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I said don’t date them… as in the women you have just described. Don’t date boring broke women then. If that’s most women, don’t date most women then. There is a reason why women don’t like most men. I didn’t say “you said all”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 04:29 PM
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60% of men are single under 30. 30 percent of women are single under 30. So who are the 70% of women under 30 dating? Surely not the same age group. Since you say not older… then younger? You think of the 70% in a relationship (maybe 40 is dating in the same afe group, the remaining 30% are dating kids…??? Since you said not older than 30). But we know women tend to avoid dating men younger than them. Your analogy is flawed. No one is tying your hands. You tie your own hand and say “oh look, my …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:08 AM
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The math isn’t very hard. If 60 % of men under 30 are single and only 30% of women under 30 are single… who are the women under 30 dating…? Men older than 30… It doesn’t reflect real life bc you aren’t automatically filtered out due to interactions with them. In OLD, they don’t make it to any interactions. That’s why it’s a filter. If you interact women are you are “filtered out” - it’s not due purely due to your superficial traits. It means your personality couldn’t compensate for it. Your sayi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:27 AM
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Then don’t date them then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 12:21 AM
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You citing studied you don’t understand. Both men under 30 and men over 30 try to date women under 30. It’s bc y’all say women expire at 30-35. Who created such supply and demand? No, i explicitly said it w reference to OLD. Bc it is used to filter choice overload. Women in reallife aren’t asked out 500 times a day. Like i ask, do you jot interact w women in real life? (I never gave you advice on OLD)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 06:10 PM
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You don’t interact with women ever in your daily life…? If you are going to quote me, do it accurately with context. I am clearly talking about filtering when we have choice overload. This only talks about online dating. The top 10% of men…? Most are married/were married. Most also cheated, so idk if they should be considered top. Idk what youtube debate you are referencing. Most of my friends and I are married to avg looking guys. So who are they sampling? Happily married people or the ones who…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 03:54 AM
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My point is if you HAVE to filter quickly, it’s going to be based on traits you can see quickly. That’s why OLD doesn’t represent women. You have PLENTY of chances to showcase your personality in off line dating. Women don’t insta filter in real life bc there is no need. We’re not asked out 500 times a day. Even the most popular women aren’t asked out multiple times a day by people they meet in real life. I met 3 of 4 of my partners in real life. Were they people i would have been like “damn, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 01:48 AM
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Obesity is not nust a physical trait. It indicates lifestyle. It has to do with eating too much and not moving enough. Yes, there are conditions that makes weight gain easier but it doesn’t “make you obese”. Your evidence is from OLD - which again, isn’t what women require but rather because they are too overwhelmed with choices so they have to filter out more than 90% of the matches. Who would intentionally choose the ugliest, poorest, and shortest, and fattest guy and eliminate the opposite? Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 06:12 PM
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No. YOU asked me what my requirements are for a date/husband. Then YOU tried to claim i was lying bc i didn’t include physical traits about my husband requirements. Which is completely separate from online dating bc the issue with OLD is being overwhelmed w choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:29 PM
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It’s not 63% of men being single. It’s men UNDER 30. I already addressed this previously. If you had 500 matches in a day, you would adjust your filters as well. You would continue to adjust your filters until it was a manageable amount of matches
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 09:46 PM
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Online dating is superficial. You don’t know someone’s personality based on a picture and a half ass blurb about yourself. If i were on online dating, i probably have to set high superficial standards as well. I tried online dating for a few months. Literally within the first 12 hours, i got over hundreds of matches. I don’y have time to date hundreds of people. So obviously, i would pick based on looks first (swipe), then career (profile screening), then lasting bother to converse with a dozen …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 04:50 PM
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My point is pretty clear. if both parties want kids, the woman sacrifices wayyyyyy more. The least the man can di is provide if both are childfree, in a state that allows abortion, maybe 50:50 is attainable in many states, women cannot access to abortion. So there is really not much consequences for men who don’t keep it in his pants but there is consequences for a woman who received the sperm from the man no birth control is 100% It’s not sex that impregnants women. It’s the man’s sperm. You ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 04:14 PM
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Don’t need to ask. They complain about women not having sex w them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 04:00 PM
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Isn’t that one of the reasons incels are crying?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 03:23 PM
