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8

I'm not sure if you get the right answers here, as the guys who actually married might have left the sub. So don't interpret anything from the amount of answers.
/r/seduction27/03/24 03:55 PM
3

Congratulations, you are her gay friend now. Find another crush and stop waiting so long to make a move. She also doesn't sound like someone you should be in a relationship with if she cheats regularly.
/r/seduction25/03/24 06:46 AM
2

But he's right. This girl has no clue what to talk about and how to open a real conversation, so she just put some random bs. If you have a girl that really gossips about others, you want to stay away from her as it's a useless trait that just adds drama to your life. To the actual topic, french statistically shower the least in Europe. However the British statistically smell the most: https://www.independent.co.uk/news/french-do-not-wash-official-but-the-british-are-smelly-1186193.html
/r/seduction23/10/22 12:06 PM
1

I'm not sure if your sentence makes sense in that context
/r/seduction08/07/22 10:26 PM
3

Damn, where do you meet rich girls? I want the dink yolo life, but most girls just have average jobs with average salaries.
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:08 PM
1

Well, run! You'll likely never be happy in this situation.
/r/seduction24/06/22 01:07 PM
2

When she tells you that you don't need a condom, it's when you need a condom most. Also imagine that she will tell the same thing to 10 other tinder matches.
/r/seduction12/06/22 10:40 PM
8

I'm not op and i still have no clue what you are referring too. What is an r word? And what is a t word?
/r/seduction08/05/22 06:43 PM
3

What are r word questions?
/r/seduction08/05/22 05:02 PM
12

It's only cringe if you're unattractive. Based on that the girl approached, the guy was not.
/r/seduction31/01/22 05:53 AM
1

Yep, that's essentially what I said - both work reasonably well.
/r/seduction08/08/21 05:30 PM
0

At least in China, Bumble works better. However, both work reasonably well here as a foreigner. Also finds you the girls that actually speak a bit of English.
/r/seduction08/08/21 05:21 PM
2

Depends on which Country you are in. As a European foreigner in Asia - you won't be sad.
/r/seduction08/08/21 05:19 PM
5

According to my Chinese teacher i was her youngest. I was 33, she was 23 at the time.
/r/seduction04/03/21 09:01 AM
-1

Why? It's useful in terminals
/r/seduction11/10/20 11:54 PM
8

Nah, it will make your life more happy. Learn to talk and approach people. You'll score also much better girls.
/r/seduction15/08/20 07:23 PM
4

Also habe been there. She stayed at my place because "it was closer to her work". After a few nights she started sleeping naked and at some point she just sat on top of me. In this area i wasn't the smartest. And i probably still miss a lot of signs. But most of the time i get them nowadays.
/r/seduction20/07/20 09:54 PM
22

I've been there. This is terrible advice. You will only realize years later that she was into you.
/r/seduction20/07/20 02:53 PM
10

I dropped dating apps completely. In my area guess have something like 5 matches while girls have 120 to 500 easily. So it's hugely skewed in favor of girls. After I've confirmed this assumption for multiple people and had the few matches regularly ghost on me, i stopped using it. You literally have a higher chance talking to any random person outside.
/r/seduction16/07/20 02:11 PM
2

I agree, i met with a pretty hot italian girl a few days ago. She showed me her tinder. She had it for one day and 125 matches. While I'm here now for 1.5 months and have 20 average matches.
/r/seduction17/03/20 09:56 PM
2

I think it's the wrong sub, try r/sex for better advice.
/r/seduction11/02/20 07:22 AM
5

You're overthinking. I never sent a girl home though. If i couldn't stand the thought of her just staying till the morning, i wouldn't bring her home (unreasonable intoxication excluded but that luckily hasn't happened often). Usually we have sex, then cuddle and sleep and in the morning we might have round 2. Especially party hookups can end in pretty bad sex anyway as it's 4 am, you're tired, probably have a bit of a whisky dick anyway and you might try not to vomit. So round 2 in the morning …
/r/seduction08/02/20 12:31 PM
1

