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Weighted question, short men are not unattractive because of their height, insecurity over your height is unattractive however, as is a self-defeatist incel attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 09:40 AM
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Anti depressants
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 08:40 AM
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You are gonna spend months/years doing random stuff anyway, why not do it with some lifting and protein sprinkled in? Plus it feels great the next day, do it for you and future you, forget looking good for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:11 AM
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The ones in the sidebar. The Book of Pook is a good start, free too.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 10:58 PM
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How can i learn the basics of sex? By having sex. Stop procrastinating by burying your head in books.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 09:48 AM
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are we facing an epidemic of women who are fucking themselves over for being completely out of touch with reality Yes, though we aren't facing it as this is their problem, not ours.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:34 PM
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Having plates prevents a man from falling to oneitis. An LTR is a form of oneitis. The two are mutually exclusive, you can't have both. That's not a rule, just a technicality.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 08:58 PM
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It does, accept it and live by your own rules instead of theirs.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 10:04 AM
2

a beta app What the actual fuck
/r/askTRP22/07/18 06:21 PM
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It's not monk mode if its permanent, if its permanent it's MGTOW, though don't confuse red pill MGTOW with the MGTOW sub which is just incels complaining about women and doing no self-improvement. But if you have low SMV, definitely do monk mode. Take 6 months, read, lift, improve.
/r/askTRP21/07/18 12:19 PM
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Use that same attitude you chewed him out with and tell him, not ask, to stop being so miserable and come see the family. No apologies.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 10:59 PM
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I used to stutter quite a lot, realised it was due to the pressure I put on myself to answer people quickly so they wouldn't think I was slow - which was really unrealistic in hindsight. Therapy may help you. A speech therapist almost certainly definitely would help.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 04:26 PM
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Stop thinking of her as a 9/10, she is just another girl. You need that abundance mentality, and you need to avoid oneitis like the plague. Realistically there are millions of 9s all over the world, there is no shortage, many develop horrible personalities thanks to being able to skate by on good looks, because of this an HB9 is not neccesarily better in any way than an HB7, and is likely more entitled, bitchy, entitled, and sexually selfish.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 01:38 PM
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There isn't, its just simplified with different sub rules
/r/askTRP17/07/18 06:54 PM
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Try not to waste any time or energy wishing the past were different, put that energy into considering and improving the future. Have you had negative comments about your curved dick? And are you comparing yourself to porn? Sounds like a case of BDD tbh. You could get the surgery, but that wouldn't fix the mental side of it, it would always appear wrong and cosmetic surgery often goes horribly wrong anyway.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 06:00 PM
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Blaming your parents for all your issues is not accurate, helpful or healthy, if your therapist has never covered this you should sue them and find another one.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 05:29 PM
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I seen there was on of the regular TRP sidebar. ....
/r/askTRP17/07/18 04:44 PM
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I'm not saying talk to her more, I meant that considering her for an LTR without having spent a few weeks at least vetting her in person is a major issue. And also, if it's your first instinct to go look her up online before asking her out, thats a minor personal issue for you. Also TRP material women is a paradox. There are no unicorns, aka no top quality women in reality.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 01:17 PM
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You going online instead of talking to her says a lot about you.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 12:30 PM
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Hes blue pilled, a romantic, not a chad just decent looking and social.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 11:56 AM
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Unless you are spending all your waking hours studying, you have time to practise socialising and reading some literature from the sidebar. And doing some weights.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 11:54 AM
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Dear god, you met a girl, stalked her online and are now considering her for an LTR, what the fuck is wrong with you??
/r/askTRP17/07/18 11:46 AM
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You are more alpha than him He is more beta than you, so the 2 of you are the closest thing she has to alpha fux, beta bucks. Seems like the issue is she is trying to resolve hypergamy openly and honestly. Though I did stop reading halfway.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 11:37 AM
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I'm getting lasik in a few weeks, best thing you can do when you're young and got the cash. Do what you want to do, they can't stop you as an adult. Therapy is gonna be more important for you than penis surgery though, with the amount of parental issues you have.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 09:54 AM
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Go read the sidebar and make your own mind up.
/r/askTRP16/07/18 12:33 PM
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Treat the owners as HR. When they are doing anything unprofessional, report it or at least write it all down and report it all in one go. On a personal level, their lives are trash and so are their opinions, utterly meaningless. If rats could talk shit about you, would you care?
/r/askTRP15/07/18 11:26 AM
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You wont get a good answer here, you need to see a doctor for medical issues. Porn you should definitely cut out. Have you also had your eyes tested recently? Being shortsighted can cause constant headaches, but so can a brain tumour - again, there can be 10000 possible causes for your symptoms, your only safe option is to see a doctor.
/r/askTRP15/07/18 11:23 AM
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How sure are you that she was a she?
/r/askTRP13/07/18 07:23 AM
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They say that about gay guys too
/r/askTRP12/07/18 06:06 AM
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Everybody lies, but people don't go around lying 100% of the time. Same difference.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 09:33 PM
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Twister. And fire truck.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 10:01 AM
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Knew a girl that did this, she was an alcoholic though. Had to play along as friends until I got my money back. Lesson learned.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 04:07 PM
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Neither is 100%
/r/askTRP01/07/18 08:05 PM
