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Men are soooo obsessed w these women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 02:44 PM
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I work in tech 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 06:26 AM
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T shirts are fine as long as they fit and don’t have cringe slogans on them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 05:57 AM
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Not rich grandpas, suburban grandpas from the Midwest who don’t leave tips
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 05:16 AM
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Acne isn’t grey skin. I’m literally not talking about skin problems I’m talking about average middle age skin that has not been cared for. Acne is totally different and I get that isn’t about hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 02:40 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 02:07 AM
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Women don’t wear makeup all the time... I know what women’s skin looks like. No one has grey skin except for people who don’t take care of their skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 02:03 AM
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It’s men not taking care of their skin. No women in their 30s have skin like this but most men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 01:53 AM
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I mean a large part of old is the guy has to talk to you and ask you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 12:37 AM
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All the things I mentioned take less than a few hours a month
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 12:36 AM
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It’s what grandpas wear
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 12:34 AM
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Lmao u wish
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 12:34 AM
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Why does it make OLD terrible that women will date average men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 07:58 PM
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i swipe left on 8/10s and up. I assume they are getting too much attention from other women and won't treat me well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 07:56 PM
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Yes. I honestly get the vibe from OLD that most men take pride in being ugly. It's like a humiliation fetish to get a girl to date them. Long gnarly beards or goatees, polo shirts and cargo shorts, grey skin from never moisturizing -- these are all extremely fixable and are all widely known things women hate. I'm talking an hour or two a month to fix this stuff. Then learn how to having an interesting conversation (can be done w youtube videos), be respectful to women in your profile/don't make …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 07:55 PM
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drug addicted and pimped out, dead before they hit old age.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 07:49 PM
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You might be talking about those women but those women are the average sex worker, along w trafficked women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 08:35 PM
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I agree, I have mostly not been dating this year and it's helped. I'm buying a house and that's really helping me feel less interested in men, so I feel when I come back ready to date I will be in a healthier place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 06:31 PM
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Thank you! I am trying! I def have a v low opinion of men "in general" but tend to be open minded and def think highly of them men I do end up dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 06:27 PM
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Right? Like what could possibly be the upside? The remote possibility that he's emotionally intelligent enough to be a real companion? That's so rare and maybe not even a thing. I would just have flings with men and I hate "leading men on" (delaying/withholding sex) but I would honestly probably do it more so I could have lengthier flings with less risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 06:04 PM
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selling organs. surrogates. On another tier would be jobs like coal mining, deep sea fishing and other harmful/body breaking labor that's at least non-invasive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 06:01 PM
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Are they going to live long enough to retire? Or are they going to kill themselves long before that. I don't think you understand what the AVERAGE sex worker is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 05:49 PM
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I went through this a few months ago after my sisters ex broke into her house. I am more likely to shoot myself with a gun. I'm just not the kind of person who can shoot an intruder. People have different skills and thats why we come together as a community to have laws and police.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 05:48 PM
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I think we can do better than harm reduction 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 05:40 PM
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i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 05:39 PM
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sex work is way more stigmatized and dangerous than physical labor. You have to deal with keeping it a secret from other people which is a really high cost (i personally would never live a secret life bc it seems like such a low quality of life). There are many uncurable STIs you will contract if you risk enough times. Being used by other humans and viewing them as currency WILL affect your mental health. Do a study on most sex workers (not the privileged escorts making 2k a night, but the avera…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 05:22 PM
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As a woman who has sex w men it doesn't feel like a false equivalence. It's putting your body and future health at risk so that you can have an income.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 05:16 PM
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Why would i identify w being a femcel? It's just not reality. I have to live w men bothering me constantly. I'm not about to give them a free pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 05:16 PM
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That’s like saying in a utopia people could sell their organs for an income.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 04:31 PM
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I do. Femcels are a myth. Male attention will always be abundant and easily accessible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 04:30 PM
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Not every girl has a daddy w a gun.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 03:59 PM
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So more people have to ruin their lives and be sex workers? What a utopia.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 03:58 PM
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I’d never give men any consideration over my earning potential, never give any man children, feel a lot less safe if we are talking no rape laws, and date a lot less in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/20 03:57 PM
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right like, he couldn't even eat her out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 06:59 PM
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this woman is a dangerous pick me who advocates burning yourself out and getting used up because ???? Unfollow her and follow someone who will teach you about boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 06:58 PM
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I’m fine w this as long as men don’t future fake and are upfront about only wanting sex so I can reject them 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 10:23 PM
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goals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 06:13 PM
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I never said I was?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 12:30 AM
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no? but just fixing their looks isn't going to fix them being misogynistic losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 09:24 PM
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because no one wants a hot guy with an ugly personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 08:59 PM
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Yup. Sex is like, 1/3 of a relationship. He sandbagged you into only having, at most, 2/3 of a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 08:59 PM
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Google “court records in x state” and you can generally find a place to search court records for free w just first and last names. I’ve def found an arrest for “strangulation” for a guy I was talking to by doing this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 12:02 AM
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Yupppp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 09:55 PM
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Yeah just try to pick a man based on height or dick size and you will see men understand being objectified
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 08:39 PM
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Lmaoooooo and men claim they’d love to be objectified this way bc the biggest tit woman is loved for “who she is” without having to provide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 07:16 PM
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they just remind me of the very, very sad tiny tupperwares of sad salad i would bring to work when i was deep in my eating disorder :( My ideal serving size of salad now is like, a mixing bowl lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 06:50 AM
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restaurant salads are GOOD. i dont make salads at home bc they are so much work and i enjoy paying someone else to cut up a pile of vegetables for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 11:56 AM
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what the fuck is going on with this guy???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 11:55 AM
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its against rules 2 and 3
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 06:42 PM
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Yeah, why would you talk about someone that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 06:14 PM
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Gigi wrote for Teen Vogue about how cool anal sex is. She didn't even mention the clit one time in the entire article and it was missing from the graphics she used. She's a predator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 06:12 PM
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we weren't interested in teaching ugly immigrant women and women with aspergers how to girl wtf?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 04:56 PM
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Has a plan for his life, works towards the plan. Guys who want to have a country house one day and so they have been saving/learning DIY skills. Guys who want to have X job one day so have been taking classes/working towards that title. To some degree (bc its not personally a goal of mine) Guys who have dreams of having a close knit family unit w his future partner. Guys who want to retire early, or be an expat somewhere specific, move to X city, open a business, run a maraton. Basically just ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:59 AM
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Its funny bc i bet most of the women talking to him about his food are just trying to be nice, compliment him, and get to know him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:39 AM
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It seems perfectly reasonable to believe I’m self aware about my options but I’m not thrilled about what’s being served so I haven’t committed to the restaurant yet 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 07:22 AM
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Most women don't realize men would swipe on them, want them for sex, and then want to discard them after. Women aren't obsessed w variety and "conquering". If sex or hanging out with someone is good, they'd like to do it again generally. It takes a long time to learn men basically lie and will say/do anything just for sex. These women have probably always been seeking a relationship but have been spun around by the men so they are confused about how to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 04:47 PM
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I've been looking for a monogamous relationship since i was 16 and I was a virgin until I was 24. There has never been a huge demand of men wanting serious relationships. I'm not really expecting there to be a change there. "I had said that women who try switching to a truly monogamous model will face a huge delta in demand from what they were used to." IDK where you got the idea that I was "switching". I've never been interested in casual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 04:20 PM
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I think men just want sex and this whole "men lose interest in women after 30" thing is a scare tactic to get women to settle. I would agree that women tend to be MOST beautiful maybe 25-35 but men care less about "most beautiful" and more about variety experiencing different kinds of beauty so they will continue to sleep with whose available despite being loudly antagonistic to groups of women they would actually love to sleep with. "In what way do you distinguish between men who want to pump a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 04:04 PM
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It does, I've heard women in their 40s and 50s say the unwanted attention never stops and they wish it did. It def doesn't show any signs of stopping at 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 03:55 PM
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Get more attention and date offers at 35 than I did in my 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 03:24 PM
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Wow. The dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 03:23 PM
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quelle surprise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 11:17 PM
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says a trump supporter lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 12:41 AM
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LMAOOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 07:34 PM
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I don't see how. If you're gonna be at war with someone the rest of your life, why get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 07:32 PM
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That's so sweet!! Hope you have a great time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 05:46 PM
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sounds like you don't have commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 05:45 PM
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Alright enjoy then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 12:47 PM
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You’re describing dating. When you commit to someone you commit to being a team and working together to have a relationship where both of your needs get met and you are healthy and growing together.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 03:32 AM
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I don’t see how?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 03:30 AM
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We aren’t talking about outside the relationship, we’re talking about the relationship. It’s not anything like a war. You are literally on the same side.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 02:07 AM
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Yes I agree no one should be a doormat or not have boundaries!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 02:00 AM
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Wtf the number one thing I’m doing w all my partners is chillin by a campfire singing kumbaya and being lovey w each other. That’s the whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 01:22 AM
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A relationship isn’t a war wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 01:15 AM