Most girls have a huge amount of options. As it's not seen as a bad thing anymore to sleep around while not in a committed relationship, she can technically sleep with whomever she wants and apparently does so.
/r/seduction06/02/20 07:05 AM
1

Also op didn't even base his experience on the rating of the girls. He was having fun and described his evening. In this sub the rating is merely an information to match to the situation. This is something like a field report in which a guy describes the situation as detailed as possible for what worked and what not. For example a certain technique to approach women might often work with average attractive girls but will fail with highly attractive ones and vice versa. Even if that sounds sexist…
/r/seduction03/11/19 03:25 AM
6

I think you are in the wrong sub ;)
/r/seduction03/11/19 01:22 AM
1

Best advice is probably as others mentioned FTO - fuck ten others (you send have to go that far, usually one or two will already get your mind off).
/r/seduction26/10/19 04:45 PM
1

This. Also takes the pressure away. Otherwise you might settle for something you don't actually want if you just focus on pulling.
/r/seduction09/10/19 07:12 PM
2

Below 20 the relative age difference is huge even if it's just a year or two. Around 25 a 3 year difference is nothing special and from 30 it doesn't really matter anymore (except for insecure girls as you said)
/r/seduction06/10/19 02:11 PM
2

Robotics software here
/r/seduction03/10/19 08:44 PM
1

They are all trash and it's only for you viewing ads: 5- I may not be a genie, but I can make your dreams come true You may not be the genie from Aladdin, but you can make her all dream come true. So if you want to tell your girlfriend that you can fulfill all her dream. Then tell her by using this as a pickup line. Also, don’t forget to mention the advantages over genie-like she can make more wishes than three. She doesn’t have to rub the lamp in order to summon you. Related Read: How To Make S…
/r/seduction26/09/19 10:11 AM
2

She said she was tested 6 months ago but last time she had sex was 4 ago. Assuming she has unprotected sex all the time, be this is a big no. If not in an ltr i would recommend to always use condoms. It's not only for the sake of stds but also pregnancy. I cannot trust a random girl with my future.
/r/seduction14/09/19 10:18 PM
5

I do not necessarily agree. It can be quite frustrating for a girl if this is the 10th guy that is hitting on her and she tried to let the others down nicely. Some guys either don't get the hint or are a pain in the ass not accepting a no. So i would give her in general the benefit of the doubt. However, her friend apologizing might be a indicator for her just being a regular bitch.
/r/seduction09/09/19 08:18 AM
3

There us r/fPUA. However it's mostly empty except some guys trying to promote their videos there.
/r/seduction08/09/19 05:43 PM
3

Girls do enjoy the attention. Unless not visibly uncomfortable or actually asking you to help out, is just ignore that stuff.
/r/seduction27/08/19 05:43 PM
13

I guess by her showing you the messages from the other guy she just wanted to show you other guys want her. She didn't want him to stop asking her out. You should have ignored the screenshot and go on with it.
/r/seduction27/08/19 05:28 PM
2

I guess she's interested. You could try how far you can go and escalate.
/r/seduction26/08/19 05:11 PM
1

Or she was trying to get drunk enough to use it as an excuse later.
/r/seduction19/08/19 03:39 PM
2

Could be could be not. I think it was, you could have used the agree and amplify technique as well which is more powerful and doesn't look like you're trying to negate the statement.
/r/seduction08/08/19 10:17 PM
1

Looks like I'm subconsciously taking part in the competition then. Although i still exercise at home, not in the gym.
/r/seduction04/08/19 03:20 PM
1

A colleague of move swipes the model guys too the left and just says "he is probably arrogant and self centric". So i guess high levels of attractiveness rather play the insecurities rather than attracting.
/r/seduction04/08/19 10:14 AM
1

But why is there not more competition then amongst men to be in the top 10 percent?
/r/seduction04/08/19 08:54 AM
8