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Most women aren’t married or require triple 6. I dated 4 guys, only one was above 6’. But all 4 had earning potentions of 6 figures. What’s the other 6? 6 pack? Don’t care. Just don’t be fat. I don’t have a 6 pack but i’m healthy. 6 inches? I slept with 3 of my 4 partners. Honestly, only one was “too small”. there are ways to compensate. Not saying 6 pack isn’t nice or 6’ isn’t nice. But for most women, they are not requirements. Yes, i definitely had my choice as my undergrad was at an engineer…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 03:20 PM
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I’m saying chikd support is like a drop in the bucket. If men are complaining of that, then they DEFINITELY aren’t pulling their weight
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 03:19 AM
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Yet only one of the two is forced to gestate. Which btw is way more than just gaining some weight and taking a massive dump at the end. Only the woman is risking her health. And in texas, if a pregnancy happens, she’s forced to risk her health, body, mind, and possibly career.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 03:18 AM
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I Also said, even without au pair, daycare cost 4k in 2 months. Congrats on the massive child support payment that covers like 2 months of day care in 12 mo period
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 01:45 AM
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Women don’t have access to abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 01:44 AM
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No. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 01:44 AM
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Personal issue that most single moms have? And almost every working mom? 🤔 Yes most working moms or single moms do use daycare for their toddlers
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:34 PM
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Bc i don’t have hard physical attributes. I guess healthy, which means not obese. My first ex was tiny down there, second ex was 5’4”. No, i didn’t break up w them over physical attributes. Was with each for about 2 years. Husband is about 5’9”, my friends have all thought he was in a diff league (saying he was not attractive).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 10:33 PM
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Tell that to ppl in texas
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:26 PM
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The situatjon op is talking about is a woman marryingg a man who both want kids. Yet the man’s contribution is a few pumps
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:25 PM
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He has to respect people/women. Preferrable good relationship w his mother. Have ambition. Either have a good career or actively working towards it. Provider mindset. Loyal. For me - someone who want kids and wants to actively participate. Doesn’t diminished unpaid labor and will contribute reasonably in the home. Educated (no hate on people without degrees tho) And no: profanity towards people, history of cheating, gaming addict, drug/alcohol abuse
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:24 PM
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It’s not a me problem. It’s what thousands of women’s problems. Not everyone has family who can provide free childcare. What a privileged thing to say
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:12 PM
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No Pregnancy prevention is 100%. Not even the copper iud. Plus, i removed my own iud because it was causing pain
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:11 PM
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They are absolutely different
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:10 PM
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Idk if you kept up with recent news. It’s not so much of a choice in many places anymore. This obviously refers to men who want kids. If you are a childfree man, snip snip. I agree in CF relationships, 50:50 is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:09 PM
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You are in europe. The avg daycare in america is around 1.5-3k per month. I’m sure the child support is different in europe too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:08 PM
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Yes i am married. People should take happily married people’s advice over the train wreck dating pool’s advice. Before i married, i choose men based on husband requirements.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:07 PM
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Each doctor appointment takes at least half a day at work. Each one requires a consultation session. Some may have limited options due to insurance. Again, what a poor suggestion. It is well known it is very hard for a single 20’s woman without kids to get sterilized
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:06 PM
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Ps. You are just supporting op’s point that men should pay btw lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:55 AM
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So it was just an 18 year old who didn’t know her value. Gotcha. My classmate was a med student who was 22 and knew her value, can carry on an elegant conversation and fit into those vacation business trips - you know, where you meet his business partners. Aka don’t bring an 18 year old bimbo making you look like a craddle robber or whatever that is called.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:54 AM
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My sacrifices will affect me the next 60 years of my life (assuming i live that long). Studies show once a woman sacrifice their career, even if they resume it, it will never return to the same level as the childfree women. However, having kids doesn’t affect men’s careers. If anything, they do better. The stress on my body is likely permanent. (And i lucked out, no stretch marks - but we plan on two kids so we’ll see for the second). Idk if i’ll ever get my mind back. I used to be carefree and …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:49 AM
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Escorts are your arm candy. They do more than sex. Had a classmate who was an escort. Charged hundreds per hour, and all cost paid for (dress, make up, etc) and she attended these fancy events so the man can show off and not be viewed as a single loner. So for one evening, she was given around 500-1000$. And it didn’t even involve sex - that was extra. If you are referring to the drug addict prostitute that hangs around the corner and charges 50-100$ for a BJ? Maybe. If that’s cheaper, go that r…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:45 AM
