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ASK RPWastrared/r/RedPillWives21/02/17 12:13 AM
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OFF TOPICastrared/r/RedPillWomen31/12/16 03:49 AM
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This is a small rant that I just need to get off my chest - has anyone else noticed that it seems to have become trendy for people to say how much they can't stand children? I hear it all the time and it really grinds my gears, because it doesn't seem enough for people to just say they don't personally want children, it HAS to be all "EUGHHHH CHILDREN ARE GROSS WHY WOULD ANYONE WANT THEM THEY ARE A BURDEN ON SOCIETY HORRIBLE THINGS". It's like they're just trying to be edgy. I don't know if this…
/r/RedPillWives30/07/17 11:06 AM
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I've worked as a kindergarten teacher and we were constantly under strain from short staff. I don't know a single daycare centre that isn't. Not enough people want to go into the field as it is long hours and notoriously low pay. If we take SAHM's out of the equation there simply will not be enough daycare providers to go around.
/r/RedPillWives22/03/17 11:57 AM
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I agree. I thought it was an absolute non issue when the stick figures were just "men". Now that they are women too, I still think it's a non issue.
/r/RedPillWives21/03/17 12:10 PM
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I see what you're saying, but I'd still be suspicious of a guy who can leave a 10 year relationship as soon as a better offer comes up. We don't know the full situation here - how long had things been bad? If things had been sour for a year or more that's understandable, but is that the case, or has he run off at the first sign of things getting tough? I'd have lots of questions if I was OP.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 12:40 PM
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I'm just saying to be cautious. If things were that bad don't you think he would've left a long time ago? Seems suspicious that another woman had to be the catalyst, don't you think?
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/17 12:27 PM
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I'd be very cautious if I were you. If he can leave his long term relationship for another woman, then he can do the same to you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/17 06:22 PM
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Looks are important. They are probably less important to us than they are to men, but they are important nonetheless. Any woman who says they would happily date an unkempt overweight man over a good looking fit man is kidding themselves.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/17 09:51 PM
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This is saddening to read for a single girl like me. If divorce laws were changed and became truly equal, perhaps less men would feel this way.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/17 04:43 PM
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I'm a big fan of shoe0nhead too! I sometimes wonder if she's secretly RPW haha
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 10:39 PM
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Feel free to PM if you ever want support. My ex broke up with me 6 months ago after a 3 year relationship. I'm still not fully moved on (he was really my everything) but each week I'm feeling a little better :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 10:31 PM
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She sounds very unhappy. I think the only thing you can do is lead by example. Chances are she will notice how happy you are in your life and may come to you for advice, and that's when you help her out. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink, as the saying goes.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 10:23 PM
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You say you tell men that you're looking for a serious relationship, and mention marriage and family before you've even gone on a date with them. Others may disagree but personally I think this is way too forward and could be what is really intimidating the men you're dating.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/17 10:21 PM
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I really love this! It's nice to hear a success story from what sounds like a relationship with traditional gender roles :)
/r/RedPillWives09/03/17 09:42 PM
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I know what you mean but I feel she did mention a lot of things that she can improve on too, so she knows she isn't perfect either.
/r/RedPillWives09/03/17 09:41 PM
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"Clearly feminists have a hierarchical approach to breast-baring. When someone like Emma Watson shows a bit of skin, in a classy, expensive magazine like Vanity Fair, that’s okay. But when blonde, tanned glamour models pose topless in a cheap tabloid, that’s not okay." I agree with this, and can't help but feel that feminists shun the glamour models because their toplessness is specifically about being sexually arousing to men, and these feminists think that women should never do anything for me…
/r/RedPillWives09/03/17 09:33 PM
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I personally am not a Trump supporter, but it's true that Hillary Clinton was just so unlikeable. She tried so hard to be relatable and genuine and different that she just seemed anything but. Trump and Bernie Sanders, regardless of what side of the political spectrum you're on, both represented change - I think the election could have been a different story if Hillary wasn't the Democrat candidate.
