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they support liberal policies that allow infinite illegal migrant voting blocs which slowly erode what made the country great in the first place. We spent centuries fighting off the hordes and now were inviting them to live next door because sending the majority home "Feels bad" just because, oh say, 100k of them will cause crimes. being led by propaganda easily, therefore the modern left, its 100% an existential problem if you dont want islam to get a foot hold and start experiencing self harm …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 10:51 PM
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You ignore the 80% of men that women dont or won’t date. You’re right, the top 20% of guys do act like that, because they are the top 20%. You need lots of female attention or dating success to even DEVELOP a fetish for a certain type of woman!!! Read it again!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 02:43 PM
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The vast majority of guys would be incredibly happy to date a woman who would be considered a 5 or 6, respectful, absent obesity, and sweet. 80% of men in fact. Since women only really want to date the top 20%. In fact, 80% of men can’t even HAVE a fetish for an actual woman because they don’t get dates or attention from women. Basically, it’s a really false equivocation meant to be intra-sexually protective of women’s mistakes in choosing partners… Women have a buffet of men to choose from and …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:42 PM
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Your take is influenced by your youth, movies or your past —- men really don’t like crazy women. They do not like overly bubbly, fast talking, reckless women. It’s a myth caused by players and f boys. Men don’t care how good a woman is at sex, or how freaky in bed she is. Sex is sex. If you have to quantitatively qualify sex with a person your priorities are massively screwed up. (e.g: “sexually compatible”) Any guy that says “freak in the sheets” or whatever, is a guy with a high body count. He…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:35 PM
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It’s so much easier when you can blame someone else. More importantly, it bypasses self criticism. Which is poison to the Ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 06:22 AM
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I see your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:49 AM
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I've studied Christianity for 20 years... This is absolutely wrong. I'm very sad that you interpret it that way. By the quote in question alone, "am i my brother's keeper?" Spoken by cain replying to God when he asked what has become of Abel. We not only have a duty to fix other people, we have a duty to save them from themselves if needed. His most important commandment was, "Love others as you love thyself." (sadly shortened to ' love thy neighbor') I hope you understand me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:11 PM
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maybe the incels in their twenties and 4channers? I haven't come across this sentiment outside of reddit. No man thinks he is owed sex unless he is toxic and/or immature. Problem is guys who don't show respect to women get laid and therefore women think men act entitled to sex... problem is it turns women on if a man acts sexually entitled to her (if she is fond of him) if not, she sees it as toxic entitlement.... just choose better men. women are the gatekeepers of sex, men are the gatekeepers …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:39 PM
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the men she dates only want to fuck women - im guessing. She extrapolates her own experience with men to all men because its easier to generalize over being self reflective
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:33 PM
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you choose horrible men. period.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:31 PM
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This sentiment is lost wisdom now...though I agree <3. Even Christians aren't Christian If we aren't our brothers keeper -- we're just another animal
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:30 PM
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Christians and Mahayana Buddhists are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:27 PM
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hostages?..., Turn off the Handmaids Tale reruns....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 01:47 AM
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i concede on the catholic part. Though I'm not Christian. What I've said is nowhere near as radical as sharia law.... It's not even radical. This is how it has been for centuries. Every successful culture operated like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:46 AM
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submissive doesn't necessarily mean weaker-- it just means you don't have final say. Men are raised to be accountable. Women aren't. Thats why we get final say.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:43 AM
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That isn't a man centered definition. That is the natural order of things. Women don't even know what a woman is anymore. Also, men will shame other men who do not act like men. Thats what men are supposed to do. Women have no shame, they don't act responsible for what each other do. This is why you have shows like handmaids tale and not the reverse, because men have too much a sense of duty to even entertain the idea of enslaving women like that, or being enslaved like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:37 AM
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its because most women have no theory of mind. ...if she's above a 6 she probably never have to think about how other people really feel ,because everyone is worried about how they feel. its culturally induced solipsism caused by our society's addiction to sex. the only time they do is when it's another woman ex: Women don't want to date short guys A: I've dated short guys! Other A: Yeah, I have too! result: subjective thinking (it's all a matter of opinionism) (no hard truths) this is why they …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:05 AM
