attemptist Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Losing weight "cold turkey" style Yep, people who haven't taken the time to get fat-adapted don't realize how much easier it is to eat this way than to run calorie restriction on a standard diet. You free yourself from the insulin rollercoaster and cravings just aren't a thing.	/r/TheRedPill	13/09/16 09:13 PM
3	Unpopular Opinion: Having and raising kids is an essential I can't find the source anymore but I have read that single father household outcomes are much closer to dual parent household outcomes. Bad outcomes in single mother households are four times more likely than standard. If anyone does have the source, I'd love to have it on hand. On another note, OP's argument is a nice one, but a fantasy. You will likely not get to raise red pill children. You will pay in money and happiness to watch them be raised into bloopers from a distance. You have no say…	/r/TheRedPill	08/08/16 09:24 PM
3	Status post divorce I'm all for facing reality, but given that he has raised the kid as his own for six years and mum is in jail, he isn't going to be let off the hook by the state on this one regardless of the test outcome. He should only proceed with the test if he thinks he can handle having to raise the child even if she isn't his.	/r/TheRedPill	23/07/16 06:38 AM
16	35% of young adult men in America now live with their parents I have kids, two out of three being boys, so I am invested in improving things (honestly, I don't think it is achievable without a collapse and reset). But I don't think the idea that we should "man up" and feed the current system is going to change a damn thing. Maybe prolong the decline. I've never taken welfare - not even when I was laid off shortly after my divorce, laden with all the debts she ran up and none of the assets I earned, living with my parents and being chased by debt collectors…	/r/TheRedPill	19/07/16 11:20 PM
9	35% of young adult men in America now live with their parents Don't get me wrong, I'm not a proponent of checking out, but isn't the idea around here that society has failed us as men and we don't owe it shit until it cleans up its act?	/r/TheRedPill	19/07/16 10:46 PM
1	Divorce raped and didn't learn anything. Borderline personality disorder. If you encounter it, run and never look back.	/r/askTRP	17/07/16 08:30 AM
2	The MGTOW Manifesto: Our Demands For Ending the Marriage Strike I don’t believe you will get enough sex-starved beta males to join the MGTOW strike for this to make any difference as a cultural movement. It isn’t until they’ve been through the wringer that they are willing to acknowledge the lie, and so there will always be fresh beta bucks for the machine. That is why Red Pill techniques for maximizing one’s sexual strategy, using the very weaknesses of the current state of affairs, are more effective for those aware enough to accept them. That said, a few …	/r/TheRedPill	03/07/16 06:31 AM
10	Always Be Closing. Even men in LTRs have difficulty determining the extent of sexual desire. It isn't a waste of time, but I think what nyjl means is that the field is inundated with poorly conducted studies by biased, feminist researchers more interested in proving a point than figuring anything out, and psychology more broadly is undergoing a reproducibility crisis. Attempts to reproduce the results of some foundational studies upon which much of the field is built are failing. That said, a bit of looking into the lead researcher indicates that she seems to be genuine about wanting to…	/r/TheRedPill	31/05/16 09:53 PM
5	Robin Wright demands to be paid equal to House of Cards co-star Kevin Spacey Season four has been out for a while, I think it would be more tricky now.	/r/TheRedPill	26/05/16 11:53 AM
1	(FR) Girls play manipulative games They're not that uncommon, but are usually only ordered after a positive pee test to confirm, so definitely suspicious to be jumping straight into the deep end like that.	/r/TheRedPill	23/05/16 05:39 AM
2	Vasalgel Donation Pledge Jesus, that's HIGH. I'm glad you got out of it. I managed something similar in the end, I have half custody of my kids and an agreement that prevents her from going after me for child support in case the $15k she owed me in the divorce wants to come due (it would make more financial sense for her to pay that out and take child support but she's not good enough with money nor long-term thinking for it to be much of a risk). I really lucked out in the end compared to others around here, mostly bec…	/r/TheRedPill	14/05/16 09:50 AM
1	Vasalgel Donation Pledge Absolutely. But I've been in both positions where I am flush and don't really feel the sting of paying $1k child support per month, and not so great times where you really feel it. I know which hole I'd rather be in.	/r/TheRedPill	14/05/16 06:39 AM
7	Vasalgel Donation Pledge If this guy can't afford 33 dollars imagine how fucked he is in the event that he's ordered to pay child support.	/r/TheRedPill	14/05/16 01:27 AM
2	St. Jerome, 393 AD: Men Should Not Marry Oh, of course she will. You have to set that as an expectation from the get-go, of course, because if it ever becomes a point of contention you have already fucked things up and she is going to go out and ride wild cocks just to spite you. But mateguarding as casually defined on TRP seems to mean reactively trying to control what she's doing and who she's talking to, rather than setting a take-it-or-leave-it expectation from day one and knowing that the day when she inevitably crosses this line …	/r/TheRedPill	19/03/16 09:42 AM
