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DISCUSSIONaster0idB612/r/RedPillWomen18/03/17 02:06 AM
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I’m a woman and between those two I’d pick Zelenskyy because I like him more as a person. If we’re going purely by looks alone, neither look attractive to me in those pictures (Zelenskyy has better pictures though that I’ve seen), but Bout looks physically repulsive to me. Like he has really bad skin and I just don’t like his features. So I’d still pick Zelenskyy since I have to pick someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 05:26 PM
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Tall guys. Over 6ft is too tall for me (not a deal breaker, just my purely physical preference is shorter). But physical traits are not the most important thing and I’ve dated tall guys too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:20 PM
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Literally what happened to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:48 PM
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From my personal experience, men get comfortable and don’t want to change the setup. I filed for divorce after my husband “broke up” with me and slept with another woman. But I’m still part of that statistic. I initiated the divorce. He wasn’t going to file for divorce. He was just going to keep cheating (or not cheating if you consider the break up valid). I know other people in a similar situation - husband is cheating but doesn’t want to legally divorce. I kind of want to know how common that…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:47 PM
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I don't agree with everything in the Red Pill community, but I've read their sub and I like some parts of it. I like the focus on self improvement and I like advice on how to be more feminine, because that's something I'm personally interested in for myself. I don't agree with "all women are a certain way" and "women are worthless after they turn 25" parts, but I've seen very honest discussions about aging on RedPillWomen and I appreciate them. Just like any ideology, I like to pick out parts th…
/r/ExRedPill27/07/21 10:30 PM
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I read those subs too. I know what to expect from them. I am aware that the people and comments there are extremes and I read them with that in mind. I know there are things I can’t change about myself that men will see as a down side but I also see what can control and I try to capitalize on the things I can control. In real life, I’ve found that most men are not like the men in those subs. BUT they still like the same qualities in women. Overall, once I got past the anger phase, those subs hel…
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/20 06:14 AM
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I’m totally with you on this. I keep hearing that young women are attracted to money and status (from men). But when I was 20, anyone in their late 20s and up hitting on me made me feel super uncomfortable. I was never attracted to them no matter what they looked like. Among my friend groups too, older guys were considered “creepy” if they showed interest in us. The only time I remember it being considered ok is if you’re 17 or 18 but still in high school and you have a college boyfriend who is …
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/20 02:14 AM
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I also agree with the rest of your message 100%
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/20 05:35 PM
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I just want to say I can’t agree more with your first paragraph. This is exactly how I’ve been vetting men my entire life - observe them in different scenarios and see how they act and it will tell you a lot about their character. I’ve found really great men that way just among people I hung out with (at work, at college clubs, etc.). This is excellent advice. You can tell a lot about a man’s moral compass just by watching him handle different situations, especially stressful ones.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/20 05:33 PM
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Where do you get leggings that look like jeans? I used to have a pair I loved from Express and I can’t find them or anything similar anymore.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/20 07:54 AM
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My personal experience with this: I’ve never had a guy pump and dump me. I also think counting the number of dates is unnatural. I’ve never done that either. I waited to get intimate with men until it felt natural. Usually to me that means, it’s become obvious that I have strong feelings for him and he has strong feelings for me. Usually at that point a guy will want to be exclusive and will not “dump” you. How do you know if he has strong feelings for you? Read the signs. How often does he talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 08:34 PM
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This is basically what I was trying to say but you worded it much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:26 PM
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That’s true, but I think most of us in this thread are generalizing. Anyway, I agree with that. I typically see 50 year old men date 35-45 year old women so yeah they are not dating 20 year old models.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 04:52 PM
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But being repulsed by your wife because she is 50 is not something that would make a man feel unhappy? I just have a hard time believing that woman who marries in her 20s is guaranteed be rewarded with loyalty when she is older, especially by a man who thinks any woman over 25 is unattractive. A man who considers youth so important will likely want to leave and find a younger partner. And he can use any reason, such as “my needs weren’t met”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 04:45 PM
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Then why do men often leave their 40 and 50 year old wives, mothers of their children, for a younger woman? It’s such a common scenario. And then men don’t seem to be “bad” men. They just fell in love with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:44 AM
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I think the idea that all attractive women sleep with a bunch of “bad boys” when they are young is kind of ridiculous. Out of all my friends, there were only a couple girls who “slept with a lot of bad boys”. Most only had sex with their boyfriends, who were just normal average guys. But yeah, when a relationship doesn’t work out, people sometimes summarize it as “I dated some jerks in the past”. That’s probably why you hear that a lot. Just this whole notion of girls sleeping with borderline cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 08:38 AM
