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The problem is that everyone thinks their own biased opinions are "the truth". The opposite side of the coin is "wokeness", where being woke originally meant waking up to the truth. Being woke and being redpilled mean effectively the same thing, they're synonyms, and yet the beliefs associated with these terms couldn't be more different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:37 PM
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She sounds genuine, and he sounds like a good person. They had a nice date, good for them. Why would anyone be "in the wrong" for that? Those bitter incels in the comments just can't conceive of the possibility of two adults being honest with each other about their intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:31 PM
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Get a hobby, then find a local club, community, or gathering place for people with that hobby. Don't go out there to meet women, that's a desperate move, and desperation is unattractive. Go out there to have fun and do something you enjoy, and if you happen to meet a cute girl who shares your interests while doing so, that's a nice bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:09 PM
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Our brains may be the same, but our society isn't. What appealed to women back then isn't what appeals to women now. For example, modern women have way higher hygiene standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:13 AM
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Think about what? Of course cavemen got laid. Doesn't mean emulating cavemen will get you laid in the modern day when there are no cavewomen around.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:58 AM
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I've seen some fucked up war veterans with girlfriends. Did they have girlfriends because of their PTSD, or in spite of it? Of course you can have PTSD and be attractive to women, but by and large, the PTSD won't be what makes you attractive to them. And when it comes to the minority of women who actually are attracted to PTSD symptoms, the odds are, they'll have their own issues that'll just make the relationship even harder to maintain in the long run. Intentionally traumatising yourself just …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:06 AM
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Real life isn't an anime, adversity doesn't magically turn "weak men" into macho hunks. PTSD isn't sexy. Those guys will be twitchy, anxious, emotionally unstable, and most likely quiet and awkward after having nobody to talk to for who knows how long. You can't turn a guy into a caveman and expect him to be attractive to modern women. Also, it's easy to romanticise the past when you're disillusioned by the present, but if your ancestors could conceive of the countless conveniences their descend…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:44 PM
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Men need to further the conversation, aka dance like a monkey and make the girl laugh It takes two to have a conversation. If you're "dancing like a monkey" while she's doing nothing to further the conversation, that's not her womanly privilege, it means she's not interested. Broadly, the things you're describing, texting first, initiating sex, planning dates, etc, are all displays of sexual dominance. The sexually dominant partner is expected to initiate, and because the vast majority of women …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:31 PM
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Women are twice as likely to win custody cases, even if they're proven to be abusive towards their children. Men will still have to pay child support. Sure, this is a real problem. In many places, women can abort their child for any reason, even if there's nothing wrong with the pregnancy and they agreed to have a kid. Regardless of your stance on abortion, try to imagine losing a child for no reason other than the fact that your partner changed their mind on wanting one. This, on the other hand…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:34 PM
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And yet I'm fully aware that I'm a man (straight at that), and have no gender confusion whatsoever. Is that supposed to be surprising? Who says feminine men have to be trans? I just watched two YouTube videos about a young, gender-nonfonforming woman who cried because her grandmother told her that she would not call her by her preferred name "Mike." And? I doubt you'd enjoy being called Tiffany or something. On top of that, I saw a video from Tim Pool about a man named Noah Berlatsky who has a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:09 PM
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To me, it's rooted in misogyny. People view women as helpless and children that need saving. It's interesting that you think of it as a gender thing. Do you think if a 50 year old woman dated a male teenager, people would be okay with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 05:21 PM
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Deal breakers are like assholes, everyone's got one, but nobody wants to see yours. You can have whatever deal breakers you want, just keep them to yourself, and if you have to turn someone down because of them, be polite about it and don't make it their problem. Say you don't want to date a girl because she's too fat for you. If you politely reject her by telling her she's not your type, all's good. If you laugh and say you don't date landwhales or something along those lines, guess what, you'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:44 AM
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People like to pretend that a fetus is simply a collection of inanimate inconvenient cells when it satisfies every single biological definition of life. No, they don't. That's simply a lie. Everyone knows the cells are alive, that's not a controversial statement. What makes your stance controversial is the fact that you support taking away one person's bodily autonomy in order to preserve the life of another. Civilised societies don't do that. For example, when a child is sick and needs a blood …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:25 AM
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Not really, no. A woman who only marries you in order to be allowed to use birth control is probably not going to feel too tempted to do anything romantic or sexual with you. As far as she's concerned, you're not her partner, you're a legal loophole that lets her regain agency over her own body.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:14 AM
