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When someone has really and truly given up and moved on, they generally don’t share that information for a few reasons: they are at peace with their decision (or at least have accepted it) and don’t feel it needs to be discussed with others - ‘it is what it is’ they know that if they do speak up about it they will not be acknowledged - they’ll be debated, blamed, given inapplicable advice, gaslit, and so on. This is generally done by people who have no understanding or experience with the situat…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:24 AM
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You could say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 11:36 AM
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A little, sure!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 10:41 PM
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Soft as in physically - maybe a soft outside layer covering some decent muscle. I like feeling like I can sink into a soft warm and strong hug. As for toughness - I don’t really think about stuff like that. It doesn’t really rank in the top of stuff I generally consider. I will say that if there is a bit of unexpected dom there in the softness that is a huge plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 10:21 PM
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The overall picture - I have a type and when a man fits that type in more than a few ways I’m definitely going to be checking him out. If there is a conversation and a few mutual uncommon interests come up then it steps up another level. Specifics on physical type - stuff like general style, around my height (5’9” is perfect), sort of soft looking. A good visual is: the lead singer in Kaiser Chief’s Ruby video (just that video) and Tom Chaplin in the early days of Keane. No idea how tall either …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 10:13 PM
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Muscles never did much for me. I can admire a great physique but it doesn’t ping the ‘attraction’ meter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 10:01 PM
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If by ‘romantic’ you mean a mutually deep level of intimacy where both partners are enriched by the strengths of the other, and in turn support and help heal the weaknesses of the other - then unfortunately there are plenty of men and women who won’t ever find that for a variety of reasons. The person who has to settle and/or be settled for is not likely to have the strengths needed to offset the weaknesses for themselves, much less for a partner. Those missing strengths are an integral part of …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 03:51 PM
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Being settled for is terrible. You get treated exactly as you would expect when you are with someone who wishes they could do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 05:05 PM
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There is an (false) expectation that men are always up for sex, and if they aren’t then the woman must be unattractive/overweight/etc. It’s terrible how misconceptions are ingrained like that but for the most part they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 12:21 AM
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If I had the option to strip those needs out of my brain permanently I would do so with no hesitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 10:08 AM
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Are you certain she’s pregnant? I’ve seen scams like this before.
/r/MGTOW16/08/18 03:37 AM
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It sounds like Grace is suffering from the ‘Cat Person’ effect. With the popularity of that story (and no doubt upcoming novel) it won’t surprise me to see more of this sort of thing happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 06:37 AM
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Hey, I didn't see anything offensive - no need for apologies. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 02:29 PM
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Nah, I was not really in the attractive category beforehand. Just kind of plain.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 05:53 PM
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No problem. Little pitted scars. The chemo cocktail I was on -TAC- was particularly brutal. Lost not only hair, but some teeth as well - those are fixed but my tongue still has a scar running down it where it cracked. Lost some fingernails and toenails that eventually grew back but not quite evenly. My hair came back thinner. I had little sores all over me - most didn’t heal well. My face looks rough now - little pits. We aren’t talking Trejo-rough, just enough to make it look textured in a way …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 02:31 AM
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Neither. Cancer worked me over pretty good and left me minus a couple of body parts and my skin scarred. I’m not ‘boogeyman’ scary looking, just off the radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 12:26 AM
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Yes, I’m living it. If a glance happens to make its way to me there is that split second moment where I see it land briefly and then continue straight through me. It’s been that way a good ten years now. It used to bother me but I’m used to it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 10:01 PM
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There are more things I like about being single than I miss about being in a 'relationship'. I don't know how different that would be though if I had ever been in a good relationship before. Never had the opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 04:37 PM
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Jason Momoa http://vignette2.wikia.nocookie.net/gameofthrones/images/1/1f/Drogo_1x01b.jpg/revision/latest?cb=20110626031733 Especially as Khal Drogo, though Aquaman does it for me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 11:42 PM
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JDM has a way of making aberrant characters attractive. The Comedian (Watchmen) is another good example. Both Negan and Eddie Blake on paper lack the raw sex appeal that JDM gives them on camera.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 03:28 AM
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Robot? All I can picture is Boilerplate atm, so no. Android - say, like Data? Abso-fuckin-loutely. I wish androids like that were a reality now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 06:18 PM
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Brings to mind the Scotty McMillan case - Google at your own risk, it will eat at your soul and enrage you.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 03:11 AM
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Attraction is not a choice.
