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It depends because love is love. If I like that person, I can accept their body count but he must do STDs test before he wanna have sex with me. I will appreciate the honesty. Some people can lie about this. So it is hard to know sometimes.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/23 04:11 AM
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It is not a red flag to lose your virgin late. It takes time to be ready to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:36 AM
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Can stand bitter men who complained about how hard it is to get a woman. Complaining why men should do this and that. No matter how many time you deny it, women will always have it easy. Why? There are guys who like hard to get women. Most men don't like easy girls. When you are easy to get, you aren't interesting. Some men who cant compete with these men, cant handle this. That's just how it is. You dont like why men have to pursue women all the time? Then, change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:58 AM
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Women will always have that advantage in dating. If men dont like it, change it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 05:40 AM
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Get to know him longer, who knows you can fall in love with him but if you cant, dont force yourself. Make sure he accept your son sincerely, not doing it to impress you. Tbh, you are still young. You probably can find someone better than him. You are not in the 50s or 60s where it is hard to get a man.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/23 04:00 PM
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The problem is when you tell them what you think, they cant accept it as a different opinion. But i think it is true though, if you hate gender problem so much, don't date. Be single and have a cat/dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 01:22 PM
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I am not black but do you open dating other races? I am not the same race as my husband. It can work,maybe.Pls dont think you aren't desirable.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/23 06:59 AM
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For me, being in the 30s is more loving and a lot of understanding as I am more mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:54 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 09:30 AM
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You need to find people who have the same interests as you. If one doesnt works,try others. Maybe you need to mingle with people more.As an introvert, I enjoy seeing or talking to talkative people. It exhausts me and in the end, I need to recharge but it does not mean I hate it. Too reserved can look intimidating or not friendly to some people.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/23 09:25 AM
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We don't watch classic movies. Sometimes we watch Disney movies lol. Sorry can't help 🥹
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 06:04 AM
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I don't think this man can make you happy. If you marry him, you will get resentment a lot. I would end the relationship and find someone new. I know this is easier said than done. Think of yourself too. I married my husband last year after being together for almost 3 years. I thought I knew him well before marriage. We had a lot of fight for several months after marriage. But we always know our love is strong and we both changed for the good. Now, we are stronger than ever. Try to talk to him f…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/23 07:11 AM
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You need to communicate to him and tell him what you like him to do. Suggest him the position you like or any toys that you need. It will make the sex more fun. Dont fake it. You need to be happy too.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/23 06:31 AM
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Nope. Not all want free meals. I never coz most guys I met are a bit traditional and I am not here to win, I am here to tell you that not all women want free meals. If they offer to pay, I take it. If they dont, I pay but there will be no second date after that. We can agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:26 AM
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Just because they don't prefer splitting the bill on the first date,it doesn't mean they want free meals or dont wanna pay next time. As I said, I prefer taking turn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 06:15 AM
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This OP. Lighting candles helps. Try to watch a romantic movie with the candles on. My husband and I love it 😊
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/23 06:11 AM
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No. I never tell them that I will see it that way. I never force them to pay for me. Some men just love to pay and dont even expect sex after that. I also dont think men who dont pay for the first date are bad men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:57 AM
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Some guys will pay for the woman that they want and some guys dont. Is it wrong to do any of that? Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:52 AM
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I never pay for the first date(in my experience,the men always paid and never asked me to pay on the first date). If the man doesn't offer to pay on the FIRST DATE ,i take it as "He is not interested in me" Taking turn is how I do. I don't like splitting the bills for food.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 05:39 AM
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For breakfast, you can make simple toast with butter and sprinkle some sugar on it, poached egg with toast, bacon dipped in teriyaki sauce and eat it with fluffy white bread. For lunch, any pasta,sandwich or salad. Chip butty lol Snack time - chocolate chip cookies or just french fries Dinner - tortellini soup, grilled salmon with salad,fish and chips,chicken chop with black pepper sauce, fried noodles with shrimp, fried rice, chicken katsu with rice, cheeseburger, baked potatoes with gravy.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/23 10:18 AM
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Work. If not full time, part time.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 07:16 AM
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Mid twenties
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 07:14 AM
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It is not wrong for you to marry up. It doesnt matter you're a man or women. Both can marry up. The thing is, this is something that you cant tell everyone. Not all people can accept and they will think you're gold digger just because you want a provider. You need to ignore them and find new friends. It is hard to start again but I think you learnt your lesson.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/23 01:48 PM