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know your worth king drizzle drizzle ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 02:48 AM
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............. smh. Solipsistic
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 02:46 AM
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The market is flooooooded on one side so there is a subconscious backlash at this because women will have to learn to settle. (imo). Also, it's leftover baggage from the incel raging. (maybe even a dash of handmaids tale binge watching)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:08 AM
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women find 80% of guys unattractive and hence you have the loneliness epidemic. (and the chad/hook up culture problem) women want equality except when they don't lol because of that ^ its either abject loneliness or hypersexuality.. 8/10 men dont really get a choice, but 8/10 women do have a choice between these. And of course they wont choose loneliness. So the cycle will continue until women get thirstier for relationships (or give in the hookup culture and non-committed sex. And women don't e…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:21 AM
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100% Relationships require compromise and sacrifice. Everyone's sexual chemistry dies out after a few months to a year. Then they start masturbating. Then it's over after that. Unless they recognize that a LTR is about more than that 'sparkle'. Or "good" sex. ...I think most people prioritize sex now and if you don't you cant be a part of modern dating.... and if you do, you probably are attractive... This is why its kind of crazy to consider LTR w anyone above a 7 on looks scale. haha rightt?? …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:16 AM
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don't confuse the menu with the meal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:07 AM
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hahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaa juxtaposition is the kryptonite of identity politics
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 03:03 AM
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she is baiting everyone on the internet. It's ragebait. Its perfectly designed to raise the ire of women (she disassociated, cries, regrets she cant satisfy all the men) And men get blamed, they get mad, everyone talks about Lily, she makes more money. its absolute garbage and unless there is video of this disgusting act -- I do not believe she even did it. Its a win win either way for her. She's a slag and I do not believe anything she says. I watched her on whatever podcast for hours. She's ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 09:24 AM
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lmaoooooo well said
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 02:29 AM
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if the internet is to be believed, culture is currently at war with this discrepancy. Since the 2010s there has been a ton of hookup culture critical content. It seemed to become mainstream with tiktok and Covid. Its fascinating to see culture change like this... I think we're finally coming to terms with equality in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:39 AM
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Dating apps + Hypergamy = Chaos
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:59 PM
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Because if you goto a buffet you can always come back for seconds later. When you have your pick of the litter why settle at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:58 PM
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I think it’s more accurate to say 45% of men get -zero- signals from women that they should approach. This narrative of men having to approach is falling apart right now. Traditionalism is DEAD. Monogamy is on life support. Thanks to hypergamy and women only dating 1 out of 10 guys. The pressure of men going their own way has women finally hungry enough to ‘approach’. 95% of women know within half a minute if they would smash. Same with guys. It’s just that guys have way better sense of standard…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 04:55 PM
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LOLLLLL
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:08 PM
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As if this one woman, who talks as though they have enough looks to dispense with wisdom, as if she would know if women approach men??? Oh you approached a guy when you were drunk? Awesome. No they don't. You wouldn't know for the same reason the trees cant see the forest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:07 PM
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its funny because manual labor jobs will be the most irreplaceable by AI and these guys will probably end up making a ton of money. so your answer is to rely on technology to replace men... enjoy the vibrators ladies. O_o
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:05 PM
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Western women just are not raised to care about wild intellectual pursuits. They don't really care about strangers enough to put themselves out there.Majority of men dont either. Thats why so many of us are disgusted by the dating culture. They wont ever -really- love anything outside of themselves and their family. (the latter isn't guaranteed lol). (this is exaggerated quite a bit, sorry) They certainly wont have a love of science that will keep them working alone for 15 years because they can…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 08:01 PM
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Lonely women becoming a lazy susan for 'high value' men. (F-boys to F-Men) Subsequently being mentally damaged by a guy that only cares about novel sex--- Ruining her chances of having a family. Spending the rest of her child bearing years trying to get the BBD bigger-better-deal or the guy that is her "dream man". When it comes to men-- the best things in life are free. If you put a price on a man you will get a superficial relationship. Karma. I think in about 5-10 years women will start a mov…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:57 PM