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I’ve heard that a lot, it’s not something I’ve experienced and I spent birth—age 25 in fundamentalist Christianity so it was way more common and encouraged for men to talk about their feelings. So I think my whole circle is more accepting of that one thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 12:48 AM
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I’m fine w that kind of gender typing as long as were tolerant of outliers, I feel fine as long as both partners are appreciating the value their partner brings. A toxic masc man would be some great value— hot sex for awhile, feel protected at all times. But those are not huge concerns esp considering I can have hot sex elsewhere and I have a good guard dog. I need more value than that. The effort and emotional intelligence has to be there or the costs outweigh the benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 12:17 AM
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There are plenty of very masculine men who are wholesome masculinity > toxic masculinity. Someone in this sub the other day was like "if it weren't for wanting to have a woman i'd be working a minimum wage job living in a basement" which is the kind of stuff I was referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 11:36 PM
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How do you be a leader without being loving, supportive, helpful?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 09:43 PM
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Fear is irrational. Biology is full of irrational impulses to try to keep us safe and reproducing more humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 09:14 PM
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only takes once to kill you. how many sharks bite humans? and yet plenty of people fear sharks when they swim in the ocean.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 08:51 PM
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been asked out on the street by hot guys, felt very unsafe after. the PUA world has gotten too loud for me to think this is a nice, safe guy for me to stop and talk to. i actually stopped walking around my favorite lake after being cornered by a reasonably attractive guy (certainly more attractive than some men i've dated) who was obviously running some kind of day game. I didn't feel safe being alone there in the middle of the day anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 08:49 PM
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so you physically intimidate most people. This is not most women's reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 08:46 PM
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Why would it be flattering? Here's what I just read from a man in another thread: "In my younger days, my friends and I used to go whaling. You win by fucking the heaviest woman that night." Why would this be flattering? You never know what a man is thinking or what plans he has for you. I don't want to be part of some guy's depraved fantasies. When I fantasize about men, I'm not fantasizing about causing them harm or putting their life at risk or degrading them (88% of porn features violence). …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 08:44 PM
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I would be fine doing most of the emotional labor in a relationship if a man recognized and appreciated it, and put effort into the relationship in ways that matched his skill set/personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 08:34 PM
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I don't want to marry someone better than me. My standards are much lower than me. I'll take an equal partner. Men, for a variety of reasons, don't put the effort into being human that my female friends do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 08:32 PM
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sure
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:57 PM
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“Should be accepted” You don’t get to control other people’s preferences 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:33 PM
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Oh I meant cause they are prob monogamous? If he’s only seeking out hookups that’s the red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 05:17 AM
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If a guy loves and values women he’s prob in relationships w them which slows him down?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 04:49 AM
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I’m a woman so it’s not envy. Just seems like his priority is partying and using women to add to his number so his male friends think he’s cool. The alarm bells going off are prob just cause I personally shouldn’t interact w someone like that. I don’t want to run the risk of seduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 04:24 AM
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exactly!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 02:26 AM
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I thought the question being asked was how to lower standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 12:11 AM
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A girl that gives “morning bjs”?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 11:45 PM
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I mean yes? That would be awesome too? But otherwise money can increase an average guys sexiness up to the point where I’d be attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 08:58 PM
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I’d never force a guy to pay for anything, or even ask for gifts really. It has to be freely offered. To me, men generally make more money and that’s a way men grow up thinking about showing love to women. With me, I think about my partner so much and want to do sweet things for them all the time and I’m really touchy so I do massages and stuff. It’s completely unrealistic to expect any guy to reciprocate this amount of energy back to me. They just aren’t socialized to dote one someone. It’s lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 08:09 PM
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Both parts but spending money on me is always sexy — nice dinners, sex in fancy hotel rooms, even flowers delivered when he’s not even there. When he treats me well I get horny and kind of desp to show him I want to treat him well in return (in bed).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 07:56 PM
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I do!!! Like if a guy buys me expensive lingerie to wear for him it’s one of the most turned on feelings ever!!! But I also realize there are loveless marriages/arrangements but if you are actively trying to avoid those I think you will?? It’s psycho level to actively pretend you are goo goo Gaga for someone just to manipulate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 07:43 PM
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How is a woman not lusting after a stable provider? That bumps up your attractiveness it’s not a mental trade off it’s a boost in how hot you are. The attraction is real?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 07:35 PM
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Wow. This is so true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 07:32 PM
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I was only raised UMC but it makes it really hard for me to relate to the vast majority of men. I don't really understand what it is. They are all so rough around the edges and make lewd jokes that make me uncomfortable. I don't know how to relate to their worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 04:58 PM
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21 and slept with EIGHTEEN PEOPLE. Holy shit. This is one of the first times I've ever been disgusted by someone's body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 04:56 PM
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if a girl is so fucked up she's willing to drop her standards that hard, you should also anticipate some sort of sexual assault accusation. don't bother with really Intoxicated girls, not worth the drama I mean it's literally rape, so it might be good to avoid this because it's immoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 04:54 PM
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pestering and manipulation
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 04:53 PM
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The breadwinner comments were about my friends but just go to any public place and look at the couples. Women are way more attractive 80% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 01:41 AM
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That’s probably when all these guys were at their prime attractiveness, so I’m sure that helped get them together.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 01:39 AM
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I think makeup is gross 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 10:01 PM
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What’s that? Women, in general, are much more attractive and pleasant to look at than men, and I’m straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 07:23 PM
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Ok then stop begging for it so god damn always
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 06:41 PM
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By high earning I should have said breadwinner. Always the case for all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 06:41 PM
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I’m not sure how this goes against what I was saying. Men are willing to have shitty flesh light sex. It’s unfulfilling for women. Ergo women are less interested in having sex w men than vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 06:38 PM
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My friends are high earners. They are all much hotter than their male spouses.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 06:36 PM
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Um yeah I 100% am aware we are flesh lights for many men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 06:35 PM
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Probably not but you should send this message to other men, who are the #1 rapers of men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 06:27 PM
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Then men should stop pressuring me into sex I don’t want to have if they are only interested in sex where I put a lot of effort in 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 06:26 PM
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I don’t understand how you all think women are dating more attractive men that they are. I’m literally every hetero couple I see the woman is far and away more attractive, younger, more beautiful, than the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 05:46 PM
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I have a lot of interests that come before being an unpaid mommy maid so I’d just be like Um well ya chose badly my friend. Better luck in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 05:42 PM
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Men (I guess): all sex feels awesome. Cum every time. The difference between amazing sex and bad sex is negligible. Bad sex w a variety of women > great sex w one woman. Women: most sex is bad. Cum 11% of the time w a male partner. Awesome sex is worth doing almost anything for but bad sex isn’t worth leaving the house for/having at all. Great sex > masturbation > bad sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 05:40 PM
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I guess I just don't get dating? Who would sacrifice their quality of life for this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 04:28 PM
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oh my god lmao wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 06:32 PM
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idk i believe in saving it all for the memoirs, but do get it out of your immediate line of vision (and block his number).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 06:07 PM
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How would she not still get pumped and dumped? Sex is scarce for many men right now and they still pump and dump (again, I'm not talking about chads, I am talking about average and down). I've been pumped and dumped by a guy who never paid attention to me making nice dates for us/wearing lingerie/etc and he is ugly/poor? Like he legit doesn't have other options and i cut him off years ago and hes still single and complains about never having sex. He tries to take me out and get back with me all …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 06:06 PM
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Right. So how is that benefitting women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 05:47 PM
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i mean how many men RIGHT NOW aren't having sex as much as they want to and still pump and dump? It's not just chads doing that regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 05:02 PM
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The only thing others aren't willing to do is have sex outside commitment or be treated poorly?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 04:24 PM
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“Also, the first woman that decides to stop using FDS will have the freedom to pick any man as her partner. So she will not be the only one doing that.” And he’ll pump and dump her and pursue the woman he really wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 03:17 PM
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They prob wanna discuss it. Men just do it and never tell anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/20 03:13 PM
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Wow! What's this from?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 09:29 PM
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Yeah, I'd rather be single and deal with loneliness than walk around assigning numbers to people and thinking about "oh this person isn't worth that person, etc". What a toxic way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 08:41 PM
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Nah, lover is a person you have passionate/awesome sex with outside of commitment. A FWB is a passive (not passionate) person you have sex outside of commitment with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 08:38 PM
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sadly i can only swipe left once
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 08:05 PM
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Lmao wowww next she’s gonna introduce him to the Old Testament.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 05:59 PM
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I love this advice! Enjoy yourself OP. You aren’t gonna lose him you’re only gonna force him to reveal himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 12:48 AM
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people are attacking her for being "naive" at 16. Yes. The sky is blue. 16 year olds are naive. this is why predators love them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:45 PM
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I don’t think so in this case but in another context I’m sure it could be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 07:05 AM
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Lots of predators do. That’s how child abuse happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 06:18 AM
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Rude, belittling? Shaming others? I genuinely don’t want to be those things but I also want to immediately exit situations w men that don’t benefit me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:29 AM
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Says you. To me, you are a predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 04:53 AM
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I’m so happy I was a virgin until I was 24. Jfc. Kept me away from predators like op until my brain was fully developed at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 04:40 AM
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How is she gonna get wet for some dusty bald guy who can’t get someone his own age?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 04:39 AM
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Yeah plus we’re in a heat wave. I went to the park w my cousin to let our dogs play and we lasted 5 min. And that’s someone I know I like spending time w!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 02:36 AM
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I met what I thought was a great match and he wanted to do a park date so I left him on read. I feel bad. I told my gay friend and he thinks a park date is “nice”. It’s hard to explain how I already know it’s not gonna be worth my time without sounding like a bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 02:22 AM
99

