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asorals/r/askTRP11/10/19 01:50 AM
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asorals/r/askTRP10/09/19 11:27 PM
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asorals/r/askTRP12/08/19 11:21 PM
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asorals/r/askTRP09/07/19 11:44 PM
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asorals/r/askTRP16/05/19 08:41 PM
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It's getting a little worrying now. I've seen so many comments as of late stating that TRP isn't about getting women.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 12:45 AM
2

Ohhh. Yeah if you can't control yourself run.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 09:54 PM
-1

I'd plate her, but that's it would ever be. Have you fucked her?
/r/askTRP05/11/19 08:57 PM
2

Yeah we're an odd bunch. We create slangs for almost everything.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 11:35 PM
1

I'm Aussie, we use it a fair bit. Not sure where else it's used.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 09:13 PM
1

It means unless she's going to pay. "Shouting" someone food/drinks/anything worth money is slang for paying for them.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 07:25 PM
1

It has to be.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 03:44 AM
3

Meh. Laugh about it and move on.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 06:57 AM
2

You brought up some real good points and I do agree. Lifting did change my overall confidence and self esteem. Add in martial arts when you're ready and you'll find your confidence skyrocket again. Best of luck with your journey mate.
/r/askTRP26/10/19 03:00 AM
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Damn, this hits hard with me as most of the shit you listed was evident in my last LTR or oneitis. It's funny how before TRP I had absolutely no idea how women communicated. She also used those things to instill dread in me, and damn it worked good for a while until I got fed up and canned her. Edit: spelling.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 09:32 PM
1

If you want to see her again hit her up. They will usually do this to see how interested you are.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 10:40 PM
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I posted something the other week like this. I'd recommend just replying "no worries, get well soon." Then hit her up in a week if you want.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 04:26 AM
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Always assume attraction.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 07:53 PM
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Just agree and amplify. As u/redhawkes kinda stated, say you're charging you don't do that shit for free. Make a ridiculous figure up; say around $100 an hour minimum or something. TBH she might even want to bang you.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 08:07 PM
2

Women will change their mind at the drop of a hat. Maybe it was something you said, who knows. Try to not worry about the why too much just focus on practicing your game and bettering yourself as a man. I know that can be hard, I still sometimes get caught up on "why" or "how" I fucked up. Your time can be better spent.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 08:03 PM
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This is why I love TRP and it needs to stay. I wish I had gotten this type of advice when I was 20 years old. You can't get this advice from friends who are still plugged into the blue pill BS. Count yourself lucky that you have found TRP at such a young age OP.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 08:01 PM
1

Rule of thumb here is to assume attraction.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 08:32 PM
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This. It can go so so wrong if you fuck up. That's why everyone here says only to text or logistics. If your face to face game is decent, you can convey that via text, but it can still be risky.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 08:31 PM
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The best possible advice anyone here can give to you is to read the sidebar. Long story short though, they don't care how much of a "good" man you are.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 05:17 AM
1

Yeah I definitely understand that, and there are other women in my life. I wouldn't say I'm focusing on one woman, moreso the situation. Looking back at that sentence though, even doing that is wasting time.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 07:31 PM
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Most women don't have personality or substance because they don't need to. We will still impregnate them regardless of what comes out of their mouths.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 07:28 PM
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Thanks for the response mate, love your material. You do make very valid points in both your statements. Cheers.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 03:51 AM
1

