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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	[deleted by user] I agree with everything you've said except for saying that the majority of people who are hung up on men being emasculated for self-care are women. On any social media platform, or even in your friends you'll see women puttin make up on guys, doing their self-care routines, begging them to dress nicely and use decent cologne. If anything, I've only ever seen men being hung up on it saying that "It's gay"	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/22 01:10 AM
1	CMV: It's a Just-World Fallacy that "misogynistic/sexist" men don't get laid. Ironically, they get laid just as much, if not more than the kind, agreeable men do. Dam butthurt lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/22 09:01 AM
2	CMV: It's a Just-World Fallacy that "misogynistic/sexist" men don't get laid. Ironically, they get laid just as much, if not more than the kind, agreeable men do. Regardless of whether "nice guy" was literally used or not, it's a matter of whether these guys are actually nice or they just declare themselves to be so.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/22 03:17 AM
1	CMV: It's a Just-World Fallacy that "misogynistic/sexist" men don't get laid. Ironically, they get laid just as much, if not more than the kind, agreeable men do. I feel like there is a major misunderstanding in your chain of thought. The nice man that are self-declared "nice men" are usually a bunch of assholes and incels who think they're nice just because they aren't chads. The reason as to why actual nice men may not get laid as much, although I don't understand why getting laid is used as a standard to being successful in the dating market, is because they themselves have standards as to who they wanna shag and when. Generally speaking, you wouldn't …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/22 12:58 AM
7	Most of what women here consider "unrealistic porn sex" is just passionate sex, they just aren't passionate about their boyfriends So you think that if a woman doesn’t let you do whatever to her that she doesn’t love you. If I was a girlfriend and I wanted to peg you would you let me do it? Oh you wouldn’t? I guess you don’t love me enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/22 05:05 AM
1	QFW: A man going to therapy is a redflag? Bruh what, what's so complicated about it. Not going to therapy to solve your issues is a red flag. Dating someone who still continues to have issues even if they are going to therapy is a red flag because the issues they're struggling with are still there. Go to therapy - green flag. Get better before you date someone and dump your issues on them - Green flag. Not that hard	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/21 02:10 AM
1	[Q4All] Why are men supposed to be responsible for both their own sexual response (getting hard), as well as their partner's (getting wet) I mean, for women it's really not something they can control. It's purely reactive: if it feels good, it feels good at that's it. For men, it's different because the whole thing usually revolves around getting hard which isn't reactive but it's affected by your mental and emotional state. If a man can't get hard it's most likely because there's something going on with them that doesn't allow them to get hard: overdoing it, alcohol, fatigue etc. So a woman can do her best to make a guy hard but i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/21 01:41 AM
1	Guys who call other dudes “incel” are the most pathetic simps of all I think this really depends on how you see the term incel. It's either a man who doesn't get any sex, or more commonly, a man who is hilariously pathetic about not getting sex and showing publicly that he feels entitled to it and it's women's fault he isn't getting laid. And I don't think guys are in the wrong for calling out the latter because that is ultimately pretty disgusting.	/r/MGTOW2	17/03/21 01:12 AM
1	RPers: do women suck no matter what they do? Ah yes definitely definitely agreed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/20 07:49 AM
2	RPers: do women suck no matter what they do? I'm not sure I agree with this one as much, because I definitely think everybody is in for looks it's just the standards that differ a lot. I know a lot of average or sub-average looking guys (from my pov) that definitely lucked out with good girls. And for Japan, considering that I live in Japan, that's not really what happens. Japanese people are extreeemely superficial when it comes to dating and marriage cause most japanese people live so comfortably they just do it for the sake of it. The e…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/20 07:38 AM
2	RPers: do women suck no matter what they do? Caitlyn Jenner got woman of the year for living such a public life as a celebrity despite being transgender for such a long time, even before the LGBT community was as generally accepted. I do see where you're coming from with "Men's value is based on their skills" but I think it's mostly because those who do give value to men is other men who won't take their attractiveness in consideration. But if it's a woman then the man's value will be biased by how good they look and nowadays, you can see …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/20 07:09 AM
3	RPers: do women suck no matter what they do? Fella, I never said there aren't men that aren't great at being psychologists, or subjects that GENERALLY women may be better in. I just told you that it's wrong to say that what a woman can do, a man can do better because this can go either way, whether you address it on average or individually, and that's why it's ambiguous. Women aren't nice to me, plenty of women are complete bitches, and the same applies to men. Traits aren't gender-specific.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/20 06:56 AM
4	RPers: do women suck no matter what they do? I didn't generalize them I just told you the reasons as to why the people that I know never consult male psychologists, and why I don't consider the men in my life to be better than I am. Plus, I've never bashed you for generalizing women I just said that the perspective from which you do it is ambiguous because you're not addressing specifics instances you're just saying "there's always better men". It's not an impossible task, you're just not open to discussion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/20 06:43 AM
6	RPers: do women suck no matter what they do? You generalizing and saying that there is always a man who has done better is very ambiguous. Women suffering more on average from mental health issues doesn't say anything about the female psychologists that are doing a better job than men are. From my personal experience, I've never met anybody who has consulted male psychologists, they are genuinely avoided cause they suck at what they do, they can't empathize and they give superficial, non-insightful advice. In my life the men that I've met …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/20 06:31 AM
3	RPers: do women suck no matter what they do? Are you talking on average or generally because either way the "Almost anything a woman does, a man can do better" is so wrong it's gross. If it's on average and we address specifics, there are skills/careers/etc that women do/are objectively better in than men, such as psychology. If it's generally and we apply it from individual to individual I've seen most guys not even being able to play sports or do their laundry. Your statement can go either way, as almost anything a man does a woman can d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/20 06:20 AM