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How Should I Tell her that if that's her decision - I will not have anything with her to start with (NEXT). "If that's your decision, I will not have anything to do with you." Huge red flag, only safe option is to next her. One ripped/slipped condom and that is the end of your legal rights & freedoms, you're a daddy/financial slave for 18 years. (Don't ever assume she is on the pill, even if she says she is.) She will have her beta bucks legally locked down in the next few years - will that be y…
/r/askTRP01/07/18 07:56 PM
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Depression phase, you will bounce back at some point and recover. Or go join MGTOW and be a career depressive.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 10:57 AM
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Treat it the same way as shit tests, agree and amplify, amused mastery, pressure flip etc. Neg him right back, guy probably loves the banter hence why he's doing it, looking for someone like minded.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 06:57 PM
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Welcome to the anger phase. We all fell for it at some point, dont feel too bad on yourself.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 06:04 PM
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unacceptable by a lot of female standards The real issue here being you've assigned value to these meaningless "standards", not even women themselves value those standards when a top tier male walks by. It's literally just a ploy to make chumps work harder for their attention; get a better job/earn more/be better and maybe you'll have a chance at being her beta bucks, aka win the blue pill lottery. This is the reason TRP says ignore what she says, pay attention to what she does. Usually what she…
/r/askTRP28/06/18 09:59 AM
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when people fine out I drive a beater, their demeanor seems to change I'd imagine your demeanor changes since your car makes you self conscious, weakens your frame, and sharing that secret makes you feel vulnerable.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 11:47 AM
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ive been called goodlooking before Even the ugly kids get called good looking by their mums
/r/askTRP26/06/18 06:37 AM
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There are guides in the sidebar on how to get physical. Get friends, they will fill you in on much of the information you are missing. Long distance relationships don't work, that is universally agreed, if there is a girl 40km away who likes you, there will also be girls 3km away who like you, that you don't know yet. Talk to the girl though, get some practise, have fun with it.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 06:05 AM
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Well theres a contradiction. You don't just need to be comfortable around people, you need to actually enjoy their company. Which means actually going out with people regularly. Otherwise you wont even be able to get yourself into a relationship, let alone keep one going. Aspies are horrible at self-awareness. Trust how you feel when doing something specific, not how you think you will feel. Not having any friends is a huge giveaway that you wont get a relationship for a while at least, even if …
/r/askTRP25/06/18 07:15 PM
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You may not like it but you are gonna need friends, to learn to socialise, get away from that omega status/mentality, just normalise socially. You have to end that isolation, I know how normal it feels but it damages you in ways you wont see. It's also in your best interest to read the sidebar, everything you need to know is there. It will take a while, but there are no quick fixes.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 06:05 PM
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Looks aren't an achievement, anyone who skates by on what god/parents gave them will fail hard when the thing gets taken away. Post-wall women for example. People who have to learn how to be confident instead of being given it naturally have it harder, but in the end it's more unshakable.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 12:04 PM
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Bc she cheated and wont tell anyone unless it benefits her. Edit for clarity: she can still play the victim card for as long as it takes for the truth to come out; "we were too different, I cant believe I almost married that guy" kinda thing. In reality, she left him for Chad, and is probably at this moment in time explaining this to Chad, while Chad is wondering how to best get rid of the clingy bitch. She will probably come crawling back after some 'soulsearching' i.e. CCing, when she realises…
/r/askTRP22/06/18 09:54 AM
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Do your hair how you like, it's your style you have to own that shit. If it makes you self-conscious thats more a mental issue than anything, changing it just kicks the problem down the road, you would just get self conscious about something else before long. Tell dad he can grow one if he's that jealous.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 08:40 PM
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Baby steps. Models - Mark Manson outlines a good practical approach to overcoming social anxiety, as well as a lot of accurate theory on social anxiety in general. Getting drunk lowers your inhibitions too for a lazy alternative.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 12:59 PM
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Women's words are meaningless, you can only gauge what she wants by her actions.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 12:54 PM
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Should you next her? Do what you want.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 08:28 AM
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Actively trying not to look beta is beta. Do your own thing, be your own man. A real alpha never has to worry about approval, validation, what others think of him, because his orbiters are copying him not judging him. What women say holds near zero value. Don't forget Stacey will happily trash talk Chad to all her friends just to scare off the competition, yet everyone knows better especially the friends. The only people who take her words literally are the beta billys, the white knights, the or…
/r/askTRP18/06/18 11:37 AM
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Banter Banter You should be running. She tried to get pregnant by you. Intentionally or unintentionally, doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 09:56 AM
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Run
/r/askTRP18/06/18 09:54 AM
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Why do you care how you look to a girl that no longer exists?
/r/askTRP18/06/18 09:50 AM
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That just clicked for me
/r/askTRP18/06/18 08:30 AM
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real men Propaganda used near entirely by women and white knights to control and promote blue pilled behaviour in men, while ironically offering no logical reason to conform, just a childish insult to those who stand out. Also used in reverse to disqualify the competition, e.g. "only real women suck dick and make a sandwich after", kind of things only 1-5s would say.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 10:20 PM
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Viking raids centuries ago of what is now Britain took the best looking girls, leaving behind our 'genetically inferior' ancestors, who produced ugly kids for generations. We really need some better genetic stock to immigrate, but the xenophobia makes this impossible.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 11:49 AM
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My friend) was in an LTR He then of course did the deed with her(They made out ,it got heated and he got his first handjob). What the fuck did I just read
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 07:28 PM
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maybe it was really my fault she cheated and I lost such a great girl because I was too redpilled Lol "a great girl" bluepilled af.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 12:47 PM