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When that person is not around, you feel incomplete. You crave for his/her presence.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/23 11:54 AM
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Size is sensitive to some people. I think you are just being honest but next time, be careful when telling about someone's size. Not all people can accept it. The best way is just tell them that you guys aren't compatible.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/23 09:36 AM
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This is complicated a bit. If you have a lot of money and you think your face or body is the problem,you can use your money to make yourself look good. Never give up. As a woman,idc if the man is billionaire or not but if he is not attractive to me,then he is not. I cant imagine having sex with someone that i dont find handsome or cute. I want both . Money (not necessarily rich guys,guys with good jobs) and attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:28 AM
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Yes because beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If you ask me to rate someone,i probably think that person is ugly but you probably dont agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:23 AM
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I only feel comfortable with 2 inch heels. More than 2 inch,nope.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/23 02:06 AM
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This type of man is not worth it. A man who cant accept your past. I dont think he is right for you. No matter how nice you are to him,he will bring this up again and again. Like other said,he cares about your past but at the same time,he want to have sex with you. That is like using you. Do you want to spend the rest of your life with someone that cant accept your past? You must think deeply.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/23 03:33 AM
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I'm alright but they have to be legal. Not underage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:27 AM
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It is not only about your physical,you need to have good attitude also like how you treat them,how you carry yourself when you are with them. I have a friend who is very social. She has a lot of friends and very likeable but she cant get a boyfriend. It is because she treats them like a bro. Idk what people called that but it is like bromance kind of thing. I dont against plastic surgery but if you have money and it is not risky for your health,go for it.Dont overdo it,i guess. I also think not …
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/22 03:02 PM
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No. I will never be interested in someone who likes to split the bills. I had been there and he didn't even treat me good. He was very calculative. Nowadays,girls like me are called 'gold diggers'. Just because I want a provider,it doesn't mean I wont help at all. I still want to work. If you want someone to pay most of the time,find someone who is willing to do that. If not,there will be resentment.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/22 07:13 AM
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I think most men dont feel comfortable to date a girl who earns more. Not really about education. "I find out they're dating women that I don't consider to be significantly better than me." What made you think you are better than them? I believe you are a nice person but kindly change the way you see or value people.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/22 03:29 PM
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It depends on the environment or the work culture. If the envornment is toxic,the people there will not trust each other and probably backstabbed you. If the environment is happy,they will support each other. No backstabbers. I had been in both environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 07:51 AM
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Yes. A lot of people thought submission is behaving like a maid. It is all about respect and love.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/22 05:40 AM
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This is your marriage not her. Not her happiness. My mother was like her but I was very adamant with my decision. In my case,it was racism. My husband is not the same race as me and she said they are all cheaters and like to divorce 😅 I let him met her and surprisingly,she changed her mind and like him now. If you are willing to wait,you can wait but do not let his mother keeps interfering your life after marriage. Sometimes once they are successfully doing this,they will keep doing it. Divorce …
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/22 05:36 AM
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No it is not bad. He asked because he cares about you. Just tell him you are happy with what you are doing. He probably thought you were stressed and that's good he asked you that.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/22 12:21 PM
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Period. Childbirth. Menopause.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 07:28 PM
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The effort of trying to be with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:31 AM
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Men cant understand women 100% and same goes to women. Tell him what you feel about it. Do not be afraid to tell what you want. He probably thought you wouldnt mind. I understand how you feel because i can be very sensitive about this kind of thing too. Let him know.I hope he will understand and remember.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/22 03:25 AM
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You go with him and choose what you like. If you like the ring,I dont think he will say no.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/22 03:19 AM
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We are in a ldr. When he is visiting,I enjoy making him a cup of coffee or tea. He loves it. I will continue doing it for love. Sometimes a simple thing can make a man happy.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/22 03:15 AM
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He is not good for you. He doesn't respect your feelings. Sending nudes to other girl?That is unacceptable. 18 to 22 is considered as adult in my country. I dont think he is a pedo but he is definitely not a loyal person.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 06:09 AM
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You need to know how to dress up and show a friendly face.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 05:57 AM
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His positive thinking. He is also very supportive.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 05:55 AM
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Not so much but skincare routine is very important to me. (Cleanser,scrub,mask,serum and moisturiser)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:27 AM
