aspiringdruglord Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	What is your body count? Questionnaire. 1: 1 2: Late 20s, female. 3: One LTR. 4: Very introverted. 5: 0, because the relationship didn't work out. 6: I guess I'm pretty "disagreeable" on the inside but this manifests in avoidance and keeping to myself rather than conflict. I can get along with people on a surface level pretty easily.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/20 04:07 AM
5	Would you marry a man who uses a sex toy (e.g. flesh-light)? If he uses it on his own, fine. If it's a requirement during sex or he seems obsessive about it to the point he prefers it to actual sex, no. I don't find toys appealing myself, but I wouldn't be disgusted if he only wanted to use it occasionally together. But if he needs me to stick a dildo up his ass every time we had sex or something it would probably be a deal-breaker.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/20 06:23 AM
6	Have you every gone in a date with a man that you weren't into just to get free food, etc. No. I'd just feel uncomfortable and guilty the whole time. I don't believe in leading people on and it would be a waste of time for both of us. Having to hang out with some stranger I have no interest in would make me not enjoy the meal anyway and I'm not good at pretending to be interested in people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/20 05:08 PM
3	Would you date a crossdresser? Straight woman. I do very much like androgyny, gender-nonconforming guys, long hair, makeup etc. Full on crossdressing would be fine as long as it wasn't that fishnet hooker stereotype thing a lot of them seem to go for. This is where a smaller short boi has an advantage (!!!) because we can share clothes. Some hulking gigachad will never fit into my underwear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/06/20 04:42 AM
13	Is being overweight a dealbreaker? Yes. It's an instant turnoff. It ruins any facial attractiveness to me if it's more than a little, and anything wibbly wobbly going on on a man other than his dick and balls is a no from me dawg. I don't even like broad/big guys generally. Ideally he would still be somewhat fit and not completely out of shape, but I would strongly prefer someone super skinny with no muscle over a bigger guy who was strong based on looks alone. In the extremes it's probably a difference of lifestyle and personali…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/20 07:10 PM
1	Do you lie about or downplay your sexual histories, and if so, why? No. I was a mid-twenties virgin and never gave a shit about losing it until I met someone I felt was right, was never interested in hiding it, and someone reacting badly to it or revealing weird preconceived notions about it was a great way to eliminate any interest I had in them. N is still only 1 and compatible people are going to be low N, so still feel no reason to pretend. Again, the handful of guys who are put off by sexual inexperience are not going to be my type of guy. It's not like it'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/20 10:38 PM
3	Is female sexuality inherently narcissistic? Not much in that thread is relatable to me. I'm either indifferent to women's bodies or actively turned off by them depending on the body type. How much a woman's body resembles my own in particular makes no difference and I have no desire to see a stand-in for myself in porn scenarios. Porn for me is purely voyeuristic visual aid I guess, not fuel for a fantasy that involves me. I prefer gay porn to hetero, visual or written. The idea of looking at myself in the mirror while fapping or having s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/20 06:03 AM
2	Honestly, to women, do the sexual histories of potential partners matter? Listed are multiple scenarios. History of bisexual encounters Don't care. Single bisexual encounter and realizing it wasn’t for them? Do your attitudes change depending on the context (giver/recipient, oral/anal)? Don't care. Zero sexual or relationship history Don't care. A bonus if it's by choice. Relationship history but no sexual history Don't care. Extensive sexual history but no long-term relationships Equal mix of serious and casual relationships Single instance of infidelity in the past, claims reformed Multiple insta…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/05/20 10:07 AM
1	Q4all: could you forgive your cheating spouse? Nah. Immediate disgust, I would never forgive them and I would want nothing more to do with them from that moment. Could never trust them again, but even if I somehow came to earnestly believe they'd never do it again, that's not the point. They still did it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/05/20 05:33 AM
2	Are there any women here averse to dating high-n men or men who have a large number of casual sexual partners? Why? Do you feel negatively judged for your preferences? I'm not interested in a guy with a past full of promiscuity. Have been treated as ridiculous, unrealistic, or received whiny OLD messages for openly having a problem with this, so it's not just guys who have to deal with the PaST DoEsN'T MatTEr attitude. If he does have experience it's preferable it's from attempts at LTRs. The number itself isn't so important, but if he's also claiming to have had 10+ failed "serious relationships" that would also bring up questions about his judgement. I'm als…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/20 09:20 PM
2	Women who will settle down in later years due to any circumstance: Will you be okay with knowing that your partner had sex with prostitutes? I wouldn't be compatible with anyone who would do that. I also won't be with some guy who is into any other kind of casual sex with people he has no relationship with, paid for or not. I realize some guys also go for some kind of intimacy simulation rather than just wanting sex, but that's probably even more baffling to me that it could possibly be fulfilling when you know it's not genuine. None of it has anything to do with moralizing about the industry in general, though. I believe it should b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/20 05:06 PM
