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Change the environment you are looking for a mate in. Im 30 now and I can tell you that I wasted YEARS in those places. I wasnt even REALLY having fun. I thought I was just playing the game, unfortunately I was just wasting my time.
/r/seduction07/11/20 03:52 AM
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Just remember nobody is perfect. You won't find that.
/r/seduction07/11/20 03:14 AM
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I just use texting as a means to set up meetups. Nothing more. It turns dry too fast. Just like her vagina in those situations.
/r/seduction01/02/20 07:55 PM
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That's just your perception. For men Tinder is a numbers game. You might have to ask 10 girls before you get one that says yes. Maybe be more direct with how you're asking. Invite to a an not just a general let's hangout.
/r/seduction27/01/19 01:52 AM
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You probably should have escalated to kissing shortly after the crotch sitting game lol
/r/seduction21/12/18 12:12 AM
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Idk man maybe you just need to jump into it then. Push the limits of escalation. She'll say no ice she doesnt want it. Obviously there are boundaries but maybe you aren't escalating fast enough?
/r/seduction20/12/18 11:10 PM
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Do you initiate escalation? Physical escalation? Having a conversation with a a girl at a party, put your hand on her lower back etc things like that. Most women I've had the pleasure of knowing, won't initiate things like this, especially if you are above average looks wise, they may be intimidated by you, so if you're sitting back waiting for them to make a move, don't. You have to initiate it, and escalate the situation, otherwise you'll just end up as friends with these women, and nothing mo…
/r/seduction20/12/18 11:08 PM
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Just jump man and hope to fly
/r/seduction18/12/18 07:11 PM
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Blaming failure on outside factors is probably one reason why you're failing. You need to think you're awesome and believe it, then she'll believe it. Have you ever seen Jack Blacks wife? Chick is fine. He looks like a potato. Maybe you need to work on yourself a little more bud.
/r/seduction06/12/18 07:21 AM
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Personality and average looks will beat handsome tall and boring any day of the week bud.
/r/seduction05/12/18 08:30 PM
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Texting should be used for one thing. Meeting up. For one if you try to continue a conversation through text it will eventually come to that, make her laugh once and try to plan a date. For two, she will notice that you're not texting her daily, this will create an abundance vibe, and will likely attract her more. After that you just have to kill the actual date, which imo is much easier. And you're in my friend.
/r/seduction04/12/18 10:38 PM
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Hold her hand and be touchy, hand on theigh/right above the knee, hand on the lower back as she's moving past you etc, at this point you need to build the tension otherwise you do risk being in the friends zone. Its okay to take things slow just don't take them too slow.
/r/seduction20/11/18 02:00 AM
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A fucking men, say it louder for the rooks in the back
/r/seduction10/11/18 01:41 AM
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Hm, honestly I wouldn't over think it. Don't text her or anything until you see her again at the next event, if there is a chance you don't want to come off as needy by texting her too much. Maybe ask her in person next time you guys are flirting.
/r/seduction17/10/18 04:29 PM
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this, just be friendly when you can give her a ride do it. I wouldn't put too much stock into it until you get to know her a little better.
/r/seduction17/10/18 03:45 PM
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Okay so first thing, you're going to get burned, deal with it. Its part of the game, you don't learn to ride a bike without falling down at first. Second, if she mentioned wanting to go to the socials, BUT not wanting to drive to them, AND ALSO mentioned a boyfriend (seriously why would a woman that is in to you lie about that) I hate to say it bud but I think she's just looking for a way to the socials without having to drive. IE she's trying to gauge if you would be open to give her a ride to …
/r/seduction17/10/18 03:43 PM
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Yeah I would be more specific, set an activity and a time and ask. You asking her means she has to make more of a decision than just yes or no. Sadly its a gender role but some women don't want to be the one making the decision and want the man to. Again just my experience.
/r/seduction16/10/18 10:49 PM
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Escalate, light touching is the best way to do that. If you don't want to sleep with them at the end of the date that's okay, I used to be friend zoned a lot but I started escalating, honestly watching those you tube videos of those seduction coaches were a god send.
/r/seduction12/09/18 01:30 AM
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idk where this guy got his number, women peak at 23-24
/r/seduction16/08/18 01:37 AM
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Just be yourself man. You got her number, she wouldn't have given it to you if she didn't want you to hit her up. Stop worrying about impressing her and just be cool.