Gotcha. Thanks mate.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 03:41 AM
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Nah no kiss.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 03:25 AM
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So in response to the flake, a better response would have just been to say something along the lines of - "no problem, speak soon". Then hit her up after a week or so? Rather than leave it in her hands. Edit; thanks for the sound response btw.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 03:21 AM
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I'm also of that impression too. I do have other women I'm fucking too, so it's not as if I don't have options. TBH just ensuring my train of thought is inline with TRP.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 02:38 AM
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I got to admit I was silencing that little BP bitch within and witholding sending a text to her during the week to set up a date. My BP mind was telling me to send it as she mentioned next week (being this week) in her flake text. I didn't want to set a precedent and make her feel she could cancel and have me chasing so easily though. Sometimes it can be difficult to not act like a hopeless bitch. I guess I just have to chip away at it.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 02:36 AM
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Yeah I was thinking the same thing in relation to her interest. The initial interaction was pretty good as well. Called her to set a date and she was really receptive as well. That's why we listen to their actions not their words.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 02:24 AM
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Don't make excuses for her man. What she did was wrong, if you let this go you set the precedent for what's acceptable.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 12:46 AM
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Dump the fuck out of her for your own sake. You are worth more than that shit mate.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 12:36 AM
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It's a compliment
/r/askTRP10/10/19 08:14 PM
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Damn. You shouldn't be concerning yourself with such nonsense.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 02:58 AM
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Look up shit test encyclopedia, that's literally our shit test bible. Your response depends on the frame of the conversation and your personality. I could give you a reply but it could fuck you.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 09:46 PM
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After taking the pill you just realise that there aren't many girls that are LTR worthy. To me that's all it comes down to. It's not that we're attracting the wrong women, we're just attracting women in general, and the majority aren't fit to be LTR status.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 08:07 PM
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I was thinking the exact same thing when watching this.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/19 03:34 AM
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I personally think you acted a bit weak there mate. You seemed a whole lot more invested than she was. She's just a plate, don't get offended by that bs. I wouldn't stress though, heaps more out there.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 03:28 AM
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Try to find the even balance. Think of what's more important to you. Do you want to be a fighter? If yes, prioritise fight training. Do you want to look jacked? If yes, prioritise weights. I know the feeling all too well, you want to do it all but can't fit everything in. I weight train 3 days a week and train martial arts (BJJ & Kickboxing) the other 3 days. Edit: I have been lifting weights for around 8 years now, so I've built up a reasonably decent physique so the balance can literally be 50…
/r/askTRP08/10/19 08:44 PM
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If I'm free when she suggested then yes I'd see her, if not she can wait.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 11:06 PM
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Insecure and needy women usually cause way too much drama. I don't want that shit tbh.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 03:47 AM
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All good mate. We're all allowed to fuck up.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 04:03 AM
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It's just a shit test dude. If every bloke on this sub ghosted every chick who shit tested them we'd all be virgins.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 02:36 AM
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It never goes away unless you chip away at it mate. Thats entirely up to you.
/r/askTRP24/09/19 11:21 PM
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"No problem. See you around then." And then you next that shit.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 04:55 AM
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The only thing you should've done differently was kiss close. Rejection is better than regret.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 09:42 PM
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Women will ALWAYS test you.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 01:26 AM
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I have a similar issue. It was something I used to be really self conscious about it, but I've just lived to accept it now. So you can accept it or get plastic surgery. I don't have the money for plastic surgery at the moment, so accepting it is my only option. Play the cards you are dealt and work with what you have my brother.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 10:34 PM
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Don't stress dude. I'll share a story of mine. I was at the aiport leaving my city she was arriving, I got approached by an older woman (35 she says), I had my tongue down her throat within 30 mins of meeting her, took her number, sent a message, then after a reply from her, nothing back after that. The point I'm trying to make is it happens man, just move to the next. What ever they're feeling in the moment they're probably not feeling it anymore, who knows, who cares. Just keep approaching and…
/r/askTRP12/09/19 09:11 PM
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Vent to your guy friends, not women.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 10:47 PM
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It happened to me recently with a plate. Don't fret, I just initiated once a week to get the ball rolling. Who really gives a shit though, you do your thing and focus on your purpose and mission, if she wants you she'll come, if she doesn't, she won't. Don't fall for their bullshit.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 08:54 PM
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Good to hear mate. TRP has helped me a load too. It keeps me from being a little blue pilled bitch. Still a long way to go, but definitely on the right path.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 08:50 PM
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I just hit her with "no problem, best of luck". and thats it. Your response could work for you, but tbh it isn't really inline with my personality to say that in a situation like this.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 12:51 AM
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Thanks mate.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 11:52 PM
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Thanks mate.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 11:52 PM
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I haven't responded by the way. Yeah I wasn't even thinking of contacting/chasing her. Moreso a confirmation of my actions are in line with TRP. Is there a need to say "call if it doesn't workout", or is that leaving the door too open? (edit: spelling)
/r/askTRP10/09/19 11:33 PM
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Damn. This reminds me of a similar scenario of me and an ex LTR. Long story short I was a little bitch and went along with it, and it later led to her going out on more and more "work" related dates and shit went down hill fast. Looking back on this makes me cringe so hard at myself. Dump the bitch, do not continue from here mate. There are millions of women out there who would suck your dick, why waste it on a girl who doesn't respect you.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 02:28 AM
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Love your work mate.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 09:43 PM
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I wouldn't be ignoring a girl for no reason. It might kill attraction.
/r/askTRP04/09/19 04:24 AM
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Agreed. Super pointless indeed.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 07:58 AM
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The reason it doesn't leave me entirely baffled is because of TRP. That still doesn't stop me from concerning myself with the 'why' though. That's something I need to stop doing as an individual.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 01:30 AM
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Although TRP has opened my eyes to the true nature of women I still tend to become shocked and puzzled at how they act. All I can put it down to is lack of experience after having my eyes opened. I probably haven't digested the pill yet. Only once you've digested it do you become immune I'd say. It's almost as if you'd need to have a few experiences that numb you to it all after you've been shown the light initially.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 01:16 AM
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Stop you from wasting unnecessary time on her, but if she hits you up within that time you wouldn't flat out ignore her.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 11:01 PM
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You're going to let the words that come out of the mouth from a weak little creature effect you? Don't. What she said doesn't and shouldn't mean shit.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 10:27 PM
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I'd be making a physical move on her ASAP. Who cares if she sees you as a beta, get your dick wet then assess the situation.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 11:19 PM
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Fuck that. Men are the gatekeepers of commitment, don't let it come so easy to her if she doesn't show the green flags.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 09:04 PM
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u/wontonloup8 pretty much answered it for me. Alpha M is a really good provider of style knowledge for me. The thing with male fashion is that you can be quite basic as long as it fits properly and compliments your physique.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 10:27 PM
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I follow men's fashion pages and have subbed to them as well. Good to give you ideas of what to wear and what not. It's pretty easy, even going to the shops and getting the people in the store that work there to help you is good enough.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 10:12 PM
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Lift, get a good haircut that matches the shape of your face, fix your posture, go shopping for some new clothes. That's just to name a few things.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 09:57 PM
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If it's in your persona to talk like that it could work, but if you simply aren't that way inclined it will come off weird. I'd bet it works for u/CainPrice because it's congruent with his personality.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 12:28 AM
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Try both and see which one you prefer. Most gyms will allow you to have a free week.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 11:57 PM
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Easy fix. Lift weights and work on your grip strength. Millennials fathers were more than likely more physical than they are.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 08:58 PM
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The chances of her coming clean about it are very low. I'd just break up with her with no explaination.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 01:59 AM
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Do yourself a favour and just cut contact for a week or two.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 01:51 AM
1