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women are terrified of everything thats what hyper victimization does to you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:49 PM
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"you miss 100% of the shots you don't .....yeahhhhh nevermind."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/24 07:49 PM
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Yeah I sometimes feel like women are the worst capitalists They gatekeep love behind a price tag It seems like real love isn’t founded on material things But whatever I’m gonna get called incel or idealist or just weird I’m sure ;D
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 01:31 PM
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I’m speaking on the meta of the entire notion of ‘going our own way’. I was triggered by your original post because women can have the luxury of going their own way. Whereas, men who try to, only end up making their entire ideology about women and slandering them. Men can never have the luxury of ignoring women. Women can— because they have been attended to their whole lives. Generally. Unless you are hideous or unhealthy. Men need women much more than the opposite. Also ….feminist and egalitari…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:48 AM
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Also the idea of a feminist being egalitarian is absurd. The very word feminism precludes any egalitarianism. If they truly wanted equality they would just call themselves humanists but instead they tribalize and turn jingoistic. That isn’t egalitarian. Feminism is the flip side of the same coin as MGTOW… Jilted lovers wanting to generalize the entire opposite sex so they don’t have to self reflect on their own failings as a man or a woman. (‘a human really)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:43 AM
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I actually don’t disagree with you at all — I just think it deserves mentioning that only women can have that actual choice. If we’re speaking on all men, and all women, men don’t have a choice—- women can get sperm. The old line “we don’t need men” has never been more true. This is why when women go their own way it’s really just the wind blowing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:37 AM
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Well… if you are rich you can’t understand why poor people get so excited about sales?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:34 AM
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MGTOw is definitely a cope. Most of the influencers from that sphere are bitter and resentful. It’s hypocritical I agree but the truth is that men cannot go their own way and neither can women. MGTOW has some points but it’s sullied by the misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:33 AM
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Because there is no scarcity of attention for women. …. You have no idea what it is like to be a man…. And you don’t even seem to try to imagine it. It seems fine to you because you have no conception of what it is to be a man. There is bitterness I agree. They say things they shouldn’t. They’re desperate. I get sex, I’m not an incel, I’m just saying—- you don’t understand why men react the way they do. You could study it online by watching things you disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:29 AM
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Women. There are a lot of women. Who choose to stay single. Only they have the luxury of being fed up with so much attention. Egalitarian…lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:28 AM
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Holy….WGOTW? Oh that’s feminism right? What we have right now is a problem of : Ego. People care more about themselves than anything else. Phrases like “love yourself” …. As if anyone who isn’t mentally ill needs to hear that? ‘Self-care” “‘love the skin you’re in” ‘Maybe she’s born with it—- maybe it’s maybelline?”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:26 AM
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Girl, if he likes you—- he won’t mind if you take the reins for this. Just have a drink and look him in the eyes and say: do I have to keep planning our get togethers? Or are you gonna show me a sign that ya miss me? And just smile at him. Better get it out on the table early so it doesn’t ruin dinner
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/24 03:11 AM
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There’s nothing normal or natural about the way our culture engages in casual sex—. The pill makes all of that possible. The pill is about as unnatural as you can get…. Sex is not a hobby or a past-time. I know—- radical idea—- 💡? TLDR; sex addiction and main character syndrome is fueling meaningless relationships. It may be ‘fine’ for some men but women generally don’t respond well to casual meaningless sex. The idea of having more than 10 sexual partners in your life time is completely unnatur…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 12:08 AM
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My advice: forget about romance and relationships until you are 30+. Just be casual about the twenties because everyone that can get laid —- is getting laid—- women are the gatekeepers of sex but they aren’t doing that. Also—- Hypergamy is a real thing it isn’t just an observation…. Women rarely date across and never down. This is another reason why I just don’t believe they are that romantic…. Or at least today’s western women are not romantic. . You could say ‘western women’ generally have a t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 11:35 PM
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something you said in an earlier reply on this thread Was why I thought that. im having second thoughts on everything after reading you being puzzled about it too. honestly I’m not sure if it’s productive to blame anyone anymore…. For anything. It seems like we’re all caught up in this hypertechno logical culture destroying wave.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 07:53 AM