/r/RedPillWives09/03/17 09:20 PM
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I really enjoy Christina Hoff Sommers. I can absolutely get behind her brand of feminism and love how she denounces today's third wave nonsense.
/r/RedPillWives08/03/17 11:45 PM
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All I can say is: calm down. I've been there too. I only discovered RP a few months ago and I was scared and confused and angry and sad all at once. But just breathe. Take it all in slowly. Read some more theory a day at a time, and then it won't all seem so overwhelming. Also, I'd say avoid TRP, at least initially. Remember it's a sub for men, and a hell of a lot of the men there are still in their angry "women are evil" phase. I've said this recently in another thread but RPW is not about attr…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/17 12:17 AM
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If he's my SO, then great. If he's not, then it weirds me out.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/17 08:34 PM
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I'm inclined to agree. Whilst I agree that women have got to take responsibility for our own actions, we've all been vulnerable at one point. I can't help but feel sorry for that woman you describe in the documentary - it sounds like she's going through some grief (splitting up with her partner) and has no one around to encourage her to get through it in a healthy way.
/r/RedPillWives06/03/17 03:33 PM
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Thank you for these! I'm actually looking at toning down my make up as I think I wear too much and end up looking fake/older than I am. Lots of Lisa Eldridge's looks seem more natural, thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/17 02:34 AM
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I feel it may bear repeating that RPW is not about dating RP men - on the contrary, a large amount of men on TRP are only looking to spin plates which means they aren't relationship material for us.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/17 09:38 PM
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I'm 24 and also a London RP girl - I'll PM you :)
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/17 11:33 PM
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I'm not sure what it is about me that might be putting men off, but I'm sure there must be something. I'm thin, wear make up and (what I think are) nice outfits. I try to act demure and feminine in social situations but maybe I overdo it and come across as boring? Someone did say that because I don't present myself as a girl who's looking for one night stands, I won't attract men in nightclubs as that's what most are looking for, but I'm sure that's not the only thing. I had a high quality man c…
/r/RedPillWives04/03/17 03:52 PM
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Single RPW, how do you find your motivation? Just come home from a night out of seeing low quality women (aggressive, shouting, fat) hooking up with men and I'm still single. I know what you'll say about not finding men in nightclubs, but I'm only 24 and that seems to be where you find the single men.
/r/RedPillWives04/03/17 03:00 AM
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There are some countries and cultures where women really are treated like second class citizens, where a woman who is not a virgin is considered worthless and may even be killed by her family in the name of honour, even if she was raped. These are the countries which truly need a women's lib movement. In the Western world, things are different and there are not many men who demand their wife be a virgin. If you meet a man who expects a virgin and you are not one, then he is not the man for you, …
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 11:49 AM
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Say bitter more.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/17 12:27 PM
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I feel like I definitely have a type. My friends often say that I go for guys that all look similar. Tall isn't something I go for, personally - I don't know why but smaller, slim guys do it for me. I'm trying to broaden my horizons so to speak after reading about the problems with "niche" dating on the RPW wiki, but I honestly find it hard to be attracted to guys who don't fit my "niche". Recently met a guy who was EXACTLY my type, and friendly and sweet to boot - just found out through vetting…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 11:44 PM
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Still relatively new to this sub but you've probably seen me posting :) 24 and single here, got out of a 3 year LTR 6 months ago and learning what mistakes I made, in the hope of not making them again! I really like this community :)
/r/RedPillWives27/02/17 11:34 PM
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I also don't feel I'd want to change my last name. It's an old Irish name which I'm very attached to, even more so since my father passed away, and my sibling cannot have children, so I feel like I'm the only one who can pass the name on. I always thought I'd hyphenate, but maybe I'll change my mind when I meet the right man.