1	[Q4W] What would your dating life be like if you were born a man? Probably volcel and would have remained a virgin if I were a man with the same attitude towards sex. I don't really try that hard to put myself out there and the only relationship I've had is from OLD, so if I had to be the one doing the approaching it would likely be nothing. Of the personality type I tend to be attracted to, even less of them seem to be females. I would likely get a vasectomy as soon as possible if I did plan on sleeping with a woman since I have never wanted children and if I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/20 11:41 PM
9	Would you ever accept a marriage whereby you got everything that comes with it: The proposal, the engagement, the wedding, the honey moon, the public declaration of love and commitment, etc. - but it’s not a marriage under the law and has no legal ramifications should you “divorce”? I wouldn't want either. Most of what's involved in wedding is cringe bullshit I wouldn't enjoy, and I don't care about externally validating my relationship or public declarations to the state or anyone else. I'm not afraid to be legally bound in this way with someone I trust (would do it hypothetically for immigration, for example), I just find it unnecessary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/20 11:34 PM
2	Q4W: How Many of You Want To Marry and What Does Marriage Mean To You? It doesn't really mean anything to me, and its modern iteration seems pretty meaningless, generally. I'd do it for immigration for a long-distance relationship, but otherwise I see no reason to. Even if I wanted kids, I wouldn't bother. I'd rather the state stayed out of people's relationships. I'd rather everyone else did too, and feel no need for external recognition for something that seems intimate and private to me, so the whole public declaration thing does nothing for me. If we want to ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/04/20 03:53 AM
2	Can a man's frame and attitude overcome any beta physical traits? Wut? Is hating skinny fingers a thing? I thought it's more about a guy having disproportionately small hands overall. I don't think I've ever noticed the size of a guy's wrists. I've never thought about it in terms of male attractiveness in my life until I saw men in certain Reddit communities obsessing about it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/20 04:41 AM
1	Q4W: Would you date a man who spent years chasing younger women and failed? I do not have any interest in the kind of guy who spend any amount of time "chasing" any kind of woman. I'm not interested in anyone who fetishizes specific age ranges of women as some kind of prize, or is into hookups, so I'd reject him. I also fundamentally don't really believe people change, so much as get tired of it, can't achieve it anymore, or give up, so that's still a no. In reality new enlightened Bob would probably ignore me because he thinks I'm in this younger age range anyway, if h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/20 06:48 PM
8	What do women think of chaste men? Preferable, as long as the reason is he's waiting for the right person. Religious reasons would mean incompatibility, so I wouldn't go for that. Unfortunately, it usually isn't by choice, and I'm completely turned off by the types that are horribly insecure and obsessed about it. Guys who could get someone but choose not to because of their relationship standards are a pretty rare find. If someone has the same mentality as me about only wanting a long-term relationship, then less partners is alw…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/20 06:22 PM
6	Is it hard for older men, to admit that younger girls are not attracted to them? Personally my philosophy is if a guy meets all other criteria for a relationship then I don't care what age he is, and have always been this way. Sure, on average most people look worse with age, it's a given. Most people in the western world have trash diets and trash lifestyles and are fat or getting there, so they start falling apart nowadays around the 30s unless they're genetically lucky. Most men's skincare routine is neglect. So yeah, deluded divorcee dadbods who are already dead inside a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/04/20 01:06 AM
1	Q4A: Would you date a person who would have ignored/rejected you in their late teens/early 20s? Well, my personality is the same. My appearance hasn't improved by anything dramatic. Anything I can think of are things I tend not to get along with people with stupid fixations on anyway i.e. age, formal educational attainment, notions people have about "life stages" that they weren't at before, or didn't believe I was at yet? Anyone that had PaRty DaYz that are OvEr NoW. Nah, fuck off. So yeah direct rejection from anyone like that precludes me ever wanting anything to do with them, or if it …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/04/20 05:44 PM
3	Alot of men could avoid heartbreak if they stopped pursuing shallow relationships. On OLD at least, coming across a guy who actually states minimum standards for compatible values or at least a filter to ensure someone isn't completely vapid, is like finding a unicorn. Never found myself passing over these people because they're not tall enough, rich enough, formally educated enough. The most common reason is because their profile is practically empty and I have no idea who this person is other than a human male who has girlfriend vacancy for any human female who isn't a seria…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/04/20 02:17 PM
