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Discussionatryhardrooster/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:31 AM
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Question For Womenatryhardrooster/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:10 PM
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What do you expect from people who get 90% of their opinions from social media echo chambers? It’s not a liberal problem either, it’s a young people problem. Gen Z is generally pretty extreme one way or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 01:14 PM
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Depends, have you tried other options? Lifestyle choices are a huge cause of depression. If all you do is eat shitty food, drink soda, smoke weed, play video games, and stay indoors then anti-depressants are not going to help you. There are good ways that are absolutely free or super cheap to start turning depression around. Go on a walk around the block, get 30 minutes of sunlight, read a book, take some multivitamins, cut back on bad foods and replace it with something healthier. Don’t bullshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 06:26 PM
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I don’t think women in general are attracted to narcissistic psychopaths. I think narcissistic psychopaths are able to make themselves appear more attractive to women. They display some traditionally masculine traits, and often times find themselves in higher positions of power because of these traits and how well they work in dictating their place in society. Not to mention they will be far more worried about physical appearance, which plays a huge role in initial sexual attraction. And they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:57 PM
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Yeah there is a lack of good men. Because men have been biologically attacked. Look up the testosterone levels of men and how much it has dropped. On top of that, our lifestyle has become so much easier, everything has become about instant gratification. Why date a woman who is going to push you to do better when it’s simply no longer a requirement of life. You can stay the same from 18-60 and survive comfortably doing the bare minimum. Most of these guys who claim “women want the world while do…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 02:35 PM
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Men will do anything but become a more desirable partner. Sad tbh, lying to a woman is a terrible way to start a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 08:12 AM
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Here is essentially what you are doing. You are appealing to a minority group of women that are often the loudest and most ignorant, by being hyper respectful and shutting off any desire to approach ANY women. You don’t have to try to appeal to anyone mate. You don’t have to be respectful, you don’t have to always be the nice guy. You should generally try to be a good person but it’s not like walking up and talking to a women is going to hurt her. Be disrespectful, have some backbone. You can’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:47 PM
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Just to clarify being stoic doesn’t mean having no emotion, it means not letting emotion be your driving force through life. Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:33 AM
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Because you have literally nothing to lose
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:30 AM
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You’re acting as if approaching a women and hitting on her is the same as like bullying her or something. She doesn’t want to be approached if she’s doing her job. She doesn’t want to be approached if she is having brunch with her family. She doesn’t want to be approached on the street when nobody else is around. Common sense man, common sense, use it. And also yes, why do you care what someone thinks about you, if you will never see them again? You don’t have to throw all manners away. Your arg…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:06 AM
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How many times does this actually happen? Seriously man. How many girls from your town have rejected a guy, proceeded to post it on social media, and then told everyone in town that you hit on her? Because I have never in my life heard of this happening. If girls in your town have done this more than one time then it’s time to move dude cause there is something in the water.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:00 AM
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Redditors try not to assume they know everything about your life after a single comment challenge (impossible) I’m a man btw
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:23 AM
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After reading all the comments here I have come to a conclusion: Men are afraid of being rejected but instead of self reflecting on this fear they emotionally lash out and blame women. While it’s likely true that a lot of women don’t want to be approached in public, it doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try. They tell you to fuck off, you never see them again. OR they are interested in you, you exchange numbers, go on a date, and see where it goes from there. And let’s be honest here, if you are afraid …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:47 PM
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I’m too sophisticated for sarcasm, lack the social skills, that’s only for low iq chads with rizz. (/s)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:56 PM
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Nah, it’s impossible for men of above average intelligence to be able to be well rounded and have social skills and confidence. 100% of us are just cringe nerds who can’t look women in the eye and flirt. My only thoughts are those that relate to the absurdity of life and the human condition. And pffft did you really just imply that smarter people are making smarter decisions!? Lol I can tell which IQ bracket you fall into.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:29 PM
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No, i don’t think the wall exists like people think it does, women don’t turn 30 and then magically lose value. The wall is circumstantial, I think women have just as easy a time finding a partner assuming they don’t have children, they are still in good shape, they have their life more together. Being 30 in general comes with more expectations than being in your 20s. Society has certain expectations of you and if you don’t meet them as a women then the men that women are interested in will be l…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 02:08 PM
