PM
1

I lost my virginity at 25, 26 now. A lot of it was due to environment but I was also an ugly nerd with no social skills. As a guy in software engineering, there was literally no women in university for me to be around, and my friends were video game nerds so we just played video games in the computer labs all night. Didn't care at the time but I definitely paid the price later on (see: jealous of girlfriend past threads, etc.). I've gotten better at flirting but am still no where near what I see…
/r/askTRP30/01/17 03:17 PM
2

If you're interested in something more and haven't even brought it up, put your cards on the table
/r/askTRP30/01/17 02:51 PM
1

I don't doubt it, I was just trying to provide perspective on why guys feel that way. But yes, I will probably end up down a similar path. Won't disregard moist holes, but will lease them instead.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 02:29 PM
2

With the regularity of these '20's-itis posts' it sounds more and more like men do have a WALL, and it is exactly the same as a womans. I think it has a lot to do with the fact that this is about the age where women tend to start hitting their walls, so you see a lot of guys around you settling down and it makes them feel like they were too busy focusing on their career to have fun and now it's too late. At least that seems to be my boat.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 02:15 PM
1

In a similar boat, it depends what's important. To me, money will come and go but experiences in life are valuable to look back on in life to knowing you lived a fulfilling life. If all he does is work, he'll have money but also have that what if in his head. The route I'm probably going to choose to go is travelling for a year. It's been on my todolist forever just never had the balls to do it. Besides, unicorns don't exist... Don't make him endeavor on a fruitless pursuit.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 02:11 PM
22

This. Guys tend to underestimate the amount of comfort they provide.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 01:48 PM
1

Yep, my thoughts exactly.
/r/askTRP29/01/17 04:31 AM
1

Good way to put it. Same applies for guys who are virgins, girls turn off and run. And it's funny because they're projecting that they want a guy with experience. I've had girls telling me and sharing their sexual experiences and n-counts like a badge of honor and I'm just there wondering if this woman has any shame while acting cool about it.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 08:49 PM
2

Well if you're not giving her your commitment, I don't see the problem. Go see another girl.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 08:17 PM
3

So you're beta bux and you're asking if it's ok for her to go see her previous alpha fux? You tell me.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 08:13 PM
2

I have reasons to believe that the number she gave me was an honest number or very close to one. Honesty was one of her strong suits. But even so, I frankly don't care anymore what her number was. If I were to get into an LTR again, which I don't want any time soon until I'm coming from a place of abundance, there are a lot of qualities I'd look out for. Some qualities she didn't have that I'd be on the lookout for a serious LTR: Low n-count (can't be accurate, but I'd use my best judgement). Do…
/r/askTRP27/01/17 06:39 PM
1

I agree. On the bright side, being aware of it and somehow heeding the warnings made me realize that that relationship wouldn't last forever, so at least I was prepared for the outcome and it didn't hurt too bad.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 06:28 PM
6

You're mentally comparing yourself to her exes In my experience, this wasn't the case. It was more like, "Why should I take someone else's used up goods?"... and the fact that every single time (not exaggerating) we went out she'd meet or see some guy in the vicinity made me feel like a cuck. Even when we went to a zoo, 2 hours away from my city, she knew someone. So much better that we broke up in hindsight. I have a long way to go before I allow myself into an LTR again.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 05:16 PM
12

Man, I suffered from the same issue with my ex. Mine was worse because my ex had admitted to 20 dudes before me where as I had only been with 2 girls before her. No matter how good she was to me, how much she did for me, it ate at me and I was constantly struggling with it. I handled it pretty well around her and never made her feel bad about it, but it was always there in the back of mind when I wasn't around her. She would tell me about those fun experiences to share a part of her life with me…
/r/askTRP27/01/17 05:10 PM
2

Not much you can do, it's either that or you abstain. Use a condom and be picky with the girls you fuck.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 05:09 PM
8

This is more directed towards someone who doesn't have game/abundance... as a way to build it.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 02:16 PM
5

This is stupid. Let the haters hate, and do you.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 06:03 AM
20

Next time she bugs you for help "I don't really remember too well since it's been a while, you'll have to do some debugging and see what the code is doing." then move on to your own work. Keep varying up the excuse and try to get her to solve the problems on her own.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 07:22 PM
10