What was the layoff reason?
/r/MGTOW19/07/19 05:14 AM
2

Thanks I'll look into it.
/r/MGTOW19/07/19 05:06 AM
0

Actually over 50 percent go to your military if i didn't get it wrong: Military Spending in the United States. In fiscal year 2015, military spending is projected to account for 54 percent of all federal discretionary spending, a total of $598.5 billion.
/r/MGTOW19/07/19 04:17 AM
7

Ah you're right. I didn't get the joke.
/r/seduction19/07/19 03:46 AM
10

That's not what he said. Edit: nevermind, it's too early to be smart...
/r/seduction19/07/19 03:24 AM
2

Yes girls sometimes give up everything for guys and become annoyingly clingy instead of doing own fun stuff. You have that on both sides. But I've also seen it happen with some of my friends. Not going out with us because the girl doesn't like the idea. If you get a girlfriend make sure she understands that you have friends and that it's ok to not spend every day together and and 300 text messages per day.
/r/seduction01/07/19 08:28 AM
1

You have much bigger problems with your confidence you should try to work on.
/r/seduction30/06/19 07:51 PM
2

If it exists it's at least not as publicly advertised as in Berlin. Munich is quite closed up. But you could check for direct flights from Munich airport. Find a friend who studied in Berlin and go with them.
/r/seduction07/06/19 07:43 AM
1

Most of the Japanese seem to have that according to my internet research
/r/seduction07/06/19 07:40 AM
2

Because usually after having a proclamation to a crush you'll split ways awkwardly if it's not mutual. She'll feel giving in later will just hurt your feelings and make it hard for her to tell you she is not interested once you meet again. That's why she will just avoid you afterwards if the feeling is not strongly mutual. If she is attached to you but not yet in a relationship way for her it will look like commitment once she agrees to see you again afterwards.
/r/seduction26/05/19 02:10 PM
2

Ok you have your reasons but i think you should still rather say a cool date good bye with a note that says you are interested rather than going full confession mode that will probably burn your bridges for coming back after your 6 months.
/r/seduction26/05/19 01:14 PM
1

Then it's even more useless to do it. What are you expecting? Her waiting for 6 months if she's not even looking for a relationship?
/r/seduction26/05/19 12:22 PM
7

Don't do that. Tell her you think she's cute and invite her to a fun date.
/r/seduction26/05/19 12:05 PM
2

I think nobody would have cared in my class. I went in Budapest. The teachers were originally from Argentina, so I'm pretty sure they do that every now and then themselves ;)
/r/seduction22/05/19 09:39 AM
3

Trampoline place, try out courses for pretty much anything -most often the first class is free. I did a test class for tango with a ladyfriend A while ago. Even though we both suck at dancing it was really fun and created intimacy.
/r/seduction21/05/19 10:16 PM
2

Somehow it doesn't exist in Europe?
/r/seduction05/05/19 01:08 PM
1

I would avoid them. They don't really sound like people i want to spend time with.
/r/seduction03/05/19 04:54 PM
2

I agree. Sounds a bit bitter and also does barely reflect my experiences. Northern countries are something else though. They are quite closed up and need to get hammered to get intimate. They don't talk to strangers. I still miss the two Canadians a dated during my younger years. They definitely weren't asexual for sure. However this article is crap. If he put the best countries for dating in it as well it would at least have some value. Now it looks like he's a creep that women exploit for a fr…
/r/seduction22/04/19 09:36 AM
2

Yes you should have beers and a movie and excuses to touch other people instead.
/r/seduction20/04/19 10:35 PM
4

Never stick your dick in crazy...
/r/seduction17/04/19 08:40 PM
1

Stop complaining and find solutions ;)
/r/seduction25/03/19 09:20 PM
5

Sounds like complaining from you too ;)v find other places with more enjoyable people.
/r/seduction25/03/19 02:17 PM
3