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I actually filtered out a guy this way once. I met him through school and didn't know him well, but he seemed smart, an engineer like me (so we had things in common), seemed sweet, seemed to like me, etc. Over the summer I invited him to go camping with a group of friends. It was a 4 day trip and by the end of the trip I was very certain I had no interest in this guy. He put on his "best face" when he was around his friends, but as soon as I took him out of his comfort zone, I saw him in a diffe…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/17 08:51 AM
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I don't always agree with everything posted here, but I find a lot of useful information and honest advice that's not sugar coated, and it feels refreshing. You can take what you like and what resonates with you, leave what you don't like, and use it to build the kind of relationship you want to build. Overall though, I feel like the women in this community have a better idea of how to build a good solid relationship (and how to improve their life in general!) than many women I know in real life…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/17 06:53 PM
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I feel like this post embodies the core values of this forum. This is what I love about RPW - focusing on what you can give and what you have to offer instead of what other people owe you. Thank you for the reminder. =)
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/17 07:53 PM
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This is an awesome answer! I particularly like the quote "is the only reason we're still together because he doesn't know about this thing?". I wish in the past, when this was an issue in my relationships, my boyfriends thought of it that way. Thank you for your thoughtful answer.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/17 10:46 PM
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Hahaha I let those slide all the time XD
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/17 05:35 AM
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I completely agree with that! It's important for me to be able to trust the person overall so habitual lying is definitely a deal breaker. I'm more torn about situations where it's a one time thing. (Since you can never be sure if it will stay that way and won't repeat)
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/17 05:33 AM
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Yeah that's actually why I was confused about this. I've only seen small breasts so I was like "what sagging?". It makes sense now.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/17 10:20 PM
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Fair enough, I haven't actually seen a lot of women's breasts back to back so I can't speak on that. I don't know how to accurately represent "saggers" and flabby arms in dating apps though. XD
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/17 06:21 AM
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Thanks for your response! I also feel like lies are different. Some are more offensive and hurtful than others.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/17 03:42 AM
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I agree. I didn't mean to make it sound like lies were acceptable. I meant more like, if the person did lie, would you immediately end the relationship? Or would you treat it like any other relationship issue and try to work through it first? I've given people second chances in the past but unfortunately the people who lied once, in my experience, just continued lying. I don't know if that's always the case though.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/17 03:39 AM
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Ah yeah, I've been in a couple of these situations too. It seems to be a common thing to lie about.
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/17 03:35 AM
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In what ways to they look worse/different? Like what changes over 2-5 years? I'm asking because I've used dating apps and have used pictures that are within the last couple years because I feel like I look the same, and that was the last time someone took a picture of me doing something cool outdoors, for example. So I want to understand why that's bad so I don't mislead anyone. The things you mentioned - flabby arms, wrinkly skin, saggy breasts, etc. - does anyone actually have that at 29? I do…
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/17 07:12 PM
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Nothing specific in the moment, but there have been a few situations in my relationships that made me think about where I want to draw the line. Right now, I'm just curious about RPW community's take on this.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/17 06:46 AM
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Aww thanks! =) Yeah, he's been great to me and our entire family. Seeing them makes me feel much better about the whole eventually hitting the wall thing.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/17 03:41 AM
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I know a few, but the best example that's close to me is my mom. My mom and my dad got divorced when they were in their late 40s. My mom married again at the age of 50. The man she married is great, as far as I can tell. I don't know where to put him on the alpha/beta spectrum but he has a very successful career, is very caring and loving toward my mom, is extremely intelligent (he has helped me with my homework in college, helped me study for my interviews, etc., so I was able to gauge how good…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/17 04:09 AM
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I had to respond to this because I had something very similar a few times in my life. I also had anxiety that was related to worrying about my health, and it would get worse in the evenings. I think actually one of the common symptoms of anxiety is the feeling of dread and thinking that something is horribly wrong with you. I think my case was more severe though, I actually had full on panic attacks regularly. I found out at some point that what I have is most likely genetic and will keep coming…
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/17 12:56 AM
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I would've told my 19 year old self "There are a lot more men interested in you thank you think.". Seriously though, I used to be so insecure and tried so hard to impress them. If I had a bit more confidence I would've been able to be a lot more stress free. As far as dressing for a date - I would dress up, but I think my main takeaway is you don't have to look 100% perfect. Being comfortable is a lot more important. Best dates I've had were ones where it felt like I was hanging out with a frien…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/16 10:55 PM
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