atroposofnothing Archive

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24	Insecurity that partner might leave for someone "bigger" If every man truly wanted to “please his lady” they’d learn how to perform oral sex worth a damn. They’d invest at least as much time to foreplay as penetration. They’d happily incorporate toys. Men don’t want a big cock to please women. They want a big cock to impress other men.	/r/ExRedPill	24/10/23 01:04 PM
2	Isn't the core message of red pill to improve yourself? It doesn’t take long before you figure out that redpill teaches that “the fault you aren’t successful with women” is that you haven’t yet learned to view and therefore treat them as lesser creatures, driven purely by emotion and incapable of logic yet somehow also heartless Machiavellian gold diggers, who also crave subservience. Like a dog who tries to get more treats when it’s already had treats and also you fuck the dog. Once you learn to treat women exactly like that, you’ll be eyebrows deep…	/r/ExRedPill	23/10/23 11:29 PM
1	Question about women's ACTUAL response to seeing a man crying/being emotional I think part of what you’re seeing in those comments from men is a type of cognitive bias. They attribute the breakup or whatever to them crying, but that might not be an accurate attribution. Opening up like that isn’t a single event taking place in a vacuum. The crying, the emotional vulnerability, may have been too little, too late. Or it may have taken place in a frightening context. A lot of men can’t access feelings like that through any pathway but anger, even rage. Or they cried, and the…	/r/ExRedPill	20/10/23 01:48 AM
1	Olivia Fane: Intimacy is seriously unsexy. Dude, talk to anyone who works in an assisted living facility. Old people fuck. A lot. Your worldview has been warped. You have people telling their observed and lived experience and you’re over here all “nuh uh, I’ve never seen it with my own eyes and these YouTubers say it’s not real so you’re lying.” It’s almost like you want to believe men and women are fundamentally incompatible. Or that there is some biological imperative for men to behave like selfish children who can’t get their dick har…	/r/ExRedPill	11/10/23 06:10 AM
2	I think my boyfriend has gone red pill They effectively Other the threat, and that makes people feel as though it is both external to their own experience, and avoidable — just avoid or suppress Those People.	/r/ExRedPill	06/10/23 09:14 PM
6	Is there any couples here who see eachother everyday? Oh good lord. It’s not like you’re doled out a finite amount of attraction for each other at the start of the relationship and if you don’t ration it, you’ll run out. That’s like saying you only get a finite amount of physical energy for your whole life so joggers will die younger than couch potatoes.	/r/ExRedPill	05/10/23 07:53 AM
1	Is there any couples here who see eachother everyday? We’ve been married over 20 years, so no, there is not sex every day. What we do have every day, though, is loads and loads of affection. Hugs and inside jokes and entire paragraphs we can communicate with a look. We get a minimum of one hour every evening snuggled up in bed watching anime because we’re dorks. We get a warm loving presence in bed next to us as we fall asleep. And it’s not like we don’t still have really good sex, it’s just not every day. That’s fine. Intimacy, even physical intim…	/r/ExRedPill	05/10/23 07:48 AM
1	When did redpill become "Women are sociopaths and men shouldn't marry" to "Men should have seven wives" ? There is also a draw for older men who are going through divorce. Many of them have worked hard and accumulated expensive homes and cars and boats (and usually a load of debt to go with them because cars and boats only count when they’re new, right?) and are therefore utterly flummoxed when a woman chooses to be a single mother instead of his wife. They did everything they were told a good man did, dammit. And this is what they get? Never mind the years or decades of substance abuse, of infideli…	/r/ExRedPill	19/09/23 02:06 AM
2	My boyfriend started watching redpill content, it really worries me and I don't know how to deal with it. It sounds like these podcasts, etc. are just giving him the language and permission to express what he thinks and feels. I don’t think a podcast can take a good man and turn him into a misogynistic asshole. But it can take an insecure and self-centered man who buys the lie about masculinity being based on domination and superiority, and give him the support he needs to be the biggest most misogynistic asshole he can be. You sound like you’re starting to realize how unhealthy this relationship ha…	/r/ExRedPill	15/09/23 10:46 PM
3	Interesting dating experiment done by sociologist Yeah, but you have to live with the knowledge that she settled for you and constantly has an eye on a richer taller man. Don’t take my word for it, I’m just paraphrasing A Real Woman With A Vagina And Boobies And Everything. /s, of course.	/r/ExRedPill	15/09/23 06:38 AM
7	Interesting dating experiment done by sociologist “Meanwhile us women could just be women with no worries.” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 This is the Vincent Adultman version of a “woman philosopher”.	/r/ExRedPill	15/09/23 06:35 AM
1	Been single for three years, how do I stop my frustration turning into redpill rage? With the important exception of the truly predatory. They can pick abuse survivors and other soft targets out of a crowd within seconds. OP, if you want to know why they stay start reading up on dynamics of abuse and control in relational violence and why women stay with abusers.	/r/ExRedPill	13/09/23 01:03 PM
9	What is neo masculinity? Sounds like a buzzword made up to get likes and subscribers, tbh.	/r/ExRedPill	12/09/23 01:06 PM
8	Since I stopped listening to RP... You get to work figuring out where that anger truly originated (hint: it is never only anger), and how to heal it. I have my own issues with seething rage. And I don’t know that if ever truly goes away. But now I recognize that I am not actually furious with each and every man, I am murderously angry at some specific men and at a culture which empowers the worst in them and others while limiting my own opportunities and rights. And there was a time when it seemed like that rage was so enormous I…	/r/ExRedPill	10/09/23 10:39 PM
1	Since I stopped listening to RP... Congratulations on not just making a positive change but being able to notice the cause and effect!! Can I ask what you used to listen to? I am unfamiliar with the podcasts outside of Fresh and Fit and of course Tate, and I want to know when my clients are getting influenced by this stuff. (I ask a lot about media tastes, etc. at intake, if a client is also, say, a One Piece fan, that’s 90% of building rapport taken care of, and we get a useful mutually-understood shorthand to work with.)	/r/ExRedPill	10/09/23 10:30 PM
5	Do RP guys ever realize that grifters like Tate et al are only filling their heads full of stuff that's making them undateable? Even the not-so-hot and the broke can improve their predatory game with these tactics. It’s not so much about finding a woman who wants to date you, and more about manipulating incredibly damaged people whose trauma responses make them vulnerable to sexual assault and coercion and whose conditioning and lack of self-worth make them vulnerable to gaslighting, trauma bonding, and just general evil bullshit. I “dated” a few guys I would have never chosen to date, because I got drunk and woke up wit…	/r/ExRedPill	08/09/23 09:24 AM
10	Advice for a guy with OCD on cold approach & dating As a woman and someone with a lot of life experience, I cannot recommend this advice highly enough. You’re not going to have as many opportunities but your success rate will be much higher. We are much more likely to give a chance to a guy to whom we don’t feel an immediate attraction if our friends can vouch for him, or if we’ve had the opportunity to see what kind of person he is in a non-romantic setting. These are opportunities to wave your green flags!! And the kind of attraction that grows…	/r/ExRedPill	04/09/23 04:43 PM
1	What do men want from women? This! Is OP saying he is incapable, at this point in his life, of seeing women as anything but a means to boost his own ego? That’s what it looks like to me.	/r/ExRedPill	27/08/23 10:00 PM