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I mean this in the most constructive, helpful way possible: grow a fucking backbone. I 100% agree with you that you’re overthinking it and being a pussy. Don’t like yourself? Then change it. There are no posts and no how-to guides you can read that will change anything for you. You must change first. Quit being a fucking coward and create a life you can enjoy.
/r/seduction31/01/20 05:59 PM
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You’ll definitely get a lot of help here if you want it. So most guys are actually pretty clueless if a girl if flirting with him. You’ll think you’re being obvious about it, but a lot of times we read these signals as “she’s being nice/she’s outgoing”. A simple/easy way around it: pervy pickup lines. Guys will immediately understand your intent with those. They’re fun. We never get them, and if a girl drops one on me I’d immediately think she’s confident and a lot of fun to be around. Guys will…
/r/seduction31/01/20 04:14 PM
1

Great post. One thing I’ll add: I’ve found most girls need at least 10 minutes of oral to come. This isn’t a hard and fast rule, more general guidance.
/r/seduction26/01/20 08:24 PM
1

You can’t tell me what to do you’re not my real dad
/r/seduction03/12/19 08:16 PM
20

Not if you have fun.
/r/seduction24/11/19 11:14 PM
7

Don’t be crass, basically. Feel it out.
/r/seduction10/10/19 12:08 AM
83

You can be a little more direct with them. Don’t make ANY comments about age though. Compliments about body/looks (not too over the line) go a lot farther than with younger girls.
/r/seduction09/10/19 09:49 PM
3

Pull your duck out and tell her “I know it’s pretty baby, but I didn’t bring it out for air.”
/r/seduction25/09/19 06:09 PM
32

Probably because of the metric system.
/r/seduction01/09/19 03:12 PM
16

You waited too long. You should have moved on her immediately. Hesitation says to her “He’s probably not that attracted to me, and only coming over because he decided he didn’t have another option”, or “He’s timid and weak.” Move your ass if you want to get some ass.
/r/seduction25/08/19 03:53 PM
6

Set your goal super low. Example: “Appraoch quick, make some small talk, get a laugh, and then get out.” Dont go in trying to pull digits, get a date, impress her, and then get laid. That’s fucking hard and your brain will do everything it can to stop you.
/r/seduction24/08/19 06:56 PM
1

Shrooms and sex don’t pair well. Tell her “we should probably fuck a few times to clear the air first.”
/r/seduction24/08/19 03:53 AM
4

This is a great tip. Hesitation is death.
/r/seduction24/08/19 03:31 AM
2

Bro, you need to start being a lot nicer to yourself. You need to be just as kind and forgiving to yourself as you are to other people. You lose nothing by doing that. NOTHING. People think that being hard on themselves makes them better, makes them tougher, makes them more resistant to criticism. IT DOESN'T. It does the exact opposite. The voice inside your head should be your biggest fan, not your biggest critic. Period. And you can change that with willpower and discipline. Or don't. Spend th…
/r/seduction18/08/19 01:28 AM
2

OP: If someone asked you “What’s great about you?”, what would you say? If you don’t have a lengthy, honest answer full of examples why you are, then stop right there. Work on yourself until you can answer that question that way. Finding girls is easy after that point.
/r/seduction17/08/19 06:25 PM
23

Oh shit! He drove a Jeep right? Always wore aviators and a backwards cap? That Todd?
/r/seduction09/08/19 10:38 PM
20

Don’t know who Todd is.
/r/seduction09/08/19 10:15 PM
273

You're not hooking girls. When you are consistently getting "the good friend" thing, they're telling you "I know you're interested in me romantically, but I am not." Don't be so agreeable. Give them shit/tease them. Only tease them about things that they can change, never things they can't. Keep it light. Treat them like they're your friend's unattractive younger sister. I'm not saying be rude. Just be indifferent, they feed off that. They want a challenge.
/r/seduction09/08/19 07:06 PM
8

"Yes, but don't get your hopes up."
/r/seduction06/08/19 04:47 AM
0

Props for doing this dude. Takes some big time balls to post something like this.
/r/seduction31/05/19 12:28 AM
9

Staring random dudes down is a great way to send the message that you want to fight them or fuck them.
/r/seduction30/05/19 08:50 AM
9

“One of the best dates I’ve ever been on in my life! I’ll never forget it. Probably won’t see him again.” Someone tell this guy to quit stealing my moves.
/r/seduction10/05/19 05:40 PM
1

