aterrifyingfish Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Curious as to you guys' take on my issues	Lifestyle	aterrifyingfish	/r/seduction	07/09/21 05:35 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	If men started to respect themselves more, we would have a much easier time Sorry to hear that beautiful women don’t do it for you anymore. Have you tried men?	/r/seduction	16/04/23 12:21 PM
2	If men started to respect themselves more, we would have a much easier time If there’s a beautiful woman in my bed and I look at her and think, “wow, she’s beautiful”, I’m going to tell her. Why hold that back as part of some weak ass mind game attempt?	/r/seduction	15/04/23 11:32 PM
2	Is the bar really “in hell”? Uhh… no. I was on a dating app and talking to a pretty cute girl for a bit who seemed fun. We started taking about work and she told me she actually had two jobs. The first one was a stripper, which I honestly had no problem with. They make good money, they stay in shape, and I wouldn’t commit to a woman that I didn’t trust to be loyal to me regardless of her career so whatever. Then she told me her second job. Wendy’s. I couldn’t deal with that part. For some reason fast food is one of the leas…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/23 03:54 AM
9	Is the bar really “in hell”? Yep. It’s self selection. People with happy relationships don’t go onto relationship forums to complain about them. People (not just women) who frequently go onto relationship forums to complain about their relationships, shockingly frequently have bad relationships, which is almost always because they’re consistently doing something wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/23 03:46 AM
9	Is the bar really “in hell”? “Haha my boyfriend tried to rape me so I kicked him, looks like he learned his lesson! Let’s see him try to rape me again! So anyway we’re going out to dinner then back to his place tonight”	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/23 03:43 AM
2	What's something you've learned along your seduction journey? Yeah, what I’m saying applies to men looking for sex with women. Women that want to have random NSA sex with guys usually don’t have much of an issue being able to do that if they want.	/r/seduction	17/09/22 11:30 PM
3	What's something you've learned along your seduction journey? Never said you did buddy. Take your own advice	/r/seduction	17/09/22 11:28 PM
1	Women, and society in general, do not give a flying fuck about your problems. Why is it that you think it’s women’s responsibility to set the moral barometer of society with their vaginas? People tend to have sex with people that they’re attracted to. There are very few guys that would have lined up to have sex with Mother Theresa over Casey Anthony, after all.	/r/seduction	17/09/22 09:03 PM
1	Women, and society in general, do not give a flying fuck about your problems. It’s telling that you think that. You even said it in your post. Pretty women just sit back and enjoy the show. Average looking women get constantly ghosted, used as sex toys, mistreated by shitheads pretending they want them for anything but their bodies, get cheated on regularly, so on and so forth. I can assure you, life is pretty easy in the dating realm for extremely attractive men too, regardless of if they want long term relationships or just and endless supply of women from tinder to ban…	/r/seduction	17/09/22 09:00 PM
1	Women, and society in general, do not give a flying fuck about your problems. This isn’t even close to true. If you’re classifying amazing physique as an IFBB competitor, sure for the most part. If you’re classifying amazing physique as a better looking body than 99% of guys in the US? No. It’s actually pretty damn easy. Have a consistent heavy lifting routine and eat at maintenance and you’re there within a couple of years easily. I don’t know if you go outside much, but your competition is not very motivated.	/r/seduction	17/09/22 08:54 PM
38	What's something you've learned along your seduction journey? This is honestly very true. Most men have the problem of self delusion when it comes to meeting women. That’s really it. They’re unable to take an objective look at themselves and their behavior and make changes that would result in their happiness. A lot of guys think that they’re entitled to regularly hook up with supermodel looking women despite looking like a flabby balding dwarf with bad skin and no marketable skills if JUST they say the right things. They think the reason why some random g…	/r/seduction	17/09/22 08:40 PM
28	What's something you've learned along your seduction journey? Blatantly untrue. Girls are as different from one another as guys are, which is to say: very. I’ve had the same thing result in sex with a girl the first time I met her, or blatantly offend them. I’ve had girls who, once we have sex became obsessed with me and not wanting to ever leave me alone, and some who immediately disappeared practically the second they had an orgasm. I know smart ones, stupid ones, shy ones, outgoing ones, ones that want a husband and kids, and ones who the thought of bei…	/r/seduction	17/09/22 07:05 PM
3	SLEPT WITH THE GIRL IVE ALWAYS WANTED, WHAT NOW? In my experience it happens to girls a lot more than it happens to me to be honest. I don’t really hook up with people I don’t like the personalities of though.	/r/seduction	17/09/22 07:00 PM
4	Nice Guy texting behaviors to avoid Human interaction is so much more complex than “they behave like x with y group of people, so they should behave like that with me” It’s the most complicated thing most people engage in on a regular basis and there are literally millions of rules you abide by without knowing it, so saying “they text their friends a lot, so why don’t they text me a lot” makes about as much sense as saying “women I’m dating use tongue when they kiss me, but my mom doesn’t. That’s hypocritical” Different relationsh…	/r/seduction	11/07/22 01:57 PM