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Or just stop trying to pre-emptively fix their marriage for them. You could just as easily make it worse as better. Plus you are massively overthinking all the things you could do to help others - before you have helped yourself. most girls aren't so in the danger zone of cheating that they know they want out right then and there Calling it a danger zone is a classic bs convention, implying you need to 'help' her not make a 'mistake'. She considers it an opportunity to have fun and trade up, net…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 06:40 PM
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so why do I need to cause him to suffer when he has done nothing wrong to me? I'm not just going to sleep with his girl. If his girl will sleep with you, she isn't his girl. (You could even argue you are doing him a favour by revealing to him she is unfaithful.) You aren't causing him to suffer, she is. You aren't breaking any vows/promises, she is. It's their problem, not yours, you would just be the messenger in this situation. And if you turn her down for her being married, she will be on som…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 07:06 PM
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Its completely natural for a man who wants sex to anticipate sex when a girl shows interest. Wishful thinking. If her smv is higher than yours, she doesnt want sex. She might think you are genuinely autistic and feel sorry for you. She could be trying to hook you into orbit to do her studying for her. She could be waiting for you to make a move. Your perception is jaded by your desires though, so you have to find out some other way.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 01:50 PM
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She wants something
/r/askTRP15/02/18 01:31 PM
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good girls are just bad girls who never got caught. Rollo
/r/askTRP15/02/18 10:54 AM
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Some sources say SARMS will mess with your hormones, and that you need an aromatase inhibitor with it, other sources will say no need. Id say bitchiness is a symptom of oestrogen, so yeah you want the aromatase inhibitor, better safe than sorry. And make sure you do PCT at the end of your cycle. Currently on PCT myself and feeling loads better than when I was on ostarine, which did feel odd in the first few weeks.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 08:38 AM
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out of fear of bothering me She could just be lying
/r/askTRP12/02/18 04:49 PM
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Rollo covers it well enough in The Rational Male. Iron Rule of Tomassi #8 Always let a woman figure out why she wont fuck you, never do it for her. ... For hypergamy to sustain its dominant position as the default sexual strategy for our society, it's necessary for the feminine imperative to maintain existing, foster new, and normalize complex social conventions that serve it. ... One of these social conventions that operates in the spectrum of the personal to the societal is the idea of 'league…
/r/askTRP11/02/18 01:59 PM
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Easy mode is going porn free while still fapping. Regular mode is cutting out porn and masturbation, and only allowing orgasms from sexual contact with another person. Hard mode is pmo free, not even sex. You have to decide which is for you based on what your issues are.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 11:03 AM
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Not victimizing myself, as I said the weight is coming off and it will be a while before I lose enough for a raise in smv, another 6 months minimum. I'm talking about the here and now though.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 04:38 PM
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With low smv, free sex is not an option. Id be paying to try and fix an issue, and have some fun while doing so, having fun often isnt free either.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 02:17 PM
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Everybody here will recommend you do whatever the fuck you want to. Want to try and have sex with her anyway? Go for it. Don't want to? Friendzone her if you wish - use her for social proof, meet her friends, fuck them instead. Or just next her and keep tindering.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 10:43 AM
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Women want to be dominated by a high value male. Its an average woman all women can identify with, meeting the highest value guy possible, who for some reason only wants her, the plain vanilla inexperienced girl. And he also needs fixing - score. Its the age old disney fantasy, which exists to stroke womens egos and reassure them that they dont need to improve themselves or make much effort to land the manlife of their dreams, basically what everybody wants to hear to feel better about being laz…
/r/askTRP08/02/18 05:14 PM
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TIL 11% of the world population has genital herpes, and most don't even know they have it because most cases don't show any symptoms at all, despite being contagious. Knowingly inflicting an STI on someone without their knowing is potentially illegal depending on where you live, though if you have no idea you have it aint illegal. So 2 options: (1)Tell nobody and hope nobody ever finds out or catches it, or (2)Warn every potential lay and be prepared for most of them to run, while taking a hit t…
/r/askTRP06/02/18 08:33 PM
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Alpha and beta describe behaviours, not phrases or beliefs.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 05:24 PM
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Red light, which you already know.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 04:53 PM
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Already trying to mitigate the fallout from when you find out she cheated
/r/askTRP06/02/18 10:36 AM
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Good money will open a womans legs, but doesn't get her wet. Sex for anything other than pleasure will end badly.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 07:25 AM
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Don't skip ahead though, theres a lot of anxiety and insecurity advice scattered throughout.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 09:27 PM
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"The focus must be on you" is literally the line from the part in thinking that will be helpful, I dont remember the title or page though all I remember is that its before page 100.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 09:02 PM
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It's for the ladies benefit and not for me hah And there lies the problem. The focus must be on you. Book of pook explains this better than any one comment could. Search it in the redpillbooks sub.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 08:55 PM
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Hindsight only.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 12:41 PM
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Read book of pook and stop caring about having to 'lose it'
/r/askTRP04/02/18 12:53 PM
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You have to quit the porn. This is a symptom of an addiction. Nofap and pornfree subs will fix you. You should start with nofap for a few months, when you have more self-control from that then you can probably safely go back to jacking it without porn.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 10:41 AM
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Considering it's doing e-mails for 7 hours, which can be done by any unskilled millennial pothead, any price you quote that values your time will be ridiculously overpriced for the job being done. Either do it for free, and bond with gramps, or tell them you don't have time.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 10:31 AM
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Thx
/r/askTRP02/02/18 11:26 AM
1

