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Weird coincidence: this happened to me when I was 9... I had a highschool female come over once a week and help me with my reading and writing skills. We'd always start with the same thing, writing a brief sentence about something I did last week. My mom took me and my sisters to McDonald's the day before and I wanted to impress my tutor by spelling McDonald's correctly. Before I had the chance to show her I knew how to spell it, she pulled the paper away from me and wrote it for me. I was so up…
/r/MensRights20/12/22 06:44 AM
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Real men don't have to prove how manly they are. They don't pine for attention or approval from anyone. They can be the butt of a joke without being offended and they can laugh at someone else's joke without having to top it. If someone doesn't know you and they say you're not a real man they're just trying to make you feel less about yourself. Me personally, I work hard, I take care of my kid, my wife, my house, my bills, and I willing enlisted into the army during a time of war. Stayed in for …
/r/MensRights11/12/22 10:03 AM
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This basically happened to me with a woman I was dating a few years ago. We went on a few dates, she came home with me to do the good stuff and everything was great. In the morning I'm laying next to her with my shirt off and she just leans in and licks my nipple. It was just too weird and made my nipple itchy and uncomfortable. We didn't go out again after that
/r/MensRights29/11/22 07:55 AM
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I definitely agree with you, the only speed bump is HOW does one fight back against false accusations without making it look like the accusations were right... I've lost a lot of friends because of that shit. Bitter ex girlfriends spreading lies about me and I just trusted my friends to know they're lying but eventually the lies won and there was nothing I could do. Hell, I just had to leave a job earlier this year because of a guy spreading rumors about me. I would like to know how to retaliate…
/r/MensRights28/11/22 06:33 AM
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You non-americans with your experiences with Americans always seem to highlight why I (an American living in America) can't seem to get along with 80% of Americans.
/r/seduction22/08/22 03:52 AM
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My experience as a male in female bathrooms has been vastly the opposite. Even before my daughter was born, I once spent almost an hour and a half talking with a few females at a bar. WITH my daughter, I stood there changing her or waiting for her to finish, in the female bathrooms like I belonged there .. no trouble at all
/r/MensRights28/09/20 07:51 AM
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*inflict a VIOLENT and disfiguring injury on." You missed a word... Honest mistake I'm sure..
/r/MensRights10/03/20 03:50 PM
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You're right, it isn't... However.... You guys are mutilating the definition of mutilate Secondly, dictionaries aren't weapons to be used for petty arguments. They aren't rule books. The meanings for words ebb and flow over time.. Remember when "Literally" didn't have contradictory meanings?
/r/MensRights10/03/20 03:31 PM
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Yeah, I'm on board with most of this subreddit, but freaking out about circumcision, calling it mutilation.. it's done by doctors in a hospital setting for health reasons. If the mom grabbed a box cutter and did it herself in the garage, then we can call it mutilation... In fairness it's probably a decision that the father should make, and not the hypocritical mother that just ranted on FB for 9 hours.
/r/MensRights09/03/20 08:27 PM
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I usually go for something funny. Igor was a good one.. I used to have this competition with myself to see how far I can get with the chick in the quickest amount of time. I'd use the movie to time it.
/r/seduction11/01/16 06:34 AM
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Simple answer, don't be overly agreeable, don't be too available, lose your temper and correct them. Don't curse them out or anything. Make plans and then cancel, but have a legit reason ready. Don't ask if something is okay, assume it is until otherwise specified.. Sexualize conversations subtly. When you meet a girl, try kino-escalating quicker, and farther than just a high five.. Next time you're in a situation like that girl at the party, when you have her number.. Something that's worked fo…
/r/seduction11/01/16 06:17 AM
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What's worked for me, recently is, "A lot, but that was a darker past of mine that I've left behind." Because it's true.. When I've told my actual number (48) I'm usually met with disdain.
/r/seduction11/01/16 06:00 AM
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I told this story in another thread but I think it applies... I had a buddy who would would wingman for me and vice versa... A few times when he'd get in this kind of slum he'd drag me out to a club and ask every woman he saw, whether they were alone or in a group, he'd ask them if they wanted to hook up... They'd say no, he said fuck you! and moved on to the next closest female... It never worked but I like to think he did it to get used to being rejected so his emotions were dulled to it... I …
/r/seduction07/06/14 02:12 AM
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That's a good point. Oddly enough, I found myself stumbling over my words today because I kept thinking about how I shouldn't do something...
