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ass_blunts/r/seduction05/05/19 06:43 PM
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5

Lol I've done this before and I'm going to do it even more because of this whiney ass post.
/r/seduction16/05/19 12:09 AM
1

Okay, I'll give you some advice. Stop caring so much. You're the prize here, aren't you? You are doing her a favour by taking her out. She's the nervous one, not you. You don't have anything to lose.
/r/seduction14/05/19 02:12 AM
2

It's giving you a problem right now.
/r/seduction14/05/19 02:05 AM
1

Cut your fucking hair.
/r/seduction14/05/19 02:01 AM
1

More reason to avoid texting her so much.
/r/seduction14/05/19 01:56 AM
2

That's an awful lot of characters just to justify the issue that's causing you problems
/r/seduction14/05/19 01:49 AM
1

Probably should text her so much. You wouldn't worry about having things to talk about. It's funny, you get super defensive about the issue causing you all this anxiety. Maybe rethink that.
/r/seduction14/05/19 01:35 AM
2

Just slide in. She's always shown interest by liking some of your pics right after following. Ask her out
/r/seduction13/05/19 09:40 PM
2

Please let us know how old you are. This is a completely different situation depending if you are a young teen or not.
/r/seduction13/05/19 09:36 PM
1

Depends how you define success. I was never looking for a long term relationship. Had many short term relationships though.
/r/seduction06/05/19 12:01 AM
1

I guess we have wildly different experiences.
/r/seduction05/05/19 11:10 PM
5

Thanks for adding to the list! Where you talk about bouncing back and onto the next one is really important too. It's a numbers game and it's important not to get too invested in the failures.
/r/seduction05/05/19 10:26 PM
15

Thanks for the reply. I agree with you, you can break these rules if you tread carefully. I just laid these out because I constantly see guys being needy texters and using snapchat way too much, using it as a place to develop the relationship rather than using it to make dates
/r/seduction05/05/19 10:15 PM
2

Wrong
/r/seduction05/05/19 10:10 PM
3

It's not meant to be a literal pros and cons list. It's an opportunity to be creative and use humour.
/r/seduction05/05/19 10:09 PM
1

Yeah next time you are in their country, just hit them up.
/r/seduction05/05/19 08:31 PM
1

By what you described in your post I was expecting much worse. You are overthinking it.
/r/seduction05/05/19 08:27 PM
2

You already have that now.
/r/seduction05/05/19 08:26 PM
3

You said your photos convey low status, but you're not actually low status. Why would you convey that? Change that immediately.
/r/seduction05/05/19 08:21 PM
1

What do you really have to gain from it? Focus on the real world, the women who live in proximity to you. You're just dabbling in fantasy across the world.
/r/seduction05/05/19 08:17 PM
9

I explicitly said do not buy dinner.
/r/seduction05/05/19 08:16 PM
2

Let it be.
/r/seduction05/05/19 08:01 PM
2

"Ok"
/r/seduction05/05/19 08:00 PM
4

I find it hard to believe you are using good pictures. How old are you ?
/r/seduction05/05/19 07:59 PM
1

Are you in a city?
/r/seduction05/05/19 07:36 PM
10

Yes... you should definitely have friends before you consider yourself ready to pick up chicks
/r/seduction05/05/19 07:34 PM
1

so you're 0/2 over the period of several months... think about that... You should have had 100 attempts over the past few months.
/r/seduction05/05/19 07:09 PM
2

Yes I'm in the same industry and women are fascinated by it. It shouldn't be like an opening line though. You want to hold onto bigger surprises you can use when you already have her attraction.
/r/seduction05/05/19 06:58 PM
7

That's a problem. Ask your friends, or even a damn stranger to take pics of you when you're somewhere cool, or doing something fun.
/r/seduction05/05/19 06:54 PM
1

Can we see some pics? How bad is this acne? It sounds like you have just convinced yourself that you have some horrible curse.
/r/seduction05/05/19 06:49 PM
2

will start noticing me as a bad guy This made me sad to read man. There's absolutely nothing wrong with pursuing your basic biological needs. Are you forcing women to talk to you? No.
/r/seduction05/05/19 05:40 PM
2

Pot calling the kettle black
/r/seduction05/05/19 04:35 PM
2

Buddy if you're getting banned from language apps, I have some bad news for you hahahaha. Your mental gymnastics here to keep trying the same thing is retarded. Straight up delusional. Go out in the real world you sad fuck.
/r/seduction05/05/19 04:25 PM
3