And he wants your first date to be A WALK?!? Holy shit lmfao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 02:20 AM
20

“Are you going to apologize for taking photos of me without my knowledge or consent while I was showering?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 02:00 AM
26

Get him to admit it then go to the cops.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:32 AM
56

Holy shit what a psycho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:27 AM
33

Omg!!! This is literally what motivates me to never send fake messages. I always think about what would happen if I fucked up and got caught.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 12:46 AM
3

You wouldn't be talking to 47 bitches if you could successfully talk to/attract one into a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 08:41 PM
28

A lot of Ed accounts are eating this shit up and pandering to men. Women literally can’t have anything. Not even treatment for disorders that mostly affect women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:47 PM
23

Bet theres abused women and children left in her wake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:45 PM
11

Lmfao no one invited me to the body positive movement. I spent thousands of dollars in therapy before I could even consider that it might be right for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 04:44 PM
38

It’s not funny at all. What a deadbeat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 12:24 AM
2

Ohhh is that how the guys I see on old that are servers and bartenders in their 30s-40s got there? I def went through a period of not dating and working all the time and now I just can’t imagine having to still work tons of hours being an enviable way to go through life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 11:08 PM
3

Having to work all the time doesn’t sound like an end goal, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 10:57 PM
1

What are you spending your time on in that scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 10:39 PM
9

What a piece of shit trying to gaslight you into dating him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 10:09 PM
88

If he’s lukewarm about you he will still pursue you and waste months of your time. Vet lukewarm me out of your dating pool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 08:22 PM
4

On to the next one, can’t woo a man into caring. As someone mentioned if the guy has made me actually orgasm from sex (rare) before he ignores me then it does work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 07:29 PM
8

Oh geez. People have way too much time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 06:35 PM
8

Why would it go viral?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 06:01 PM
8

I agree she came off as p rude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 06:04 AM
18

Her list is extremely basic? Like why would that make someone mad men do this all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 03:53 AM
2

In previous generations abortion was considered a community problem
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 08:21 AM
3

I agree w the first part but not the second part. The standards aren’t too high. I have many friends that meet those standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 04:38 AM
0

We actually don’t in my circle and someone has gotten called out for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 04:21 AM
2

Women w standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 04:20 AM
19

I was also thinking if there purchases like the fancy bedding, candles, etc I have to make a cozy night in date w my dude and we can be super comfy and happy. That’s not money dudes are spending 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 04:07 AM
1

Just curious after reading the way you described women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 03:48 AM
1

Women also run that risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 03:43 AM
0

Women’s biggest fear is not being attractive to me. Even if many are trying to be body positive they are absolutely bound by appearance. It’s not easier for them, but it’s also not a competition. You have to decide to set boundaries around it. I’m not friends with anyone who will joke about my body. That’s a boundary for me. I tell men making a fat joke is a boundary and if hes with me, he’s agreeing to support me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 03:43 AM
1

Do you watch porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 03:38 AM
4

I don’t care but I wouldn’t want to know and I’d be disgusted if he had an Uncleaned crusty fleshlight somewhere. Also refuse to use sex toys w him if he’s used those toys w anyone else. Not generally into sex toys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 03:26 AM
5