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That's why I dont like a surprise gift. I am not being ungrateful but I will feel bad for not liking it. I rather ask what they like and buy it. Maybe he doesnt like the brand or the gift and he doesnt want you to get hurt. Next time,just cook him something or take him to a mini trip. It does not need to be expensive.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/22 07:44 AM
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Don't let teenage boys opinions made you feel insecure. When i was a teen girl,I talked about silly stuff too. I also had impossible expectation on boys/men. I am an adult now and I am changed based on my experience. People will always talk about something behind. We cant stop them. People will judge and this is the reality of life. Just stop being friends with them if they arent good for your mental health. Some people will see you either beautiful or ugly and this is normal. Beauty is in the e…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/22 05:19 PM
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Sundress is cute. Dont stop wearing it. I am in 30s and still loving it 🤣
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/22 05:08 PM
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Maybe they feel jealous (not in a toxic way.feeling jealous is normal)but it doesn't mean they aren't happy for you or they are sad because they probably thought they would lose you (the friendship).As long as they dont try to sabotage your relationship,it is fine. As for the likes,dont think too much about it. Be happy and live your life.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/22 12:32 PM
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You aren't being toxic. Yes,there are guys who like overweight girls but the percentage is low. Some people also confused between thicc and overweight. I prefer an honest advice than the sugar coating one.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/22 03:48 PM
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If I can afford it,why not? I hate house chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:36 PM
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If there is no physical attraction,you shouldn't force yourself to choose him. Imagine living a life with someone you are not attracted to? What will happen to that marriage? How you gonna sleep next to him? It will turn into hatred. I would not marry my husband if he is not physically attractive to me. It is not too late to end it.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/22 06:20 AM
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Tell him politely. Hygiene is important.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/22 06:08 AM
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If he doesnt complain,that means he is fine with the way you are. My husband supported me a lot before marriage but he never see me as his slave. He never demand me to be submissive for him. I know some people think men who are generous will always want something in return. Not all men are like that. Just keep loving him. Make him feel loved always. If you have more money,you can buy what he likes. Accept that there is someone truly loves you.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/22 06:06 AM
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If a woman wants casual sex,she will not feel manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:33 AM
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I like well toned body. Not overly muscular.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:37 AM
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I dont trust men who followed those kind of women. What I mean is,they probably aren't loyal.If they are singer or actress,it is fine tho. If they are my male friends,Idc about it at all as long as they aren't pervert. I just dont want that kind of man to be my partner. But it seems like he is willing to change for you,this is good. About being away for a week,hopefully he will not ignore you for days. It seems that he cares about you coz he told you about it. Sometimes you have to follow your i…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/22 04:36 AM
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If she wants you to do that,she should have told you earlier. Some women expect men to understand them 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:26 AM
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It depends on where you live. If you live in poor countries,girls will want to be with guys who got high status job. If you are living in a country that has equality,that's different. What i mean with equality is no discrimination with salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:20 AM
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High standards are fine but unrealistic standard like wanting a perfect person without flaws is 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:16 AM
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Sometimes you need to trust your instinct and learn how to read certain behaviours. I had been in that situation where I sensed danger and I was not the only one who felt like that. When it happens,you just know it. People called it bad vibes. Anyway,I prefer to get to know someone first.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:39 AM
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I think you should start looking for a man who wants a housewife and afford to be the main provider. If you are worried,you can do a small online business like baking.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/22 12:53 AM
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Landwhales on tinder? But do they find these men attractive? You should ask them. And are these men willing to give them the kind of relationship that they want? Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:29 PM
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You can hate but there are still men who want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 03:23 PM
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Knitting.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/22 03:49 AM
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Not a low value. Dont make yourself feel down. Everybody has regrets.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/22 05:01 AM
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Most men aren't forced to fuck down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 04:28 AM
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1) For me taking advantage about money is when he doesnt tell you what he wants. For example,he knows you earn more and he keeps asking for money and doesn't let you know what he buy. Honesty is important. My fiance is supporting me and I am always honest what I do with the money. Just to prove him that i dont use the money for gambling or spending on something secret (secret bf) 2) Have you tried to socialize with people at the gym? I think it is good to find someone who is fit freak like you. …
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/22 07:38 AM
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No one is too busy that cant even send 1 text during their break time. For me,it is a red flag. Communication is very important in a relationship. I understand some guys arent texters but usually they enjoy calling. In your case,you are not his priority.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/22 07:14 AM
