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2	Is this is test from her? You treated her like a random pick ho and she took your balls and slapped you across your face. Now you’re simping to get her back, over compensating, and she’ll likely be repelled and … see ya OP. If you weren’t prepared for this outcome, you shouldn’t have engaged in it. Lesson learned. She woke up to finally understand her worth / value.	/r/seduction	19/07/22 04:14 PM
2	Is the PUA community basically dead? OP, married now divorced? It’s a different world, have fun.	/r/seduction	13/07/22 10:28 PM
0	What do you do/say in this situation? Call it like you see it. With a wry smile like I’m on to you…. “It’s obviously on your mind and I think that you are saying this now to appear innocent and when it happens, it will seem unintentional. I swear I don’t do this on the ______ (first, second , third date)” The number of times I hear that …. I swear I’m normally not like this …	/r/seduction	10/06/22 04:31 AM
9	OLD Match cancelled twice because she’s ill, but keeps texting. What to do? She canceled twice therefore it’s incumbent on her to set up plans upon the second cancelation. She didn’t. So, your text is … “ Hi Julie, it sounds like a nasty bug you have there. Get well and reach out when you’re feeling good enough to meet. When you’re thinking about what we’re going to do , I like sushi , red wine , hiking, …. See you soon :) ” She’ll understand the message and you will as well, if she doesn’t set up the next hang out.	/r/seduction	05/06/22 01:59 PM
1	Are some women just not worth the effort? 1. 5-10 guys approached 2 super cute girls dancing together. They likely approached to talk to them. Can you dance ? I mean really dance? Increase your odds 10 x and approach to within 10 feet and begin having fun dancing by yourself or with a friend. Other women will approach and begin dancing; 2 cute girls will notice; over time , make your way over ; if you’re not feeling it , you’ve met other women. 2. My least likely target, too vain and insecure , typically nothing else going on, I just ca…	/r/seduction	05/06/22 01:48 PM
6	When to insist and when to let go? No biggie here. Plans were undefined so reach out once. “Hey Julie, I’m going hiking next Saturday then ordering sushi and wine, you should join me, I’ll pick you up at 2”. If no response … next :)	/r/seduction	04/06/22 10:35 PM
6	Rookies Guide to Overcoming Approach Anxiety Huge balls and courage. Bravo. Most likely you have already, just checking … have you tried speaking melodically when you know you’re about to hit a blockage?	/r/seduction	04/06/22 06:28 PM
3	Rookies Guide to Overcoming Approach Anxiety 1,000,000 upvotes if I could. Would love to hear some of your experiences if you’re comfortable sharing.	/r/seduction	04/06/22 05:28 PM
5	Rookies Guide to Overcoming Approach Anxiety OPs method is one way to handle this issue for some. For many / most others, I believe it will exacerbate the anxiety as you’re hyper-focussing a magnifying glass on it. Imagine you have a Band-Aid on an extremely sensitive part of your body. It’s been there for many years; it’s affecting your life; the glue has hardened and you know it must be removed but it’s going to be extremely painful. Now, journal daily on this pain, the Band-Aid, meditate, envision your future without it, how happy you w…	/r/seduction	04/06/22 05:10 PM
2	Will working a code monkey job for 8 hours a day fuck up my abilities with women? Should I try to get a more social job instead, with less pay? True. Actually only one. He was an animal. Life of the party. A magnet.	/r/seduction	02/06/22 04:12 AM
8	How do I pass this particular shit test? “Julie, you know that I’m not into the BF GF dynamic at this point. I’ll meet your friends on the condition that you introduce me by my name only; no labels. If you introduce me as anything else, I’m gone. I’ll leave the event and you won’t hear from me. I’m dead serious here. Do we have an understanding”? Be prepared to follow through. If you can’t then you won’t have any legitimacy, so don’t attend if you can’t follow through on your request.	/r/seduction	02/06/22 03:56 AM
15	a good response for “how many girls have you said that to?” “This week”?	/r/seduction	02/06/22 03:34 AM
1	What to do if a girls complaining over text You’re in a win-win situation dude. I’m guessing you haven’t had sex with her so straight up tell her “Julie we’ve been chatting for a few weeks now and your complaining has really escalated. I’m coming over with a bottle of wine and sushi I’m gonna fuck your brains out. By the end of the night you won’t even remember your professors names” She’ll either applaud your bravado or tell you you’re an insensitive pig. Either way you win, you don’t want to be with this nagging woman or you end up poun…	/r/seduction	02/06/22 03:25 AM
2	Will working a code monkey job for 8 hours a day fuck up my abilities with women? Should I try to get a more social job instead, with less pay? Fucking overthinking engineers. Smh . Turn this ridiculously absurd thought around and say to myself; I’m coding all mother fucking day and I can’t wait to turn this part of me off and go out and hunt pussy in the evening. How many examples are there of people that do something completely different than their day job to decompress. Do the same. Delete this ridiculous post after reading this. Yes tough love. :)	/r/seduction	02/06/22 02:56 AM
3	Approach anxiety drills/beating approach anxiety I haven’t read or heard of these books you referenced however, I’m thinking two things. 1). You’re over invested in the outcome of your approaches. Seriously do not give a fuck about the outcome. Get on that sub if it helps. Approach with a I don’t care of the outcome mindset. You’re only goal is to approach. Then build off that the next time. 2) Approach average or below average women (5s) as batting practice. They’ll be grateful and you’ll build your confidence. If the convo is going well and …	/r/seduction	02/06/22 02:43 AM
2	Texting games is exhausting. Solid advice with these dudes here. Go with it.	/r/seduction	02/06/22 02:24 AM
5	Use this response if others try to shame you for dating a younger woman Very enlightening convo here. Bottom line ; It’s consensual people. This happened last week. I walk into a bar / restaurant with a friend. It’s packed. I see two beautiful women across the bar and make my way there. Squeeze in to order a drink, redhead and I make eye contact, I introduce myself and you know what she said? We’ve been here for 3 hours, had dinner and drinks and so many guys were gawking at them and not one single guy approached them. (I blame online dating and lack of courage for …	/r/seduction	01/06/22 06:38 PM
4	Use this response if others try to shame you for dating a younger woman Sex once yes, typically a one night stand or introduce myself, arrange a date then sex. Beyond that, if they don’t have a personality, can’t hold a conversation, super shallow …. I can’t anymore, and that’s the truth. It’s so empowering to turn them down as well. I swear it sends a message to the universe of abundance and high value. I’d much rather date , many dates, a woman 20 years my junior when she is the opposite of what I just described. Chances are you’ll run into someone you know and to…	/r/seduction	01/06/22 05:44 PM
16	Use this response if others try to shame you for dating a younger woman Look at the person who has an issue with it. The majority of the time they wish they could date younger. It’s typically rooted in jealousy. It really touches a nerve if the older gentleman and the younger woman are having fun and enjoying each other’s company. I’ll date 20 years my junior however they are mature and carry themselves professionally.	/r/seduction	01/06/22 04:13 PM
1	12 Signs She’s Into You I can sometimes miss signals, but when a woman’s legs are near my ears or hers, I KNOW she’s into me. (I’m into her as well)	/r/seduction	27/05/22 08:00 AM