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Guy who responded to me said humble guys are single because they’re not attractive. Implying attractive men can’t be humble. Both attractive and unattractive men can be humble or not. Either way, a person without humility isn’t desirable for a successful relationship. It’s a simple concept. Why are we still talking? Because you challenged my stance without providing anything of substance to the conversation basically besides “thats ur opinion”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:27 PM
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So? My anecdotes are more reliable than a man’s when it comes to what women want and desire. If you want to challenge that, then provide actual scientific proof. Because clueless men talking about what women want is like a vegan trying to feed their pet killer whale a meatless diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:22 PM
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It’s the woman experience I’ve witnessed my whole life. Nobody wants a man less than loving and empathetic. Successfully prove otherwise with the scientific method and I’ll change my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 04:05 PM
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My first thought. Like you’re not seriously expecting to be parented for the rest of your life, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 09:38 AM
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Men talk about high-value being financial success. Do people actually think that? I don’t give a f*ck about money. If a man isn’t a considerate, empathetic, reliable partner then he is automatically low-value. Even if he’s worth a billion bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 09:34 AM
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Not true at all. Humility and empathy have nothing to do with level of sexiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 08:43 AM
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Mehh. Whenever I realize the guy I’m dating is selfish and childish af, they’ll eventually become repulsive. From my perspective, humble guys are more likely to be single because they’re not playing the numbers game or attracted to insecure people. They’re the only ones to have successful and happy long term relationships though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 07:30 AM
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Agreed. Actually cultivating a lasting, fulfilling relationship is the real success. You only have to be “successful” once. Ideally, you wouldn’t suffer through failed relationships again and again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 07:11 AM
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I 100% identify as a beta woman without shame. Some people are just incredible and regular people like me should accept our modest impact on the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:59 AM
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Actually good advice right here. I’m a woman who frequents bars and it’s OBVIOUS when a man walks in and his only objective is women. It’s a huge turn off. Your first objective should be to have fun with your buddies. And of course if a man comes on here with good advice and normal experiences, he is accused of being an adonis lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 03:08 PM
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I think that poster is a troll. There is NO WAY someone can say such wrong things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:47 PM
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So true! Dink is the way to go
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:44 PM
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Online dating isn’t the only way people go on dates. I tried it and there’s definitely an algorithm going on, dictating the people who see your profile. I don’t get your point? Go out and meet someone within your league. It’s common knowledge OLD is trash for actual dating and doesn’t accurately depict natural, social behaviors. But don’t be mad when people don’t share your attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 06:23 PM
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People date within their league. I’m talking looks here, not income brackets. But it also applies to income. If you’re fat and ugly, then yes you’ll have better luck dating fat and ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 05:56 PM
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That’s not true. Doesn’t matter how attractive you are. You could still not be the type for a ton of people, esp if a minority. If 80% don’t find you attractive, then go for the 20% that do. Or do something different to attract the ones you want to. Instead of blaming people for not finding you attractive for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 05:21 PM
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...ok? If those women don’t like that, don’t date them. There are plenty of minimalist women out in the world. As a skinny woman, I’m not going to be mad and say men’s standards are too high if I get rejected by men who are attracted to curvy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:51 PM
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Yeah he did something great for me! Taught me a valuable lesson about standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:42 PM
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Is cleaning your toilet really high maintenance though? You can say the same for people living in squalor and never showering. Where do you set the bar? Yeah men can live minimally and be happy? Ok, so can a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 04:03 PM
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As a leftist woman, I’ve dated a lot of “lazy” men who don’t take care of themselves. Idgaf about your income bracket. What I do care about is if you still live with your parents or if your toilet has shit stains in it. I’m sure many women do care about income. But definitely not most.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 03:21 PM
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I see a lot of men mass murdering though and ppd finds a way to blame women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 03:17 PM
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Isn’t that like.. everyone though?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 05:05 PM
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How are you gonna prove an embryo has thoughts and feelings. And if they don’t then who cares if u do then thats ur personal problem
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 10:43 AM
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Idk man. There’s nothing wrong with being ambitious for your own benefit. And getting into a relationship is not end all be all. You can be sociable and cultivate meaningful friendships for practice lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:42 AM