I'm seeing multiple books with this title, do you know the author?
/r/askTRP02/02/18 09:37 AM
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Pua can be successful, especially in the hands of the red pilled, but without the red pill first men are playing the game with a huge disadvantage.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 09:30 AM
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Gonna assume you are talking about seduction since seddit is some foreign political sub. Seduction is game for the 80%, heavily tainted by feminism making the advice largely useless. You don't get good advice from a deer on how to hunt deer. TRP is why you aren't in the top 20% of men, how you can fix yourself and game to match.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 09:23 AM
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You look boring all the time. See shit tests in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 09:16 AM
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Trying to prevent mistakes before they happen is ridiculously less efficient than just learning from mistakes. See book of pook, or: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/let-yourself-fail.20106/
/r/askTRP01/02/18 04:55 PM
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obsessing Yeah you're being crazy. Also irrational vanity is a feminine trait. If you're worrying about your weight, do something about it. If you only think and plan without action, you are failing.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 01:18 PM
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After a certain age, virginity is seen as a mental illness You and other virgins are the only ones with this mindset. Its literally all in your head. Do you think a switch will switch on for the first time in your body when you eventually have sex, solving all your problems magically? Book of pook covers this.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 10:59 AM
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Finish digesting it. Get through the anger phase, your relationship will suffer through it. Take some time out to process TRP and work your way towards acceptance.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 07:59 AM
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Because it's everyones own responsibility to track their own progress? If they are failing, it will reflect in their lives.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 07:57 AM
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I'm 27. Didn't bother trying until someone here pointed out men don't hit their prime until mid thirties, felt I was too late before then.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 08:52 PM
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has any other Aspie here managed to go from being an extreme BP to a RP? Yeah, still in monk mode though so no success with women yet though I am already miles better off - thankyou TRP. Leaving behind empathy and becoming more self-focused are two TRP necessities that are easy steps for us. Unfortunately social skills and posture are two that are harder. Just got to give it time, and stay focused. We aren't doomed to be social failures, just takes conscious effort and more time to catch up with…
/r/askTRP31/01/18 08:46 PM
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You could report her, and her report you for something made up in retaliation, they usually side with the woman so bad plan.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 04:30 PM
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Virtual is the life you live through your pc, fun at the time but utterly meaningless once you return to reality. Seems you have only one way out of your slump, and you already know what you need to do. Give it a week, seek other options for building a future, if you find none you know what you need to do.
/r/askTRP30/01/18 10:57 AM
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Why did that work? 500 other guys texting her to talk and bond emotionally when she wants a man with sexuality. You showed her you are a sexual creature, like she is. Source is book of pook, not speaking from experience so can't elaborate.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 12:54 PM
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WHY is it so hard to get girls my own age/younger? SMV needs improving. Keep lifting and working on myself, I know. Doing it. Why even post? Attention seeking? Need validation? Need a pat on the back?
/r/askTRP27/01/18 11:50 AM
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She is using you for commitment without giving sex. Beta fail not looking for the 'next her' answers Beta confirmed.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 11:41 AM
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Flatline doesn't happen that soon, so this is just withdrawal, and you will go from one extreme to the other every so often in this stage, though fortunately porn withdrawal symptoms get weak af before the end of the first month. Is there anything I can do to help improve my libido? Go into the real world and look at real women, imagine what they look like naked. Or get one naked. Cause on porn, you stop being aroused by real stuff, so naturally quitting porn you wont be aroused at all until you…
/r/askTRP27/01/18 11:26 AM
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Do this and suffer AMOG at all times.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 11:00 AM
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I asked a couple of my girlfriends 1: You expected an honest answer from women related to sexual strategy - first mistake 2: You expected them to know what they want accurately - second mistake 3: Dadbod = low value = little to no effort required to maintain relationship, and easier to manipulate due to lack of options.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 10:49 AM
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Just one more day... Just one more... It's never just one though is it? The belief that it is acceptable to put something off till tomorrow because "it's only a day" is what wastes decades of life away. Because if it applies today, it will still apply when tomorrow arrives, it will self iterate until you get angry enough to break out of the cycle, years later. Your entire life is lived in the present. In 24 hours it will be today (not tomorrow) again. All you have is today. There is no book I kn…
/r/askTRP23/01/18 12:55 PM
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Gain muscle and lose fat. You don't just have to choose between bulk or cut. And forget weight, focus on body fat %.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 09:27 PM
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Probs a scam, still gotta be very careful
/r/askTRP22/01/18 11:00 AM
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Bullshit accusations can still fuck you over, tread carefully, even if there is no evidence the school can easily decide to suspend you until the accuser has finished studying just to avoid being accused enabling "rape culture" (the school will look after itself not either of you). Mensrights has examples of this. As to why should you fuck any girls and risk it all, do what you want. If you deem the risk too high, then you are a mgtow already. Beware incels masquerading as mgtow though.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 11:29 AM
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One of the 1st worlds' great double standards. The social convention says women are allowed (encouraged) to change their minds and break commitments, and shouldn't be judged harshly for doing so, whereas men shouldn't, and should be shamed for doing so. E.g. if a woman develops issues (loses job, gets ill etc) and the man dumps her, society deems him evil for not supporting her. If a man develops issues and a woman dumps him, she is a free spirit and shouldn't be dragged down by the loser. Also …
/r/askTRP15/01/18 11:07 AM
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How could taking responsibility for and prioritising your own happiness ever be sad? Only when your faith in the goodness of humanity is over-inflated. Assume everyone is out to get you. Many aren't, intentionally, but you can't tell the difference, and people will still fuck you over unintentionally (if you let them). Heavy boundaries that would be a minimum in business would appear as overkill when applied to personal relationships only when you forget all that can be taken from you by a singl…
/r/askTRP09/01/18 01:12 PM
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Go to the tinder sub for motivation. If nothing else, it can be funny af sometimes.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 08:20 PM
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You came to what you think is a PUA forum which you dislike to complain about your life which you don't want to change and you see nothing wrong with that? And you think that your faith will save you from loneliness, eventually, just on its own, even though so far it hasnt done much better than make you feel positive? Red pill is much more than PUA btw, feel free to stay safely in your little lonely bubble and call me wrong though.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 07:14 PM
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It can't all be done in 1 day.... Agreed. I've been in monk mode since July, when I re-discovered TRP. And it's slow going undoing decades of blue pilled nice-guy conditioning. There are books upon books, countless posts, just as much wealth of information in the comments, and that's just reddit, one of many red pill platforms that make up the manosphere. And it has all been worth it. (Minus the precious hours spent reading posts/comments by incels thinking this is a replacement for their banned…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 06:31 PM
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my situation is my fault. Good start, your situation is your responsibility, though your mentality is wrong, fault implies failure yet it wasn't a series of failures, it was actually a series of learning experiences. You are tested every day, you either pass or you learn, the only true failure is to stop trying to better yourself. ..... It is patience.... Nope, it is action. If you wait for someone/something else to fix it for you, you will die waiting.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 06:17 PM
1

