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| 1 | Do you actually receive tons of flirting, orbiting and puppying attempts by guys every day just by you going about with your daily routine, hence validating the frustration written by men online about women being utterly spoiled for choice?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/22 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Q for men only : Can you ever see a woman as an equal?Even the framing of the idea that women are not needed EXCEPT for children and domesticity is biased IMO, because these are so integral to societal function and is overlooked, unpaid, and under-appreciated labor. We now see women successful in so many fields, enough for many to be fully independent, but childcare and domestic labor is still needed from women, no longer the other way around. On the one hand that is unfair labor on the other hand doesn’t that show women are incredibly needed in so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/22 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Women like being playfully roasted and playfully demeaned. It’s the most attractive personality traitMaybe, but also don’t actively encourage demeaning is what I’m saying you can building that kind of rapport and tease without being an arrogant prick. Respect is just a general rule of thumb | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Women like being playfully roasted and playfully demeaned. It’s the most attractive personality traitDo you always absolutely know what your friends think of you? Probably not. Do you make reasonable assumptions based on your interactions? Most likely all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Women like being playfully roasted and playfully demeaned. It’s the most attractive personality traitHow’s is rapport formed in general? Outside of the teasing does he treat me respectfully and value my opinion/achievements? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 04:55 AM |
| 2 | Women like being playfully roasted and playfully demeaned. It’s the most attractive personality traitTeasing is fun mostly because it implies a level of trust and comfort in each other’s perception of one another, it’s not attractive that the guy “playfully” thinks he’s better than me it’s the rapport | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Weird ass question, but why don’t women like to be treated like objects?Being desired sexually by a partner a different from the pervasive culture of women being sexualized just for existing. We see this with Rule34, with men commenting on female athletes’ or politicians’ bodies/attractiveness instead of their talents, etc. it’s not being sexually desired it’s being seen as as a tool to get someone off/aroused before being seen as human | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/22 04:46 AM |
| 3 | Single moms are terrible at raising kids. We need to stop this culture of idolizing single moms and demonizing fathers.Could’ve just said people should be more cognizant of the responsibility of having children and how unstable lifestyles can endanger their future but instead you had to blame it on women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Are older single women who never had kids actually happy or is that a lie?I’m still very young so I can’t actually answer but I also don’t find that idea demoralizing in the slightest so I guess each person really is just different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 08:24 AM |
| 1 | What are good examples of the female gaze in media?I think the “male gaze”, at least in visual mediums, refers to how they visually portray a woman and consistently tried to emphasize her sex appeal. This comes from how they’re dressed, how they’re directed to pose, how the camera pans on them. The “female gaze” in this particular feminist discourse refers mostly to how not to do this - dressing and expressing women in television with personality, can still be attractive but not in a way that intentionally highlights “sex appeal” (boobs, butts, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Why are there so many lonely young people now? (Particularly men).I’m saying yea we stay alone and many are fine with that. What about that is so hard to understand? Some people enjoy their solitude. Those who need companionship will settle if they need to, others will either find someone or stay alone. I’m also not talking about “high value men” or whatever weird market value y’all are assigning to living breathing people. I’m talking about the fact that for many women, if someone isn’t compatible and makes them more happy, they’d rather be alone because they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Why are there so many lonely young people now? (Particularly men).Aite women will take them then jeez. Women who still want a man to provide for them will still give them attention anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 05:01 AM |
| 5 | Why are there so many lonely young people now? (Particularly men).I’m sorry what kind of “frustrated behavior” are we supposed to be okay with just because we have the right to not date anyone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 07:04 PM |
| 9 | Why does it seem when Western women reach their 30s their expectations get higher(not lower) whenever they are met or not that’s a different story? (Challenging the wall narrative)Yea and they can both be happy without each other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 01:11 PM |
| 3 | Why does it seem when Western women reach their 30s their expectations get higher(not lower) whenever they are met or not that’s a different story? (Challenging the wall narrative)Because more women know they are worth more than whether they’re in a relationship/marriage and have no need at all to settle as they are already very happy. They’re also experienced and intelligent and know what not to tolerate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 01:09 PM |