/r/MensRights28/02/16 02:03 AM
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The MRS degree is a long time southern tradition.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/15 12:22 PM
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Frequent rote sex + marriage ultimatum = dead bedroom marriage. Sounds like a typical bait-and-switch.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 10:25 AM
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It's probably the guy who went on r/confessions and bragged about making shit up on 'popular subreddits'. He's getting pretty prolific at this point, and his writing style is fairly consistent.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 10:02 AM
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I would imagine the determining factor for single dads would be whether or not child expenses affect the ability to pay adequate girlfriend expenses (payment in the forms of both money and time/attention).
/r/askTRP20/07/15 05:41 PM
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A similar thing happened here on Reddit. OP was being goofy and kidding around about a positive test (maybe a rage comic?) and another poster convinced him to get checked out and sure enough...
/r/MensRights21/06/15 11:59 AM
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Have you undergone paternity testing?
/r/MensRights03/06/15 12:52 AM
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It isn't sexism so much as it is a reaction to the concept of having a "do as I say, not as I do" person in general as a Health Minister.
/r/MensRights02/06/15 10:24 PM
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Any number of scenes in In The Company Of Men.
/r/askTRP02/05/15 09:36 PM
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I hate to sound like a conspiracy theorist but I have no trouble picturing a well-thought out and calculated plan to plant seeds and froth up SJW hate over the course of the past few years for this very purpose. What better way to reach out to the younger voters than to scattergun the 'war on women' narrative to impressionable people who consume a steady diet of social media and draw their conclusions not from research but from popular opinion and slacktivism? If you know you can't be elected on…
/r/MensRights29/03/15 12:10 PM
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Depends on the degree of musculature: Ripped guy on front of Men's Health = sexy Veiny bulging bodybuilder on front of Musclemag = not
/r/askTRP27/03/15 12:45 AM
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http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/George_Stinney Another tragic story. Both are equally horrible and unjust.
/r/MensRights28/02/15 04:29 PM
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That is puzzling to me - I can't imagine a woman wanting to 'come along with' to a barber shop. I'm seeing that the preservation of male and female 'spaces' is largely a regional/cultural thing. People by and large prefer it that way here, regardless of how many liberal/progressive people try to convince them that they shouldn't.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/14 12:47 PM
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Curious to see if this 'women demand to go to barber shops' varies by region - here in the SE US, the barber shops by and large are male spaces as a general understanding. Women wouldn't consider going to a barbershop to get their hair done, much less demand to. The idea of it even seems silly considering the nature of barber shops and beauty parlors here.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/14 03:54 PM
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Chad - "In the Company of Men"
/r/askTRP24/12/14 07:41 PM
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Sounds like she just read/saw Gone Girl and internalized it.
/r/askTRP06/12/14 10:51 PM
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Tilda Swinton is the only woman I can see pulling that off.
/r/MensRights06/12/14 01:49 AM
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She hasn't been able to properly lock you down any other way, and a baby with you would give her the one thing she hasn't been able to buy: your assured permanence in her life. I would not even consider this, but if you do - for the love of all that is holy see a lawyer first so you will get a clear picture of what you are getting in to.
/r/askTRP13/11/14 11:17 AM
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A theory: The girls he is interested in know they (generally) have to settle for chubby chasers. They don't like to settle - they want the high-value men who want conventionally attractive women - if they were to land one, then that would mean the man chose them because he is attracted to her. With men like your friend, they think they are chosen not because they are attractive but because they are fat. They don't want to be someone's fetish. But... most of the time if they want a man to date th…
/r/askTRP12/11/14 02:22 AM
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Agreed - all a part of what I'm working on. Change has to be small and realistic. The hardest part is getting past the mental blocks that prevent change: anger with a sprinkling of entitlement being one. I know more than a few omegas IRL. It can be frustrating when they complain about being alone, but refuse to even remotely entertain the idea of making any changes no matter how small. The sexual market is a brutal place. The lower on the chain you are, the clearer you can see that. Unfortunatel…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 06:45 PM
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I've been interested since before the term red pill. My grandfather was very red pill (WW2 era guy), my father not so much, and children in my generation (X-ers) definitely not, and after that? Rare to be born and bred to be proudly male and all that stands for. It is something that younger men have to work toward rather than it being a matter of just 'being that way'. All the while as men are being basically neutered, there is a cry for "real men". Unfortunately there are more than a few people…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 06:29 PM
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I lost some body parts to cancer. The damage and scarring was extensive. The pump and dump express ended with the cancer. He tried to date me in the 'after' years.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 02:49 AM
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We tried. He couldn't overcome his lack of attraction.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 02:06 AM
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A good deal of people spend a majority of their adult lives stuck in the middle section of the Maslowe pyramid - they never reach a level higher than "keeping up with the Joneses".