Why? Why not talk to women IN your country? Women on a language exchange app are not there to be hit on and you're only wasting your time trying to convert with women who are 1) nowhere close to you 2) you have nothing in common with 3) don't even speak the same language... ​ You sound like one of those dry old men on TV shows who waste away their money talking to some foreign woman who doesn't actually care about them. It's pathetic man.
/r/seduction05/05/19 02:48 PM
5

There is so much wrong here I don't know where to start. Try talking to women in your city instead.
/r/seduction05/05/19 02:34 PM
3

Wtf? No
/r/seduction05/05/19 01:57 PM
4

😂 Okay "superlonely69"
/r/seduction04/05/19 08:47 PM
2

Alright bud you came here for advice... Spouting nonsense... Someone calls you out for it... You act like a child... No wonder you're having trouble.
/r/seduction04/05/19 07:13 PM
1

Not gonna sift through a blog post looking to source your own claim.
/r/seduction04/05/19 06:52 PM
1

You just linked me to a blog post. Where is the journal article citing the muscle loss claim?
/r/seduction04/05/19 06:48 PM
2

Man get off your ass and head to the barber... Right now
/r/seduction04/05/19 06:12 PM
2

"some people LOST muscle" I stopped reading there. You're so deep in denial about lifting. Are you afraid of the gym? You need to spend the next 12 months eating big and lifting big.
/r/seduction04/05/19 06:11 PM
2

Get a good job you are proud of.
/r/seduction04/05/19 06:06 PM
1

Get a 1 on the sides and the top cleaned up.
/r/seduction04/05/19 06:00 PM
82

Fail hard, fast, and often. You'll figure it out.
/r/seduction04/05/19 05:49 PM
3

Yes finger blasting a girl is a good sign. Just don't talk too much over text, keep it short and interesting/provocative.
/r/seduction04/05/19 05:48 PM
2

Awesome! This is the advice I give on here the most frequently so very pleased to see it working.
/r/seduction04/05/19 05:44 PM
3

It's definitely a game changer. Not only is it easier to bring her home, but they keep coming back. Nobody wants to be sneaking behind mom and dad.
/r/seduction04/05/19 05:43 PM
6

Yeah that last one is pretty lame. You basically just have to exude confidence, master your facial language and body language. The cheesy lines are never a go-to for me in my experience. Be someone she wants to be around.
/r/seduction03/05/19 10:46 PM
2

Just follow up with second date request. If she flakes she's not interested. Move on.
/r/seduction03/05/19 10:45 PM
5

Clean up. Wtf the matter with you? Take a couple hours and make it liveable. A buy a fucking bed before you think about pulling anything more than my leg with this post 😂 😂 😂
/r/seduction03/05/19 10:44 PM
5

The only thing you can do is get out there and also fuck other girls. That's it. You have the feelings and you're committing to her without her doing the same to you. Get out there and be a fucking man.
/r/seduction03/05/19 10:42 PM
1

Oh sorry, with that context then you did everything perfect, all that you could do. Onto the next one!
/r/seduction03/05/19 10:39 PM
2

If she never lets you know it's because she's not interested. When you put yourself in that kind of situation, giving her all the power, you need to wait a few days after Saturday has already passed before you message her again. Now you've ruined any chance you had.
/r/seduction03/05/19 10:33 PM
2

You wait until she "lets you know"... You set yourself up for that one. Move onto the next one.
/r/seduction03/05/19 10:16 PM
2

If you let a girl contact you at a future time, leave it at that. If she doesn't ever get to it, she's just not interested. If you double text like you did, it looks a little needy. You have to very subliminally make her feel like she's an option to you. This signalled you're needy/desperate for it.
/r/seduction03/05/19 09:41 PM
2

Part of you is overthinking it. Your answer was good, just embrace it. I have had women say this kind of stuff when I'm gettin freaky and I just smile along cause I know it's true and not ashamed at all. Own it!
/r/seduction03/05/19 09:38 PM
0

Nudes aren't worth asking for. Your goal should be to see her naked often enough you're not even thinking of nudes.
/r/seduction03/05/19 09:31 PM
1

What exactly is he saying?
/r/seduction03/05/19 09:27 PM
1

Busy streets, malls, around uni campuses.
/r/seduction03/05/19 05:13 PM
1

Craft beer is another good one. I centre a lot of my dates around it, it's an instant conversation starter and taking a lead and ordering a flight of samples, then explaining what each of them are.
/r/seduction03/05/19 05:11 PM
2

The gym. No excuses.
/r/seduction03/05/19 05:10 PM
2

Yeah it's unfortunate. When I was in Russia it's like everywhere you look, every woman is fit, well dressed, attractive. No yoga pants or anything provocative.
/r/seduction03/05/19 04:37 PM
1