| 7 | Why are there so many lonely young people now? (Particularly men).I mean yea I’m not gna sit here and say it isn’t a trend we’re observing I’m just stating one of the reasons and that society is moving slowly away from heteronormativity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 12:50 PM |
| 26 | Why are there so many lonely young people now? (Particularly men).People are competing with our solitude and not each other now. There’s so much in life that any relationship short of amazing isn’t worth it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?I think bottom line is, like others said, not treating your partner as a maid who has to clean up after you without the slightest appreciation. Yea the stay at home parents would probably do the maintenance chores and probably cooking, but even just cleaning up after yourself not leaving trash or dirty cups everywhere is just basic respect. If my partner is doing the dishes I’d at least help wipe the tables and counters. Just watching your partner slave away at your mess at a place you also live… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Its harder to be attractive as a female than it is a maleI think the point is the ideal female beauty standard is not really necessary to be deemed attractive while the ideal male standard (sorta) is? At least I’m sure that’s what the people in this sub mean. In the end I think being attractive is so important being a women to not be disadvantaged in almost all avenues of life and that’s the real problem. Men might have a harder time dating if they’re not very attractive but unless they’re very unkept it won’t affect other parts of life, while women w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 06:35 PM |
| 1 | what exactly are the standards for an average man ?I don’t think they’re talking about attractiveness when they say that. It usually comes as the response to stories about women being taken for granted in a relationship, like when the man expects her to clean up after him despite her also having a full time job, or immature communication skills, possessiveness and policing, etc. the standard for attractiveness is high but I think the mean the standard for decency in a relationship is low | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 12:05 PM |
| 1 | the real reason why modern dating/marriage is crapThe best comment I’ve read in this sub for a while thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 06:42 AM |
| 3 | Women want to be protected and for men to embrace all the beneficial gender roles to women all the while those same women can’t stay chaste, cook, clean, and all want to have kids at 30.Yea and I already said I’m not disagreeing with that part and I think it’s fine to call people out for doing that but to proceed to talk about it like it’s a zero sum game is counterproductive. I’m not targeting you specifically it’s just a trend I keep seeing on this sub and it brothers me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 07:06 PM |
| – | Women want to be protected and for men to embrace all the beneficial gender roles to women all the while those same women can’t stay chaste, cook, clean, and all want to have kids at 30.So many posts here phrase things in a way that makes it very difficult for me to agree. Yes I agree that women shouldn't demand men take on traditional responsibilities while not taking on sufficient responsibility themselves, and that's a totally valid point. Saying modern women bad and still kinda implying that women SHOULD stay chaste cook clean and have kids in their 20s is...not so great...at all... We should be working toward eroding gendered expectations on both sides. It's fine to say th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/21 07:19 AM |
| 3 | Do you think parents and society fail to teach girls to respect boys?Absolutely. Children are socialized to demonize and alienate the other gender as if they were a different species. Girls are just social animals who only care about their looks and gossip maliciously, boys are just immature beasts who are dumb and can't pay attention. The gender war starts so early it's ridiculous, people are rarely taught to just respect one another for their similarities and differences. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/07/21 07:05 AM |
| 5 | Women want to be valued for more than sex, but they are unwilling to do things that make them valued for more than sexOk see this is why r/arethestriaghtsok is a sub...you're constantly talking about what each gender should provide to a relationship so women are sexual objects and men are money machines. No one should be just using each other like that, you date someone for who they are or just get a sex doll/sugar daddy wtv. Yea there are plenty of people who use each other like that in relationships and instead of addressing this common sentiment to see the other gender as a commodity, we're just attacking ea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 11:08 AM |