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Then allow shitty negligent parents to not have kids. How would forcing them to make a full ass baby when it could be nipped in the bud early when it’s not even considered a person be beneficial to anyone? If you consider an embryo or zygote as equal to a baby, then that is your own beliefs. Definitely not the beliefs of the vast majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:32 AM
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It still does exactly the same thing a parasite would.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:30 AM
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Ok.... and taking children away and punishing for negligence instead of allowing abortions is beneficial for who? Certainly not the children. Tell that to all the kids in the system or straight up just abandoned. That’s why people want to keep it legal. Banning abortions isn’t helpful at all to a society. It’s destructive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:28 AM
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Looked up the definition of a parasite. It sounds like what I’m talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:27 AM
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But it isn’t a child. It’s, at best, a fetus. It’s only legal to have an abortion within first trimester (afaik). If it cannot sustain its own life without sucking the life out of someone else, why is there any moral obligation to this not-a-child
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:04 AM
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When people say men don’t put in effort, they mean in the dating scene and the relationship. Maybe even maintaining your best physical appearance. Not how hard you study or how disciplined you are. Honestly when I date idgaf about how accomplished someone is (I am young, 22, so that maybe plays a part). I am also not ambitious. I’ve dated and hooked up with ordinary looking men who weren’t ordinary in a social sense. The most successful daters imo are the ones who can make people feel good and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 03:57 AM
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At that point, the baby is existing outside the human body and not making its mother sick or taking her nutrients. Moms dont have to breastfeed by law. They can formula feed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:54 AM
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I don’t want an actual parasite sucking the life out of my body. Nobody can legally force me to provide life for anything (or anyone, even though a disagree that an embryo or zygote is a person). Modern medicine allows for safe abortions that allow women to choose to be a life-giving incubator or not. It’s wrong to take that choice away and make it difficult to get because of some people’s personal opinions. Nobody, not even for another human being, should be forced to sustain another life using…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:51 AM
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Why is it bold to assume you’re a man when you’re talking about man problems like it’s a personal experience? Do you have a princess complex? Because all the women I know invest their resources into dating too and it often doesn’t work out. That’s part of dating. You accept some losses to learn from the experience and also have fun dates in the meantime.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:55 PM
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Well a decent person should have a good personality. Or else they’re not a decent person and therefore not fun to be around. Idk what constitutes good looking but I meet a lot of average men in successful, serious relationships. It’s not uncommon at all irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:47 PM
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I agree with what you said, just not the simping part. Since a lot of people dgaf about sex. I had a phase where I was casually dating. The guys I was seeing were down to meet other gals too. It was an unspoken but accepted thing. It was so much fun and found out I enjoyed hanging out with some but didn’t feel like we clicked romantically. The ones who wanted to graduate from being casual put in the effort to make it happen. The thing is, a lot of the people are casually dating when they really …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:38 PM
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I think if finding someone you find attractive with a great personality is a matter of “extreme chance” then you need to lower your standards. It’s probably “extremely unlikely” for you to find a romantic partner because you aren’t attractive to the type you want. You can’t blame anyone else for not finding you attractive and it sounds like what a lot of people complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:22 PM
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I was talking to a guy who said he has been single for so long cus he literally doesn’t make time for anyone and also admits he doesn’t put in effort into anyone who is interested unless he thinks he can get sex out of them with minimal effort (think: just showing up to a date). I’ve seen the ugliest men be successful in dating, finding a long-term partner, and having a fulfilling relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:10 PM
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You’re ignoring all the crap women have to deal with in dating. Dating is effort on both parts or else it’s just a simp begging for a relationship. Tell me about a healthy relationship coming from that. Sounds like how you get your information.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 11:02 PM
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That’s so sad people don’t want to start a relationship with you. From what I’ve seen, decent men attract lots of women. Even if they weren’t born with hot genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 10:57 PM
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Is it just me or is ppd just redpillers coming on here to circle jerk and pretend like they’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 10:52 PM
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Those stats mean nothing. Fathers who become single parents get there through being stable enough to have custody of their children. Vast majority of single mothers are single parents without choice. So your claims really have no solid foundation. It says nothing about the parenting capabilities of each gender
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 10:51 PM