Imo, let the beta deal with it himself. It's really not your problem... don't shit where you eat and watch out only for yourself at work. Don't get involved in the drama. If you're asked your opinion, speak it but don't do this rumor crap. If she's being bitchy to you, talk to her once, and then escalate to a superior.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 07:16 PM
2

Same... don't need a super intelligent woman, just smart enough to understand my jokes/sarcasm/roasting and don't really care for her career or how much money as long as it's somewhat decent (i.e. not some cashier at mcdonald's)... Would rather more feminine qualities (cooking, cleaning, ability to raise children well, etc.)... and of course no whore.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 05:41 PM
4

Women don't lose their value by having lots of sex. Partially agree with this but I think a lot of men can only accept a woman like this if they come from abundance, at least close to or higher than the woman's. Obviously you can't figure out it but there are flags like partying/traveling. And since those men won't accept women like those, those women are losing value whether they think so or not. Besides, you'll always get trickle truth for this and the truth eventually does come out.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 08:21 PM
4

What are the golden years out of curiosity?
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 04:58 AM
5

That is the weirdest thing I've heard to be insecure about. No one cares about your name, seriously. And no women is attracted to a man because of his name. If you can't get over it just give yourself a nickname and tell people that's your name. And if you don't want to do that, get an official name change.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 01:53 PM
17

Seems generally fine to me, sometimes you can be vague about committing in the future. "Right now I'm not looking for something committed but who knows what the future holds" type thing. This has the benefit of putting her on her best behavior because she still sees a chance at tying you down later and sees it as a challenge (both positives for you).
/r/askTRP07/12/16 03:53 PM
3

That's hella savage over a dress no? I can see this being ok with a girl you just started seeing but she's a LTR
/r/askTRP07/12/16 12:22 PM
1

Isn't (A) just being butthurt over it too? And if I just let it go completely, yeah I don't seem butt hurt, but wouldn't it encourage more behaviour like this in the future?
/r/askTRP07/12/16 12:20 PM
1

It was a resto-bar. So I should have just ended it there? Isn't that just being butt-hurt too?
/r/askTRP07/12/16 12:18 PM
1

Yeah I realize I was beta I guess. Basically I should have just let it go?
/r/askTRP07/12/16 12:17 PM
1

People in real life really don't care as much about partner count as people on here, and for good reason. I'm guessing here but honestly think a lot of men do. They just won't say it in fear of being "insecure" and society shaming them for it. I know I sure as hell wouldn't say it to anyone except a few close friends because I know I'd come off as an insecure misogynist. Why do you think it's more prevalent in the anonymity of the internet? I mean do a quick search on Google and you'll see how m…
/r/askTRP06/12/16 03:02 AM
0

I agree that high partner count is not the issue itself, I think the official TRP answer is that it's just an indicator that the woman is more likely to be an alpha widow the higher her count. But the fact of the matter is that a lot of men struggle with this issue of a girl's sexual history. I struggle with it too and I don't really know why it's the case and it's not a matter of just saying, "Hey buddy, you're insecure, get over it." That shit is somehow hard-wired into some men and it's not a…
/r/askTRP06/12/16 02:57 AM
1

got anything to back that up? Not exactly the bonding study, although I've seen scientific evidence stating that the more partners a woman has, the bonding ability is impaired, but here's one that shows marriage/divorce risk as number of sexual partners goes up: Quick source: Here! Data behind it: Here! Another study: Here!
/r/askTRP06/12/16 02:36 AM
1

I'm no expert on plates, but I would think you'd have to force yourself to get more plates as the old ones break, which they inevitably will since you're not committing, the girl might find someone else, etc. So while you're spinning 3, you might get "lazy"... but when it drops to 2, now you realize you gotta replace that one so you get back on the hunt, and if not at 2, at 1 plate, you'll start hunting again, etc.
/r/askTRP05/12/16 09:22 PM
1

Lucky bastard found TRP so young. Read the material, and you'll be ready to take on the world when you're 18 man.
/r/askTRP01/12/16 03:13 PM
2