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Based on what I see in my country,less attractive women willingly support their husband. And the husband is usually young or handsome.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 07:11 AM
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No future talk after being together for a long time. I dont mean marriage only (some people dont believe in marriage) but things like financial issues,house,kids etc. Only come to you to tell her problems and then be silent for days. Act like she cares and then be gone again (to string others). If you ask her what she thinks of you,she probably say generic answer like "you're good person" and if you want to be in a relationship,she needs MORE time even seeing each other for months. Become irrita…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 06:58 AM
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I have low sex drive and for me,it is not a need. Holding hand and kissing can be enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 07:32 AM
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I think it is not really about what you wear but how you treat people. I bet you have a good personality and that's why you are likeable. But in my culture, a lot of men like feminine women. In my experience,i only met 1 guy that like masculine type.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/22 07:21 AM
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My fiance treats me with respect. He doesn't see me as his pet.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/22 07:17 AM
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I prefer to have commitment before having sex.I almost did a one night stand once but I am glad I didnt do it because he was not worth it. That would be the biggest mistake ever. My fiance never force me about sex and willing to wait.(i prefer to do it after marriage,not because religious thing.i t is just my preference)
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/22 09:52 AM
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Being a housewife is great if your partner is okay about it and can afford to support the family. Nowadays,being a housewife is like luxury.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/22 09:20 AM
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Based on my experience,not common. Women can be smelly too. Nowadays,some men take care of themselves more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 02:33 AM
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That's creepy. I'm alright if the girl is 18 and above.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 02:31 AM
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You have to take care of your appearance. Dont look like a dead person even you're at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 02:29 AM
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I feel comfortable and not stressed being in a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/22 07:16 AM
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Make his favourite food.Give him a thoughtful gift if you have enough money. If he likes artsy things,you can give him a card that is made by yourself. If he likes go kart or atv rides or outdoor activities,bring him there as a surprise.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/22 07:13 AM
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I used a dating app and stated that I am looking for long term relationship and I answered "yes" to marriage question. After dating for 3 months,maybe you can ask the guy about marriage. Not "Do you think you wanna marry me?" question but "What do you think about marriage?When do you want to get married?" You have to make sure the guy is exclusive to you first. If he doesn't feel comfortable with the question or avoid it,then you know he is not the one for you.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/22 07:10 AM
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Approach me politely. Ask whether I am single or not and tell me your intention. Lastly,ask my number.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 03:56 AM
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Yes and non poly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 08:15 AM
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I guess you're attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 02:01 AM
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Good communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 01:47 AM
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I want to be a mum..if not human baby,maybe catto baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 06:49 AM
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I love small dicks!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 10:53 AM
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Cute face, skinny and average height.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 06:11 AM
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Not all.I think if you're unattractive (if you think you are),having more money will help your dating life. Most men love to compete and willing to invest to what they want. Same goes to women,if they unattractive,they will use money to attract men. I dont mean to be rude. I just share what i think. I could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:37 AM
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Not all marriages are bad marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:17 AM
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This is true but i dont think it is wrong. If you cant afford to be with that kind of woman,there are also independent women who dont need to be provided. Reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:11 AM
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Nope. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You probably think their gf/ex/wives aren't hot but they also probably think the same way when they look at you. I saw a very attractive woman with average man and I wonder how she looks at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 02:04 AM
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If she wants to pay,why not? In my experience,men always pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 01:22 PM
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You can buy him groceries sometimes but it is part of his responsibility too. If you guys stay together,buy groceries together.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 07:49 AM
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If he is sick and want a break,would you be okay with that? I think he should understand that you need a break.I think he is worried about his financial situation.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/21 06:00 AM
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Keep encouraging him. If you take care of your appearance,he should do the same. Will he be okay if you 're changed? I will get frustrated too and no,you're not being bitchy.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/21 03:20 PM
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Understanding and loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 03:02 PM
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