2	Asking the girl the reason for her you cutting you off I've asked before, but think about it; how would it be helpful? A few points here: Some women will be honest with you, some won't in order to spare your feelings, or avoid coming off as shallow, whatever. You have no way of knowing which ones are being honest and which ones aren't, so the information isn't very useful for you EVERY girl is different. This sub likes to make broad sweeping generalizations about women, but if you date enough of them, you start realizing those generalizations are mo…	/r/seduction	07/07/22 03:27 PM
2	She didn’t mentioned she’s married If she was, she'd say so. People in open marriages know how uncommon it is, they have experience with people being scared off, and they have had the conversation tons of times before. If you have to ask, it's a no. It's also kind of a rude thing to ask someone.	/r/seduction	30/06/22 05:11 AM
23	Have you ever known someone who’s a total magnetic without it being because of their looks? I have a friend like this. I've known him from high school; he's average looking, average height (5'8/5'9), and doesn't make a ton of money. What he does have is presence though. He's not overly loud or anything, and he's not really arrogant or anything either. People just love being around him. He's always the center of attention, and the focal point of every group he's in. In high school, women would THROW themselves at this guy. He wasn't a starting quarterback, or some prominent rich kid or …	/r/seduction	30/06/22 05:09 AM
8	Very unhealthy mindest about dating I wrote up a reply that ended up being way too long so just bear with me here. None of this is new. It's not unique to modern dating. The only time/place where the things you're describing would be irrelevant would be in societies with things like arranged marriages, which is a whole other nightmare you probably don't want to have to deal with. A lot of the other stuff you're saying are false beliefs you've put in front of yourself to make the process seem so daunting to prep yourself for giving…	/r/seduction	30/06/22 04:42 AM
-3	Just got rejected for being 'incredible' Yes, all women are exactly the same and they all behave according to a set of rules that you can write down on a piece of paper and apply to 4 billion people. Sounds like you have a lot of preconceived biases that you should probably challenge by spending time around women	/r/seduction	30/06/22 03:03 AM
1	Just got rejected for being 'incredible' You're literally just making things up. Why just assume this girl who you know literally nothing about is lying? I don't know her, but there's a good chance she's being honest. Even if she were lying, there are about a thousand other reasons why she could have said that other than he's unattractive, and many of them are just as, or more likely. For example, she values their friendship, and she thinks sex would jeopardize that. She doesn't want to have sex with someone right now. She doesn't like…	/r/seduction	30/06/22 02:00 AM
1	how does sex just happen?? Im afraid asking that question won't work every time. You're right, but it will work more often than you think, provided the woman you're asking is comfortable with and attracted to you. If you're in a private place with a girl who is attracted and comfortable with you, you turn to her and just blatantly say "Hey do you want to have sex?", you'd probably be successful most of the time. Women like sex, after all. The trick is finding someone who is comfortable with, and attracted to you, and bein…	/r/seduction	01/06/22 02:34 PM
5	I want to bring a board game to make my coffee dates better. What are some good games? Good though. Why would anyone want to go on a date with a basic girl?	/r/seduction	09/05/22 11:09 AM
2	Guys who used to be rejected by women but worked on themselves and now are successful, do you feel little disgusted by the change in behaviour of women? That's a really shitty attitude, hinting at a complete lack of self awareness. Do you think a good looking, successful man that gets lots of female attention would consider an average woman to be on his level? Do you think he'd be willing to get into a relationship with her? Most likely not, because he knows he can do better. Same goes for women. If a 250 lbs woman lost a ton of weight and suddenly became way more beautiful, don't you think that she'd get more male attention, way more than she p…	/r/seduction	15/04/22 11:05 PM
1	Guys who used to be rejected by women but worked on themselves and now are successful, do you feel little disgusted by the change in behaviour of women? Like when you get attention from a woman do you have a thought that these kind of women used to ignore and laugh on me. That's literal insanity. First off, women aren't a hive mind that all share thoughts about you. The women that are currently attracted to you are not the same people as the women that ignored and laughed at you in the past. What you said makes as much sense as hating a guy because he has red hair because a guy with red hair stole your lunch when you were in 6th grade. Secondl…	/r/seduction	15/04/22 08:09 PM
2	What do you think of straight guys who go to gay clubs to get chicks? Yes, actually. It’s ridiculously hard, lol. I’m assuming you’ve heard this from straight guys before though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 12:33 PM
1	Girl flaked after second date If she has something else to do, sure. Do you think most people would be willing to get fired from their job to hang out with some fuckboy celebrity?	/r/seduction	05/02/22 12:18 PM
13	Need advice dealing with a single mom Or you could just like... be honest with her? Wtf is the point of acting like a sociopath?	/r/seduction	16/11/21 05:53 PM
12	MEN -have you ever complimented a woman on something just because you thought it's what she wanted to hear? Very common. Probably not what's going on here though. If you're continually getting the same compliment over and over, it's probably because it's true to some degree. Guys have way more variability in what they find attractive than most women think they do. There are guys who are into skinny women, fat women, muscular women, women with small boobs, big boobs, big asses, small asses, blue eyes, brown eyes, black hair, blonde hair. Just because you don't think part of your body is attractive does…	/r/seduction	16/11/21 05:45 PM