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 01:51 AM
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True, I've had this same discussion for a number of years with a good friend of mine. He swore that I was lucky to be getting sex (even though it was exclusively fuck and chuck scenarios) while he hadn't been laid in years. We never could see eye-to-eye on it. I told him on several occasions that I'd trade all those warm bodies for one real date. He told me that he'd trade any one of his dates for a lot of warm bodies. I get it though - women have an easier time getting laid. That's probably why…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/14 01:42 AM
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Low-value women can get sex, yes - that is true. What they can't get is an actual relationship with a man that they can brag about on Facebook to all of their other friends and family members. That is what is valuable to them, not sex. The less they have to settle, the better. If they want a relationship, they have to settle for someone who is having to settle for them. I'm not talking about physically deficient men - those guys can improve. The kind that settles for them are generally the emoti…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/14 12:52 PM
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He had to be trained to control it, though.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 01:54 AM
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Maybe something like Wanted with Angelina Jolie?
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 01:31 AM
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Is there a way on your phone/plan to retrieve deleted messages or monitor existing ones? There is no point in confronting without solid evidence. You will not get the truth (or even anything near to it) without it regardless of how Red or Blue you may be or appear to be. Infidelity and the lies behind it are colorblind when the act is already underway. You will get tears, lame plausible sounding lies, promises to stop but what you will not get is the truth, nor will anything short of busting her…
/r/askTRP16/06/14 06:59 PM
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The important thing is that indifference will devalue her.
/r/askTRP15/06/14 02:02 PM
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Nothing stings like complete indifference. Any response on your part would have validated her in some way. You know how adults generally ignore a child trying to interject on a conversation? Do that. Your silence and indifference are far more effective. It says "I don't need to defend myself against you or anything you say". Physically turn your back and continue as you were. Nasty bitchiness is her weapon. Indifference shows her and everyone else just how ineffective it is. Bottom line - if you…
/r/askTRP15/06/14 01:32 PM
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In the Company of Men
/r/TheRedPill17/05/14 01:51 AM
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The Cube personality test is a good one.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 09:58 PM
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For many, it is about attempting to fill an internal emptiness with external validation. When one ride doesn't 'work' it is on to the next. There is no carousel ride long enough to fill that emptiness - which is why it isn't unusual to see someone jump off long enough to marry thinking 'this is it' but jump right back on within a couple of years.
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/14 11:08 AM
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JM was one of the only reality show I've ever watched (the other being The Swan). What a guilty pleasure I got watching that - there was something intriguing about watching a bunch of greedy pit vipers competing for the chance to look like idiots. Might have to check this out too, sadly enough.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 03:54 PM
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A twist on Joe Millionaire I'm guessing, probably with similar shenanigans.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 01:16 AM
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Imagine the outrage if they weren't noticed at all!
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 10:49 PM
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It depends - do you mean women as a whole or attractive vs unattractive women? I'd say unattractive women may have more sex than their male counterparts, but aren't any more likely to have the type of relationships they desire. An unattractive woman has a higher chance at being used for sex than an equally unattractive male. Generalizing, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/14 11:27 AM
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People complain about how terrible and sexist this is, but how great is the opposite? I know plenty of people who (miserably) live the opposite: Cook? Right, whatever. Have nothing ready for dinner, or even any ideas for dinner. Suggest yet another night of cheap, fatty takeout or fast food. If coming home from work, change into baggy sweats and a grubby tee shirt. If not working, don’t bother changing out of yesterdays baggy sweats and grubby tee shirt. Comfort first. If he doesn't like it, tou…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/14 04:21 PM
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Her: "I don't have sex on the first date." You: "LOL" Too much?
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 04:01 PM
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Julian from The Trailer Park Boys. It is a silly example from a silly show, but he did come to mind.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/13 02:47 PM
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This was nearly 20 years ago, and things were different then when it came to false rape claims. I'd like to think that if she pulled that shit now, she'd be facing charges. The taboo against calling out false rape claims is slowly lifting. I hope one day that it becomes a serious enough crime that people won't throw around 'rape' so casually like they do now. She left town, and never returned. I don't know what happened to her.