Yet here you are begging for people to spoonfeed you what you need to know.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 06:11 PM
3

I am in the top tier (10%) of men that have the correct knowledge on women's sexuality. This is fucking hilarious, iamverysmart takes on TRP and embasses himself
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 05:25 PM
2

No, he doesn't, nobody needs to do anything to help you, and none will with your entitled attitude. You arent owed anything, you dont deserve anything just for existing, nobody will shed a tear when you die single and alone but you. If you want something, go and fucking earn it instead of waiting for it to be placed in your lap.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 04:49 PM
4

he is fat. Do you guys think that get rid of double chin and saggy jowls will improve his appearance? What the fuck do you think? You are in a sub where 95% of questions get answered with ".. and are you lifting?" and ask if 'your friend' should try to lose weight? Attention seeking bs post. End of the day if 'your friend' doesn't make the decision for himself, he will most likely die a virgin.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 02:05 PM
1

Imitation is suicide There are no shortcuts in the red pill
/r/askTRP02/01/18 10:42 PM
2

Im thinking there was a reason the original post didn't go into more detail, another post near it in the handbook mentioned women not being as superficial about looks as long as a man checks the box for good body.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 05:01 PM
1

-3 agreed. No idea on the height exactly, I know theres a threshold just not what it is
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 03:09 PM
1

0 is dead, 1-3 is people with severe deformations, amputations, disabilities, or morbidly obese. 4-6 is average, plain, everyday non lifters, basic effort, most guys here, the starting point for the newly redpilled. 7-9 is attractive, 10 is the theoretical maximum aka there are no 10s in reality. Get a +1 if you have a good body, +1 if you can hold frame consistently, +1 if you have a good career with a good bit of money. This is just what I can remember from a sidebar post, imo is a bit light, …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 01:18 PM
7

Its the cheaters that suddenly get very paranoid about being cheated on. Yeah she cheated, dont confront just start working on freeing yourself financially.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 11:02 AM
2

Its all in the sidebar, start by reading the red pill handbook.
/r/askTRP01/01/18 12:26 AM
1

Female here. Doubt. What's a self-proclaimed HB9 doing in TRP?
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 05:32 PM
1

Nofap was made for people with your problems. Please give me help. Nobody else is gonna change your life for you. You alone hold the power to fixing/improving yourself (except maybe a therapist to a limited extent).
/r/askTRP25/12/17 11:48 PM
1

is it deemed acceptable for a guy ... This is an example of a blue pilled mindset. You want to better? Stop caring what people think of you. If you dont get any for too long you suffer, so go get the best of what you can get, but if this leads to smv stagnation you need to stop.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 03:14 PM
8

Baby steps, you get there eventually.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 02:10 AM
7

She tried to blame me for an issue that happened, even though it wasn’t me Run - hard next
/r/askTRP22/12/17 04:12 PM
60

TL;DR How to clean your home. Yes, seriously. Waiting for part 2.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 12:47 PM
1

part of me feels guilty when I deny her. Feeling guilty for saying no is beta as fuck, everybody here everybody is laughing at you. Bite the bullet and start saying no or she will own your spineless ass, turn you into her personal beta slave despised by all but her including her. Can see it now already: "You were such a sweet child, where did it all go wrong?? Single at 45 and still living with us, the shame. Rub my feet darling" If it helps, she knows full well you don't want to go and asks you…
/r/askTRP17/12/17 10:21 PM
1

enjoy the fruits of your labour. Did you ever get around to actually enjoying these girls, or was being their wallet/escort/general club provider good enough for you? i decided i'd use them as friends to increase my social value Like the idea, though i'm wondering if this was your decision or theirs considering the complete lack of hook-ups in the story.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 06:46 PM
1

Not on it's own... Doesn't just happen without effort, just doesn't drop off rapidly like with women
/r/askTRP16/12/17 03:43 PM
2

Rule 1: never trust her entirely to handle the contraception, you and your seed are at the mercy of her whims. Afaik those arm things last 3 years, hers could have been in for 5.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 11:07 AM
1

If you are only gonna skim the sidebar to pick out the bits you agree with, you aren't even trying to unplug so just save yourself the trouble and deposit your testicles in the nearest dumpster.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 06:43 PM
1

The point of TRP is that women are not goals at all, whichever way you choose to consume.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 11:02 AM
1

Remind her its full of protein and nutrients and barely any calories, it wont break the diet
/r/askTRP12/12/17 04:42 PM
2

Like it
/r/askTRP12/12/17 12:33 PM
1

From the UK and from what I understand from watching CSI (which may be complete garbage) evidence obtained illegally cant be used as evidence in a trial - a judge may watch a video of a girl giving you full consent for sex, find out she did not consent to being recorded and throw the video out, later convicting you of rape despite knowing you didn't. Could be wrong, will delete if so.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 11:02 AM
1

Only one rule of askTRP and you broke it...
/r/askTRP11/12/17 01:40 PM
5

She didn't see a problem trying to lock the last guy down by getting pregnant, she will try the same on you.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 11:45 AM
1

Most of reddit is dominated by feminists, who believe TRP is the devil. They want all men to be their beta orbiting slaves and TRP would take that away from them, therefore it is anti feminist among many reasons. A post here a few days ago said it perfectly - TRP is fight club, first rule is you dont talk about TRP openly online.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 08:08 AM
1

Stopped reading at dont say to get a new girl If you arent willing to walk away from the relationship at any time, she has the power. If you arent getting what you want/need from it, but you wont leave, gtfo because you have no self respect. Doesnt belong in TRP. Im not saying you should dump her ass now, you just need to be willing to replace her if she cant/wont give you what you need.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 06:44 PM
1