/r/RedPillWives26/02/17 10:36 AM
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As a child I really loved Enid Blyton's books - especially The Famous Five, The Secret Seven, and the Faraway Tree series. There are a mixture of male and female characters and I think boys and girls would equally enjoy them.
/r/RedPillWives25/02/17 07:09 PM
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In all honesty, he is right that squats and deadlifts are a far better workout than pilates and barre work, although that does depend what you want regarding fitness. If you want to get flexible, then yes, do pilates and yoga. But if you want to get strong, look streamlined, tone up etc, then you gotta lift weights. That said, if it's not for you then it's not for you, and you gotta tell him that.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/17 11:30 AM
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I'm definitely going to give both Bumble and CMB a go, thank you!
/r/RedPillWives21/02/17 12:25 PM
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The harsh truth is that you will be unlikely to get a man who is as high quality as you would prefer to commit to you with your past being what it is. That said, you should still read RP theory and work on becoming more feminine to increase your chances.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 11:57 PM
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I discovered Red Pill a few years ago, I was very set in my feminist ways and viewed it as just a bunch of bitter misogynist men and RPW as silly, man obsessed bimbos. A few months ago, the man I'd been in a relationship with for 3 years broke up with me. He was a high quality man - kind, loving, attractive with good social status, a true greater beta - and I was devastated. I couldn't work out what had made him leave. I somehow ended up coming back to RPW and reading through all the theory and …
/r/RedPillWives20/02/17 12:28 AM
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I'm inclined to agree, in the sense that when I was 19 I absolutely would have thought a 30 year old man was too old for me, as would all of my friends. I'm now 24 and generally speaking I'm attracted to men around 25-30, with few exceptions. I think the difference is that women tend to prefer men around their own age whatever that may be, while men tend to always think that women 18-25 are the hottest.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 06:20 PM
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I'm kind of the opposite. I meet guys who are funny and sweet but who don't do it for me looks wise. I guess it's true what they say about it being a numbers game.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/17 12:30 PM
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Have you crushed on/met anyone you're attracted to since him, even if they didn't ask you out?
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 11:42 PM
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Then have a one night stand. It sounds like you've made your mind up that you want to try it, so I'm not going to tell you not to. No one can tell you for certain whether you will enjoy it or not, or whether you will regret it or not. We can only tell you our experiences.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 11:40 PM
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I'm 24 now and when I was your age in college I felt the same way. I'd just come out of a relationship and felt like sleeping around might be fun - lots of my friends were doing it and they seemed to enjoy it, and I figured it might help me fit in as well. I had 2 one night stands with guys I had no feelings for and both were unsatisfying, boring and I couldn't wait for them to leave after. It wasn't a good feeling and I haven't felt the urge to do it again. I'm not going to say it'll ruin you f…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 09:34 PM
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Was your break up recent? If so I think I know where you're coming from. My boyfriend broke up with me 4 months ago. He was a great guy and I honestly feel I've lost the love of my life. I too get asked out a lot but don't feel attracted to them. I'm putting it down to the fact I'm not yet over my ex and just not ready to meet someone new yet. Hopefully the time will come.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/17 09:18 PM
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Thank you for this post. I'm scared I've been alpha widowed, although I wasn't a plate. I just came out of a 3 year relationship with a very high quality man. Had some beta tendencies - was a bit shy, not a natural leader - but was very attractive, high social status, and also kind and loving and funny. A few months ago he told me he didn't feel the same, that he needed to figure out what he wanted from life (in fairness, he is young at 24). I was crushed. I really loved this man and thought I w…
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/16 04:32 AM
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I'm new to red pill too. Been lurking for a long time but only just now decided to make an account. Personally, I feel I can understand the anger of some of the guys over on TRP. I'm also angry that I've believed feminism for so long. But hey, anger won't help, self-improvement will. I'm glad your journey is going well! I'm 24 and it's interesting to see how women our age as well as older women are embracing red pill.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/16 04:09 AM
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