/r/MensRights03/11/13 09:53 PM
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When a good friend of mine spent a year in jail awaiting trial because of a false rape claim. He was repeatedly beaten and sexually assaulted in jail because of the nature of the "rape" (the girl had a medical condition which sometimes had her having to use a wheelchair). Thanks to a damned good lawyer and a sensible jury, he was found not guilty. It was amazing that he was able to walk away free - the judge was refusing to allow certain testimony in the trial: for instance how this was her 6th …
/r/MensRights03/11/13 12:21 PM
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For this particular situation, I'd say there isn't really anything you can do or say that will change anyone's mind particularly in that medium. The cards are stacked against you at that place. And yes, people really are that ignorant. There is no stronger ignorance than willful ignorance. You can't lead someone like that to reason. So, in that case - ignore. As for the idea behind it, I don't intend to have a "don't rape" talk with my son when he is older, I intend to have an "avoid false rape …
/r/MensRights06/10/13 10:55 AM
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This is just one story among many like it.
/r/MensRights30/08/13 10:08 AM
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I guess it depends on how you look at it. The way I see it: Crazy? Yes. Mentally ill (and therefore on some level not culpable for her words/actions)? No. I think the judge saw her not a victim of mental illness, but a person whose destructive actions were deliberate, manipulative and purposeful - and therefore not deserving of custody. She didn't lose custody because she is crazy. She lost it because she is evil. I'm glad the judge could see the difference.
/r/MensRights21/07/13 09:42 AM
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I found this as part of the judge's ruling: "This court finds that [Siohvaughn Wade] has embarked on an unstoppable and relentless pattern of conduct for over two years to alienate the children from their father, and lacks either the ability or the willingness to facilitate, let alone encourage, a close and continuing relationship between them," read a portion of the ruling entered by Judge Renee G. Goldfarb. She wasn't crazy - just lying and manipulative and used the children as bait and barter…
/r/MensRights20/07/13 08:55 PM
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They are their own worst enemies, and I resent them trying to speak for my gender.
/r/MensRights20/06/13 11:34 AM
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I've seen friends' lives ruined over false accusations like this one. This is a case where I would love to see this person outed publicly, her crimes fully revealed and punished to the fullest extent of the law, and the victim given some sort of compensation.
/r/MensRights10/03/13 01:03 PM
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If it were my cartoon, the bottom panel would read 'Man with breast cancer' and would show the same experiences as 'Woman with breast cancer'. Cancer is not a gender issue. I resent asshats who try to make it one.
/r/MensRights10/03/13 12:00 PM
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Warning: angry mother rant ahead, long... Top comment on a similar thread? "True love conquers all" ... and plenty of justification why it is ok. Anyone who mentions how wrong people would see it if the genders were switched, or anything mentioning a double standard gets downvoted. This is why I fear for my son. He is just shy of two, and I'm hoping by the the time he is older that there will be more rights and protections provided for him, and that he will see real gender equality. As it is, a …
/r/MensRights22/01/13 12:01 PM
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In NC, if a student has sexual relations with a student who is enrolled in their school, regardless of consent or age - it is a felony.
/r/MensRights21/01/13 11:44 AM
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I dunno. I don't see it as entitlement so much as revenge. She's got a few screws loose these days, and it had to have stung to spend so much on plastic surgery and treatments to look young - only to see your younger (ex) husband end up with someone who really is young and naturally beautiful.
/r/MensRights24/12/12 01:17 PM
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Stockholm syndrome.
/r/MensRights22/12/12 02:13 AM
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Gotta love first world feminism.
/r/MensRights31/10/12 11:13 AM
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Well, what do you expect when they are started out early? This is something similar, but for the younger set.
/r/MensRights20/10/12 02:33 PM
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Count me in as the 'full 40' plus full time parenting duties every other evening/night of the week. I'd love to be a stay at home parent, but my idea of 'stay at home' is what I grew up with watching my grandmother do. I'd have to have a time machine to achieve that though. It simply doesn't mean now what it used to.
/r/MensRights24/09/12 10:09 PM
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I see what you are saying. I guess the question I had was whether the 'work ethic' behind being a 'stay at home' person was the same as it was a generation ago, regardless of technological advances. Do the women in the article want to be a 'stay at home' parent because they want to run the household and have that be their job, or do they want to be a 'stay at home' parent simply because they don't want to have to have a job outside the home?