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I want to somewhat apologize— I saw your posts about struggling with ADHD and I really didn’t mean to put you down like that. it’s just frustrating when people don’t try to entertain a perspective other then their own. I’ve studied all of this for 25 years now and I’m sorry but you need to stop and reconsider. I’d recommend Louise Perry or …. Karen straughn(?). You could just look up some opposing viewpoints that aren’t red pill manosphere garbage. Maybe some debates on feminism. Especially radi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:40 PM
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…. You are so far from rational that I am sorry I even tried to discuss anything with you. Your argument is all over the place and you haven’t replied to anything I said. You basically have a radical hatred of men and your ideology precludes you from even trying to understand my point. I hope you self reflect someday and realize you’re being jingoistic. You def live up to your title ‘radfem’. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:33 PM
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Do you have ADHD? Do you even think about what you read? I basically made my argument against it? If I did extrapolate it wasn’t meant that way — so much casual sex is bad for everyone but it’s worse for women. I’m not saying it needs to stop completely but if women do not gatekeep sex it will keep incentivizing hookup culture.? Asking men to ‘do their part’ is stupid because men will always want casual sex. It’s biological. I’m not excusing men completely but the ones who stand to benefit from …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:26 PM
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You are way too radfem-pilled to even debate with. Half of your points I can’t be bothered to refute because they’re baseless and neurotic in nature.. your stat about men killing their children is so cherry picked—- you know that you can’t confuse correlation with causation. Your argument is half baked…. Your first statement is an interesting point though. Yes the new abortion laws are too strict.. I was only saying that women get custody -overwhelmingly- and men get destroyed in divorce courts.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:07 PM
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Women should gatekeep sex. Not blame male sex drive. Don’t you agree that birth control and the pill have ruined relationships? If most sociologists agree that women are the gatekeepers of sex how can you blame men more than 25% for rampant meaningless sex..? I’ll admit that women feel like they have no reason not to give sex on the first date…. It’s become normalized…which is why I say they are maladapting to this hookup culture by embracing casual sex. If you make the most intimate act with an…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:58 PM
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Because sexual addiction needs taboo to fuel it. Normal sex becomes -boring- and -vanilla-. Sex addiction (‘orgasm more than 6 times a week) is just like any other addiction. It develops tolerance. It takes strong and stronger hits of ‘risque’ ‘taboo’ ‘wild’ ‘scary’. Women experience sex emotionally this is why they need foreplay. She needs some emotional hits to feel sex and in lieu of any healthy emotional relationship she will use unhealthy emotional relationship to achieve that satisfaction.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:51 AM
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That’s an incredibly apt comparison. I’ll remember this. Social media is to women what porn is for men… They both destroy commitment and cheapen sex and relationships. And they allow us to cheat our way into getting what should only be worked for… What amazing growing pains our culture is going through.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:41 AM
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I think you are referring to hypergamy. Something that doesn’t work at all in women’s favor in a glaringly unequal hyper capitalist consumer society. Women have basically consigned their twenties and early thirties to casual hookups with those few men they find attractive who have less than no incentive to commit to them. Therefore their desire to date up, and rarely across, severely limits the chances of romance. Hypergamy and romance do not mix. Love is about an equal sacrifice. Compromise. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:33 AM
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Imagine seeing a guy that said “I have so many choices of women but to be frank with you —- they all suck. I’ll -probably- never fall in love.” You are the problem. Honestly. Women are so spoiled on choice now that they can’t even make an healthy decision. If I were being honest, 75% of women under 35 are not mother material, not wife material, and not even good as friends really. And that’s really sad. What exactly is it about these men that makes you think they -all- suck? I bet at the end of …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:22 AM
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You are complaining about having multiple choices…. most men don’t even have a single choice…. The least you could do is not reply condescendingly…. You really have a terrible emotional IQ and I doubt you know more than OP about relationships—- you are like someone complaining about not having anything to eat with a fridge full of food. Kierkegaard said “anxiety is the dizziness of freedom.” Maybe with so many choices you confused the menu for the meal? Also— women are hypergamous in a glaringly…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:53 AM
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Look up Kant’s ‘disinterested gaze’ And—- “the importance of beauty” by Roger Scruton (Vimeo has it free)
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 01:02 AM
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In my estimation after 20 years of being a part of the hookup culture I would say any girl that is sexually active probably has at least 5-10 partners by 25. I’m starting to believe I may have to double that estimation. Sexuality is too craved by men, and being seduced is too desirable for women. They didn’t have a chance without a great father. Not even a chance. They sought out male attention/attention, however they could get it. If they didn’t need male validation they wouldn’t be sleeping wi…
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/23 04:50 PM
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“‘anxiety is the dizziness of freedom.”