Body liberation is for men and women. Free yourself bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 03:23 AM
18

There’s not a chance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:12 AM
74

Literally an insane comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:12 AM
16

Lmfaooooooo the audacity 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:12 AM
2

It’s talking about a problem people need to be aware of for their safety. We also can’t fix the problem if we ignore the problem. I do t believe men are destined to be school shooters or abusers. I don’t even think it’s that hard to figure out how to get these things to stop if we’re willing to make changes to our culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 03:01 AM
1

The problem w men is systematic misandry forces them into situations where they become violent?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 02:34 AM
1

I mean we all know black crime rates are high though? We accept that. The problem is systemic racism that keep black people from building wealth. There are people in this thread denying men are even more violent than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 02:22 AM
6

Says a lot about reddit. Edit: nvm I thought you were a decent human and talking about r/strugglefucking which I mentioned elsewhere. A sub that simply shares news articles should be banned?? This kind of gaslighting is insane. Everyone says it’s so unreasonable to be afraid of men and then you get raped and they’re like damn why weren’t you more careful?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 01:48 AM
2

Most don’t, but it’s not uncommon. It happens often enough that the trope any time a woman gets murdered is “the boyfriend did it”. I’d suspect the wife if a husband was murdered too but it just doesn’t happen in the same numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 01:45 AM
3

There are a lot of husbands that kill their wives/gfs that haven’t killed before tho? I don’t think the only killers are mass killers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 01:40 AM
3

That’s... not comforting?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 01:30 AM
1

You are absolutely using stats that don’t include prison rape, which is the most common situation adult men are raped in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 01:11 AM
3

I also have not reported mine w the exception of someone breaking into my house and hitting a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 12:58 AM
0

Most men who are raped are raped by... other men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 12:57 AM
3

Sure. Men could be controlling us and raping us every day. But that’s completely immoral and wrong. So you allowing me to have rights is just you not actively being evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 12:56 AM
2

I mean yes? Violence is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 12:55 AM
2

I mean, have you been raped by a woman? Have you been attacked by a woman? Have you had to call the cops on a woman? Has a woman made you feel unsafe?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 11:55 PM
14

oh my god
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 11:54 PM
3

I don't really get it but if it works for you and keeps rapists off the street thats great.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 11:50 PM
9

If you think abortion is violent crime you should be bending over backwards to provide for women and children so that no one has an abortion because they can't afford to have the kid. A tiny fraction of sharks bite humans. Still pretty reasonable to be afraid of shark infested water.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 11:23 PM
16

Wow. This is what sticks out to you as bad behavior? I am sorry to tell you you are extremely privileged lmfao. Bad behavior for men is saying dehumanizing lewd shit to me out of nowhere, rape, abuse, not leaving me alone, pestering me for sex, calling me a bitch bc i wont blow them, oh and a new one i get to deal with is breaking into my house :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 11:14 PM
3

titty streamers? This sounds like... a toxic relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 11:12 PM
2

They should absolutely learn about boundaries and how to not get trapped in an abusive relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 11:04 PM
5

Honor is just protecting your reputation though... like are you actually doing shit to help people or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 11:02 PM
5

Most men who are raped and beaten are... raped and beaten by other men. I've never hit a person lmfao doesn't even occur to me bc I don't have a lizard brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 11:01 PM
14

"There is no real correlation between women committing less violent crime and women being of higher moral fiber. Stop deluding yourself." I mean idk I've met men and I've met women. That's enough for me to know one group is way less empathetic and safe to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 10:59 PM
7

So men and women commit the same number of crimes, but only men are sentenced for them? You really think there are just as many female rapists and murderers walking around?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 10:58 PM
3

you said you want people to view both men and women as capable of good and bad, but shouldn't we give them the truth about what percentages men might harm you in vs women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 10:42 PM
11

OK here you can see crime stats laid out by gender from a non-feminist source: https://www.ojjdp.gov/ojstatbb/crime/ucr.asp?table_in=1&selYrs=2018&rdoGroups=2&rdoData=c ​ I have no doubt women do those things, but the percentages are very different. Men are violent and immoral in much larger numbers than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 10:40 PM
3

OK here are crime stats instead: https://www.ojjdp.gov/ojstatbb/crime/ucr.asp?table_in=1&selYrs=2018&rdoGroups=2&rdoData=c
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 10:37 PM
13

TIL men are socialized to view women as infallible princesses? Even in my gender roles heavy fundamentalist upbringing I must have missed witnessing that. I thought men were just meant to view us as physically weaker help meets who they can get sex from (and increase their social perception from their peers).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 10:25 PM
8

I don't think that men and women are equally capable of bad though. Look at r/nametheproblem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 10:22 PM
39

feminist men are the worst so idc. bye!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 06:54 PM
64

tHiS iS a hAtE sUb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 03:13 AM
11

Same but I know my life will be better alone, only interacting w people who respect me than trying to partner myself to a lazy porn addict who can’t get hard unless he’s abusing you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 09:06 PM
18

so fucking pathetic that we need this shit to keep ourselves safe. men are predators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 07:49 PM
15

Saying no to men is hate speech.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 07:39 PM
14

we should leave 1 star reviews of the app on our way out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 06:49 PM
30

and they say that in their header and it STILL isn't taken down even though that is specifically against reddit's rules. Like, at this point someone at reddit is trying to keep it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 06:48 PM
44

yeah i thought i was already terrified of men. i'm def gonna bait them into telling me what they really think of porn before i let any of them into my life. bet all of them will fail!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 06:47 PM
48

I am so fucking terrified of men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:59 AM
29

I totally feel you. I don’t understand how this reaction isn’t more common.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:02 AM
4

JFC, yeah I also hooked up with a married guy on a "boys trip" at a FISHING RESORT when I was younger. If i was his wife or his kids I wouldn't have thought it was safe bc not many women go there. (I didn't know he was married w kids until after, I was young enough that I didn't really think about that stuff).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 11:13 PM
30

I LOVE a boys trip when they go hunting or fishing. Occasionally letting off some steam and bonding w your friends is great. I get a LOT out of doing girls trips myself, but we generally are partying in a nice house somewhere, we don't go out, and no one brings guys over. If they are going out and partying, that's a red flag bc for men that's all about "getting" women. Gross. Get literally any other hobby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 11:03 PM
59

This is the only place that protects me from being abused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 10:35 PM
68

Same not worth it for me to be around so many ducking rapists anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 10:34 PM
9

Porn sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:34 PM
10

so lazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:29 PM
20

Yeah it's pretty crazy. A good reminder for me to ruthlessly vet any m*les I let into my life because of the popularity of believing that women asking not to be raped is more wrong than men fantasizing about raping women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:28 PM
3

What does she get out of it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:53 PM
22

Not everyone knows men are trash and it's honestly, really, really helpful to me to continually see behavior called out that I personally would let slide. It's hard bc I understand the criticisms we get because of those posts, but it's honestly the only place where I can find sane reads of insane men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 10:38 PM
5

So cute! This is how I feel about showing up at my boyfriend/friends homes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 10:37 PM
2

Yeah. I can see that. Just not personally into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 07:35 PM
1

I think that’s weird and wrong haha. But to each their own as long as you disclose.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 07:32 PM
1

Ok wow. That’s so different and much more flattering than I was thinking about it before.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 07:36 AM
1