Do you have your own room to go back to? Would her parents be fine with her leaving to go hang out with someone else where you are? If both answers are not emphatic yes’s then you’re probably SOL.
/r/seduction08/05/19 02:02 PM
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Pervy pickup lines work like you wouldn’t believe. Seriously. Guys never get them. When they do it’s the most flattering and hilarious thing in the world. This girl used one on a shy buddy of mine. He is notoriously clueless and wouldn’t have picked up on anything subtle. “Hey, what does that handsome face of yours and a loveseat have in common? They both look like a great place for me to sit!” They definitely hit it off.
/r/seduction08/04/19 06:46 PM
2

Don’t bail so easily. It’s not easy bringing up that topic, cut her some slack.
/r/seduction15/03/19 06:32 PM
14

I’m 6’7 so I’m always on the prowl for curvy tall girls.
/r/seduction09/02/19 07:14 PM
5

If she waits that along again tell her “sorry never heard back, made other plans” and reschedule. That’ll make you look more in demand, and hopefully get her to hurry TF up.
/r/seduction08/02/19 02:55 AM
4

How so?
/r/seduction06/02/19 06:37 PM
5

They're genuinely interested. Or they're close and assessing you. You don't keep strong eye contact with someone you're not interested in.
/r/seduction05/02/19 02:34 AM
18

11 screenshots? She sounds excited about the trip. Maybe confirm that it’s just going to be the two of you. If so then yes, you are “in”.
/r/seduction30/01/19 05:55 PM
3

Similar situation here. I had this gorgeous, fun, 23 year old cancel our date when she found out I was 38. She thought I was in my late 20s. I told her age didn’t matter as much as maturity and chemistry but she wasn’t having it.
/r/seduction18/01/19 11:40 PM
1

What does “encourage her to be emotionally free” mean?
/r/seduction17/01/19 11:25 PM
14

Did she put ice in it? If she put ice in it then she’s definitely down to pound.
/r/seduction13/01/19 06:43 PM
1

You’re plenty attractive man. Pro tip: I have the devil’s curly hair too. Go to a good salon and they can straighten it pretty easily for you. Lasts a while too. It will make you look amazing. I’m telling you the confidence boost is unreal. Your hair will look so fucking good and you’ll wonder how you went so long without doing it.
/r/seduction13/01/19 05:57 PM
1

You better get separate checks.
/r/seduction24/11/18 07:55 PM
2

Live music is always a plus.
/r/seduction18/11/18 01:29 AM
1

Godspeed, you crazy Spaniard.
/r/seduction06/11/18 04:54 PM
1

This post felt like an hour long run-on sentence that doesn’t actually say anything. How many lines did you do before writing this OP?
/r/seduction30/10/18 07:06 PM
190

Hmm....can’t say for certain. Good chance she was just being polite.
/r/seduction30/10/18 06:33 PM
6

You hit all the checkboxes man. Good work.
/r/seduction17/10/18 12:08 AM
2

Oh look! More bland, flavorless advice. There are more amateurs trying to come off as experts here than in any other subreddit I have seen. "Make sure to ask her name" "If she is with friends be nice to them too - you never know" "You dont want to be too aggressive, but dont be not aggressive"
/r/seduction16/10/18 10:31 PM
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I say go out with her again. Asian girls are pretty shy and reserved by nature. If she’s cute and you had fun keep it up.
/r/seduction12/10/18 07:35 PM
1

OP, you in college?
/r/seduction12/10/18 07:30 PM
75

And no examples of what to actually say. This sub is getting overrun with recycled crap like this. “Don’t call her fat or a midget” Thank god for this sage fucking wisdom.
/r/seduction10/10/18 09:43 AM
2

Am I foolish for believing in true love? "True love" is not falling in love with the first girl you fuck. That's a childish, outdated ideal. You need to experience multiple adult relationships before you know enough about yourself and what you want to know what you want in a person you share your life with. You don't need to go on some kind of sexual rampage, but equating sex ONLY with love will continue to keep you isolated and lonely. Sex first. Love later.
/r/seduction04/10/18 08:29 PM
6

2 months You waited too long to make a move.
/r/seduction16/09/18 03:33 AM
1

My worthless two cents: She's not testing you. Think about what he said in the message. "Hopefully your boyfriend isn't mad". First and foremost, she already told this dude about you. He's well aware that she is taken. That's big. Second, he's a customer at work. If it was some random dude she wouldn't need any help crafting a reply. Pretend you're in her shoes: A client at your job flirts with you. She looks you up and sends a harmless message, then another to gauge your interest. You tell your…
/r/seduction02/09/18 04:23 AM
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Happened to a friend of mine once. This girl hit on him and he didn't notice. She got offended and acted super cold every time she saw him after that. She got even MORE pissed when he didn't notice that.
/r/seduction14/08/18 09:35 AM
2