This is good advice but I might just text her in a day or 2 Contradictory as fuck. You already made your mind up as to what you're going to do before posting in here. I enjoyed getting drinks with you these past few times but I’m not interested in friendship. I don’t mean to be rude but I’m not gonna waste my time with you if that’s what you’re on. Yes, do that. It will go down well. I expect a "let's just be friends" speech to come from her. I don’t want to be completely blocked because this gi…
/r/askTRP12/08/19 01:41 AM
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As in make your intentions clear. "let's head out for a drink, when are you free?" I know others RP'rs tell a girl a time and a place but I just feel you're asking for her to flake. If she gives you anything less than "I'm free on day xyz" she isn't interested and move on.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 01:20 AM
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Easy fix. Wait a few weeks then hit her up directly. If she gives you another flaky answer she's out.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 01:12 AM
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Legit. They will try and keep you down because they see you don't play by the rules they play by.
/r/askTRP12/08/19 12:51 AM
2

Why would you listen to him? If anything he seemed to play you in this situation and you took it literally.
/r/askTRP11/08/19 10:57 PM
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Don't worry; I'll send her back when I'm done with her. /lulz Jesus fucking christ. Hahaha
/r/askTRP11/08/19 10:53 PM
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Completely fine. You made the right move. My bet is she will hit you up when she wants some fun.
/r/askTRP09/08/19 03:36 AM
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I'm unaware if you're trolling the absolute fuck out of me or not. But I will give you a serious response. ​ Well you agreed to it now, you can say you think its going too fast and you just want to take a step back from things. That's what I'd say, you don't want to be in something that you deep down want out of. ​ You might break the plate, but who cares. Just let it go if it goes.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 10:41 PM
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Men are the gatekeepers of commitment, women are the gatekeepers of sex. If she's willingly giving sex to you and you know it isn't hard for another man to walk through that gate, why would you give her commitment? C'mon man, do yourself right here.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 08:33 PM
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It's amazing that when you read it, all the little questions get answered for you. asktrp is for all the little nuances.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 08:02 AM
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I hate to be one of those guys, but it's all in the side bar my friend. Usually you will find all your questions to be answered there.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 05:43 AM
3

Mate you are literally being flaky to her and wondering why she doesn't try during sex? ​ Why would you make plans then not go through with them? She's your GF.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 01:04 AM
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This. The only incorrect answer is answering truthfully.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 09:14 PM
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Time heals all wounds mate. Just focus on yourself, do things that make you happy. It won't just switch off, it's something that goes away with time. We all need to experience pain in order to grow. You'll be alright.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 05:31 AM
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Just cancel it, don't hang around for a maybe. I'd wait a week and hit her up again.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 05:30 AM
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You can't change what you did, just focus on being a better man for the future. I'd be working on myself and finding out what drives me. Find your purpose and women don't mean shit, they are just a by product of success.
/r/askTRP06/08/19 05:28 AM
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It just sounds like she's inexperienced. When you get a girl who knows how to suck dick you will understand why we love it.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 02:29 AM
2

