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Because of #metoo. The me too movement effectively killed off most of the interest in pua. Most of the really helpful infield videos by RSD, Simple Pickup and others that were widely viewed were deleted by YouTube. Also, #metoo targeted pua and pua content creators specifically and made many people who don't know anything about pua think we're all mysognists and potential rapists. Now we have this pussy ass culture in America where talking to a girl is sexual assault and it's made most guys feel…
/r/seduction17/10/22 06:28 PM
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What is your success rate like with that approach? This is the laziest type of game I've ever heard of.
/r/seduction17/10/22 05:17 PM
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Both of you guys are idiots
/r/seduction17/10/22 05:15 PM
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I don't see how this is helpful to 90% of the guys out there though. Your advice is literally "Be good looking." Any guy who is good looking enough to have women do the work for them doesn't need pickup, and even the ones who are handsome still mess up because of bad game. This advice is no good and not helpful at all.
/r/seduction17/10/22 05:15 PM
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He's calling you a bitch!
/r/seduction17/10/22 02:29 PM
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Every guy will be called creepy at some point by some girl. As you said, all it means is she's not into you, but not that you're actually creepy. It's just a way for girls to tell themselves they deserve better and to shame men who they feel are unworthy of them from approaching. But I say fuck that, I'm approaching anyway. Call me creepy, I don't give a shit, I can handle it.
/r/seduction23/03/22 06:02 AM
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In your example, if he didn't meet the millionaire to help finance his wine company and education, Ron would probably still be a waiter. I don't think anyone can expect a rich person to help them out in life like that.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 06:40 PM
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It's ok to be polarizing. I mean it's ok to have opinions or stories that some people might be offended by. The most memorable people are often times the ones who aren't afraid of saying things they find funny that other people might not. I'd you're holding back on comments because you think the others might not like it, people can sense that and it makes you lose value to them. Just say whatever is in your mind. Also remember that if you can't be interesting, then be interested. Follow up and a…
/r/askTRP12/06/20 01:43 AM
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It's a shame about James Watson. He spoke his mind and got labeled as a racist and could not find work again. He even had to sell his Nobel prize because he was broke. But luckily, a Russian billionaire bought it and gave him back his medal. All of Watson's comments on race and IQ are supported by research and facts. But in America, anything seen as racist gets shot down without being considered and the speakers lose their credibility. It's similar to how we speak out against feminism and things…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 07:08 PM
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I really don't see how being scared of diseases = hatred of women. WTF?
/r/seduction16/03/15 07:51 AM
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I went to the casanova fest that's mentiond above and saw arash speak. His topic was inner game and the whole time, his message was "own your balls." He was a really intense and energetic speaker but I think the stuff he was saying was so vague and wasn't practical enough. He kept telling you what you should be but he didn't spend any time on how to become it. Other guys at the event also had a similar opinion of him. I think this reddit ama here is just his people trying to promote his coaching…
/r/seduction03/01/13 04:12 PM
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I know what you mean. I've been to a few pua meetups and the guys who have the most experience are mostly douchebags. Like they will look down on other guys who are starting out or are just not so cool to them. I think they rationalize being douchebags as though they have to always project an alpha image so thy act like they don't care what people think of them. I had a chance to wing with experienced puas, but i have a lot more fun gaming with my pua friends with less experience and who don't t…
/r/seduction11/10/12 06:42 AM
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I used to buy dinner and drinks for every girl I would go on a first date with, but a lot of them didn't work out and it just leaves you broke and sad. I meet girls online after talking with them on the phone a couple times and I always thought dinner and drinks was the best way to build comfort and escalate kino. It works sometimes, but it's not worth it overall. Now I just take girls for coffee or a drink and then bounce them to another place if I'm having a good time with her. If not, I'll ju…
/r/seduction29/09/12 10:28 PM
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I don't know about lightly touching a guy like tha. If another guy did that to me, I think my reaction would be to push his hand away and either one of us might get violent after that.
