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| 10 | I have a big issue with remembering names and its hurting my gameThere are plenty of resources for helping you remembering names. The most common approach is to use traditional mnemonic tools, such as visualization and association. For example, I met a person named "Nick". I created an image in my mind of him "nicking" (stealing, UK English) my wallet. The trick is to make the images as vivid and ludicrous as possible, so as to make them memorable. A recent book by Joshua Foer called Moonwalking with Einstein covers most techniques used for memory training (a… | /r/seduction | 07/01/12 06:45 PM |
| 2 | A slightly embarrassing facebook trick that has been surprisingly successful.great book... Cialdini knows his stuff | /r/seduction | 05/07/11 02:59 PM |
| 24 | A slightly embarrassing facebook trick that has been surprisingly successful.oh what a tangled web we weave.... better to raise your real social proof through competence, reciprocity, and demonstrations of high social value IRL. | /r/seduction | 05/07/11 08:01 AM |
| 3 | Mentalist Derren Brown owns a 3-set. Anyone else have videos related to this?Netherlands Premier League, I think. | /r/seduction | 29/04/11 05:39 PM |
| 1 | (FR) All the right moves but no attractionI think you're missing my point here. When I say "it's a numbers game", I mean that there are some people out there with whom you will simply never click. Is she one of them? who knows. It just means that, even if you do everything right, it's only ever probabilistic. Of course, there's always the possibility that this kind of girl just isn't into someone like you, in which case you need to change your expectations. The point is this: don't get caught up on one girl or one kind of girl. Life's t… | /r/seduction | 27/02/11 05:42 PM |
| 4 | (FR) All the right moves but no attractionthe dirty little secret: it's a numbers game. you're not going to please all the people all the time, no matter how good you might be. revise, optimize, and repeat. | /r/seduction | 27/02/11 03:24 PM |
| 1 | I have trouble with proper body language. When I read about how I'm suppose to act this is what I see in my minds eye. (George Clooney. Skip to 1:43)yes, I did some followup research on clooney's background, seems they do get along (at least, from what's available), so prob more of a friendly rivalry. Still, not the kind of parting I'd have with my old man, seems a bit cold for my tastes. | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 10:46 PM |
| 0 | I have trouble with proper body language. When I read about how I'm suppose to act this is what I see in my minds eye. (George Clooney. Skip to 1:43)I especially like the part where George Clooney says goodbye to his dad. THIS is body language. You could tell they don't get along very well. Not a lot of affection between the two. | /r/seduction | 25/01/11 12:21 PM |
| 6 | why people hate sedditonly if you play a shallow game (which, I take it, many people do). don't hate the game, hate the player :) | /r/seduction | 31/12/10 10:24 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop being a puss?Change your mentality from one of fear of failure to one of acceptance of feedback. The fear of failure, at a very deep level, is often what causes these insecurities. Approaching them as opportunities (albeit often painful) will open you up to the immense learning opportunities they present. From this comes competence.. the feeling that you are sure-footed and can handle any situation, and this is the essence of confidence. | /r/seduction | 29/11/10 05:18 PM |
| 2 | How to start a hook-up at work?BAD IDEA. Oh well, a sucker's born every minute... | /r/seduction | 02/11/10 04:49 PM |
| 2 | every one of these damn 'get a girl' help pages states 'build up you self confidence' but not one tells you how.In terms of PUA-related stuff, I still think David Deangelo's Deep Inner Game series comes closest to providing the tools for achieving a state of true confidence and competence. Dr. Paul's "Mind OS" is a bit of a trivialization, but the overall themes are sound, particularly his conception of personal boundaries and of the rituals and rites of manhood. The main gist is this: confidence is not an "act", but a way of being. This way of being requires a certain assuredness of one's essential statu… | /r/seduction | 28/09/10 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Tips to open up a shy girl?I take my advice from El Guapo in The Three Amigos (except for the killing part :) | /r/seduction | 20/09/10 03:33 PM |
| 2 | What's the largest change you've made to improve your game and personal life?true. went obsessive on getting my inner game down, including going to counseling, addressing my self-limiting beliefs, etc. But most importantly, actually living these changes... not just in pickup, but in everything. talking to people I wouldn't normally talk to at the coffee shop, providing demonstrations of high value by helping out acquaintances (ended up setting up a friend's online business), which leads to knock-on karmic effects, such as expanding your social circle, providing social pr… | /r/seduction | 10/09/10 01:58 AM |
| 1 | What's one thing you've learned (A-ha moment) that pushed your learning curve way up?"The map is not the territory" | /r/seduction | 09/08/10 04:00 PM |
| 3 | Trend of people forcing outer game when they should be practicing inner game?I had an art teacher back at college who told me (after I tried to draw something but was really just copying what everybody else was doing): You can fool the fans, but you can't fool the players. Outer game without inner game is like trying to maintain an illusion without a core. Whereas inner game without outer game is like having soul but not knowing the language. You need both, but most people tend to work on the outer without acknowledging the necessity of the inner. Outer game with inner g… | /r/seduction | 05/08/10 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Where's a good website to buy affordable fake watches, and other peacocking stuff? I'm now ready to admit that the guys with cheesy jewelry are attracting more girls.the point of peacocking is to draw attention to yourself, but that's just the opener. It can be done with direct eye contact, with a sustained smile, or more appropriately by dressing classy, rather than blingy. Any number of things can get you an opening. Its just to get you the interview, and maybe to have a few things to talk about once you're there. It won't do anything more if you don't have your inner game set, no matter how many routines you work on or what you're wearing. | /r/seduction | 05/08/10 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Survey: Which school of PUA thought do you follow?DYD, particularly the Deep Inner Game stuff... the changes in confidence and attraction make the paint-by-numbers approach of most "Gamers" unnecessary. so mostly a "Lifer", although the techniques from the "Gamers" pov are quite useful at times. | /r/seduction | 30/07/10 03:41 AM |
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