Yeah I used to make the same mistake man. Sticking to what I know works for me hasn't proven me wrong yet, so I will stick to it. Well you should have set a time and place when she messaged you after the date. Should have waited to reply to the message she initially sent till the next day then set up something. So what would I do? I'd wait 5 or so days to contact her, call her and set it up. Always try to escalate to a kiss at least on the first date man, you don't want to be a pussy in her eyes…
/r/askTRP04/08/19 11:56 PM
2

I'd say that's the key, it's situational
/r/askTRP04/08/19 11:50 PM
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I disagree with this. I don't mention anything of a second date unless SHE brings it up, I almost make it as if she is the one that has to work for it. It has worked for me on countless occassions. 100 ways to skin a cat though. Not saying that this doesn't work, I just don't want her to get the impression that a second date will come easy for her. I'm the prize and working things like that has helped ingrain that into a womans brain.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 11:27 PM
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Fun to bang every now and then, thats it
/r/askTRP01/08/19 09:53 PM
1

I wouldn't either block her, it just comes across as butt hurt. The only time I'd block a girl is if shes harrassing me, in this circumstance it isn't really like that. I'd just leave it, if OP was acting masculine enough she'll come back if she wants to.
/r/askTRP28/07/19 10:32 PM
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How are you reacting when you find this out? Is your reaction seen by the girl if you are reacting?
/r/askTRP25/07/19 02:48 AM
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My thoughts when reading all of this were that OP should have tried to bang the HB9, seemed like she wanted it and was just upset she wasn't getting any.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/19 05:29 AM
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Creating drama is a move women make. Don't do it.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 09:29 PM
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I wouldn't plan it at all, the next time you have the chance just go up to her. The more you think about it the harder it gets.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 09:25 PM
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Go to the glossary in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 01:29 AM
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I wouldn't soft next her, it's a shit test mate. Every woman does this.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 04:32 AM
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"Who said anything about sex, I'm not that easy."
/r/askTRP16/07/19 04:24 AM
4

I wouldn't even bother commenting, you know how it works just keep scrolling.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 03:19 AM
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Your main problem from the get go was not directly showing interest by initiating a date. As a wise man once said; "read the side bar". A lot of your beliefs will be shattered but it seems like you came here for a reason.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 12:12 AM
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Don't try and convince them. They are obviously lost and in the wrong sub, or haven't swallowed the pill yet.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 10:58 AM
0

No problem then man, do what you can with the resources you have right now. Don't beat yourself up about it, it is what it is.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 02:19 AM
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Videos are a good source but are nothing compared to real life critque mate. You can do those, the reason I advised martial arts is because learning self defence is priceless. Anyone can kick a soccer ball or hit a tennis ball with a racket. Martial arts training could potentially save your life one day.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 02:12 AM
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There could be a number of things you're doing that aren't correct in regards to form that effect your lifts. I recently signed up to a gym where they have trainers who have studied sport and exercise science and undestand the body far beyond the level of your average personal trainer. Having those trainers there and critiqueing my form has led to me smashing all pb's and breaking all kinds of barriers with my training with weights. I kickbox and train BJJ. I'd recommend either of those if you'r…
/r/askTRP15/07/19 02:05 AM
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Some people just aren't meant to be massive or strong. Put it this way man, I've been training naturally for almost 10 years now. I don't look overlly muscular at the moment, but that isn't my goal. Weights are a vehicle for holistic health for me, they compliment my other training. Maybe dabble in some other physical activities like martial arts and see how you go.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 01:39 AM
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Do you know how long they've been training? Size doesn't = strength either. Just do you and keep pushing yourself.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 01:26 AM
3

I hope you are trolling.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 10:20 PM
2

Like I said below Don't stress. If I were to try again and she'd reject me again I'd ghost. No point spending too much time on her.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 09:30 PM
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Can't win them all the time, don't stress.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 10:56 AM
6

This bloke knows. The amount of times I've been told that nothing will happen then 10 minutes later I'm balls deep.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 10:17 AM
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She clearly wanted to have sex. She was half naked and was the one who brought it up. Don't listen to what they say, you probably could have pressure flipped when she said that and tried to escalate with push/pull.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 09:36 AM
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Okay. I just tell them I'm busy. I have shit to do, if they want to babble about bullshit they can talk to their girl friends or orbiters. That's not my job.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 09:31 AM
3