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/23 04:42 PM
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:/ Facts. Confirmed.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/23 04:39 PM
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Lol, the look on girls face when she asks to give you a BJ and you say, “no thanks babe.” RIP. Absolutely gutted. Have witnessed this firsthand! ;D
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 04:45 AM
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I’m just a guy and I had this problem with my ex. With culture these days it makes you think everyone is having sex constantly. After being in a relationship for ten years I came to see that twice a week was ideal because it’s enough refractory period time for both of you to be naturally turned on. However, if either partner is masturbating, (porn for guys, vibrators for girls (not necessarily porn also)) the sex desire won’t be natural and healthy. I would enjoy the 2 times a week, and yeah, I …
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/23 04:42 AM
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I agree completely. So many red flags for this woman. He has checked out of the relationship. Normalizing thong wearing for men by a wife is so left field and wacky
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 05:07 PM
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FACTS
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 05:05 PM
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It is heartwarming to hear this. You are a real 1.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 04:42 PM
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Too bad you couldn’t offer us more paragraphs
/r/MensRights11/10/23 12:10 AM
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‘It’s not like some random girl…” Didn’t you say some random girl found out about you using it? I still don’t believe it but I do believe there is an element of truth. Like 50% of it
/r/MensRights10/10/23 10:18 PM
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This is why we need moderation. Garbage stories like this that are only radicalizing the comments.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 03:16 PM
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He is right. Wrap your mind around it.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 03:15 PM
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No they don’t. And they don’t sit next to men and stare at their phones. Highly doubtful this story. Maybe OP just wants to validate his victimhood or something. This doesn’t feel real at all. Women don’t actively go out of their way to pick on guys. What is more concerning is how many users just ate this up as if it were easily believable. What I’m thinking is that a girl he knows found out or was told that he supports “mensrights” and was maybe aggressive about it, not physical, and he wants t…
/r/MensRights10/10/23 03:10 PM
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With all due respect this feels fake af
/r/MensRights10/10/23 03:08 PM
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You are surrounded by red flags and you somehow don’t see it. There is almost no hope for a relationship that has deteriorated this far (if it can be called that). He isn’t in a relationship with you anymore because he doesn’t care about his actions and how they”RELATE” to you. When your SO does things without taking into account how it affects you, or knows how it will, and still proceeds to do it, that is a sociopath. This blatant disregard for your feelings is beyond reprehensible. Maybe you …
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/23 03:01 PM
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it's insane how this thread (and subreddit) seems to exist just to reinforce the opinion presented. Talking Sh** about women and pretending to present it as an argument.... Also, extra points for edginess and being emotionally shallow. Get downvoted for 'debating'. I'm actually very critical of both sexes but when men weaponize their minds solely for the purpose of reinforcing their resentment and tryign to get some upvotes and luls its just pathetically hopeless. Change the name to something mo…
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 02:38 PM
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Well --- it says 'debate' in the subreddit name. /lol You are welcome to sling shite around. Carry on. ;D
/r/AllPillDebate07/10/23 02:28 PM
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Are you in arguing in good faith or just pretending to ask questions to act obtuse?
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 06:06 PM
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LOL "nice dick bro" I LULd
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 06:04 PM
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I think the root of the problem starts with fathers princessifying their daughters and not raising them like men 'at all'. One could theorize this is why there are far more Male to female transitions because men are failing (so to speak) at way higher rates at being successful at dating. Its far more appealing to be a woman if you are an ab-used person
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 06:03 PM
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this kind of language and tone is why we wont be listened to. We have to frame our arguments in a way that isn't just inflammatory.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 06:01 PM
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Facts.