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Sounds like a skill issue
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 11:03 AM
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Sure, until your brain reaches full maturity and your metaphorical wiener finally becomes longer than your metaphorical balls. I would assume most of the things girls like to do to me, they have done on multiple men. Practice makes perfect eh? Seems like common sense to me. No I don’t think I was the first guy Sabrina ever tried to give a rimjob to. No, my feewings arent hurt because a women had a life before she met me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 09:50 AM
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I work 70 hours a week, you think I have time for a partner 🤣🤣🤣🥲😭😭😭😭 but yeah I still go to the gym and I’m still in great shape just not 5 days a week anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:22 PM
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It gets hard when you start working 70 hours a week. Time to up your game boah
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:18 PM
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This isn’t 100% true. It depends on you really. Many times have I gone out to a bar with a group of my male friends and been the one to initiate and lead the conversation with a group of women and spend the night bar hopping with them. Same with meeting male friends. While the group I was with would not even attempt to talk to anyone or dance or anything like that. It all boils down to social anxiety IMHO
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 12:18 PM
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Who hurt you Willy? Women don’t become infertile at 35, let’s be real here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:20 AM
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All 4 billion men?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:40 PM
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I don’t even believe in the wall. I think it’s just an incel thing that angry men use to make women feel bad about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:19 PM
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You must be new to the dating world. People change over time, drastically. You may love someone now but in 5 years, 10 years? They could be unrecognizable to you. This is true for friendships and romantic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:42 PM
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It’s not 50:50. Statistically speaking men are more likely to cheat than woman are which is proof that men care about sex more than woman do. But it’s not that significant of a difference to say that sex isn’t something that most women don’t care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 07:34 PM
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Again this is a female problem as well, refer back to my comment about women cheating on their husbands because they are not sexually satisfied. Men are just more vocal about it because it’s far more socially acceptable for men to be promiscuous. And yeah if I’m in a relationship and we are only banging a few times a month then I don’t see a point to us being together. Love and sex are not separate things. Sex is the physical art of love. Why would I not want to do this with my significant other…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:22 PM
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Because most men don’t have enough of it or any at all. If we are talking about men in relationships and you are a women dating a male and he doesn’t want to fuck you at least twice a day then he’s either got low T or he’s just not that sexually attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:55 PM
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Yeah I don’t think most women would consider romantic love unless sex was included. People like to have sex, this is not a male specific trait. You can’t tell me women don’t consider good sex to be an important part of their lives because they literally ruin marriages over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:50 PM
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Man doesn’t loves his grandmother, mother, sister, aunt, daughter, cousin, friend. Man only loves when penis feels good. You have no clue what you are talking about. You have the life experience of a shy kitten.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:49 PM
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Dude I’m genuinely confused. Did the women TELL the guy that she didn’t want to have sex with him? If she didn’t tell the guy that she didn’t want to have sex then that’s entirely on the women for putting out. If she told the guy that she didn’t want to have sex but still consented to it then it still seems pretty rapey to me and the women is just super submissive. If a women told me she didn’t want to have sex then we just wouldn’t have sex, I don’t think I have an answer for you other then the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:09 PM
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In what world is having sex with a women who doesn’t want it not rape? You are forcing a women into having sex against her will, that’s rape dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:55 PM
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I couldn’t tell you I’ve never had sex with a women who didn’t want it before, I’m not a rapist. You’ll have to ask the people over on the rape fantasy subreddit I’m sure you will get a better answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:51 PM
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What? That sounds like a question to ask women. Why are they putting out for men when they don’t want to have sex with them? The reason men want to have sex by any means is highly variable. Could be social pressure to be “more of a man”. Could be high libido. Seems kind of odd to point that one at men though when the women are the ones giving the sex out when they don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:41 PM
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It’s not that they don’t care, it’s that they aren’t good. Most modern men lack the confidence and experience to be a good sexual partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:18 PM
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Do you know what the word most means?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 12:06 AM
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Yes, did I refer to myself somewhere in my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:38 PM
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No, I generally don’t ask about past experiences unless it comes up organically.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:11 PM