So you wanna have sex w her so bad it overrides your fears about social judgement towards fat women?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 07:21 AM
1

Isn’t he a chubby chaser if he goes after it? Or so attracted to her body that he’s suspending his judgement about what society would say?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 07:13 AM
1

So a fat woman has no way to not take advantage of men? Also TIL women push for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 06:34 AM
1

What’s dread game
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 04:40 AM
2

Personally it makes me read a lot of books, journal, and meditate more which help me have perspective in my ego, go over my actions and feelings, and helps me manage my feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 04:23 AM
1

Yeah i def have seen this a lot. Idk if it’s bc I’m in the second decade of my close friendships but in the last few years we’ve been able to do more of this. I think it’s just part of maturing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 04:22 AM
34

I can’t wait until these men find out there’s no child bride waiting for them when they get old
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 03:45 AM
1

I am learning it’s easy to be in a bubble and not know it. For instance all my female friends are the breadwinners in their relationships and my mom was as well (and I make good money) so it’s always hard for me to understand the women are gold diggers arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 01:20 AM
1

Yeah it’s easy to flirt w men, easy to appreciate provider stuff/knowledge I don’t have, but if I can’t connect on a cerebral/deep feelings level it’s just a very casual friendship imo. The feeling that a guy really supports me as a person, I’m 35 and let me be very generous and go up to 10% of guys in my experience are capable of that IF they feel like engaging it, the rest just seem like real ass Neanderthals. I grew up a fundamentalist Christian and was used to hearing guys talk with the abil…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 01:16 AM
8

Yeah I kinda just do a lot of left swiping on the vague idea that since i'm wholesome and loving and wading through the crap on there maybe other people are as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 01:08 AM
1

Male emotional support is 100% the dream, but how many men provide this either because of capability or desire? Like 1-3%? You can't live your life based on a fantasy. That's kinda the difference. Like as long as I thought I was gonna get the fantasy I was happy to play by whatever dating rules men have but once I kinda realized that's really rare and me bending over backwards doesn't increase my odds I lost interest in doing all of that. IDK. Sounds like the fuckin end times to me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 01:01 AM
36

This is the question i ask myself with each and every guy on OLD. They all look like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 12:52 AM
7

wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 12:52 AM
1

I get that you can’t help it but you’re kind of saying “women think we’re amoral dogs but we’re not” while describing the characteristics of an amoral dog. Like what incentive could I possibly have to risk that given that first time sex has an extremely low chance of getting me off? If women already have money and emotional support, and can have sex whenever they want or with sex toys, what makes taking that risk appealing? I can def see where average guys and below are gonna get cut out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 12:42 AM
1

I even once threw up after sex with someone I really didn't like. I have so many questions. Why did you have sex with her? Did she know this? Do you consider it rape? Do you feel unsafe or icky when you look back on it? How can women avoid this?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 12:11 AM
1

But why do they think of human beings as a tool? It's clearly a human, not a sex toy. Like, I view the lady who cleans my house as a person? I can't imagine interacting with someone and not understanding that they are a person. Esp if that person is like, lovingly putting my genitals in her mouth and cuddling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 12:01 AM
1

So you could genuinely know someone for months and spend a lot of time together, know their personality and their life goals, find them attractive, know their family and still do a 180 after sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 11:58 PM
1

I do not relate whatsoever to feeling regret after sex. I feel like we were just open and vulnerable with each other and experienced a sublime connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 11:42 PM
1

Yes. I think when someone becomes a stay at home parent they need to hammer out a contract about how that is going to work FOR THEM. What happens if they divorce in a decade? What are the expectations for each person? How will the stay at home parent maintain their autonomy with no financial independence?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 11:40 PM
2

I've never liked a guy less bc he complimented me or was falling for me. I've read about this happening to both men and women but haven't experienced it. I've broken up with men, but they were moving faster than I felt comfortable with and I was always honest about not being "there" yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 11:38 PM
7

damn you guys. i know it depends what you're looking at and i unsub stuff like r/publicfreakouts but my feeds are all full of women encouraging each other spiritually and self-development wise. I realize that's what I've curated, but they are pretty big circles and represent a lot of money. Go to a community yoga class (the kind that discusses spirituality and community needs), its going to be mostly women talking about how they can improve themselves spiritually and how they can give back to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 11:36 PM
5

What if the ugly one doesn't want the hot one tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 11:31 PM
9

Yup. You can be a hermit and have the upper hand if you prefer your hermit shack to your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 11:30 PM
4

I def don't think so. I've dated men who were still going out often and I just felt like they were immature. I can turn my phone on any time I want and find another guy if all I have to replace is someone who isn't very mature. That's common. I'm not threatened by him meeting club girls or anything because if that's what he wants, we have really different lifestyle goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 11:29 PM
30

Lmfao wow this is so true if the divorced people I know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 11:01 PM
8

lmfao seriously, whats in it for me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 09:45 PM
7

"I had a dream where you were mean to me."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 09:36 PM
6

Those aren't things to brag about?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 09:33 PM
7

I have absolutely noticed this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 09:10 PM
4

he gonna drive that car to his side bitches house i s2g
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 09:09 PM
7

the aging GOAT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 09:08 PM
5

WOW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 09:08 PM
2

Great! Lots of people do. It's def the norm. You see those "ha ha my husband is a useless idiot" posts all the time on Facebook. You and your wife might not be at that level but pretty much all of it is a no for me. I love to love! I'm a soft place to land, not someone to spar with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 08:39 PM
2

It's not an energy i really enjoy. I don't like teasing or being teased by someone I love and want to make feel loved. No drama, just good feelings back and forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 08:23 PM
4

You can be hella attracted to a dude and try to cling onto him as he reveals himself to be an absolute deadbeat human. It can only last for so long.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 07:31 PM
3

Attraction for me as a woman is to get to know the guy. What makes me want to get up off the couch and go on a date? The absolute hottest sex god men I have dated, I was "meh" about when I first saw their pic (met both through OLD). I thought they were cute and wanted to chat with them, but I def did not think "omg hot sex god". When I got to know them, I became even more attracted, and when they started giving me orgasms I fell and was seriously hooked. Broken up with both but I continue to thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 07:27 PM
6

Yup. Same lesson I learned about leading w sex. Whatever you lead with is what they fall for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 06:10 PM
6

I kinda feel like the race war is connected to the gender war and somethings going to happen that makes us snap and realize how important connection and community are, everyone feeling valued and needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 05:01 AM
95

And even being young and beautiful won’t make a guy stick around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 04:19 AM
38

Godddd when I was going on dates in nyc the guy would sit down and say “hi I’m the #2 guy at x company” meanwhile I was lying about my job bc i didn’t want them to be intimidated 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 03:27 AM
65

How is it a funny thing to put when literally every message is a guy trying to sleep w you???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 03:25 AM
0

I’m single?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 03:22 AM
1

I get it but intjs are at least sexy! Intps are gamers who make ninja jokes and it’s just a personality type I do not get on with at all. I’m infp for the record.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 03:08 AM
1

Yeah it’s a way of showing appreciation that you’re with me, if that’s not there I’m not gonna feel safe being vulnerable and giving affection back
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 02:44 AM
2

Not for men! Come on we talk about it in this sub all the time. Men will sleep w women they aren’t attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 02:20 AM
3