Not bad!
/r/seduction03/05/19 04:30 PM
1

This is actually true. Russian women are incredible.
/r/seduction03/05/19 04:30 PM
1

How many women have you had sex with
/r/seduction03/05/19 04:29 PM
3

Avoid. Avoid. Avoid.
/r/seduction03/05/19 01:53 PM
1

No you stand out by what you in person. Texting is like an illusion. Not the place for seduction or relationship building. Never.
/r/seduction03/05/19 11:29 AM
1

Just hit her up - hey haven't heard from you in a while, let's grab drinks (insert) night :)
/r/seduction03/05/19 02:46 AM
5

She's not interested.
/r/seduction03/05/19 02:41 AM
1

Be overly sexual. Send nudes.
/r/seduction03/05/19 02:39 AM
3

I totally agree. Get your own place.
/r/seduction03/05/19 02:39 AM
3

Oh, well the way you talk about your appearance just sounds pretty gay. Like what kind of straight guy walks into a room and evaluates the attractiveness of every guy there? A gay guy.
/r/seduction02/05/19 06:56 PM
2

Get a better job stop being such a beta
/r/seduction02/05/19 06:09 PM
1

Dating apps significantly improved my dating life and mindset. I guess it's different for everyone.
/r/seduction02/05/19 06:08 PM
1

Are you gay?
/r/seduction02/05/19 06:07 PM
4

You grammar is atrocious. Hopefully this comment will have an effect on you.
/r/seduction02/05/19 06:05 PM
4

I almost puked reading that line. Nope. Your friend sucks. Don't look at snapchat as a place for conversation. Use it to get her number and arrange a date. 90% of your conversations should be done in person.
/r/seduction02/05/19 12:22 PM
-4

Just don't catch feelings. What's so hard about that? Are you also a girl?
/r/seduction01/05/19 11:55 PM
4

You're spending too much time texting and not enough with her in person. Texting should mostly be for coordinating your next meet up/date. 90% Of conversations should be done in person. If you're always texting, you're signalling how available/accessible you are.
/r/seduction01/05/19 10:52 PM
11

What in the incel is this kind of post? You're too bitter.
/r/seduction01/05/19 10:46 PM
2

How long did you try it for? The point is that you quit. You just stop and don't go back. You are addicted to your self gratification.
/r/seduction01/05/19 10:31 PM
1

2-5 times a day ...haha quit trolling bud and try it yourself.
/r/seduction01/05/19 09:49 PM
2

Just shoot a quick text and find out when she is free next. You said it yourself, she is leaving soon you've got nothing to lose and sex to gain.
/r/seduction01/05/19 09:40 PM
2

Never ask for anything dude.
/r/seduction01/05/19 08:12 PM
0

Don't say this. While not necessarily the best, you can say something like "now's a pretty cute time to kiss" and then lean in. But never ask for a kiss. It's insecure and lame.
/r/seduction01/05/19 08:10 PM
3

Never hug her. Just get close eye contact, maybe say like "you're too cute" and just lean in when you have a lul after that compliment. It's circumstantial, but just put yourself in a situation you think would be good for a kiss and go for it. If she rejects you then good riddance, you've saved yourself time and learned what doesn't work.
/r/seduction01/05/19 08:08 PM
5

If you want to quit being the loser who's jerking off alone as you described, you have to quit jerking off. That's easily the biggest piece of advice so many of you bitter guys need to understand. Every time you jerk off you are tricking your mind and body into thinking you're actually out there succeeding. It's a trap.
/r/seduction01/05/19 07:41 PM
2

Don't even go for it. You need to carve out a new you who isn't needy. You'll fall right back into that swing of things. You need someone new you can improve yourself with.
/r/seduction01/05/19 03:38 PM
1

Quit jerking off. That way your mind and body won't be tricked into not trying hard enough.
/r/seduction01/05/19 03:36 PM
3

It sounds like you're doing everything right. Except for doubting yourself. Follow up with a "hey had a good time last night - let's get together again next week!" that's the only way you'll know if she's actually not interested. Don't doubt yourself. Women are pretty flaky, so even if she is not interested, you've gained more dating experience you can apply to the next one. I go on a date with a new girl once a week, often more. Just keep applying the steps. You're not going to convert every ti…
/r/seduction01/05/19 03:34 PM
1

No. I don't. You need to quit to solve the problems you describe in your post. When you masturbate, you trick your mind and body into thinking you are getting laid. Your entire sex drive is linked to your motivation and the problems you describe. Put a website filter on your computer and phone.
/r/seduction01/05/19 03:04 PM
1

