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Yes : CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 05:43 PM
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I disagree. I'm analyzing fundamental value differences between both camps.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 05:30 PM
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So you don't believe parents can fail?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 05:21 PM
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More focused on the act itself, not the point you're making where they're "coasting on their body." Your scenario is one of many. Up to and including because "she likes sex, so why not get paid for it."
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 05:17 PM
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What is the point of this reply? Does it change what is posted?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 02:09 PM
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Again, I'm not talking about "virgin loser." I'm talking about the average decent guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 10:53 PM
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It's as black and white as you want to make it. The point is, be anything except for a decent guy as your default. Either learn game or just be a dirtbag. But average run of the mill decent guy is a losing proposition obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 10:47 PM
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You're debating a point that isn't being made. The point is, if you have to choose between being a gentleman and an abusive dickhead, if you can tolerate or even enjoy being that person, more partners are in your future.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 10:33 PM
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The sex is better and the partners are more attractive. Either way, you do support the conclusion for median men, if they're not getting laid to start being a dickhead.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 10:31 PM
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and even smacks her around That's all that was said.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 06:52 PM
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I've listed the exact mechanisms of action. I have more experience with this than I care to elaborate on. You think I'm laying out the mechanisms of action as someone interested in debate? But as they say, when someone tries to attack your character or make a plea to authority you've already won.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 06:50 PM
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That wasn't the counter. I was addressing your posit that instead this average male go it as a decent man as you suggested since "he'll have more time."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 06:48 PM
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A median SMV single guy? You grossly misunderstand how little power that man has in the SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 06:40 PM
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You're not even within 10 miles of this debate. You don't understand the mechanisms of the disorder obviously. All you have is wishful thinking. I'm not going to lay out the entirety of how it works for you to prove something that should be clear to men if they ever read a forum about living with someone with BPD. They are poison and a blight on the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 06:39 PM
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They're not wrong. An ego syntonic pwBPD will believe they are capable of such a thing in a stable capacity, but they're not. The origin of the disorder is based on this incorrect imprinting, similar to NPD. The way these women fundamentally understand love is incorrect, which is the attachment part of the disorder. Add in emotional regulation issues, black and white thinking (from underdeveloped attachment), and remove the mental framework for FTO planning and yeah, what can you expect other th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 06:29 PM
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Yes, and they're all terrible in their own way. Waif Hermit Queen Witch Don't believe me, start a thread "Men who have wives with BPD, post your success story." They'll all read as male stockholm syndrome POVs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 06:16 PM
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Because women aren't your mission.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 06:14 PM
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Pretty binary. What if she instigates the violence? Is being "a better man" going to get me laid in this situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 06:12 PM
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Then correct it by addressing it in terms of the disorder, not just saying "that's not true." You can't change features like splitting, future time orientation at best is approximated, it's not innate to a pwBPD. You still have a misprinted understanding of love. It's partially an attachment disorder. From your post history, your diagnosis seems to be primarily driven by a hormone imbalance. If getting off of hormonal birth control meant you no longer met the criteria of diagnosis, you were misd…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 06:02 PM
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For what purpose? It doesn't change the statement I made.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 05:59 PM
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Well good luck on "being yourself."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 05:57 PM
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Then why are you trying to minimize one of the most destructive personality disorders in existence?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 05:56 PM
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And loyal I'm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 05:56 PM
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You're ego syntonic, of course you can't agree with this. If you could understand and agree what neurotypical people see and feel in dealing with a partner with BPD, your disorder wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 05:01 PM
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MEDIAN SMV
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 04:54 PM
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That's exactly my point. You can't "fix" a fearful avoidant attachment mechanism. They will never truly care about a man that loves them in a secure attachment manner. Watch videos about psychiatrists that talk about BPD, they are very careful to point out that these people will always have turmoil in their relationships. The difference between an alcoholic and a woman with borderline is that a drink, or many drinks has a limited impact of their life. It's the collective behaviors. But it really…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 04:52 PM
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Want is the drive. They'll tolerate an endless amount of not getting what they "want" because fearful avoidant understandings of love means she's been imprinted to understand love as wanting. That's why these women fuck so many guys up. They get close to her, she runs, they chase, she hates him, he gives up, she chases, he takes her into his arms, she runs etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 03:55 PM
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That's the point. Most of the men with "harems" are ASPD men with BPD women chasing the dragon.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 03:49 PM
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https://heartiste.files.wordpress.com/2017/12/classsexpartners.png?w=500&h=313
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 03:48 PM
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It is, if the guy doesn't care about her and is psychopathic enough. ASPD males pair with BPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 03:46 PM
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Once you have them, your willingness to leave is their prison. The way they feel love is fearful avoidant. So if you don't love them, and they love you, that's pretty much the BPD end game. This is the woman that will fuck you for 20 years that you treat like dogshit. The fear of abandonment is probably above or at least entangled with survival mechanisms in a woman with BPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 03:29 PM
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Self awareness is possible, but it doesn't mean much. I have a BPD I brought to self awareness. It means about as much to them as someone pointing out to a man they like tits. So?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 03:23 PM
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> A women with BPD is unlikely to admit that. Its like narcissm in that sincerely acknowledging she has the condition is uncommon. Ego syntonic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 03:22 PM
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There is no such thing as "mild bpd." If you understand the physiological shema of the disorder you'd understand why.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 03:20 PM
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Considering most men don't understand that BPD is literally incurable (most men believe they can be medicated or that DBT will solve the relationship problems, it can't) and these women need to be abused to feel love, they'll be an endless revolving door. No man that actually understands what BPD is would stick around. You're fucking a child in an adult's body without any free will who has no concept of love, reality or the future. They literally lack the facilities to have a future time orienta…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 03:15 PM
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You just blew my fuckin' mind. Was always so wrapped up in the normal paths I never thought about pervert daycare. Maybe that's been a good thing. Time to setup some sleepovers.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 12:37 AM
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This is absolutely still "AWALT." Basically "average joe good person get's absolutely fuckin' demolished by a socially acceptable sociopath." This is within the purview of egregiously, yet tolerated female behavior. I'd be surprised if this came to light if it had any meaningful impact on her image. Plenty of morons will line right up to be the next one fed through the grinder.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/18 03:08 PM
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I'm just addressing the OP. Without kids, it's more like, who cares?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/18 03:03 PM
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And that's what I'm getting at in my other post below the MRP flaired post. Don't overextend yourself. Do not turn yourself into a springboard for her to jump onto the CC any more than you already have. Expect plenty of emergency pickup requests, staying longer over weekends etc etc etc. Which is why I mentioned don't move on ego. Be very careful right now. You're being put into the same mode of defense men get into when they see a woman being assaulted. It's primal. But that'll go away. And the…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/18 02:42 PM
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i know several in my building that are on this plan. so sad. your wife values you for nothing other than the paycheck. I don't believe this is the case honestly. The other logistics are far more important. Most of their paramours have no interest in dealing with them outside of fun time. Kids are a lot of work, and she needs all the help she can get. Most women would live in a cardboard box with Chad and be happy with that compared to a McMansion with almost Chad. Lifestyle is mostly a male valu…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/18 02:33 PM
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FYI give consideration to this scenario. When you started being around her and staying home more, you impacted her second life. This seems to be a thing I haven't seen posted a lot in the manosphere, but a lot of times when the guy has more time with her, things ramp up real quick. Because now you're forcing her to live her fake overt life. Where you were basically the foundation for her to live the life she really wants. You know, the one without the responsibilities and a relationship that is …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/18 02:08 PM
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