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Here is the thing. My husband and i both wanted kids. His contribution was 15 min… of being ridden. My contribution included risking my health, body, career, mind. He told me and everyone, “the very least i can do is provide financially and be there emotionallt”.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:42 AM
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Yet it’s usually the mom that takes the kid to the doctors and attends school nights. I was a teacher and currently a doctor. Seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:40 AM
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Who would trust you would step up? Men (and probably women) tend to slip after marriage and kids. The men tends to help less and the women let their bodies go further (probably bc they no longer have time either)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:39 AM
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Happily married woman. He pays for all family’s needs. Why? Bc he knows we contribute in different ways. He contributes money and it’s way easier than me contributing (and risking or sacrificing) my health, body, career, mind, etc. Per his own words “this is the least i can do” And yes, he actively parents his kid too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:38 AM
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So you know nothing about medicine or pregnancy. Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:36 AM
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Sperm donation costs the man what? 5 min and a magazine/porn? Did you really compare 9 month pregnancy +/- 1 year breastfeeding with 5 min of jacking off in the bathroom…..?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:35 AM
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My husband provides. The biggest risk he had is a needle stick
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:34 AM
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Dating is prelude to marriage. If you date a bum, don’t expect him to perk up and be that provider 5 years later. I set the same standards for a bf as a husband. Happily married. Yes, he pays for like 90-95% of the family’s needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:33 AM
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War - started … by men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:29 AM
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Yeah. My husband has those. But bc he knows he needs to be an equal partner and loves me, he knows the very least he can contribute is his money since i volunteered/risked/sacrificed my body, health, and career.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:28 AM
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For some
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:26 AM
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Prostitutes charges more than your 20$ ihop meal. You are essentially dating women bc you can’t afford a prostitute?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:25 AM
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That’s op’s point. There are downsides for a woman because of pregnancy. She is contributing her body. So the man should contribute his wallet - at the very least. You can always go make more money. You can’t just get back your body
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:24 AM
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They should both get a surrogate. But most men cannot afford to pay for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:24 AM
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Which is actually insanely hard to get as a single woman in her early 20’s…. Lol what a poor suggestion
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:23 AM
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Unless they are childfree. If a woman is childfree, then they can actually contribute equally in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:22 AM
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The man chooses a biologival child and contributes half a cell. If they were equal in suffering, they should get a surrogate. 4-5k is not much. Just the basics of daycare is 2k+ per month. Like wow, congrats, your child support covered maybe 2 months of daycare. So the mom covered the other 10 months plus all other costs?!? Lol if 4-5k is a lot, then the mom is paying a shiton
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:21 AM
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Most people also don’t work the hours I work. 😉 Even without au pair, daycare is over 2k. Congrats. Your child support paid for 1.5-2 months of daycare
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:19 AM
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And if they do? You think the man who lacks a provider mindset will suddenly become a provider?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:18 AM
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Many men want biological kids. So maybe men should pay for surrogacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:39 AM
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Au pair + daycare alone is close to 3.5k
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:39 AM
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The girls you fuck are dumb. Never have sex early.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:38 AM
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You can simply choose a woman who wants kids. If both parties want kids, it’s still the woman who contributes to said pregnancy labor. Also, CS is a joke. Avg CS annually is like 4-5k. I spend that amount in a month. And then a large portion of CS is not even paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 12:37 AM
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Hair is significant. Science says so too. Hair health is highly correlated to reproductive health. It’s in men’s genes to find a woman w healthy looking hair and it’s appealing. So not being eager for sex makes me a bitch? Lol. Same w not being skilled? Thought y’all like low count women. Ps. Nagging and demanding correlates inversely with how well you listen and ve an adult man. If i have to remind you to take out the trash 6 times… that’s on you boo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:31 PM