2	Do you feel like the amount of relationships you’ve had makes your current relationship any less exciting and/or enjoyable? Honestly speaking the more you date the less sort of relationship specific firsts you get to experience so it's not that exciting at some point you know. Even so dating a new person comes with its own unique firsts that you get to enjoy. Even the type of love you experience is unique to each other so I don't think you should take is as less exciting you know. An advice I would give to you though is date when you are really really attracted to that person and the feeling is reciprocated. Let it b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/20 09:43 AM
1	The future is female indeed I see the point you're trying to make but there are factors that aren't taken into consideration. As much as I want to use the women are generally paid less I know I'll get shit on the second I mention it regardless of how true it is. The graph was made 10 years ago. The lowest fiscal impacts were made by post-retirement women who both have low retirement savings and pension while carrying the same monetary needs as before. And then you have the general cost of living as a woman. From haircuts t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/20 09:50 PM
3	>PPD Women Where's the contradiction. People feel differently about doing the same thing in different circumstances. Eg/ Most people don't feel comfortable singing publicly in front of a group of strangers but are fine doing it with friends and family.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/20 09:35 PM
0	Women: "The idea that we're only truly attracted to a small percentage of men is pure bullshit." There's a major difference between being attracted to somebody and wanting to date somebody decent for the long term. Attractiveness wise there are a lot of men who are genuinely attractive and good looking, and the average standards for looks for men are pretty low and attainable. When it comes to dating, of course, you'll be pickier so you can find somebody that things will work out, hopefully indefinitely and in order to do that you do have to sort through a lot of people, not just a few of t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/20 03:10 PM
1	Popular Opinion: Western white women are spoiled brats! That’s really tough then	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/20 04:10 AM
1	Popular Opinion: Western white women are spoiled brats! Oh yeah the smoking drinking part may be a problem. But if you were to cut the girls who smoke and drink IN THEIR EARLY 20-30s it’s going to be hard because that age demographic is split in two- people who focus on their career (those who smoke and drink and those who don’t which are rare) and people who party which comes with smoking and drinking. As long as it’s not a huge obsessive problem like half a pack a day and it’s more like 2-4, i’m not saying to lower your standard but accept those wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/20 01:04 AM
1	Popular Opinion: Western white women are spoiled brats! Well yeah that’s true. But I guess it also matters where you currently live in. Some cities have a bigger demographic ratio of “spoiled” or plain stupid which everybody wants to avoid like it’s hiv. But take in consideration that online dating includes all variety of meeting somebody online and dating them in the end not necessarily apps. I live in Europe and honestly speaking in nearly all age demographics there’s a bunch of high quality girls. They usually come from good education facilities t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/20 12:55 AM
1	Popular Opinion: Western white women are spoiled brats! And there’s another thing that’s added to that. Normally girls(superficial ones) would have to marry to a man to live their life comfortably. But now that they can provide for themselves with the bare minimum or even more if they’re gonna bother finding a man in a pool where the ratio of chad/quality guy is ridiculous they might as well get a chad get the show off, the money and so on. No off but guys don’t realize that there are more good quality girls than spoiled bitches and petty ugly hoes b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/20 11:06 PM
1	Popular Opinion: Western white women are spoiled brats! That is still a minority of the girls though. And usually when a girl asks for so damn much it’s because she’s not happy with everything else you’re offering her like your love and attention so she compensates OR she just doesnt love you and you should break it off. And it’s not like there aren’t men who only want girls for sex or show-off because they are pretty or whatsoever. It’s a reciprocal influence. If it’s such a big problem just choose your girls better. There’s a lot you’re missing on …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/20 11:03 PM
1	Popular Opinion: Western white women are spoiled brats! Definitely not the only part in the sense where the way religion fuels people is specific to the individual. But you rarely see isolated believers who are happy. I don’t think there’s anybody ideologically isolated who can be happy unless they are nuts in some way. For the atheism and nihilism part, although they share the fact that they both don’t adopt any religions they differ greatly. Atheists still have moral values, hope, purpose and meaning that they find in things besides religion, like …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/20 04:31 PM
1	Popular Opinion: Western white women are spoiled brats! It’s not the religion itself that makes believers happier but their affiliation with other believers. In a community of hundreds that support you and share the same moral values the chance of being emotionally happier are higher. But on the other side believers tend to have lower IQs and also be conservationists. I don’t want to get into anybody’s political views but the way I adressed the question is that religion will not necessarily give your life meaning and purpose unless you dedicate yours…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/20 12:15 PM
3	Popular Opinion: Western white women are spoiled brats! That addresses a pretty small piece of the “western white women” population though, specifically the obnoxiously loud, popular, stupid ones. And those are the ones you see as the general white women because they are the ones exposing themselves on the internet and so on. A lot of western white women right now are hard-working and smart. If they complain it’s because they have reasons to. Not every white western woman is rich, privileged with a good family or general environment. Those who are, a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/20 07:31 AM
7	Popular Opinion: Western white women are spoiled brats! What does religion even have to do with this? Do you think Oh Almighity God and Allah are punishing every atheist for “abandoning” religion? Wrong. Most of them are happily living in their billions because they sought science. I’m not against faith, it’s good to have a source of hope and positive morals. But don’t twist it like that and don’t base the life of billions on religion	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/20 07:13 AM