/r/seduction30/07/18 06:13 PM
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Dude Tinder should be used for one thing and one thing only, scheduling meet ups. If you try to have a full blown conversation with someone, one of two things are going to happen, its going to start out dry and end dry, or its going to start out good and end dry, Just find someone you think is attractive and schedule a meet up, no offense but attempting to measure someone's intellectual properties based on a short text conversation is the worst, because it doesn't really provide the subsistence …
/r/seduction14/06/18 09:20 PM
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Honestly, a pretty face, I don't care too much what your body type is if you have a pretty face, good teeth as well. All of this though pales if you have a terrible personality.
/r/seduction06/06/18 12:56 AM
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I'm not a fan of the waiting game. I feel like text convos always end up feeling stale, so as soon as I make them laugh I ask to meet up, where I know I'll kill it 9 out of 10 times.
/r/seduction30/05/18 09:23 PM
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Dude its like from middle school I swear lol
/r/seduction30/05/18 09:20 PM
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I only use text game to do one thing. Meet up. That's it. That simple. I'm terrible at holding conversations through text, but in person I kill it, meet up meet up meet up.
/r/seduction30/05/18 09:18 PM
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Just set up another time bruh. Aint no thang.
/r/seduction25/05/18 01:58 AM
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I dont know If I would agree with that completely, maybe I gave a bad example (I dont really use those much) but it's supposed to convey that you're the "Hold the door for her but slap her ass on the way in" type of guy.
/r/seduction24/05/18 12:06 AM
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Yeah I guess it can be. It's a way for people to not seem needy. I'm not a huge fan of it tbh, I've never had a problem making women laugh their ass off, so I never had a need for it.
/r/seduction23/05/18 11:53 PM
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I think he means something along the lines of "Even you look great in that dress wow!" kind of a tongue in cheek, compliment/put down at the same time. Correct me if I'm wrong OP.
/r/seduction23/05/18 10:41 PM
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You didn't fuck it up. Happened to me last year once haha. Ended up kissing on date 2 and getting laid on date 3. Just make sure to kiss her the next time.
/r/seduction27/04/18 07:42 PM
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This My personal escalation/touching "hierarchy" is the following (not set in stone of course): 1.arms, upper back 2.lower back, hands, knees 3.hair, face, thighs, kissing 4.ass, tits, fucking Please note this is a natural progression, 3 and 4 are not to be an assumed thing. But touching is the best way to go to the next level, especially while they are laughing their ass off
/r/seduction05/04/18 10:48 PM
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Just be yourself. Tell her about a crazy story. Ask her what her worst first date was. I find that if you ask interesting questions, and tell interesting stories, they will warm up to you. The other person is just as nervous as you, all you have to do is break the ice. I like to take charge by leading into that, which I found that women also like.
/r/seduction18/01/18 11:45 PM
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You're trying too hard dude. Next time try to make plans for say, getting a drink that night, or something. A week is like 6 months in hot girl time.
/r/seduction04/01/18 09:33 PM
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Maybe it's just a confidence boost
/r/seduction15/11/17 06:14 AM
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I dont understand why you told her you would be distant. You have her thinking you dont like her now. If you are trying to not seem needy just be busy with other things. As far as your chances. Theres really no way to tell ecery girl is different.
/r/seduction15/06/17 05:53 AM
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Dude just wait till she hits you up
/r/seduction15/06/17 05:34 AM
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Yes, it removes the pressure of us havi g to possibly get rejected, which happe s more times than not.
/r/seduction25/05/17 05:14 PM
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Ask them questions about themselves. People love to talk about their own perception of who they are.
/r/seduction29/03/17 02:46 AM
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Just make her laugh, if she is still being boring after she's laughed her guts out its likely that she is just a boring person. Laughter is a great way to break down walls of shy women.
/r/seduction01/08/16 09:54 AM
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Dont know why this is getting downvoted, very solid explanation
/r/seduction08/07/16 06:21 AM
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Woman, never know what they want.
/r/seduction01/06/16 03:54 AM
1

Just steal a kiss from her, that'll shut her up.
/r/seduction29/05/16 04:26 PM
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Dude your going to get rejected anyways, play to win and get over your fear of success smh
/r/seduction31/03/16 01:21 PM
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Generally I like to ask questions just to get to know them, that mixed in with jokes lol
/r/seduction21/02/16 06:13 PM
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