/r/seduction09/04/12 05:21 PM
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Why is it scheduled for Valentine's Day? I think many (maybe most) of us have plans already that night at exactly the time he's going to have his AMA. Shouldn't Neil be fucking some supermodel on Valentine's instead of doing an AMA with us? I want to see this AMA too, but the timing is bad for many of us.
/r/seduction07/02/12 06:41 PM
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You've gotta stop making excuses and go out to meet girls. If you want a deadline, give your friend $50 and tell him he can keep it if you don't go to a club or bar with him in 7 days and approach at least 5 sets of girls. The only way you get the money back is if you go sarge. Just keep putting your money on the line until you approach so much that you look forward to aproaching instead of fearing it. Sometimes you have to trick yourself into developing better game.
/r/seduction18/01/12 01:38 AM
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The mistake I've made with coffee dates is to just stay at the coffee shop the entire time. Sometimes I feel like I clicked with the girl, but didn't get to kino at all because she was across the table. Now what I'm going to do is (if I feel IOI's from her) ask to take a walk with her. Just walk around the shopping center, kino by putting your arm around her waist, and just escalating as much as you can until resistance. Then escalate some more. If it's too cold to walk outside, have something c…
/r/seduction01/12/11 07:48 AM
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I do the online dating thing (eharm) and when I get to the email stage, I always give my number and ask for the girl's number. It's counterintuitive, but it works most of the time. I think girl's feel a little safer having your number first because they think "Oh he can't be a stalker if he's giving out his number like that." Plus it's an open invitation to move from email to phone quickly. I think bitches get tired of email/text and want a guy to man up and call them. A lot of times, they will …
/r/seduction01/12/11 07:28 AM
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Wow, kiss on the cheek? I gotta try that. Imusually happy with a big hug. The worst is when girls shake your hand or just wave hi (not even a fuckin fist bump) to greet you on a first date.
/r/seduction04/11/11 12:07 PM
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Here's the link to the event. http://www.wantickets.com/Events/ShowEvent.aspx?eventId=94935
/r/seduction26/10/11 06:16 PM
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Why do you need social proof for Asian girls? If your game is any good, they'll like you no matter what color you are. The open-minded ones at least will give you a chance. The ones that don't won't talk to you even if you had an Asian guy with you. Plus, it's hard to find an Asian guy willing to help a non-Asian guy get with "his" women.
/r/seduction25/10/11 04:33 AM
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Yeah I'm by OC. Heading out to Avec in huntington beach tonight. If you ever have a meetup or need a wing, let me know, I'm down.
/r/seduction23/10/11 04:19 AM
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I think that's solid advice man, especially the part about hitting on as many girls as you can and being aggressive. Thanks.
/r/seduction20/10/11 09:19 AM
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I think the thing with opinion openers is that many girls have heard them already and know what's going to happen next. When she said "yeah, sure" that suggests another guy tried to get her "opinion on something." In daygame, I've had more success going up to girls and asking for directions or asking where the closest coffee shop is. Usually they'll tell you, and then you tell the girl that you were just kidding and wanted to talk to her because you thought she was cute. I think being direct wor…
/r/seduction26/09/11 03:56 AM
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You should do it. I go to clubs with friends who don't know any game (AFC's) and they always try to second guess me and tell me to wait when I tell them I'm going to approach a girl or group of girls. Sometimes it's better to go alone to really test yourself and see what kind of game you've really got and if you're confident enough to look at ease being alone. If a girl asks if you're alone, just say you're waiting for your friends to get there or some other reason. Try to build attraction, tran…
/r/seduction24/09/11 12:46 AM
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"Hey I just bought a new fish and I named her after you. Let's go back to my house and check her out." I think suggesting that you go back to your place is more effective than asking.
/r/seduction06/07/11 01:47 AM
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I noticed you don't smile in any of the photos. Why is that?
/r/seduction13/06/11 06:57 AM
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Great video, thank you. But the thing I noticed is that most clubs are pretty packed on the dancefloor. You won't have much room to do many of the moves in the video. Are there moves you can show or recommend for places where you don't have much room (less than 1 ft. of space between you and other people on the dancefloor?)