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You may not know what he looks like. Maybe catfish. Maybe they used an older pocture or a pic that misrepresented them. Maybe it was a set up by a friend/blind date. Maybe the pic was bad? Someyimes ppl look bad in pics but not bad in person. If i knew they were ugly and i knew i had no interest, i wouldn’t. It’s a waste of my own time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:27 PM
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Yeah i refuse
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:26 PM
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Only if his personality stucked. If he was ugly, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:26 PM
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We’re not powerless, but if we want the same thing as men, we have to sacrifice wayyyy more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:25 PM
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Here is the thing. Men want kids? Pump for a few minutes. Done. Women want kids? Way more than a few minutes of contribution. So unless the man can afford to get a surrogate (or at least half) and truly contribute to equal parenting… it’s biased to men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:25 PM
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Just because they aren’t at the stage for kids doesn’t mean they won’t get there
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:23 PM
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Yes that is true. But in many cases, the men benefits so much more that they don’t want to acknowledge the contribution of the woman and feel like it’s a tit for tat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:22 PM
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You are saying if money is not an issue, she wouldn’t want to use a surrogate…? Hire a nanny? Hire a secretary? Hire a cook? Hire a housekeeper?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:20 PM
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In a relationshio where no kids are involved (infertility, childfree), 50:50 is much more likely to be achieved. Once kids enter, MOST of the time, the woman puts in way more effort
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:20 PM
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If you don’t think women provides value, maybe… don’t date/marry women then. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:19 PM
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You talking about child support? The avg child support is like 4-5k per year. Like honey, that’s how much i spend on my kid in 1 month.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:18 PM
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Dating is where you demonstrate what you will be like in a marriage. If you can’t be a provider while dating for just a few meals, how can i count on you to be a provider 10 years down the road?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:17 PM
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We do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:15 PM
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We’re not gaslighting you. We told you what we like. If ALL you offer is being nice, then sorry, that’s not enough. Like no, not going to date the broke boring nice guy (who probably is just pretending to be nice anyways).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:14 PM
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Yes. They are a loyal guy, had self confidence (not arrogance), humor, interesting. Like dang, if we were both single, i’d ask him out
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:12 PM
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Right? I’m like, even sex workers would charge you more than the cost of a date. Too broke for a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:11 PM
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No. I’m just polite. I’ll sit through a date even if i don’t find you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:10 PM
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I don’t think it’s laziness. I think it’s entitlement. They think ACTING nice (not even being nice) should land them a hot girl 6 pack and 6 figures are well within a man’s control.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:07 PM
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Leaving bc you are suffering from one side feelings is understandable. But you wouldn’t say “I’m not getting what i want from the friendship” Friendzone isn’t a thing. It’s just friendship. It’sa term men use to basically say he’s only friends because he’s waiting for a chance to get in your pants while pretending to be a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 12:28 AM
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Then men only have one job too. Be a good husband. 😉 Lemme know when you find a job that included everything i listed. None.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:07 PM
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He didn’t want her friendship. He never wanted her friendship. He had an ulterior motive. Ghosting is not acceptable of friends. From men or women. So your entire post is really showing how men don’t actually want friendship with women. They just use it to hide their true intention (aka finding a gf). That is the lack of maturity and also deceptive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:47 PM
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I’m none of the three…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:06 AM
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Feminine is not one job. It’s like 50. cook have a kid raise the kid do the laundry wear feminine clothing maintain looks… while talking care of multiple kids be the man’s therapist don’t be a leech (aka earn money) be patient be submission/agreeable Etc It also naturally comes with most things you describe for a man… lol “Have a good family, be shorter than him, no red flags”… etc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:05 AM
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Ex was short (5’3-4”), his inferiority complex killed it for me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:40 AM
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