Teasing/negs are such a red flag tho
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 02:01 AM
2

Damn I won’t even agree to a first date w a guy who hasn’t expressed interest in my appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 02:01 AM
2

Lmao men who compliment me often get in my pants 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 01:59 AM
1

I don’t have a thot insta by any means but my body is very curvy so when I wear a dress or a bathing suit it looks sexy. This means I couldn’t post bathing suit or dress pics or even shorts and a tank top without opening myself up for abuse? I don’t even follow any guys on insta and I don’t give my handle out. I have one more for work/networking w other artists. I wish I could just live my life the ways that’s comfortable for me and not have men comment on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 01:55 AM
4

Aw yeah, especially in that situation you shouldn't have to choose between meeting your and your family's basic needs and vanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 08:31 PM
12

Yeah this would be a huge wake up call for me that my partner doesn't want to be with me and is okay humiliating me in front of his family/friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 06:24 PM
0

I generally avoid hot guys. I paused to read his bio before swiping on him because I wasn't initially that attracted to him and only swiped bc he had a nice bio. As has happened many times before, that changed after speaking with him and I was then really attracted to him. idk tho people in this sub have tried to tell me that these type of guys are still the top 20%/chads tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:22 PM
3

thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:11 PM
3

damn i thought i was crazy bc i dated a guy for a few months and found out he had a gf and was destroyed. people keep telling me it was casual and I shouldn't have gotten hurt bc he "never said" he was single.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 06:09 PM
12

I'm so happy for you!!! I've been in ed recovery for 4 years and during quarantine I have been getting more comfy with my body hair too. Esp since I mentioned it to an OLD guy and he BEGGED and begged for pics of my unshaven pits. Male preferences are all over the place. I'm just going to do what makes me feel happy and sane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 05:28 PM
3

idk it seems like one? It's one way to date that leaves women safer and happier, even if it means dating more infrequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:25 PM
2

A decent or average relationship doesn’t cut it for them So being single is winning bc they are happier. The two happiest categories of people are married men and unmarried women. Seems fair enough to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:07 PM
1

Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:06 PM
8

At least learn how to vet better or something. This is literally the strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:05 PM
7

You also don't sit around waiting for companies to send you job offers and just declining all of them, hoping that one day some company will come a long and pay you 7 figures. That's not how reality works. If you have a great job that you like, you 100% can do this. Being single and having my life together and having a great support network of female friends is like having a cushy job that pays well and you don't want to leave. Sure, if a better offer comes along I'd be willing to entertain it. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:04 PM
3

They might fail at relationships, but they will win at not being taken advatange of. FDS gave me the gift of realizing I'm pretty happy single and that I need to think seriously about being in a relationship since they tend to suck me dry and leave me hanging.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 05:02 PM
16

Men are so weak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 04:40 PM
13

Intps are the worst men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 03:20 PM
133

Male logic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 12:59 AM
23

so creepy to be approached by these men. just a dark, dark feeling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 07:46 PM
16

Men will look for ANYTHING you've ever done or said that's sexual and then bring it up as a way to blame you for not being sexually available to them personally. It's so creepy and manipulative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 07:45 PM
2

I LOVE YOU. You are an inspiration.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 07:44 PM
9

I've done this to go sit on a guy's couch and watch him play video games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:46 PM
12

Sucks to go through this for the guy to cancel at the last minute and it happens so often. I feel like I have to chose between having the life that I want which includes caring about people, putting effort into my friendships, wanting the men in my life to feel special, etc and actually interacting with men, who always ruin the fun of the date by being so low effort and cold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:44 PM
75

to be fair i wish straight men would stay out of straight bars too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:35 PM
1

What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 02:14 AM
49

This is why I need FDS. If I read that comment I'd be like "omg i'm such a jerk". It's so hard to be raised to be a people pleaser in a culture where men take advantage of that to make you their sex object every chance they get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 09:43 PM
13

God I'm so happy I'm single, this is infuriating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 05:32 PM
60

this is very true, but most don't realize they don't look like the first pic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 05:31 PM
35

I have an expensive piece of jewelry I bought myself after I got a big raise. It felt so good after being so underpaid and undervalued for the first decade of working to buy myself something luxurious that I’ve wanted since middle school and know I will always be able to take care of myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 04:12 AM
56

Doesn’t matter if they shut the subs on reddit down it’s already taken over tiktok ☺️ insta and Twitter coming next. Ladies liberated from their drooling sex pests as we speak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 05:17 PM
5

I used to write some young characters when I was around those ages. I p much generally write about the age that I am. I'm 35 now and can't imagine writing about anyone younger than 29.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 07:38 PM
1

Right but that will never happen. The problem is women are exhausted of being on the defense against creepy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 04:35 PM
1

They don’t but I have decades of dating experience before fds
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 04:34 PM
4

Oh yeah that’s yucky though I can agree w the basic tenant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 04:32 PM
20

How am I straight???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 04:24 AM
26

Yeah I don’t get why red pill women is so bad??? Like they get the real nature of men but instead of being disgusted they just thirst. How?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 01:36 AM
27

What is the pink pill/black pill. Was the other sub doing anything hateful? Or were they just encouraging women not to sleep w fucking losers like why men hate fds?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 01:30 AM
8

Totally agree. My short guy had so much swag!!! He was hot af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 01:24 AM
170

Yup hottest guy I ever dated was 3 inches shorter than me and he was no chad. Just handled himself like a man in all situations and it was sexy af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 12:19 AM
70

putting on clothes is too much work, that's how much he values you. Good job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 07:22 PM
7

I'm actually banned from r/relationships_advice for explaining to "too many people" that they can die the first time they "try" "strangulation play". It wasn't troll comments, it was like "fyi its dangerous and you can die the first time someone strangles you" but the mod said it was trolling bc I responded to many people in the same thread with the same info.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 07:21 PM
2

great point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 07:19 PM
57

I'm 35 and still waiting for this wall I was scared to hit when I turned 30. There is no shortage of male attention for any woman at any point in her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 07:14 PM
58

Right and he's also poor. LMAO. Couldn't be me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 07:11 PM
18

the second hand humiliation is too much for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 07:11 PM
3

Maybe people aren't laughing bc none of this is funny?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 07:09 PM
13

Thanks for the work you do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 07:01 PM
16

the accuracy lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 06:26 PM
80

Yup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 11:13 AM
1

Thank you!! Be self-interested and vet men ruthlessly before you get vulnerable w them. Don’t chase men. If a man wants you he will pursue you and it’s not worth it to be with men who don’t really like you/ so be okay being single and level up for yourself. It was also big for me to understand “men aren’t dumb” like if I have to keep explaining my boundaries over and over he’s just a bad dude. Before I would apologize for male behavior a lot and now like... I don’t view it as my responsibility t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 03:05 AM
1

I get it, I see how people say that w fds too. I think lookism is a huge problem for everyone too, I stopped wearing makeup bc I don’t want to participate that. It’s a theme of a lot of my art too. I don’t think sex and gender role are tied together bc there obviously have always been outliers but I think the two gendered personality types should both be celebrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 02:46 AM
1

I don’t know a ton about tp I think it is vaguely compatible w fds in some ways but I find the red pill wives/women sub to be disgusting. Idk cause I am a femme girl and enjoy spoiling men even but it’s just a fine line between being in a loving relationship and being a delusional pick me. It’s hard to explain. My general impression of trp though is I worked w a group of guys who were into it several years ago and for awhile it was fine, I didn’t disagree w a lot, but eventually I was just like …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 02:11 AM
9