/r/MensRights24/09/12 10:26 AM
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Yes, modernizing took a lot of the 'work' part out of 'housework'. My grandmother had a 'fun' garden that she messed with on the weekends, but we had a functional garden that helped supply the produce at the grocery store my family owned. That was the one that got daily work done in it - and it had to be fairly stringent since it was being not only eaten at home, but sold in the store as well. It wasn't a huge garden, but it was well enough for one person to maintain. That wasn't a hobby. It was…
/r/MensRights23/09/12 02:39 PM
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My grandmother's 'stay at home time' was from 1950 til 1986 when the last child left the nest. Her days were not much different from other women in that time where we lived: they woke up hitting the ground running, and kept on running until the last child was sleeping. We lived in the rural south, so her days not only included top to bottom cleaning indoors, but we also kept a garden for food and kept chickens. It was like a little farm, more or less - and she ran all of it - from maintaining th…
/r/MensRights23/09/12 02:07 PM
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What my grandmother did was not just 'stay at home parenting'. It was running the home in the truest sense. It was hard work that she did, both indoors and outdoors. My grandfather had his job: running the grocery store that my family owned, and my grandmother had her job: keeping the house/yard/garden/chickens and raising the children. They both worked hard. It could well be a generational thing too: I am old enough to remember when 'staying at home' meant that you worked hard. I grew up in a h…
/r/MensRights23/09/12 01:32 PM
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Honestly, I would have to know more about what 'stay at home mom' means to people. Do they mean 'I don't want to work' or do they mean 'I want the household/children to be my work'? One is a luxury, the other is really hard work. There is a huge difference. I know mothers now who are 'stay at home' moms who hire nannies and housekeepers to keep the house while they go out and do whatever with their free time and I know 'stay at home' moms like my grandmother who put 40 - 50 hours plus per week i…
/r/MensRights23/09/12 12:42 PM
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"Good boy"?! I was reminded of this discussion of the young adult novel "Boys are Dogs." In a culture where this is 'ok', is it any wonder that girls grow up to be the kind of woman who says.. 'good boy' about their pet boyfriend?
/r/MensRights23/09/12 11:14 AM
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Seriously.. would it kill people to just give a firm and final 'no thanks' and a crystal clear request to be left alone?
/r/MensRights01/09/12 09:57 PM
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Here are a few of mine as the mother of a young son. That thread led to a Redditor putting together this blog. I'd love to see more, greater visibility.
/r/MensRights31/07/12 12:35 PM
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I know of a couple of personal friends of mine who were victims of abuse who can attest to this. It is unfortunate.
/r/MensRights25/06/12 12:27 PM
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Honestly, I'll tell you like I will tell my son when he is older (probably worded differently in his case of course!). No sex when drunk. Period. No sex until you have a better feel for her general character. Red flags are fairly apparent, but dim in the light of raging hormones. For the first while of 'getting to know you' fap first - vigorously and completely, then go out. Get as much of the 'horny' out of the way before you spend time with her so that you are thinking more clearly. Stranger d…
/r/MensRights23/06/12 04:00 PM
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This being a recent example from relationships. From beginning to end you can see it unfolding. It infuriates me when people say that stuff like this never happens or is exaggerated. It happens very frequently. More than most would like to admit.
/r/MensRights08/06/12 11:17 AM
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There are people here in my town in NC (and I'm sure all over the state) who exploit this on purpose - ie: doing whatever it takes to get a guy to hit you, and then calling the police on him and having him arrested and charged with assault. I know people personally who have done this and know people who have been victims of it. I had a friend of mine who spent a night in jail because of a similar exploit - the police don't care what the truth is: if they think a man hit or otherwise assaulted a …
/r/MensRights04/06/12 11:16 AM
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If it had happened at my university when I was there, I would have made it a huge media event and pushed hard for the expulsion of the students involved, the firing of the staff member responsible for the material, and advocated for reparations to the victims listed on the fliers. This type of thing falls under libel not 'free speech', and every politician and media member within a hundred miles would hear about it personally from me. As for how long ago it was - it may have happened a long time…
/r/MensRights02/05/12 10:41 AM
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Well, its like the TMBG song goes... "I don't want the world, I just want your half."
/r/MensRights29/04/12 12:50 PM
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I had to put up with this kind of shit when my son was born. It took everything I had to not get hostile with people.
/r/MensRights23/04/12 01:09 PM
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This, unfortunately - is not an uncommon scam. I feel sorry for the couple who wanted the kid. I wish they had gone a more legit route. I feel most sorry for the kid. I don't expect that child will be much more than largely ignored now that its job of having been born is done.
/r/MensRights23/04/12 03:50 AM
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And thus the need for reliable male birth control. It cannot come soon enough.