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No one goes out and thinks "this time, I'm going to befriend a man" or "I'm in the mood to befriend a woman today". You make friends with people you get along with, whether those people happen to be men or women realistically shouldn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 08:01 PM
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says something ridiculous gets clowned on for saying said ridiculous thing "yikes sweaty why so defensive"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:56 AM
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Is it gay to pretend to like masculine women when you really like men? Yes, of course it is. Is it gay to actually like masculine women? No, of course not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:44 PM
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This is exactly right, but I'd also add that this is true regardless of one's relationship history, because that tells you nothing about the people they were attracted to but never ended up dating. For many people, "the one that got away" was a close friend, classmate, or coworker, someone they asked out and got rejected by, or maybe they didn't try to approach them at all and then regretted it. In such a case, the person they do end up dating has it even worse, because now your partner isn't co…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 09:16 PM
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Have you seen The Matrix? The red pill represents waking up to reality, learning whatever it is "they" don't want you to know, which in this context is usually something along the lines of "women are secretly only attracted to a small number of traditionally masculine features". The blue pill represents staying in your current reality, it means being mainstream, it's basically just another way of calling someone a normie or a sheep. The black pill is a knockoff concept, it's basically the same t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:06 AM
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Why would you bring up exceptions at all if you're not interested in making one?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 08:46 PM
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That could be a solution if it was easy to determine who should qualify for the exception, but that's not really the case here. By the time you prove in court that your pregnancy was caused by rape and you should be eligible for an abortion, the odds are, it'll be too late for you to get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 07:48 PM
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In either case, the only reasonable answer is to say the allegations should be investigated. The "believe women" motto was a strike back against the mainstream tendency to dismiss and ignore most sexual assault allegations, especially against rich and powerful men. The goal was to say "we should investigate the accusers' claims instead of blindly trusting the accused", not "we should blindly trust the accusers".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:03 PM
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ChatGPT works by repeating what it's been "taught", meaning the data it's been trained on. As anyone with just a bit of knowledge on the subject of AI will tell you, it's often confidently wrong, because it doesn't really understand the words it's saying, it's only amalgamating and rewording things other people have said. I'm not even saying it's wrong in this case, the point is, if it's right about this, it's by accident. ChatGPT statements can't be used to actually prove something is true. In …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:08 AM
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Again, dating has nothing to do with our economic system, there's no such thing as "socialist dating", just as there's no such thing as "capitalist dating". Also, where do you even want to go? Other countries also have welfare systems, y'know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 06:08 PM
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Welfare isn't socialism. Having welfare programs doesn't mean you have a socialist economy. Read a book. The way our economy operates has nothing to do with the way dating works. These concepts are completely divorced from each other. Your taxes don't all go into welfare. Your taxes don't help much because you're an individual. Taxes are useful collectively. Your individual contribution is insignificant, what is significant is the fact that many people are contributing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:06 PM
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The point is that there's a big difference between "I don't want to make more of you, I don't care if you do it with someone else" and "I don't want there to be more of you". You're getting mad because you're mistaking indifference for malice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:25 PM
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"Redpill" is a specific approach to dating. "Bluepill" is every other approach to dating. "Blackpill" means not dating at all, it's a term used by people who've given up on relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:34 AM
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The part about "psychopaths" was intentionally gender neutral, which is why I said "people" instead of men or women. So yes, it goes for both genders. That's why I phrased it like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:29 AM
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If the woman intentionally causes the man distress in order to force him to try and please her, then yes. Whether the abuser's goal is sex or money ultimately doesn't matter, what matters is that their methods are abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:27 AM
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In other words, "the problem with the redpill approach is that it works, and the problem with every bluepill approach is that it doesn't work". Two issues. The first is that you seem to think "redpill" always works, which is laughably false. The second is that you don't seem to know what "bluepill" is. It's simply the blanket term for everything that isn't "redpilled". You yourself proposed an approach that isn't "redpilled", which by definition makes it a "bluepilled" approach, which you claim …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:47 AM