I completely disagree. This kind of line works extremely well for me.
/r/seduction30/04/19 09:46 PM
7

You shouldn't love yourself for no reason. The self love thing women talk about is mostly horseshit. It's a big lie you're taught. You should be improving your life, getting smarter, stronger, more skilled, etc. That will yield truer self validation.
/r/seduction30/04/19 09:43 PM
1

Either or works. The point is that his opener is not "I want to date you"
/r/seduction30/04/19 09:40 PM
2

Go for the text. Just be straight to the point and suggest drinks at a particular bar at a set time. If she's interested she'll say yes, or if she can't make it she'll suggest another time. If she doesn't suggest another time she's not interested and you need to ghost her.
/r/seduction30/04/19 08:40 PM
2

I keep an instagram profile so they can see I am fun, adventurous, funny. But I don't use it to communicate more than initial conversations to get numbers/set up dates. You don't want to be her friend. By building your relationship over text/online, you aren't able to be the charismatic person you can be in person. 90% of your conversation should be in person.
/r/seduction30/04/19 08:29 PM
2

Nooooo. Do not get her snapchat. Get her number to plan a date. You don't want to be her friend. Keep conversations extremely brief online/text.
/r/seduction30/04/19 08:24 PM
3

Best antidote to anxiety is exposure. How can you frame it in your head that you have successful game if you fail to apply it in the first place? Not being a dick here, just want you to start going for it rather than thinking/talking/posting on reddit about it.
/r/seduction30/04/19 08:19 PM
6

This is not the subreddit for this question. Get off snapchat.
/r/seduction30/04/19 08:11 PM
5

You're using these excuses cause you know that the first few times are not likely to be successful. You know you are setting yourself up for likely failure. What can you do? You can fail now and get over your fears and start to learn how to be successful at approaching. It's all trial and error.
/r/seduction30/04/19 08:09 PM
1

I just keep a list of every girl I've had sex with, month, where/how we met, and their rating out of 10
/r/seduction30/04/19 03:11 PM
6

I find it's actually more difficult to pick up at the club than going on a first date. There are way too many desperate guys doing exactly what you're doing at the club. Stand out to women by upping your day game and online game.
/r/seduction30/04/19 03:09 PM
1

You masturbate, don't you?
/r/seduction30/04/19 02:27 PM
4

Just be relaxed. Be cool. Convince yourself you are doing her a favour by going on this date. Edit: I just read the last part. Guess you're not on a date. Schedule a different time to be alone with her. But go on the friend group meeting and be cool.
/r/seduction30/04/19 02:22 PM
7

You overcome it by failing hard. Keep failing and it will take a toll on your ego initially, but the long term results are 100x worth it.
/r/seduction30/04/19 02:20 PM
1

Why not just pay for premium and get unlimited swipes?
/r/seduction30/04/19 03:46 AM
1

I was 13 so I don't really remember but I do remember all my friends being in awe when I told them at the lunch table the next day. That was better than the sex lol
/r/seduction30/04/19 03:41 AM
1

In my experience it's the complete opposite - girls get bored if you are easily accessible, texting all the time. If you're able to text all the time, you must have a pretty boring life. Do cooler stuff, work harder, up your self.... or just pretend like you are while you work on that
/r/seduction30/04/19 03:39 AM
1

Do cool stuff and don't post selfies in your room. It's that easy.
/r/seduction30/04/19 03:36 AM
1

Invite her over to your place for drinks
/r/seduction30/04/19 03:32 AM
4

No. You need to get a job and move out.
/r/seduction30/04/19 03:13 AM
5

Yes way more, especially if you live where it snows in the winter.
/r/seduction30/04/19 03:10 AM
3

Leave it to an actual virgin to think he would make a better lover. This post is so blissfully unaware.
/r/seduction30/04/19 03:08 AM
8

this is the only thing of value in this thread
/r/seduction30/04/19 03:03 AM
2

Get a crush on a girl - good Approach her and talk to her - good Start to speak with her more often - great Spend time with her alone - great Start to think she might be into me me - great Consult my friends and any mutual ones if shes interested - Bad. Stop doing that. Either she is, or she isn't. Pussying around like this just wastes opportunity. Start to build up courage to ask her out - This step should have happened as soon as you "got a crush" you should be thinking of this right away She …
/r/seduction30/04/19 02:52 AM
5

"to my surprise actually responded back and didn't unmatch me. " You gotta change this attitude before you try and fix bigger problems. ​ Edit: serious advice: Preferring to talk in person versus text is a good thing. You should be having 90%+ of your conversations in person. Go ahead and ask now. The longer you worry about rejection, the more she will become bored.
/r/seduction30/04/19 02:46 AM
1