/r/MensRights21/04/12 02:17 PM
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I'm all for the stay-at-home dad. I agree with you, 100%. Fatherhood is not given nearly the amount of importance it should be, whether it be in casual interaction or matters of law.
/r/MensRights18/04/12 02:58 PM
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I'm all for a stay-at-home parent of either sex. I really do think a child benefits most from that. eta: after giving it some thought, the idea of a stay-at-home parent being somehow 'lazy' and 'not wanting to work' could be a generational thing too and not just a feminist thing. I'm in my 40s now, and if I suggested to my 60-ish father that I wanted to be a stay-at-home mom, he would remind me that he didn't raise me to be lazy, that I need to get off my lazy arse, put the children in daycare a…
/r/MensRights18/04/12 02:25 PM
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I wanted to be a stay-at-home mom. I wanted to stay at home with my children, keep the house, grow and maintain a functional garden, keep a few chickens, plan and make meals so that there would never be time for 'fast food', and work on home improvements/remodeling/repair. Good, honest, hard work that I can look on at the end of the day and see real results that my family would benefit from. Basically, live like I was raised by my grandmother. Have I been demeaned for wanting that? You bet. Both…
/r/MensRights18/04/12 10:54 AM
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No one who knew him thought he was going to go anywhere, but I don't think that the 'law' saw it that way.
/r/MensRights16/04/12 06:24 PM
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He was considered a flight risk I think. He was known to up and disappear in times of trouble, and in this case he was facing multiple counts of first degree rape and sexual offense - and remember, this was a disabled girl (it shouldn't matter but I'm pretty sure it did in this case) so I'm sure that contributed to it as well. He came out of jail with a deep racist hate (jail is not known for racial harmony to say the least - particularly this one, it is a horrible place; lots of gangs here in t…
/r/MensRights16/04/12 12:07 PM
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This thread led to this blog, and a Facebook page. Its a start. I'd love to see it snowball.
/r/MensRights16/04/12 02:51 AM
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Don't make the choice for your son that you were not allowed to make for yourself.
/r/MensRights16/04/12 02:05 AM
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Oh, I didn't mention the verdict. He was charged with several counts of first degree rape and first degree sexual offense. The jury returned a verdict of not guilty on all counts.
/r/MensRights16/04/12 12:53 AM
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Then she would have to expect the defense team to ask her to submit to a polygraph, and that she have full knowledge of what is going to happen to her if she lies under oath.
/r/MensRights16/04/12 12:46 AM
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He spent a year in jail awaiting trial - that year in jail fucked him for life. He was beaten because of the rumors that surrounded his case. The girl in question had MS, and sometimes needed a wheelchair. That particular night, she didn't need it but that is neither here nor there. Well, you know how rumors go. It went from the truth of consensual oral sex (her grandfather busted them literally in the act and she jumped up and claimed that she was forced to do it) to 'he raped a girl' to 'he ra…
/r/MensRights16/04/12 12:45 AM
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I hear ya. Therein lies the rub. The lying false accusers are the ones who hurt actual rape victims. They lie, and everyone, everyone suffers. People want to protect actual rape victims? Then participate in the eradication and punishment of false accusers so that the actual rapists get the punishment they deserve and actual victims get the help they need. eta: I am biased in that I have a personal stake in the false rape accusation dilemma. A good friend of mine is destroyed for life both mental…
/r/MensRights15/04/12 02:28 PM
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False rape accusations will only end when there are very real consequences to face for doing so. Make it a felony when it is proven beyond a doubt that the allegation was false. Prison sentence, permanent felony references for life, victim reparations (fines that have to be paid to the victim by both the false accuser and the justice system for each day/month of false incarceration plus additional fines if the victim is harmed while incarcerated) followed by mandatory education and rehabilitatio…
/r/MensRights15/04/12 02:11 PM
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Both: Typical in that I fully immerse in my own little world(s) - ie: Silent Hill, Tamriel, etc. Atypical that I'm older, bookish and evidently don't look the part.
/r/MensRights14/04/12 10:29 AM
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The premise: boys are wild animals who can be trained using techniques from a dog-training manual. Lots of great reviews out there. Would the reviews be so great if the genders were flipped, as such? *Girls Are Bitches: If only girl training were as easy as puppy training! Middle-school girls act like wild bitches! That’s what Andrew discovers on his first day in his brand-new life. Birchwood Middle School is totally different from his old all-boys elementary. In fact, lots of things in Andrew’s…
/r/MensRights14/04/12 06:59 AM
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Not sure what it is either. When I posted about needing MRs as the mother of a young son, I got a message saying I had been banned. I wasn't sure what it was, figured it was some kind of spam or trollery and blocked the user.