| 5 | How many men in relationships view themselves as "beta?"Literally unironically using words that were meant to dehumanize in a famously distopian book. Insane... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Is there nuance in the philosophy that "career women" are a turn-off?Not just a job. A career. It’s okay for men to spend hours and hours working a job they’re passionate about and encouraged to do so to make money and provide. But women can only “work”? Once they have a career that they prioritize and dedicate their life to they’re cold and bitchy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Women want to join a saved gameand it's comments like this that make you people who complain about sexlessness on the internet completely unattractive. literally i don't know anything about what you look like or what money you make because that doesn't even matter nearly as much as the misogyny you spew out. the generalizations you all constantly make about women and the hate you direct towards them is the reason, not all the fake ones you generalize to all women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Women want to join a saved gamebut that's gross...you do see how that's gross... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Is there nuance in the philosophy that "career women" are a turn-off?Not everyone has a job for corporate status and money. Some people really care about their jobs. There are doctors that really want to save people's lives or make people healthier, politicians who want to make the world a better place, lawyers who want to free innocent people, cops who want to make sure criminals don't go free, all of which spend inordinate amounts of time at work often at the expense of personal relationships or free time because they're passionate about the work they're doing.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 04:59 AM |
| 3 | Is there nuance in the philosophy that "career women" are a turn-off?women, especially those who are independent and career oriented, are less likely to see men's only value as providers and they may love men for who they are (obviously not saying every one there are all kinds of people out there but it's gross to generalize all women as wanting a certain thing) also disgusting that you see the default as women being the only one responsible for raising children. even more disgusting that you say "men for a real competition" and assume that women are automaticall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 04:54 AM |
| 2 | Is there nuance in the philosophy that "career women" are a turn-off?Because heteronormative ideals set in generations expects a man who provides and a woman who's pretty and cleans the house and is a willing sex slave? And women who are liberating themselves from that are less likely to want that disgusting power dynamic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 04:51 AM |
| 3 | Is there nuance in the philosophy that "career women" are a turn-off?Not the way I'd put it but makes sense...that's why there's still a patriarchy to fight against right? Because women want to have the advantages of men like financial security? And it's not about wanting a "man" as in a person who gives money or protection or whatever, but wanting to have money and security and also have an individual that is your companion, whether or not they provide those for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 04:48 AM |
| 2 | Is there nuance in the philosophy that "career women" are a turn-off?Companionship? Someone to talk to, watch movies with? Someone you're attracted to? To care and feel cared for? Do you really see so little in men that you think they're just money makers? They're people too they can be loved for who they are and women can make their own money as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 04:45 AM |
| 3 | Is there nuance in the philosophy that "career women" are a turn-off?lol they need to be able to say WHAT DO WOMEN BRING TO THE TABLE HUH? (words I literally see in redpill and mgtow pages constantly). If women actually bring money (in addition to all the other things that each individual may or may not bring) which is like the one quantifiable asset men cannot refute, they can't say women are inferior so they get mad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 04:43 AM |
| 2 | Is there nuance in the philosophy that "career women" are a turn-off?They're being ridiculous because they then go around and complain about how they have to bear the financial burden and women are gold diggers. Please, women have jobs and careers too, and more of them will if it weren't so discouraged by many still. Plus, cannot adequately express how sexist that is because "career man" isn't even a term, it's just normal, doesn't make them assholes why does it make women so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Gender roles and double standardsNo the post is saying women are trying to mold men to their complete benefit and women have everything they can ever want in life. Women are just saying the subset of people who still are, don’t be toxic or aggressive and harmful. it’s toxic to say women are the enemy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Gender roles and double standardsI said by other men because the argument has been about how some people view masculinity as aggression and violence and that’s not okay. When did I say it’s not as bad? I said the violent traits in these attackers is not desirable because there are men in the comment section that say aggression is a sexy male trait. No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 04:21 AM |
| 3 | Gender roles and double standardsOr maybe that sentence makes you realize you don’t really know what they want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 07:37 PM |
| 3 | Gender roles and double standardsCompletely disagree but hey a man definitely knows what women want more than a woman right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 07:20 PM |