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It’s not sex itself that makes you less desirable to men. It’s when you have blackout drunk sex with 20 different men within a few years. Nobody wants sloppy 20s especially with how prevalent STDS are not to mention the men that you’re having sex with are likely pretty dirty themselves. On top of that the average guy is not well endowed and not in good shape and if you have had well endowed good looking in good shape men you are less likely to stick with something below what you are used to. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:20 PM
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Don’t care. Might tease a little bit here and there though. If It was serious and it negatively impacted her or my life I might reconsider but most women who are into astrology are not fanatical about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 06:37 AM
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I’ve always just done it because I don’t care about some bitch ass $20 that I’m gonna forget about when I get paid in a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 07:13 PM
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Literally just say you split the bill on the 1st date if it matters that much. Unless she gets the most expensive thing on the menu where you going on a 1st date that is that expensive anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 06:43 PM
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Omg who the fuck cares. Why is this still an argument? If you don’t want to pay for all of the bill then be upfront about it, it’s that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:58 PM
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🤷🏽‍♂️ that’s cause they aren’t getting any pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 03:30 PM
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120 if you’re asking the guys on this sub which really does not represent the vast majority of men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 01:38 PM
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I’m not saying you are wrong, I’m just saying that all a woman has to do to be considered high value is be average looking and under 200 lbs. Which really is entirely an issue that men have created through perpetuating a culture that is sex obsessed. But I’m not worshipping average women who don’t do shit but look good and have a vagina so I guess this isn’t my problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 12:43 PM
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If we can take even one of these people, and make them look at things rationally, then we have saved 1 more person. All we can do is keep spreading common sense and hope to help as many people as we can.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:59 PM
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Here’s the truth, and it’s very fucking simple. Some men are “high value” and want a traditional more down to earth women. Some “high value men” are just as you described. Some “high value men” are homosexual and will never even look in your direction. There is no 1 size fits all answer for how to attract a man. It’s called individuality. Each man has his own personal preference on looks and personality and it has very little to do with his money or value. Money expands your options but it doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:03 PM
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Observation: emotionally unintelligent people follow others in an attempt to gain short term satisfaction and end up unsatisfied in the long run. This is not a woman vs man problem, this is a human problem and it infects the minds of the majority in many ways, much more than just sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:45 AM
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Are we talking worldwide or just in America?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 11:09 PM
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Situational, but 99% of the time absolutely not. If all your ex wife did was stay at home from a young age and take care of the kids, the only thing she knows how to do is inane chores. She has no way to make an income outside of minimum wage jobs. And if the husband was the reason for the divorce, whether he initiated it or was abusive etc, then yes the women should receive financial support until she makes a certain amount of money per year, and she should absolutely have to move forward or ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:12 PM
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Them existing and them being widely available and used is 2 different things. And they weren’t even close to as hands off as they were today.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:54 PM
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The average American fool being obsessed with politics yet have no desire to be involved in politics. Just useless conflict. Focus on making your life better, it’s a waste of time to argue with people on politics when neither of you are educated, influential, or ambitious enough to make real change. Why would your political ideology even need to be brought up when it comes to casual relationships? Thats proof of how foolish you are to even waste your mental energy on such things. You live in a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 01:49 PM
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Stay at home moms in the past did not have it nearly as easy as they do today. This is the delusion of younger generations who spout nonsense about having traditional marriages. There was no dishwashers, no laundry machines, no precooked meals, no infinite access to new cheap clothes, less affordable medicine, less cleaning appliances and cooking appliances and general creature comforts. It was a completely different world then what you live today. Stay at home moms in the past were working just…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:26 PM
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Absolutely you’re correct which is why I’m saying that lying is not going to do you any good if you can’t even talk to women to begin with. These guys have bigger issues than being a virgin that is stopping them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:54 AM
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Nope I just prefer being with someone who doesn’t act like a toddler.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:50 AM
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Right I forgot women will want to have more sex with you for lying about your sexual history. Common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:30 AM
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Okay but what kind of men are the ones that are 30 and virgins. Certainly the ones who would be a nervous wreck even having a conversation with a women. Put 2 and 2 together
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:08 AM
