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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	How would you feel if you found out that your SO had significantly more sex with their ex than they do with you? I don't really care how much sex my SO had with other people. I don't believe in comparisons. If I'm satisfied in my sex life, there's no point in comparing it to what my partner did in the past. Maybe they had more free time in the past, maybe they were generally hornier, maybe they had a shorter refactory period, who knows. If sex feels like a chore on their part, then why the fuck am I having sex with them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/18 07:48 PM
3	Lover vs. Provider is REAL I feel like the true alpha male does what he wants, and probably he wants to cuddle, because cuddles are great. What even is the point of respect if you have to be touchstarved forever?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/18 08:31 PM
3	Lover vs. Provider is REAL After you've had casual sex for a couple years, it gets super-boring and you're like "man, I could go suck that guy's cock, but I literally just changed out of my work clothes and the Good Place is on Netflix." And then you want someone to snuggle and watch the Good Place with. Of course, my husband doesn't mind if I go screw someone else if I have the urge, which definitely seems like the more sensible way to do things. But I've never pretended to understand straight people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/18 08:26 PM
3	Lover vs. Provider is REAL Speak for yourself. I'm gay and I live in San Francisco because I don't like living in places full of people that hate me. I know people who committed immigration fraud to get to live here, who are homeless, or who are undocumented, and I know people who have given their friends thousands of dollars in free rent to get them away from their homophobic families and hometowns. I believe that with the hard work and determination of the average illegal immigrant y'all can make it to the patriarchal h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/18 08:23 PM
2	Q4TRP: What’s your opinion on female led relationships? Uterus transplants are progressing very well. I think a person who was born with a male sex will give birth to a baby within my lifetime. Also, the term "biological man" gives me the amusing mental image that trans men are, in fact, robots.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/12/18 03:56 PM
1	Division of Labor at home? I'm glad you found something that works for you. My husband has a psychiatrist whom he takes his medical advice from, and what we're doing right now works fine for us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/18 08:09 PM
6	Would you date a mentally ill woman? Postpartum depression is very treatable and, if you know you're at risk, preventable-- you can start your antidepressant during the pregnancy. People with postpartum depression are not any worse at being parents than people who have never had postpartum depression; it's hormonal (in women) and a consequence of sleep deprivation and the rocky transition to parenthood (in both parents). I hope you tell whatever woman you plan on having kids with the exact suite of mental illnesses that will cause …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/18 04:10 PM
3	Division of Labor at home? We have an eleven-month-old, we don't do housework. Someday I anticipate being able to see the floors again. Back when we were not in a sleep-deprived haze trying to convince our eleven-month-old not to kill himself, I did most of the chores because my husband has ADHD and cannot clean to save his life, until I figured out that you can gamify chores. Then my husband did most of the chores because he got imaginary points for them. (He financially supports our household but I used to also work.)	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/18 04:02 PM
2	Division of Labor at home? My husband financially supports me while I spend all day taking care of our baby, and we split the childcare when he's off work fifty/fifty. (Honestly, probably more like 70/30-- he likes babies more than I do.) When we had a kid and talked about me being a stay-at-home dad, I explained to my husband that not even medical residents and soldiers are on call 24/7.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/18 03:55 PM
7	Would you date a mentally ill woman? How are you going to know if a woman has postpartum depression before you have a kid with her? Only date single moms? Divorce the mother of your child if she has postpartum? Also, postpartum depression does not lead to women killing their babies, I think you're thinking of postpartum psychosis.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/18 03:48 PM
2	What's so special about marriage My wedding was $3000 and I got everything I wanted out of it. To be fair, this was mostly a giant cake with references to all my favorite books on it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/18 07:55 PM
4	What's the dating life for a educated man with a "shit job"? Theater is nothing but gay men and straight girls. He'll do fine. I have a son, and he's going to be in dance classes and theater classes as soon as he can walk. Best thing I could do for his future dating life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/18 05:06 AM
5	What do people get wrong when it comes to love? It is possible to love someone very much but they still aren't a good partner for you. I don't just mean love in a butterflies-in-your-stomach grin-like-an-idiot-when-you-think-about-them dick-hard-whenever-you-see-them sense. Sometimes you really, selflessly love someone else as much as yourself, it's someone you would die for, someone you want to grow old with, and... you want kids and they're childfree, or you're monogamous and they're poly, or you can't live in the same house for a week with…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/18 05:03 AM
4	[Q4W] How much do looks and "personality" matter relative to each other? I always find it puzzling when people who talk about game argue that all that matters is looks. What do you think game is? It's learning to have attractive personality traits (which, to be clear, is different from good-partner personality traits).	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/18 04:45 AM
3	[Q4W] How much do looks and "personality" matter relative to each other? In terms of raw attractiveness, men as a group care like 65% about looks and 35% about having an attractive personality, and women as a group care like 35% about looks and 65% about having an attractive personality. Here, I'm talking attractive personality-- charm, charisma, sense of humor, talent, social proof, that sort of thing-- not whether a person is a good partner. Emotionally healthy, mature people tend to care more about whether someone will be a good partner than they do about physical…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/12/18 02:58 AM