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 06:01 PM
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"it is amazing this delusion that beauty is goodness." -tolstoy
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 06:00 PM
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Gently break him out of his shell. I’m extremely introverted and I still find something to love about going out. You may compliment each other. Keep your heart open and never turn to bitterness and you will find a way. As long as he isn’t the entirely wrong choice of a man.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/23 02:42 AM
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Honeymoon sex def goes away… some girls take this really badly.. I think …. You need to figure out how to adjust. You need to figure out how to see him as sexy again I guess. Maybe he can just ‘take care of you’. I wasn’t sexually attracted to my ex but I did love her and sex was sometimes weird but we would find a way. Even after 8 years. It’s probably more on him to make you sexually attracted to him. Y’all should go camping and don’t bring creature comforts. You’ll bond over it.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/23 01:19 AM
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Your a tangled bundle of opinions aren’t ye? We not talking bout HVM body count— I think? “There’s nothing wrong with wanting a virgin”? I mean….. most ppl that haven’t had sex are underage…. And unless your Christian and waiting for marriage, you won’t be a ‘virgin’ after 21. So one could make an argument that there is -something- wrong with it…. It’s just not how our culture and society works anymore. The only way I could see this being justified is if that person were a virgin too?
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/23 08:13 PM
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Peterson is trying to lift men up but the cultural milieu is geared to see men as…disposable or something. White Man Bad. MEN BAD. ‘Rape Culture’ , victimhood, hysterical lack of sense, value, morality——. Another facet of the problem is that confident assholes are getting ahead of all of us. Our society is being absolutely ROCKED by the internet and soon, AI. I would batten the hatches cause you can’t change the weather that is coming. Give it about 30 years and it will settle down and people wi…
/r/MensRights03/10/23 07:15 PM
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This is Andrew Tate’s brand of red pill. Honestly —- call it black pill. Huuuuuuge red flag. Honestly though, HVM’s (guys that are picked by women readily) do somehwat have this luxury, because they have no incentive to be faithful. Guys crave novel sex and they have dating apps to peruse whenever they get bored. That is a recipe for resentment on both sides. So the answer is a resounding, “no.”
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/23 12:38 AM
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*catholic ;D momentary lapses of reason do happen. I find it very weird though. This is the last thing a guy would say to his girl. Like…one of the very last things EVER.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/23 12:25 AM
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That about sums it up. Dont be like me and try to make a dead relationship dance out of the grave. You could waste YEARS of your life with someone you don’t even want to have memories of. :O Trust your instincts!!!
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/23 03:56 PM
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He’s just casually dating her? It’s highly unlikely that he will see her as a long term partner. Which is a problem for HVM and women in general…. There are so many choices and men are driven by looks primarily, and novelty, so, if he is a HVM he will be able to have novel and new partners all of the time. This is one reason why it’s problematic seeking out a HVM. In terms of the dating market—- they have no incentive to settle down. HVM are the ones benefitting the most from the current dating …
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/23 03:48 PM
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I apologize if my opinion isn’t welcome, I’m a guy, here is my perspective on this. Okay so—- any guy that thinks a girl should be a virgin is absolutely a red flag. I’ve never come across a guy IRL that expressed this. From what I can tell—- most guys just don’t want to know unless this girl is acting like she has a high body count.. If girl starts acting weird and things are going wrong, that question may be asked—- if a guy asks you what your body count is before you’ve been hanging out for a…
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/23 03:42 PM
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I wholeheartedly agree with this— It’s really how you carry yourself. If I am really into a girl, and she is really into me, I’m not going to ask what her body count is. However, if she starts acting a little flamboyantly sexual, exhibitionist, showing everyone she meets the tattoo on her upper thigh, looking for excuses to wear less clothes, arguing about dressing overtly sexual, fishing for compliments, or if she tries to impress you by being … “sexually adventurous” or overly fixated on sex b…
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/23 03:32 PM
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That’s not good OP. I would begin considering something else. People that gaslight …. I don’t understand them. it’s my biggest red flag. Without trust…. There is no way to have a relationship. That’s the problem. Like you said at the end, “you don’t know”. Take it from me, you will never know for sure. I wasted this whole year on someone that cheated and gaslit me about trust. Life is too short to waste your time with people who aren’t honest.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/23 01:59 AM
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Lol my ex was like this. I would keep a word count and be like ‘your 200 words ahead of me….” LoL. It really does feel dehumanizing…. Especially when you try to talk and they just …. Can’t listen to you without already thinking of what they want to say. Your afraid to stop talking because they take it as a chance to JUMP IN and start talking…. God I don’t miss it. I tried to fix this in our relationship—- I tried really hard—- but it just made her resent me for her “inability to control her adhd…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/23 08:31 PM
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I think you could have phrased this better….