/r/seduction07/06/14 02:07 AM
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Lol, I never wear hats, it makes me look terrible... Let's hear some of your "rainy day" openers...
/r/seduction07/06/14 02:05 AM
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Blanket time ended a few days ago, now I'm at the pissing and moaning stage.. Lol
/r/seduction06/06/14 11:16 AM
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That is exactly where I am right now, it's like I wrote this or something... Just because it's funny: My last pickup attempt was at a Wal-Mart. I didn't even plan on going there to meet anyone but saw an HB7 and thought I'd go for it. I got about 20 feet from her, felt like I needed to burp but puked instead... <- confidence destroyer... I've got a few things I'm trying out. I haven't been in this kind of slump for years... Rather than writing positives I'm writing things I want to improve upon.…
/r/seduction06/06/14 11:14 AM
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Depends, I get the feeling you're close to your teen years... If so I can't help. If you're more in your adult years, I'd start subtly sexualizing... Women have erogenous zones that they might not know about. 'lower back, back of the neck, and palms.' Guide her with your hand on her lower back, but don't keep it there too long. Pretend to have taken up palm reading. Make subtle jokes about sex, and see if she plays along.. Don't force it if she doesn't. Talk about something else & try again late…
/r/seduction06/06/14 10:36 AM
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I had a moment of overconfidence, or hypomania after nailing one of the hottest chicks in one of my classes in a college mostly full of nerds... I was the third guy she'd been with. A month later I started talking to an HB8 in another one of my classes, we got as far as sexting, I got her to send me nudes, then turned up the pressure to 11 and chased her off.... Been in an AFC state ever since... I'll climb out, it's not my first time here, won't be my last... Still sucks though.
/r/seduction06/06/14 10:26 AM
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My mantra, taught to me by Ross Jeffries... "You never get rejected, you just find out whether or not the girl has good taste." A buddy I'd wingman with had a method he used when he struck out too much. He'd go to a club and ask everything with a vagina if she wanted to hook up... It didn't work, ever, but in its own lame way it was inspiring. He kinda numbed himself to rejection..
/r/seduction06/06/14 10:19 AM
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I would never comment on the obvious, especially if she's an HB 7 or above... They here compliments all the time. I keep a social circle of female friends and they tell me stories all the time... If she's hott she knows it... I've had the best luck complimenting them on innocuous things nobody would say... For instance my "canned opener" stand about 3 feet away from her... "Hi, I don't mean to invade your space, I've really can't chat too long, I really just want to say that the way you walk has…
/r/seduction06/06/14 10:11 AM
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I'd grab one of her pants pockets and tell her my place has a strict 'no shirt' policy. Then I smile to let them know I'm joking. Occasionally use it as a callback joke. First time I made that joke the chick took her shirt off soon after. So I like to use it. Aside from that, its slow sweet direct escalation. Grab her sit her down where you want her and go from there When women are having sex with guys 99% of the time he's the one moving her into different positions. If she's at your place, and …
/r/seduction21/05/14 05:51 PM
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I like this, I'm seriously going to use it next chance I get though I almost always go full direct if we're alone at my place. .
/r/seduction21/05/14 05:47 PM
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Wow, I didn't start gaming until I was 22
/r/seduction21/05/14 11:45 AM
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You could get a small dog like a corgy and walk it around and show off pictures of it. Lol
/r/seduction21/05/14 11:43 AM
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There's a skit I saw on "A Bit of Fry and Laurie" I want to try out.. I can't find it on Youtube anywhere or else I'd post the link... But it's Season 2 Episode 2 about 15 minutes into it, there's an interrogation skit where the guy being interrogated (played by Steven Fry) he goes at Hugh Laurie hard... You've gotta see it, I want to do it just to see what happens
/r/seduction04/03/14 05:56 PM
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Sorry for the late reply.. Times get busy for me and I forget to check back... But yeah, depending on the subject and the relevance of the useless information I'm providing.. It tends to keep the conversation going and when you offer to the conversation she/he will add more to the conversation as well. I've lost conversations a few times just because I was shocked at how well it was going.