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Why would the guy ditch them? Because that's the premise of this post, the guy is supposed to "separate entirely" after getting his dick wet. But even if that doesn't happen, he's still subjecting her to prolonged emotional abuse in order to keep her submissive and dependent on him just because he can't be bothered to buy a fleshlight. Most likely they become FWB. I guarantee you that's not the most likely outcome of tricking a mentally ill person into falling in love with you and then informing…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 08:24 PM
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Is it good for vulnerable people to get tricked into having sex with horny psychopaths who pretend to care about them only to ditch them afterwards? I'm gonna go with no, sorry. If an emotionally vulnerable man got seduced by a sex-obsessed woman who pretends to care about him, grooms him to be emotionally dependent on her, but then leaves after fucking him, that also wouldn't be a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:54 PM
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instability: Women with mental illnesses, parental abandonement, substance abuse problems, histories of trauma/violence, or other cognitive issues are easier to pick up, with the added bonus of such women being hypersexual and sometimes even doormats. The one downside is that such women are definitely unfit for LTR's. The whole premise of this post is frankly ridiculous, but I'd just like to emphasise how cartoonishly evil this paragraph sounds. OP, I'm not going to try to change your mind, main…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:49 PM
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What you're describing isn't romance, it's the traditional aesthetic of romance. What's the difference between a romantic letter and a romantic text message? It's the content of the message that decides how romantic it is, not the medium. Flowers themselves aren't romantic, it's the underlying message of "I've been thinking about you" that's conveyed by them that makes the gesture romantic, and there are many other ways of conveying that message that don't involve cutting up colourful plants. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:33 PM
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Two reasons stand out above the rest from what I've seen. The first one is that these guys don't want a "used" woman. You can hear guys like that go on about worn out vaginas and such, and they'll often also say that "used" women always cheat on their partners. The second most common reason is simply that these guys want to date young women because young women are more physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:33 AM
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Legally, she's considered a woman when she turns in the proper paperwork to have her gender changed in her legal documents, which is a procedure that varies country by country. Socially, you can consider her to be a woman when she asks you to refer to her as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 07:07 PM
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Trans women aren't in costume, they are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 06:37 PM
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Generally speaking women can bare children. Generally speaking, fish live in water, but there are fish that spend most of their lives on dry land, and they're still fish. Just because some women can't bare children due to genetic defects, poor health, or any other reasons we can't say women can't bare children. You want to invalidate the rule using the exceptions, and that's not how it works. You're trying to pretend exceptions don't count, which is silly. Having said that, have you heard about …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:45 PM
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The argument "infertile women are still women" wants to conflate trans-women with infertile-women. No, it wants to disprove the claim that you can't be a woman unless you can give birth. I can teach a dog to swim but people are not going to consider it a fish just because it can swim. If someone walked up to you and claimed dogs are fish, I doubt your best counter-argument would be "but dogs can't swim!" I assume you could come up with a better definition of "fish" than "something that can swim"…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 02:56 PM
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While "playing victim" is certainly a strategy some people employ, it's equally as disingenuous to point at these people and overexaggerate how common they are ("pervasive and pernicuous", "single biggest problem", etc), because that only serves to obscure the more relevant and far more common counterarguments made by more serious people. Especially when this strategy is used by both sides; a relevant example might be something like "Feminists are destroying society by refusing to fuck men" "Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 05:00 AM
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Her mother was brutally raped by a serial rapist and attempted to obtain 2 back alley abortions but was unsuccessful. As a result, Rebecca was born. Does she also campaign for the legalisation of rape? After all, anyone who wants rape to be illegal surely thinks she shouldn't have been born.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:41 PM
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Female incels definitely exist, and they're definitely not calm and cool. Incels in general are cringy to most people, no sane person would consider pretending their side has more incels than it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:20 AM
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No, participation trophies aren't ruining kids these days. The fact of the matter is, there have always been incels, but there are certainly more of them out there nowadays, and that's largely because society has become less judgemental of single women. Women have careers now, it's not abnormal for them to have lives outside of their relationships anymore. Back in the era of housewives, women were socially pressured into settling for men they'd never otherwise consider, just because the alternat…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:15 AM
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I really want to know how you imagine this would work. Like I know you admitted it's unrealistic, but just hypothetically. Let's say you start dating someone, you'd have to turn in some special dating form to the government, right? Then if you broke up, you'd have to file out some more paperwork to register yourself as newly single, and then you'd have to wait some amount of time before you'd be allowed to date anyone again. I suppose if you tried to date someone without registering your relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:22 AM