Talk to him and clarify the situation. Establish rules when you can hit on a girl that are fair if first come first serve doesn't work for your friendship.
/r/seduction23/03/19 12:52 AM
1

Then I'd rather recommend you follow the established theories rather than incrementing bick dick theories.
/r/seduction21/03/19 02:13 PM
1

You don't write like somebody who should have the experience of a 24 year old.
/r/seduction21/03/19 02:06 PM
3

What is wrong with you, man? Are you 13?
/r/seduction21/03/19 01:55 PM
2

But in this case he doesn't have to search for it if it's already combined and laid out for him. I guess that's the value in these programs.
/r/seduction20/03/19 10:58 PM
7

Does anyone have the ebook version of the book and could accidently copy and paste a download link to my inbox?
/r/seduction03/03/19 03:57 PM
2

Can somebody write a somebody please? I don't want to watch this guy talking for more than 5 min on my mobile data for something that can probably be said in one sentence.
/r/seduction29/11/18 04:54 PM
2

It's the same for me, i technically have the same profile as a year ago. I met several girls there and had fwbs going on but now i don't even really get matches. I finally deleted my profile completely a few days ago. The price for tinder also went up from 3 eur to something like 12eur per month for me if I'd pay.
/r/seduction19/11/18 06:05 AM
1

Better start peaking then ;)
/r/seduction13/11/18 12:10 AM
1

Who defines what is perfect? This is just a survey not how often you should have sex.
/r/seduction11/11/18 07:32 PM
1

I'd say it's similar for Budapest. Last year i had way more matches and interesting people on tinder. I'll try bubble maybe when i have some more free time again.
/r/seduction18/06/18 09:13 PM
3

Ah you can make your life a bit easier. E.g. if you want to go to the movies, you can ask her to preselect 3 movies and you will make the final decision. Then you can even tease her a bit about her selection and get to know what she actually likes. Same works for restaurants as well. Also if she is genuinely interested after the first date she might come up with other ideas on her own. On a different note, don't date boring girls. I usually play the ball back a bit - if i organized the first dat…
/r/seduction07/05/18 09:23 PM
1

You should not be friends first. Make your intentions clear. Ask her out to do some cool stuff with you. However you have to propose the cool stuff. Do something that would like to do and ask her if she wants to join.
/r/seduction06/02/18 11:10 PM
2

I think you should have just gone to the club, introduce the guy to some random people and immediately get out with the girl. She might as well just not be comfortable with leaving the guy alone.
/r/seduction21/01/18 11:59 AM
2

FTO - f*** ten others. Date others, after a while without self pity you'll forget your girl.
/r/seduction20/11/17 07:07 AM
4

I don't have one. But i also don't use Facebook really anymore nowadays.
/r/seduction20/11/17 07:01 AM
4

Tinder will just get your ego down and make you feel worthless because it's extremely skewed. Your chances in real life are higher by at least a factor of 10. At the last party i argued with some colleagues who are trying online dating that a simple hi to a stranger is much more effective than that shit and then proved it the same night. Don't use it, talk to real people.
/r/seduction30/10/17 09:12 AM
1

Don't worry too much about it.
/r/seduction01/10/17 05:56 PM
1

To me it looks like she just wanted to have fun and you got a bit too clingy.
/r/seduction01/10/17 05:50 PM
2

I think r/sex is a better place to ask
/r/seduction18/09/17 07:09 PM
1

Listen to the man...
/r/seduction10/09/17 07:10 AM
3

Mhm. It boosted my confidence and made life easier because i don't worry about things i cannot change but change the things that i can. In respect to girls it turned me into someone who is not actively pursuing a relationship and made me more selective even when it's just for a hookup. It's a two sided sword though. I get quite easily uninterested in a girl after a while for various reasons because i know I'm not really depending on her. Was it worth it? Probably, at least i wouldn't like to be …
/r/seduction09/09/17 11:50 AM
8