/r/seduction04/03/14 05:48 PM
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have you tried talking to all women like you're only mildly interested in them? If it works on the women you're not attracted to, then in theory it should work on the women you're attracted to. Women also love the chase. People are cats, if you let them have the string right away, they don't care about it. Dangle it in front of them and they go bazzirk! Basically, what you're doing is exactly what the women you're not interested in are doing... Try with all your might to save the deep conversati…
/r/seduction21/02/14 08:22 AM
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I like this advice... You're going to fail, that's a given fact, everyone in the PUA fails. I've had some humiliating failures that make me cringe, and on of them happened 4 years ago... I used go to the mall with a few friends and I'd always get a thing of pretzel sticks and a coke, I'd use that to open conversations by walking around little shops, and with my hands full I can't really grab and look at stuff so I'd see the target I want and casually ask her to hold my drink while I picked somet…
/r/seduction21/02/14 08:03 AM
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Oh, also a question... How long does it take you to go talk to a woman after you've spotted her?
/r/seduction21/02/14 07:56 AM
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I will if you will.
/r/seduction21/02/14 07:55 AM
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Yes, this, definitely this.
/r/seduction21/02/14 07:55 AM
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I recommend useless trivia, it usually works as a transitioner. Just be curious about the person you are talking to. I saw this somewhere on /r/seduction earlier, great advice.. Before you go out don't be on your computer or packed away somewhere on your computer or in a video game or whatever. get your mind rolling with conversations with other people..
/r/seduction21/02/14 07:54 AM
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Very true.. Just keep in mind, the only factors that will limit you, are the ones you place on yourself (within reason) No car, no problem. as everyone else has said.. Just don't focus on it too much when you're talking, and if it makes you feel more comfortable. I wouldn't bring it up until she does. I've been a smoker for many years now. I know that in today's society it's sorta taboo and common for people to dislike smokers, BUT I never bring it up when I'm talking to a new chick, and if it c…
/r/seduction21/02/14 07:50 AM
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It's always the same argument for PUAs and it's always true.. There will always be a dark and light side to every teaching... i've been to the Dark Side, of the PUA world, and used what I learned to nail as many women as possible (58 by my count) as a way of burying my depression from the painful breakup of my Ex-Fiance'. I used the same tactics and ended up with my current wife. Whom I have been with for the past 2 1/2 years, we're living together very happily, and we have a little girl. It onl…
/r/seduction21/02/14 07:40 AM
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I like the advice here, and I am going to put it into use... I've got a terrible problem when it comes to talking to new people... It's rare but sometimes it goes into a very productive path, and before long I've got her number and we're up all night talking, but how we got there is always a blur... My biggest problem is always leading the conversation to myself.. It's like a tourettes with me or something.. It's would go, Her: I'm in the recording arts program because I've always wanted to run …
/r/seduction21/02/14 07:07 AM
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I grew up the youngest child with 3 older sisters who beat me up until i was 13.. so dealing with any woman was a challenge for me until I was about 19, I'm 25 now. GrumblyElf has good advice. My strength has always been humor... I get little key phrases, or even words that I think would be funny to say, and just wait for the right opportunity.. For the longest time at my University, I've waited and longed for a chance to use the word "Hussy" and make it funny. Then the group leader in an assign…
/r/seduction06/02/14 02:51 AM
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I wouldn't put much focus on it... Either make a joke and tell her something that obviously can't be true, like you work for the MIB or something stupidly funny like that.. OR you can casually mention where you work but talk up what you're doing to to get a better job, and put more focus on that... If you spend too much time on the negative so will she... That goes with a lot of things... Older women tend not to care about what you do. At least that's my experience.
/r/seduction06/02/14 02:26 AM
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When you were as vague as you were, yeah I didn't think it would work. Now that you've explained your method further, I'm willing to admit that "Yes" in the right circumstances, it might be effective... I certainly couldn't see myself pulling it off successfully, but my methods strictly contradict yours... I'm all about fast paced pick-ups, same night lays. If I have to work at it too much I move on. I can get the same results as you, but I go about it very differently... It's what's worked for …
/r/seduction06/02/14 12:03 AM
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yes, but for this to work, they need to have a LOT of attraction for you. Something that would not happen right away. Women are not dogs, but if you offer a kid a bowl of candy they're going to take a piece.