You, yourself are first place. You're not chasing anyone except your ambition. Girls are chasing you and you let them be a part of your amazing life, and if one meets all YOUR criteria, you'll keep her around while she is good to you. That's the frame you need to have.
/r/askTRP01/12/16 02:54 PM
1

I'm somewhat like this and the real solution I think is that you have to gain the social ability to integrate into any group fast. The alternative is what I do that you don't put yourself in those situations where you'll be perceived as lower value. My LTR has a group of friends who are very extroverted and if I were to go hang out with them, I'd probably somewhat be conservative in the conversations because it's their group vs me. So I just don't go hang out with her friends for now. But this l…
/r/askTRP01/12/16 02:49 PM
1

Trying to figure out what this line is questioning is going towards. But to answer your question, most likely I'd try to get the past vetting out of the way early on next time. And most women won't be honest about it unless you're non-judgmental about it so you have to tread carefully. But really, you can't know for sure because women will lie. But you can look for the signs. For example, girls that party a lot tend to skew on the wild side. Look at her blowjob skills (this was deceptive for me …
/r/askTRP29/11/16 09:09 PM
1

I'm well aware it's possible but her reaction was very much rejecting the idea of letting me call her that at first. Honestly the kinkiest shit she's done to my knowledge is eating chocolate of each other's bodies, she brought it up as if it was some fascinating experience when we first met. But really, there's no use in trying to figure that out. Besides, I don't plan to get married at this point. Edit: Oh and I welcome some kinky ideas if that's not kinky. Would love to push it further if I'm …
/r/askTRP29/11/16 08:04 PM
1

I think she's a great girl in fact. I truly believe she's just living to the best of her ability. How society told her she'd find happiness. The issue lies within me entirely for not having explored on my own and building abundance. Had I met her if I had slept with many many women, I'm sure I'd see her in a different light. I'd have my own reference experiences to relate to. So now when she brings up guys from her past, it bugs the hell out of me, because I can't relate to it at all.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 07:59 PM
1

Well I've fucked her outside in a forest in the day time, I've tied her up to her bed on multiple occasions and fucked her. I call her my sex slave and call her a dirty whore/slut in bed all I want. And we went out in her dad's private jacuzzi naked in the cold, almost fucked in there but didn't work under water. Next on my list is to get her to buy a remote controlled vibrator/dildo and take her to a restaurant or bar. I'm looking for more ideas to be honest, since she's open to trying them, I …
/r/askTRP29/11/16 06:26 PM
3

Speaking from my experience, I might have a bit of oneitis going on for my LTR, but not really, I've had a lot worse oneitis's. I struggle with the n-count of my LTR, but I'm getting the wild sex from her, in fact I'm fairly certain I'm getting the best sex she's ever given anyone. I've made her do some kinky shit... For me I think it's because I didn't get the chance to raise up my own n-count very much. The solution in my opinion is to go out and bang more girls and eventually you get to the p…
/r/askTRP29/11/16 04:25 PM
9

Headspace is nice but it's really not worth paying for in my opinion. The guy just repeats the same thing in each mp3 for the most part with little twists. I'd just get the trial (I think they have one) and repeat it if you really need it but, ideally just sit there and focusing on your breath is just as effective. I did like the organization of it though.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 04:02 AM
6

She doesn't want to overtly know you have lots of other girls, only covertly. You can talk about your best sexual experience, but keep it as an idea, don't go assigning faces to them.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 05:53 PM
4

Idk, I got it sometimes but not all the time... I think it usually comes up later down the line. It's also more common towards younger girls and girls that have a low n-count or a bit insecure about lacking experience maybe. Girls that have higher or higher than average n-counts usually don't ask in my experience because they probably don't want to give theirs. Also, maybe don't talk about your past relationship. Just be mysterious about it. I think it probably does lean towards the bb potential…
/r/askTRP24/11/16 05:22 PM
2

No, men and women are different. Pre-selection applies for women, not men. Men usually don't care if a woman is wanted by other men as long as he finds her hot. And for an LTR, she has to have non-slutty qualities so sleeping with a lot of guys is slutty and it bugs you as a man. Women find it attractive when other women want him. It means he's confident and gets what he wants. This is why most girls don't want a virgin man.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 05:14 PM
8