If I don't have a date set with a girl and she contacts me I set it up right away. I don't delve into messaging them and having full blown conversations with them via text. It's advised to keep texting for logistics, if she wants to talk just say you'll talk face to face.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 09:12 AM
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Don't go, she's not your girlfriend. I'd be making excuses or making myself busy. (Edit: fucked up wording)
/r/askTRP13/07/19 08:20 AM
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I'd plate her, but I would never commit to her.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 08:01 AM
3

Respect is earned from me. It doesn't matter if that's male or female.
/r/askTRP13/07/19 01:55 AM
1

It's never too early to start. Hell I'm 25 and I'm just getting started with spinning plates. I feel I haven't even reached any where near my full potential. TRP isn't about settling, in fact it's actually the opposite.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 04:50 AM
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Also, I'd hate to be one of those guys but read the side bar. Most of your questions will be answered there.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 02:32 AM
3

The Light-Switch Effect - Why Women Re-Write the History of Relationships Paste that into the search bar over in the main sub of TRP, it's explained in there. Besides, it's a girl you met in a club. Don't take it too personal man. She's just another woman at the end of the day.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 02:30 AM
5

Hypergamy and the light switch effect. If it shocks you that tells me you might be new here.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 02:22 AM
1

Solid reply. I agree with everything you said beside the fact that day is not a sustainable strategy for long term profit. You're right in a sense, most people fail with day trading and blow out accounts. You just have to be disciplined and have the right risk management methods in place. In saying that, it does take a while to find a good teacher and strategy.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 11:04 PM
4

And that's why I don't do dinner dates. Late night coffee or a cocktail is the maximum I'd do.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 10:49 PM
3

I had a breakup from a 3 year LTR about 8 months ago now. I straight away went out to fuck other women, it helped temporarily. But there was a void missing within my life. You need to find a purpose, a drive of some sort, that's what helped me.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 09:54 PM
2

I started trading forex, metals, CFD's and crypto around 2 years ago now. It's been a long process but am slowly but surely earning money for myself alongside my full time work. It can be difficult when you first start but it's a skill that can be priceless to learn.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 09:34 PM
1

Solid reply, thanks mate. Also good to know I'm semi on the right track.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 08:37 PM
2

Ah okay I get you. At the end of the day it's not bad. You aren't going around and starting fights. I kind of experienced it when I first started training as well but I guess I grew out of it. Now it keeps me grounded.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 09:59 AM
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In terms of a quick fuck or a plate I'll always go for the hottest possible girl. When it comes to an LTR though that's a different story, she has to tick boxes.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 02:07 AM
3

I'm from Australia. Legal drinking age here is 18.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 01:59 AM
3

We can't help that though, it's ingrained within us.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 01:54 AM
2

Damn right I'm a douche, a big douche indeed.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 01:37 AM
2

Have you started sparring yet? Sparring humbled me pretty quickly.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 12:28 AM
1

Yeah that's a fair call. I kinda put it down to not building comfort before changing venues.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 12:01 AM
2

Eyes on the prize, organise a date.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 10:22 PM
2

If they don't reschedule I'll end the convo with something along the lines of "No problem, shoot me a text when you want to hang out." I'll leave it for a week or so, usually they will contact you if they actually want to hang out, if not, I'll re-engage and try organise something. If she declines again then she's out.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 08:26 PM
1

I know some PUA's advise to text a little to warm them up, but I will try set a date within 4 messages. If she declines, fair enough. No fart assing around for me. We're all busy blokes who have shit to do.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 07:57 AM
3

Just end the conversation after 3-4 messages if you have a date set. I tend to always do that, some women have asked me about it and I just tell them I have a heap to do and she gets my undivided attention in person.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 03:14 AM
1

I'd just say let's do it another time.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 02:57 AM
1

Good trainers are well worth the money if you have some spare. You'll want to look for a strength and conditioning coach but they can be costly. Average personal trainers are a bit of a waste imo.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 10:46 PM
1

Just because you've been "trolling" her that doesn't mean you're not nice. You were nice when you were up front about your feelings. Use this as a learning point. We've all been there dude. Her saying "I don't believe you" was a massive green flag to go in for the kiss. You not kissing her is being a nice guy. That's my thought process anyway. Don't beat yourself up about it, go out and meet new women. You'll learn.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 08:57 PM
1

I'd remain mysterious personally. Tell her she can find out when you see each other.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 10:44 PM
2

I wouldn't have pushed the whole skype thing at all. I'd have just asked her to text me when shes in town, or I'll text her when I'm in her neck of the woods. No point pursuing a girl who lives so fair away.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:11 AM
1

The only women I've ever blocked was an ex from an LTR. It helped me deal with it all tbh. If she's just a plate/fling I wouldn't block. They usually boomerang.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 01:30 AM
27

Anger and emotions aren't your friend. You want to be stoic and assertive.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 06:05 AM
1