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Again, if they were interested enough, then they were flirting with you, not expecting you to simp. Neither interpretation of what you claim they said implies they wanted you to simp. A woman who wants a simp wouldn't initiate the conversation in the first place, a simp is the one who chases, not the one who is chased.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:01 PM
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It was not. As I stated in my post. They positioned themselves as special and important, and me as just "another one" Then they weren't interested in you. They didn't want you to simp, they wanted you to go away. I'm not sure how that interpretation makes it better. In either case, to make you simp clearly wasn't the goal. Where did I claim that? She wanted me to kiss her at the end of the date She initiated a kiss at the end of the night and grabbed my junk at the end of the night I didn't resp…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:41 PM
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It depends on the context, but I'd assume the implication was most likely something along the lines of "I could have any guy, but I chose you", it's meant to make you feel special. And yes, I've seen guys use that line as well. I do think it's cringy, but it does work. "A desirable guy who could have any woman he wants, but he only wants you because you're so special" is even a common trope in women's romantic fiction. It is certainly possible that the context made it seem more like "I could hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:03 PM
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You're not really interested in debating, as always, you're just here to rant, so I'll try to be brief. Society does not equal women. Let's say it's true some South African women were mean to Elon when he was a kid, and that's the reason why he emigrated. To be clear, that's a fanfic you made up, but for the sake of the argument, let's say it's true. That doesn't mean the entire society of South Africa is responsible. It means those specific women are responsible. And no one is saying Elon shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:02 PM
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No, these women did not "expect you to simp". 1, 2 and 4 were flirting, and 3 was making a casual joke. You're way too easily offended my man. But really, it's pretty hilarious that you think these random things are worthy of a rant about how principled you are and how you refuse to sell out, yet in the same breath, you casually brag about your attempts at "wokebaiting", also known as lying about your entire personality in order to trick a woman into having sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:17 PM
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Focus on the things you can control. The right clothes and hair, and optionally makeup, will always do the trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 02:27 AM
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Just to be clear, did you really just attempt to prove women care more about genetically determined factors when looking for romantic partners by posting the "Girls Just Want To Have Fun" music video?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:26 PM
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Actually, you're the only one here who keeps bringing up dick, so I highly doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:41 PM
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Is it at all possible that some people are just more perceptive than you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:36 PM
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Ironically, from what I've seen, the ones who do insist they're below average are typically just hyperfixated on specific features they think everyone else cares about, weak chins, small hands, that kind of thing, even though they often tend to be quite average overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:38 AM
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Yeah, it's all cuckolding and SPH with this person. Really seems more like someone who gets off on fantasising about these things rather than someone who wants to have a genuine discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:23 PM
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This person's entire post history is all about cuckolding, "I want to cheat on my boyfriend", "I just cheated on my boyfriend", "I made my boyfriend watch cuck porn", etc etc. Most likely just a weird troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:13 PM
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You know, they say everyone is a whore, some are just cheaper than others. Meaning, there isn't a person on Earth who wouldn't sleep with you for the right price, that price is just so absurdly high for some people that it's realistically impossible. Similarly, everyone would be down for a hookup with the right person, some people are just pickier than others. You can take the most conservative trad person ever, and I guarantee you they'd be down for a hookup with the right person. Personally, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:56 PM
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That's a threat, isn't it. Don't worry, I'm sure you're so very badass. I'm quaking in my boots. No, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:00 AM
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Society doesn't owe you a sex slave. If you refuse to be a productive member of society because no one wants to fuck you, that's your choice and you're free to make it, just be aware that sex isn't what motivates people to earn money, it's the fact that money can be exchanged for goods and services. In other words, good luck playing videogames and living without stress when you're broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:47 AM
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This post brings up two kinds of confidence; confidence in your looks, and confidence in your social abilities. There are many other kinds of confidence, and many of them can be attractive. The problem is when your lack of confidence in your social abilities prevents you from expressing confidence in your other skills, which is where "fake it till you make it" typically comes in. My advice to the OP would be to focus on the things you're confident about, and let that overshadow your lack of conf…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:47 PM
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