3	St. Jerome, 393 AD: Men Should Not Marry Look, as you said, you can never guarantee she won't cheat and there are measures you can take to reduce the risk somewhat, but these aren't them. Thousands of men who have been divorce raped after cohabitating -- not talking military husbands here -- and mateguarding have formed the very basis of the knowledge we have here, hard-earned as it was, and this advice counters the most basic principles of what we know. I see that you're committed to this path, but there's a bunch of newbies reading t…	/r/TheRedPill	19/03/16 02:38 AM
4	St. Jerome, 393 AD: Men Should Not Marry Cohabitation and mateguarding are your answers -- you sure you're in the right sub?	/r/TheRedPill	18/03/16 11:51 PM
1	How can sex significantly boost testosterone levels, but masturbation takes ~1 week to see only a 145% increase? Yeah, I know it peaks after seven days and then drops, but the question is still an interesting one -- why does the same physical process of orgasm have different physiological consequences based on context?	/r/askTRP	15/03/16 07:53 AM
8	How can sex significantly boost testosterone levels, but masturbation takes ~1 week to see only a 145% increase? "Both work, end of story." The very reason he's confused and asking is because NOT masturbating boosts test, while orgasming with a woman boosts it. It's not that one is more significant than the other, they work in completely opposite directions.	/r/askTRP	15/03/16 02:08 AM
1	[Front Page Reddit] Men should have the right to ‘abort’ responsibility for an unborn child, Swedish political group says I think another reason people who are able to stay married in the long-term provide better outcomes is because they tend to be more rational, educated, understanding people, in charge of their impulses and with good values -- for example, a mother that can better keep her hypergamous instincts in check. It's been a while so I'm not sure where one would find that research now, though if anyone digs it up I'd love to save it for my reference library. There's certainly mountains of easily found res…	/r/TheRedPill	15/03/16 02:03 AM
1	Mom cheated on Dad If you decide not to keep quiet, don't confront your mother first. Tell your father. Chances are by the sounds of him that he will try and 'fix' it, but if it wakes him up he'll need the biggest possible headstart to make arrangements so he -- and you and your brother by extension -- do not get screwed.	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/16 07:28 AM
3	[Front Page Reddit] Men should have the right to ‘abort’ responsibility for an unborn child, Swedish political group says This is backed up in the research literature. Single dad upbringings produce results just slightly less favorable than married parent environments. Single mothers are many times more likely to produce inmates, teen mothers, drug addicts and suicide cases.	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/16 07:07 AM
3	[Front Page Reddit] Men should have the right to ‘abort’ responsibility for an unborn child, Swedish political group says "Winning against the female mind is surprisingly easy. Winning against the family court industrial complex would've been significantly more difficult." This is precisely how I eventually got a good outcome (50/50 custody split, no child support). The divorce left me with a negative net worth and locked me out of my career, so it's funny to call it a good outcome, but I know that it really is. Once you learn how the female mind works it's like taking candy from a baby -- as long as you can keep h…	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/16 07:03 AM
4	Brother-In-Law Preparing To Black-Knight His Radical Feminist Boss It is probably a good idea to take some of the arguments you're seeing in this thread to your brother and try to change his mind -- particularly that what he is sitting on will have much less value when he's using it from a defensive position.	/r/TheRedPill	29/02/16 08:47 PM
3	The Negative Side of TRP Much better to wind up paying child support than losing half your stuff and paying child support anyway. But in some countries, like Australia, you're fucked no matter what. As soon as you start cohabiting (which I'm assuming is what's generally going to happen even when procreating without marriage) you are subject to the same asset division and maintenance laws that govern marriage.	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/16 09:22 PM
1	The Negative Side of TRP Yeah, the problem with most blue pill guys freshly trying to swallow the pill is that they're actively looking for anything in RP literature to tell them that marriage could be a good idea and they don't need to question all of their assumptions. Giving them that is a good way to make them blase about internalizing the principles enough that they actually have a shot in hell of selecting a unicorn. And even then, the legal power marriage deprives you of today should be reason enough for most to …	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/16 09:18 PM
2	Divorce rape is bad, but the solution is simple - don't marry. But what about child support rape? Even with contraception, there is a small chance of unplanned procreation. A potential solution: I think this shows some understanding of the incentives. Watch the wretches who become single mothers start giving a shit about pregnancy when their incentives to get randomly knocked up are removed. Of course, this kind of legislation will never, ever happen. Get a vasectomy.	/r/askTRP	25/01/16 02:13 AM