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It would get your foot in the door and if all you tryna do is lose your virginity then lie if you have to. But if you’re a socially awkward dude and a women is giving you a chance, I think it would be better to not squander the opportunity. Could be years before you find another women. But you gotta do what you gotta do
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:54 PM
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Well it’s pretty obvious when you have no idea what you are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:18 PM
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If you just wanna lose your virginity then lie your ass off if that’s what you need to do to get there. Just don’t expect to get seconds. Or if you have experience lie anyways Idc. most of them are lying to you about something.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:18 PM
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If you lie to lose your virginity that women is going to know within 30 seconds of y’all messing around. And if she still fucks you after that then you found yourself a unicorn. Most of these dudes problems is being able to talk to women, if you finally find a girl who don’t mind their awkwardness I sure as hell wouldn’t ruin it by lying to her cause it’s gonna take you another 5 years to find a girl who gonna put up with you and you gonna be repeating the same cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:23 PM
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How are you gonna become good at sex after doing it for a grand total of 5 minutes? I think a women is going to know the difference between a guy who has never had sex and who hasn’t had sex in a while and it’s not because you came quickly it’s because you don’t know what to do. Even if you haven’t had sex in years, if youve done it a considerable amount of time you still know what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:19 PM
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Ok so say your 25 and haven’t had sex or been in a relationship, youve been trying for about 10 years by this point and you finally got a women to sleep with you by lying about it. She will immediately know you were lying, you will never see her again after that. So you had sex 1 time and probably lasted a solid 5-10 minutes tops and only did 1 position. Now it’s probably gonna take you years to find another women , your gonna have sex 1 time, and she’s gonna know you have no experience and that…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:06 PM
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What do you want me to do? Change the subconscious minds of all women on the planet simultaneously? Starting a relationship off by lying will inevitably come to ruin the relationship. If you really love the person you will eventually fold from guilt, tell the truth, and then trust will be lost and you will be viewed as a liar and a damn good one for keeping it in for so long. It sucks that a lot of men have trouble with finding a partner I feel for them. Hell I’ve been there myself. But there’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:55 PM
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There was a girl I was talking to through bumble, and we hit it off super well. Literally easiest conversation I’ve ever had with a woman in my life. We talk for a few days and eventually exchange snapchats and it turns out, she gained a little weight and her pictures were from a year ago. She was still attractive to but starting off a relationship by lying about something major is a sign to run the other direction. Be honest from the beginning because the truth will come out eventually and youl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:42 PM
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That’s quite a bold claim. So TIL that if your parents got divorced when you were 3, you are a bigger red flag than an actual serial rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:57 AM
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I don’t think there is really a right answer to this question. I saw someone say “if he introduces you to his friends he wants you to be a part of his life” yeah that’s true like 20% of the time in my experience. Really the most sure fire way in my opinion to avoid getting pumped and dumped is to date people that are below your league which of course nobody wants to really do. Also pay attention to the guys actions. I can tell immediately if a guy is a fuck boy or not based on the people he hang…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 08:02 PM
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Hot slutty women have the easiest lives on the planet hands down. They can get anything they want with nothing other then doing something they enjoy, sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 05:00 PM
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I’ve done it before. It’s terrible. Such a great girl to. We connected very deeply. Unfortunately you really can’t trust someone who is addicted to any hard drug. They will lie about shit that doesn’t even make sense to lie about, or doesn’t even need to be made into a lie. After a certain point it just got tiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 10:31 PM
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Did I stutter?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 09:44 AM
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I work in construction and all I can say is that half of us could give 2 fucks less about that stuff and the other half doesn’t have the time to. There’s a minority of construction workers that have both the time and the fucks to give about looking good for someone else. Besides, the idea of having to change what I care about just to make someone else happy, sounds like a terrible way to live life. You either gotta take me as I am or we both move on. Don’t get me wrong, I’ll dress up decently fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:35 PM
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🤣 yeah but I’d rather not get whipped at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:00 PM
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No. 5% of men are sensible. The rest of you just want something you dont have. But honestly a life without a women and child in your ear telling you what you can and can’t do is beautiful. Pussy does not make slavery any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:50 PM
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I might’ve had the same response as that guy. Thank you for the reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:51 PM
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I should reiterate and say in my adult years. I don’t think I’ve hung out with a women out of friendship since high-school. To be fair I don’t hang out with that many people out of friendship anyways, I’m not a social butterfly. And I’m 24 so still considered young I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:43 PM