| 3 | Gender roles and double standardsYea those people? Not attractive. People who say f u to this fucked up society in immature ways? Attractive to some. Either way what feminists are saying and what this post is misunderstanding is that there are parts of traditional masculinity that is toxic outdated and harmful and should not be glorified. Same with femininity, that’s why women are trying to gain more power financial independence responsibility and assertion. Since you agreed that toxically masculine men are terrible, why are we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Gender roles and double standards“Bad boys” are rebels not abusers. Can’t stop violence doesn’t mean shut it’s fine or what at laws for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Gender roles and double standardsYes men who get attacked deserve help and empathy it’s not their fault it’s the fault of their attackers, who use violence as a response to too many things because of toxic masculine traits. What I’m saying is stop these toxic uses of aggression and treat everyone, men and women, with respect. Not all men are toxic, many have positive masculine virtues without bringing harm or disrespect to others, I’m asking those who continue to harm others to stop the violence and aggression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Gender roles and double standardsYea too many people are still reinforcing toxic gender norms and all we’re saying is STOP but then posts like this come up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 03:31 PM |
| 4 | Gender roles and double standardsEven if they do they don’t deserve to be mistreated. In any case plenty of women don’t. They’re terrible for being aggressive and violent and plenty of women do not validate that behavior. Do not generalize all women and blame them for the behavior of men. There’s nothing wrong with women saying men may be masculine if they choose in terms of being assertive confident and ambitious. Those are virtues and women can and should have them too. But toxic masculinity should not be as prevalent as it i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Gender roles and double standardsSo what’s your argument? Men are generally bigger and stronger than women and all women are asking is hey don’t be violent and aggressive to people though? What are we disagreeing on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 01:15 PM |
| 1 | As a woman, how would you feel about a great looking guy that was very shy and timid?I usually like why introverted people. Hopefully they’re also kind and intelligent in that case yea sounds great | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 01:11 PM |
| 4 | Gender roles and double standardsYea so what’s wrong with saying hey don’t be toxic violent and aggressive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 01:09 PM |
| 4 | Gender roles and double standards*will choose not to in any situation ever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 01:08 PM |
| 6 | Gender roles and double standardsRape is not rare. Just because the perp isn’t a stranger jumping out of the bush doesn’t mean it’s fine. Domestic violence isn’t rare either. It’s massively about safety | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 12:51 PM |
| 7 | Gender roles and double standardsSo...men have to be castrated to not use anger and violence against others and actually be decent...okay... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 12:47 PM |
| 5 | Gender roles and double standardsBy men...conclusion, stop using violence it’s not a desirable masculine trait | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 12:46 PM |
| 6 | Gender roles and double standardsUm no women are constantly saying stop harassing stop raping women should be able to leave the house without fearing for their life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 12:45 PM |
| 6 | Gender roles and double standardsYou’re telling me, a woman who is telling you she wants to be safe, that women don’t want to be safe... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 12:40 PM |
| 9 | Gender roles and double standardsNo, it’s not sexy to fear for your safety. Again, it’s not unreasonable to want to be respected and not feel threatened wtf is wrong with you for thinking that women shouldn’t want to live safe? Why wouldn’t we care when we’re at risk at getting harmed? What the fuck? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 12:36 PM |
| 6 | Gender roles and double standardsBecause it’s so unreasonable to want men to be harmless??? I don’t see how that can possibly be an argument. If effeminate just means doesn’t use anger and violence to intimidate others hell yea? I don’t even like muscular and I don’t care about strength and I don’t need men to like girly stuff wtv that means I just ask for some basic decency and respect and maybe not make others feel threatened. That’s literally the entire fight against toxic masculinity, that’s all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 12:28 PM |
| 26 | Gender roles and double standardsBecause the idea of having financial independence and not being someone’s house chore and sex slave is so incomprehensible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 11:54 AM |
| 5 | Gender roles and double standardsOh wow getting sex in relationships gives you the perfecttt life doesn’t matter if it’s harder for you to have a good work environment doesn’t matter if you have to do work and chores and childcare doesn’t matter that you have to live in fear when you leave the house doesn’t matter if you don’t even have rights over your own body sure tell me how insane it is to say hey maybe men shouldn’t put others down for being feminine and gay and can maybe express emotions other than anger and maybe it’s o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 11:53 AM |
| 0 | Woman don't consider overweight and obese woman to have as negative of a sexual marketplace value as men.It’s more the acceptance that you don’t have to be very conventionally attractive to feel okay and not disgusted in your own skin and for others to insult you. It’s okay, and they also deserve love. Also women are less likely to objectify each other and see them purely as “sexually attractive or not” and therefore more accepting of looks that don’t make them horny or smth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 11:42 AM |