1	Meditation Advice Check out Headspace.com if you have trouble getting a feel for the technique or building the habit consistently through other means. The free ten day intro course is handy. There are two more ten day beginner courses that extend on that behind the pay wall. My feeling was that the Packs were somewhat useful but didn't allow enough time to focus on straight up mindfulness meditation, so some of the benefits I was experiencing were not as present while doing them. Now I just use a meditation timer…	/r/askTRP	11/01/16 09:12 PM
1	Raised by a single mother, need to get employed and get the fuck out. Don't know where to begin. It has its good points, but it's a feminist hellhole in many other ways.	/r/askTRP	11/01/16 08:49 PM
1	Raised by a single mother, need to get employed and get the fuck out. Don't know where to begin. Also an Australian like OP here -- when I started lifting I got a $30 set of dumbbells from Big W, and a month later I got a $30 barbell. They're low quality but weigh what they say they weigh on the box. Wasn't doing things 100% correctly without in-person guidance but YouTube was very helpful and it is pretty hard to hurt yourself at those weights. Luckily there was a bench lying around, but my brother who has followed my lead on some elements of TRP action has been making do with whatever he …	/r/askTRP	11/01/16 08:46 PM
2	Saw an ex co-worker and had an epiphany: Former betas/omegas, be grateful it didn't happen. Have a similar story with my high school girl. She's hitting the wall hard as we speak and has become a barrel of cottage cheese for her current LTR. Only problem is we're divorced and her kids are mine, lol	/r/TheRedPill	07/01/16 09:44 AM
7	Anger isn't a phase. Most religious people don't believe the stories are metaphorical and thus don't tell their children that they are. In my opinion this is a big part of the problem, for the reasons that Sawagurumi points out.	/r/TheRedPill	30/12/15 03:18 PM
5	Politics: A difference I've noticed between men that go Democrat vs Republican this election cycle, could potentially have to do with more than just politics. Not an American, but boy did I get fucked by conservative Christian parents when they pushed me to "do the honorable thing" with a modern Western woman. Don't totally agree that conservatives are more blue pill than leftists, though. One example: income redistribution primarily serves to take money from men and give it to women, whether that's through welfare or leftist-controlled family courts. Conservative blue pill attitudes are largely moral attitudes; leftists force the world toward female …	/r/TheRedPill	20/12/15 12:07 AM
2	AMA - Milo Yiannopoulos - Thursday, Dec 10th, 5pm London time, (12pm EST) on TRP That's fair enough. I got the impression you didn't think he should be here because of it. Whatever our differences, he does a good job of wrecking feminists.	/r/TheRedPill	03/12/15 02:40 AM
8	AMA - Milo Yiannopoulos - Thursday, Dec 10th, 5pm London time, (12pm EST) on TRP You sound a lot like feminists who attack their own support base such as Tim Hunt and other male feminists, women who aren't 'feminist enough', etc. Leave the internal division and henpecking to them.	/r/TheRedPill	03/12/15 12:36 AM
4	Raising a generation of pussies and betas [Yale University speech SJW protestors] You don't often see this kind of thinking around here given that the manosphere has certain political leanings, but you're right on the money. To truly take the red pill and unplug from the Matrix, as it were, in all aspects of life and thought would involve realizing that one of the mechanisms of population control is to allow a great deal of debate, but sharply limit the acceptable bounds of the debate. The left-right schism is a manifestation of this. The people can never truly gain democrati…	/r/TheRedPill	10/11/15 10:45 PM
1	Regarding perspective on TRP and a loss.. That's a good question. I find that with experience I notice the effects more and more in day-to-day life -- how long I can hold my attention, the clarity of my thought, etc. Mentally, I was a high performer who got involved with amphetamines in the wake of a messy divorce before I started getting my life back on track with TRP. I have that high benchmark to compare myself with as my impulse control and concentration improve from their lowest points. I guess that's not a quantifiable metric, but…	/r/TheRedPill	28/10/15 02:03 AM
1	Regarding perspective on TRP and a loss.. I agree with the other poster that you can't become physically disciplined without learning some mental discipline, but I thoroughly recommend meditation in addition for best results in what you are talking about.	/r/TheRedPill	27/10/15 11:09 PM
1	Learn From This Guy - Don't Try To Do Too Much At Once Because You'll Get Disappointed Same thing happened to me with Waklert. Can still take modafinil in my case as well. It's extremely rare but people should absolutely know how to look out for SJS if they're going to try *afinils.	/r/TheRedPill	13/10/15 01:20 AM
1	Pissed off about something concerning child support. It does matter. Seems like you've never tried to feed yourself while paying child support. He's being smart.	/r/askTRP	11/10/15 07:21 PM