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I would prefer the 1st option, but unfortunately I know that’s not the case. I know multiple guys who are physically attractive but absolutely incapable of making interesting conversation so women will generally avoid them, and when one finally shows interest they don’t know how to react.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:40 PM
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Love the flair! Made me lol. Thanks for the response.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:34 PM
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Well I wish you luck in finding your one! Thanks for the response.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:30 PM
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A lot of women are answering differently for my first question then what I have personally experienced. Maybe that’s a sign of some kind of weakness in my personality. But I’ve never been invited or have invited a women over if the intent wasn’t sex. Now that I think about it I don’t think a women has ever tried to just hang out with me before.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:28 PM
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I see so being a devout Christian is an absolute for you. That makes sense, I’ve dated outside of my religion before and although you can have a legitimate bond and strong love, I think it’s ultimately doomed to fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:24 PM
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I’ve never been with a women that didn’t show hints of being attracted to me. That said every women has different hints and some women are extremely subtle while some will literally do everything but outright say it. It’s a spectrum, but if you pay attention to who you are getting to know you should be able to easily identify what’s a sign of attraction and what is just friendly behavior. Although I’m sure every man has made the mistake a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:22 PM
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Would you only consider a virgin man as a life partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:18 PM
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First person to have a different answer for question 6. Thanks for the reply!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:14 PM
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I should edit it and change it to “physically attractive” to avoid further confusion. Thank you for your response.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:09 PM
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That’s fair, I imagine it’s pretty difficult to find a man that lives that life style. Do you think you would die a virgin before settling?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:05 PM
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No I think it’s generally accepted that everyone has roles to play within a company, and these positions can be anything from education level to time spent in the company. It’s more so in social situations, how much is this man willing to let people walk all over him?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:02 PM
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Some of these guys need to read the last part over a few times. Not being an asshole, but the amount of men I see on here who claim that women don’t make it obvious enough might need to talk to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:01 PM
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Very cool, the only answer that has been the same amongst everyone so far is the last one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:56 PM
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I don’t really subscribe to the whole “alpha/beta” mentality either as there is so much variety when it comes to individuality but I think beta male is generally accepted to be a man who is subservient.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:53 PM
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Got it. Makes more sense then what I thought it meant. Thanks for your input.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:49 PM
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For question 6, what does lOl mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:39 PM
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Interesting. Thanks for your response!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:37 PM
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Very different answers from the other person. Goes to show how important it is to get to know the person you are talking to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:31 PM
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Good stuff, thanks for replying!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:27 PM
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I’m not a women but I feel like it would be pretty obvious to assume life experience. When you are young you can afford to take risks, and obviously a lot of young people aren’t really that wise or self disciplined so they make choices based out of desire. The older you get, the more you have to lose and the more experience you have getting burned.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:08 PM
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He’s tricking himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 04:41 PM
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The guy who literally has a nickname about how he’s attractive, is unattractive. Well I suppose it’s subjective. This is going nowhere. Continue to think all women are exactly the same and only care about what a guy looks like. I can’t change your mind, you don’t want to change your mind. Deal with the shit or quit whining about shit you can’t control.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:38 AM
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Women do like nice guys, but being nice alone isn’t going to magically get you laid. And yeah I’m sure every women alive would jump at the chance to spend a night alone with Jeffrey Dahmer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:26 AM
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If you know it, you’re already ahead of 99% of the population. Unlearning is the most important step in the mental journey from my experience. You come to realize, the majority of things we think we know are completely bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:11 AM