Find somebody else.
/r/seduction09/06/17 08:39 PM
3

Best advice. I got out of the most weird situations by handing it like everything was perfectly normal and maintaining good friendship. Later you can even laugh about it.
/r/seduction15/01/17 11:42 PM
5

Then learn it
/r/seduction09/12/16 06:45 AM
1

Yes, they don't talk as much.
/r/seduction18/10/16 11:41 AM
1

I don't understand how. My date with your mom went pretty well.
/r/seduction18/10/16 10:50 AM
2

She might be interested but also wants time have somebody to keep her from "doing something stupid".
/r/seduction18/10/16 10:05 AM
1

Wtf did I just read?
/r/seduction28/09/16 08:54 AM
4

Use your work girls as wing women for the other girls that are not from work.
/r/seduction24/09/16 05:56 PM
2

Good read, I had to teach my team how to make decisions. They were not even able to decide on where to go for lunch for half an hour. In the beginning I made the decisions but as I'm only there for a limited time to build up the teams I told them that it's important to make sophisticated decisions quickly on their own and be comfortable with the consequences. I started putting a time frame and a shit option nobody liked as an alternative if they didn't manage to make the decision themselves in t…
/r/seduction18/08/16 08:09 PM
5

That's probably what I had to read right now. Thanks
/r/seduction11/08/16 05:37 PM
4

The ratio is extremely skewed and most guys probably just swipe right to get any matched in the first place and sort them out later.
/r/seduction19/06/16 02:59 PM
1

But they will think you have a small penis.
/r/seduction05/06/16 12:17 PM
7

My experience is that women >30 pretty much always jump into any possible option for a relationship. I'd say start dating 25 year olds, but this seems a bit too much of an age difference for you.
/r/seduction18/05/16 04:43 AM
37

You summarized your own problems. No start fixing it one by one.
/r/seduction08/05/16 08:47 PM
1

I second that. Since I realized that I'm also climbing up the career ladder pretty fast. It's all about decisions. You make them and you'll deal with the results. If you made a bad decision, you learn from it and move on. No need to overthink and not making decisions.
/r/seduction03/05/16 06:20 AM
1

Do you have a weird age on your Facebook? If the search profile is set up to meet 18-26 year old guys but your Facebook age says you're 101, you'll never match. However even with sweeping right as many as I can I only get a match every 2 days in the north of Seattle. But in general tinder is just useless if you're not a model. Talk to real people, it's less frustrating and more rewarding.
/r/seduction31/01/16 09:13 PM
2

True, especially after the recent hacks of this weird hook up site we know that for 1 million men there is 3000 women on these sites (some are probably not that skewed but in general there are more men than women there). I think that women with options don't use online dating as there are enough offers already. Your chances in real life are actually higher if you approach as the ratio of men and women are not that skewed. I read a quote once about online dating: online dating, where a 6 becomes …
/r/seduction31/10/15 02:09 PM
2

Talk to girls that are 22-30 and in shape?
/r/seduction05/10/15 08:27 AM
8

I'd ignore it. It's probably along the line like "just that we go to my place and you'll sleep in my bed does not mean that we'll have sex". Just don't bring it up again and have fun.
/r/seduction24/09/15 01:00 PM
21

He said it's after having sex, so I guess he was already in...
/r/seduction06/05/15 05:39 AM
1

This discussion has been here a million times. You could have used the search function for pro and con arguments. I think the general idea is to have different approach strategies for different levels of attractiveness. You won't pick up a super model the same way you would with an average looking shy girl. Having the rating helps a bit too identify the type of the girl and the success of the approach for that type. However, you're right that this is a subjective rating and it doesn't say anythi…
/r/seduction19/10/14 11:10 PM
11

Worked pretty well for me so far. First date is always fun or action date and then go to a chilled lounge for cocktails or shisha. But I live in Germany where girls usually insist on paying their share. Except the free loaders which in general you don't want.
/r/seduction03/09/14 04:29 PM
2