I try to combat it by calling women Karen’s in situations where them being a busybody saved someone or did a public good. Like it IS a double edged sword to be a woman and be on the lookout for others but generally women use it for good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:39 AM
1

I was thinking about this on my drive back from swimming. I feel I have had to put so much energy into playing whack a mole for decades w keeping bad men away from me it’s very hard to switch gears and welcome a man into my life. There are just so, so many with bad intentions. I understand why women are difficult to please and why men are frustrated. The bar is so high bc otherwise you just seem like another mole you gotta get rid of.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 01:29 AM
1

I subscribe to fds and it has helped me a lot by helping me go from feeling bad for being single bc the perfect relationship is out there if I lose weight, act distant, play games etc to being like okay what do I want to do w my life and if I meet a guy along the way that’s great... but being single is a better alternative than being a rehab center for broken men, which was previously my mo. I’ve built like 4-6 men in my dating career and not one has cared enough about me to check in on me durin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 01:17 AM
1

I’d be happy to meet a guy w kids, esp if they are not super young. I currently live w my sis and her 5 yr old while I’m looking for a house. I love kids. It’s just a lot to be a mom, that’s like every waking moment of your whole life that someone else is more important than you in your own life. Did a lot of work on my self-esteem and eating disorder. Still working on them and also moving into dealing w ptsd I didn’t know I had for a long time. 😂 gonna get a lil house by the beach for my dogs a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 12:52 AM
1

Not really, it’s a slow process. I did the best I could at each age I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 12:32 AM
1

Way less so than men. For a long time I wouldn’t really picture my own future, it was kinda like wait and see who I marry and then I’ll figure out something I want that coexists with what he wants. It’s much more about how you will raise a family and support a husband than a “what do I really want to do for on my own” situation. I’m 35 now and have decided kids aren’t important to me to have my own so this really is the first time I’ve started planning for just me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 12:06 AM
1

If the ones I want aren't approaching me, they don't want me? Success to me is, "do i like my life?" My experience of pursuing men is that it just turns into an unpaid internship of them having lukewarm feelings for me but allowing me to fuck them and do shit for them. It's gross. Men pursue what they want in life and if it's not me, that's fine but me having some sort of sham relationship with someone who doesn't like me that much isn't a real solution lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 10:21 PM
3

oh interesting, got it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 10:11 PM
2

OK but i'm not going to approach men just bc I don't believe in gender roles? Like just to prove a point or be progressive so that other people can be helped. All I do is give men reasons to be around me. I am an affectionate and nurturing person w people in my inner circle which is why I try to keep men out as long as possible bc many will take advantage even though they have no personal interest in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 10:00 PM
4

IDK lots of my friends have gained weight since their 20's, stopped wearing makeup, stopped making an effort to dress up for men (mid-30's) and I think they all look and act great? They are more confident and laid back and their baseline happiness is higher now that they aren't catering to men and are embracing who they are. I'd much rather date one of them in their mid-30s than a more attractive, made-up 20-something who is insecure. Not like those are the only options, but in my friend group w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 09:56 PM
13

lmfao sounds expired to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 09:54 PM
13

lmaoooo SO many are born expired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 09:54 PM
8

It's all projection. If you actually look at men and women you will see women in general are much happier in life and take better care of themselves. This is especially true of single women vs single men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 09:54 PM
22

yup if a guy thinks hes "out of her league" he can next her. that's not an excuse to be abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 08:21 PM
13

got it, thanks for the explanation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 08:18 PM
32

It's literally just misogyny with extra steps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 08:10 PM
17

Yes. I've had men and women do this to me and it's gross. Bad tippers to the left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 08:10 PM
9

Why is she a chump?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 08:08 PM
48

She looks dead behind the eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 08:07 PM
19

He would never be allowed in my home again and I'd make sure his parents and I had a discussion where I show them this picture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 08:06 PM
107

Men really are butt hurt that women are learning they have other options than to be male property.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 08:05 PM
5

What a fucking predator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 06:57 PM
25

She’s going to get killed. Glad the “rough sex” murder defense got struck down at least 😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 06:41 PM
4

“If you politely said hello to a guy most would respond unless you're ugly.“ Ok? And then what? They’re going to be an engaged partner and want to be my bf? Doubt it. And yes, women don’t like to be approached by men when you say “good afternoon”. When I lived in the city I’d never leave my apt without sunglasses and earbuds to try to keep the creepy comments to a minimum. It’s not flattering and it’s very, very infrequently a guy “just being nice”. Its a guy running day game or trying to just s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 06:11 PM
6

Seriously. She had men chasing her bc she was a hot doctor. Would have been a great plot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 06:03 PM
3

In my experience they don’t respond well to it to enough degree that it’s just a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 10:14 AM
16

Time for some murderers to go to jail 😈😈😈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 09:52 AM
34

She had cheated on him and they were indefinitely separated when it happened. The woman who says this line didn’t know the guy was married for a long time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 09:51 AM
-7

I didn’t call the cops on him and he was white, it didn’t click right away that it was even rape
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 07:09 AM
-26

I wouldn’t have called if he was black
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 05:16 AM
3

That’s absolutely my experience. Lots of learning how to make men cum while getting zero friendship or intimacy in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 12:47 AM
110

Yup call it out sis. Expose him as you walk out the door. The only ones who benefit from keeping secrets are lvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 11:05 PM
33

If you’re a man who gets off on harming a woman so you can cum, that’s a no from me under any circumstances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 11:02 PM
50

DARVO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 10:42 PM
24

Is there kink that doesn’t rely on racial or misogynistic tropes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 10:41 PM
46

This happened to me and I regret not calling the cops. He was white so I think that would have been the right thing to do. At least once a day I think about how he’s still raping women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 10:40 PM
85

Lmfao a risotto = a lot of work. How is going to do the work in bed/as a partner
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 10:26 PM
41

But porn says women like muh dick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 10:24 PM
29

Do you run a background check? I’ve been thinking about starting to do this as so many men have them and they won’t tell you for months or years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 09:42 PM
9

Many men who are parents are this dumb and dumber
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 08:40 PM
7

What are you going to get out of it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 08:22 PM
63

You wanna be trapped with an abuser? because that is how you get trapped with an abuser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 08:07 PM
125

This is just a thing pedophiles say so they can date children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 07:45 PM
244

I hope she removes her limp dicked porn addict boyfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 05:53 PM
12

You can tell an HVM out of a job bc they won't be very worried. They have skills and a network they can fall back on, have saved money, and know they are going to figure it out. That said, they are prob more looking for a fuck to clear their head than looking to court a wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 05:17 PM
3

Yup. The guy with a beer belly who lived with his mom and worked at best buy was called a "chad" by this forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:14 PM
28

"EDIT: I’m not really looking for anything too serious. If it turns out like that then that’s fine but I’m definitely not interested/seeking a serious relationship right now" What do you think you will get out of this? It sounds like you're going to do a lot of emotional labor and have a lot of risky sex for ??? purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 05:13 PM
10

Tell him you don't "hang out" with men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 05:13 PM
13

wtaf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 04:23 PM
7

low IQ, can't think any better than what we are witnessing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 04:18 PM
2