Wrong sub dude
/r/askTRP27/11/17 09:29 PM
1

Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP27/11/17 07:54 AM
1

Dont shit where you eat, its not different
/r/askTRP26/11/17 10:20 PM
1

Dont shit where you eat, its not different
/r/askTRP26/11/17 10:20 PM
2

Dont shit where you eat, its not different
/r/askTRP26/11/17 10:20 PM
1

Aspergers here, TRP has already saved me from becoming a blue pilled cuck raising someone elses kids, though I doubt ill ever become a pussy slaying chad since strangers are effort. Losing the rest of the weight and ridding the rest of the anxiety will make them worth it though, just a slow process. If youre on the milder half of the spectrum you can minimize your symptoms in time with therapy, mindfulness, self reflection, meditation and social exposure (and maybe nofap). You can get to the poi…
/r/askTRP26/11/17 06:39 PM
4

Tl;dr if an addiction isn't as bad as the worst possible addiction going, it can't be an addiction.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 11:39 AM
1

You don't choose your family, if they don't support you what possible reason could you have to keep them in your circle as an adult?
/r/askTRP25/11/17 04:54 PM
1

Death grip, go to the nofap subreddit
/r/askTRP24/11/17 06:59 PM
11

How convenient the thing that happened that neither of you noticed and seems unlikely gets her the commitment she wanted. RIP friend. Pretty sure she would be unconscious in under an hour after taking rufies, also pretty sure she wouldnt be able to get out of bed/out of the toilet the next day. Girls claim to have been rufied all the time when they drink too much, always somebody elses fault. Find yourself a new drinking buddy, cause this one just handed over his testicles for free. Probably wil…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 12:03 PM
1

The "K bye" alternate response would have gotten a much worse response from her
/r/askTRP19/11/17 03:45 PM
1

Blue pill story, don't waste your time reading
/r/askTRP18/11/17 06:09 PM
2

I've had an annoying skin condition as a teenager that left me with purple scar spots, but they are 90% faded now they aren't really noticeable - hopefully yours will too. Was insecure too as a teen when they were really obvious on my arms, but years later in reflection I realised nobody really noticed or cared unless I pointed them out, that's the thing about insecurity it's always worse in your head than in reality.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 01:43 AM
1

Did you pay for her shit on your first meet? Without more info id be inclined to say she hasnt decided whether you are AF/BB yet. She has a kid so its a fair assumption she wants a beta provider, doesnt mean she wants you to be that provider though. She may already have a provider sorted already anyway.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 11:40 AM
11

So your post is just a reminder of all the negativity affecting men and their children, not meant to add anything with examples just a reminder? Sounds like one of those "everyone knows .... is true blah blah" feminist type claims.
/r/MensRights14/11/17 04:01 PM
18

Who is objecting? Hate this sort of empty post, implying something bad is happening but avoiding any actual details, same reason I hate mgtow and incel.
/r/MensRights14/11/17 03:04 PM
1

Sidebar
/r/askTRP13/11/17 03:24 PM
1

The answer is in your summary, idgaf gets you the friend, so stop giving a fuck about the girl. Simple. Sounds like oneitis for the girl stops you getting with her.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 03:23 PM
1

They aren't your books, you didn't buy them with your money. Your family sound insanely controlling so those books will never appear again, and are most likely already burnt or sold, but will continue to be used to coerce you into doing what they want. Just focus on your degree, and get yourself a job, shitty pay is better than no pay, everyone starts on shitty pay anyway.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 03:27 PM
2

Just read the sidebar dude
/r/askTRP10/11/17 10:49 AM
1

That aint a prenup, thats a 'be my little provider bitch contract', aka exactly what you can expect from a blue pill marriage but actually enforced in writing. Run.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 01:11 PM
2

It's fake - 3 hours is not long enough for your average gender studies student to get through all those 3 questions
/r/MensRights03/11/17 07:05 PM
1

every morning swearing i wont drink This is setting yourself up to fail - if you succeeded in drinking nothing for a few days you would die (Amy Winehouse for example). Set yourself realistic goals, the best one being "I will drink less than I did yesterday/last week" and work your way down gradually. Also get help, therapy is a must, in the UK the NHS does a home detox service, and various peer to peer anonymous support groups everywhere, and lean on family & friends. I literally can't even fat…
/r/askTRP01/11/17 12:00 PM
2

Agree & amplify, don't let him build your insecurities, if he says something true then it's true wheres the issue, if he says something false it's just a lie so turn it back to banter - just don't let it get to you, your reputation is only harmed in the eyes of people dumb enough to find his comments funny, which are no more than a few idiot friends of his.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 10:17 PM
5

Its her dread game, seems like its working.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 11:01 AM
1

D: Take BP to the extreme with her, tell her how much you missed her, how everyday without her has been agony, and now that your'e back together (when you aren't) you can't wait to get married and be together forever, have shitloads of babies etc. The more blue pilled, beta, desperate, emotional, etc you are to her the bigger the turn off. There is a post in the RP handbook on this exact method, tl;dr guys oneitis rejects him, he finds TRP and builds a chad shell, ex finds out he has value and r…
/r/askTRP26/10/17 08:53 PM
4

I agree, though I am only being pessimistic due to how angry I am at toxic feminism right now
/r/MensRights19/10/17 08:54 PM
9

Id be inclined to agree, except the entire thing seems to be hypocritical in excluding men from sharing their experiences and instead encouraging men to share how they can change to prevent this - like we are all responsible for the actions of a minority of idiots, they can fuck off with their implications. At its core #metoo is just another attempt to reinforce the feminist narrative of men as abusers and women as victims, the only saving grace being some of the abused can benefit from a sense …
/r/MensRights19/10/17 08:25 PM
1

You belong in The Blue Pill, and in a straightjacket.
/r/askTRP19/10/17 04:12 PM
2