/r/seduction05/02/14 06:07 PM
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The only way i can see this working is A. she is either not very sought after, meaning she doesn't get around much. In which case, you can build her however you want, which can be a pro or con depending on how you look at it. B. She a cougar, which would explain why she's so willing to answer a phone call telling her that you want to place her on the back-burner until you're available. Any woman that is ok with this is just after you get her number, is a woman I want to avoid. C. is brought to u…
/r/seduction05/02/14 05:19 PM
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I've got a few FWB 2 of them are in NC and I live in Florida now. Last time I was in NC (July 2013) I posted it on my facebook and got texts from 2 of them wondering when I was going to see them... My method, when you hang out with them be as fun as possible, when you talk to them be cold small talk, if any, unless she says something that interests you, or pretend she's interesting you if you want to meet up for more sex. When you're with her, make sure she enjoys your company, be cuddly, be swe…
/r/seduction05/02/14 05:01 PM
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I'm sure theres a way to do it, but honestly I wouldn't bother trying. Chances are, she flaked because she got nervous...
/r/seduction05/02/14 04:49 PM
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Thank you, years of experience and trial and error has it's benefits..
/r/seduction05/02/14 04:44 PM
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I had to deal with this once in class, 2 months ago... I haven't gotten hung up on a chick in years, but then this one quiet little 19 year old flies in under my radar and starts running game on me. I knew what was going on, and I knew what I should have done, but I had never had a girl actually run game on me before... I mean, hard game, the exact techniques I've taught to guys before, Compliments, negs and a few funny jokes... She had the advantage because it was a shit month for me at school …
/r/seduction05/02/14 04:37 PM
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Yeah, you better.. LOL JK
/r/seduction05/02/14 04:24 PM
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Holy Crizzap! that guy is still getting laid? That's amazing
/r/seduction05/02/14 04:23 PM
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Have you ever tried it? if so what were the results?
/r/seduction05/02/14 04:22 PM
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I wouldn't even bring it up. you two are obviously into each other... Just roll with it, if she really needs to hear the words, she'll ask about it, then just say you assumed you already were. It would make her feel better about you. At least that's always worked for me.
/r/seduction05/02/14 04:21 PM
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I can't fully prove it without introducing you to him, and I'm pretty sure if I told him about this, I'd be fully justified in sleeping with one eye open.
/r/seduction05/02/14 03:28 PM
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There is everything needy about that text, and I seriously question the quality of women you would go for if you think this would work.
/r/seduction05/02/14 03:25 PM
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This isn't exactly a one liner, but it's always sparked interest when I use it. "Are you a thrower, a folder, or a roller?" If I get a playful response I stick with it, and explain that I'm talking about packing habits, tease her for thinking it's sexual, then transition to travel desires, but try to lead her to talk as though the two of us are going together.
/r/seduction05/02/14 03:19 PM
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After that, I'd move on to light, playful teasing. Compliment her shoes, play the gay card, get in for a hug. If she thinks you're gay, physical escalation (To an extent) is easier. Then while you're hugging her drop the gay act. It's worked for me 3/5 times.
/r/seduction05/02/14 03:08 PM
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Who said "It's not what you say but how you say it?"
/r/seduction05/02/14 03:04 PM
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I don't think it's bad to get bored of this... I remember watching one of Ross Jeffries' videos, where he said.. "The pickier you are the more choices you'll have" it's been a method I've kept ever since... I had a buddy when I was in Ft. Bragg, who was SO outstanding with picking up women (he was a natural, no training it was just fluent for him) He stole many women from me, I saw him go through 3 different women a night, in a 5 day week. Long story short, he's gay now, because he got so bored …
/r/seduction05/02/14 02:55 PM
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With all do respect, you sir are an idiot, and if that is a rule, it needs to be amended. Something like this would get torn apart, and he'd be water-boarded with shitty advice. It's a specific question for a specific group of people.. I don't see how it would belong anywhere else.
/r/seduction05/02/14 02:18 PM
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Everything that you suggested demonstrates extreme neediness. It makes you come off as desperate, and boring. I would bet my left hand, that if you text her that, you'd get a 'Dead-End' response like "Ok" or "I'm sorry" . Making you try to harder to even initiate a conversation. If you waited that week to call her, it's very unlikely she'd even answer the phone. and if you called her before that week, chances are, she'd do the same. No matter what you do after a text like that, recovering is nex…
/r/seduction05/02/14 02:16 PM
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Everything
/r/seduction05/02/14 12:28 AM
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I got it from where it was.
