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| 6 | How heartbreaking, talk about long con on the husband’s part!can't let go of rejections and break ups decades after. I think it's more of an inability of dealing with their bruised ego Agree. This, plus thinking of their exes as a poker hand they were dealt, instead of a whole separate person who is on her own growth journey, and has her own goals, choices, and feelings, creates this perfect recipe "one that got away" and comparison mess. The whole concept of "one that got away" is really dehumanizing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 07:16 PM |
| 13 | I gave my ex a list of things I'm allergic to, he told his mother it's my favourite food. I ended up practically dying on the way to the hospital. He thought I'm lying and just being a picky eater.Agree. Use "I don't like pistachios" instead of "I'm allergic to pistachios" and see if he respects that. You can still accomplish "Blood in the Water." I do have a problem with people normalizing the idea that they can lie about allergies. Some allergies are dangerous, and therefore, allergies should not be lied about. I use a real boundary, just not a dangerous one. "I would rather not drink alcohol this week." That is not dangerous for me, I just prefer not to. Any boundary pushing, sneaking,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 08:05 PM |
| 11 | If a guy vehemently hates cats, run.My dogs are cats then! You have to give them time to warm up to you. If you're too forward, they hide from you. They're generally curious and like being around people, but you're allowed to touch them on their terms only. Good thing, since I'm dangerously allergic to cats. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 07:23 PM |
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