/r/MensRights14/04/12 06:09 AM
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That aggravates me too. When my husband and I divorced we sat down and worked out our own agreement. I did not ask for child support or alimony. I agreed to be responsible for my debt, and he agreed to be responsible for his. I took what was mine, he took what was his and we decided together who would get what we had bought together. When our daughter wants to stay with me, I take care of what she needs. When she wants to stay with him, he takes care of what she needs. If it is out of my means (…
/r/MensRights13/04/12 11:09 PM
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Having a son only cemented the beliefs I already had, and urged me from opinion to action. I'm not sure what to say in your case but if you and your wife have a son, hopefully having that son will erase those ridiculous preconceived notions. If it goes down the darker path - and your son is being emotionally and psychologically castrated: subconsciously or not - you will be able to protect him.
/r/MensRights13/04/12 08:36 PM
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As a mother to a young son, here are a few of my own: I need Men's Rights so that there can be more education concerning male genital mutilation, and that equal attention will be paid to the practice as has attention been paid to female genital mutilation. I need Men's Rights so that my son can be the best that he can be. I need Men's Rights because my son, simply for being male - is unfairly categorized as a "contributor to rape culture." I need Men's Rights in the event that my son is raped or…
/r/MensRights13/04/12 03:58 PM
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i've always wanted to give a big fat sarcastic thanks to the women out there who cut off their noses to spite their faces. Unfortunately, those of us who never asked for a nose-cutting got caught in the crossfire and have to suffer the consequences. Again, ladies - thanks for dragging the rest of us down with you.
/r/MensRights09/04/12 02:21 PM
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I consider myself a MRA (albeit on a local scale), and have actively worked toward that cause. I've had some friends who have been royally fucked over in some spectacularly bullshit ways, in some cases for life and I try to help out whenever I can with them, and with others who have fallen victim to similar fuckery.
/r/MensRights09/04/12 02:09 PM
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Why would men pay for sex? Because it fulfills a need without having to deal with unnecessary bullshit. That is worth the price alone!
/r/MensRights06/04/12 01:15 PM
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It doesn't take much reading over at SA and SRS to see who the real hate group is.
/r/MensRights18/03/12 05:43 AM
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For example, one woman told me she's afraid of becoming homeless if her ex-husband invokes the new law to stop her alimony payments. She gave up a career in banking to stay at home and raise the couple's child. When that child went off to college, the husband filed for divorce. What exactly did she do when her child started kindergarten/grade school? Spend the next twelve years not working? She could have gone back to work and worked during the hours her son was in school. These types get no sym…
/r/MensRights11/03/12 02:11 PM
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I hate these entitled women who think they NEED upwards of ten thousand a month to raise their children after a divorce. No one NEEDS ten thousand a month to raise two children unless their children have some sort of extreme medical need. There needs to be some serious overhauling of the marriage/divorce racket.
/r/MensRights10/03/12 09:36 PM
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Even if that site is just an attention-getting site deliberately seeded with controversial material designed in order to get maximum clicks on the site, the idea of the material is reprehensible. I see this blatant trickery as a form of rape, punishable by prison time, and automatic irrevocable loss of maternal parental rights. The father would be offered parental rights should he want them, with the option of full custody and full child support benefits, but if he declined - the child would be …
/r/MensRights19/02/12 12:58 AM
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I was in a similar situation. In my state (NC), the husband is the father regardless of paternity, if he signs the birth certificate. Since my ex and I had been split up some years prior to divorcing, there was not even the question of him signing. We finalized our divorce in November, my son was born in March. We divorced before my boy was born, but in NC any child born before nine months after the divorce is final is considered a 'child of the marriage'. So... when our son was born, we wanted …
/r/MensRights16/02/12 06:05 AM
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Well, the younger generation is sure given that impression. From the description: Middle-school boys act like wild animals... Then her mother and Ted surprise her with a puppy and a dog-training manual Well, at least the puppy comes with a leash and a training manual! If only she could say the same for the boys . . . Annabelle discovers that strategies in the manual can be transferred and tweaked to solve some of the boy issues at school. Saw this book at work the other day and thought about doi…
/r/MensRights17/01/12 06:25 AM
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Has she seen a video of the procedure? That was the tipping point for my son's father - when he pictured his son pinned down, being cut and being in pain, it made a real difference. All of his arguments were similar to your ex's - here were my responses: Cleanliness - unless the boy literally can't find his penis in the bath/shower, or doesn't bathe at all it isn't an issue Potty training - the foreskin is not sealed, so it is not an issue Bladder infections - we wash him when we change him and …
/r/MensRights31/12/11 02:05 PM
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Can you imagine the outcry if the genders were reversed?