This is also probably a good way to get her to disclose a closer count to her real one. If you say "more than you" with a cheeky grin, she'll see it as competition and might disclose hers. "Well, I've been with 20, bet you haven't been with more than that." And you've gotten info without giving any. And now you can classify her as a plate and not a LTR material.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 05:10 PM
0

Why do you care? It's probably different for every person. There's no formula here...
/r/askTRP22/11/16 11:20 PM
1

That sounds like an ideal situation to be in. How long did it take you to get to this level?
/r/askTRP22/11/16 08:07 PM
7

I just try to chase strength on my compound movements, but do volume after those movements. i.e. leg day, do heavy squats 3-6 reps... the rest will be leg press high volume and other accessory exercises high volume. Might be bro-science, just seems to work for me.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 04:58 PM
10

I've thought about this as well, especially as a late bloomer. I'm in my mid 20s now and only now have I gotten the chance to start exploring these hedonistic pleasures. Was working on a stem degree and was basically a beta BP nerd who thought a girl would eventually come. Meanwhile everyone is settling down, getting married, I'm here trying to explore feeling like an outcast. I think most guys don't even explore, they settle for what they can get at mid-late 20s and get married. Probably to som…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 04:45 PM
1

The sad part is even if the woman you sleep with has it, she'll most likely not tell you about it and pretend she didn't know. Really the only solution is celibacy and since we don't want that, to sleep with younger girls, and girls with low n-count. I'm curious to know if most people that have it and know that they do, generally tell their partners before they're about to sleep with them.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 03:11 PM
2

VZ: "You should go date other guys. I will only seem like more of a prince by comparison." How is this getting her fidelity though? Didn't you just say she's free to pursue other guys here? Are you just assuming she won't pursue other guys and if she does, you drop her? Seems like if a decent guy pursues her alongside you, it's an easy way for her hamster to allow her to spin her own "plates". I realize I'm probably looking at this from the male perspective but seems like you're not really getti…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 02:13 AM
6

How do you get fidelity without giving it? My understanding is normally you'd avoid the talk spinning plates for as long as possible but if she brings it up and you put it off, she's free to sleep around. Just curious how her committing without you doing the same works.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 08:38 PM
2

The number doesn't really matter. It's that the higher the number, the more likely it is that the girl is an alpha widow, which are inherently bad for LTRs. That is RP's point of view. But statistically, with each different partner, the chances of divorce go up. There's a graph floating around these forums for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/16 02:50 PM
3

Female hamstering at it's best.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/16 02:39 PM
1

This is kind of my situation... I work then when I get home, I really don't feel like doing anything, just want to relax. I force myself to the gym and feel good about it after but by then it's near bed time already. I am trying to put conscious effort into it though.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 07:29 PM
1

Even after seeing it so many times, happen to so many guys, it still makes my stomach turn.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 07:19 PM
6

I'd say the higher priced escorts are probably safer than the average slut you find at a club. Try looking up reviews though... some cities have review websites.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 02:59 PM
7

Just do this. I lost mine at 25 and I regret not losing it earlier. I think there was just a bunch of anxiety that kept building up around sex that made it harder and harder as the years passed. Just get it out of your system, it doesn't need to be fucking special. Learn how to fuck, get the confidence that you know what you're doing and that you've fucked a professional. Probably can even learn a trick or two.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 02:58 PM
4

Congrats man, you've broken the virginity ice... it'll only be easier from here on out.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 02:56 PM
1

So you acknowledge that it worked basically and had a lot of fun with women but you quit because you just want to relax and basically reverted to your old ways... Why don't you want your friend to go down that path then?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 08:36 PM
5

That's not what he said at all. He's saying the learning curve can be mitigated by knowing the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 02:14 AM
1

So why did you stop and what do you do now for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/16 02:05 AM
6

Bros before hoes. These hoes ain't loyal, etc. etc.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 04:21 PM
3

It bugs the crap out of me too... put in a shit ton of work to increase my value just to get with some subpar women. Whereas most ugly women can go out a night and be guaranteed to pretty much fuck a random guy. They get to sleep around, enjoy the slut lifestyle and then some beta will say "the past is the past" and settle for that shit. It's pretty much the reason I'll probably not get married unless I've had my share of abundance. And even then I'll be picky. It stinks because I would have lov…
/r/askTRP15/11/16 02:58 AM
12