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You’re just describing what single motherhood is. Not answering the question. Unless you think single moms should abandon their kids like the fathers did and it’s a better alternative than raising them alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 06:39 PM
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Idgi. What makes single motherhood all the mother’s fault? Are men exempt from being responsible for their own actions? Sounds like you’re saying women (specifically moms) are responsible for mass-murdering men and they’re also responsible for men abandoning children. In both scenarios, a man takes an action. Since you’re blaming women’s sexual selections for being responsible for child abandonment and mass-murder committed by men, should women be less selective? According to your assumptions, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 12:05 PM
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Wtf..... this post is making me wonder if I’m asexual too. I’d love a relationship where I didn’t feel pressured to have frequent sex. Do you ever want it though? Or is it actually never. I hear asexuality is on a spectrum
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 11:40 AM
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Also fun fact: You blame women for the actions of violent men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 11:30 AM
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Where are the stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 11:28 AM
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How many men actually do all the work? Pay for all dates (like OP implies all men must do), “do all the work” and all woman does is say yes or no to a marriage proposal. Do men do all the emotional labor necessary to maintain a relationship? Do they bring in all the money? Do they really do all the planning for all occasions? Do they maintain their looks to keep their woman attracted? Are they actually doing things right, or are they completely missing the mark and blaming women for rejecting th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 11:17 AM
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I understand not wanting to put on a show to get a woman’s initial attention, but “fight for our relationship” sounds like working on an already-established relationship. One is toxic, one is communication and learning how to maintain a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 10:52 AM
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It’s an incredibly useful statistic to have. If men are suffering from ED more and more, how many are caused by porn and how many are caused by mental/physical illness? These are questions we should ALL be asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 04:14 PM
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Yeah I was surprised to see so many men complain about being unable to make a woman feel good lol. Most of the men I’ve gone to bed with did not have that problem. I’m starting to think the guys on this thread are outliers. And yes, jackhammering is boring af. What is the hurry anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 03:37 PM
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I’m a woman and I live like this. I’m content for now not making much but I’m able to have lots of free time to sleep in and enjoy life. I’m not planning on making a family anytime soon if at all, so why change? If I do, it’ll be to secure my own future. I don’t know the perspective of men but what if many people aren’t ambitious and are comfortable with a simple life. I don’t know why it has to be a gendered thing or based around not being in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 06:16 PM
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All the young moms I know are busting their ass working lol. I don’t know wym by “avoid having to put a days work in”. Unless you’re thinking about very privileged young moms with rich parents. They’re not getting handouts from tax payers. I don’t know why you felt the need to completely fabricate a whole story into shaming young women with children. But good for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 06:01 PM
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It should be fun and ideally, a blast. But you aren’t gonna meet a compatible person easily. It usually takes casually dating multiple people to find and bond with someone enough to get to that exclusivity step. And it takes even more to figure out you’re good for each other. What I’m saying is dating irl is leagues better than online. Too many people exclusively use online dating and complain when inevitably, all they’re meeting are wildly incompatible to them. But online dating is easier becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 09:29 PM
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Toxic smelly asses of both genders are getting laid and married. Usually to people who are being abused, manipulated, or have low self esteem. Most women want a healthy, fulfilling relationship. That includes meeting her emotional and physical needs. It’s not that hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:36 PM
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In my experience, dating apps give access to a whole army of lvm and no hvm. I’m not sure about the women. I sincerely hope dating apps die. They’re awful and dating irl is so much more sincere
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:17 PM
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If you go for the easiest option then you don’t deserve to have a good time. Dating is supposed to be hard. I’ve met every single man I’ve ever dated or had sex with irl, except for one many many years ago. I’ve had such a great time meeting and dating irl and all my favorite hookups were guys who didn’t use dating apps. Maybe actually experience the world instead of being a negative nancy stuck on the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 07:11 PM
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Less kids being born is because people can’t afford them and the stressors of working hard and making ends meet. Not because some men can’t get laid... Go to SK or Japan. Governments try their ass off to encourage more sex to help their alarmingly low birthrates. It doesn’t help because people are getting DPed with higher cost of living and low wages.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:23 PM
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Uh I was eager to hear another person’s opinion until you said “men won’t take women’s bullshit anymore”. And then everything I just read flew out my brain. There are reasons homeless shelters aren’t inhabited mostly by men. The biggest reason is they are more likely to refuse those services. And all those jobs you describe as dangerous? Women were barred from those jobs until recently and still are in other ways. Look at what the numbers mean and why instead of just crying about the very surfac…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 07:20 PM