/r/seduction05/06/11 03:45 AM
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I'm an attorney too, but I didn't notice much difference when I changed the profession from "attorney" to just "Legal." One thing I did notice was that when I changed it to "Divorce Attorney" (never did divorces but just wanted to test out the response) a lot more girls would be interested and ask me about it. It's kinda cool because they want to know how a divorce lawyer thinks about dating. I'd get questions like "Doesn't your job discourage you from getting married?" and things like that. So …
/r/seduction17/02/11 03:12 AM
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I think the quality of girls I've met online has been better than IRL actually. The last 2 girls I've dated seriously were pharmacists and I met them both on eharmony. One was a HB8 and another was an HB9. Most girls I've met IRL are students or non-professional. In terms of just looks, it's about even between girls I've met online and in person. I've been lucky, I haven't met any real crazy or heavy baggage kind of girls. Usually I can screen those type of girls out on the first phone call anyw…
/r/seduction17/02/11 03:01 AM
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If you read a lot of girls' profiles, you'll notice that most of them say they like to travel. So when I email them I say, "That's awesome you love to travel. I've been to X and loved it there because blah blah blah. I would love to go to XXX and blah blah blah there. Where would you go next?"
/r/seduction17/02/11 02:38 AM
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Great line. Gym pickups seem tough to me because the girls there always have their earphones in. But I'm going to try direct game like that next time.
/r/seduction16/02/11 07:58 PM
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One big advantage to online dating is it's a lot cheaper in the long run. I'm out of work, so I'm forced to game on a budget. I used to spend at least $40 a night to go to clubs/get drinks, but now I use eharmony and can get numbers and set up a few cheap coffee dates every week. I know a lot of people say coffee dates are bullshit, but if you can sit somewhere quiet (preferably outside and away from people) then you can work your way to a K-close from there. Plus, on_the_dl is right, it kills a…
/r/seduction16/02/11 07:45 PM
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Hi Nick. What's your best advice for text game? I usually meet girls online, wait a couple days to call them and will send 1-2 follow up texts a day or two after the phone call to set up a date. Is that the right strategy or should a guy try to build up attraction and comfort through fun texting? What should the strategy be after the first date?
/r/seduction16/02/11 07:21 PM
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You're texting too much. Wait a week before calling her and don't contact her before that. If you keep calling/texting her, you show too much interest and aren't a challenge to her. If you had a good date, she'll respond next week when you call.
/r/seduction08/02/11 05:37 PM
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yeah, I know. I'm going to have a FR of a F-close of that some day soon. Just need more practice with my game.
/r/seduction02/02/11 07:16 PM
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My asian friends never go up to talk with white girls. They're scared to death of them. I was too. I use eharmony and I didn't even want to be matched with non-asians. But I changed that a couple months ago and really glad I did. It's amazing how even a small thing like changing your match race preferences can affect your confidence. I slowly got more and more replies from white and latin girls and i felt better about myself each time.
/r/seduction02/02/11 07:14 PM
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yeah I know I should be trying for more. But just 3-4 months ago, I didn't date at all. And every single girl I had ever gone out with was in my own race. So to go from that to making out with a non-asian girl is a big thing for me. I'll do better next time and going to have 1 girl/FB from every race.
/r/seduction02/02/11 07:11 PM
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I live in SoCal too, but I hardly ever see asian guy/white girl couples. I went to UCI and might've seen that maybe 3-4 times the whole time I was an undergrad there.
/r/seduction02/02/11 07:09 PM
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Thanks. Yes I think it is confidence. I've noticed a big difference since I've started actually trying to talk to all girls instead of just asian ones.
