asshold Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	What is the gym equivalent for females? About a Boy?	/r/seduction	30/01/25 05:14 AM
–	Some thoughts from a guy in his 30s (I'm 33) I wonder if all the other 30+ aged guys agree, but: I was told stuff like this all the time when I was younger and never listened. I often wonder if I could go back in time and talk to myself, would I even listen then?	/r/seduction	22/06/16 08:32 PM
1	How to pull yourself out of depression Great post. Admittedly, I only read the bolded portions and a little of the follow up when I didn't fully understand, but I think it's great advice. One point I'd modify is "giving up on the life you think you deserve". I like the points you make, but I kind of feel the opposite of your generalization helped me. I gave up on my definition of failure, and allowed myself to "fail". Telling myself "it's okay to try this, you know what it takes and the effort it requires, but I value my life no less…	/r/seduction	25/05/16 10:17 AM
34	Starting to think I ONLY want to date people I already know at least a little bit rather than approaching strangers. That's true for me too. I went to an engineering school, and work in engineering. Bare minimum of female acquaintances in my world. However, I will add one thing for OP. Dating / interpersonal relationships / etc. are a skill that you can develop. I used to look at it from the standpoint, "If we were meant to be, it'll work out." But in reality, I've lost chances with girls I would've loved to date longer term because I was not used to dating. I'm focusing on improving that skill now, so when th…	/r/seduction	28/01/15 03:08 PM
13	[FR] Strange spontaneous f-close on busty college girl Yeah, I'm a bit older (32), and dating girls in their mid twenties. This sounds very similar to my experiences. To be honest, she probably came up to your room hoping you'd do exactly what you did, even though there wasn't a strong chemistry. Fortune favors the bold. The second she walked up to your room, it was yours to take or lose. I spent 20+ years hoping the chemistry would make it obvious for when I needed to make a move. Now I realize the girl is, more often than not, feeling just as awkw…	/r/seduction	07/12/14 09:00 PM
104	What reasons do you guys use to bring a girl back to your room/house? And no, I don't play an instrument unfortunately. Ha, yeah, agreed. We had a house party a while back. I wanted to bring a girl up to my room, so I said: Me - "I forgot to give you a tour of the house! Do you want one?" Her - "I already got a tour. When we first showed up." Me - "Well, then how about a tour of my room?" Her - "Ohhhhh. Yes!"	/r/seduction	26/09/14 12:50 PM
2	Falling for a girl too quickly Always leave them wanting more?	/r/seduction	16/09/14 06:00 PM
2	Falling for a girl too quickly 22-28 years old.	/r/seduction	16/09/14 01:36 PM
79	Falling for a girl too quickly It probably does make you seem needy, unfortunately. If you're anything like me, it could be because you are either afraid of being alone (as in, you haven't learned to "love yourself") or you put too much pressure on the situation / marriage. I used to be the same way. When I hit 30, I more or less realized my life wasn't going to be the storybook I'd grown up expecting. I may or may not get married. I probably won't have kids. All the girls I expected to wind up with one day are now married an…	/r/seduction	16/09/14 12:23 AM
51	MINI-[FR]: Hitting on a cute Police Officer who is about to give me a ticket.. I guess that would make him a... Smooth Criminal	/r/seduction	13/08/14 07:28 PM
13	Why you should be very careful of certain types of people in the "community". There's a dash of truth in his words though. I read this sub to become the best version of myself I can be. It seems like some people have a different agenda - one which involves conforming to a particular set of characteristics (in sacrifice of their own) in the pursuit of little more than sex. And I guess that's fine for those people, but I can't say I agree with that approach. In OP's story, he seems to touch on this when he talks about the dark side or whatever. People who pursue seduction t…	/r/seduction	04/06/14 03:50 PM
2	To those who want to date quality women: make a list. Friend! Brother! I'm a little younger (31M), so maybe that's why I'm a bit more flexible on kids & religion...but otherwise, that's a spot on list for me as well. Oddly enough, I was just trying to describe this to a buddy of mine the other day when I was explaining why my current relationship probably won't work. Now, I just need to stick to this. I know what I want, why compromise? That being said, I hope you're not from my neck of the woods. I call dibs.	/r/seduction	16/01/14 10:52 PM
16	The downward spiral of being single for too long (inner game). That's perfect. I was more or less single, getting fat/out of shape & depressed for about 5 years (age 25-30). Decided to quit my job & pursue a career I actually enjoy. That was the turning point. I started exercising & eating healthy. My anxiety slowly melted away over 6 months as my confidence grew. I made a point to do things for myself - I stopped wasting time doing things that I hated, but felt I was supposed to - like passing on going out drinking when I wanted to go running or biking the…	/r/seduction	12/01/14 11:49 PM
1	Daygame in Germany (and the reservedness of German people) Genau.	/r/seduction	31/08/13 05:40 PM
13	Daygame in Germany (and the reservedness of German people) I lived in Hamburg for a year, I agree entirely. It's possible, you just have a much, much lower success rate.	/r/seduction	31/08/13 05:33 PM
14	How many of you have gotten girlfriends by approaching random women on the street? Actually, I think it's 6.	/r/seduction	07/12/12 04:35 PM
7	What if you're not interested in casual sex? A wise friend of mine once said: "Consider it batting practice. Take a few swings. You don't have to run the bases if you don't want to. But it's a good way how to learn to not strike out."	/r/seduction	20/11/12 05:21 PM
21	Inner game issues? Get your ass in here. I agree. Having gone through bipolar phases, it sounds like you could be setting yourself up for a fall. I hope that's not the case here. That aside, I really like the mentality. While you can't will yourself to overcome depression or other 'faults', you can embrace them for what they are and just say "Fuck it. I am who I am, let's get back out in the world." It's extremely liberating. "Are you fat? Go to the fucking gym and work out until you're completely satisfied with your appearance." I wou…	/r/seduction	28/07/12 07:25 PM
2	Care less, Score More. Watch the movie "Tao of Steve". Donal Logue does the same thing, and professes the style as though he were a sage.	/r/seduction	24/05/12 02:22 PM