Issues to solve? The prejudice against Asian men is very real. HE has no issues to solve, he is doing just fine. I recommend you open your eyes and not be so dismissive to how other people get treated.
/r/seduction07/08/18 11:29 PM
1

I think you're under the impression that people care a lot more about your opinion than you think. I want the 2 minutes I spent reading that shit back.
/r/seduction07/08/18 11:25 PM
2

No place of your own and no ride is going to make it tough to meet, much less pull girls. But it's not impossible. If you're confident and unapologetic for your situation they may not care. There's always their place. My shitty two cents: Work on you. Get your life back in a good spot where you've got some independence. Meeting girls is nice, but top priority should be getting your life back to where you want it to be. Getting some trim is nice, but if it affects your self esteem and your goal o…
/r/seduction02/06/18 11:25 PM
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Oof! That's not an easy one to stomach. But the good news is that's about the worst it will get. If you can handle that, then you're tough and you'll do great.
/r/seduction01/06/18 11:56 PM
3

You may have luck in-network? A friend of yours might know a girl that would be a good fit. They could prime them on your situation and what you’re looking for. You may want to try being more up front about what you’re looking for on these first dates, and that you don’t want a girl to feel intimidated. Hope this helps man, good luck!
/r/seduction25/05/18 10:33 AM
5

Never ask a girl her age. Ever.
/r/seduction22/05/18 07:44 AM
5

I don't know if this sub is the right place for you to get help. I mean that in a supportive way. I (along with a lot of guys here) hope you are able to overcome your obstacles and find happiness and companionship. This sub is more for guys to learn and share techniques for picking up women. You may find better help that's much more effective in improving your situation in Asbergers support groups/forums than here. Don't despair my friend. Keep working at being the best version of you that you c…
/r/seduction17/05/18 06:34 AM
3

You’re not ugly. Don’t sweat it. Just focus on dressing well, working out, and you’ll get the kind of girls you want.
/r/seduction15/05/18 06:54 PM
0

100% learn sign language. That is an excellent idea.
/r/seduction15/05/18 07:39 AM
1

Be excited about where she's from. Don't ask her out right away. Just start off being cool and friendly for a bit. Plant the seed, "Oh I've definitely got to take you on some American adventures soon" Maybe start with a really casual one. "Me and some friends are going to grab some coffee before our next class, would you like to come?"
/r/seduction11/05/18 12:45 AM
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Their guard is going to be WAY up, a LOT more than a native. I think an emphasis on being a friendly, safe guy is important. Inviting her out with some of your friends (that include girls) would be a good start. Tell her to bring her friends along too to help take the pressure off. Ask her if she's ever seen a live band at a dive bar, for example. "You havent? Oh you have to, it's one of the activities American's love the most." (Or something else to that effect, just an example) Best of luck ma…
/r/seduction10/05/18 06:26 PM
10

This is what scares me about marriage. A sudden and unfixable drop off in sex.
/r/seduction05/05/18 05:38 PM
37

This happened to my brother once. That idiot passed out mid blowjob. If the girl is pissed, then it’s because her feelings are hurt. She feels like she wasn’t attractive enough to keep you up. Keep that in mind when you reach back out to her. Yes you’re starting from square one like the other dude said, but you’re also going to need to massage her ego a little too.
/r/seduction15/04/18 05:38 PM
1

My first thought too.
/r/seduction12/04/18 03:49 PM
1

Smile. Ask her if she likes it. (Don’t you dare break eye contact) Make a joke about how she should buy you a drink first. (Don’t break eye contact) Flirt with another girl and make sure she’s watching. (Make eye contact while you do)
/r/seduction12/04/18 03:40 PM
7

My shitty two cents: When they say "you're a player that's just going to hurt them", a lot of times they are saying "You seem like you would string a woman along emotionally to get sex from her." Clearly that's not the situation here. In your case if you're really after a GF (and that's great) they may not feel like the advances you're making are genuine.
/r/seduction11/04/18 08:33 PM
30

“Yeah, but I got a huuuuuge....sense of humor about it.”
/r/seduction11/04/18 07:43 PM
1

Do not bring up the fact that she’s tall, or that you’re hitting on her because she’s tall. Be supremely confident. Any hesitation and she’s gone.
/r/seduction10/04/18 06:07 PM
2

Awesome man! It's really hard starting out but you've got a great attitude and you'll definitely get there. Focus on improving yourself and you'll do great. Keep it up!
/r/seduction08/04/18 06:16 AM
13