I don't know. But if she isn't willing to give that up then you should be willing to give her up
/r/seduction30/04/19 02:42 AM
1

Not at all.
/r/seduction30/04/19 12:19 AM
2

still mentions how I hurt her, still make her sad, etc. and well tbh if she thinks of me so lowly and is still resentful, why even bother to talk to me and keep me in her life? She needs leverage to manipulate control. You need to confront her about this - you need to tell her to get over it if she wants any slight chance of winning you back. This isn't a game for her to pull power moves on you. "Well you did this" kind of bullshit. Either she wants you, or she wants power over you.
/r/seduction30/04/19 12:17 AM
1

Okay then she should be aware enough to kiss you... If she keeps playing around like this just move on bro, there are plenty of fish in the sea and you are a killer whale if you so choose.
/r/seduction30/04/19 12:13 AM
4

For your first approach in a while, great job actually. But you know this was quite a failure. It's important to fail like this so you learn what does and doesn't work. I would not suggest your opening line contains any suggestion of a date. Say something like "I just had to get your name" or "I just had to introduce myself" ... Follow up with a question like "Are you a student here" if you are uni age, blah blah blah, then "I do have to run, but let me grab your number, we can grab a drink this…
/r/seduction30/04/19 12:10 AM
4

This was just a straight up No. If she says she doesn't want to talk to you, it's real... That's tough!
/r/seduction30/04/19 12:06 AM
5

Haha, I like this! Every time you don't approach, you have to buy yourself a new Gillette razor.
/r/seduction30/04/19 12:04 AM
1

You're close. I would say something like: "Hey! It's a pretty nice night - let's go for a walk" ​ A subtle difference here is you are posing a question. Mine is an invitation/suggestion. Just like you shouldn't say "wanna meet for drinks?" ... you should say "Hey let's grab a drink at Shooter's!"
/r/seduction30/04/19 12:00 AM
1

How many dates did you ask them out on? Anyone can get matches... Toughen up and ask them out
/r/seduction29/04/19 11:50 PM
1

Not sure if that's awkward or cute! Are you a teenager? It sounds like you're on the right track. Just try and kiss her next time you two are alone. If she rejects again, just ghost her.
/r/seduction29/04/19 11:49 PM
1

I guarantee you she is not telling friends her age about you
/r/seduction29/04/19 11:48 PM
1

Absolutely no. Huge red flag.
/r/seduction29/04/19 11:38 PM
2

The good part is that you recognized and outlined your problem: You're being too needy. Girls do not like this at all. It's not cute. You need to be less-accessible, and choosing a girl out of options, not desperation. Perhaps you need to make some lifestyle changes to increase your value and self-perception.
/r/seduction29/04/19 11:35 PM
1

You say she didn't reciprocate... Was it obvious that you were trying to kiss her? Did you or she say anything?
/r/seduction29/04/19 11:32 PM
1

Approach them on the street or shopping malls. The first few times you will cringe at how bad you fail... and you have to get over that hump. Keep failing until you get better. It's tough but you learn to deal with the rejection and make fun of yourself.
/r/seduction29/04/19 11:30 PM
1

You should never ever text "Hey"... Get to the point. The opener should have been an invitation. She replied with exactly the same boring game you fed to her. Be more interesting and less accessible. Texting is for making plans, not for conversations.
/r/seduction29/04/19 11:27 PM
-1

Just be careful man. It's not like "age is just a number." Clearly there is something a little off with her - or she is strictly looking for sex. Don't get involved with anything more than sex.
/r/seduction29/04/19 11:24 PM
1

Don't even add her on social media. Keep your conversations in person as much as you possibly can. Build her desire for you. If you are easily accessible, she will lose interest. Or you will talk too much or try to hard over text. I keep texting strictly to making plans.
/r/seduction29/04/19 11:22 PM
2

Bro if you haven't had the exclusivity talk you need to be out there laying some pipe. Cover yourself.
/r/seduction27/04/19 01:00 AM
7

No, she is very clearly interested in you.
/r/seduction27/04/19 12:40 AM
1

The ground work is already done. You got her number man! Now when you text her for the first time, keep it brief, ask maybe one question before you drop a "hey let's grab a drink at Shooter's 8pm friday!" ... At that point you'll find out. Stop seeing text messages as a place for conversation. Ensure that the majority of your conversations are done in person.
/r/seduction27/04/19 12:11 AM
0

It sounds like you just failed your escalation. You weren't pulling the moves when you had your shot. She got bored and gave up.
/r/seduction26/04/19 10:50 PM
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