7	Are all of your relationships with men always geared toward the end goal of marriage and kids? I don't care about legal marriage, but essentially yes, that's the only kind of relationship I'm interested in. I don't want to have kids. If I know in advance a relationship is not going to work out or a guy isn't on the same page, I'm not going to get any enjoyment out of a meaningless dalliance with an expiration date. If I have fun with someone and enjoy their company, but they're incompatible for a lasting romance, that's what friendship is for. I've been the same way my whole life, and not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/20 10:15 PM
3	Guys would you date a woman who is into porn? This is baffling to me. I read and watch gay porn/slashfics and would have no problem with a bi dude, and feel nothing bad about the thought of him being with men previously. Not into MFM because I'm not into casual/noncommital sex in general, but I don't understand why someone who was would have a problem with it if they like watching this shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/20 06:28 PM
3	Why do some women complain about chores when men work more? I think a lot of women just need to calm down with their absurd standards. Otherwise sane women I know who turn into neurotic wenches about the kitchen not instantly turning back into a showroom 30 seconds after dinner is over, or have some completely arbitrary standard of how often something must be done, regardless of whether it needs to be. I've been derisively told I'm "like a man" in regards to housework. A fucking nuke isn't going to go off because there's some dust gathering on a top shel…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/20 02:38 PM
3	When you have nothing in common with your gender, reading the comments on this subreddit seem like a comedic drama. I've seen the same thing. Any perspective that disagrees with the worldview must be a "cope", even if you admit it may be true for a majority. The utter refusal to accept any deviation from the norm and that occasionally there will be legitimate outliers is frustrating. But nah, all my actual preferences are just settling for what I can get, and every day I dream of a seven foot tall walking mandible with a HIGH STATUS CHARISMA EXTROVERT personality that I'd find gratingly obnoxious, and an expe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/20 09:42 AM
2	[Q4W] When looking for a LTR/marriage material type of guy, is his N-count important? Insanely high numbers like ~100 would preclude compatibility with certainty, but the number alone isn't really the full story. His age would also matter here. 10 by 18 would seem huge, 10 by 40 not so much. Someone who had slept with 10 women within a combination of long-term relationships, or monogamous dating with the hope of finding one, would be fine. A guy whose number is only 3, but they were all drunken hookups with strangers, would be an instant disqualification. No issues with a virgin,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/04/20 04:02 AM
2	Would you ever date someone of the opposite pill? Close alignment is important philosophically, morally, politically etc. They don't need to be exactly the same as me down to every minute detail of what I think, but being in complete opposition to any issue that's important to me would be unacceptable. That said, if disagreement does arise, I'd want them to actually discuss it with me, or if something does actually have a conclusively correct answer, try to find that together, not just dance around the issue with some inconclusive argument, and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/20 06:03 PM
3	What problems that overwhelmingly affect the opposite gender do you completely sympathize or empathize with? Going bald. Being pretty much mandatory to approach the opposite sex if you want to get anywhere, and how hard that must be if you're shy/anxious/autistic etc. Being at the mercy of women when it comes to pregnancy and children, especially if you're adamantly childfree and are faced with some life-ruining nightmare scenario of her suddenly changing her mind at the last second, or bait and switching. Being a childfree dude who doesn't want to remain celibate forever must be terrifying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/04/20 01:10 PM
8	Could bondage be good for you? S&M enthusiasts are 'healthier and less neurotic' than those with a tamer sex life I'm okay with a man being dominant, playing out dubcon/noncon fetishes or whatever, but everything about the "lifestyle", stupid looking toys, tacky pleather devices/outfits, or people who actually say the DiRtY TaLk you find in porn unironically, just makes me cringe. I'm also only interested in the possessive/power dynamic aspect of it. Big no to being restrained, excessive amounts of pain, or actual sadism. No interest whatsoever in a submissive guy. Every attempt to seek out anything resembl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/20 07:22 PM
2	How important is dating/sex to you? How much do you prioritize it compared to other things in life? Female. Priority: Low. All I've ever done is talk to people online and go on dating sites, and that's how my one relationship started. I basically have no real experience or interest in casually dating around. Most of the popular methods of finding people online have absolutely gone to shit since then, so that doesn't even seem to be a viable option anymore. I categorically do not want children and would have no interest in someone who couldn't say the same, so I don't feel that I'm on a timer i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/20 01:33 PM
2	What are your physical deal breakers? Hard: The most important thing for attraction overall is a guy's face. Too subjective to really bother going into - I'm not into the conventional square-faced "traditionally" handsome look. Don't get all the fuss about the likes of Henry Cavill, Brad Pitt etc. Not overweight. Not even a little. I don't care if he's really skinny or doesn't work out, but I'm not into people who are physically lazy and have the skinny fat/squishy look that usually indicates this. Not so out of shape that he gets b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/20 10:24 AM