Just slowly but surely fade out. It's the best possible way to get yourself out of the situation without ruining your reputation. The last thing you want to do is cause a scene and and exit.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 09:34 PM
2

She did it for validation/attention. Don't take it personal, you tried and didn't succeed. At least you took a shot at her.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 11:06 PM
1

They come and go, it's what they do. It could be a number of things, no point worry about the reason though.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 12:07 AM
3

I personally have always had narcissistic traits. But TRP made me have more of an IDGAF attitude and is slowly but surely making me less of a bitch and a better man.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 09:37 PM
2

This. The only answer that matters.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 08:51 AM
4

I'd have called her out on it. If you're wrong who cares haha. She will probably laugh and you'll have a good conversation. Missed opportunity man. Don't stress too much, just learn from it.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 01:48 AM
3

Try to be more congruent with your actions. If you say you can only hangout after your exams, then only contact her then. In saying that though, she seems like a head case. I'd next the fuck out of her.
/r/askTRP29/05/19 08:42 PM
3

"Tell her to leave nudes next time" The perfect response.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 10:28 PM
4

It does happen a bit when you have the right mind set. If it were to happen 10 times, only about 2 of those girls would be really hot though. 5's and 6's tend to a lot, but any higher than that it's few and far in between.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 04:53 AM
1

All you can do is wait for a reply. In the mean time go out and meet new women.
/r/askTRP26/05/19 02:31 AM
5

That's actually a really good tip that could appeal to most of us blokes. Deep down we're all competitive.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 12:15 AM
54

I'd be dumping the fuck out of her with no explanation.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 11:58 PM
2

I'd be taking it as a compliment.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 10:31 PM
1

Fuck them. The whole point of TRP is to unplug and not be like the majority of the society that's plugged into what's "normal".
/r/askTRP22/05/19 09:15 PM
2

That makes a heap of sense. Thanks mate.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 11:49 PM
2

For some reason it just feels like I need to do something to help them with what ever they're facing. I'm not saying that is the correct way to feel, but it's something I've been noticing about myself as I become more educated with all of this kind of stuff.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 11:24 PM
1

Ok.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 08:48 PM
1

I do agree that sometimes less is more and that we shouldn't take everything a woman says seriously. In saying that though, I would have replied with that I stated. I see it as being playfully confident. If a woman is going to take it the wrong way, flake, go cold, ghost me, etc, etc, I couldn't really care less.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 08:16 PM
3

What would you say?
/r/askTRP15/05/19 08:37 AM
1

Could also go with "you didn't seem to care too much when I was inside you last time"
/r/askTRP15/05/19 03:40 AM
3

"Thats not what your pussy tells me." risky one. If you IDGAF then do this one. Could definitely work since they've fucked.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 12:38 AM
21

Also word of advice. If I dont have a response to a shit test, I usually just ignore it instead coming up with some cringe AA. Possibly the best words of advice. I've embarrassed the fuck out of myself in the past by trying to come up with witty shit that doesn't make sense. Usually if I can't think of something right away I'll let it go.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 11:18 PM
2

I'd probably word it differently, just because I don't speak like that. But I do get the gist of what u/Project_Zero_Betas is saying.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 11:08 PM
3

Seems fine to me. OP would still get the same result (girl over his place with a fuck). + he's being cheeky with the response too.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 11:04 PM
46

Definitely a test. I usually reply with something sarcastic, or agree and amplify. "I know how difficult it is to resist me sober, so I can only imagine how hard it is after a few drinks"
/r/askTRP14/05/19 11:02 PM
3

If you feel inclined to get upset and convince strangers that you aren't what they say you are then your ego is more than likely fragile as fuck. The way I see it, some random person shouting out a few mean words shouldn't ruffle your feathers in the slightest bit.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 08:31 PM
5

What's the point of getting riled up by a stranger over a few words?
/r/askTRP12/05/19 10:40 PM
17

Not worth it. At the end of the day it's just words.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 09:55 PM
1

I've been listening to the rational male on audible and reading the sidebar. Perfect mix. Everything seems to cross over.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 03:39 AM
15

How do you hold yourself in public? How's your posture? Do you walk with your chest out and stomach in? Is your head held high? All these things matter. It's amazing how much people will respect your space after correcting your posture (not slouching, walking with your chest out etc). I noticed this helped me a lot.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 03:46 AM
1

I think it was fine. Could have possibly went a little more light hearted with something like "good things come to those who wait" just because it was said over text. I've found that it's difficult to convey the fact you're messing around when the conversation isn't face to face.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 11:46 PM
1

Set boundaries and don't let her cross them. But if you're unhappy what's the point of staying in the relationship?
/r/askTRP06/05/19 09:20 PM
3