/r/seduction02/02/11 07:08 PM
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Yeah definitely man. It's tough because Asian guys see shit like William Hung, Long Duk Dong, and the mafia guy in the Hangover and many of us feel like everyone thinks we're a joke. I know I used to feel that way and I never really considered myself attractive. But this has been my 4th date with a girl outside my own race and now I feel like a dumbass for ever believing that stuff about myself. Most of it is mental and many girls don't have a strict "this race only" policy for guys they date li…
/r/seduction02/02/11 07:04 PM
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Yeah i thought about it, and that was probably the problem. I called her next day and she was still at work. (She's a chemistry professor at UC Irvine). She was still busy with something, so I said we would talk when she wasn't distracted. We hung up and 1 hour later, I got a text saying she didn't want to hang out anymore. I'm still learning so I still fuck up a lot. I liked her and my natural reaction was that I know she liked me too so why not call her the next day. facepalm
/r/seduction02/02/11 07:00 PM
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Yeah thanks. I've been reading pua material for a few years now, but only recently started getting serious about applying it. I've noticed that the more confident I get to girls in other races, the better I do. I used to think that most every girl had strict beliefs about whether to date a guy in X race, but i've been doing pretty well meeting girls on eharmony and I know that's not true anymore
/r/seduction02/02/11 06:58 PM
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I tried to, believe me. We made out and she told me to stop. We talked for a few minutes and then I gave her a massage and kissed her again, but when I tried to take off her bra, she told me to stop again. I waited and tried again, but she told me to stop again. I guess I just gave up after that and thought we would do it on the 2nd date. but now I know better.
/r/seduction02/02/11 06:55 PM
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I think you're right. I had this attitude before that I could never get a non-asian girl, but I try to flirt with every girl now and I think my mindset has changed.
/r/seduction02/02/11 06:53 PM
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Thanks. Yes I used to have that stereotype of myself, but not anymore. you're right, Asian guys have trouble because many of us still believe that we can't attract non-asian girls. But I just made this thread to show other beginning asian pua's that it's possible. First step is you gotta believe you can do it.
/r/seduction02/02/11 06:49 PM
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People have been saying that I shouldn't stereotype my own race. I should've said that all those bad beliefs I had thought about being Asian were how I used to feel. If I didn't have any confidence, I wouldn't have even asked her out or gone for a kiss. I used to believe that I could only go out with girls in my own race, but now I feel like I'm not limited anymore.
/r/seduction02/02/11 06:47 PM
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I saw this on the Love Systems forums and maybe you could try it too. If you're going down on her, quietly take out the condom and put it on. (Have some rubbers hidden in a few different places). When you come up again, you'll be ready for some action without having to take a break to put on the condom. It makes last minute resistance less possible because she already feels good from the oral/finger stuff you did to her and slipping it in will just be a natural reaction after that. I've had 2 gi…
/r/seduction01/02/11 06:01 PM
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That's awesome. Congratulations. For girl #2, if she's willing to go to your place and watch a movie she's what I call DTF (Down to fuck). Just make sure you calibrate right, slowly escalate the kino, and build up just enough comfort and you should be in there.
/r/seduction01/02/11 07:47 AM
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Its a great movie. I had to overcome one-itis too and watching the ending made me feel like no matter how badly you wanted that one girl, there's always other quality girls out there. Side note: HB's love this movie too and I've invited sev eral girls over to my place to watch it with me. Most of them said yes. Its worth owning the dvd just for that reason.
/r/seduction28/01/11 03:11 AM
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Thank you.
/r/seduction26/01/11 09:02 AM
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What's the best way to approach a group of girls when you don't have a wingman? What do you say when they ask "where are your friends?" I just moved to L.A. and will be sarging alone for awhile.
/r/seduction25/01/11 04:03 AM
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I guess Style could pull it off, but it seems really complicated and too much to remember. I'll just stick with palm and face reading.
/r/seduction26/11/10 05:32 AM
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can you describe the cube move you're talking about?
/r/seduction25/11/10 05:13 PM
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Your blog rocks dude.
/r/seduction20/10/10 04:01 AM
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I want to sarge with you guys. You bring a few Koreans, I'll bring some Cambodians.
/r/seduction06/08/10 04:17 AM
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I don't know about fake watches, but a GREAT place to buy fake Air Jordans is nflofchina.com After the shipping, it came out to $50 even. Make sure you use a throwaway email account bc they will send you spam. Still though, they will send you quality shoes. I bought Air Jordan XI's for $50 and waited about 10 days to receive them.
/r/seduction06/08/10 04:14 AM
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