3	[deleted by user] Well, I think that you're at least aware that it's not a rational belief. I would try to remember that when you're feeling that way, remind yourself that the belief really isn't rational, it has to do with some sort of emotional tie you have. After a while, hopefully that pattern is broken.	/r/seduction	05/11/21 04:09 PM
3	[deleted by user] What does a lot mean? Why does it matter? How does it directly affect your life? I don't understand why this is so important to you. Do you care about how many times she's taken a dump? Do you care about how many times she's flown on an airplane? Do you care about how many times she's been drunk in her life? None of that is really relevant to your life, it's just an inconsequential number about an arbitrary thing that you decided to make a big deal about in your head. This is entirely a you issu…	/r/seduction	05/11/21 03:49 PM
8	[deleted by user] Here's why that is, and I don't think it's quite the reason why a lot of guys think: Women, like most people, actually like honesty. Honesty is attractive. Being open, and not giving a shit about what people think about your feelings, and laying your cards on the table is hot. That seems counterproductive because you're right, grand confessions of love don't work, and are a huge turnoff. If you think about it a bit though, you can start to understand why. The fact that your feelings built up to …	/r/seduction	04/11/21 02:52 PM
16	How to get over always being on the outside looking in? Well it sounds like you know what the issue is, if not the root cause. I would guess that it is lack of abundance though, honestly. Do you really think you'd be so attached to this girl if you had beautiful, interesting women clamoring for your attention? Well adjusted, emotionally healthy men that have tons of options don't fall in love easily. They fall in love only after a woman has reciprocated an equal amount of investment in them, shown herself to be attractive not only on a physical level…	/r/seduction	26/10/21 12:09 AM
65	How to get over always being on the outside looking in? Alright man, a lot of people have given you shit for this for some unknown reason, for some reason this sub loves doing this dumb "tough love" act and making assumptions about other people without actually trying to provide useful advice, so here's my effort. This is a bit of the blind leading the blind, as I just got out of a very long relationship, and while I used to be pretty good at meeting women, I've just started trying again and it's a tough saddle to get into again after so long, so tak…	/r/seduction	25/10/21 10:59 PM
9	I tried following the advice of Leil Lowndes and I saw some results already If the relationship isn't good, she's fully free to leave. Going after a woman you know is in a committed, long term relationship isn't only scummy, because it's very obviously that, and any argument to the contrary is just self delusion. It's also incredibly weak. Why would a guy who has plenty of options spend time going after a girl who is already taken? Just move on to another attractive woman who isn't. There are hundreds of thousands of them.	/r/seduction	25/10/21 05:40 PM
1	[deleted by user] Don't worry about her. Who knows why she's not interested, but she's not. Messaging her again is pointless, just forget she ever existed and move on, unless she's someone you legitimately would want to be friends with even if there was absolutely zero chance of sex. Even if that's the case, the ball's in her court. She's not special, you just think she is because you thought you had a shot with her. A truly perfect woman for you would like you as much as you like her, and that's not the case her…	/r/seduction	21/10/21 06:25 PM
2	Welcome to the Big Leagues? (23M) If you, as a healthy 23 year old are having ED issues, you're most likely watching too much/extreme porn and masturbating too much, or you have some underlying sexual anxiety you need to work through. Someone your age shouldn't have to take drugs to get an erection. If they help you, great, but it's a bandaid, not a fix. Figure out what's up, if you have some sort of porn addiction or self image issues, and address those things. You won't need to spend money for viagra (at least not for 30 or so…	/r/seduction	21/10/21 06:14 PM
4	Welcome to the Big Leagues? (23M) A few things. One, you're way overthinking this. You're super young, and this will almost certainly not be the girl you marry. There will be dozens or hundreds of other opportunities over your life provided you take care of yourself, so try not to place too much importance on whether or not this works out. Two, when a girl asks you how big you are, she's poking at you for whatever reason. She wants to feel in control of the conversation, and having you reveal something so personal before you'v…	/r/seduction	21/10/21 06:10 PM
3	How has your height affected your dating life? What is your current mindset about your height? I'm 5'8 and literally never think about my height unless someone brings it up, or if I'm in a picture with my friends who for some reason happen to be far taller than me. I honestly didn't even know that society/women valued height in men until I was maybe 17 or so, being tall is something I never really desired much. I realize now, obviously, that being taller would help me out romantically, but there are other things holding me back more, and those other things are things that I can change. …	/r/seduction	14/10/21 02:51 PM
1	[deleted by user] You can't safely change your eye color, so even if what you're saying was true, who cares? It's totally pointless information. If it's something you can change, go ahead and work on changing it. If it's something you can't change, it's pointless to even think about.	/r/seduction	13/10/21 08:32 PM
1	Curious as to you guys' take on my issues I don’t think I’m special, not sure what gives you the impression that I think I am. I’m also not like any other guy here, everyone is different. I’m sure there are a lot of women that live up to my standards, I’m just saying that during my bout of online dating, the ones that I met and who were interested in me didn’t. I don’t want to date or even have sex with someone who I don’t respect or get along with.	/r/seduction	10/09/21 09:05 PM