A lot of controlled articular rotations (CARs) https://movewellphilly.com/2017/08/16/what-are-cars-controlled-articular-rotations/ There's always a way to fix your body. Moving under the right instructions will usually help.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 12:44 AM
6

Work on mobility and range of motion. I've had all the niggling injuries under the sun from weight training and training kickboxing and jiu jitsu. I've recently linked up with a trainer who's helping me rid my body of all these niggling injuries. It takes time but its worth it.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 11:30 PM
1

Hmm, interesting. I do feel you're essentially giving some power to the individual shit testing you by using this technique though. Am I looking at this the wrong way?
/r/askTRP30/04/19 05:21 AM
14

It depends if you will be doing hard sparring or fighting in competition regularly or not. If you're just training and not fighting head trauma is only an issue if you're sparring hard in the gym.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 11:58 PM
11

It's only been 24hrs. Let her come to you, double texting is a straight out attraction killer imo.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 05:21 AM
3

I do both. Lifting makes you look good/like you could fuck someone up. BJJ and martial arts give me the inner confidence that I COULD fuck someone up if I needed to. So for me, they go hand in hand.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 09:56 PM
10

I feel this too. I thought I was the only one.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 10:10 PM
1

Just thought I'd share it just in case. It taught me heaps tbh. In your case I don't think you did too bad. In this case I usually ask the question back to them and banter my way out if answering it
/r/askTRP23/04/19 07:58 PM
1

https://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/ good read here.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 05:40 AM
2

I train in kickboxing and bjj, also lift weights 3 times a week. Time management is a must especially with working full time. It just depends how bad you want to improve. TBH training martial arts gives me a sense of control in my life, without it I feel really crappy and pent up. It's good to just be able to let loose every few days. It also humbles the hell out of you. I'd strongly recommend it.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 11:06 PM
10

if it were a break it wouldnt be cheating?
/r/askTRP17/04/19 11:31 PM
5

top answer
/r/askTRP17/04/19 09:32 PM
2

Absolutely beautiful.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 12:23 AM
0

To be fair I feel like the text only for logistics rule weeds out the needy women. The women who are confident in their own skin are fine with it, I feel it really breaks the girls who have BPD or symptoms of it.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 08:40 PM
2

Feels. The same thing happened to me.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 08:25 PM
2

The next time she contacts me I'd organise a time and date to see one another, if she flakes I wouldn't message her again. All you can really do is try set a date when she contacts you.
/r/seduction08/04/19 01:54 AM
2

I wouldn't call or give in. You aren't her male girlfriend.
/r/seduction08/04/19 01:26 AM
6

Number. Screw social media.
/r/seduction05/04/19 01:44 AM
9

I couldn't agree more. I broke off a LTR around 6 months ago, so being freshly single I started to use my social media as a means to project how "great" my life was. Some women would inbox me but in all honesty I started to become addicted to the feeling of getting likes and seeing how many people were viewing my stories (yeah it's sickening I know). After discovering TRP I have since deleted my social media and have never felt better. I won't lie it has been tough, but I feel free in a sense. I…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/19 07:43 PM
1

Don't be insecure about it. You didn't chase her so it probably had a positive effect on her attraction and she came back. I'd organise to see her and if she flakes she'd be gone.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 08:54 AM
1

Overall you didn't do too bad. I've learnt to avoid questions about ex's and n-counts. Give them a playful answer or say you don't kiss and tell. Remember all you have to do is to make them laugh. Sometimes it's easier said than done, but if her attraction to you is good, you could literally say anything stupid and she'll laugh.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 08:14 PM
4

It's not terrible. He's still early on in his journey. Martial arts taught me that it doesn't matter what I think will work, just to listen to my coach and trust in him.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 02:06 AM
7

If you approach sparring with the attitude that you will learn something from your opponent, rather than thinking you will beat your opponent up, you will improve much faster. This. So fucking true. So many assholes who lack skill who just come to sparring to try and beat people up. I always go in with the mentality to give what I can take. I'm not going to be throwing full powered strikes at my team mate. If my partner wants to throw hard then I'll step it up.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 01:47 AM
5

Practice.
/r/seduction03/04/19 01:08 AM
7

Inb4 hitting it from the back and trying to workout the pitch of the ceiling using Pythagoras.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 12:42 AM
10

This. You can be cocky and funny at the same time. Women will usually like this.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 12:31 AM
6

Personally recommend Corey Waynes "how to become a 3% man". It will address the fundamentals of dating and attraction.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 09:39 PM
0

I'd just say "no worries, text me if you guys don't work out." Aaaaand I'd never speak to her ever again.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 09:31 PM
54