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/23 08:26 PM
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Try to keep each person’s word count balanced. I know it sounds silly but— be aware of it. Practice getting the other person to respond or allow them a response. It’s reciprocal. Also, it helps to think of not reacting —- and instead responding.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/23 08:23 PM
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In this case it feels like the guy should be more clear about what he wants. I’m all for women being more assertive but telling her to pick an option? That’s really weird and unromantic. Maybe he’s socially awkward, if so, you have to pick up the cues and tell him what you want—- but traditionally you would think the guy would have, by now, given you some sign that he desires you physically and emotionally?… Relationships can’t always be traditional now, so, if the guy is not very confident it w…
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/23 02:40 PM
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Nature doesn’t make mistakes. Edit: I was referring to the way OP mentioned her nose. My bad.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/23 02:09 AM
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Facts. I love it when girls take a shot.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/23 02:08 AM
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Can you explain more about what his grievance was with you 3 months ago? He just spontaneously told you one day (while still in a relationship) that he was going out for coffee with this potential date? That would be callous. I don’t think there is enough information to go on, but it seems like he has checked out of the relationship. I had a breakup earlier this year—- cheated on. 8 year relationship —-- Gone. I felt this way too. Honestly, I had to disassociate from my feelings for awhile. Only…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/23 06:58 PM
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Same thing happened to me girl—- she was so careless. First time it was right there on her DMs. Second time it wa in her recently deleted folder. Smh. Idk why people can’t break up before cheating. It’s like they’re keeping you around in case the one their cheating on doesn’t want them. I was messed up for all of this year. We were together for like 8 years…. It brings into question our whole relationship. One consolation is that you won’t be able to waste your time with this person. But yes, it…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/23 03:52 AM
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Tell him that , you respect his job, but you need these things from him. You need more attention. If he isn't willing to work on it, then... something else is wrong. also, like someone else said, maybe you can be more involved in his job. Shrug. It sounds like he could spare more time for you (imo)
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/23 06:39 PM
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Wow. This^ That was a lovely reply. 😮
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/23 03:08 PM
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lmfaooooooooo
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/23 07:32 PM
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Ram Dass on youtube
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/23 04:21 PM
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‘Despite everything’ : not speaking about homosexuality or codependency. I’m sorry you see it that way. I’ll pass on the argument.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/23 11:38 PM
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The way Louie cared for Lestat despite everything. The way Louis didn’t want to harm anyone for the sake of his bloodthirst. …the way he kept searching for a Daddy. (/joke)
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/23 11:22 PM
1

Ditto
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/23 07:25 PM
1

Variety is the spice of life Watch more films that elucidate the great examples of feminine traits in men. Such as interview w the vampire, cloud atlas, …. Um…. 500 days of summer. (🙄)
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/23 05:14 PM
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Reminds me of some writing advice I got, “‘Don’t tell. Show.”
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/23 04:30 PM
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“Necessity is the mother of invention.”