/r/seduction05/02/14 12:27 AM
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Waiting until your better isn't a good call, but at this point you've got nothing to lose.... Assuming she was actually attracted to you, it is now tuesday... It's a safe bet that any attraction she had for you has fled by now. DO NOT CALL HER. That might have worked a decade ago, but now when texting is the most preferable form of communication, calling her makes you seem desperate and far too eager. Feel free to text her if you want, but make it entertaining for her. Don't play on being sick, …
/r/seduction05/02/14 12:25 AM
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HappyJerk, I really hope you're trolling.
/r/seduction05/02/14 12:20 AM
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Bro, change your tampon, you sound like a Disney princess.
/r/seduction05/02/14 12:04 AM
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I sometimes say that my apartment is a shirt free zone, but I mention it before coming to my apartment is even a discussion.
/r/seduction05/02/14 12:01 AM
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I used to have this problem... I still do sometimes. I found that talking to multiple women at a time makes each woman think that you have a life, and you're busy, even when you're not.. Your attention is dispersed so you never come off as needy. When I wasn't racking in the numbers, I'd keep a coin or dice on me, and after I got a text from her, I'd flip the coin if it was heads, I'd text back right away, if it was tails, I'd wait 5 minutes. That way, even though I'd REALLY want to be with her,…
/r/seduction04/02/14 03:56 PM
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lolz That's why I love, and use, the 3 second rule, or, if you prefer; the eye-foot reflex. It doesn't give you time to think about anything.
/r/seduction04/02/14 03:51 PM
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Really?? I've asked women for dating advice and got similar responses. But when I tried it, I got shut down. Going for the straight "Let's go on a date" approach is one I stay away from. Like you, I filter every piece of advice I get, doesn't matter who it's from, every time I've taken advice from a women it was stuff that I Can Not believe would work until After you have good solid rapport, and comfort with her. What I noticed about the advice I got from women, was that it was under the assumpt…
/r/seduction04/02/14 03:31 PM
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I think I got caught up on how I said things instead of the task at hand and I ended up over thinking everything. But when I went from a meet-to-bed in 2 hours just by goofing off at a movie theater, I decided to stick to what work going in cold and say whatever crap came to mind...
/r/seduction04/02/14 03:19 PM
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I'm going to be brutally honest. It seems to me, that you've spent Too Much time with yourself. It's cool, cause you are there to serve your every beckon call and do whatever interests you every second of the day. If you want to be in the company of others, you Have to understand (This is said a lot but I'm being sincere) they are not there for your amusement. The best advice I can offer you; is to find some kind of hangout place that has a lot of interest for you, and frequent that place until …
/r/seduction04/02/14 02:59 PM
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I figure it should be worth a few laughs, and maybe even help the "newer" ones learn what not to do.
/r/seduction04/02/14 02:42 PM
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Points for sarging. I tried going that route when I first got serious about this.. I just made a fool out of myself every time.
/r/seduction04/02/14 02:41 PM
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She makes a valid point.. However, I have a rule to NEVER take dating advice from women... I'm not a male supremacist, but in my own experience, taking dating advice from women is a terrible idea and has always ended in complete disaster. Also, No woman has a fixed "type"
/r/seduction04/02/14 02:36 PM
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I agree, I'd say confidence is the outstanding majority of a successful pickup. I've seen guys who were just unpleasant to look at. This one guy I knew was wearing a shirt that looked like it came from the bottom of his hamper, an afro that was just way out of control; you get my drift... We were at a club and I saw him talking to a girl who was an easy 8. I was counting the seconds until he got shot down, I left to use the bathroom, and when I came back they were making out... From intro to mak…
/r/seduction04/02/14 02:03 PM
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I think you're looking at it the wrong way. Essentially (This is how I see it) You're dragging said woman along to be a part of whatever you're doing. She doesn't know much about you or how much "fun" you can be. Emotion comes much later, at first it's "Let's just see how this plays out." For me, the first "Date" is a trial run, no big investment, I'll text/call her, say "Hey I'm doing XYZ, would you like to join?" (Assuming she doesn't give me signs of a lack of interest) if she says yes, aweso…
/r/seduction04/02/14 01:56 PM
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