You were really close to a haiku. Target the chubbies. Somebody has to bang them. Let that guy be you.
/r/seduction02/04/18 06:49 PM
75

What she actually said was: “I’m not happy in our relationship and I want to break up. But I’m not strong enough to do it, so I hope by telling you I’m just staying around out of pity you’ll do it instead.”
/r/seduction26/03/18 07:54 AM
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Are you being flirted with? Yes, and not very well. What I mean is that generally it's not a good idea for a guy to discuss his ex's with a girl.
/r/seduction26/03/18 07:51 AM
21

You got her interested enough to say yes to hanging out with you, then guilt probably got the best of her. It's a compliment. Text her "No worries. If that changes I'll buy you a drink to celebrate. :) "
/r/seduction23/03/18 03:53 AM
73

Don’t be so hard on yourself man! Everyone, and I mean EVERYONE was awkward when they first started out. Hiring a pro could help. But I think you’d be better off just learning as you go. Women are so, so different in what they like. One tip, eat pussy and make her cum first. Every time. Start slow, don’t go right for the clit. When you do finally get to it, write out the alphabet with your tongue. Listen very closely to her and stick with whichever letter she likes best.
/r/seduction18/03/18 03:27 AM
1

Solid article.
/r/seduction13/03/18 11:02 PM
1

We got pretty drunk and I bragged about my tongue skills. Edged her a lot and got her in the mood. One of the worst blowjobs I’ve ever had though.
/r/seduction11/03/18 07:56 AM
3

Not sure why you’re getting downvotes, but you’re 100% right. Her BS radar is going off if she’s asking that.
/r/seduction04/03/18 05:15 PM
1

I got dumped in a bad way once. Absolutely gutted me. This is a tough situation man. The best advice I can give you is take it slow. Don’t try to make a life changing yes or no decision right now, because you don’t have to. Take your time.
/r/seduction27/02/18 07:02 PM
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I built an entire relationship off that. She didn’t mind one bit.
/r/seduction26/02/18 08:08 PM
1

Dude. Line breaks.
/r/seduction25/02/18 10:01 PM
1

ADD meds do it for me. I’ve heard a lot of the no-carb zombies (keto/paleo) say that cutting carbs led to a big spike in energy/focus/mood.
/r/seduction23/01/18 09:36 PM
1

What happened??
/r/seduction17/01/18 02:54 PM
2

Jesus man do you need a signed affidavit from her or something? Get off your ass and get on hers.
/r/seduction24/12/17 06:33 PM
2

Merry Christmas man! It sounds like she likes to flirt with you. That’s a great sign! But lots of people flirt when they’re in relationships. There’s no harm and it validates them. Hard for me to really say, but it sounds like you have a chance. I’d ask around and see if you can get some info on how her relationship is. If it’s lukewarm or not doing well, push her a bit to hang out with you and escalate. Good luck!
/r/seduction24/12/17 09:49 AM
1

Good problem to have, kid.
/r/seduction15/12/17 06:50 PM
3

Advanced Selling Strategies by Brian Tracy. Book saved my life. Selling is an internal game. It’s all about confidence. A big part of what he teaches covers how to talk to yourself and build up your inner game. I cannot recommend it enough.
/r/seduction13/12/17 08:21 PM
7

throughout the movie I talk a little bit about its history and make jokes and refrences. Brutal honesty, sounds like you were being annoying.
/r/seduction11/12/17 05:22 AM
1

Agreed. And/or they want more effort from you towards courting them. It's an IOI
/r/seduction11/12/17 05:10 AM
4

Play a game and leave notes in different books for people to find. I like to leave “Jesus is watching, you know” in 50 Shades of Gray books.
/r/seduction06/12/17 03:41 AM
4

“I don’t find anything (beyond my field of research) a compelling use of my time.” You sound stuck up. Get over yourself and understand that human relationships are complex and require some nuance. Nowhere on this sub does it say you have to lie or be a phony to attract women.
/r/seduction05/12/17 06:47 PM
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Smaller goals. Your goal should just be “say hi, make some quick chit chat and a decent impression, then bail.” Don’t worry about getting a number, or text game, or any of that other stuff. That comes later when you’re comfortable. Focus on that and I promise you’ll do great.
/r/seduction04/12/17 05:26 PM
1

I disagree that it would come off creepy, but having a friend lay some groundwork for you by putting in a a good word would be helpful.
/r/seduction03/12/17 06:57 PM
2