Basically only female rape victims suffer (house on fire) and deserve help, while male rape victims do not suffer (house not on fire, why pour water on it?). I still find it funny feminists came up with "only those without a privilege can perceive it" then go around saying women have it worse than men when, by their own logic, they cannot perceive female privilege, so have nothing to compare male privilege to.
/r/MensRights17/10/17 11:48 AM
2

Have you not seen the state of the criminal justice system nowadays? Punishment for a false rape accusation begins the second your name hits the papers, and lasts till you have to move out of the area, not when you are aquitted by the law, which may never happen if they decide to side with her against your evidence to avoid putting off genuine rape survivors from coming forward, or just avoiding rape apology/victim blaming/other bullshit pc feminist shaming tools that ruin careers. You should be…
/r/askTRP17/10/17 08:41 AM
1

No need to refute, just ask to read the study this came from. Oh, and run, sexist feminists are dangerous for men to be around.
/r/MensRights12/10/17 03:38 PM
1

You could be better looking, more dominant, bench more than brad pitt etc but still have lower SMV. This sub preaches self improvement to make yourself somebody, to raise your SMV which has the side effect of automatically getting girls wet. Monk mode, meditation, weights etc are tools to get you there.
/r/askTRP12/10/17 11:38 AM
3

she all of a sudden started talking to me more and asking me personal questions Things went dry with the other guy she is secretly seeing, she decided to make him jealous, she had sex with you a few times and that did it, she got what she wanted off the other guy and is back with him, end of story. You want her? Raise your status higher than this other guy, sounds like he gave in easily to her shit testing by fucking you so they wont last too long.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 10:01 AM
1

you might as well be talking to someone who isn't even here. This is a form of cognitive dissonance, like a feminist when your opinion is challenged by logic you cannot refute, instead of letting go of a poor argument you revert to childish defences; not listening, calling names, dumb insults, pretending to be more intelligent without providing any evidence whatsoever (again). You aren't mature enough for anyone to see you as an adult, if I were a mod I would ban you too.
/r/MGTOW16/09/17 04:38 PM
1

I actually agree that women do extremely little compared to men, but your sweeping generalisations lacking of any detail has no point, or aim, just another poorly planned rant to go with the millions that already exist to no benefit of men, but are used as evidence by feminists that mens issues are nothing more than empty complaining for the sake of complaining. Obviously you are in the anger phase of the red pill, stop wasting your energies venting anger and keep it, put it towards improving so…
/r/MGTOW16/09/17 04:23 PM
3

I would upvote this twice if I could
/r/MGTOW15/09/17 12:15 PM
2

Probs cause you are wasting your time and energy finding new ways to complain about women, instead of being productive doing self improvement its just "everyone come to my pity party" fuck that
/r/MGTOW15/09/17 12:14 PM
1

I get that, 1 on 1 anxiety is at a minimum, any extra person and it is bad enough to stop me speaking - narrowed it down to a fear of the extra people judging me for what I say/how I say it (used to stutter)
/r/askTRP07/09/17 08:15 PM
2

"The lion does not concern himself over the opinions of sheep" - my favourite TRP quote of the month. When some rando can make you angry in an instant, your mentality is wrong, nobody should be able to make you feel anything without your consent if you are being stoic. Who cares what he thinks? Just another religious sheep - his beliefs will lead him straight into the jaws of the wolves, leave him to it. Also working retail customers will say anything to get discounts and perks, they get away wi…
/r/askTRP04/09/17 08:06 AM
1

the realization that I'm 31 and behind where my father was at the same point Is completely irrelevant to where you are - arguably we have it harder than the baby boomer generation, so just flat out stop comparing yourself to them. You shouldn't even be comparing yourself to anyone else anyway, there is always someone better to make you feel inadequate. So just stop. what/will won't happen we die I think about death/my life Stop that shit too, morbid thoughts lead to morbid moods. Keep this up an…
/r/askTRP02/09/17 11:11 AM
1

What the fuck is this, neither a field report or red pill anything, why are there so many incels here dragging the place down, never bothering to read rule 0 on posting
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 03:35 PM
1

Sell your half to one of her friends, or some random for all you care is fine, or get one of your buddies to buy her half and go have an epic time. If you go with her she will be alternating between fucking other guys there and trying to win you back. Fuck that
/r/askTRP27/08/17 10:53 AM
2

Show him his shit does not affect you, easiest way of doing this is 1. Dont let anyone elses shit affect you, 2. Live your life. Its all in the IDGAF mentality, which also does wonders for mental health when fully integrated
/r/askTRP27/08/17 10:48 AM
1

Don't run the risk of reverting back to oneitis because of your history with her, keep away from her.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 02:38 PM
1

She was attractive and blonde so of course I knew I didn't have a chance. At that point you had already failed due to going in with the wrong mindset - firstly, you are the prize; secondly, you aren't going out to pull, you go out to socialise. You sound like a blue piller with social anxiety - fix that before trying to get women. Social anxiety is not an excuse, it does not define you, it is your own personal mountain to climb in order to continue on your journey - there are no shortcuts or alt…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/17 12:25 PM
3

Fuck "Just Being Yourself" when you can be better. Simple.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 09:20 PM
20

My favourite quote from the sidebar material "You don't ask a deer how to hunt deer", NEVER take advice from a woman, end of. The truth is if you are too nice with anyone whether girls or friends you give them a needy vibe. This is 100%, the most important thing I learned before finding TRP, 3 years ago I had had no success with women, a virgin and eternally single aged 24, I gave up, stopped caring about them. I could tease to flirt before, but at that point stopped bothering to hold back becau…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 06:23 PM
36