Why not just bang a hooker for the amount it cost for the travel for a fat whale? Can easily find a 9/10 hooker for probably half of what you spent trying to get a fatty.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 03:20 PM
1

Not only that, but she's had 2 one night stands, which means she put out for others on the first night... and she's the "near virgin" for him. There's most likely a lack of attraction to OP.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 03:19 PM
1

What is the sound of her consenting?
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 07:36 PM
3

So where do you find the non-whores? Or at least less whorey
/r/askTRP09/11/16 03:15 PM
2

I'm in a similar boat as the OP (except I don't have millions)... 26, been with only 3 women feel as if I'm missed out on women so whenever I meet a new girl her n-count bugs me. I've been thinking of going the prostitute route just to pad my n-count a bit but I don't do it because I feel like it's artificial and doesn't even count. Don't think it'll bring me the "experience" I'm looking for.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 02:33 PM
1

The thing is, why would you try to make a high n-count work? We know you're just gambling with worse odds at a higher n-count. Speaking from my experience (which is limited, so grain of salt), I feel like guys get sucked into LTRs with higher n-counts because the sex is better and more frequent with these girls but in reality, these are not really LTR-material girls especially if you want them to be the mother of your kids in the long term (they will give the same values to your daughters, and p…
/r/askTRP08/11/16 05:20 PM
1

If you really think it's your baldness, get a wig man. You'll soon realize it's that. And if it is, the wig will allow you to be confident.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 02:31 PM
1

That's probably where your problem lies. It's not your baldness. You just don't go out to socialize or have fun. Where are you expecting to meet women? I'm in a very similar situation where I'm really busy with work, gym, and my own life that I don't even go out to meet anyone or do anything. It's bad because I'm naturally an introvert so even when I have free time over a weekend or something I'll be inclined to stay in and play video games over going out. I am trying to break this habit now. Ev…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 02:27 PM
3

That's probably my biggest issue. I don't really go to much parties/bars/clubs so my opportunity interacting with women is limited. The only game I have is via Tinder and I've been told it's not the best pool to search in. That's my next goal... to really put myself out there.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 08:52 PM
1

Could you give some examples of how you dress when you get complimented? I'd like to think my fashion game has gone up but I've still never received random compliments from a stranger in my life.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 02:58 PM
1

Grow a beard if you can. With a physique like that you'll rock it well. If you can't, get a wig if you have to.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 02:48 PM
3

This is true unfortunately. I'm in a similar boat where over the years I've got a solid career, gotten myself into good shape, am attractive, started going out more, and still only have limited success with women. It's still a lot better than before but no where near what I'd hope for it to be by now. I'm still hoping that I'm only at the beginning of my sexual journey and will continue to push forward.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 02:44 PM
9

Can you give a brief summary or a link to the study? I'm interested to read this.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 02:36 PM
1

I agree. I was raised with those traditional values for so long and getting out of that belief system is a nightmare. Whenever I date a girl who has slept around, I automatically consider her promiscuous and non-LTR worthy. I can't even enjoy some relationships sometimes because I get hung up so much on these values. It's a double-edged sword for me... it prevents me from wifing up a hoe, but at the same time it prevents me from enjoying a woman completely. I'm hoping as my notch-count goes up m…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 02:35 PM
3

Know her cycle Can you elaborate on this or provide a link where I can find this info? I know there's certain times of the cycle where you need to be comforting and others where you need to be more aloof but where do I find this breakdown?
/r/askTRP03/11/16 06:23 PM
1

I believe you said you've mentioned that you're married. How do you keep abundance in a marriage? How did you learn all the knowledge that you know today about women?
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 07:19 PM
1

Sheesh, I'm a canadian-born ethnic I live in Mtl where it's supposed to be pretty good and I seem to have trouble here, going to be a rough ride in Tdot
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 08:16 PM
1

Ahhh good old Toronto women. If you're a top 10% guy, you're in heaven. If not, you better move the fuck out of there. Why is that? I plan to move to Toronto at some point but hear this a lot. Is it harder to game in Toronto or what..?
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 07:05 PM
1