Can I ask a question? EVERYONE on OLD calls it "the dating scene" or "the scene". I don't get it. Is this from a movie or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 03:56 PM
13

Why are men so fucking disgusting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 03:56 PM
54

Wow she in the sunken place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 03:59 AM
110

Yes I also would rather die lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 03:27 AM
34

I don’t trust men to be this caring. Gotta be a fetish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 03:02 AM
9

Doing the lords work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 03:00 AM
11

Yup. I agree. When this happens to a man it’s his own fault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 12:20 AM
15

Correct. But they need to phrase it that way and stop blaming women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 09:55 PM
31

Then they should stop complaining about getting “tricked” by womyns
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 09:55 PM
36

Yeah. Ask anyone who they'd want to be forced to spend 24 hours with and I'm guessing most people are picking a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 08:24 PM
122

I just don't get it. It's not hard to avoid dating fat people if you don't want to? If the pics seem to be all face pics or otherwise suspicious, just request that you facetime before you ask them on a date? It's literally so easy it blows my mind that men complain about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 07:37 PM
13

Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 07:34 PM
1

Destiny needs therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 04:52 PM
2

Anyone here who’s ever rejected a woman for sex can probably substantiate the emotionally explosive response that tends to follow—Men on the other hand are used to rejection. Not at all my experience rejecting men for sex. It's p rare that one just accepts my no thanks as a no and doesn't keep badgering me for sex (or procede to rape me, as one did).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 04:50 PM
15

I don't understand why these things are related. Men I'm not interested in approaching me doesn't mean me approaching men I'm interested in is going to be worthwhile. Better to focus on myself and doing things that make me happy imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 04:47 PM
27

He’s trying to make the woman insecure so she’s on her toes. It’s def a made up story. If a guy did act like that irl the hvm thing to do is shut him down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 01:30 AM
103

If he was ugly too a couple would never comment on it. The story is made up to neg women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 11:23 PM
2

These are beautiful!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 11:19 PM
7

Can someone explain wtf is wrong w him in medical terms?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 10:18 AM
11

Ew god I can be a clueless white person but Jfc this is so cringe!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 08:23 AM
1

It also depends if psycopathy is that person has comorbidity w something like sadism. Psychopathy on its own doesn’t make you a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 05:46 AM
32

Colonial men left everything they knew and all the modern luxuries they had to run off and join indigenous tribes bc they had a community. The reverse literally never happened one time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 05:43 AM
54

It is true, read tribe by Sebastian junger. “Macho” men need community as much as anyone and they sure as hell aren’t getting it from their male friends 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 05:26 AM
1

Genius mode I’m stealing it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 01:48 AM
51

I’d prob screenshot and find her on fb and send it to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 06:50 AM
20

Right like to date a guy you have to be his mommy mcbangmaid that’s why men are happier in relationships and women are happier single. He’s gonna respect my efforts and pay for me of hes not gonna get access to me 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 06:48 AM
14

I've been in therapy for four years ha ha but I just got congratulated by my therapist last week too! I stood up to my mom when she was being rude to me which is pretty rare for me. I definitely think FDS along with all the other work I'm doing has helped me understand what my boundaries are and what I do not have to accept from others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 04:07 AM
61

And women like Gigi Engle will gaslight you into thinking you're crazy for caring about your safety/body.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 03:57 AM
37

That woman is a predator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 03:57 AM
17

So lucky I never got knocked up by any of my LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 03:53 AM
125

I don't understand how men are just okay with this but whatever. Happy to be educated, financially independent, have a nice house and lots of relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 03:49 AM
38

wow. what a pile of yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 03:47 AM
15

I love you lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 02:48 AM
264

I love it! Self-awareness is the first step to leveling up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 01:45 AM
67

I remember this shit every time one of my friends gets married or posts a super coupley instagram pic. I no longer assume he's a catch. I assume LVM unless proven wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 01:04 AM
36

its because he's poor lmfao. how much could a bag of chips possibly cost??? 10 dollars???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 01:03 AM
69

I mean if i start hinting he should take me on a date and he comes back and says "no" that is 100% fine with me. Men are allowed to have that opinion, and I'm thankful they are showing me who they are so I can exit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 01:02 AM
9

Right, they could also, you know, have sex with women they have built a relationship with and trust to share their wishes if they were to become pregnant. But no, men need to protect their right to coerce women into unprotected one night stands and then disappear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 12:50 AM
8

TBH I wish the government helped out moms and kids like they do in socialist countries. Men are too untrustworthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 12:48 AM
9

Its seriously insane!!!! Men coerce women into sex all the fucking time when they could just NOT. VOILA! No threat of your life being "ruined" by having to support the life you created. Fucking morons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 12:47 AM
21

That's the point... men on OLD use old pics that look nothing like them and then get mad when women aren't attracted to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 12:16 AM
27

Men in particular seem to have a really hard time not centering their own preferences. They literally think if they personally don’t like something no one anywhere likes it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 11:24 PM
20

LEVEL UPPPPPPPP He was such a deadbeat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 09:19 PM
15

Yes!!! "Another deal breaker is if he ever says anything negative about my body or physical appearance. If he does that we are done." I'm 34 and after 4 years of eating disorder therapy i finally realized this is a boundary I can have in relationships. Teach it to your daughters everyone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 05:56 PM
51

Fucking predator
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 05:14 PM
2

Let him only see his kids at the court appointed facility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:51 PM
56

They sure don't act like men who have no options...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:42 PM
12

thank you sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 04:40 PM
1

Eww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 12:41 PM
14

King
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 12:25 PM
20

Idrc I’ll reach for my bag and pay and if he lets me I’ll just never go out w him again 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 11:32 AM
11

lol i think so! I just specifically have been trying to think of a way to network with more women who would like to live life away from penises of all kinds. Would be esp helpful to find some in my area!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:37 PM
13

I'm with you. Can we start a secret group somewhere where we can network?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:33 PM
170

LMAO this guy WISHES. He strung one girl along and now he thinks he is that NBA player that slept w hundreds of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:22 PM
11

So this explains why their skin looks like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 12:28 AM
1

you are literally my hero. I'm so proud of you. This is what you deserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 08:42 PM
1

I'm so glad you are standing up for himself. He's being a dick for literally no reason. It makes it seem like he's bringing other girls over even though he said you were exclusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 05:50 PM
4

wowwwww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 01:50 AM
5

He is a pedophile. Keep reading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 07:18 PM
1

It is common. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 05:49 PM
1

lmfao wow. our house is a reflection of our ability to afford a maid. can't relate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 05:39 PM
1

TBH I never really get this. It's been so much easier to move on from relationships where I understood why they ended then an out of the blue ghosting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 04:24 PM
9

Do you live together? Does he want to see you more often than you want to see him? Deprioritize him in your life until he wants to see you more than you want to see him. Tell him you need commitment in order to make him a priority.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 03:14 AM
48

Ew, what a shitty example this woman has set for her daughter. Why would you ever be with someone who speaks to you this way?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 04:36 PM
19

This is why I thought I was "too sensitive" all my life instead of realizing "oh, men just love to cross my boundaries to get a reaction"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 04:34 PM
30

THANK YOU! We really need to understand that women aren't choosing between great men and good men. Women are choosing between a healthy life and a deadbeat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 08:41 PM
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