Don't look at the negatives of the situation. The best thing about martial arts is literally anyone can humble you. You've only been training for two months as well. This kid has probably been training his entire life.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 08:38 PM
7

I'm curious as well. If she's attractive why not?
/r/askTRP02/04/19 07:34 PM
18

Jeez, that's probably the best advice ever. I need a fucking calculator to solve basic math equations, this could be a heaven sent.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 07:29 PM
1

Definite shit test. You did amazingly well.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 07:27 PM
2

Yeah I was stretching after every work out. Stretching doesn't necessarily mean good range of motion or fluent movement though. You need to just be practicing, it's as simple as that. You won't regret taking up BJJ. Well, you might regret the first few sessions of being humbled haha, but that's another amazing art. Martial arts for me is all about self development.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 07:00 PM
2

Sure. When I first started it was as though there was a block between my brain and my muscles. I'd want to do a particular movement but it was like my body wanted to do it's own thing. It just took showing up to training every day and immersing myself in it to get it all down pat. It just takes practice. Hell I had about 4 months off martial arts and got back into it again. And even then my body was a little stiff and rigid.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 09:21 AM
3

Jesus Christ. Abort
/r/askTRP02/04/19 07:09 AM
1

I assume they are straight? Regardless of their beliefs they still enjoy sucking dick if they're straight.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 04:32 AM
1

Taking care of yourself is good obviously. I'd respond playfully to it saying "it isn't being this sexy" and smile.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 02:57 AM
6

Before lifting I was playing soccer since around 5 years old and got pretty good at it and was able to pretty much pick up any sport as a result of it. At the age of 17 I stopped playing sports and started focusing on lifting weights. I lifted weights for around 4 years before getting into martial arts. I then realised that I had lost all coordination whatsoever, and was really stiff and rigid. It took me around a year to get it all back. You don't have to give up anything, weight lifting and gy…
/r/askTRP02/04/19 01:35 AM
2

This. Simple yet effective
/r/askTRP01/04/19 01:33 AM
9

I've just began implementing RP in my life. Went out for one of the first times this weekend and I found myself taking time to respond to certain things when I'd be tested. You really don't realise how much certain people test your frame until you've been educated.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 12:44 AM
30

Before starting to change my life with TRP I had a few plates going. I met one girl who knocked my socks off, she was the hottest out of them all. I had banged my other plates but was fixated on getting in the pants of the hottest one. As a result of this I made the error of dropping the other ones and focusing all my attention on one. Biggest mistake ever. Shit ended up going south with the one I really wanted. And she eventually ended up flaking on me a few times so I cut contact. Don't make t…
/r/askTRP31/03/19 11:26 PM
10

There's a big difference between shit testing and when a woman is showing clear signs of disinterest. As a man we need to be able to differentiate that. If a woman is showing me a clear sign of disinterest I will not waste my time. I'll move onto the next and try my luck there.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/19 09:27 PM
21

Yeah, I've noticed this. Also, when you were invested in one and stop giving a crap they tend to reappear (yeah I know, beta mistake by investing...I've only began my RP journey)
/r/askTRP31/03/19 08:11 PM
5

It just seems like she wants to FEEL loved. You don't need to tell a woman you love her if you do, you need to show it. Think of ways for her to feel your love, e.g. taking her out to a nice place for dinner, followed by pounding her when you get back home. Keep it simple.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 09:55 PM
8

Going back to my ex was the biggest waste of time. Don't do it.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 09:59 AM
1

If I'm attracted to her I'd organise a date when she reaches out.
/r/seduction29/03/19 02:36 AM
1

It's entirely up to you. To me it shows that you're going back on yourself. If she wants you she will reach out. Women could care less if you blocked them or not sometimes. They will find a way if they want to.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 02:56 AM
3

Should've definitely made a move man. If you don't make a move they just assume one of two things; You're not interested You aren't confident enough to make a move ​ The bottom line is women don't want either of those.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 02:36 AM
1

About 3% of all men are alpha
/r/askTRP28/03/19 02:21 AM
1

She made the decision to just be friends so she should be the one running back. I wouldn't have blocked her because I always like to keep a door open just incase. I wouldn't message her or anything. If you want to, unblock her, but I'd leave it at that.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 02:15 AM
1

Any time she'd hit me up with a text I'd organise to meet up. Try to not fall into their games my man.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 01:48 AM
2

Yep. I had done this. A case of oneitis and wanting to make sure I did everything humanly possible to work it out
/r/askTRP28/03/19 01:25 AM
9

The only chasing I do is setting up dates. I will not continuously text a woman all day every day. With online dating though I will warm her up enough to get a number, call to create rapport and set a date up.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 09:46 PM
2

Haha I never thought of it like that.
/r/seduction25/03/19 08:55 PM
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