You shouldn't have shown up after she didn't reply to the reminder. You definitely shouldn't have followed up with a phone call. You absolutely shouldn't have tried to call her after she texted that bs excuse. The one thing you did right is move on and flirt with a hot girl in front of her. Her interest level is zero. Don't ever talk to her again.
/r/seduction03/12/17 06:54 PM
3

Yes!!
/r/seduction24/11/17 08:27 PM
2

It’s possible she is not the hookup type and the “just friends” comment is a filter she uses. It’s also possible she was trying to impress her friends by picking up a cute guy at the bar, but has no interest in dating right now.
/r/seduction24/11/17 07:58 PM
8

Nah man. If you feel she’s slipping away just be straight forward about what you want. It’s too late when she says she’s found someone else or specifically says she’s not interested. You got this, go for it!
/r/seduction24/11/17 07:19 PM
1

Wait what?
/r/seduction22/08/17 07:32 PM
1

Are you black?
/r/seduction22/08/17 07:17 PM
4

Great advice bro.
/r/seduction12/08/17 10:45 AM
3

Say three specific, positive things about yourself and what you want out of your trip out loud. Keep doing that. It'll sink in very quickly and help you relax and have fun.
/r/seduction12/08/17 10:43 AM
1

The thumbnail for this video really threw me off
/r/seduction26/07/17 04:46 AM
2

Go for any girl you want dude, 10 or otherwise.
/r/seduction17/07/17 12:42 AM
2

Then you're good. Besides, it will only matter as much as you allow it to.
/r/seduction17/07/17 12:05 AM
2

Not enough that it should alter how you feel about yourself or who is available for you.
/r/seduction16/07/17 11:44 PM
2

There is no "league" my friend. There never was. It's a completely internal limitation we create and impose on ourselves.
/r/seduction16/07/17 07:52 PM
17

The pain and the despair you're filling is terrible. My heart breaks for you dude. This is a supportive sub, and the problems you're having are related to it. But I don't know if what you really need is here. Contemplating suicide is very, very serious. There's an underlying problem that needs to be addressed by a mental health professional. Please consider talking to one. And I've seen some dumb, ugly motherfuckers in my time get all kinds of trim. If THOSE fugly bimbos can, then you absolutely…
/r/seduction30/06/17 06:09 PM
1

This is the 100% correct answer.
/r/seduction19/06/17 04:33 PM
1

Hockey camps and civil war reenactments are a good start.
/r/seduction06/06/17 11:38 PM
2

Do not compliment her eyebrows. She will know that you don't know a thing about eyebrows, and that compliment will come off disingenuous.
/r/seduction28/06/16 05:07 AM
1

Check the missed connections section of craigslist for a post from her. If you don't see it make one yourself.
/r/seduction28/12/15 09:01 PM
2

I miss her because she was a foul mouthed girl that used the word "crotch" a lot. I miss her tattoo of "The Little Prince". I miss her smoking habit and the almost violent matches of Mario Kart we had on her shitty TV. But I do not miss her infidelity.
/r/seduction05/02/15 06:38 PM
1

Take her to a bookstore and leave notes in books for strangers. This one chick I knew left one that said "Laxatives and speed are the only diet you need" in a Paleo recipe book. I miss her.
/r/seduction05/02/15 07:04 AM
2

Oh man, I remembered how glad I was to turn 21. Bars are an absolute blast. Heres a tip I'll give you that I wish someone had given me when I was your age: When you have a favorite bar, go in early. Like 5pm or 6pm. You dont have to stay there till close, but its important that you're there early enough that no ones around, and late enough that the bartenders working that shift are there till close. Make friends with them. Joke around, tip well, and make sure they know you by name. (There are lo…
/r/seduction04/06/13 06:19 AM
4

A lot of girls would read that as "I am a manslut that only hooks up and is not mature enough for a relationship". That may be why they sour on you when you say that. You dont have to lie, its always better to be honest when you're talking to a girl. Always. Dont bring up your relationship inexperience unless they ask. If they do, just say "Well I actually havent had a lot of relationships, I guess I'm just waiting for the right one." Then IMMEDIATELY pivot to a question about her. That will lea…
/r/seduction26/03/13 05:00 AM
3

When a girl mentions a "previous" crush it ABSOLUTELY means she digs you. If you say you're not interested, she can save face by saying "well it was a while ago and I dont now." She's waiting for you to make a move bud. A good way to break the ice is something really simple like "You know its been a while since we've actually seen each other. Would you like to get dinner and/or a drink with me?"
/r/seduction19/03/13 10:51 PM
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