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I’ve spent a long long time doing this. I understand how you feel, it’s far removed from my mindset now but it was once there. In fact the original reason I started lifting was to lose weight because of a women. I ended up getting to know that women and she was super arrogant so I lost attraction to her. Do you do anything to hone your mindset? Study philosophy, religion, spirituality. Learn how to use that brain to your advantage. Learn about the subconscious mind and how it affects the way you…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:52 AM
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But the difference is that women will only agree with one of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:36 AM
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I think if you are only doing these things to get with a women then you are missing the most important aspect of doing this shit to begin with. You shouldn’t be doing any of this for women. You should be doing this for you and you only. If what you are doing is not bringing you to a better state of mind then it isn’t self help.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:35 AM
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My own personal life experiences can tell you that this take is wrong. You need to get off the internet, for a long, long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:33 AM
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What a terrible take. I don’t even feel like arguing with you about this, you know you’re full of shit and smoking some serious copium. Besides, I don’t work out for women. I don’t live my life for women. I don’t conquer myself daily because I think it’s going to get me pussy. Pussy is so low on the totem pole of shit that matters that it gets my socks wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:31 AM
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You’re really going to tell me who my friend is despite never having met him?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:23 AM
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Yeah I completely agree that being naturally physically attractive will automatically give you an advantage. That’s pretty obvious, it works both ways. Do what I did, lose a bunch of fat, gain a good bit of muscle, have a more mature style. But ultimately your personality will matter more then anything in my experience. You can get a women’s attention easier if you are attractive, but if you’re still a fucking weirdo then you still have low chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:22 AM
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When did the consensus change? How about when the fucking movie that started the concept of being redpilled came out…. That was the original meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:18 AM
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If you’re having trouble getting a women there is a logical reason for it. Something you are doing is making you undesirable. Maybe you smell bad, maybe you come off too strong, maybe you need a better haircut. Or maybe, the women you are looking for don’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:13 AM
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There’s a lot of reasons good guys don’t get laid. I have a buddy, good looking dude, but he’s absolutely terrible at talking to women. He cares more about pussy then he does the individual and because of that he comes off way too strong. Some women like that, but most women are sick of guys objectifying them. There’s always a logical reason for a guy not being able to get pussy and it’s never “all women only fuck 10% of guys”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:11 AM
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Being excited to live your life. Although emotions are subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:07 AM
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Doing hard shit and making it look easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:00 AM
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You misunderstood the idea of conquering yourself. Understand your weaknesses, and conquer them. If you’re good at something awesome, use that to your advantage. But if you’re smart but have no self confidence when it comes to talking to women, then you either need to work on being more confident, or stop complaining about not getting any action. You have to put the work in. Nobody is going to be great at everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:56 AM
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I don’t give 2 fucks about how society sees things. That’s the opposite of being redpilled. Seeing past the illusion that is created by society is being redpilled. Time will erase all of these things. You can choose to create value where you want to and you SHOULD! But objectively it means nothing. As a man you will never find true happiness in todays society.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:54 AM
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Dating has nothing to do with this. Id even argue that most men who are dating are still losing. A women will never truly make you happy. It’s only a small piece of the puzzle. Sure you might be able to distract yourself from the reality of your shitty life. But you’ll never fill the void and you’ll always know in the back of your mind that you arent living the life you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:45 AM
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Women can be redpilled. And that’s alright. If I can set 1 guy onto the path of self enlightenment then it will be well worth the hate. Nobody likes to hear the truth except for people who have already conquered it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:38 AM
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“Improving your looks and social ability is often better than, just be yourself.” So you’re telling me that women have standards? Fuck…. Explains why I’m single. But in all seriousness this one sentence is all you need to take away from this. Yes, if you are a young dude, if you don’t take care of yourself physically, if you have no hobbies, skills, or something that makes you interesting, then your odds of getting with a super model virgin anime cat women with g cup tits and a submissive person…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 11:30 PM
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OP I’m gonna give you some life changing advice right here. You are not wrong at all my guy. It can be difficult to figure out a females intentions when flirting is different with everyone. I’ve fallen victim to this many times when I was younger. But you have to also take some responsibility here. Reflect on your mindset and why you are being tricked. It’s because you are talking to these women solely out of a sexual desire. You aren’t genuinely taking time to get to know them. This is the way …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 06:28 PM