| 9 | Ladies - no sex isn't "all men want". But it's, like, really really really important to usHow much men want it is one thing, how they treat women because of it is another... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 11:18 AM |
| 13 | Men want commitment just as much as women, but feminism has erased the incentive to do so.If that means women can be financially and emotionally independent FINALLY? Fuck it, worth it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 10:41 AM |
| 2 | Men are overly criticized in society compared to womenNot even close to the same numbers. And I am simply responding to the points to bring up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Men are overly criticized in society compared to womenWomen are constantly threatened beaten raped and killed and that wasn’t your question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Men are overly criticized in society compared to women...they get called bitch and feminazi constantly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Men are overly criticized in society compared to womenMany of these are shaming misogyny and harmful behavior towards women and not male traits...whereas the insults for women are just thrown around women are called sluts whores fat bitch even when they’re not doing any of those things. Rejected me? You whore. Told me what to do at work? What a bitch. and shamed for their interests, it’s not “not ___ enough” but shamed either way. Too much makeup: slut, attention seeker. Too little? Fugly, unprofessional, not feminine. Like stereotypically boyish t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/21 09:05 PM |
| -1 | Question for Women: What do you want a guy to bring to the table for a long term relationship and possibly a life commitment? What is negotiable and what isn't? And, a bit of a weird question here: What do you wish him to ask you to bring?Respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/21 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4all: Do men have a moral obligation to physically protect women in dangerous situations?Umm depends on your philosophy about helping people in general if you’re capable of it regardless of gender... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/21 03:22 PM |
| 2 | If not for having children, what are some reasons that a man would want to get married?Taxes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/21 05:38 PM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Why are men supposed to be responsible for both their own sexual response (getting hard), as well as their partner's (getting wet)Those comments are badly phrased and borders on shaming but the general trend is a reflection of how men have to be hard for sex to happen but whether a woman is turned on isn’t a “necessity” so women’s pleasure is often neglected...I hate the “if...then” statement but the idea that men should be attentive to women’s pleasure as well is important they’re not a sex toy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 09:34 AM |
| 1 | "Tinder will soon let you run a background check on a potential date" - Is this seen as good or bad from a dating perspective?Good for them to be able to see those records then people should dare who they want. Unless you’re saying that the better chance for shy men to be able to date someone who wouldn’t prefer them anyway is more important than protecting women from potential abusers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 12:42 PM |
| 1 | "Tinder will soon let you run a background check on a potential date" - Is this seen as good or bad from a dating perspective?I don’t know what percent but anyway that’s their choice doesn’t preclude the need to protect those who would rather not risk their safety | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 12:10 PM |
| – | "Tinder will soon let you run a background check on a potential date" - Is this seen as good or bad from a dating perspective?For all the people who said it won’t make a difference because “women will flock to those with violent records” or “women won’t care if the guy is good looking enough” are just saying they don’t care about the safety or comfort of the even more women who fear abuse and date rape | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 02:20 AM |
| – | "Tinder will soon let you run a background check on a potential date" - Is this seen as good or bad from a dating perspective?Of course we want to vet violent criminals that is the number one fear...incels show their mind 2 minutes into a chat conversation anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Bluepilled men, what exactly are the practical benefits of marriage for men these days?What’s with the marriage is a sweet deal for women thing...if you’re not allowing women to make a comment on men’s marriage experience don’t comment on women’s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/21 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Over the years, men have become more feminine and women have become more masculine - how has this impacted modern dating and relationships? Has it been a good or bad thing?I think it’s great just because people are more likely to be able to choose how they want to be and gender doesn’t have to have anything to do with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?I am female. Sometimes I hope I were more attractive but honestly it is the bottom of a long list of insecurities. I think this hope stems more from the desire to be noticed so I can make friends, network, and get recognized/chosen for positions and such cuz I am p forgettable and invisible in groups... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 06:55 PM |
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