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Idk man, I’ve been a restaurant worker for many years so saw a lot of couples. A vast majority of mismatched couples I’ve seen are the woman is hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 08:02 PM
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Tbf it’s not only makeup. I’m a woman and most of my boyfriends have expected me to take care of my appearance while they let themselves go almost immediately after entering into a relationship with me. These same guys also told me to specifically avoid letting myself go/get fat and continue to doll myself up (hair/makeup/sexy clothes) for them while they do the exact opposite. I have never allowed myself to gain any significant amount of weight (I even lost a lot in my current relationship) whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:57 PM
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I mean hyper dominant man being the opposite of an extremely submissive woman who serves her man. As a woman, I hate aggressive men like that. So i wouldn’t see why it’d make sense to say men are all wanting submissive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:42 PM
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Dated a dumb guy too but as an adult. Now I’m not that bright but I’m perfectly average. Most of the men I dated were educated and enjoyed learning new things. Some were actually smart and highly educated. The dumb guy was seriously annoying and a huge bore. Everything about him made me roll my eyes and since he wasn’t very smart (or even average), he didn’t do any critical thinking or self reflection. He would do a lot better in a relationship with a woman more like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:31 PM
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That number is from a 2010 US census so it’s quite outdated. I can’t find a more recent number but am reading that since then, more and more women are becoming breadwinners and therefore expected to pay their husbands during divorce because alimony laws are gender neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:08 PM
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Men want a happy, fulfilling, and stable relationship. As do women. I’d honestly hate the opposite of that. Like, a hyper-dominant man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 07:01 PM
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Lol it goes to show a lot of these woman-hating men think they can reasonably get with these hot women. And get mad when they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:55 PM
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They hate that women with self confidence are not as desperate to get with them and blame other men for pursuing them, believing it inflates their ego or something. I’ve never heard a man say this irl but a lot of internet guys sure love ranting about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:54 PM
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Mehhh I like to think of average in regards to the bell curve graph. Most people, like 70% or so, are average and are a 4-6 imo. (And I never consider average to be pretty/handsome) Emma Watson, IMO is far from average. She is an 8. If I saw her out and about, I’d probably do a double take.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:49 PM
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Oh wow. I hear about a lot of people getting this. Pretty sure my orthodontist casually offered to shave my sister’s teeth down and she had it done. Emma Watson still looks really cute though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:45 PM
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Rates of women making majority and men becoming STAHPs is on the rise. It’s also not weird to hear about men getting alimony now. So... good news for you? Times are evolving.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/21 06:43 PM
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I agreed to date an ugly guy who turned out to have the ugliest personality too. Since then, I have standards and if I’m gonna have a shitty boyfriend, he might as well be nice to look at and fun to fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 04:51 PM
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Read what that guy said and tell me he’s not blaming women for his problems. I’ve dated plenty of guys who weren’t perfect and were assholes at times. Who hasn’t, both men and women? Most of the complaining I see online is from incels
/r/seduction19/05/21 10:26 PM
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No one is perfect and everyone is capable of being an asshole. Even good people. Have you ever been in a relationship in your life? Typical incel blaming 51% of the population for ruining your life or whatever because you’re clearly such a victim and everyone else is the problem.
/r/seduction17/05/21 02:27 PM
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Honestly bro that incel clearly doesn’t want his mind changed and is pulling things out of his ass because he wants so desperately to keep believing he’s a victim. He genuinely thinks an entire 51% of the human population is actively trying to hurt him and other men. It’s honestly sad and pathetic but I learned not to engage with these kinds of terrorist-sympathizers because you’re hardly going to get anywhere debating them.
/r/seduction17/05/21 02:24 PM
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What? Everybody is becoming more superficial these days. You think men aren’t just as, if not more? Sounds like you are blaming “superficial” women for certain desperate men becoming violent.
/r/seduction17/05/21 05:22 AM
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I just think it’s wrong to look down on someone like you’re superior to them or something.
/r/seduction19/10/20 08:02 PM
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It sounds like he’s passionate about fitness and it’s not necessarily a bad thing that he doesn’t have other interests that align more with yours. I think everyone is intelligent in something. I have a friend like that too who likes parties, drugs, and sleeping around. I find it hard to discuss certain topics with her but she has a lot of great insight into other things. She’s also entertaining and good at making new friends. Some people just aren’t great at relationships and are more comfortabl…
/r/seduction19/10/20 07:32 PM
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It’s not very nice to talk about a friend like that. Maybe he gets girls cus hes nicer and more personable
/r/seduction19/10/20 03:14 PM
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There have been so many girls going after my boyfriends even though they know they’re taken. I just don’t understand that?
/r/seduction26/09/20 03:13 PM
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