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This problem goes deeper then this subreddit is capable of decrypting. The infinite possibilities of the human mind make this equally obvious and complex. Obvious in the sense that of course there are a lot of men who are mentally unstable, it’s always been and always will be that way. Same with women. Complex because we have no way of knowingly solving this issue if we do not have an absolute controlled environment for every single human being that gets born. And even then, would we be able to …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:38 PM
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As a 24 y/o man I kind of agree with this, but at the same time, if you are getting all of your information of how men think from this subreddit, you are getting a pretty bad source. Most of these guys are insane. Imagine creating a bond with someone for 10 years of your life just to throw it away to fuck someone younger. These guys don’t get pussy or female attention. It’s the only possible explanation for this kind of mindset. Besides, a women who is 30-40-50 can offer you a whole lot more, wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:25 PM
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Easier said than done, sure in the short term. Or you can live the rest of your life with other peoples voices in your head, overpowering yours. Constantly chasing validation, letting people control your emotions. That sounds like a harder way to live. Must be tiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:03 PM
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This is where your mindset is wrong. It’s not a women’s job to make you feel secure in yourself. That’s on you. Just like a women fishing for compliments would get laughed at, you shouldn’t be looking for any external validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 07:56 PM
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Imagine vehemently hating and looking down on women, and then wondering why women don’t like you. Am I the problem? Nah nah it can’t be me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:05 PM
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I know, I thought it was funny. Someone said “I’d believe you if you were famous” Like what? Is it really that bad out here?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 01:52 PM
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That’s kind of what I said. But instead of blaming it on “male violence” I blamed the source problem, human nature, and the societies we’ve created. What happens when you tell a bunch of naturally violent, selfish, unregulated emotional animals, that they are actually not animals at all but an extension of the divine. Well, they don’t look at themselves as the monsters, but “the devil” is the reason for all evil. And all they have to do is beg for forgiveness in the name of god and their evil wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 09:08 AM
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Not sure what makes you think that men are exempt from this. I can throw statistics around too. And tell you that men make up 80% of homicide victims. Let’s be completely honest with each other for a second, about the world we live in. Human beings are not going to change. Not any time soon, not in the societies that we have created. Your best bet, is to learn how to use a gun, get your conceal carry, and then spend some time to mentally prepare yourself to pull the trigger when the times comes,…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:42 AM
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Why would I need you to believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:45 PM
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To be fair, she tries to fuck every halfway decent guy. And she fucks the rest of them for cash. (That’s not an accusation, that’s a fact that came out of her own mouth.) So it’s not like I’m being singled out. But, even more reason for me to stay away.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:32 PM
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Very true, what can we do to change this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:34 AM
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True, I didn’t think of it that way. I can see your frustrations. It’s a shame that you have to deal with this all of the time. I can only imagine how sick of it you must become. However I hold my stance, that putting all men into this box, is not a healthy mindset to take into every day. Consider this, you could very possibly be projecting this onto men who might genuinely just want to be your friend, because you view all men as the same mindless penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:32 AM
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First sentence is already putting words in my mouth, I’m aware of how the human population works, I wasn’t born yesterday. I’m only trying to show OP that not every single human being can be put into a box. This is how racism got so out of hand in America, this is how Hitler was able to cause the holocaust. This notion that every man is evil and only wants to dominate you is a fast track to becoming a bitter, irrational extremist. It’s not a healthy mindset at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:36 AM
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The biggest problem with this subreddit is people project their personal experiences on to the rest of the planet. I’m a male, there’s a female coworker who has been trying to have sex with me since I started working at this place. I’ve rejected her advances multiple times and she’s started treating me poorly because of it. She’s attractive, she’s funny, she’s out going. She’s just not my type, and I’m not really into having sex with people just to make my penis feel good for a little bit. I’m n…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:00 PM
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Typically these types of men struggle with self confidence. And of course, if you don’t have the confidence to even converse with a women, how do you expect to ever get close to one? These men for one reason or another, look at women as something that is above human. Instead of looking at them as they would look at a man, they look at them as an object of desire. It’s really a vicious cycle. Every rejection, every failure, leads them to put pussy on a higher and higher pedestal until it becomes …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 10:50 PM
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Bro that’s like calling all high schoolers psychopaths. Being emotionally naive is not the same thing as using people’s emotions to give yourself some sort of control over them. I truly think you are Overestimating the general intelligence of people who write these articles.
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