Tinder for whatever reason seems to heavily depend on the location. When traveling through the states I had a lot of matches - about every fifth probably. In Berlin area I barely get matches. However, in Southern Germany it works much better. While I was in Poland pretty much everything was a match, maybe because it's not too popular and there aren't many people using it. But in general, till now I haven't met anybody interesting through tinder, thus I removed it and got back to "normal game" wh…
/r/seduction07/08/14 10:23 AM
1

Never fuck the office or the office fucks you.
/r/seduction14/07/14 09:16 AM
1

If I was in the same situation I would have brought condoms ;) I always have some. And not only one. Also saved a few nights of friends by helping them out with condoms. Don't fuck up your life with a night at the beach - be prepared. I remember a friend panicking after he picked up a Spanish girl at a party and she told him the morning after she's not on the pill. Don't trust people you met a few hours ago with your life and always be prepared.
/r/seduction04/07/14 06:57 AM
1

Sounds good to me. This is actually how I got into seddit, seduced my crushes from back then. Actually worked out for most of them. But I invited them to my city as it's known as a great party place.
/r/seduction26/04/14 05:47 AM
2

The goal is to get laid with high standards. So it's pretty crappy advise ;)
/r/seduction17/01/14 12:39 PM
5

I would have been ok if it would have been stated before.
/r/seduction22/12/13 12:56 PM
39

" As a courtesy, you've also been signed up to Josh Sway's email newsletter. In this newsletter [...]" This is illegal at least in Germany as it is never mentioned before signing up. Furthermore you cannot opt out before getting the first newsletter.
/r/seduction21/12/13 07:49 AM
8

Don't bother to think about it. Maybe she just met someone else. So go meet someone else who doesn't make out with somebody else in front of you.
/r/seduction29/11/13 12:53 AM
2

It destroys your chances with girls that might be interested in you. They'll probably check if you are taken. Rather have pictures with you surrounded by girls on your timeline.
/r/seduction28/11/13 10:34 AM
2

I'd just joke it away. Maybe she didn't even think much before sending it.
/r/seduction24/11/13 11:30 PM
1

Well, you gave up after your first try, what did you expect? How many times do you think it took me to do a proper back flip? There are naturals who can do it with one try. I didn't. Took weeks and many tries. Sometimes you even hurt yourself. But guess what, if you want to be good at something, you do it over and over again until you are good. This is called passion and endurance. If you give up after the first try, then you fail. This is the case in pretty much every area of life. If you want …
/r/seduction02/11/13 10:14 AM
2

Well, sometimes. In most cases I regret pretty quickly. But that's why you have to keep talking to a lot of girls to find the few that are actually exciting.
/r/seduction01/11/13 03:42 AM
7

I'll hand her my phone with new contact with her name open and tell her to give me her number to meet up in the next days. Bonus: add her name as Name (Cutie from bar xy) or some random inside joke from your conversation. Practically never failed but you have to deal with more flakes as they'll give you the number all the time. Try to always kiss close instead and then take her number.
/r/seduction28/08/13 08:03 AM
0

I think it's appropriate as some strategies will only work on hb9 and some only on hb7 because of the social status that comes with attractiveness. In my opinion the notation is important and also gives an anonymous way to describe the situation in an fr.
/r/seduction09/07/13 06:56 AM
1

Well, your chances probably drop if he is getting in your way. I'll always make friends with him and put him into the conversation for a few minutes. Then shift the attention back to the girl. When you are cool with the guy you can just tell him that you have to steal her from him for a few minutes. He is very likely to not stand in your way then anymore and probably never come back.
/r/seduction02/06/13 03:14 PM
1

sign I like how it's written. It's not like a formula with "do this than that". It's really setting your mindset.
/r/seduction11/09/12 08:41 AM
1

Have an upvote. I have never seen this put in such a clear metaphor.
/r/seduction11/09/12 08:37 AM
1

If I dont fap my balls feel like they have to explode after around 3 days.
/r/seduction16/03/11 10:44 AM
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