What are the flags for these types of women..? Seems like it's best to avoid these early on.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 01:21 PM
2

You don't have to turn them into a housewife or anything... why not just bang them and move on. Why emotionally wreck a girl who did nothing wrong to you personally? This is coming from someone who is really freakin' bitter about most girls n-count because I didn't get the same privilege, but I'd never go as far as you to emotionally wreck them.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 04:19 PM
0

I can kind of see where this is coming from, really. I almost want to do the same thing but you have to realize, it's not these individual women that are the problem but society in general. Everyone is just trying to do what they can to be happy and not knowing any better most people follow society and their environment. I don't think hurting by these girls individually, it's going to do anything except ruin a potentially innocent girl. I almost encourage the need for revenge on girls that use m…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 04:04 PM
1

Well, I'm not sure if you've done any programming before, but if you enjoy it, then it's definitely a good career to work towards. Personally, I'd do it over, but I'd definitely try to travel solo during summer breaks, make sure I had a social life and definitely not spend more time on the computer than necessary to do your assignments/school work. No video games either.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 05:25 AM
1

Career-wise, it's amazing, especially if you enjoy programming and such. Money is good if you are good at what you do (even better in the States, I'm in Canada) and I personally think you'll always have a job going into this field. The catch: My life with women suffered tremendously because of it and I actually regret a lot. Firstly, it's not an easy field so there's a lot of time investment in which you need to be putting in work which means less time going out having fun. I was an introvert an…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 07:54 PM
4

I'm 25, similar boat. My solution is to save up a bit of money and go on a solo travel spree for a year. I have a degree in comp sci. I'll figure out my career when I come back. Goes a bit against TRP philosophy maybe but if I don't, I know it'll bite me for the rest of my life. Even if I don't end up sleeping with a bunch of women or anything, I'll at least have seen a lot of the world, maybe learned a thing or two.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 07:15 PM
1

For me, it's not even that. I don't care about showing off to anyone. I originally just wanted a stable LTR and get married to have kids. As I learned about TRP, and started seeing the true nature of women and how most have rode the cock carousel, I realized the only way to get over their hypergamous nature and even have a shot at an LTR without being insecure is to go around the block myself a few times. And, if I'm gonna end up with someone who's had her share of dick riding, I might as well g…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 01:20 PM
1

but they get to challenge your reasons and not lose value, whereas if you do challenge them, you're losing a lot of value. Hit the nail right on the head. I read a lot of your posts and sometimes I know these things subconsciously but you can articulate them into words which I can't. It's really cool reading some of your posts and then realizing subconsciously I see this to be true but I wasn't able to articulate this thought with words. Not sure that makes sense, but there's a lot to learn from…
/r/askTRP17/10/16 02:24 PM
1

That's brutal. True riders I guess. I find it astounding there's guys that literally don't care for a 50+ number... I know I wouldn't be able to LTR something like that.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 06:12 PM
2

I think you hit the way I feel with a nail on the head. But I don't believe that most of them ever face major consequences. Even the ones that get married and divorced, get unfair advantage and take half the guy's shit who was probably making those sacrifices. We're lucky in a sense because we've come to this realization, but I don't for a second believe that those 'traveler' type girls face any major consequences. There may be the occasional cat lady or lost soul, but most lock up a beta and ri…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 06:05 PM
1

Well what I see as the disgusting part is, these girls go on travel trips knowing there's no relationship that the guy will give and go have casual sex just cuz he's hot even though there will be no commitment and it's given. I think that's what's more irksome than the girl who goes to the bar, tries to have a relationship by putting out and fails.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 12:53 PM
1

That's really how I'm looking at it. As a process that I need to improve until I become good at it and hopefully eventually it'll be fun as you say. Wish I started at 18, I'd be in good shape by now at 26.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 10:03 PM
2

Plating is better I think. Would be nice to LTR her because she's been good in other ways but don't think it's worth the investment. I think nearing 20, even most BPers would stay away. She herself said she knows her count is high. Unfortunate.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 09:56 PM
1

I think this is what I need to do. But I feel like if I go alone it's going to be even more difficult to grab my balls and make moves on girls... especially sober. I guess there will be some awkward nights where I just stand there, do nothing and go home?
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 05:29 PM
1