/r/MensRights08/12/11 12:57 AM
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A friend of my ex's - let's call him John, had a vindictive and manipulative wife 'Jane' who would find ways to make him 'pay' if things did not go her way in an argument. In one particular case, she opened the car door while they were driving and threw herself out (they were decelerating for a red light) right in front of a police officer. The police intervened, and arrested John when Jane said that John punched her and threw her out of the car. He spent the night in jail, and when she realized…
/r/MensRights29/11/11 12:30 PM
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Why would someone laugh about this sort of paternity fraud and/or the suggestion that men would need to protect themselves just in case? The documented cases of sperm theft and the subsequent enforced child support orders are not funny at all.
/r/MensRights29/11/11 09:27 AM
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I do wish there were more details in that article about that.
/r/MensRights28/11/11 12:43 PM
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The determination I made came from the article: "Effectively, he is now without a father, through no fault of his own. From the child's point of view, his father (as he thought) has rejected him, for no apparent reason... The man has had no contact with the boy he believed was his son since the DNA tests confirmed he was not the father." You say it is possible that the woman denied the father access to the child, but the only thing I saw in the article was this: Man gets DNA results, ends all co…
/r/MensRights28/11/11 12:40 PM
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I wish there was a way your crazy ex-wife could be held accountable for the emotional abuse she put that kid through, and probably still does put him through.
/r/MensRights27/11/11 10:47 PM
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I concur on that one.
/r/MensRights27/11/11 10:46 PM
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How's this for cold? When I was two, my mother (who was screwing around on my father) woke up one morning and taped a note to the TV saying "see ya" and eight hours later my father comes home to me and my 6 month old brother crying in the playpen. All so she could go shack up in a hotel with some married asshole. She gave us up for adoption, and mailed the papers in with no request to see us. My father's parents took us in as our legal guardians because my father had no real interest in us eithe…
/r/MensRights27/11/11 10:45 PM
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I'm glad the mother has to cough up the money, but damn... my daughter is 15 now and at 10 years of age, regardless of her parentage I would have rather ripped out my own spine than walk away from her. I can't image any parent, man or woman - who can raise a child from birth to ten and simply walk away. I know it happens all the time with blood children, step children, adopted children - no matter. It really sucks for the kid. I have no sympathy for the mother for her part in the blatant fraud, …
/r/MensRights27/11/11 06:51 PM
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He's not the only one this has happened to, by far. Its getting to the point where it is in a man's best interests to immediately contaminate the sperm in the condom before throwing the condom away, or give it a good rinse before discarding it. I've seen a case not too long ago involving the non-consensual use of frozen embryos years after a divorce. It is fucked up what men have to deal with in terms of this sort of thing.
/r/MensRights27/11/11 12:40 PM
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This is one of the programs/videos I watched with my son's father before our son was born. He was pushing for circumcision big time at first. By the time our son was born, not so much so. Thankfully, by the time our son was born, he was more along the lines of "no one will cut my son."
/r/MensRights24/10/11 09:03 AM
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Can't help but to wonder if the guy she convinced to do this to her will one day find this to come around and bite him in the ass. In his place (or in any man's place who has a woman who asks to be 'raped'), I'd be thinking "its a trap" and run like holy hell.
/r/MensRights06/07/11 04:48 AM
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I suspect she'll accuse him of abuse, and as much as I hope she'll be forced to compensate this guy she will probably get out of it.
/r/MensRights04/06/11 02:02 PM
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That is dismaying and grossly unfair. I didn't know prenups were flimsy in court.
/r/MensRights31/05/11 06:55 PM
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It is getting to the point where every marriage should have a ironclad prenup. Anyone who thinks a man should blindly trust is more than likely someone who stands to benefit from his naivety.
/r/MensRights29/05/11 09:07 PM
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Before my son was born I would frequent a pregnancy board where the members are primarily Americans and WASPs as well. Found myself in the minority when it came to circumcision. Most of the women had the same tired, out of context 'proof' of why it is needed: cleanliness, STD safety, penile cancer, because the father is, God said to and so on. They think that women who refuse to have their sons mutilated are godless granola hippies or are just trash-poor. I caught hell in real life for it as wel…
/r/MensRights29/05/11 09:01 PM
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