Not to mention much of the 'mainstream' advice out there for men (from women, be yourself, courteous, polite, chivalrous, pay for everything etc) just makes men more beta, which is not in the best interests of those men but is in the best interests of women who feel entitled to beta generosity. Hence red pill advice must be shamed, else the beta male foundations that modern 'strong independant' women rely on will crumble and fall, then they will have to actually learn to become strong and indepe…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 06:08 PM
2

she is extremely immature like a child and can be so fucking stupid but yet is so manipulating at the same time. AWALT. You let her get away with anything for 5 years, that really fucks up her personality, first step towards fixing her is the first step towards getting yourself free, soft next her.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 03:38 PM
6

she told me "I lost my best friend because of you." A beta orbiter is not a best friend, he is not even a friend when he is basically in love with her behind her back, and she keeps him around as a beta reserve, so that she will never have to be alone if you leave her, he just covers her until she finds a new alpha, then back to the friendzone with him - neither wants to be just friends with each other, hence the friendship is fake. Her saying he was her best friend was an attempt at emotional b…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/17 07:24 PM
2

She sees you, she instantly decides she is out of your league, probably because she has never needed sleep with anyone under 6 feet. She tries to mess with you for fun, cue the shit test, you maintain frame, agree and amplify, show no weakness, she is stunned and instantly attracted to you, cue the hamster: he is clearly beneath me, I must find his weakness, cue endless shit testing, each resulting in further attraction and a greater desire to regain power. After many cycles, her body is screami…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/17 09:29 PM
1

Yes, in recommended reading or newbies guide -be prepared for a long read, it is all worth it
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 06:23 AM
3

You are alone in this world, surprise! But seriously, don't fight the way things are, you will just get crushed and nothing else will change. We (TRP) are not here to fix society, because our society eats self-sacrificing heroes for breakfast, then demands they buy it lunch. We are here to survive the collapse. Read this somewhere in the handbook the other day, still always relevant. Hold onto your anger, it helps fuel your changes & keep you focused.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 10:04 PM
2

"Well, you don't have informations about your father so it could be possible that your father had a different name and it's the name from your mother that you have so you are basically not affected when you have the name of your mother after they divorced. Sounds like a weak attempt to make you feel better (and stop ranting), definitely not an attack. I told her that she has no feelings and can not even try to understand my situation This is you 'attacking' her first by insulting her emotions. N…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 09:55 PM
1

Ok never knew that, is that also how they get away with women-only gyms and the like?
/r/MensRights07/08/17 05:36 PM
0

It's discrimination, which is illegal in the working world, is there is some exception for private businesses I have never been made aware of?
/r/MensRights07/08/17 04:36 PM
-5

Damn right, denying someone service based on what genitals they have is sexist and wrong regardless of who is the victim, first time I have seen it this way round though
/r/MensRights07/08/17 03:47 PM
1

Are you describing your plate or daughter?
/r/TheRedPill07/08/17 11:53 AM
2

You threaten their way of life (blue pill) by not living to appease women - ironically if their way of life was logically sound, your non-conformity would be helpful to them. Avoid these assholes, if you can't avoid them, ensure you are protected from their actions with witnesses, public surveillance etc.
/r/askTRP05/08/17 10:17 AM
8

You might be getting primed for a rape accusation, some feminists get off on that shit even if it is entirely fabricated, as depending on where you are law enforcement may only require her (possibly false) statement as sufficient evidence to prosecute - schools/universities are notoriously worse for this. Get yourself some legal advice on a throwaway account, and get to know the laws of your area. Getting in bed with you in her underwear and asking you not to touch her is her way of making you h…
/r/askTRP31/07/17 04:22 PM
2

Woman gets drunk and burns down a building -> She is responsible for her own behaviour, jail. Woman gets drunk and punches someone breaking their nose -> She is responsible for her own behaviour, jail. Woman gets drunk and sleeps with a man -> Can't be considered consent! Man goes to jail. If we could all just get drunk before doing stupid shit in order to be absolved of responsibility, the world would already be ashes and wreckage. Ultimately, if you consent to getting off your face falling dow…
/r/MensRights20/07/17 05:32 PM
2

I think there is some very worrying wording in there - "DNA tests showed that the boy and the baby were related..." "...the girl did not report the incident to the police as she is related to the boy..." Makes it sound like the boy is not even the father, anyone else seeing this?
/r/MensRights29/03/17 10:25 PM
2

You wont make any progress without giving her a little space, call her in a few days to see if she will hear your apology
/r/seduction29/03/17 12:42 PM
3

Because the train of thought only ever runs until it gets to where SJW's want it to be, not to it's true conclusion.
/r/MensRights22/02/17 05:32 PM
1

Don't know about supporting, but any view of a gender solely because of the gender is definitely sexist. Go Jon
/r/MensRights30/01/17 09:02 PM
3

I completely agree, no better way to kill the movement than piss off the people you need support from, specially when there are other ways of conveying a message without insulting feminists everywhere, otherwise you are building the gender gap bigger
/r/MensRights24/01/17 02:57 PM
2

You don't actually fight fire with fire - that is one absolutely certain way of making sure the fire never goes out.
/r/MensRights06/12/16 07:59 PM
2

"You have 0 free articles left this month." Why does anyone even go on Washington Post?
/r/MensRights29/11/16 08:06 PM
2

Pretty sure everyone that uses the internet is on the human side
/r/MensRights18/06/16 11:15 PM
23

^ Much better, feel like nobody has learnt anything when they just reverse gender roles instead of taking gender out of the equation, which is what gender equality is about. Plus this is much harder for extremist feminists to attack.
/r/MensRights10/01/16 09:42 PM

You come for the sexual strategy, once you get balls deep in the sidebar you are shown the best sexual strategy is by unplugging and sorting your life out. The women-as-goals mindset is the shortcut to oneitis. Rollo himself says women should never be the goal of a man's life, they exist only to compliment it. (Rollo Tamassi is the godfather of TRP by the way.) Get reading that sidebar.
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