How do I put myself out there? As a guy who doesn't drink and doesn't have party type friends, I almost never go to bars/clubs/parties and even if I do, I don't drink so I don't have much to do there. Have thought about starting, but would have to make friends that are into that lifestyle.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 03:34 PM
11

I think it gets me more because I started seeing a girl recently who I fucked on the first date, and did a lot of solo travelling. Mentioned having 5 LTRs and 13 random dinks in her during her travels. I guess this wouldn't bother guys with a very sex-positive frame... but unfortunately I'm not there yet. But you're right. I should worry about myself first and foremost.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 02:13 PM
4

Just do coffee/ice cream and a walk somewhere for free. Don't waste money until you've fucked. Once you've fucked, the dynamics will usually change and she won't care if she has to pay.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 02:01 PM
114

I'm new to TRP so this makes me a bit angry for some reason... I had to work my ass off to become the type of dude that gets pussy and even then I barely get some (and if I do, I have to do all the work) These girls go on Tinder, pick any alpha dude they want, suck random dick in Paris and one day some guy will LTR/marry these girls and say the past is the past while providing them with resources, love and commitment. Is it normal I feel this type of anger? It's almost like I'm disgusted or repu…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 01:51 PM
1

Yeah I guess it's on me to find some things I might like and start trying them. My hobbies have been lifting, programming and reading up until now but I definitely need to get more social.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 01:36 PM
1

Oh I'm well aware of that, but you can still get a good physique natty and it might not be those 6% perfect physiques but in my opinion, it's probably more than enough for your SMV. You could also probably maintain it relatively easily while focusing your efforts in another SMV raiser.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 01:20 PM
1

I actually quit video games while I was improving myself because I sank too much time into it and it was a great decision. I probably need new hobbies, preferably ones that involve women.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 01:14 PM
1

Any particular groups you recommend?
/r/askTRP12/10/16 01:13 PM
1

And where do I go do that when I have no social friends? That was my main question but it seems like I need to find some social activities.
/r/askTRP12/10/16 01:12 PM
1

I guess this is personal preference, but if you've been lifting 4 years, shouldn't you already have a solid physique? At a certain point I think maintaining would be ideal instead of going the whole bodybuilding route and looking like Ronnie Coleman. How would that increase your SMV exactly? Personally don't see it worth it. Being in shape and near natty limit is a perfect physique to have in my eyes, maintaining that while increasing your SMV through style, career, other hobbies would be more u…
/r/askTRP12/10/16 12:45 AM
2

Thanks, this helps. You say get out though, but where does a non-smoker/drinker go to meet people? And by myself?
/r/askTRP11/10/16 09:56 PM
2

Marriage material women would be nice too but I wouldn't know where to look especially for those.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 09:54 PM
1

Montreal
/r/askTRP11/10/16 08:29 PM
1

Good question... I guess fucking hot women in general would be great but yes eventually I want a quality woman for a LTR.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 08:10 PM
1

Never really cold approached. Seem to read hit and miss stories with it but I'll give it a shot. As for focusing on myself, I have done so for 25 years and went without getting laid... albeit a lot of great things came out of it, a good career, money, travels, health, but women always seemed to be out of the picture for me for some reason. But Tinder helped me make progress, so there's that. I just want to make friends and meet more people in general, but don't get out much.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 07:56 PM
1

I don't get a high match rate and I'm generally better at conveying value in person. Tinder is a nice supplement but I'd really like to meet more women.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 07:47 PM
2

Do you mean cold approaches? As for Tinder... TRP seems to suggest Tinder girls aren't generally LTR worthy. I'll continue this path but Tinder seems to be a supplement rather than where my main focus in terms of finding girls should be. I'm looking for that main focus..
/r/askTRP11/10/16 07:46 PM
2

I don't mind a high value girl who wants to be exclusive at some point. In fact, that's what I want.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 07:14 PM
1

You do cold approaches? Does that generally work well? And same here... I don't really drink so going to the bar is somewhat pointless too for me unless I start drinking just for the sake of picking up women but I don't want to go that route.
/r/askTRP11/10/16 06:31 PM
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