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/23 03:09 PM
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clever_girl.gif
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/23 02:56 PM
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Second this…. Since I gave up fap almost completely, my relationship with my SO has never been more healthy. In almost all ways. Taking a nude would be like commercializing yourself. If my SO has any reticence about it—- I would find that kind of modesty very attractive. In a world of nudes and OF and validation complexes.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/23 02:52 PM
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…Have you tried saying hello. ? 🤷‍♂️ Smh. Literally do ‘anything’ personably. I’d be picky though. Just not for the usual things. Look out for emotional intelligence above all.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/23 12:13 PM
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I don’t usually generalize this much but there is so much wrong with myron I can’t even. Just look up any of the 100 videos about fresh n fit on YouTube. Also you could see their latest attack on aba and preach making fun of them and calling them 🙈 they punctuated my point with Their latest video. Myron went full klansman and thinks it’s funny…. Kind of ironic how they did that right after someone mentioned them. Very much a “hold my beer, I’ll show you toxic” moment For them. oh as for tate, he…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/23 05:16 PM
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Check out ‘the yoga of relationship” with Ram dass on youtube its not easy though. and I went through a lot of idealizing and romanticizing for many years to get to the point where I finally had enough. Let’s both keep working on it. 🙏
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/23 08:43 PM
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Personally I’ve found more success in just not taking relationships seriously. And I don’t mean like, cheating, or being emotionally unavailable, I just mean not turning everything into a Disney movie (speaking about myself) It’s the same with me, I get really attached, and it makes everything so dramatic. Lately I just keep telling myself ‘stop taking everything so seriously’ and I’ve been having more and more fun with my partner. And she told me that she feels so much better about everything. …
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/23 04:34 PM
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Fresh and fit are lowering guys stock across the board. From what I can tell only a very few guys even like them unironically. To me they are just like Andrew Tate without any reticence. They reinforce the stereotype of toxic male traits. I only watched them a few times because the format was sort of creative and new. (‘actually talking to women while talking about them). But then I realized they were just using them for clicks. It’s a highly dramatic youtube channel so it gets covered by a lot …
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/23 07:49 PM
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I just want to say…. He is very very lucky to have someone in his life like you. I’m not sure I would tolerate the porn and definitely not the cheating though. He sounds frivolous.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/23 12:27 PM
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Go watch some films, go do something, and get off the manosphere dude. It’s selling you a self perpetuating lie. that your alone because women are cruel and do not care and it’s no fault of your own. This constant back and forth between the sexes is perpetuated by one or two bad relationships by people who spend years on the manosphere validating the failure of their doomed relationship by villainizing all women, because the only way to escape accountability is by making everyone else the fault.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/23 03:27 PM
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I’m a man and I think your self projecting too much. I empathize with your concerns, and there is a lot of social media that plays to these beliefs, but generalizing females isn’t helping anyone. It’s self perpetuating stereotypes. OP’s boyfriend said “he wanted to live apart so he could experience a breakdown” (‘was thinking about it for months) I’d say that’s kind of selfish and just WeiRd. I would feel really insecure and unsure of someone like that if it was my partner. It sounds like he’s h…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/23 03:20 PM
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Cooking is something I struggled with for a long time. I over think it. The key for me has been “low and slow” overcooking is very easy to do. The truth is, the only way I learned how to cook? Was by being a bad cook. Remain persistent and pay attention to every aspect of it. Don’t be afraid to undercook something, you will know if you do. For example, pork chops. They cook very fast actually, but we worry so much about undercooking. And steak, well, my secret has been when the blood rises to th…
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 12:40 AM
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This may be TMI, but here is my personal experience with this. i actually respect a girl for initiating. However, both partners 'should' be initiating reciprocally. As in, the work shouldn't all be on you or him. It should be both of you. i use to tell my ex that I had a low libido but I just didn't want to be intimate with her. I would watch porn on the low. We were not a good couple... for many reasons. she wasnt emotionally available to me, so i didn't find her physically attractive. She was …
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/23 03:36 PM
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Your cognizance and self awareness proving you aren’t failing, imo.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/23 03:17 PM
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With respect, I think your father is controlling your life far too much, and you are capitulating to him. I'm sure others have said this but you have to get out from under his roof somehow. He is probably using that to leverage control over you. You can't take of everyone, even if it is in your nature. There comes a time when you have to put yourself first, and it isn't conceited or selfish. Your dad is projecting his selfishness on to you and his overly controlling influence has taught you to b…
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/23 08:13 PM
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It isn't objective because you are allowing everyone to be weighted evenly by saying "everyone has their own path in life."No. Some people just screw up a lot and dont get in healthy relationships because they are unhealthy. "Everyone has their own problems" as a response to whether some people are just toxic is like.. Is about as subjective as you can get. It won't help anyone it just makes them feel better. Last I checked the world had consequences and unfairness exists. Be more mindful about …
/r/ExRedPill17/09/22 02:05 PM
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